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[@gregdickenson2797]

I feel your pain Phoebe, in 2012 we lost our business, our home and nearly our Marriage with 2 little kids. I was 39 and broke with a $28,000 business credit card debt and no home but I won a job on Thursday Island and we moved there from a leafy Brisbane suburb and that was a culture shock. My wife got a job and we donated all of our old cosmetics to charity and reduced our tax while we saved like crazy. 3 years later we bought a block of land on the SunnyCoast where we now live. I’m looking as semi-retirement in 5-6 years. Moving was a huge growth period for us and showed us that anything was possible if we put our mind to it! Your young, talented and capable. Remember- what doesn’t kill ya makes ya stronger! You got this!!

[@travelforphoebe]

Wow - that is a HUGE journey and a massive amount of work to recover from! So inspiring!

[@avatar8850]

Good on ya greg, I’m glad you made it out the other side

[@kelightful]

As time goes by it will get easier. The things that you think matter now will be a distant memory. Just keep moving forward, trying things that are new, and believing that you are strong. I was devastated when I got divorced. It was like my life was a movie set and everything was being torn down. However, life has slowly revealed that it is what needed to happen to move onto the next phase of my life. I found you while researching Bali. Thank you.

[@alanchan1183]

It's great to see you are on the up and up! 🚀 You may be leaving part of your life behind, but you are building a new one ahead. You are never alone. You have +96k people with you. "Tough times never last, but tough people do" - Robert H Schuller

[@travelforphoebe]

I love that!! Thank you so much 🥰

[@sophilouise86]

Oh Phoebe, I can't wait to see what you have in store for the future! I have been watching you for quite a long time now, and you are getting better and better, despite any obstacles thrown your way. You are doing really well handling everything, more than you probably think/know. I hope you are loving Cairns! :)

[@travelforphoebe]

That is so so lovely of you. I really appreciate it love 🙏🏼 I feel like I’ve come so far with what I’m making for the channel and within myself. It’s all coming together now 🥰

[@thisbrendalee]

Moochi is soo cute!! So great to see you back girl! You do look like you feel a lot better, so glad you're doing well ❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Isn’t she a sweetheart ♥️ thank you love x

[@mmarsbarr]

Aww man the first part of this video is so raw and beautiful and the whole comment section has got you with open arms!! This time next year you're absolutely going to be in a different and positive place looking back at this video doing a snort laugh. Besides... let's be honest I think all the single guys and girls out there right now are secretly pumping their phists right now bahaha. Keep that spark alive Pheeb, we gotchya!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much! Hahaha oh gosh 😂 too funny!

[@alexdorado8224]

Leading a new life is hard but somehow you could slowly move on because I know you had a strong determination and drive. Just don't lose that sweet smile of yours even thou there's pain in your heart. We're praying for you. ❤️❤️🇵🇭🇵🇭

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh thank you so much that’s so lovely of you 🥹🥰

[@stevep7169]

Thanks for sharing your story. You really are an inspiring person, phoebe.

[@travelforphoebe]

🥹 oh bless you! Thank you! 🙏🏼

[@jezbon]

Heh. Valentines day in a Mackay motel with cats. 😂 Heaven. Believe me life will just get so much better. I felt your pain in the video leaving your home. In 2019 I left my place in Melbourne and all my stuff. My life was packed in my small car, I'd been without a job for a year while renovating, the company I'd worked for closed. It was hell. So was the year job hunting in Sydney to no avail. But I went from living in a spare room in Wollongong to several years later being in the best place of my life. You just have to keep on pushing strong. Things will work out. I'd never change anything about what's happened in my life. And all those painful moments always result in such joy. I hope you enjoy Cairns - it'll for sure be where I retire one day - paradise. Btw I've spent the last 15 years single on valentines. Lol. You become accustomed to watching Breakfast at Tiffany's while stuffing your face with Whittaker's chocolates - even if you're a guy. 😂😅

[@darrenmeiissayoumumdonn-wa1933]

Darren 🇳🇿✈️NZ Community

[@Tchf1000]

Congrats to 100k silver plate, USD50. for your reward, hopefully you can make more interesting vlogs.

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh my gosh 🥹🥰🙏🏼 thank you so much!!!

[@thisbrendalee]

Not sure how long you drove for, I drove from Brisbane to Melbourne over 3 days, that was pure hell for me hahaha! Sitting down for sooo long killed me! Even changing from music, to podcasts, to silence, told myself I was never going to drive that long again solo LOL! So good you had your pets for company, can't get over how cute they are!!!

