I lied about my Hair Loss Story…

[@mahalakshmithirumurthy2631]

Lets appreciate her for being honest in such a big platform. Its a tough thing to do. She is strong guys😍😍

[@aspenmontgomery409]

I'm in my late 30's and two years ago, I woke up one day and just shaved my head... completely! WHY? I'd always had beautiful thick hair but was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease (thyroid; Graves disease > severely hypo after iodine obliteration). When my hair started to get a little thinner, I discovered hair extensions! I wore them daily & it was just one issue exacerbating the other. 2 years ago, I faced some kidney related issues & it got to the point where the extensions weren't covering naturally, I was experiencing a crippling depression (bc of cumulative issues compounded by relationship drama & 'things') & I just woke up one morning & said nope. I was tired of fighting that battle on top of the rest (let's face it, I was engaged in an all out war with myself & losing). I contemplated suicide... daily. It's so hard to admit but weeks would pass where I wouldn't get out of bed, much less tend to myself or much needed self care. Honestly, with respect to the 'hair shaving incident', it was the best thing I could've done which might sound strange to some but it was 1 less superficial battle I had to fight each day. That said, I'm finally, finally, finally coming out of the dark. Things got real when I realized I was no longer afraid of dying & that realization was the jolt I needed, that made me look for purpose & hope in my life bc I had none. I began this amazing spiritual journey diving into anything & everything desperate for something to resonate & I've realized, 'Things don't happen TO us, they happen FOR us'. I needed to go thru what I did. I wholly feel it was a necessary part of my personal journey to get me to where I am now which is recovering, hopeful, so connected & so grateful, assured that I'm still here for a reason & knowing my experiences will help others (bc all of 👆, just tip of the iceberg... recovery from substance abuse, past physical abuse, sexual assault, homelessness... my life has been 'colorful'). Sorry for the personal novella but your story resonated with me & I'm opening my eyes to just how widespread and prevalent these things are but nonetheless, we have a tendency to keep our stories in the dark & inside of us afraid to share while simultaneously trying to project a completely contradictory image. Btw, you are so beautiful 😊 I imagine you will inspire many others & wishing you the best 💞✌

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Wow this message was so powerful. THANK YOU for being vulnerable and for sharing your story and your path with me and with this audience. You are right when you say that things don't happen to us, they happen for us. I always feel like in my life I have the control to see the things that happen to me in a positive light and move and grow from it or I see it in a negative light and let it cripple me. The older I get (I'm 34), the more I am able to learn from my experiences and use them to move me forward to become a better person. I can see that this is exactly what you have done with your life. I can see taking away your hair as a powerful movement towards accepting yourself and not letting your hair define your worth. Bravo! You're brave and beautiful!

[@HMQiNVM]

Thanks for sharing. Love specially that last paragraph... I have had my own tragic personal novella as well but unlike you or the author of this video, I still hide it and hate to Share it...

[@lolitapoly123]

Aspen Willow and Glam Girl Gaby .They are both wonderful and beautiful and telling your stories is a strength for people who experience the same things as you. *GOD* BLESS YOU ALWAYS, 🙏🙏💖💖🤗🤗

[@nazmunnahar9184]

Girrllll...I have made some very dangerous and painfull decisions, and very very scared right now of where it will be taking me... I can feel that I'm not fully in control. I just want to give you a tight hugggg... 🥺🥺❤️

[@lindahoffman2692]

Nazmin, I hope whatever the decisions you referenced aren’t going to bring you HARM because I guarantee you deserve better!! Me too I keep telling myself because I’ve just lost my partner of 16 years and I’m feeling LOST and broken and well… POINTLESS! But I know he’d be very disappointed and Sad for me if I don’t pull my out of it so how about YOU and I try together OK? Sending you love and light ❤️🌹Isn’t that why we’re here on Gabi’s site because she helps us feel STRONGER and BETTER about ourselves always!!

[@Rose-bv6wp]

It took a lot of courage to make this video, I hope everyone appreciates how hard it must have been for you to do it. Thanks so much for sharing your story and for your positive and affirming message to all women who may be struggling with this.

[@scarletttapia8033]

I’m a 20 year old mom and I have this condition.. it’s so embarrassing I can’t put my hair on a bun or do any updo’s you are so brave for sharing this it’s so inspiring !

[@gabisoares3656]

Thank you so much for sharing that with me and for taking the time to comment. It means a lot to me. ❤️

[@ImperfectlyPerfect33]

My daughter has an eating disorder and other than the other terrible things that is happening to her, her hair is very unhealthy. It won’t grow past her shoulders, it breaks, it shows what is happening to her body. Not going to get deep into this, it’s too painful. For anyone this touches, I hope you get better so sending love and healing to all of you❤️

[@RaeOliviaa]

this is such a great example as to why we should never comment on someone’s weight .. big or small, because we don’t know how they got that body and it can be super unhealthy to hear praise for that! thank you for sharing Gabi! gotta come see you soon! 💗

[@GlamGirlGabi]

You’re absolutely right Rae. You should never ever comment on someone’s weight because you have no idea why it is that way. It was this constant underhanded compliment. I felt like I could never go back after that because it was like I was a troll before or something. I have so much resentment towards the fashion industry now for how they always made me feel and how I could see them making the models feel.

