I'm a Dark-Skinned Afro-Latina, Why Doesn't My Man Want Me?! | KARAMO

[@ToniJ.O]

I’m in tears at the end. You don’t what it’s like being told all your life you are too dark, you’re nose is too big, your hair is “bad hair”, etc, being passed up for your lighter friends, etc. Thank you Karamo for showing her (us) that she is (we are) beautiful.

[@JOHNNYMAC1221]

Yea that had me tearing up as well. As a dark skinned woman I feel her pain. I had to learn to love myself and I hope she does as well. She is gorgeous ❤

[@ShanetteLewis]

give sis an academy award! goodness, the drama 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@yonniet6146]

That's what I was thinking

[@shemikawilliams5297]

Right her and that synthetic wig was pissing me off 😂

[@iamidrac]

@@shemikawilliams5297you’re lame

[@JudahCub1981]

She’s a Hispanic woman of African descent… if she wasn’t very animated I would think something was wrong…and I am saying this as someone with Afro-Latin ancestry a few generations back. LOL!

[@OceanBabiedollBias]

​@JudahCub1981 i was just about to say this!! Shes probably Dominican but shes definitely afro latina and we tend to be dramatic but she was gettin on my nerves too 🤣😂🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

[@brittanyhawkins4173]

Karamo I am LOVING the dual colored suit!

[@dayum_mi]

He was perfectly dressed for the dramatics he had to deal with.

[@DR19346]

sike

[@1_Treece]

@@dayum_mi😂😂😂

[@marieharris-i3q]

That color block is so beautiful

[@yvettejohnson1623]

@@DR19346 🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀🤣🤣

[@Brwnbeaut]

I don’t want her to read these comments and feel insecure. She may have flaws in her confidence that can affect her communication and actions. But she’s now aware of that and made a commitment to do the work. Yall give her some grace.

[@constructivecriticism9966]

Queen, it is so easy for others to judge someone when their own business and even their own identities are concealed. This young lady will be fine. God is in control.

[@robleeg]

Black women are never given grace... Sad part. Love my beautiful Black Queens of all Shades

[@peopleas1healingtrauma]

​@@robleegwe pay them no mind we know all black men are different

[@blessedbeauty5411]

❤

[@dannierg9458]

THIS. Amazing explanation.

[@kimdean1079]

I agree with all the comments. The lady is irritating. Trying to come off as confident, but her words and actions show that she's insecure. It's sad that we don't see ourselves the way the world sees us. My Christmas wish is that we all love ourselves in spite of what the world thinks.

[@IdontHOEnoMOE]

It’s not her insecurities. Her having insecurities is the effect of the real problem. She’s culturally and behaviorally black and it’s a cancer.

[@Nelly728]

Amen

[@NoDeductions]

AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾 U just spoke to me too

[@KadariusGreen]

Well, She's showing her human side idiot.

[@Zombina638]

Ur def ignorant

[@Smally273]

I appreciate what Karamo did for her at the end. She’s holding onto hateful rhetoric that she’s been subjected to her whole life and it’s time she sees and appreciates the truth: she is a beautiful dark skinned woman who is loved and deserves love. That was heartwarming.

[@blulicious2]

Can we take a minute and appreciate Karamo's wardrobe?? That mane is clean every episode. Facial hair on point, accessories on point, he stay sharp.

[@Armelleee]

👀

[@princessthalegend338]

That’s what I say EVERY episode. This man staaay fresh & fly😮‍💨🤩

[@vixen_0072]

I honestly don't know why people are out here downing sis for being too extra. She's being herself. Let her be her authentic beautiful extra self. And that's not to dismiss how her insecurities gave her trust issues and she has problems finding herself worthy of love. Colorism is a deep-seated trauma that many carry throughout their lives.

[@MalaniMariee]

literally !

[@zammymynakersnackstbmoth]

It makes me so sad she feels this way about herself. She's a beautiful woman. I hope sheheals soon.

[@deon3133]

She ok not beautiful

[@creamkandi770]

​@deon3133 she is beautiful and you're just okay

[@cmkant9194]

@@deon3133no honey, she’s beautiful. For you to sit up here and type that, you’re not okay.