[@travelforphoebe]

Yesssss Brenda! The sitting down! I gotta be on the move. Things to clean, stuff to do, places to be. Busy! Sitting still for four days is foul. I cannot stand it haha I will never do that drive ever again. Never ever. I knowww my pets are the cutest. We all snuggle in bed together it’s so sweet. Like teddy bears 🥰 they definitely know when I’m stressed or sad or exhausted and give me extra love ♥️

[@thisbrendalee]

@@travelforphoebe Haha right!! It's a good lesson I suppose, next time I'd fly / have someone drive. But it definitely showed me how 'independent' and 'strong' I could be if I wanted to hahaha. Not that I would ever do that again. Man making me want to get pets!! But I'm a week away from doing a solo trip around the world and cannot wait!! All your videos inspire me 😍

[@paulfri1569]

Australia is huge 🤠

[@ljink48]

Thank you for sharing. The first part broke my heart. I feel like I ran through all the emotions with you watching from afar in Portland, OR, USA... You're a lovely person, Phoebe. And I just know good things are coming for you!

[@travelforphoebe]

🥹♥️ oh bless you! Thank you so much for seeing that in me and being part of the journey. It feels so good to share it all, like therapy!

[@abdullaaldark7842]

I love driving in Australia or in any part of the world....I drove over 5000km, in 4 weeks going all over the place from Melbourne to end of Queens land through all the national parks and rainforest. I was never alone of course.. Every problem starts big and becomes smaller and easier, this is how life is. The only place you can't see or hear problem or complaints is the grave yard.

[@computertennis]

Even going through hell you still manage to be polite to the Maccas staff!! Hopefully you'll look back on this and it will be a distant nightmare.

[@computertennis]

You also manage to be very very funny even amongst all the trauma. I definitely get your humour 100%

[@travelforphoebe]

I am soooo glad you get my sense of humor 🥰🙏🏼

[@Will0w_Th3rianPawzz]

I drove from Sydney all the way to Agnes water North Queensland and back. I stepped out of the car woozy. I could barely walk straight lol.

[@travelforphoebe]

OH MY GOODNESS that is a hell drive! Oof. That kind of exhaustion just makes your brain mushy huh!! I love Agnes Water 🥰 it’s a family holiday spot for us!

[@linkedwillo4592]

Don't over whelm yourself self with negative thoughts come to cairns and explore. Don't think about what happens in the past, but reflect on the good memories that's going to last a lifetime. Remember, the more you think about it the more it dawns on you so clear your mind, rewind, and relax on the beaches in cairns with a couple old mates I know you will shoot through this pain and feelings.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much x

[@kylemills6785]

Man oh man, what a drive. Good on you for making that journey. I personally have driven 12 hrs straight across 2 provinces, and I'm just destroyed at the end. that's nothing compared to what you just did. I am excited to see what's in store for you phoebe, hard times don't last forever. Sooner rather than later, life will give you a break. When that moment comes, it will be worth it. Your a fighter, an inspiration, and just overall a wonderful human being. Your gonna be ok. Great things are on the horizon. Much love ❤️

[@travelforphoebe]

12. Hours. Straight. How is that even possible?! 😳 gosh it must be nice for people who live in a small country haha us folks living in this big countries gotta drive for days just to get the other side of the state!! Thank you so much for the support as always Kyle 🙏🏼♥️

[@dennisvandervoort7217]

Leaving the place where you have been living for the most of your life behind, is quite a decision. Really tough, even though Brissie is a great city! We did the drive to Cairns last year. It is a long drive, but the far north Queensland area is also great. Hope you’ll find peace and a surrounding to get life back on tracks! Stay strong and step-by-step. In the end all will be good. And hey, you might even make some videos on your new living area. I’m sure you followers will love them!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much 🥰

[@tahiruz]

It was a journey of a lifetime. You're really brave Phoebe. Thanks for bringing us along on this journey.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you for watching it 🥰

[@sunbrn4534]

I was watching with tears... You are sharing so much. I love you and thank you Phoebe.. From Japan. You will have a thousand of love and smile.. There is always light behind the clouds.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much!! 🥹🥰🙏🏼

[@chandrabosechiluka8818]

Phoebe, I wanted to take a moment to reach out and let you know how much your videos have touched me. There's something about you that always touches my heart. I want you to know that you're not alone in this journey. Your viewers, including myself, stand by you with support and empathy. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your healing process. Keep being the incredible person that you are, and may your future be filled with happiness, growth, and new beginnings. Sending you lots of love ❤️ and strength from a fan who deeply appreciates your honesty and connection.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so very much :) It's been a year of ups and downs but the amazing support of this community has gotten me through ALL of it!

[@itssu445]

I love your videos Pheobe. You are inspiring. you inspire me. Keep going!

[@travelforphoebe]

🥹 thank you so so much, you’ve no idea how much that means to me

[@intrepidnurse5659]

Here’s the thing Phoebe…I love seeing it all - the beautiful meals and scenery, the room tours, but I also love seeing the real…it’s the real stuff that makes the rest of us feel like we are not alone in the messiness that is life. I agree with you about the coffee - I just can’t do Maccas coffee or anything that resemble it…I am an absolute coffee snob and so much that I had my friend bring me back Merlo from my favourite coffee shop in Australia back to England. Sending you so many wonderful thoughts and wishes for whatever is next x

[@travelforphoebe]

You know, this comment and your lovely words will be playing in my mind when I’m editing and go to cut out a chunk of realness. Thank you ♥️ Merlo! I love that you love merlo. Me too! I can stomach pretty much any kind of coffee when I’m desperate enough haha but on this trip… a maccas coffee would’ve pushed me over the edge 😂 full blown meltdown in the car!