[@Pfpfpfpfpf2020]

I REALLLY appreciate your candor. My early twenties were a complete shitshow and I'm still learning that it's ok. Stories like yours help me know that I'm not a broken person 💕

[@nonnanette1028]

Thank you for talking boldly about your story and for encouraging young women to be themselves and love who they are. Your story is a blessing to others.

[@SurvivingBreastCancer]

Thanks for sharing your story. As a cancer survivor, I lost my hair during treatment. Now I am on medication that causes hair thinning. I appreciating knowing others like you are sharing their story! Thanks!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. I can't imagine how scary it is to to go through cancer treatments on top of also having to handle hair loss and self confidence issues. Congratulations on being a cancer warrior!

[@SurvivingBreastCancer]

@@GlamGirlGabi Thanks so much for the support and compassion!

[@DanteVelasquez]

Well said. Thank you for sharing these personal experiences. Its so important for everyone to feel empowered to open up about their experiences because it can help countless others we may never know we were able to positively affect.

[@praptisamanwita9196]

I have no words to say other than thanking you.I am a16 year old girl who used to think only being more and more thin is better.Dieting put some dangerous effect on me.I was soooooo fool to do those bad thinks to me myself.THANK YOU so much for sharing it.....

[@areyalunera7126]

How could anyone down vote this? Like wth so rude. You are beautiful both inside and out and are super strong for sharing your story 💕

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you so much for watching and your support. It means the world to me ❤️

[@nancygq29]

For years I wear my hair up in a very tight bun or ponytail , it was a daily routine for me I hardly ever let my hair down specially being a food server I had to always wear my hair nice and tight , 1 year ago I started noticing my hair line thinning incredibly , I went to my dermatologist and I was diagnosed with traction alopecia, she was very honest and told me if I continue to pull my hair back I was going to create irreversible damage to my hair follicles , well combine traction alopecia , hormonal imbalance and stress , my hair was thinning and falling off like crazy. It's going to take some time to get my hair somewhat healthy again but its a work in progress 💪. Thank You for sharing your story 🖤

[@piney_studios]

How has it gone?

[@krystenpalser8682]

I remember having tunnel vision for those measurements. I had no idea you went through that, thank you for sharing. I'll never forget one "professional" on set joked I'd never be a real model because of my size. I was there doing the shoot as a favour to him. At the time, it was crushing. Thank God we do get older and learn that that shit is bs!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Yes the tunnel vision. It’s all too much! By the time we met, I was already way out of modelling and I never talked about any of this until I made this video and even then I had a hard time getting it to come out of my mouth. I dunno why....it felt embarrassing or something. The fashion industry is beyond messed up and I’m so sorry that you had this experience as well. You’ll never be a “real model”? What does that even mean? I have so many stories and so many annoying situations that I could expose on here but I don’t know if I should or if there is any point but it’s a super damaging industry preying on very young girls. I’m glad you’ve gained perspective as you’ve gotten older too. ❤️

[@sweetsunnydaygirl]

@@GlamGirlGabi Hi Gabi! Yes Please....Please do a video on how the fashion industry preys upon young girls. I was interested in this when I was younger and went to "modeling school", LOL:) Not that there weren't some who actually got some modeling work and made money doing this. But I truly believe the school was mostly to just make money, knowing most of these girls would never get much work. I was also in pageants in my 20s and so I have some experience with some annoying stuff with that as well, LOL :) Anyways You have a very good following here, and I think it would help many younger girls to see your take and your experience with the industry really misleading and misguiding them. Especially as it pertains to what You shared about getting too thin....and the misguided "professionals" who told you how amazing You looked when You were not your healthiest. Thank You for your work and sharing here. Your videos are very helpful and informative, and thank you for your help to others. God bless You, Rachel in Nashville:) 😺🐹

[@SDN1990]

Wow.. such a honest post.. became your subscriber just in this one video.. your eyes reflect your honesty

[@sandrascheir4536]

I have exactly the same problem. Sorry if my english is not perfect, I write from Switzerland. I have very thick hair by nature but after 30 years of extensions (weaving) i lost a lot of hair in the exact place you lost it. Thanks to your videos, I've now taken out the extensions and now wear a short bob. Everyone says it suits me better than long hair. I hope some of my hair will come back😪

[@Hopeyj103]

When men lose their hair they say it is because god gave them a perfect head. Take good care of your health, that's the most important gift from which you have the energy to do for others. And also, this is free content, you do not owe us any explanations, but thanks for sharing. It helps a lot of people.

