Her son calls Dave Ramsey tomorrow, “so my Mom is asking me to help her pay for a parent plus loan.” Dave Ramsey tells him to tell her you’re sorry and that you love her.
@dialac1 Жыл бұрын
This should be a wake up call to everyone. You must start planning your retirement once you turn 18. The earlier you start, the easier it is to
@rillawhat8142 Жыл бұрын
These calls are exactly why I've been driven to build wealth for over 30 years, despite 99% of my community trying to push the "live for today" mentality. They don't see the barrage of life challenges coming, so they are ALWAYS unprepared. Not picking on the lady, but years ago, when she made 6 figures, if someone suggested that she save and invest a minimum of $20,000 a year, she may have chosen to "enjoy life" for moment.
@annaburns286510 ай бұрын
I wish I could even earn 20,000 a year.
@brightpage102010 ай бұрын
You know you are sitting on a high horse throwing shade and starting rumors based on conjecture you have no evidence to suggest. Stop being so self righteous and start accessing compassion. Belittling her for choices you don't even know if she made only pumps up your own ego - falsely, by the way. You just come across as an egomeniacle jerk. You just come here to fluff your feathers by putting other birds down? Maybe hindsight is 20/20. Does your comment help her or anyone struggling with this? Is it valuable to her to hear you tomd her so long ago... Even though she's never even met you probably? You know I was like you. I thought it was simple and easy as long as you worked consistently at it. I had over $1 million saved. I planned a family and saved for retirement as well as a home and to provide for them so when my kids were born we wouldn't have to worry about anything. And we didn't - for a while... Until the world began changing. But all it takes is 2-3 like big medical craptacular events you can't control happening around the same time or a getting sideswiped by divorce or the death of a loved one... Or whatever - to wipe out a fortune. I mean a fortune of savings and investments. (No divorce here, medical was all it took bit I have seen folks fall who might have even been migbtier than you - Heaven forbid, right?) 1 special needs kid that sends you I to a different bracket of insurance necessity despite healthy pregnancies - just had complicated births. Plus an extra set of snow tires plus - whoops and unforseen.... Whatever. Life happens. You don't make 6 figures by accident. This woman is capable of wise, intelligent decisions and planning. And executive function. To treat her like a peon instead of a person because of what she might be going through only exposes the harsh cruelty of your own maladaptive character's true nature. Huff off on your high horse, then, Snarky! May you never fall off or break your neck, jumping. Sincerely. I pray you get to stay on top indefinitely. But I'm also a realist. I don't think you'd even have the guts to get into eventing. Google: equestrian 3 day eventing. Dare you to look it up and report back. Bet you're too scared to even google it. Because folks in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. And you know it. Besides, if your Elon Musk levels of dividedens on good decisions are so prosperous for you why can't you throw her a bigger bone of support than subjection? Because it would never occur to you. You're too busy being snide and haughty about your higher and mightier status than the folks who call for help anxious through a desperate season. How dare you?
@treylem34 ай бұрын
@@annaburns2865Why can't you "earn $20,000 a year? Could you work from home, with a computer? My understanding us that many people do, but idk for sure. I pray you are well and able to grab the bull by the horns, to whatever degree you're abilities and God allow
@carbro6334ify Жыл бұрын
Wow this makes my heart happy how uplifting and supportive you guys are to this wonderful woman!
@NICE_DECOR321 Жыл бұрын
👍
@annaburns286510 ай бұрын
Yes! They are way nicer than Dave Ramsey!
@matthewwilliams9200 Жыл бұрын
This was so convoluted she didnt say anyting about what was going on clearly. Your husband lives in the neatherlands, move to the netherlands and be with your husband if hes retired and is living ok there you need to be there til you both can move wherever together. Live with your husband
@Shay-yg7nm Жыл бұрын
I feel like there's more to this story than were hearing
@fascination2525 Жыл бұрын
I wish they had clarified the husband situation.
@worldnomad2301 Жыл бұрын
I wish Dave would’ve taken this call. There are so many holes in this story. They didn’t even ask her what her previous job was, what is her level of education, what is preventing her from returning to that previous job (because she stated she is physically capable now), or at least acquire a similar job. Was her job that niche? I’m so confused.
@TalyaT92211 ай бұрын
Yeah, a lot of important missing info.
@catherinewilke558311 ай бұрын
It almost doesn’t matter what she did in het previous career. A 58 yo person (especially a woman) faces huge hurdles to employment. I’m not sure why she isn’t on disability, frankly.
