I'm a Pastor who has Divorced | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 9 | Season 2

[@christopherbenson5019]

This woman needs a live audience with her talk show, she is so good at it. Watching from the USA 🇺🇸

[@tebogomaupa_]

I totally agree

[@nozibelepokwana6834]

I agree with you she is good

[@bevankgosietsile5956]

pastor if u really are sorry regret swallow yo pride and date your wife again and stop trying things that does not support GOD go back to yo family

[@mzee5533]

@@bevankgosietsile5956 you can’t just go in a relationship just to make people happy whilst you’re not happy

[@laurelherring1197]

Yes she is good. She knows how to follow up on questions and how to pin you aganist the wall whete you cant get away...not with hostility but fencese...

[@loladedelano7481]

The level is this Pastor’s honesty, openness & heart is WILDLY 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@thembiq6598]

Im hooked to this programme, our very own Oprah Winfrey

[@kgatonape8099]

Oprah is an understatement

[@angelinesithole6536]

Amen it's TRUE, I enjoy the way she asks questions , she flows with the person she is interviewing .

[@nkosanamshengu8599]

She is our own Oprah indeed and her Shows are addictive and fascinating

[@tainindlovu3213]

Why don't you take them with them where ever you go

[@perseverencemoyo2464]

May God give this Pastor a Godly woman or restore her marriage

[@lischentjaveondja9236]

I speak reconciliation and restoration in this family. That's my language. With God all things are possible.

[@t.a.3191]

Amen.

[@tumiemaraisane1136]

What God has put together no man can separate,God is a good God and what he created no man can separate

[@mapule2780]

Relebogile's interviewing skill are on another level. She can ask without breaking the train of thought. She goes deep in a subtle way that's not heavy. Great interview

[@ER_Channel_00]

🙌 Mapule, I'm in awe of her hey. She's excellent! 💯

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@deliwemona-molele1556]

The question on dating/courting was wow for me. The best Lebz

[@noloyisomqikela3932]

Indeed. This is to be continued

[@nereaigogo4442]

She is good in her job

[@zinzindlangisa3466]

I love how he focuses on what he did rather than to drag his partner down..he decided to take accountability

[@dubsy_mshika]

I love him for his honesty. The protection order thing sends me ⚰😂😂 If only pastors were this honest. Church would be a better place.

[@PreciousNoxInc]

Absolutely

[@ndilekakekana5127]

I love how he is so so open and honest. He is really being a human. I see a person transforming person. Keep going Sir

[@mildredmiti2786]

@@ndilekakekana5127 very

[@tshidik2801]

A man that doesn't point fingers to the wife...A courageous man 👏👏👏

[@phindievicky5938]

# a champion man . Wow.

[@mduduzidlamini1933]

That is why i love this man

[@heislaharrison3361]

I need some time for your self

[@heislaharrison3361]

We all need everyone

[@sibusiwengqwemesa9024]

That's what I like about him and also admitting his wrongdoing 👌👌

[@matshedisomotloung9961]

1.A fool 2. A child 3. A king Enlightening indeed... Total honesty throughout the whole interview... He real didn't try to be smart... You can tell he was himself

[@mananammalegae]

Indeed 😊📌❤️

[@matlhogonolobusang9323]

Best episode by far 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾So candid and honest. Getting a man's opinion about divorce was quite refreshing. Thank you to the Pastor for allowing himself to open up to us. I learned so much from the interview

[@zonkeqina5847]

This is a true man with no ego and Pride.

[@Cazza321]

Are you dating ? Yes or No I'm dead.........😂😂😂😂😂😂 Relebogile you are one of a kind, what I like more about you is that , when you ask the questions you are so calm and collected you don't dominate the interview but you give an interviewee a chance to speak his mind out Well done you! You are the best ! ❤ all the way from..🇬🇧

[@theresaoppong7100]

You guys are very good in terms of your discussion is a very good one.

[@theresaoppong7100]

He is a very good man of God

[@theresaoppong7100]

You are right about everything.

[@xolilemthembu2756]

Wow the honesty from Pastor Phiri is a breathe of fresh air...

[@nozibelepokwana6834]

Yhoooo he is just so honest

[@JaneRamatseba]

i really respect him for his honesty. such a character is very rare nowadays

[@phumzamoyo41]

Massive respect for Pastor Phiri, your honesty and truthfulness resonates to a lot of pastors with failed marriages. Thank you for the show.

[@ramahalarabelani9070]

So much respect for this pastor, he is very down to earth.

[@godisfaithful9134]

He is super honest and he is speaking highly about his wife. I wish the wife would watch the interview and she could change her mind.

[@ramahalarabelani9070]

@@godisfaithful9134 that's my wish too

[@beautybylee-sa1806]

Her interviewing skills are amazing 🙌🙌, well done.

[@Ndaps1]

Yoh I take off my hat for this man. Such honest and authentic conversations and admitting his fault just wow

[@ramahalarabelani9070]

Same

[@samanthadutoit1247]

Ladies this a real man! He can admit his faults a d mistake! Love his transparency.

[@cedricomadrico5524]

And how would you know that?

[@no_prisoners6474]

And you think that what he is saying here is all he truly is? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@NanaAgyeman-Duah]

Well said my dear...