[@naseemhaveliwala7758]

You are so brave to open up and share your story with all of us. Thank you for your honesty and I am sure your story has resonated with a lot of us. The first thing I thought to myself when I saw you was "wow she is beautiful!" I think the message that the next generation needs to hear is outer appearance does NOT make you a better person it is what is on the inside that counts. We need to teach the next generation to be better human beings and more accepting of themselves without focusing on outer appearance.

[@candiceabraham5176]

Thank you for sharing more on this. My own hair loss isn’t from traction alopecia but high stress and an unhealthy lifestyle in my adolescence and 20’s really contributed. Even though our experiences weren’t the same I can absolutely relate to where you’re coming from here Gabi. ❤️❤️❤️

[@GlamGirlGabi]

You're strong, resilient and your beauty radiates a room Candice. I am so happy that we have connected and that we can share this experience (although different) together. I'm always here for you!

[@StarmoongalASMR]

Hi Gaby. I appreciate you opening up and talking about this topic. I feel that hair loss is usually associated with men and not enough women have the bravery to come forward and say they are struggling with it as well. It’s like hair is supposed to be a women’s crown of beauty. I have experienced hair loss as well, at the top of my head and my hair has thinned dramatically. I also have a thyroid issue, hypothyroidism. In addition, after having my daughter and developing pregestational diabetes and then Type 2 diabetes five years later, this all contributed to my hair loss. On top of that I turned vegan and carb free to control my diabetes because the medication makes it worse and causes liver and kidney damage. So all my health probs and strict diet have also contributed. I was able to grow my hair back somewhat with supplements but I know it will never be the same. I still am a little conscious about it but strong women like you help other women like me come to peace with it and make the best of it. I am so happy I found your channel. You are an inspiration😊

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Nadia your message was so touching to me! You have experienced it as well and so many other people are going through the exact same thing that we are going through. It's important to let women know that they're not alone and that no matter how "perfect" someone seems, we all have the things that we deeply struggle with. I am sorry that you have struggled with your health but it seems like you have gotten it under control now. The most important thing once getting through things like that is taking the time to care for your inner self. That is the most beautiful and most important part of someone. I'm sending you so much love.

[@AnaojAiraf]

Thank you so much for you honesty! My hair loss (exactly in the same location as yours) is also related with low hemoglobin blood levels or related components (important to hair growth) and taking supplements is slowing helping because i still have some follicles "alive" thank Good. For sure we should check our blood levels time to time! specially hemoglobin or ferritine levels for women! Also when i'm working and thinking I also have a horrible habit of scratching the side of my head, which doesn't help at all and i was not conscious that I was doing that, until I saw some hair falling in my desk...

[@ElizabethSampson]

Thank you for sharing your journey! You never realize what others are going through.

[@YesToTech]

Thanks for sharing your story! I can't even begin to imagine how traumatic this may be

[@GlamGirlGabi]

It was traumatic for sure but with every rainstorm comes a rainbow and I'm happy that it has made me a more compassionate person in the long run. Everything we go through in our lives just make us the person we are today. I made a mistake but I'm human and I have accepted it :-) Thanks for watching.

[@veenaumesh9390]

KUDOS TO U SBD UR STRENGTH TO COME OUT IN PUBLIC TO SHARE UR STORY ..BE STRONG ABD BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS...ITS A EYE OPENER FOR EVERYONE....

[@nancycarvalho3444]

You are truly a beautiful woman inside and out. Full of grace and wisdom.

[@SH-iy4pb]

Thanks so much for sharing your story. I have EXACTLY the same story and it depresses me so much as it’s getting worse as I get older and it’s harder to hide now :( Please keep us posted if you decide to go ahead with the transplant. Wish someone would find a cure for all causes of hair loss. Big hugs and thanks to you! You’re stunning inside and out! ❤️

[@mandypandy104]

This video is so special! You're so real and honest to share this backstory! It's true that those teenage/young adult years are so difficult. Everyone is just trying to figure out who they are - but it's so hard when society is trying to tell you what you should be!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I was reading the comments on the original video and it just broke my heart. When I grew up, I didn't even have any exposure to social media or even a cell phone and it was still so hard to feel this pressure that we put on young women in society. In the fashion industry, it's just next level and it got to the point after several years where a lightbulb went off in my head and it became disgusting to me. So much so that I didn't even feel like I could continue working in it full time. I needed breaks from the superficial nature of it. I love making people feel beautiful but we have to maintain perspective because what we do at young ages and what we put our bodies through stays with us for the rest of our lives. Thanks for watching my friend and for all of your support!

[@nancylyon-gray3499]

Oh Gabi! You are so sweet. I have gone through all of the things you have talked about in this video. Thank you for being so honest and helpful. I am so sorry you had to go through it. Do you think that the hair pieces these days are okay to wear? They are not as destructive like they used to be? Bless you sweet and beautiful girl!