[@ChaoticallyMe]

yay, you made it :) I'm originally from Brisbane, but lived up in the Gympie region (by the water....and midges!) for 4 years before selling up last year and moving an hour north of Mackay. The drive from Bundaberg to Mackay is rough! I can't imagine driving the bit between Rocky and Carmila on my own...it was creepy as hell and there were two of us (plus just the one cat....who also would periodically decide to just meow over and over and OVER until my nerves were about shot! lol).....but that drive hey, just nothing for over 2 hours...and the truck rest areas leave much to be desired on that stretch too! So proud of you driving it on your own, you did so well :) The background of your new home looks amazing :) :) I hope it's turning out so far to be just what you need at this time in your life :) We're on an 18 acre rainforest block, still in a tent (plus a semi-livable shipping container) in a small clearing surrounded by the bush....it's wonderful, and feeding my soul in ways I didn't know I needed! Not without it's struggles of course....like our little snakey friend that I 'met' when I got up to go to the loo at 8am this morning......still can't decide if he was a harmless tree snake or a taipan. I'm excited to watch your adventure from here. You're very strong Phoebe, you've got this!

[@rachelm843]

Wow, that was pretty rough to watch, I'm glad you shared this with us. Well done to you for getting through the rough days, you're now all the stronger for it. Here's to brighter and happier days ahead for you!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you for watching love and for the supportive, kind comment. It means so much ♥️

[@denzelheden4256]

13:25 what a Valentine day! 😢😢 I feel sorry for You. But the most important is that by this time, you're already Okay... You are traveling and enjoying, with a Beautiful Smile as always Be Positive, Everything gonna be alright... 18:45 You, Your Car, the Cats We and God. 24:27 I love the positive smile 😊😊 24:40 you're the best driver 😊😊 Take Care

[@mdabulkasemtuhin9269]

Wow Dog So beautifully your smile 😊😊👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@benmoore8537]

That looked such a harrowing trip, especially that road block at the end. I thought to myself “ Poor Girl “ what else could go wrong. Also please don’t delete your last video. I’m sure many people can relate to the sadness and helplessness. It will help people in a similar situation, I’m sure. Glossy travel vids are great, but real struggles are something we all can relate too. Keep up the good work, and hope to see a Kuranda Train in your future….lol…

[@travelforphoebe]

Haha could you believe it?! I was so tired, my heart just sank. Thanks for the kind words and support 🙏🏼

[@Vinicius00023]

Wow, you made it! What a courage! Life is hard sometimes. Sending major good vibes your way. 🙏

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much 🥰🙏🏼

[@meganm5184]

So brave of you to share your journey with us, Phoebe, and all that it entails. Leaving a home and a relationship behind is one of the most challenging things in the world, especially if you thought this person and the notion of your life with them was your 'forever'. I don't know any specifics, but just from watching your channel and videos with Matt, it seems like you are both ah-mazing people in your own right, and both have a positive attitude towards life. However, you were both individuals before becoming a couple, and sometimes we can forget about our individual goals and dreams when we merge our lives with another. There is a whole world out there, and it's truly sad that sometimes relationships become so all- consuming that we forget about the world and even ourselves and just focus on then 😢 Of course, I'm partly speaking from my own personal experiences, I've been a classic people pleaser my whole life. But I'm turning 30 soon, and I feel an inwards shift in my world, and a deep longing to focus solely on myself for a while. Please, be kind to yourself in this next phase of your life. Enjoy the good moments, for there will be heaps, and look forward to those, but also don't blame yourself or ever feel bad for those crappy days either. Life is naturally going to be a bit of a roller-coaster for for a period of time, but if there's anything I know about strong women like you and me, is that we can survive it. And we can thrive in our life thereafter. Sending prayers 🙏 Take care Phoebe 😇😇

[@travelforphoebe]

Wow 🥰 thank you so much, I can’t tell you how much reading this meant to me

[@meganm5184]

@@travelforphoebe nawww thank you, that made my day that you got something out of that 😃 I hope I get to meet you one day, even if by chance when I visit Cairns this year 😄 Honestly, I think you and I have a similiar personality and sense of humour, and I love how you see the positives in every little situation. Truly, enjoy Easter and spoil yourself , enjoy time with your family and know you will RISE and conquer. You are amazing Phoebe 👏 😇😇😇🙌🙌

[@travelforphoebe]

