I have the same problem, but I’m not a doctor or a multi-millionaire...
@corrinjames3053 жыл бұрын
lol
@whatintheworld94343 жыл бұрын
Haha
@immaculatepeter55293 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 the struggle
@karenchikuku87733 жыл бұрын
Lol
@financewithian20523 жыл бұрын
Haha!
@biriqueen25783 жыл бұрын
"You don't need motivation. You need a mission." I felt that.
@MRiGOin233 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how I read this as he said it 🔥
@coachcarroll9633 жыл бұрын
Lemme guess Queen , you do hair and eyelashes
@MRiGOin233 жыл бұрын
@@coachcarroll963 that’s unnecessary... she could be applying that to anything in her life.
@biriqueen25783 жыл бұрын
@@coachcarroll963 Incorrect. But, good guess!
@kiethlowry28623 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate to that statement
@Casinogirl563 жыл бұрын
The minute my financial advisor told me I could retire I put my notice in so fast I had a smoke trail behind me. Just quit already, life is too short.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Do you mind if I ask the sum and your age when you received that advice? I ask because I could retire now but I’m uncomfortable about it.
@Casinogirl563 жыл бұрын
@@genxx2724 the sum is....enough for me to be comfortable and I was 64.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
@@Casinogirl56 Good for you!
@pataleno3 жыл бұрын
@@Casinogirl56 absolutely if I could afford to retire I’d be gone today.
@choosetoshine26103 жыл бұрын
Good for you!. Live!
@aaronschen98963 жыл бұрын
She is obviously bright, type A personality, and completely financially secure. She needs the advice of a therapist or life coach not a financial planner.
@marisol0333 жыл бұрын
I need she needs God in her life. Most of the time we all have stepped away from God. I would say she needs to give of her time to those in need.
@eldritchpumpkinghost29683 жыл бұрын
@@marisol033 lol no
@tentimetex3 жыл бұрын
Yes a therapist to understand why she took the Hippocratic oath in the first place.
@grancanariaforvacations73033 жыл бұрын
I thought the same
@ImNotADeeJay3 жыл бұрын
@@marisol033 here we go with the religious nonsense
@maryberon41933 жыл бұрын
Quit her job, take care of her mom, enjoy her music! Life is short, you never know when it all be over.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
She has to work to age 60 for the health insurance.
@nazbah59293 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@beautiful201063 жыл бұрын
@@genxx2724 I thought 65
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
@@beautiful20106 That’s the Medicare retirement age. She said her employer provides health insurance to retirees at age 60.
@nicholaslyons7983 жыл бұрын
🔥!!!!
@KK-itiswell3 жыл бұрын
Job burn out is real. With or without saved money. She is smart to have saved hers. Talking as a medical professional who can relate
@Ms-Jones3 жыл бұрын
Yep...burnout is real
@LG123ABC3 жыл бұрын
You've got that right. I've been in sales for over 30 years and I can totally relate.
@LGnLA3 жыл бұрын
Especially after this year... a real eye opener for lots of folks!!
@philipgerry52283 жыл бұрын
No matter how exciting the job, they get old after 20 years.
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart3 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of folks in my circle who work in medicine and really make good money. I sense that lots of them are inadvertently in some rat-race about more money, better cars, bigger houses. They work crazy hours, make half million a year, but little life except at the parties. It seems like this is a kind of "danger" that is easy to fall into. As a radical solution, a lesson in minimalism comes to mind
@jamessalvatore113 жыл бұрын
You can tell how intelligent she is just by listening to her speak.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
She’s also very gracious.
@karlasosa53043 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly!
@carlcampbell68273 жыл бұрын
James Salvatore - I lived in her city for many years, and have seen all the medical facilities: and am guessing she is Asian.
@rickyrick93283 жыл бұрын
thank you for that
@franco5213 жыл бұрын
@@carlcampbell6827 Now that I read that I think I have to agree. Saving. Doctor. Takes care of parents. Plays instruments.
@dbrandon45283 жыл бұрын
She even sounds like a doctor.
@annadaae263 жыл бұрын
Like a newsreader learns to speak like a newsreader. It's an authoritative voice that tells people not to question what they are saying to them.
@theatomic4309 ай бұрын
Meh.
@stwida916 ай бұрын
She simply speaks like an educated individual with an above-average vocabulary. There are pros and cons to this. Sometimes the inability to 'turn this off' or adjust your speaking based on your audience indicates that you're missing something, socially, and can cause people to distance themselves from you. I previously had a boss who couldn't say a single sentence, no matter how mundane it should have been, without overvomplicating the vocabulary. Instead of saying "We need to double check the report to make sure it's not wrong before sending it out" the sentence would unnecessarily become "Prior to distribution of this information to the necessary related parties, we should reconcile and validate the output in order to ensure accuracy and completeness." Same message, different tone, and sometimes one is tone-DEAF.
@champagne4bfast5 ай бұрын
@@stwida91I think I might do this a little bit. I read a lot of research articles and jargon is hard to turn off when it feels like you’re using language in the moment that is reasonable and specific.
@BrandonMinguez3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks she could transition in careers to voice an answering machine or GPS navigation? Good for her in having these thoughts and trying to not have regrets later in life!
@darrenruben41083 жыл бұрын
I agree
@shannon27483 жыл бұрын
Later in life??? She's 47, not 97.
@BrandonMinguez3 жыл бұрын
@@shannon2748 That's what my point was. It's great that she's asking these questions at only 47 with so much time ahead of her. Since she's asking them now, she hopefully won't have any regrets when she does turn 97.
@sheldon63073 жыл бұрын
Agreed, she got the voice
@asavannah74392 жыл бұрын
She has a very pleasant voice, you're right
@vallieg543 жыл бұрын
My favorite doctor ever is my kid's pediatrician who always says "I'm not the wealthiest in my med school class, but I have the most grandchildren out of everyone" (said with a huge beaming smile on his face). He is truly content with his career and personal life. I respect this OBGYN for her success but I think she's lamenting that she doesn't have a higher purpose in life aside from career.