[@deon3133]

@@creamkandi770 ill just be okay but she’s not beautiful

[@deon3133]

@@cmkant9194 for u to type she’s beautiful something is wrong with u. I’m chillin at work in my office I’m doing good

[@DiorpradaGucci]

She a lot to deal with, but she has to love herself first ❤

[@christopherfunnyboybrown3271]

She requires alot of validation. She better build her self-confidence and esteem before losing a good man

[@Junior-t4d9r]

A good man doesn't break there trust with someone at the start of a relationship. Do you think he is a good man because he tolerates her and is trying to make things right?

[@christopherfunnyboybrown3271]

@@Junior-t4d9r yup! Cause who wants to deal with her??? He's the real MVP

[@shutyourlipsbuddy8346]

He didn’t fully start it but he added to her trauma so now since he & her love each other enough they each have to deal with certain baggage. Honestly makes sense

[@goead]

@@Junior-t4d9rhe doesn’t have to lol

[@smokez239]

That was beautiful

[@Alisa-b4u]

I think her insecurities come from being Afro Latina- and there is skin racism very strongly in their community the darker latinas are treated less than the light skinned ones and just the fact that she has her pictures on social media pages that are very much lighter skinned than what she really is just shows that she has many insecurities from her upbringing- sending her blessings of healing ❤️‍🩹

[@LarissaMarie92]

Please do more episodes on Colorism you are helping so many beautiful brown skin women feel loved, appreciated, beautiful, and finally respected!!! Thank you Karamo!!!! 1 man can literally change the world!!!!!

[@breyanacheynae]

Agreeeeee

[@fadzichirairo2716]

this is sooo true, watching these episodes is so validating in a world that tends to invalidate colorism, we definitely need to talk about it more.

[@valenciawilliams5112]

Agreeeed!!!!!❤

[@mazzee]

It shouldn't be a problem in the first place, women shouldn't be questioning their beauty because of skin color. This girl is so obsessed with her man liking white light skin women and she doesn't even see how beautiful her own skin is. And many people prefer darker skin, and many white women do fake tan and stuff to appear prettier. But every skin is beautiful.

[@lovenhzwill831]

This made me cry unexpectedly..the self sabotaging that many of us walk in and blind to it. I saw myself 10 yrs ago and im so glad her partner is there to remind her of who she is,even when she can't see it.

[@rafaelag7967]

Made me cry too. Reminded me of my insecurities in a previous relationship.

[@goochiebrooks8911]

Wtf Karamo!!! You just flip the script on us with this. I thought we were dealing with infidelity. You pulled her card on the filters and showed her what we see. I love this for her❤

[@Joi004]

You did it again Karamo! This is what sets you apart from the other talk shows. You genuinely CARE!!! Thank you for loving on this beautiful young lady.

[@joerichardwad1645]

It’s all for show. Don’t be so gullible.

[@TokelBoyd-t4r]

Everyone should feel beautiful in their own skin .

[@longbranch11207]

This girl is a mess, poor dude will probably end up leaving her because of her insecurities

[@my6763]

As he should imo

[@Nm-pk6uh]

Check her phone!!! The one accusing is the one doing the especially the extent she is ! And she was doing wayyyy too much

[@GARRYBRISCOE]

Everyone keeps saying that😅

[@camillebernard6637]

Ikr

[@markydan1232]

She's addicted to drama. That man has to lover her to deal with that on a daily basis 😂

[@itry4660]

Why’s no one checking her phone 🤦🏾‍♂️smh

[@Exclxsiveskye]

I agree. It is one of two things. She truly insecure or she projecting 😊

[@SupaNatural28]

Cause she's crazy. If she's texting or sexting another dude; GOOD take her crazy ass

[@roxannadeshong3833]

Self esteem Self confidence Self love Self care Starts from within🙏🏾❤️

[@sweetmarytime3360]

Well, I understand her completely, this trauma that lighter is better than dark is trauma. I am from the French Caribbean and some people do favor lighter then darker skin and they are extremely nasty with it, even teachers and parents are making a difference.