If you see me out in the wild approach me gently, like a deer or something cos I’m an introvert and I startle easily 😂 it helps if you’ve got a pack of Oreos on you and can gain my trust with food 😜

[@meganm5184]

@@travelforphoebe hahah that's hilarious, a deer. I'm also a bit of an introvert so I know exactly how you feel 😊😊 And when it comes to food, say no more 😋 😄😄 biggest foodie here 😄

[@PasinduNanayakkara-ug9hv]

Favourite Australian KZbinr. Good Luck - From Sri Lanka

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh 🥹🥰 thank you that means a lot

[@ANGELICHUMANANGEL]

Been there done that !! Painful but it's called Evolution!! You will Grow from this and find a Huge World of Adventure & Happiness !!! 😉

[@dionheremaia5602]

Hi Phoebe, I'm a kiwi and I enjoyed your travel vlogs of New Zealand but was shattered that you have split with your partner from those vlogs. Hopefully, your heart will recover fast.

[@oswaldboelcke5470]

I once moved about 2000 miles from Dallas, Texas to North Idaho in 3 days and I had my beloved cat with me. Oliver the cat. I can relate.

[@travelforphoebe]

What the heck! I just converted that - 3,200km!!! I would die. I would just perish and not make it haha that’s awful!

[@oswaldboelcke5470]

@@travelforphoebe I drove 900 miles on the first day.

[@oswaldboelcke5470]

@@travelforphoebe By the time I hit western Nebraska I was too "rummy" to continue. Just me and my kitty cat (Oliver the gorgeous black and white cat) for 900 miles averaging about 85 Miles Per Hour.

[@PlaylistsRUs]

Phe, I thought you’d move to either Melbourne or Sydney because it’s a newer bigger environment with plenty of distractions to help you move on but I’m sure you’ve got a plan for Cairns. Also, do not hesitate to have fun, go out to events, mingle, pick up someone for some fun time, hook up for some stress release or get a rebound partner. You can do all this because you’re single now. Live you life!

[@abdulbabalao3160]

Life is fragile hold on with prayers.. Temptations are unexpected be alert Trials will come have patience.. Mistakes are sure learn through them.. Tears will fall dont lose courage.. People may leave you stand still.. God always with you move on with faith..

[@marcvanheugten9472]

Next time you think you have a shitty valentine's day, think it is my birthday. I get happy birthday cards with oh yeah a valentines wish. Or valentine's card with oh yeah almost forgot your birthday. And then to think that commerce invented valentine's day. Birthdays are more important I think. Did that drive 20 years ago and all worked well. Mostly remember my birthdays on the beach.

[@BrisbaneChannel]

Thank you so much for sharing that. On to better things, can't wait to see as a new life unfolds!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much 🥰 one step at a time ♥️🙏🏼

[@mycolourfilledlife]

You are incredible Phoebe, so glad you and your pets arrived safe n sound. Can we also please take a moment to appreciate how damn amazing your hair is looking?!

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh Nicole 🥹🙏🏼♥️ bless you! That is so kind of you! Thank you so much love 🥰

[@mgoldberg777]

That was so courageous of you to do this trip. It amazes me the strength you have to get through this and continue..a friend of mine told me a simple story about his grandfather that fought in WW2 on the beaches of Normandy, he used to say..whatever happens, you keep going..I sometimes keep these words in me even if it feels like you just go without a direction..I'm glad you arrived safe and well and I wish that we the people of your channel could have been there to surprise when you'd arrive ☺️

[@travelforphoebe]

Your friends grandfather is a true hero ♥️

[@viviennemeurs247]

I moved up here to Cairns nearly eight years ago. I liked it, but lately I’ve started missing my home town and I have found the anti social behaviour and crime rate unacceptable.

[@rodwilkinson5682]

Good luck Phoebe girl,cant wait to see what you have planned,

[@travelforphoebe]

It’s underway!! 🥰

[@J.Rahaman]

You're so brave Phoebe! Stay strong!! 🧡🙏👍

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you 🤗

[@Lemonsstored]

Is Amazon in that city? I work for Amazon. Walmart. Grocery chains. And your so pretty.

[@oswaldboelcke5470]

I like this video, which again took courage to make and to put out there. You speak like a lot of the rest of us when we have had to go through a rough stretch in our lives. I have been more or less up against the wall and desperate before, so I can relate. Hang n there. Keep believing and working hard. This will turn around for you. You are on a remarkable journey. Our best wishes go with you.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much I really appreciate it ♥️🙏🏼

[@ianvandyke3996]

You are not just beautiful but a good person too

[@travelforphoebe]

That's so kind of you, thank you :)

[@tesstavares3143]

You really overcame so much! You should be so proud of yourself! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@JoaoPatricioGusmao-wc2qy]

is so beautiful parts of nature such a long distance from Wilson Island roof how many hours woulds it's take to the roof hey im Wilson Gusmao i think greats people how have a great history explore Island name they are imagine Australia one the most incredible country in the World which my father had use to living in part North of Australia thanks so much

[@Sh4dow682]

Despite you being down and nearly out at this stage.. on the flip side that must have been a nice drive up the coast from Brisbane to Cairns.