@jessa98772 жыл бұрын
Having children isn't for everyone
@raleigh27472 жыл бұрын
@@jessa9877 true but, like the op said, she is missing some sense of purpose. That doesn’t only come from kids.
@TheDougSpot2 жыл бұрын
@@jessa9877 That’s probably what someone told her that lead her to this point in her life🤷🏾♂️ It’s obvious that her problem is that money and career means nothing to her, and she’s looking for another purpose, but it’s too late
@bobjacobson8582 жыл бұрын
@@TheDougSpot At 47 it's really not too late. As long as she has her mental and physical abilities, she can decide to do whatever she wants (but probably not including giving birth to her own babies), and can do it for a couple decades or more. However, I agree that she should still try to keep one foot in medicine, at least for a while. Although I was into music decades ago but went into another field, I got back into it a few years ago at age 67, and I've been having a wonderful time since. (I retired from another field shortly before my 61st birthday to take care of my aging parents, but have done a few years of consulting since then.
@alqoshgirl10 ай бұрын
@@jessa9877it is for 99% of people. Her life is pretty pointless and you can literally hear the emptiness in her voice. No kids, no spouse. What’s it for? Her dying parents?
@CZsWorld3 жыл бұрын
There are going to be a lot of retired doctors after this pandemic ends...
@bettysmith45273 жыл бұрын
Not just doctors, nurses, mid level providers, etc.
@foredimples5293 жыл бұрын
And teachers
@FlutterSwag3 жыл бұрын
Guess their dancing skills werent up to par
@samjordan88003 жыл бұрын
Teachers? Naw, they're still resisting reopening the schools some places!!!
@thomasthumim76303 жыл бұрын
And dead beat dads
@kingali16063 жыл бұрын
This is why smart saving and investing is so important, not necessarily to retire, but to never be in the position where you have no choice but to do something you hate in order to get by.
@blackworldtraveler37113 жыл бұрын
Yeah not necessarily to retire but an option among many when financially sound.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
It’s FU money.
@Sarvagya43 жыл бұрын
unfortunately money saved up and having everything in place like zero debt also creates unnecessary possibilities in your head that you can quit and do what you want. its like a menu with too many food options. you cant make up your mind. having single point focus when you just work and make money allows you to be free of thoughts like "am i unhappy in my job"
@blackworldtraveler37113 жыл бұрын
@@Sarvagya4 Not talking about unstable people.
@AsIronSharpensIron9 ай бұрын
Well said.
@robhaynes46953 жыл бұрын
38yrs old . Near millionaire and I do not want to work more than I must. Life is short and I want to enjoy more than what work can provide.
@coolafternoons89303 жыл бұрын
I got 62 more years bruh
@HamiltonRb3 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on what you get out of working and why you work. If you don’t especially like your work, then financial independence gives you the opportunity to cover your expenses and do something you enjoy more, whether it be hobbies, travel or a different kind of work that you enjoy. My wife and I are both in careers we love, in our early 60’s and financially could have retired years ago, so it comes down to what you are passionate about.
@Shadowwind43 жыл бұрын
Can I have some money?
@alecsmith9043 жыл бұрын
Read rich dad poor dad
@eyubmusayev7853 жыл бұрын
He is BS! He is lying to you! He wants to sell he’s books, that’s all he want.
@meerars49063 жыл бұрын
Ken started smiling when the lady started talking. Same with me....she sounds soooooo confident and graceful.
@brendanb43613 жыл бұрын
My goodness, her ability to thank others for their thoughts and then state that “we’re on the same page” affords her such an insane level of confidence and standing in the conversation.
@faizanalvi39328 ай бұрын
Its just the way doctors talk to patients were taught to talk to patients that way
@BrotherhoodWorkshop3 жыл бұрын
Holy cow this woman rocks.
@SwayzeeSoul3 жыл бұрын
She rocks so much she never got married or had children. Red flags all over the place.
@david17310483 жыл бұрын
@@SwayzeeSoul sounds smart to me!
@HamiltonRb3 жыл бұрын
@@SwayzeeSoul There are many ways to feel fulfilled in life, and marriage and children aren’t for everyone. My wife is a physician, the same as this lady, and we have children, but don’t enjoy the piano that she does, so we are all different
@youtuber61853 жыл бұрын
That’s why she called up, she was wanting tell us about it
@666dynomax3 жыл бұрын
@@SwayzeeSoul thats up to her... whys that a red flag
@baronb.75453 жыл бұрын
I’m a Multi-Thousandaire Pizza Delivery Man Unmotivated to Work Another 13 Years
@AK-jt9gx3 жыл бұрын
Big baller over here... same man, same.
@stevenporter8633 жыл бұрын
Sounds like: I have a problem. My Porsche is in the shop and I really can't decide between the Mercedes or Ferrari.😆
@CooterELee3 жыл бұрын
*dave Ramsey impression * What do you like about delivering pizzas? What do you not like about delivering pizzas? lol
@stevenporter8633 жыл бұрын
@@CooterELee So true.
@sarahburggraf9073 жыл бұрын
Laugh if you want, but as a thousandaire your doing better than most Americans who cant save a dollar if their lives depend on it.
@talyahr33023 жыл бұрын
What if she flipped the table completely and worked ONLY weekends, holidays, & emergencies. Most her time goes back to being hers!
@DrGoldieMD3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea!
@gardenofe123 жыл бұрын
Yes !! That’s a great idea !! She spent so much time in school and paid so much for medical school !!
@danielleterry1803 жыл бұрын
Her parents are elderly and not in nursing home so working weekends and hollidays wouldn’t be what she wants I got the impression she spends her time she has with them while they are still here
@rachelgooden99813 жыл бұрын
Yes a lot of docs opt for that. The medical insurance is real though. One disease can wipe one out.