[@Keep-on-ok]

I have thyroid issues too! I had thyroid surgery last year. I have one half of my thyroid left. I’m 73 and I feel great. Happy New Year to you!

[@starlafleeman]

I’m experiencing hair loss. Thinning hair. Thank you for being brave enough to share. You are beautiful

[@dannettburns6462]

I'm just now seeing this video and want to say thank you for your story and honesty. You are a beautiful strong encouraging woman. Thank you

[@GlamGirlGabi]

That is so sweet. Thank you so much for hearing my story and writing such a supportive and kind comment. It means everything to me.

[@sheiladanceme1885]

You a brave girl & have earned my respect💜

[@believeindreams2005]

Thank you so much!!! for doing this video. I also have this happening to me. I wore extensions 10 years ago and they couldn’t stay in my hair. They pulled out and my hair came with it. My hair finally grew back but I have several autoimmune diseases and 8 months ago my kidneys failed. I don’t have any of my diseases under control. Prednisone has been very high, 60 mg tapering. Some of my doctors tell me it is the tapering of high prednisone that has caused my hair loss and some say it doesn’t really cause that. I don’t know, I have a full moon face and 20 extra pounds. I think so poorly of myself. I’m 60, if this had happened to me when I was younger I don’t think I would have handled it as well as I am now. But it is incredibly difficult to deal with. I’m going to make an appointment with my dermatologist and see if there is anything to help this. And with that said I will watch the rest of your videos to see what you’ve done. Thanks again!

[@mandypandy104]

Hi Believeindreams - I was scrolling her comments and caught "Prednisone" in your text. I just wanted to say you can do this. I was hospitalized for an AI condition at 29 and was on a 4-month taper of 80mgs. I know it's difficult... the moon face, the weight gain, the mood swings. I also had hair thinning and severe breakage. I "gave in" to my body at that time and let it rest... I stopped trying to get better and focused on just finding small joys. Eventually, I came out of it and am off medication now. I hope this happens for you too... there is always a light somewhere

[@believeindreams2005]

Amanda Kalbfleisch thank you for your kind and encouraging words. You’ve experienced the same. Something so difficult to explain to others. I hope you continue to improve. ❤️

[@michellehunt9158]

I got MD Hair products after your other video. My hair after one month is fuller and longer. I feel so much better. Thank you

[@GlamGirlGabi]

It’s a great brand!! I’m so glad that I was able to help you.

[@patferguson572]

Thank you for your honesty. It's hard to be brave and strong. Keep it up! ♥

[@alwaysHELLAfresh]

You are Amazing. Thank you so much for sharing this story with us, you are so strong!! This hits close to home for this girl in her mid 20s

[@GlamGirlGabi]

You are so welcome. Thank you for coming and hanging out with me! It's not easy to be in your mid twenties as you are still exploring a huge part of what makes you special and unique to the world. Always remember to never let your insecurities define your worth! Inner beauty always shines through and is truly the only thing that matters in the end :-)

[@UnfazedPhoenix]

I still struggle with this. My waist is 29, hips 40. I weigh about 135 pounds. I still struggle with my body image every day. I've also been with my partner for 10 years, we raised 2 boys together, but the relationship has become increasingly toxic. I'm 34, and im just in such a mental crisis over all of this. Really appreciate you sharing your story.

[@sweetsunnydaygirl]

Hi Gabi! Thank You so much for sharing here. Your personal experience is resonating with many, as can be seen in the comments :) I'm learning from your videos and they have already helped and inspired me. God bless You and keep shining and sharing! 🌞🌞 Rachel in Nashville :) 😺🐹🍪🦩

[@kristinebarbaree2697]

Thanks for sharing your story . Like another commentor , I too have had Graves Disease and my thyroid killed off with radioactive iodine . At one point my hair was falling out like crazy . I don’t think my hair is fully back from that and now menopause may be making it thinner. I am looking forward to trying the MD Hair line that you recommended in a more recent video .

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It’s really traumatic and an awful thing that have to experience. MD hair is a great haircare like for thinning. I think you will love it.

[@naas2997]

THANK YOU FOR CONVINCING ME THAT MY HAIR DONT DEFINE ME

[@freedom4life123]

Good to see a womans channel on hair loss, it is a very disturbing time in someone's life be it male or female. Keep up the good work Gabi. BTW you look stunning. ;)

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you Eddy! Not enough women talk about these issues and it’s a problem because the stigma level is so high and women feel so alone in that experience. I’m happy to shed some light on the normalcy of hair loss for women as well.

[@freedom4life123]

@@GlamGirlGabi I agree and it makes a refreshing change to see it considering there isn't much info out there on female hair loss. It's equally if not more disturbing than it is for men because traditionally it's men who lose hair not women. Good luck with your journey too 👍👌

[@mightymouse2098]

Thank you so much for your honesty and being you. Your advice is excellent. So happy that you are here to make this wonderful videos.