[@jairus2937]

Cairns is a good place for a vlogger like you. hope to see you next week with different aura and heaps of smile in your face ☺️ stay strong always 😊

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you 🙏🏼😊

[@Sh4dow682]

Why did you choose Cairns? Or family was up that way?

[@rahuldarbar7243]

Thats how it feels to be as an immigrant. Left home country and get adjusted to the new culture and new place. On top of it people expect us to be perfect from day 1.

[@sabrinastraveladventures4263]

Oh Phoebe it’s so nice to see you looking well! Nothing compares to love of pets, day in day out looking good or not they don’t care. Hopefully one day at a time things improve, slowly it takes time! What a setting! It’s so beautiful where you are! I’m so drained with winter it’s been snowing this week in UK! I love snow but here in UK 🇬🇧 you can’t really enjoy that (no mountains you can’t ski it’s just slushy 😦and makes things more difficult)Anyway all that to say it was nice to see a little sunshine and tropical 🌴 garden I’m looking forward to see what comes up next! Looks like your channel is doing well 👌🏼keep going! I’m starting to work on mine I really need to be less dependent and make things happen! Thank you 🙏🏼 it’s inspiring to see you fight! I understand totally this weight of anxiety of feeling so inadequate and you are not sure why or how to stop it! Anyway my lovely you seem to be on a nice path, time to thrive 🎉 take care ❤ Sabrina🇫🇷🇬🇧

[@travelforphoebe]

Hey Sabrina! Eek that weather sounds awful! I tried living in London for a while but when you come from a place like this and the outdoors, the ocean, the land, the sun are all such a big part of who you are, you can’t survive without it! I last a few months in the rain and gloom and left haha. Thank you so much for the good wishes and support 🥰 starting a whole era of self love and discovery this week ♥️ And, yes! The channel is thriving and that’s all the thanks to the amazing community here who have encouraged me to share more openly and honestly. If it weren’t for that love and acceptance, things wouldn’t be where they are 🙏🏼 it’s amazing, I’m so grateful (especially with things being so tough at the moment in my life!)

[@abdullaaldark7842]

What I have learnt in my life, never blame yourself, this will make you weak...

[@tomgillotti]

God uses your weaknesses and troubles to help others. Your story is going to bring comfort for someone else who can identify with what you’re going through. Keep praying, don’t lose faith. You’re doing better than you think you are. 🙏

[@travelforphoebe]

I love that, that makes it all seem worth it! Thank you 🙏🏼

[@leventucacan9822]

Who is Little Gray who posts KZbin videos

[@ManOfSteel1]

5:30 you are really good at narration you should make more and regular shorts like silicon vally girl about local businesses around you. whats new etc.

[@laskinov]

I'm still visiting Sugar Creek Smoke House because of you. It's my go too after blasting on my ironhorse through Crystal Creek across the border. Thank you❤

[@travelforphoebe]

I love that :)

[@blacknbng]

Hi, phoebe,,, i cant to see tears in your face. How can a beatiful girl like you get hurt. If you go to Java, Indonesia. I will give my life to you. To make you happy. With all my heart. So be happy phoebe.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much 🙏🏼

[@shanism_]

Gosh.. what a hell of a ride! Glad to know u have safely reached your destination. :) And thumbs up for your wisdom to avoid Mac's coffee even though u desperately needed one. Lol.

[@travelforphoebe]

Haha oh gosh, that coffee would’ve been the final straw!

[@dgstott7832]

After every destruction comes the re-build .... Takes time but you will be stronger for the experience.and have a base for new adventures and relationships. BIG HEART!

[@travelforphoebe]

Yes! I love that sentiment! Thank you so much 🙏🏼

[@andreas_adventures]

I totally understand how awful that drive probably is. I am moving across the US and just did a 34hr drive and in a few weeks I have to do it again with my dogs and more stuff. Good luck with your new home!

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh my goodness I feeeeeel you!! 😩

[@IshwarBorawake-io2tu]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@louisevanaswegen7923]

Thanks for sharing Phoebe. You truly are one amazing person. Also can we all look so gorgeous without makeup. Lots of hugs from South Africa

[@travelforphoebe]

oh, bless you! That is so sweet :)

[@robertmagillold]