@JDAfrica3 жыл бұрын
You can tell she’s an all in or all out kind of lady. But, one thing having kids does - is force you to balance ur time. She can work half days, she can get a healthcare worker to care for her parents for the time she’s at work. There’s more options than do what she’s been doing - or do nothing at all.
@RRAREBEAR3 жыл бұрын
Just listening to the clear and concise way she speaks in the first 30 seconds you can tell this woman is EXTREMELY intelligent.
@michaeldalton83743 жыл бұрын
Or put another way- Very commonplace about 35 years ago. The devolution is real.
@HazeLmao2 жыл бұрын
@@michaeldalton8374 her eloquence is not the norm even in the past.
@rally_chronicles10 ай бұрын
I'm surprised many of you can string sentences together
@LawrenceTimme9 ай бұрын
Yet she has no kids so genes are dead. Sad really.
@Mischiou9 ай бұрын
@@rally_chroniclesIsn't it cold up there in your Ivory tower? Beware, it's a long way down... Assuming you are one of those self claimed intellectuals, who look down on delivery boys and toilet cleaners. Highly intelligent species like yourself, ought to know about the 'black plague'. I recall it had something to do with hygiene... I pray to God that one day, you'll be forced to clean up your own shit or have to get your hands dirty, just like us commoners.
@adrias46853 жыл бұрын
This woman has singlehandedly destroyed every molecule of pride I had in what I thought I could call a strong work ethic. If you need me I'll be off in my corner in fetal position
@AlPha-nc6ih3 жыл бұрын
Those fries aren’t gonna fry themselves! Get back to work lol
@adrias46853 жыл бұрын
@@AlPha-nc6ih lol time to up my game! People will be asking all concerned-like why I'm running myself into the ground, and my only utterance will be some garbled mumbling about the KZbin baby doctor lady and something about Dave Ramsey
@littleviolagirl3 жыл бұрын
Why live by someone else's metric? If you think you work hard and enjoy what you do, keep going!
@adrias46853 жыл бұрын
@@littleviolagirl I'm mostly just joking, but you're absolutely right! 💯
@georgewagner77872 жыл бұрын
Part time 60 hours
@Jdhdbsbsjdnraqowirjfndksjdndj3 жыл бұрын
I was burned out and don’t have millions in savings. I sold my tiny condo and bought an RV and an RV lot in Colorado at Chateau Chaparral. Now I’m debt free and can travel. I’m still suffering from job burnout but now I can breathe! Just went on a big hike today and starting to de-stress and feel healthy again.
@fredericksharon69083 жыл бұрын
Nice my man 🙌🙌🙌
@NicE-jq3wv3 жыл бұрын
How do you pay for insurance? Or do you? That’s what traps us all until 65
@andrewsnyder92623 жыл бұрын
@@NicE-jq3wv forego the insurance...I pay cash for medical needs vs spending $10k+ per year for insurance
@TexasGirl16333 жыл бұрын
Good for you!! Sounds like a wonderful life!
@MasterBror3 жыл бұрын
How is it going now? Anything you can share?
@derrikbarnett98033 жыл бұрын
=She needs to find herself. Her whole life she has been too structured and she needs to go out and "live a little".
@bryandelcid40653 жыл бұрын
Man no wonder a lot of older doctors appear to be burned out. 50-60hrs per week for part time??? That’s crazy. I would burnt out really fast
@Stoneface_3 жыл бұрын
Yep many are working 90-100 hours a week. The burnout rate is extremely high for physicians.
@jaideepchahal4913 жыл бұрын
@@Stoneface_ It’s like that pretty much everywhere that you get paid a high salary. Law, finance etc.
@annajones97013 жыл бұрын
Finance is worst. Burn out is 2-3 years in investment banking. Then go and do other job.
@alexcoop5223 жыл бұрын
@@Stoneface_ they dont work that much they get paid like 200k for one simple surgery after payments and interest easy
@HunkyMonkey12033 жыл бұрын
@@alexcoop522 good joke
@farmsquatter6252 жыл бұрын
Her sentence was so precise, structured and clear. what a badass woman ... Absolute alpha...Glad she is doing great in her life.
@NUFCOfficial Жыл бұрын
But she will have 0 legacy and in 10 years all of her money is worthless to her
@coolandclassic7717 Жыл бұрын
@@NUFCOfficialHer legacy may not lie with her descendants, but with the hours she has poured into caring for her patients and her parents. Heck, I don’t even know or care about my ancestors past my grandparents.
@TurboAuss Жыл бұрын
@@coolandclassic7717glad you said this, i don’t know why people have this idea in their head the only legacy a person can create is with children. there’s a million reasons why she may not want or can’t have kids. she’s dedicating her life to patients and her parents, that’s a better legacy than 99% of ppl with kids.
@chevysaregr811 ай бұрын
Thats the reason she doesn't have a man
@acruzro9510 ай бұрын
@TurboAuss you talking like if having kids and being g a doctor are mutually exclusive. Why Americans trap themselves into binary choices? All these Harvard schools and MITs and NYUs to then say black or white, guns or no guns, kids or job, Democrat or republican. Etc. Obviously she can take care of kids and also patients like millions of other doctors in the US and all over the world.
@swn693 жыл бұрын
I'm 51 and I quit working. Life's too short. 20 year military pension, 13 year LE pension and investments. I ain't rich, but I do whatever I want every day. I'm comfortable.
@kuryanthomas14383 жыл бұрын
as long as you dont have a need in the world, u are all set! Good Job! Enjoy your early retirement!!!!
@anonymous-rz6zj9 ай бұрын
You are rich with options
@vergespierre42719 ай бұрын
Better than 90 percent of Americans
@DP-vo2kb3 жыл бұрын
She should work as a doctor part time. She already has enough money saved, and that way she can take care of her parents.
@skajs4263 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@sugeymancia58063 жыл бұрын
That's what she said. She is already part time
@samod19903 жыл бұрын
She said she is working part time, and in doctor's world that's 50 to 60 hours a week.
@LG123ABC3 жыл бұрын
@@sugeymancia5806 Her version of part time and my version of part time are completely different.