[@rebeccajones8628]

I'm so sorry this happened to you Gabi.

[@k.j.2888]

I am now 65 but I was a natural size zero in my twenties and thirties. People always told me how I looked too thin even though I ate tons of food. Used to get me so angry. Goes to show you that even if you’re naturally thin, it’s still not good enough for some people so we need to quit caring what others think.

[@mahnitmac7070]

Wowwwwwww...Gabs!!! You hit soooo many areas of women and self-esteem. Thank you😘

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I am so glad that you enjoyed the video! I felt like it was such an important video to make and to expose the real truth behind this. None of us are perfect, and we all have the things we struggle with but we cannot let our insecurities define our worth. True inner beauty always shines through. Thanks for watching babe. I appreciate you.

[@Naturally336]

I've always had Extremely fine, thin hair but was able to style in ways to hide it. Mostly. Until menopause. Ugh What I'm coming to realize is hair is just an accessory. And I remind myself of that daily. Using this mantra I've finally found the courage to dye my hair emerald green at 50 years old. Something I've wanted to do for years and yup, it's super flattering on me, I love it. But it's just an accessory. I could shave it off and proudly display just the shape of my face. I mean that's not much different then a slicked back styled. Or I could follow in Dolly Parton's footsteps who strictly only wears wigs. There's turbans, hats, tattoos, henna...so many options! The point being, by thinking of hair as an accessory, just like jewelry or makeup, has given me a freedom that is helping to accept these changes in my life. And I feel your story, I also had a short stint in the 80's as a model and it definitely hampers the self esteem. You are gorgeous and that ultimately shines from the soul, not the waistline or hair. :)

[@Jod3lay]

Amazing how you're coping with this!! 💕

[@martakuczynska4158]

You are amazing Gabi, so beautiful and I really love watching and listening to you ! Thank you for every video you made ❤️

[@sherylsalazar4822]

Thank you for sharing . you are brave and beautiful.☺🤗 I also have hypothyroidism and work in an industry where I chose to wear my hair up everyday otherwise it just gets in my way and drives up a wall in my face. I could cut it shorter but I don't want to. The thing is I love my hair long because it's so versatile, ponytails beautiful buns , and so forth. I'm 51 (an older gal). I'm noticing my hair is thinning especially around the hairline area as well as breakage but I still wear my hair up almost everyday. I just can't stop myself. 😩

[@patriciahiggins9843]

You are an Exceptional Beauty, Inside and Outside. No Joke!!!!!!!

[@truewords8873]

You Really are a Strong Lady Dear Sister So sad to hear about all your sufferings and following all the steps like a doll told by others 😢 Now please take care of yourself as your heart says to you. You have started helping others that is really a great thing. Smiling at the point when others want you to make cry is really a big thing in itself. I wish you all the best may you have a great future . May Allah Help You and Bless you Aamin

[@GlamGirlGabi]

That is such a sweet comment. Thank you for taking the time to watch the video. We all have our insecurities but we cannot let them define us. True inner beauty always shines through :-)

[@truewords8873]

@@GlamGirlGabi Right Sis 😘😘😊

[@kaybee6372]

Thank you for being so brave and for sharing your story 💕❤️🥰. I can definitely relate!

[@laurac1101]

I suffered from anorexia nervosa for more than ten years. Totally understand the struggle. But hey! eventually your hair will growth back not as tick as it used to be but it will come back. If not there are hair transplants, wigs, hats :).

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I am so sorry that you struggled with that. In this society and especially in the fashion industry, the path is paved for women to feel like they have no worth unless they fit into this ridiculously impossible standard of beauty. Even being exposed to it and knowing first hand that not even the models look like they do in their book when they first walk in for hair and makeup, I STILL felt the pressure to be perfect. In my case, my hair will never grow back because the follicles inside my scalp have died but I just had a consultation for a transplant so if I decide to do it, I will do a series on that experience. Thank you for watching and I hope that you are practising self love now that you have experienced all that you have.

[@Pamsmith59]

Talk with women who lived through wartime and real shortages of food, and hairloss is always mentioned.

[@hotgirlzzz]

you are such a genuine beautiful person

[@patriciazernone-wood5423]

You have really changed my view of not just my hair loss but now on my health too. I battled with yo yo dieting for 20 years. At one point I even starved myself and I lost 100lbs in 5 to 6 months. I've stopped the staving every day about 8 years ago, but i still didn't care for my inner self. I ate cereal or oats 2 times a day then dinner with family just to maintain my current weight. This was about the time when wearing wigs, styling in tight ponytails, and buns became my new norm. You can see in my picture the tightness of my ponytail. I liked the wig changes because it let me hide from the real me (self extreme issues) I never once thought my poor health habits may have contributed too. I have hope that I can reverse some of this, but ultimately you have helped me accept that this may be permanent but it doesn't need to and my world. I've learned how to cover the areas of thinning, and now I can focus on teaching myself o take better care of my inner self🤗💓thank you for all your doing!!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Your message made me tear up Patricia. Yo yo dieting and looking for this "perfection" is so normal in women but the biggest issue with being a perfectionist is that no matter where you get to, you always want to get further and further and eventually you completely lose perspective. I find that I need to check in with myself once in a while and give myself some hard truth and a reality check. You are beautiful and despite going through weight issues, hair loss, whatever, it's important to look at where you are now and try to see the light inside you. The most important thing is what shines out from inside of you. I hope you are taking care of that beautiful inner you :-) Sending you love.