[@mrhersh7189]

She's in love with light skin Eddie Griffin!! 😂😂😂😂

[@angiianthony9064]

I'm high lmaoo THIS THE ONE 😂😂😂

[@juanitamcknight8039]

He does once he started smiling 😁🤣🤣🤣

[@damianu4082]

When you don't see yourself as enough, even when you got an entire community letting you know you're more than enough, it still remains a challenge. I don't know what Nancy has dealt with in her past but she has got to seek help. She is a beautiful lady and has got herself a man that loves her (evident by Garry staying supportive responses through the 8,000 text exchanges) for her. I pray she finds the inner-will to have self -love.

[@peopleas1healingtrauma]

That stresses a man outtttt That stresses and damage a man's mental health he has Cheated in the past but my thing Is why still be with someone you can't no longer trust I'm sorry but I don't think there gonna last

[@shalandafreeman578]

She’s very insecure and she’s not happy with herself. So sad

[@Raven-ws2sk]

She got on my nerves a little bit.

[@meghanwilliams4295]

Instantly.....👀

[@SuthernGyrl99]

A lot a bit for me 😂

[@menamona4065]

She doesn’t deserve him

[@just__netflix__and__chill]

I thought I was the only one 😭💀

[@yesimablackwpod]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JRenee-Sings]

Aw, Karamo is such a sensitive, caring Man

[@maryjane2965]

Interesting how her whole demeanor and energy changed when Karamo talked confidence into her and showed her the videos!She seemed more chill and accepting of herself which instantly made her more attractive. That whole rara before was not convincing and not cute either.

[@purplerain1848]

I’m not sure if I buy that she doesn’t think she’s beautiful!!!!! I just think she needs to constantly hear it….and that part sis is EXHAUSTING!

[@ablacksquare]

I would love to see how she evolves through her journey of self love and self actualization. Karamo love the Pink Panther Blazer! & Shout out to the loving, levelheaded, supportive partners out here in this world.

[@mrslross78]

She needs therapy. When she jumps up and struts and stuff that is a sign of wearing a mask. As a female we have to walk in our true selves and depending on your upbringing and life experiences it can be challenging. Just do the work Queens!!

[@Bibirallie]

She needs to work on her own insecurities. She’s projecting.

[@lasparklecovington1238]

She is absolutely gorgeous

[@charlotteroberts4052]

I can't believe she didn't apologize to her bf

[@itsKWhile]

Yeah.... SHE didn't apologize because 85-90% of women won't when they're wrong. They HATE it. They HATE being wrong in general but they HATE when the man is right. Not saying there aren't men who won't apologize when they're wrong because that's also wrong. But it's more common within women to "not be wrong" because "guys are immature and constantly make mistakes". Women aren't perfect either. Now I ain't taking a shot at you in fact I applaud you for you being disappointed in her for not apologizing. 👏👏👏👏

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

I think it's because he cheated before

[@Armelleee]

​@@itsKWhileshhh 😒

[@itsKWhile]

@@Armelleee why do you think women won't apologize to a guy when the guy is right and they are wrong? It's always "I'mma switch up the topic or find ways to weasel out of it". All that matters to most of you all is about being right and rubbing it in a guy's face after but when the tables turn and the shoe is on the other foot, most of you can't handle a rightful lecture from a man.

[@onnorwilliams2235]

I couldn’t deal with a woman so animated

[@Nm-pk6uh]

Low key annoying lol like when he asked if she would leave

[@NileGoddess]

Yes that’s why her husband loves her as she is

[@wingedshoes101]

Okay so don’t

[@onnorwilliams2235]

That’s not her husband did you not pay attention or you just hand out fake titles stop it

[@ruthlowry3608]

It’s time for her she starts loving herself!!! She is seriously gorgeous.

[@FinDom1]

She’s exhausting.

[@sylviahkinyangi9892]

He's a very good man,making drama, she's a bad person,he needs to leave her

[@paolaree8004]

Very

[@BC-zm4vc]

As an African American woman I feel so bad for him 😢 I wish my ex husband was like him smh

[@Armelleee]

He is grown. He can leave, he aint no victim.