@sugeymancia58063 жыл бұрын
@@LG123ABC so true
@msheehandub3 жыл бұрын
Also in healthcare, no debt, six figure savings but I've worked myself to the point I have no desire to do anything. I'm gonna take this advice and cut back my work and make room for hobbies
@MegaBpop3 жыл бұрын
You need to put yourself first and find the hobby that brings you joy! Congrats!
@JMian3 жыл бұрын
yes I work in healthcare. But nowhere near your situation. Congratulations
@Opethfeldt2 жыл бұрын
@@JMian Yeah, that sounds genuine lol.
@theatomic4309 ай бұрын
Okay.
@Mischiou9 ай бұрын
Wow, healthcare in some professions, really pays off. Both my mom and dad busted their asses, cleaning in hospital and side jobs. Both saving money, giving it all they had, but could barely make ends meet. Good for you to be so succesful and pity you got a burn out, but I'm certain the gratification of seeing your patients actually 'heal' and patient numbers decreasing in general is very rewarding, right?
@As_A________Commenter3 жыл бұрын
She wasn’t doing the usual “I have this much money” flex that many callers do, and was interesting to listen to, polite, and receptive to their advice.... but none of that made her safe from the Ramsey mute finger
@DewTime3 жыл бұрын
Idk, I felt like it was a flex. But I don’t really mind it I like hearing the stories
@tomvonneefe42693 жыл бұрын
Lol the ramsey mute finger. I love that name, but hate that he did it to her.
@BenjesBride3 жыл бұрын
@@tomvonneefe4269 The commercial break music had started
@Bao1713 жыл бұрын
It’s called the sunk cost fallacy. She feels that if she leaves the medical profession she feels guilty because she has invested her whole life into it. It’s ok to pivot and move on.
@amazingjason4553 жыл бұрын
It is reassuring to know that we have smart, competent, responsible people like this in our society. She makes the world better.
@kuryanthomas14383 жыл бұрын
very well to have already saved 3.7 million at age 47 at 200k a year. I know a lot of doctors who make more than that who are holder and dont have that much saved!
@kuryanthomas14383 жыл бұрын
oh ok she did make over 300k for a long time, so that helps, still saved very well!
@Alexis-wh2de3 жыл бұрын
@Mark T she did say she take care of aging parents. There is a possibility they owned a home but sold it to live with their daughter, or maybe she lives in the same house with them and so never had to pay extra housing costs 🤷
@vchafab3 жыл бұрын
@Mark T Yes I was just trying to figure out the same thing. This is where we live and my husband and I make 180k and we just about live paycheck to paycheck after we max out our retirements.
@blackworldtraveler37113 жыл бұрын
@Mark T Just because you have the power to buy don’t mean you have to. People that handle their money well don’t contribute to buying power. This responsible woman knows her priorities. Only broke people create most of the buying power anyway. Just ask MasterCard,Visa, or the FOMO crowd.
@theflightsimulationexperie68943 жыл бұрын
@Mark T absolutely 100 percent true.
@iay83343 жыл бұрын
I love calls like this from successful people. So inspirational, more please!
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
Ramsey’s target audience isn’t successful people. It’s unsophisticated people who are in financial trouble and need to learn the basics. Successful people are elsewhere, such as The Money Guy.
@WeBeatMedicare69692 жыл бұрын
I love hearing these stories to make me feel bad about myself lol
@LucyI-lllАй бұрын
Honestly😊❤
@BrianVelez3 жыл бұрын
Think she may need a sugar baby? 🤔
@WhyPee243 жыл бұрын
How do I see you here everytime😂
@BrianVelez3 жыл бұрын
@@WhyPee24 I seriously spend all my free time watching financial channels 🤣
@britneyog95373 жыл бұрын
😂
@talyahr33023 жыл бұрын
Best comment 😂
@yoshialv97103 жыл бұрын
yea she need me
@TL-ms6lp3 жыл бұрын
This woman is goals.
@cdw2223 жыл бұрын
I feel like a big part of her dilema was being able to be there for her parents, and they didn’t acknowledge that much.
@abdallababikir44733 жыл бұрын
it'd be too much to handle in one call
@jasonk87933 жыл бұрын
She doesn't have 3.7 million to live on at age 47. 2.1 million of it is in 401k
@katemiller78742 жыл бұрын
They just saw dollar signs.
@CaseyBurnsInvesting3 жыл бұрын
This lady is on another level.
@GiantsWS3 жыл бұрын
Yep - another level of sad and pathetic. No family, no children, probably no husband. Such a waste of an intelligent mind.
@achavez783 жыл бұрын
Bruh I always see you commenting!
@siddheshmirjankar9103 жыл бұрын
@@GiantsWS Is it compulsory to get married and have kids? Imo being single saves you a lot of money in the long run to enjoy life
@kayw17713 жыл бұрын
@@GiantsWS her intelligence contributed to the safe and healthy carriage and delivery of babies. Not a waste at all. She’s been a blessing to many families. Everyone’s happiness and existence isn’t wrapped up in or dependent on the existence of another. You go have yourself a spouse and children and don’t worry yourself about her choices especially when they do not negatively impact your life at all.
@maljones13983 жыл бұрын
@@GiantsWS She has immediate family . She’s a Christian who is not married therefore she can’t religiously have kids because that requires sinful behavior. She worth millions . What man with millions would be stupid enough to get married ? This woman is an ALPHA.
@AznBoi8713 жыл бұрын
Her voice is strong and confident, that's what women should strive for.
@donatello94823 жыл бұрын
When someone says “she’s out of my league”, they must be talking about her 🤣😂
@regularity25563 жыл бұрын
@@donatello9482 That's why she's 47, never married, no kids. She's out of everybody's league.
@faxoxo23063 жыл бұрын
I thought she said 41?
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
@@regularity2556 LOOOOOL
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
Yes I noticed that in her voice instantly, the eloquence and confidence
@Primitivegarage9153 жыл бұрын
Okay I’m glad she explained why her salary was 200k as an OB/GYN. All of the ones I work with make around +350k.