[@patriciazernone-wood5423]

@@GlamGirlGabi it took years but a much needed divorce, therapy, and reconnecting with past joys were the best things I've ever done. I'm happy with myself today. Although I feel secure again I do want to continue to explore the things on the outside that (such as my hair) can help restore the confidence too. I'm glad I found you're channel it's helped and I do you can offer it's some more tips that are accessible to all women and their economic backgrounds.. Stay healthy and thank you!💞

[@aysemustafa6088]

You are amazing ,so so true what you said thank you for your honesty ,and to give hope and encouragement to people, because it's only a tiny thing about you and there is always worse than you we should be grateful for what we have and not what we lossed thank you once again XXX 💖

[@sufyb6432]

I used to have people tell me how great I looked when I was thin and starving myself. It really makes you do a double take. I felt like I had to starve myself for people to admire me. I did that for 30 years until I just didn't care anymore. I want people to like me for who I really am now. It's important. Great video! Glad you are on the right track now. You have alot of company in this messed up world.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I feel that. It was a really distorted time in my life too. And now I’m so comfortable just being myself. I would never want to go back to that girl. I am glad you’re on the right track too.

[@vyasthesage]

I truly respect your honesty, introspection and clarity of thought. You are a very cool person! 😄

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you so much. What a sweet message. You made my day ❤️

[@leewhite8355]

I had alopecia as a child & my hair still has bald spots .My mum said it was because I was jealous of my baby brother ,I’m sure that was a factor ,but so were the beatings & abuse I suffered .

[@sarateixeira2561]

I'm so sorry 😢

[@jennycollins7388]

Thank you for being so vulnerable & sharing ❤

[@RetiredFleePlayer]

i’m 14 years old n i let my friend cut me a fringe, i started wearing my hair in tight braids n extensions after. i ended up with a patchy hairline (mostly at the temples) when i taken the extensions out i think it was around december sometime i didn’t realise anything was wrong until the last month or so and now i’ve become even more paranoid, i’ve never really liked my hairline but it’s just annoyed me the fact that i’ve probably caused myself this problem. i don’t think it’s permanent as i don’t know how i would be able to tell but watching your videos actually made me feel a lot better, to see how gorgeous you are. my hair loss is actually in a different area but as you said about not being able to wear your hair up, i struggle the same as you can see the patches around my temple area. i’ve watched both of your videos n your a very beautiful strong women n to say your in ur 30s is unbelievable!!😍 thankyou for these videos as they have not made me feel not so alone as i have been reading many comments as well, i respect you for sharing your story as it can be a very embarrassing thing to speak about for a women x

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Your comment made my eyes water. I’m so sorry that you have experienced hair loss as well because I know how challenging it can be and when you’re younger, body image issues is so prevalent in our minds. You wrote such a beautiful and well written comment and I can tell that you’re an incredibly intelligent girl. Keep being you, hold your head up high and know that your worth is much more than your hair. Beauty on the inside is what truly matters ❤️ Sending you a big mamma bear hug.

[@RetiredFleePlayer]

Glam Girl Gabi thankyou so much🥺❤️

[@annagerasimatou8175]

you are very brave!!!! what you are doing here, helps a lot of people! thank you so much!!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you Anna! That means the world to me ❤️

[@ahmetharunciftci]

As a 23yo-male who has been growing his hair for 2 years, i noticed that my scalp hurts when i bind my hair too tightly and for this reason i can lose my hair. I asked many women. No one told anything. No one knows anything about tractionel alopecia. Whereupon I started to observe people's hair lines. I saw that men have a "M" shaped hair line because of androgenic alopecia naturally and Women have ragged hair lines. Most of women don't realize that their foreheads are being opened and even they think this is a variant. So I decided to give up the ponytails however even so i was uncomfortable with my unbinded hair because the hair that are in temporal area and close my forehead kept sagging to front of my face while I was working. It is annoying. I am still using hair clips(or instead, i wear bonnet) but I bind my hair loosely and I don't bind the hair that are close to my neck and close to my forehead together anymore. I agree with you🙏🏻

[@truptimalichkar]

Thanks for sharing dear...my teen age girl is suffering fpb stage 1, your viedo gave us courage to strive through 💜

[@rositaramirez9241]

You're such a beautiful human being. I love watching your videos.❤❤

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you so much!! ❤️

[@AnaojAiraf]

ps. local minoxidil spray also helped but you should definetly consult a doctor to check the follicle status before trying any local treatments

[@Yvetr]

I'm having the same issue.. wearing lot of tight ponytail everyday and the thyroid thing^^ I loose alot of hair if washing hair or if brushing it I didnt know it's because of that but I will visit the dermatologist soon now that I saw your videos by coincidence. thank you!