@annaburns286510 ай бұрын
That may be the case. But if Dave had taken the call he would’ve had to pay her psyche hospital bills. Because he would’ve made her suicidal on live radio. You can’t just treat people like shit and get away with it. And to be honest, I don’t really think she was making 6 figures in American money but in Holland. It’s like she was making 6 Euros.
@jakeclothier10 ай бұрын
But the Euro is generally stronger than USD
@Dad-in-WA Жыл бұрын
Yikes. Uphill battle but still attainable at 58y. Hope this lady will succeed! Ugh, parent plus loans. Thanks for sharing.
@investorchristheroadtof.i.1918 Жыл бұрын
You will be a financial wreck if you use Dave's 8% withdrawal rate The money guy show just showed all the actual data in a excellent video explaining sequence of return risk investments do not always grow at 11% and it is not easy to beat the s&p 93% of professionals that get paid hundreds of thousands of dollars can't beat it constantly
@midlifecrisis7888 Жыл бұрын
Holy f. This is my nightmare scenario. I can’t be old and broke. Being old is bad enough but Both? Dam.
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Twas indeed a cautionary tale to fully fund your retirement and 529 accounts, which are two important baby steps this caller skipped when she was making six figures
@AviationDirection Жыл бұрын
Good thing Dave didn’t take this call!
@Mike-ly7ev Жыл бұрын
Dave’s money advice is great but his people skills sometimes are lacking. I would be so vulnerable calling in and asking for advise. If he told me I was stupid and scorned me for making stupid choices that I know were already stupid choices I would freaking lose it. I’m calling for help not a beat down lecture. I’m really hard on myself and don’t need additional mental battle wounds Dave could give. These 2 did great. Just Help!!
@richman117 Жыл бұрын
@@Mike-ly7ev yeah but sometimes you need to hear that. Your inner monologue should talk to yourself like that to drive you to not do something. You can just be babied sometimes, or it just happens again later.
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
dave is right you stupid noo need to be nice@@Mike-ly7ev
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
@@Mike-ly7ev You're right on all points. That's why I love the Romain Fauer show. He is firm but gentle, compassionate, does not shame people that are already hurting, does not call them names and lays out a step by step way to solve their particular financial problem. He's great !!!!!
@gene_takavic57 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if she has contacted her previous employer to see if they would take her back. If she didn't leave with any heat, it can't hurt.
@tuckt6180 Жыл бұрын
No way, why have a train wreck to the office 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
@debragiovine9797 Жыл бұрын
Good luck with that,,, working for company,,, You are just a name and number on piece of paper,,,
@debragiovine9797 Жыл бұрын
Maybe Chris hogan will Call Dave ,,, and ask for his job back too,,,,
@tuckt6180 Жыл бұрын
@@debragiovine9797 with fringe benefits 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍👍👍👍
@Primitive_Code Жыл бұрын
Greeting people at Walmart at 58 years old, yes. Working at McDonald's at 58 years old, NO.
@suen5006 Жыл бұрын
@novakd1530 That's not the point. She may not have the stamina to do McDonald's. I certainly don't. I think she should point her to something physically easier, like customer service or clerical work.
@richardle7469 Жыл бұрын
McDonalds don't pay that much here.. I do armed security making 20
@drn13355 Жыл бұрын
58 isn't that old. Depends on how her body is. I work with RNs in their late 60s working ER and ICU on their feet for 12 hours doing hard work.
@lang6626 Жыл бұрын
@@drn13355I thought arms make good money to retire early 😢
@DebbieBennett-p5v Жыл бұрын
She probably lost all that 6 figure income to the illegal in the Netherlands. He's not here helping her . And parents! Stop getting parent student loans for your kids!
@Chele-nm4qx Жыл бұрын
I'm actually impressed how John handled this call. Normally he goes overboard with the troubles people & doesn't do anything for the people other than bring up more issues. So shout out to John this time. You don't need to dig to fix these peoples problems.
@Allergic2broke Жыл бұрын
Pray for Valerie and all people in her position 🙏
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
waste of time bro
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
About 27% of people who are 59 or older have no retirement savings
@Allergic2broke Жыл бұрын
@@drtij_dzienz that sucks
@Nonsense116 Жыл бұрын
McDonald's ain't paying 20/hour. That's what they put on the sign to get people into the door. She'd make a killin serving at a nice sitdown type place. So many of people my age don't see the importance of solid customer service. If she is able to show up, get the job done, and brighten people's day. I know people who make 6 figures working as a server at a kinda nice restaurant. Like $25-$30 a plate. Nice but nothing super crazy insane.