@cbl65203 жыл бұрын
I was about to say. Though to be fair, it’s the lowest reimbursing surgical specialty.
@user-em4wh5ji3w3 жыл бұрын
@@stoneyjosephine urologists make ~400k in private practice
@ishmael8023 жыл бұрын
I think she needs a break. It sounds like burnout.
@RogerPack3 жыл бұрын
Yeah...maybe she should take a year off, that might be fun.
@thegoodearth94273 жыл бұрын
Ok, at least I feel a little better after listening to this woman. I’m 42, net worth of 3.5 million (excluding home and car), and I make 270k/yr (equivalent to 500k in California). And I can’t get myself motivated to work, all I want to do is to be able to take care of my aging parents when they need me. And I know they are going to need me.
@annajones97013 жыл бұрын
Amazing. What work do you do?
@bemkim42253 жыл бұрын
she talks like a doctor
@AllIAm13 жыл бұрын
Not in a good way eck
@belindaevans69153 жыл бұрын
Is that a comment praising God? Or taking his name in vain?
@bemkim42253 жыл бұрын
@@belindaevans6915 however you please to understand 🤗
@SevenRiderAirForce3 жыл бұрын
@@bemkim4225 I, too, speak to God through KZbin comments 😂
@bemkim42253 жыл бұрын
@@SevenRiderAirForce okay.. i revised...
@IceColdProfessional3 жыл бұрын
She's living her life the way most people with kids THINK they would live theirs if they didn't have any kids.
@whyme79963 жыл бұрын
listless and unsatisfied with her achievements?
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
@@whyme7996 She’s not listless, she’s very energetic. All she needs is attitude adjustment. That’s far easier to achieve than cleaning up the fallout from decades of poor choices.
@whyme79963 жыл бұрын
@@genxx2724 she's a woman who is caring for her parents and sees her own future....no one around to care for her, just paid "care givers" during her waning years.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
@@whyme7996 Few people lovingly care for their parents. Kids are no guarantee of anything, and many turn out poorly these days.
@blackworldtraveler37113 жыл бұрын
@@whyme7996 She said she need a motivation to work a few more years not motivation to live.
@LifeofKairo3 жыл бұрын
You’ve got a parachute that most musicians dream about 😊 you can do both because you’re an absolute champ!
@Sombra_Azul_3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@tasiawood3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@ikene98213 жыл бұрын
I burnt out in 10 years and quit. I work on my farm and a lot happier. The wards were a very depressing time for me.
@ijlalamir12673 жыл бұрын
How often did you work in those 10 years? How many hours per week?
@pinoytunes77073 жыл бұрын
Same here, I practically lived in the hospital in those 10 years and really loved it. But now I have kids and prefer to stay at home.
@jzplayinggame3 жыл бұрын
We all benefitted from hearing this powerhouse of a woman speak
@jackhippler80542 жыл бұрын
More than 50% of doctors are female. I absolutely love this and feel connected when she states some of her issues.
@jaysmith60133 жыл бұрын
“I love my job so much I don’t have the motivation to continue”.
@user-tg3jl1mt4e3 жыл бұрын
@Csab It makes perfect sense, just because you love your job doesn't mean you want to continue doing it every day for the next 13 years. She is getting up there in age so working 50+ hour weeks just isn't as practical. I love playing video games but that doesn't mean I want to put in the same amount of hours on games as I was doing in high school and college.
@mv73743 жыл бұрын
Burn out
@cw95153 жыл бұрын
She’s confused so here explanation is confused
@busybee66923 жыл бұрын
I love my job but I hate working. If that makes any sense. Burn out is real. Took a year off and I feel so refreshed.
@jaysmith60133 жыл бұрын
Sorry but I just understand all these people claiming to love their jobs but being “burned out” or “lacking motivation” to actually do it. I’ve never experienced a lack of motivation in doing things I love. I think people are conditioned to say certain things like loving their jobs as a societal norm, in order to convince themselves they are not wasting their life away doing something for a paycheck
@richardwalter75713 жыл бұрын
I’m a multi-hundrednaire unmotivated to work another day
@universalservicetechust35783 жыл бұрын
Lol 😝
@ms.herlan78603 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@zainabomer75113 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@thomasthumim76303 жыл бұрын
Typical women s always a victim
@joeshmoe79673 жыл бұрын
Richard, I am there with you. I work for money, not fulfillment. My dream is to criss cross the country on my motorcycle with my guitar and little amp(I bought the amp with strapping on to the bike in mind) playing for tips and giggles where ever some one would have me, pub, coffee shop, street corner... With my business just about going under, I wouldn't make any less than I am making now, and I might make more! LOL! Cheers
@EricFinanceTips3 жыл бұрын
This woman has achieved FIRE. She should continue to work on things she wants to, not because she has to.
@Nevertold233 жыл бұрын
She is such a hard worker!!! Do what works for you Doc!!!
@lastempire73023 жыл бұрын
"ONLY" making 200K and have net worth of 5M in her 40s, way to go Doc!
@howo3573 жыл бұрын
Power of investing
@ocvegasproperty3 жыл бұрын
She mentions she made 300+ at one point but cut back
@realdookoos3 жыл бұрын
@@howo357 and possibly divorce
@alexcoop5223 жыл бұрын
@@realdookoos its always divorce
@benzandpour3 жыл бұрын
Sounds fishy
@mikedanaher34133 жыл бұрын
I normally watch this channel to feel better about myself. Now I need a counselor. 😂😂😂😂
@unnamedchannel12373 жыл бұрын
It’s not good to feel good about other people’s pain. Instead of feeling better about your self from their issues try to learn from them
@acsentu8 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂😂
@tripsyjellyfish23283 жыл бұрын
She has the kind of problems I wish I had😂
@malik98563 жыл бұрын
No bullshitting
@coolafternoons89303 жыл бұрын
Work for it! She was in school 10 yrs after 18 then worked two decades of 90 hr weeks. She would have more $ if she wasn’t a doctor.