[@brookerbaby511]

I had Graves disease triggered by my last pregnancy...that started my storm of hair loss. On top of ponytails, having radiation to destroy my thyroid, the replacement hormones I need to take forever now, and now extreme hair loss from covid I had back in July ..I'm down to 25 percent of the hair I used to have😭. Some will grow back...but not much.

[@Keep-on-ok]

Congrats! I just found your video. I’m getting a hair cut next week. My husband likes my hair long. I’m getting a blunt Bob. He doesn’t know it. I have thyroid issues. Had half of my thyroid removed last year. Thanks for the video. I did find some white touch up power on Amazon.

[@noblestrength]

Wow! You are an amazing woman! So glad I ran across your channel. I was researching traction alopecia and your viral video came up. New subbie!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thanks so much for coming and hanging out with me! So happy to have you as apart of the community ❤️

[@ChristinaLynnF]

8:50-9:40... i needed to hear that.. ugh made me tear up, thank you for sharing

[@cellphone2414]

That was the exact moments I started tearing up too. Being a young woman with hair thinning, it's hard not to feel insecure when you look at other women's beautiful hair. It doesn't define us though!

[@HealthywithAmy]

Very honest and truthful. My trichologist talked about my Alopecia as a "perfect storm", for my condition.

[@cxqcxq5176]

wow, i subscribed tonight because i really liked your wavy hair and color (6 brilliant hacks to get volume in fine hair). i didn't think you had a hair problem and kept laughing every time you said you have thin fine hair, as it didn't look that way to me at all in the video. not laughing any more, sorry, and thank you for sharing this. i'm having a dark year and lost a lot of weight so my hair has not been well.

[@ttbonam]

I really appreciated you posting this. Thanks for taking the time

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you for watching. I’m happy that you found it helpful ❤️

[@kimberleelanning7259]

I’ve never related to anything more! Wow! And thank you🥰

[@pauletteporter7619]

Thank you for your heart felt story. I'm always very private about what I do in my life to "look good" but with your candor, I wanted to tell my story so that someone might benefit from it. I "unfortunately" underwent a brow lift and face lift several years ago (surgeries were 10 years apart). What the doctors never told me (surprise!) and unfortunately I did not "research" this on my own, was that the resulting scarring on the scalp would eliminate the hair follicles which in turn results in bald spots around the ears and top of the crown along the bang line. Please be aware of this and discuss with your doctor if you are considering cosmetic surgery. I'm currently "thinking" about looking into hair plugs. I've researched the internet, but there are not very many articles from women who have undergone this process. What's your thoughts on it?

[@KcKctea]

You are amazing, so bold and brave!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you so much. That means a lot to me ❤️

[@katrinawise9741]

Your so beautiful inside and out I am a new follower and have watched several videos in a row now. It started with your eyebrow journey. I have an upcoming appointment here in Florida. Over all the way you carry yourself is beautiful and uplifting. I am 45 never was taught about make up skin care etc and watching you gives me confidence.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Katrina this was such a sweet and thoughtful message. Thank you so much for being apart of the community! You are welcome here and can request any videos you're curious about in the comments. I always take the time to listen and to make content that is most helpful for you guys. I am excited for your eyebrow appointment as it can be life changing for people! I have a healing video coming out next week so stay tuned for that! The healing can be a little bit of a weird experience but you get through it ;-)

[@katrinawise9741]

@@GlamGirlGabi your super sweet thank you so much your awesome. I'll keep a watch out for more make up tips etc..I am super excited about them cant wait I'll let you know how it goes next Thursday. Have a wonderful day.

[@karenwilson6419]

I agree, she is fantastic. Love you Gaby

[@toria640]

You have made me feel so much better about myself

[@GlamGirlGabi]

🥰❤️ Im glad that it helped.

[@sia7001]

A lot of athletes, dancers, etc. goes through this and it's really sad 😔

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Yeah it’s a big problem in those communities of people. Have you ever been in an environment like that? I was really involved in ballet and that was another issue too that I forgot to mention in that video. There were a lot of things.