[@finnthehuman7159]

She was annoying but she definitely had a reason to be suspicious since he has had a past of messing with exes...

[@betterbecausebookclub8732]

Heal & Love yourself BEFORE entering relationships. Broken people break good people. She is insecure in herself and the relationships. Overtime the constant need to validate someone gets overwhelming and the relationship won’t last. As a dark-skin woman, I get it. Colorism is real especially in the south. It’s not as prevalent as it was back in the day, but those deeply root wounds must be dug out and healed.

[@teest.v3054]

She’s Animated….overly too 😂😂😂

[@paulakula5121]

I am from new zealand. Be proud of who you are, girl.

[@chikhumbiri9902]

Hey Karamo.. I just wanna thank you because this one hit home. Im a dark skin girl and I've learned to not project my insecurities and have a need for validation all the time

[@ljackson24]

He’s giving me Willie from Day 26 vibes…. The Walmart version 👀😂

[@babydoll8182]

Not the Walmart version!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@MorganAshleyPoole]

The suit is SUITING Karamo🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@lotus_bomb2240]

I don’t think she loves herself like she should. I pray she works on her SELF esteem, they could be happy if she allows them to be.

[@MsDubati]

Literally the first this I said when i saw her was she’s stunning ❤️ natural BEAUTY

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

You know what I hate, its people who break there partner's trust in the beginning and act so confident when they say I'll earn it back. The problem with this, people make it seem like earn back trust will take a short amount when in reality it, they don't know for sure. Some peolle can spend a lifetime earning back trust.

[@windowseat4]

she has a reason to her acting the way she does. i get it maybe he's changed but its valid to have those feeling or "insecurities" if you will

[@goead]

You must be a child if you think it’s ok for a 30 year old woman to keep cussing her man out

[@alphonzawill]

This lady went from low self esteem to extremely cocky and back to low self esteem in 1 short conversation. It has to be a headache dealing with that

[@NileGoddess]

She must be a Gemini

[@GARRYBRISCOE]

Capricorn actually

[@chassitydavis225]

I ain’t even watched the whole video yet, but Karamo’s jacket🔥

[@anndeecosita3586]

I typically distance myself from people who have deep, paralyzing insecurities. It’s like pouring water into a bottomless bucket. Only they can resolve their issues.

[@medjynecassandrecange5643]

Girl you better get yourself together and live that life with him cz he’s a good man🎉 and girl you look fire😻❤️

[@arianajaden]

Shes beautiful and her accent make her cuter. She needs to do the inner work like most of us do.

[@Moody-mR4]

Karamo is everything. I love the way he uplifted her. No man/woman should be insecure about their skin color. ❤️

[@ItsMeKera23]

She was annoying this whole video. I would’ve broken up with her a long time ago.

[@shemikawilliams5297]

Right😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i thought it was just me

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

Loonnnngggg time ago

[@princered4]

You got that right!! Me and her would never been together to begin with simply because she is annoying, lol 😂!!

[@tdgreer]

He obviously loves her.

[@graciedee8248]

Pls give people chances, she could change

[@5280LogicalDiffuser]

He should drop her off at the nearest movie extras audition and never look back to many theatrics an insecurities

[@selfesteemqueen]

A woman who really loves her self will leave a man she doesn’t feel safe around. She won’t come on a show and be aggressive because that aggressiveness isn’t helping her relationship at all.

[@vixen_0072]

Women can be aggressive if they so choose. They don't all have to be soft spoken damsels or submissive. There's a multitude of ways women can present themselves.

[@janedoee4830]

Karamo this suit ATE!!! 😍

[@engineengine9]

To her defence being darker in a colorist society has caused this and its worst among the latin community the worst i have Dominican friends who say the darker ones are treated horribly

[@bossb8989]

People need to normalize accepting the fact that some humans are more easy on the eye than others. And that’s normal. We can’t all be good looking, that’s unrealistic. That’s why some of us wear makeup, wigs, filters… to enhance our appearance so that we can appear as beautiful as those who naturally are. And that’s ok. Let’s teach our children too that being told you are average looking is not an insult. So that their entire sense of self worth is not pegged on their appearance. There must be other areas in which you shine in. And that’s ok too.