@Joe-jc5ol3 жыл бұрын
I used to say that, and then life gave me the problems I wished I had. And the anxiety level was the same as the old problems...
@arizonadesert58613 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@yuhanjong72693 жыл бұрын
@@coolafternoons8930 that's nice,but for me you should invest your time in more profitable ways of earning money...
@jeffcaswell37063 жыл бұрын
I think Dave should invite her to be a guest on his show. She may realize how much others struggle to achieve a quarter of what she has accomplished. Congratulations on your hard work . Talk it out with your parents maybe they don’t require that level of care
@stevel633710 ай бұрын
This is a great suggestion! I was wishing they kept the conversation going longer.
@ManSeekingChrist10 ай бұрын
She does not have any family. It is not unusual for a doctor who works as much as her to be where she is. Her salary is on the low end for a doctor too.
@james.yt.009 ай бұрын
I was in a similar place. Although much younger and not a doctor. At 36, several million in investments and retirement, and my homes paid off - but doing a job I wasn’t fulfilled with. I retired. Then I started a mental health publishing and production organization that creates very high quality programs and distributes them for free. I’m incredibly fulfilled and motivated to keep going. 100% of my time is volunteer and I’m not burned out. Once you have enough money to live comfortably, having even more did not make me happy - instead I just worried about what to do with it.
@georgewagner77872 жыл бұрын
I'm 60 and can hardly wait for 62.
@mrsteve75392 жыл бұрын
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@ashleyjones53963 жыл бұрын
Wow, this woman is awesome! If working as a Doctor is a passion, I would do it part time and take care of my parents. In reality this lady can do whatever she wants!!!
@ghostl11242 жыл бұрын
Including refunding some of what she charges her patients. Medical professionals help and hurt society. Jesus never told doctors to be multimillionaires and own three houses. Maybe she does more already than supporting her mother. But I still believe that many of her patients don't enjoy paying the high cost of health care that she provides. Not just her, but the entire medical industry.
@aprilmcclellan12483 жыл бұрын
I'm an ER physician. 30 hours/week is considered full-time for us. I couldn't imagine 50-60 hours per week
@webfreakz3 жыл бұрын
30? Sweet
@2012jjoykutty033 жыл бұрын
Where? In NY 60 hours is the standard hours for most doctors
@aprilmcclellan12483 жыл бұрын
I did 60 hour weeks during residency. But when I took my first attending job, full-time was considered 30hr/week. Anything over 135 hours/month is paid overtime. I'm in PA.
@jakem75913 жыл бұрын
How much do you get paid?
@aprilmcclellan12483 жыл бұрын
@@jakem7591 $240/hr
@yourgooglemeister67453 жыл бұрын
Happens to lots of doctors. Better than opening a restaurant
@husher51423 жыл бұрын
yeah, dont open a restaurant. Even in the best of times food is a risky business
@DJayAce43 жыл бұрын
I've seen too many Kitchen Nightmare episodes to believe opening up a restaurant is ever a good idea 😂
@waflletoast113 жыл бұрын
@@DJayAce4 food is one of the most competitive businesses out there, especially with the age of technology and delivery.
@Rehabszz3 жыл бұрын
My mom has a bakery/restaurant her store makes about 200k/month gross.
@AznBoi8713 жыл бұрын
@@Rehabszz -why would you say something so personal that isn't even yours to tell on the internet. Stay humble.
@skeet0rz10 ай бұрын
She has no kids, her parents are on their way out, she's aware of her own mortality (arthritis & hearing loss on the horizon)... This has midlife crisis written all over it.
@Susan1355410 ай бұрын
You're just jealous 😂
@Susan1355410 ай бұрын
Empty nesters without millions at her age feel way worse
@skeet0rz10 ай бұрын
@@Susan13554 I wouldn't want to be her, no matter how rich she is. But I'm glad she's exploring music as a way to enrich her life.
@mariog57379 ай бұрын
@@skeet0rzyou’re right those people who don’t have kids are never happy especially women.
@roaldruss42119 ай бұрын
But this woman ISN'T happy. That's why she called. Stop generalising/deflecting and stick to the topic. @@mariog5737
@CycleCruza3 жыл бұрын
It's crazy that you have a doctor working her tail off and on call 24/7 stressed to the max and makes 200k to 300k a year while there are 16 year olds making a million a month on social media. lol 🤔
@annajones97013 жыл бұрын
Yes, but money is not everything. Medical doctor is better achievement than just making money.
@MooMoo695563 жыл бұрын
I bet you will amount to neither of those too 😂
@annajones97013 жыл бұрын
@@MooMoo69556 I am a Master's in Finance grad and worked in investment management before.
@DewTime3 жыл бұрын
So what are you saying? It’s also crazy that some people win $20MM from the lottery.
@MooMoo695563 жыл бұрын
@@annajones9701 I wasn’t talking to you, I was talking to the original poster.
@jusplay73093 жыл бұрын
She is such an achiever with many skills. How about teaching part time and doing the conservatory thing as well.
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@sweetzs1003 жыл бұрын
Wait I want her to deliver my babies when I have one. She’s so comforting and seems so sweet. I adore her. She’s the type of person that would make me feel so safe and comfortable
@dreg58453 жыл бұрын
DONT WORK. We are only here once and it's not only to work!
@christianc74203 жыл бұрын
Some of us enjoy working.. we all need a purpose and to contribute to society
@fordtechchris3 жыл бұрын
You still need something to do.
@jtyree02263 жыл бұрын
@@christianc7420 “some” yes, but she already contributed enough to society. Let here do whatever she wants
@PremiumFuelOnly3 жыл бұрын
Work is ok as long as you enjoy it. Even if you win the powerball, You need something to keep the mind busy.
@shannon27483 жыл бұрын
@@PremiumFuelOnly That's what we call hobbies/interests. If I won the powerball, all employers could get stuffed. Most bosses are evil, psychotic jerks.