[@sia7001]

@@GlamGirlGabi I had to tie my hair when I used to play sports as a kid. So much running and jumping. I can now imagine what my hair had to go through 😩

[@clevertart69]

Hi- great video- I’ve watch a few others from this lovely lady too- I was researching hair transplants in women......during lockdown I suddenly realised I had lost lots of hair- I now know it’s FFA, (dead follicles) and seborrheic dermatitis (which I’ve now cured) It had been getting worse for years but I had a busy job and hadn’t even noticed!! My only option is hair transplant now but I’m paranoid about shaving any other part of my hair. My hair used to be 42 inches long when I was a child - it’s now shoulder length. I’ve decided to not use any lighteners ever again but my natural mousy colour looks like a bad wig around the hairline- looks like my hair is being pulled off my head! Should I use the hair powder to shade it closer- or will that just look odd ? Or go blonder and then it won’t show as much? I have a fringe/bangs - but I hate windy weather as I’m sure anyone trying to hide hair loss hates a windy day!

[@Daniel_Batal]

Powerful stuff, pal

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thanks Daniel :-) These types of personal and exposing videos are the most difficult for me to make. Stripping that paint off the surface is not easy for someone who tends to be a bit more calculated and analytical. I felt like it needed to be made though. So many women struggle with body image issues (especially ones in the fashion industry) and its time to expose what actually happens if you let that noise get into your head. Thank you for your support. It means the world to me.

[@queen_haya]

thanks for sharing your really sweet and its really nice of you to share your story please do let us know how to stop hair loss thanks

[@cherixbiggs5819]

Thank you for telling the full story about your alopecia. I am new to wearing wigs and concerned that wearing wigs could cause alopecia! My hair is straight, baby fine. Nobody can make it look like the pictures I show them! But a wig can give me what I am looking for.... but not worth losing my own hair over... what do you think about wigs? I have often thought my thin hair was caused by all the meds and my age (68)....

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Hey! Thanks for watching! I don't think that you will lose any hair wearing your wigs. Just don't tie your hair tightly underneath the wig. Use a wig cap and wrap your hair around your head. Enjoy that beautiful wig because it feels amazing when you finally get the hair of your dreams that you have never been able to get with thin natural hair (I know it all too well) :-)

[@ramonapena7544]

Thank you for sharing your story sis, I can relate

[@ramonapena7544]

have you tried Onions? I know it sounds sick but look into it, has helped big time. may your higher self keep blessing you.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching and for the support!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I haven't tried it! Let me look into it! Maybe I could do a whole series about it and see if it helps!

[@ginarae3081]

You're beautiful, but I think the industry or society in general are blind to why women are beautiful. This physical shell isn't beauty. You are a strong woman, and I admire your courage. You are really beautiful. Stay strong ❤️

[@GlamGirlGabi]

This was such a sweet comment. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it. Society in general doesn’t see a woman’s beauty as inner strength, resiliency, intelligence, courage, etc. They see a waist line. A pretty face. A lean figure. Men, in my opinion, are much more respected for their inner appeal than we are and it’s so sad. Aging has been empowering to me and I’m hoping as I get older that I see things more and more clearly. ❤️

[@vanessacolonna5294]

Thank you for sharing. You are beautiful and brave.

[@pennythomas2016]

Thank you for your honesty.

[@jesar6058]

I feel you on the body issues after I stopped smoking I began to gain 10 pounds a month every month for a year. I had developed hypoglycemia. I am 100 pounds overweight and its defeating.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you for watching! If you enjoyed this video, you may find these ones interesting: 1. THE ORIGINAL VIDEO: My Hair Loss Story | STOP doing this OR it will happen to YOU | Traction Alopecia: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGXKmIOVjM-Fjbc 2. Wigs And Alopecia | UniWigs Review & Demo: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGbSeKFvhrOCZrM

[@fitnfab6522]

The moment we disconnect from the opinions and suggestions of others, we live. Once we put on the weight we are meant to be, we are happy for us...I too, lose weight when under stress, but I will never ever listen to anyone suggesting what weight i should be...there's a girl in the fitness industry did a video from lean to full. And she looks so darn gorgeous at a full healthy weight. We have become too conformed to the opinions and suggestions of others. The real divorce to do is what people think of us. I am grateful that I've never ever listened to anyone...and btw, you look so beautiful at 34! Those you criticize you, have their own inner issues just projecting at you.

[@customera7945]

Thank you for sharing your experiences and strengths.

[@greekmamalife]

Thanks for sharing your story. I have a dear friend going through the same. I will share your video with him.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you Christina! Please share it so that he knows that he is not alone and he can reach out to me if he wants any insight from someone who has already gone through it.

[@carisaleeannscott7731]

You can apply aloe vera gel on your hair so that it can grow more faster

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you for the suggestion but that definitely won't work. There are no hair follicles in that region.

[@prime5816]

Bullshit

[@hatawa6135]

why does this video have fewer likes than the other ones? This is such awesome content!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thank you so much ❤️ I appreciate that you enjoyed this one.

[@achaley4186]

Thank you sweet lady 🙂🙏🏼🌹❤

[@betsybrady8520]

I love you girl! Thank you

[@deathworld2891]

your an inspiration Gabby