@DericAnslum Жыл бұрын
...they probably are...trick is they probably work her less than 20hrs a week...
@deborahmeek652911 ай бұрын
I am a server, make 70,000 a year but I am 40 been doing it a long time, it is very very physically taxing on your body
@Nonsense11611 ай бұрын
@@deborahmeek6529 absolutely it's taxing. There's definitely more money to be made out there. The vast majority of people would rather stay at their place than get a new job with better pay. Better the devil you know than the one you don't!
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
At 58? Waitressing is very hard physical work - she may have some left over physical challenges due to her accident. Plus, unfortunately, there is such a thing as ageism in this country. I truly hope things work out for her. And, yes, where the heck is this husband of hers in the picture ?
@nickgarcia4988 Жыл бұрын
So why doesn’t she live with the retired husband?…. Are we really not gonna ask the most obvious question?
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
I think they were so focused on fixing a total disaster that there wasn't time to address that. Yet that's a very valid point.
@EHull-c8qАй бұрын
Hubby is living with her.
@NSGLiv Жыл бұрын
Why is he telling her to work at McDonalds, dude didn’t even ask what her background was or if she had a degree, if she was making six figures at one time I’m sure she can do it again especially since she has all her physical facilities back, she needs to be able to retire, working about McDonalds isn’t going to get her there, I don’t like the McDonalds advice at all and it’s not a pride issue problem
@Adrian.adrian24 Жыл бұрын
Yup… John always takes calls and rambles then into useless crap.
@chazzkramer7676 Жыл бұрын
He used McDonald's as an example, as he saw $20 an hour on the sign. How did people get stuck on McDonald's???
@eurekahope5310 Жыл бұрын
I wish her the best!!!
@tdub10211 ай бұрын
financial problems can't be fixed if you're physically and emotionally sick. it really sucks.
@wWvWwWvWw11 ай бұрын
A greencard does not cost $5000.... maybe with flights but not for the filling fees alone... (I know, we've done it)
@MindsetMastery148 Жыл бұрын
making 6 figures and has no saving to 16/hr is insane
@michellebaily-defina644 Жыл бұрын
She said she used to make 6 figures now she makes 16 an hour.
@Manx123Ай бұрын
Many such cases!
@gdolly166 Жыл бұрын
Glad he jumped in with baby step priorities.
@DMBVR411 ай бұрын
This is one of the few times I would consider bankruptcy to start over clean along with finding that new job. Even three fast food jobs aren't going to make a dent in $60k all while trying to buy food and shelter right now.
@extremecarpetcleaning-wvwi86 Жыл бұрын
No McDonalds pays 20 an hour. Even in New York and California. Up to 20 is what the sign says. Usually it's around 11 to 15 an hour.
@henryjosuesanchezzelaya142 Жыл бұрын
There is a McDonald’s in Gandy Blvd which is next to the bridge that connects Saint Pete and Tampa, they were paying $20/hr. There is a McDonald’s in Saint Pete where they have been advertising $17/hr for most of the year, before it was at $19/hr. I’m sure NY and CA have multiple.
@InternetUser._ Жыл бұрын
In n out pays 22 an hour.
@t4876755 Жыл бұрын
In my area signs say $!5 per hour at McD's.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
@@t4876755 An ! ? Does that mean you name your wage? "I want this McDonald's to pay me $25/hr."
@bruh-q1g Жыл бұрын
people think it’s so easy to make 20 an hr, that’s the pay of most managers lmao it’s a lot even though it’s barely livable. the most i’ve been able to get over the past 6 years is $17 hr, but i was forced into a union that took $600 every 6 months and 5% of all my pay every paycheck 💀 unions are horrible when you’re broke, they don’t increase your income to pay for all the dues.
@Corkfish1 Жыл бұрын
How'd you get to 58 after making six figures and have nothing but debt??
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Boomer yolo
@Summer_haiku11 ай бұрын
Right sounds like poor planning and now freaking out. I don’t feel bad
@dappyfull10 ай бұрын
Poor life choices. It happens more often than you think
@RobGoldy Жыл бұрын
Holy fk I feel so bad for this woman I wish her the best in life
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
She Shoulda saved that six figure salary in a 401k and a 529, let that be a lesson to all the youngns watching today. You don’t have to retire fat in your 50s but you do need to prepare for unemployment and poor health in your 50s. Use a coast FIRE calculator to plan for it.