* “Do I look better?” Yes, yes you do. You made it through a most difficult time. And found yourself. * “Sometimes things aren’t avoidable and you just have to let this destruction happen … and allow for the new thing to flood in.” It hurts, yes, but even in your pain, you see the coming new day. You see the good in life-never lose that, Phoebe. * I love my cats, but all those days of them crying woulda driven me insane. (Might have needed the tranqs personally! 😂) Deep admiration for that! * Perfect decision to find a moment to ground yourself. When I have a bad day on my travels in Florida, I’m lucky enough to do exactly what you did-find a beach. There’s something magical about a beach. Listening to you in that moment felt like listening to myself. This time, I felt “seen”. Reassuring to know someone else gets that. “A bigger plan is at play and everything is gonna work out and there is so much beauty in the world.” I’m keeping those words with me and remembering them when next I have my beach moment. Thank you. * “Gooooooood morning you guys!” 🥹 Missed hearing that! “When we fail, when we get it wrong, we dust ourselves off, we pick ourselves up, and we get back out there for a Redemption Day!” Even when a Redemption Day challenges you, you meet it and won’t let it beat you. Move on to Redemption Day II; it’ll get better! (And it looks like it has gotten better) * You have amazing and supportive parents. They seem to have been there every time you’ve needed them these past months. * I woulda collapsed running into the rained out road-wow. * Oh, if only we could snap our fingers and get to the good parts. But then we wouldn’t grow and become better versions of ourselves. * And, yes, the anxiety of the new life makes perfect sense. Been through it, too. The stress of the unknown can overwhelm. Trust yourself to make the right decisions and that you’ll fix any missteps. You’ll get there! * Can’t wait to see what is making you smile so big! Click baiting us! Ugh!! 😂 * You know you have thousands of friends all over the world, right? Cheering you on and supporting you on your journey. * Looking forward to sharing in your adventures this year, Phoebe. ❤ You got this.

[@travelforphoebe]

I loved reading this! It’s amazing to spend so much time filming and editing and have you spot all these things and I’m glad the gooooooood morning made you happy 🥰 many more GMYG’s to come! Thank you 🌙

[@marionsquire2538]

thanks for sharing your journey. Wishing you the best in your future and hope all works out well for you. From California, having a daughter there in mackay!!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much 🥰 hope your daughter is enjoying Mackay! It’s beautiful!

[@shaneunuwai4035]

Kia Kaha! Phoebe that’s me alone just me and my van gets better girl

[@94vrcommodore]

Driving trips can be long and tiring, yet adventurous. Will be more challenging if you’re heartbroken. Your new chapter in Cairns awaits you. Be looking forward to seeing your new chapter in Cairns and destinations. You’re single now and your freedom is here 😃💪🏻✌🏻🤩

[@travelforphoebe]

Definitely a rough drive I hope NEVER to repeat! 😬

[@billtimms6537]

Hi phoebe, let’s hope this was the last rough patch of your journey, I think what you are feeling is just the unknown of. Your immediate future but that will pass, all the very best for what’s ahead ,best wishes. Bill x😊

[@travelforphoebe]

I think you’re spot on there Bill 🙏🏼 thank you x

[@kyliewolfig]

Rain is about new beginnings! So kinda perfect really! You’ve got this Phoebe 🤗👏

[@travelforphoebe]

Totally agree! 🥰🙏🏼

[@TravelWithBek]

Wow what a drive! Emotionally and physically challenging for sure but you made it through and seeing you smile with exciting about whatever it is you planned for ‘you’ is a sign that you will smile again at the other side of the this big picture journey. You’ve got this! You are worthy of happiness, you are loved, you are not alone…don’t give up. That’s my mantra (I gave it tattooed on my wrist to remind me when life sucks) after going through divorce….it’s like you watch the book you were reading burn…and having to start a new one….I’m excited to see the chapters unfold for you…and for me. You inspired me to start this channel (my channel). I love your outlook on your learning lessons from your experiences.

[@travelforphoebe]

I love that!!! Thank you so much for sharing it with me ♥️

[@davidmaib677]

That is a long long trip....Furthest I have driven is from Barossa to Coonawarra, but that is only 400 KM, but you really did handle it like a trooper. A bit of trepidation involved, but you still manage to help so many others going through the same. I have been to Cairns and I did find it lovely. Done San Fransico to Houston a few times, but I did not have the unknowns you did! Hope you are settled in a bit now and happy that you like it. I think sharing the spiritual journey you are in is a great addition. Hang in there and who knows, it would be be nice if you make back to Bali around this year....I will be there in July and I will buy you and your friends a coffee. 🙏😃

[@travelforphoebe]

Those looooong drives are always so much easier when you’ve got a passenger or two (screaming cats do NOT count!) thanks for watching 🙏🏼😊

[@costasworldofmusicmemories5792]

Hi, Phoebe, Harriet and I have been with you for a very long time, almost from the beginning . We feel like you are a part of our family. You are riding a rollercoaster of emotions both physical and mental to a point of feeling numb. Harriet and i had relationships prior to our getting married that had similar emotions. Remember, to be good to yourself. Reach out to the community. We are there to help. You don't have to hold all that hurt you feel inside . I'm sure your mom felt those same emotions when she divorced your dad. Time is your healer. You will get to the other side of it. As human beings we are fragile, we need each other. Your future is so in front of you. Don't look back. Love you dearly, ❤❤❤ Harriet, Jim and Yuki Richmond, Va.

