I'll NEVER Let Someone Else Choose My Husband for Me

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I made this video in response to a question that I saw someone ask in a forum where she liked her boyfriend but she wasn’t attracted to him. I will make a longer video answering that specific question but I wanted to advise everyone to not worry about looks, height or money more than how a man is treating you. I 100% support dating a person that meets your needs physically, sexually, financially, emotionally and romantically. The truth is that sexual attraction DOES matter. God created beauty for a reason. Money and education DOES matter too because love doesn’t pay bills. I am NOT telling you to just date anyone or to not care about his education career etc. likewise I would never tell a man to not care about a woman’s beauty or weight. I am simply saying to date and marry someone that YOU truly love and NOT to worry about what your friends, family, coworkers, and strangers in person and on social media think. There will always be someone who thinks poorly of your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. You cannot make everyone happy but you CAN make yourself happy. Choose someone who makes you happy and choose someone that YOU enjoy making happy. A lot of couples look good together physically but what you don’t see is the struggle love between a lack of money, chemistry and affection. Don’t miss out on a good man because of your pride. It’s much better to be treated well then to have a partner that looks good but treats you like crap. Same thing goes for money. I’d rather marry a man with less money (which I did, I have dated lots of HVM’s) than a guy with more money but lacks romance, common sense and doesn’t make me feel loved. Who cares if your husband is a millionaire if you have to be a step mom, live off of coupons because he is afraid of going broke, and he is constantly cheating on you because he thinks he can. I’d rather have a man with less money. You don’t have to deal with pookie. Don’t twist my words here! BUT you don’t have to have a millionaire to be happily married. A man can provide without being 6ft 2 and bringing home $500,000 a year. A woman can be beautiful without being a 9 or a 10 and wearing a size 4. Please continue to work on yourself! You should care about your education, career, personality, and looks but don’t get so caught up in these things that you marry someone who doesn’t really love you or that is just with you for money or for arm candy. Again NOTHING is wrong with wanting and choosing a beautiful woman or a wealthy man BUT make sure you also really love each other beyond just his money or just your looks. Choose your own partner. Don’t let bitter people talk you out of love.