@jlava1575 Жыл бұрын
Are you just saying that because she's in your generation? Do you have the same sympathy for the younger generations that didn't have half the opportunities this lady had in her lifetime. Not that I don't feel bad, just playing devil's advocate here. To be clear her formative years were during the absolute best of economic circumstances and she blew it by being stupid.
@felipeoliveira2219 Жыл бұрын
Imagine Dave Ramsey taking this call...
@drn13355 Жыл бұрын
"honey you're broke"
@marshallhollins6185 Жыл бұрын
Why would you marry somebody 17 years older than you with no money smh
@littlesongbird1 Жыл бұрын
married for love I guess?
@suen5006 Жыл бұрын
@pumpkin6464 He's not illegal, she said she doesn't have money for a green card. It can take a long time for a spousal visa, like years!
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
Im happy that johndelony helped this caller emotionally. Its hard to get back on track when that person is down on their luck
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
Yes. Extreme stress/anxiety can render someone non-functional. John's got a heart.
@Jacob-wr7ch10 ай бұрын
This woman sounds like my mom. Anxiety ridden. She needs therapy or meds. Won’t fix the money problem but she shouldn’t stress as much as she is it’s not healthy.
@miggylol Жыл бұрын
I can’t even even with these comments. This woman is suffering through some real mental health issues. Debilitating anxiety is eating her alive and she doesn’t have the resources to go seek help and it has probably been this way for years. Y’all have a complete disregard for those struggling with mental health issues. @ the host, thank you for handling this like a champ. You changed this woman’s life.
@comment2250 Жыл бұрын
I would hardly say this call changed her life. There appears to be too much going on here for a moment of positive talk e.g. you're a champ, you're an amazing person, you're this that and the other.
@joesmith3590 Жыл бұрын
lol. Such. Emotional woman response. This woman has anxiety because she messed her life up and hasn’t addressed fixing it.
@joesmith3590 Жыл бұрын
Omg you are a man. No dad for sure.
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
@@joesmith3590 Getting in an accident and being disabled for 4 yrs and your perspective is she messed up her life. Wow.
@joesmith3590Ай бұрын
@@TLA123y6fso I am sure staying home when you haven’t saved for the first 54 years is going to help your mental situation. They are 75 and 58. That means they didn’t plan for life.
@sasukesuite1 Жыл бұрын
Student Caller: “My parents took out a PP loan and want me to pay!” Advice: “They signed for it, they pay!” Parent Caller: “I can’t afford the PP loan!” Advice: “Your kids need to help pay!”
@deannagillett218611 ай бұрын
I don’t agree. We did a Parent Loan for part of our kids education. They paid part, took the Stafford loan ($15,00/for 4 yrs), and we helped. If we needed the Parent Loan to help with that, it’s our responsibility.
@leatharay356510 ай бұрын
You do not have to pay for your children’s college.
@fredhammer6413 Жыл бұрын
“ GET ON WITH IT !!!! “
@David-wo9un Жыл бұрын
What happened to her six-figure job? If she is legally married, how is the husband here illegally?
@wreckers_band8825 Жыл бұрын
The process to get his green card cost money and she doesn't have any
@r3lativ3lyd3lib3r8 Жыл бұрын
@wreckers_band8825 He could go mow lawns and make some money under the table until he got the amount needed for the card. Like he's really just gonna sit around and be an extra mouth to feed? Not to mention she started saying he has properties and stuff in the Netherlands. He has money, he just refuses to use it to help her; they've not combined their lives and he's just sitting here "retired" watching her struggle and letting her feed him.
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
@@r3lativ3lyd3lib3r8 he’s 78 and retired af
@r3lativ3lyd3lib3r8 Жыл бұрын
@James_Hough She says in the call he's in the states right as they were cutting her off.
@ruthirwin8222 Жыл бұрын
@@r3lativ3lyd3lib3r8i thought she was going to say he had property in netherlands
@Gus_Chiggins Жыл бұрын
A green card isn’t $5,000
@JL-ly7me Жыл бұрын
It can be cheaper if you can do all the forms by yourself or even more expensive if you need help with the paperwork
@ricksanchezsflask8794 Жыл бұрын
There are a bunch of them in the UNO games
@ricksanchezsflask879411 ай бұрын
@anon1407 UNO card games
@gbutkus103 Жыл бұрын
Bro hate these callers calling in talking a bunch of bs
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Should have told her open mic night is on Wednesday.