[@jasminebolden668]

I definitely agree with u

[@mentalhealingwithelaine]

Yet some how it’s always darker skin, kinky hair, and wide noses. Hmmm very odd that’s Blackness is always deemed unattractive

[@andreaclarke161]

This lady is so insecure because Hispanics treat the dark skinned ones like they are less than. Black is beautiful lady! Love on your man girl! Love your complexion

[@Shasta-sOracle]

Such a satisfying ending! 🎉🤩

[@calvincoffee305]

First time he was actually fair!!!

[@iLoveYouShow1]

that’s a good man savannah! 😭😭

[@jakblk]

No man's love can ever be enough to fill a hole inside you that he didn't create.

[@emmanuelkimeli9397]

Insecurities is going to kill your marriage or relationship

[@Loldee222]

He cheated in the beginning tho and she was insecure about it

[@DeShawnHatcher]

She's a lot! And he still wants to be with her after all of this? She couldn't even apologize. She needs therapy because she can't see in herself how absolutely beautiful she is. Wow

[@Bossyvofficial]

This was a beautiful episode 🥺it really made me cry I hope she learned from that and she stops letting things get to her and also to take accountability for her actions , I feel she could have apologized too . I know what insecurities can do to you and when you let them go life is great 🫶🏽

[@Zamolcshzcovaw]

Freedom is honesty, honesty is freedom!

[@cutefacebigwaist]

Enjoy it!

[@Loldee222]

She was irritating in the beginning but loved how this episode ended when she took accountability for her actions and wants to do and be better she’s is so beautiful ❤

[@bencromwell707]

This Canadian 🇨🇦 🍁 Loves This Show Karamo He is legit💯👍

[@Armelleee]

👀🇨🇦 Here too!

[@bencromwell707]

@@Armelleee lol 😎 😂

[@miekaxiii]

This girls gorgeous, kinda reminds me of sza ❤

[@soblessed_21]

I can't even watch the entire video, she's tooooo extra😂

[@royaldavis640]

He never had a chance, the insecurities runs so deep

[@keondrashinholster5080]

She's too extra for me

[@blvctina4215]

who asked

[@NileGoddess]

She is who she is ,some people are like that .Thats how God created her.She is beautiful and energetic

[@goead]

@@NileGoddessguess you missed the part where she cusses him out over n over? But I get it you women have an excuse for everything

[@jazzywazzy4761]

aww what a beautiful couple. He's a good man Savannah... And you're a beautiful queen, so start acting like it gorgeous!

[@DankSinisterMusic]

8,000? That should be Guinness World Record

[@georgia1191]

This episode is great, but it’s sad that after all these years, darker skin women & sometimes even men feel less than especially because they’re so beautiful!

[@auntkera]

Did yall see how she grabbed the tissue to wipe her tears. 🤣😁 Girl! 09:10

[@thetruth9719]

Slow motion tissue roll

[@MalcanniPlus]

😂😂😂.. Dude!!!

[@aishachandler4570]

All I know is I need that jacket that Karamo has on.

[@sharyapatterson6423]

Karamo that suit is life!🙌🙌😘

[@preposteroussvideos]

He needs to run

[@markydan1232]

Wow. If self sabotage was a person 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@lovesyah4618]

She's too EXTRA for me. Exhausting!

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

My Advice: If you breaks someones trust in the beginning about something serious then you shouldn't be with them.

[@Lovely_1One]