[@travelforphoebe]

It’s really good to hear that all the stuff I’m feeling is normal and others have felt it! I definitely feel better sharing it here and having others see it and say they get it or have been through it. It’s amazing for the heart. Thank you for the love and support as always ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@garysaunders1546]

Love how organic you are keep it real you are amazing. Don't try and be something you aren't Phoebe just try and be or find who you are ;). Take your time. Tell yourself 'you are enough' because you are :). Morning and night routine wherever you are👌. Write down 10 things you are thankful for everyday. Know need to say sorry phoebe. These things need to take place sometimes it's just a way of healing. Things happen for a reason Im a big believer in this...its important to 'feel' these things like you say and connect with it. Your new life is just beginning but take the time to heal ✨️. Don't be who you are told to be or how people want you to be...be you. Ps you should watch the film- Free Guy :)

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much for the words of wisdom! I’m starting my self discovery journey this week (and filming it all of course) 🥰 appreciate the movie tip too!

[@TheJessica0201]

Hello, Phobe, You are so a brave girl. I have been through the same thing a few years ago. I came from Brisbane to Cairns in 2021 with my cat screaming. You are not alone. I can tell you one thing you will be more than fine, stronger and independently organizing everything soon. It's based on my experience even though I have a physical disability, I came from overseas, which is a more disadvantaged situation than you are in. If you need any help or social support, you could reach out to reply 🥰🥰

[@travelforphoebe]

I really appreciate that 🙏🏼 it’s so inspiring to hear that kind of belief from others. Thank you and thank you for sharing ♥️

[@clazza65]

Give yourself credit for tackling such an amazing journey by yourself. I personally love long-distance driving. Just me, my car, and music. Don't sweat the small stuff. Things will get better.

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh thank you so much! I really appreciate that. Haha oh my gosh - everyone else in my family is like that too (except my sister). They can all just drive for days. I have no idea how you do that.

[@DerekJamesMandy]

I’ve watched your videos here and there when trying to prepare for Australia, I’m Canadian. Thank you for sharing all your experiences, with that said I’m sorry you’re going through “it” right now. I was just in Brisbane (from Canada) to try and start a life and mend things with someone I loved there back in December 2022 which was my second time being there within the year. Well… it didn’t work out and I got my heart broken. I had to leave on February 12 2023. The following day was her birthday and then Valentine’s Day was the day after that where I too had to crash at my parents back in Ontario. Doing a long trek all alone and having all this other stuff going on, we’ll, it hurts and it’s very difficult to navigate. Not many people would understand this and I just wanted to share I sympathize immensely.

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh my gosh Derek… going through all that then the birthday and Valentine’s Day combo. You poor thing. I completely empathise with you, it’s so hard. Just know we’re going through this together now okay 🙏🏼 you aren’t alone! ♥️🥰

[@dimitripaizis5456]

Phoebe, you are the greatest. Best of luck in your new chapter. That's exactly what it is. Time heals all you'll see; a year on and all this will be a distant memory/dream/nightmare whatever. Been watching you since your takes on South Africa which is where I'm at. Love your enthusiasm, energy and adventurousness and and and. Just keep at it . Your audience loves you. Thanks. Jim

[@travelforphoebe]

So glad you found me through the SA videos - what a great trip that was!

[@Iced8888]

Catching up on vids. I'm always amazed when aussies say they've never done long drives, there alot better without kids or pets ;). Was good to hear your humour returning :)

[@travelforphoebe]

Hahaha I’ve done lots of them but only as a passenger 🥰 this was my first time doing a huge drive solo! Oof! 😍

[@touringband]

What a beautiful new home. hope there’s no more flooded roads in your journey ahead 🙏🏻 looking forward to the next video all about you 🙌🏻😊

[@travelforphoebe]

Haha that flooded road just about broke my spirit

[@johnburke6332]

FRANKIE GOES TO HOLLYWOOD!!!

[@miafia7371]

Love that you share this with us!! You are an inspiration to many women now and it will get better little by litte..... 🧡....... Take care!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much love ♥️🙏🏼🥰

[@michellecarter3973]

You did it, what’s that saying‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger’ your stronger than you give yourself credit for!! 🎉 Well done honey xx

[@travelforphoebe]

How it didn’t kill me is beyond me 😂🙏🏼 thank you so much love x

[@พิทยาสิงห์สง่า]

You are brave and strong. Life must go on for better and prosperous way. Time certainly heals your sadness facing you now, finally you will overcome it. The sun always rises every morning.(meaning that you have many new opportunities in the future). You had decided the right thing that you came back to your family who truly love you and you are among the pleasant environment including your beloved pets. I ‘d like you doing meditation during this period of time to keep your mind calm down (in peaceful way). The grief will subside gradually when time passes by,and you will be finally fine. From Thailand with love and best wishes to you.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so very much ♥️🙏🏼