@annehajdu865411 ай бұрын
Standup pays less than McDonald's.
@willelliott5052 Жыл бұрын
I wonder for how long she has been married to her foreign "husband". Something seems pretty off about that.
@alisummers7984 Жыл бұрын
Lots of places now prefer older workers as the younger generation , many tend to be lazier, and don’t stay at jobs long- I have many friends who own businesses and they all say they will take an older adult over a young twenty-something.. they say work ethic just seems to be better with the older generations.. and it appears true- I know this woman can get a better job- I wish her all the luck and that she attains peace with herself soon❤
@TNFVLOGS Жыл бұрын
She needs to try and get back into the field of making 100k.. I would look for a similar job that pays that type of money in the field she was at previously
@debragiovine9797 Жыл бұрын
All she needs to do is hop into a Time Machine and go back 30 years when she Was younger,,, and start looking for that 6 figure paying job,,,
@ricksanchezsflask8794 Жыл бұрын
We don't know what she did. Her six figure job could have been made obsolete or outsourced. She may not be able to do the physical aspects of it.
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
@@ricksanchezsflask8794 I've noticed that people love to judge others without knowing the whole story.
@JasonGroom Жыл бұрын
Just another example of this show contradicting itself. If he children call tomorrow and say that their mom told them that their education is covered, and took out loans to do it, and now want them to pay for it, they would tell those children that their parent's poor financial choice is not their problem to solve.
@JonathanIvy221 Жыл бұрын
“We as a couple.. that’s me” Lol what. This lady probably has a tech support husband in India.
@Bestfriend-65010 ай бұрын
Did you listen to the video?
@Stephan2P Жыл бұрын
Old people don't have to go through this.
@SO4JTV Жыл бұрын
P🙏R🙏A🙏Y🙏I🙏N🙏G for you Valerie from Atlanta Georgia!! ★Proverbs 3:5-8 “TRUST in the LORD with ALL your HEART and do NOT lean on your OWN understanding. 6) In ALL your ways ACKNOWLEDGE Him, and He will make your paths STRAIGHT. 7) Do NOT be WISE in your OWN EYES; FEAR the LORD and TURN AWAY from EVIL. It will be HEALING to your body and refreshment to your bones.”
@alvinsmith568611 ай бұрын
There’s more information that’s missing.
@James_Hough Жыл бұрын
I think she needs to see a doctor anyway. She is off kilter in a way that may have an organic cause. Needs to be checked out. Also, why do I not believe that she EVER made a genuine 6 figures? Why is she not even trying to get a job in the field she used to be in?
@Aaa0483 Жыл бұрын
Valerie, with 51 states, millions of mens around you pick up a retirement men overseas ??😮
@MsDezB1 Жыл бұрын
...with no green card. Or money. I really wish Dave had this call.
@Aaa0483 Жыл бұрын
@@MsDezB1 agree with you
@1981lashlarue Жыл бұрын
51 states? Have we added one that I'm not aware of?
@baconblaster6422 Жыл бұрын
51 states huh
@dennis.teevee Жыл бұрын
didn't know Puerto Rico is a state now
@Esmeraldalunamaria Жыл бұрын
The reason I decided to work closely with a brokerage adviser ever since the market got really tense and the pressure became so much(should be retiring in 17months) so I've had a brokerage adviser guide me through the chaos, its been 9months and counting and I've made approx. 650K net from all of my holdings.
@Isabellajuana Жыл бұрын
Passive income is truly the dream! It is a great joy to know that your money multiplies while you sleep.
@Kelvinmeans79 Жыл бұрын
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@macpduff2119 Жыл бұрын
Something about this woman that strikes me as being inauthentic. Is this her 3rd call to a radio talk show? What is she after? I don't believe her story.
@tonymason663710 ай бұрын
To everyone making comments like "there's more to this story that we're missing" - I say thee, "duh". This is a call-in radio show, where the call lasted 12 minutes. We're not going to hear the entire story in 12 minutes.
@lucianosuarez9563 Жыл бұрын
Pride is self respect! , and is nothing to do with arrogance, vanity or superb ...