@niallroberts38073 жыл бұрын
I was really enjoying this conversation and hearing about this woman’s life. Wish the chat was longer. 😩
@briannaje54193 жыл бұрын
I pray she meets a like minded, well accomplished man to share life with. She's pretty much set for life but would be nice to share it with someone. She has done so well for herself and takes care of everyone else. She seems like a loving person and would love someone well but would recieve that same love and care from a man who would take some of what feels like the weight of the world off of her.
@FabioSantos-cs2cf Жыл бұрын
She’s not motivated because although she’s type A working in the field of her passion…she has no one to share it with or kids to support. She’s not needed in her home. I’m not saying to be cruel. I dated a doc who I wanted to marry, still love her and would still try to make things work but she brought the type A shit into the relationship and I happened to lose my job and got depressed for 3 months. It killed the attraction on her side. I don’t blame her and not resentment, but that’s what ultra successful women doctors often experience
@hrithikzgirl833 жыл бұрын
She’s got more than enough money to retire now! Dave’s advice is on point!
@victorzeferino70083 жыл бұрын
Now I understand why many Americans are retiring in México, with that money she could live comfortably and not have to wait 13 years.
@katec38724 ай бұрын
Watching this more than three years later, I feel that Dr. Renee is spot on. In the healthcare field, we are constantly fighting with insurance, constantly fighting for patients’ rights… we are constantly fighting. And we are exhausted. (PS I don’t have 3.7 million either, sob!)
@Mai-id4fw3 жыл бұрын
She worked to hard for others that when it comes to her she lost herself. Money can’t answer everything. It’s time that she has lost that she regretted. She finally found herself today.
@brittneyleroy92923 жыл бұрын
What a lady! Congratulations! It pays to be disciplined and smart.
@Jay92_3 жыл бұрын
She should record herself and put it on KZbin I love watching those videos
@1MikeDoe63 жыл бұрын
💡💡 Hope she see this ☝️☝️
@Mak2Grim3 жыл бұрын
if i ever had 1.5+mil i’m buying property for passive income, rinse n repeat n just enjoying my life
@HamiltonRb3 жыл бұрын
You can get that same passive income by owning reits and not worry about broken toilets or tenants not paying rent
@mikehallrealestate3 жыл бұрын
You don't need 1.5m to do this.
@Okay-vz3qw3 жыл бұрын
@@HamiltonRb 1.5m out of 1.5m in reits? Oof lol...
@Monkofthecaribbean3 жыл бұрын
@@HamiltonRb or she can hire a property management company for those toilets
@HamiltonRb3 жыл бұрын
@@Monkofthecaribbean That is another option, which we have tried in the past, but it cost much more and you don’t get the diversification that you would get by owning reits
@rosem53613 жыл бұрын
All it cost was not getting married and not having any children. Dont think I could ever do that.
@cathy78243 жыл бұрын
I have no children, I do have nieces I love dearly. Children and a husband isn't everybody's dream. I love animals and I'm free to go where I please. I have many hobbies. This lady doesn't sound like she's living a life of regret due to no children.
@rushrush12093 жыл бұрын
A lot of people choose not to get married and not have kids. But most don't get to where she is in her career or financial situation.
@prepaidtrash55523 жыл бұрын
Imagine thinking everyone has the same goals in life
@tasneemahmed58213 жыл бұрын
It's really surprising how many think that a woman has to sacrifice her marital life in order to be successful in a career. Or worse, think that women NEED marital life. 😐
@DewTime3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It’s the new age feminism though
@claudinel18883 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know that doctor works 80-90 hours a week. Good for her for saving so now she has freedom!
@timeinvestors-motivation4563 жыл бұрын
“If you’re not doing what you love, you’re wasting your time.” - Wise person
@profitmix4413 жыл бұрын
Cheers don’t pay the bills
@ArcticZombie3 жыл бұрын
Doing what you love can get boring eventually and even stressful if you do it everyday.
@Ibrahim-vx5kq3 жыл бұрын
@@ArcticZombie better than doing something you hate tho
@7318ify3 жыл бұрын
This is really bad advice that I hear too often. You should "like" your job but you certainly don't have to love it.
@stefanossmitty33183 жыл бұрын
Doing what you love is silly if it doesn’t sustain you. You should do what you are good at.
@yesseniaescobarable3 жыл бұрын
Renee you’re unmotivated and you’ve motivated me! Thank you bunches Renee ❤️ can you please write a book on your journey? 🙏🏽
@WeBeatMedicare69692 жыл бұрын
Not really sure there’s enough material for a book here..maybe a short story lol
@Encourageable3 жыл бұрын
What is the primary purpose of working? To have an income that pays for the necessities and the pleasures in life. If you have enough, and you do, then stop working and take a sabbatical for a year. Then find something that you enjoy doing - it doesn’t have to be something that makes you a Dr.’s income, it might be no income at all, or it may be an expense (volunteering in some way). Life isn’t about seeing how much you can accumulate - that’s just a waste of valuable time. Sometimes it’s valuable to talk to your elders to give you a perspective of what ultimately matters in life.
@randomamerican63203 жыл бұрын
Wow, she is an AMAZING individual, she is a jack in all trades! I as a citizen would love for someone like her to continue servicing our Country and providing Grade A service, but at the same time, she's done so much for everyone else, she has the money to retire.... all I would say, is remember this quote, "The cost of not following your heart, is spending the rest of your life wishing you had."
@mominthe2099 ай бұрын
Any update from the doctor? I’ve always thought Doctors Without Borders would be such a cool thing, but alas I’m not a doctor. I’m 61 and retired last year. I’m starting to come out of the fog of 4 plus decades of work. I left my job a year early, making more money than I ever thought. I wanted to stay until 62, but I thought I would likely develop a serious health issue. The other day I almost cried thinking about a regret that I now have. I wish I would have travelled more when my husband was healthy. This doctor is very wealthy and she has earned it. When you turn 60, the aging process kicks in and will never stop until it’s finally over.