Warning⚠️this is book/dissertation long yall! 🤭Lol I’m not diminishing what she went through because I’ve gone through the same thing and had the same thoughts and insecurities but the opposite for me growing up in Detroit which was predominately black, with all the beautiful shorter, curvaceous chocolate women. I was bullied and bashed like hell and teased because of the opposite reasons as my father is Native American from the Kiowa tribe of Oklahoma and my mother black. My parents are divorced and I grew up with my mother. I remember my dad came up to my school in his full regalia and I was so embarrassed by that. All the kids were laughing. They would always crack jokes on me. I was so ashamed of my heritage that I loved when my mother would come up to the school because she too was the epitome of beautiful black woman. I ain’t NEVER felt confident about being mixed with Native American and I think it’s because I didn’t grow up with my daddy. I get it. I was tall, super skinny, I loved reading and wore these thick glasses, did not wear updated clothes and tennis shoes (but my mama kept us clean) and I was flat chested and had weird hair. I also hated my skin color. I was lighter skinned back then and just wanted to fit in with my beautiful mothers perfect honey brown complexion or be chocolate. I hope she heals and stops thinking she needs to be light skinned to be accepted, validated and loved on. For me it was all the opposite and everyone I talk to thinks I’m bullshitting them but if they only knew how much I hated everything about myself from my height, facial features, high cheekbones, big nose just everything. I hope she gets to a place where she sees how absolutely gorgeous she is. I used to always say to my mom I wish I was pretty chocolate and she’d just tell me you are pretty. You know ish you tell someone you love just to hush them up. Until you believe it, you will always be insecure. I used to accuse my boyfriends of cheating on me with darker skinned beautiful shorter and more curvaceous women all the time too. My goodness I was so insecure and jealous. I didn’t fully love myself until I turned around 35-ish. I’m 40 now so that says a lot. My husband ain’t complaining either so at some point you need to love yourself and accept your differences. ❤

[@Cap-ku6ok]

Wow, thanks for sharing. Growing up I hated my dark skin because I was teased by my peers. I have always felt ugly and unwanted because of it. Then I grew up and my lighter skinned friends told me of similar experiences as yours. It just goes to show, we all dragging around the weight of our past. No matter how much people tell us how beautiful we are, there is always that little kid on the inside who does not believe it. Now I understand why people need therapy. It takes a profession to help us unpack the demons of our past. Thanks again for sharing your experience.

[@NoDeductions]

Dat is beautiful I had similar problems I was bullied n teased a lot throughout school n used to come home with so much attitude I go to cussing n shutting everyone out n then wish I killed myself up til now I'm 25 n it's been a few years since I been working on self love in spite of the things I've endured thus far n if I can ANYONE can ❤❤

[@Dexters.LaBOREatory]

I was born and raised in Detroit as well. And FINALLY, I have someone who is able to confirm that dark skin was celebrated in Detroit!!! And light skin was admonished. I didn't know that colorism was thing until I moved to the south. These ppl in the south are so triggered by light skin ppl. This is foreign to me as all my sisters are dark skin and I wanted to look like them and my best friend

[@monie2514]

When you're that insecure about your skin complexion is pretty hard for someone to tell you constantly that they're interested in you because you'll always feel that. And that's a psychological trauma that you have to have therapy for. This man needs to go about his business and find someone less nagging and insecure 🤪👎🏼🤬🤷🏼‍♀️😰👩🏻‍⚕️⚕️👩🏻‍⚕️🤪

[@selfesteemqueen]

All those theatrics on TV but crying at home because she doesn’t love herself enough to choose a man she can trust…. Tragic to me.

[@DesignedByMilah]

Putting your insecurities on your spouse like that is very abusive.

[@davinadicupe380]

Is she cheating? She does way too much

[@TheBadioo]

THIS SUIT IS GIVING!!

[@ssbell2011jcsu]

People fail to realize they are the standard. Once you grasp that concept, you will soar.

[@shagaffds8927]

For the first time ever, karamo seems fair to a man.

[@CalmQuiet7]

The crowd applaud when she said let me go through it a little bit more...why is that an applause? What?

[@NoImBrandywine]

Lawn care specialist 😂… Not laughing at the occupation but how she said it 😂

[@keningram5324]

Knowing damn well he works at Lowe's 😭 😭😭

[@MrAdal206]

You can tell drama is the only thing that makes her happy.

[@imanikingel6103]

I deal with someone who has a specific type and I find it realllllly hard to believe me and her would ever work. It’s fun for now but relationship wise I don’t think I’ll ever take it serious because I whole heartedly believe if you have a type STICK TO YOUR TYPE I dont have one so I’m open minded but anything else… NO

[@paulettephilips9789]

STAY DRESSING, MR.KARAMO, THAT JACKET IS EVERYTHING ❤❤❤❤