@Prettymom619 Жыл бұрын
The second you said that Mc Donald’s was hiring for $20 an hour her tone changed lmfaooo
@andreacomiskey2249 Жыл бұрын
He also didnt say the small print…up to $20…that is for a manager probably full time
@Prettymom619 Жыл бұрын
@@andreacomiskey2249 it was funny to me because a lot of people will cry and say they can’t work but if you mention working in fast food then suddenly they’re too good to work there. That is why it’s funny.
@randomutubr222 Жыл бұрын
Nah a manager at McDonalds makes OK money. Not great by any means… but $65k-$100k with benefits depending on location. Not a lot but more than hourly at $20.
@Prettymom619 Жыл бұрын
@@randomutubr222 it’s more than what she is currently making
@eggsinsideme Жыл бұрын
Mine would too if that was at all true. These guys have no idea what McDonald’s actually pays out in the country.
@valerieann2751 Жыл бұрын
I’m wondering if this woman had a private disability insurance with her previous employer. If so, she can probably get paid because she is no longer able to do the job she currently had due to disability. That will help immensely. And her current mental health issues w may also lead to a disability diagnosis. And goodness, her grown children need to help this poor woman.
@gordonmccracken1209 Жыл бұрын
In Atlanta GA (ITP) I believe you can deliver food for Uber with a bicycle or electric scooter. I can understand if health may impede doing such though.
@blaquopaque Жыл бұрын
5% annual return is easily thrown out there for illustrative purposes, but not so easy to achieve! Recently my $2m holdings have been fluctuating 8% up and 20% down. I want to know; Hold on or sell off my positions and hold cash?
@Curbalnk Жыл бұрын
If you're having trouble hitting 5% annually, I would advise you to speak with a market strategist or obtain some financial guidance. Even though the returns on your equity investments are not linear, you may achieve 7.4% in less than a year.
@greekbarrios Жыл бұрын
this is huge! mind if I look up the advisor that guides you please? i only invest in my 401k through my employer for now, but enthused about diversifying my investments for a prosperous financial future
@greekbarrios Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I must say, Monica appears to be quite knowledgeable. After coming across her web page, I went through her resume and it was quite impressive. I reached out and scheduled a call
@ginoturano6821 Жыл бұрын
I'm getting 6 percent on a savings
@BaconMountainMan Жыл бұрын
You can get 5% on a high yield savings account. If you're dealing with 20% losses, you are in higher risk stuff ... Might be a good time to revisit your allocations.
@chrischristensen1478 Жыл бұрын
Honestly might be able to declare bankruptcy, even on the student loans. The Justice Department has become far more accommodating with discharging those loans over the last few years.
@c2s2942 Жыл бұрын
These two should be the future of Ramsey solutions
@samrusoff11 ай бұрын
They're great but Jade needs to be included as well
@diannemc317910 ай бұрын
@@samrusoff Jade is awesome👍🏻
@nordikcajun54175 ай бұрын
Green card doesn’t cost that much money. What a bologna
@hrishikeshkarale9928 Жыл бұрын
Not a failure as long as u fighting to win
@nnyv0040 Жыл бұрын
jobs need to pay more. you shouldn't have to be working 2 or 3 jobs to survive.
@kiki1197411 ай бұрын
Agreed. But I also think that regardless of salary that she’s made some odd decisions. Not sure why getting married to a man in another country who cannot come to the US would ever make sense
@edwardflores4846 Жыл бұрын
Lady please get to the point
@untouchable360x Жыл бұрын
Too late for her. She's been working 30 plus years and was making good money. If she invested all her money instead of making bad decisions, she would've been in a different situation. Marrying an illegal who cannot work was not a good decision.
@drn13355 Жыл бұрын
"marrying an illegal"? The f does that mean? Anyone from the Netherlands is "an illegal" I retired form the military last year 3 combat deployments and my wife is from Estonia. You ever call her "an illegal" in my presence and your face is going through a wall.
@thehungrywolf69 Жыл бұрын
She needs her family… it’s sad she’s on her own… 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@dennis.teevee Жыл бұрын
"six figure income", doing what?
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Probably generic office bs, then got replaced by someone younger who knew how to use Microsoft office and print pdfs
@fishmonger7020 Жыл бұрын
Remind me why she can’t do the old job?