@CycoPatPonfe3 жыл бұрын
Doc, you’re awesome! Do what you love and love what you want to do!
@jayritchie65963 жыл бұрын
What a phenomenal woman. So many talents - I wonder if she could pull out for a year to catch up on life and spend time with her parents? I guess its tough if your contract has good pension terms.
@todd24563 жыл бұрын
That was a SAVAGE mute button.
@kaohsiung993 жыл бұрын
He has to take an "Obscene Profit" Commercial break (as Rush Limbaugh sarcastically called it).
@todd24563 жыл бұрын
@Anne Day she was mid-sentence.
@kaohsiung993 жыл бұрын
@@todd2456 Dave doesn't like a lot of follow-up random comments that go all over the place.... and neither do most listeners.
@todd24563 жыл бұрын
@Anne Day bruh
@yolandalujan97263 жыл бұрын
I agree. Dont put your parents in a nursing home if you can take care of them. We took care of our mom and it was the best decision we made.!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@nreitman3 жыл бұрын
Professional Musician here. Grass is always greener on the other side.
@loui72103 жыл бұрын
Yea it's not that great being a musician
@RP-cn8si3 жыл бұрын
lots of conservatory students opt for med school. Lots of us are liked for our work ethic and diligence.
@joshuag.48739 ай бұрын
Also a pro musician. Looking for a way out!!
@kindasoupie3 жыл бұрын
She is my role model and my hero, wow! What a woman!!! I want to be her when i grow up 💓
@wadeharris3483 жыл бұрын
I chased my dream in music when I was younger and didn’t have any regrets about it either. But I was also young with no responsibilities. She’s just doing it now cause she has the funds to do it. Guarantee she wouldn’t have been a doctor if she didn’t need money
@Citizenm333 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who finds it so cold (yet hilarious) when Dave just slams that button and hangs up on them lol
@kaohsiung993 жыл бұрын
He has to take an "Obscene Profit" Commercial break (as Rush Limbaugh sarcastically called it).
@braveheart853 жыл бұрын
Dave’s sidekicks question to her we’re right on point! My man
@fontekevin03 жыл бұрын
She probably just needs a good and long vacation.
@glamoc00003 жыл бұрын
Or to meet Tommy Gunn
@gordonsmith55893 жыл бұрын
And needs a dude in her life
@youtubeuserzzzz3 жыл бұрын
@@gordonsmith5589 lots of financially stable women prefer to be without a Man. Having one actually stresses them out more. She needs to find a travel and music group. She will be just fine. It's not the same as with men. Men are stressed out for not having a woman.
@pratriciadewan73962 жыл бұрын
@@gordonsmith5589 If she wants one, she obviously would. And maybe she secretly does. Who knows?
@ohnoitsohno97673 жыл бұрын
“How do I take care of my parents” Dave: “You are not going to see the inside of a restaurant unless you are working there!!”
@jamiesonmelnyk3 жыл бұрын
Dave: "Sell your mom"
@MrYCROCKER193 жыл бұрын
@@jamiesonmelnyk 😂😂😂😂
@kaohsiung993 жыл бұрын
Beans 'N Rice... Rice 'N Beans
@briannaje54193 жыл бұрын
"No vacations until you get this mess cleaned up."
@go43843 жыл бұрын
No kids. There’s your first road to wealth.
@Mikael-jt1hk2 ай бұрын
my landlord was a multimillionaire. When he died and had NOBODY in his life his 12 million in assets were divided between 2 nieces and a nephew he hadnt seen for 20 years. What a life well lived lol.
@kjtp013 жыл бұрын
Must be medical day as I'm a 64 yo doctor with 5.1 M and still working pretty hard. My problem is I don't know what to do if I slowed down. I have a few hobbies but nothing that could keep me busy all the time. Maybe I'll take up an instrument.
@aba17913 жыл бұрын
@Michael EllingsworthOr b*ng the nurse Lol
@jacqueline85663 жыл бұрын
In this world, there is so much to do! Be encouraged. Explore your interests
@jorgesolis78973 жыл бұрын
Nice, Dr. Phil! What specialty do you practice?
@kuryanthomas14383 жыл бұрын
just keep working if you love what you do, and leave an even bigger nest egg for future generations, try to get to 10M
@aba17913 жыл бұрын
@@jorgesolis7897 Sorry to break to ya but I don't think he likes dudes so find a sugar daddy somewhere else. Lol. JK
@GreggoryThorpe3 жыл бұрын
We need to normalize early retirement. Retire young and retire rich
@janettemarabella32213 жыл бұрын
I don't think this is about finances. This is a spiritual issue.
@nryanmusic3 жыл бұрын
nailed it.
@karlasosa53043 жыл бұрын
I love the way she speaks
@jmanrock113 жыл бұрын
When people say "more money more problems" is this what they're talking about cause sign me up!
@bigreddaman59883 жыл бұрын
Shes never been married and has no kids at 47 lol. If all you want in life is money I feel bad for you
@jmanrock113 жыл бұрын
@@bigreddaman5988 It was a joke and you saw right through it. Not everyone wants to get married and have kids. She could have a boyfriend who can take care of himself.
@blackworldtraveler37113 жыл бұрын
@@jmanrock11 Yup.I’ve met people that think life ends if not married and no kids. They are divorced now and tend to have selective memories when I bring up the subject. I’m 50 and never had kids, money issues, or marriage. I have a girlfriend longer than most marriages,family,good neighbors, and friends.
@Pdiddy24003 жыл бұрын
Doesn't matter how much money you have. You can't get away from yourself. Rich and poor both have problems. In fact, looking back I was happier when I was in a lower tax bracket compared to a higher one because there is less stress and pressure.
@aeromtb246810 ай бұрын
so she is a surgeon also. thats how she did it. wow!!! you go Renee.
@joyaustin65813 жыл бұрын
I’d be retired yesterday. Maybe work one day a week