[@jospsalm91]

Awww Bless ya Phoeb what a massive journey emotionally physically and spiritually More love and prayers going up for you..from our family in Nz to you

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much ♥️

[@roengarom]

There are millions of people in the world who are more difficult than us. We are still fortunate to be able to get through bad times while they still face it every day. We are still fortunate to have a family, a home, a dog, a cat, good health and most importantly, life and hope. Suffering and happiness happen to us every day and leave our lives every day. You're young, there's a lot going on in the rest of your life. And of course there are many disappointments ahead of you. But now you know that you can go through anything like before, no matter how hard it is. May God bless you, giving you the encouragement, the strength and the wisdom to be ready to face anything and get through it all.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@william_123]

be strong Phoebe ... sometimes life is full of nonsense but tomorrow will better ... hope fine peace n love.. I'm 36yr still sick laying on bed all 8 year now,single ,broke ,poor,no friends ,alone ... this is a life... i hope you got better life.. you diserve that .. i feel your pain it just like me before my body get sick ... btw I'm from asia apology my broken language 😂😂😂

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it 🙏🏼 your English is so good, don’t ever apologise. Learning English is so hard and you’re doing amazing 🥰

[@elviseugene1233]

Hard times fall on us all. Thank you for sharing your journey with us sharing not only you're up and your downs make you more relatable! I've only stumbled upon your chanel a couple of weeks ago and can say that you are an absolute bundle of joy to watch you have such a beckoning way about you! With the help of you videos I'm traveling to Bali myself this week. So thank you! I do hope you feel better, whenever you go go with peace and love.

[@travelforphoebe]

I really appreciate that 🥰🙏🏼 thank you and have a wonderful time in Bali!

[@chloerosenberg2198]

To our dear Phoebe. Thank you for posting this video. I pray that your new home is what you need. It had so much emotion in it. Andrei and I love you. You've got this. And may the lord continue to bless you in your new start in life.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much! ✨🥰

[@dawnsargent4675]

You are amazing. Wishing you all the happiness in the world. Exciting times ahead for you xx

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much ✨🌙 I really appreciate it

[@cateycate7238]

Phoebe, you are simply amazing! That is one hell of a huge move, and you did it!! Thankyou so much for sharing that with us 🌺🌺🌺

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much!! 🥰✨

[@teamatheavenscent1863]

You go girl! onwards and upwards for you and lots of exciting time ahead. Wishing you happiness and great health.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much 🥰

[@chrisnico7747]

Thanks for sharing that Phoebe. I too recently had an event in my life where I had to leave the home where I grew up and have lived practically my whole life. It’s been so stressful finding a new place, and have been depressed leaving my home behind, sometimes to the point where I sometimes can’t get out of bed. Still some days are better than others and we try to battle on. Good luck on your new journey, Wishing everyone the best & better days ahead 👍

[@travelforphoebe]

I hear you 🙏🏼

[@darylhendricks6057]

Hi, first--it will get better. You have to go through this patch and it will hurt a bit but it definitely gets better. I've watched your vlogs for a while now and look forward to seeing you capture this next chapter of your life along with all the places you will go. Just remember to turn the steady shot on--on the camera and in your life. Best wishes on this next step.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@chitvanagarwal]

I have been following your videos ever since I started on my journey through New Zealand. You are an amazing vlogger and more power to you! Tough times only make strong personalities!

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh wow! Thank you SO much 🙏🏼🥰

[@davidmaib677]

I know it is hard, but that you have the strength to post and share your life so openly is amazing. Hopefully it is cathartic and a continuation of your positive journey. Never say forever.....I get to see folks I have not seen for 20 years these days, so odds are you will retrace your steps a bit sometime in your life. Glad you made and it sounds you are the better for it. Take care Phoebe and I agree it having markers on your journey are a good thing!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much ♥️

[@DonJ1973]

Wow that was quite a journey. I really appreciate you taking the time and energy to chronicle it. I know that must have been hard, but you are moving forward in your life into greener pastures and I have full faith you’re going to find renewed happiness very soon. Absolutely take all the time you need to situate yourself into your new environment. Travel will be there for you again when you’re ready. Go Team Phoebe! ❤❤.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you 🥰 the support means so much 🙏🏼

[@the_wanderlust_chapter]

I remember that drive well, we did it when we moved away from Brisbane for the first time with two little kids and had no idea what to expect when we finally made it to Cairns. I can only imagine how anxious you were feeling tackling it all on your own. So glad you are there now and ready to embark on your new journey. Looking forward to seeing your video next week. Big hugs xx

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh my gosh, I’m so glad you get it! It’s such a scary thing doing a move that big 😩

[@curtisnicotra]

This channel just got so real and & raw - and I’m here for it!

[@travelforphoebe]

Haha it really did! 😂