@Sarnarath Жыл бұрын
She sounds super anxious and stressed. She needs to relax and maybe listen to Alan Watts and Eckhart Tolle and Boards of Canada music
@richardle7469 Жыл бұрын
Ken lasted 2 weeks at McDonalds.. i worked 4years . And at 21, worked 2 McDonalds jobs.. after 6months riding bike... i said fuxk this, and joined army. ... after army picked wrong MOS. Now work security and still .. at least i know if i am close to homeless , i would have help. ...
@arfriedman457710 ай бұрын
This husband sounds like he needs to get a job to help her. Its strange, the husband is in another country, cant come to usa.
@tubenachos Жыл бұрын
Valerie stop feeling sorry for yourself and make it happen. Jeezus stop being a victim
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
She’s a victim of not saving in 401k and 529 during her six figure days
@Dr.irenebuenavistamolina Жыл бұрын
She needs a mental health provider that can prescribe antidepressants or anxiolytics as soon as possible. Her anxiety is way through the hoops, she has to fix her state of mind first, otherwise, no amounts of coaching will work.
@jcherestal Жыл бұрын
By chugging down Prescription pills are you serious
@drn13355 Жыл бұрын
If she could start seeing progress on the debt she might not even need them. She feels hopeless right now. What I don't get is her husband situation. She said he is retired, but does he have no money?
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
You are absolutely 100 % correct. I've been there.
@blackspiderman1887 Жыл бұрын
Hey George. I just want to say i support you and Dave was wrong for calling you out like that on air many days ago on the 4% withdraw without checking your video first. Even if he didn't agree, he didn't have behave the way he did on air like that. He needs to apologize to you on air. I sure hope your making an escape plan
@jerrydixon3862 Жыл бұрын
Whoa what happened?
@blackspiderman1887 Жыл бұрын
@@jerrydixon3862 KZbin or someone removed my response lol
@bmc9587 Жыл бұрын
He's no Frasier Crane
@aznsumthing Жыл бұрын
Two minutes in and haven’t gotten to the point. I can’t do it.
@curiouscat3384 Жыл бұрын
Me too - she's like a drowning person pulling me down with her. Nothing useful to listen to here.
@TLA123y6fАй бұрын
@@curiouscat3384 This isn't about you. She's in a horrible position that is taking a huge toll on her mentally/emotionally and she's calling for help. Geez. You people are something else.
@onicamary12311 ай бұрын
These callers make me think they are handing out six figure salaries left and right without any hard skills lol
@cookies4582 Жыл бұрын
This lady is being lied to by the enemy telling her shes no good and shes a failure that is the lie from the pits of h*ll rebuke that right now in the name of Jesus praying for her 🙏❤
@fishroy1997 Жыл бұрын
Bankruptcy. She might pass the Brunner test to doscharge thr parent plus loans.
@larrygunn3796 Жыл бұрын
The New American Dream.
@jasonleatherwood2172 Жыл бұрын
16$ a hour welcome to the real world most people make 16-20$ a hour
@owenson7969 Жыл бұрын
16h is poverty. Im 25 yrs old making double that. Her situation at her age making 16h is very sad. Especially coming from 6 figures.
@MrJimmy3459 Жыл бұрын
That's far from being true, average income is 58k a year well above $20 an hour
@BrianW211 Жыл бұрын
@@owenson7969 $16/hour is not officially below the poverty line in any state.
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@owenson7969 32 an hour doing what exactly
@nightfangs2910 Жыл бұрын
@@MrJimmy3459where is that?? I'm in Massachusetts and most jobs here pay 16-22 per hr and Massachusetts is one of the most expensive states in the country
@Manx1232 ай бұрын
Hmm, obviously, telling somebody like her to just work fast-food jobs is bullshit, but she actually bought it. One day, perhaps, there’ll be a sob story so _prima facie_ hopeless that no financial guru will say anything but, politely, “You’re fucked.”
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
What McDonalds is hiring for $20 an hour?
@dearestdarling9467 Жыл бұрын
I see that sign in a lot of places, but I’m in MA. Starbucks and Taco Bell are hiring managers for $25 and hour. I can’t imagine employees are too far behind
@r3lativ3lyd3lib3r8 Жыл бұрын
Usually it's for management. The sign just says that to entice people to apply.
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
@@dearestdarling9467 Well MA is $15 minimum wage.
@kendrapratt2098 Жыл бұрын
Is Arby’s open in the morning, John?
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
There is one by me that does open in the morning. They have really good breakfast sandwiches. Who knew?
@howtodiy12310 ай бұрын
The husband can open a small business with his ITIN. I been working with this type of businesses.
@EuroEnthusiast1990 Жыл бұрын
Why would you work for 16 when you can make 20 just about anywhere right now.
@catherinewilke558311 ай бұрын
Why the heck is a 58 year old woman married to a 75 year old man. This is super fishy.
@DiaJasin11 күн бұрын
Hi Wreck, I'm Dad
@Fred1294 Жыл бұрын
Maybe she can try working more then 9 hours a day with that kind of debt. I have no debt and work a minimum of 12 hours a day.
@stevelarson6384 Жыл бұрын
this woman is just nuts.....slow DOWN!!!! Breathe......quit your job...find other ones.....$16/hr is going to fly.......find the right jobs....
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@ericbergman7546 Жыл бұрын
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@christopherherbert2407 Жыл бұрын
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@rodgertim2881 Жыл бұрын
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@kasession Жыл бұрын
I want to know what she did for 6 figures. And why her kids NOT paying these loans.
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Parent plus loans are taken out by the parent and owed by the parent. That’s why her kids don’t pay them
@evanswilson8369 Жыл бұрын
The wisest thought that is in everyone's minds today is to invest in different income flows that do not depend on the government, especially with the current economic crisis around the world. This is still a good time to invest in gold, silver and digital currencies (BTC, ETH.... stock,silver and gold)
@drsallygeoffrey2900 Жыл бұрын
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@mrjonesowen1070 Жыл бұрын
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@naomiking828710 ай бұрын
I wish people could just get to the point
@SpacecityAtv Жыл бұрын
Have yall thought about telling people to uber? Ive heard its good income
@mbank3832 Жыл бұрын
This country really needs to stop spoiling kids and teach them to have hearts. They move out early to impress their friends and their boyfriend/girlfriend (at the moment) and abandoning their parents, and then asking mommy and daddy to pay for college (what happened to independence ?). Now their parents need help, they just gonna shrug it off and think it is not their problem. If this is the type of kids I will be having, I will stay being single
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
The typical parent plus loan goes like this. Kid is graduating HS with little motivation or direction. Parent feels bad because their peers’ kids are all going to good universities. Parent wants to push kids into college. “Hey kid, you should go to college” “mom, I CANT go to college because I don’t have the money to pay for it and you didn’t save any like Jimmy and Mindy’s parents did.” “Honey, going to college is the best thing you can do. I went to college and make six figures now. I have taken out loans for you to go to college, don’t worry about them, I just want to see my child succeed” “k mom guess I will go to college then” then later parent gets the good ego feeling of telling Jimmy and mindy’s mom their kid is also going to college. It’s years later, parent ability to work is breaking down everything gets twisted “you SAID you would pay the loans back once you started working, I need to retire!!!” “Mom, I never wanted to go to college. You boomer took out the loans to push me. I majored in communications and work at Starbucks rn. After rent, car loan, groceries, I have nothing left to pay off your loans” Kids who are motivated to go to college will make it happen. Scholarships or sign the loans out themselves.
@janelleg597 Жыл бұрын
Breakfast serving job. Dang
@kathya1956 Жыл бұрын
George, did you get reprimanded?
@debragiovine9797 Жыл бұрын
She is 58 year old. It’s call age discrimination ,,, that’s why she can’t get a half way good Paying job,,, once you reach a 6 figure salary the age and time is against you,,,Companies Let employees go by downsizing,,Once you reach a certain age,,, you are old in the corporate World, it happens all the time,,, And all the pep talk,, by Dr John,,, is not going to chance her life situation,,,, unless Doctor gives her a Time Machine,,,,
@drn13355 Жыл бұрын
She isn't going to get a 6 figure job. She is going to be working at Arby's. Arby's aint going to fire her for age discrimination. Places like that are so desperate for help they will let her work until she is 100.
@NoRegertsHere Жыл бұрын
Probably some other barriers she needs to get over before she is an issue with her
@catherinewilke558311 ай бұрын
Agree. I was happily working at almost 50, and then two of my same aged colleagues and I were all let go. Seems the admins decided that we were too expensive. Age discrimination is alive and well in the American economy.
@tetra3ne56scur3 Жыл бұрын
Does her husband not have a green card? Clue not from America There will be other problems coming up later on the future
@kiki1197411 ай бұрын
I dont get why she doesn’t get a visa to live in the Netherlands