[@cwayitagcilitshana7982]

When he admitted he had Pride🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️uwoah 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@healthtalksupplements2786]

This is a man who have told himself the truth. I think other divorced men should take counseling from him. I have respect for this man because he admitted his mistakes and he is definitely coming to terms with them. I understand his position. He comes across as still in love with his ex-wife but as he said, a lot has happened.

[@bree3003]

This Pastor is all the personality and real life experience that the church needs.

[@ThabisaZandile]

This is a true man of God. Honesty Taking responsibility for his mistakes May they reunite and remarry.

[@motlhatlhedi88]

Me too. He's a good man.

[@hannahcabana5403]

Not at all!

[@bmshik]

Right they deserve reconciliation

[@idacloete288]

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[@idacloete288]

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[@bhekanintshangase9004]

When the truth is told there's nothing else to say. I respect such an honest person. No doubt he will find himself

[@williamtsepomohapi3085]

After how much damage because he see himself as a pastor? He was supposed to find himself first before he went anywhere near a pulpit. Part of the interpretation was supposed to reveal his true identity so that he can function effectively as a pastor but for some reason his professor missed that important part of scripture.

[@bhekanintshangase9004]

It's unfortunate that we are quick to see right and wrong (being judgemental). God is not judgemental, and he advised us all against being judgemental. But he teaches us to truthful all the times. Your truth is forever changing whether you like it or not (pastor or not). When you understand this truth, you will know that we are forever creating ourselves with the new truth. All human beings recreate themselves daily with the new truth, and creation is never ending. In this process we find ourselves

[@gerardvetunawa1484]

I think the greatest issue here is the inability to balance priorities in family life.every family needs at least enough money to fulfill needs and want of the modern life.but the quest for money to save us from poverty should not destroy our priorities in life and family life.while I admire the honesty of this pastor at the same time I think he fell into the trap of darkness by not balancing his priorities as a family man,pastor and businessman and going over board into the valley of no time for wife and kids.

[@nozibelepokwana6834]

Wow hayi I salute him ungumzekelo he doesn't blame his wife he's just saying he's the one who was at fault

[@zamobubu912]

First time in my life listening to Pst Phiri. I love his honesty throughout the interview. Wow! amazing interview!

[@thatomolobi8017]

i love how honest he was throughout this interview. Hes a brilliant man.

[@Mbaliekeswa]

nothing as honourable as an honest man. loved this interview

[@thembisaodendaal]

Love the headscarf Relebogile you look gorgeous

[@svb6594]

Relebogile is a BEAUTY 😍

[@shadithabethe]

Absolutely.

[@orinkellman9547]

Qwerty

[@khanyizuma6513]

Wow, what an insightful interview, Pastor was very honest and very true thina bazalwane are very judgemental

[@netsaitimothy5977]

Relebogile you hit it straight.He loves his exwife but didnt know how to love. He needed time with his wife. Thats all she wanted.Pastor Phiri may God guide you.I listened to your sermons and they were powerful.May God bring you back together in love.At least you have really searched and now you know people, know yourself and now live your life.

[@daisymankga7050]

Pastor Phiri is so inspiring and courageous 🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@TheSARAFINA2000]

Yaaaa, this man is true to himself

[@milaniinalim3357]

I love his accountability!

[@Makhayaafrica]

There’s still hope for him and his wife. I hope they find the way back to each other

[@MavisMathinya]

It is important to ask God to give you a woman who love God first at times she can be in the church and be possessed or have a spiritual husband and the devil will use her to destroy the church

[@keabetswemotsisi9388]

Theology dies not mean socially well rounded. I appreciate his honesty. God keep him

[@givensekhoto3348]

King, fool, child Thank you Pastor for being vulnerable in such a platform

[@nwabisamadosi]

Thanks pastor and you healed as a divorcee. God may heal you and guide you in Jesus name.

[@Enhle]

This man is so wise and true to himself. Totally enjoyed this. 👏

[@qenehelomahasa1168]

This man is very honest! May God see into his heart and heal him for real.

[@mariangowi8019]

Very helpflul

[@nkatekomayimele5141]

Thank you Pastor for being real and vulnerable. I love how you spoke about healing as a man cause mostly we think healing is only for women. Relebogile I think this particular one needs a part 2. Pastor Phiri has a lot to share and we can also send questions prior to Part 2 . You are doing an amazing job Sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@avhathomiphophi-wp4zw]

He is very true church members can kill each other'

[@thandilengwenya1297]

It's his transparency for me, l had never listened to him, what a great ministration about real life issues

[@pointa2b388]

This is by far the best episode ever and i was dreading it Relebogile. Yhe most authentic interview ever. I must commend you for your interviewing skills where people do not feel the need to defend themselves as they do not feel attacked. They freely express themselves. Thanks Mr Phiri for your authenticity, it felt real

[@Dino-ns9jx]

I agree with you. I could tell that the Pastor was convicted by the proper questions she asked and I am sure he will work harder to improve himself. Relebogile is the best.

[@laurencemakgabo1766]

I am following you Relebogile,and you interviewing skills are absolutely 👌👌👌👌

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Wow thank you!

[@thelmanojova8730]

I always loved Ps Piri becaI feel his genuine only Ps that I used to watch on TV when I did not attend church now his honesty about his life just put a stamp of my AGEPE love for him.... My God keep on do miracles in your life and you find your feet again.... As for Relebogile well done gal that was a fruitful beautiful interview 😍😍😍😍

[@dreamchaser1364]

"The church folks are very judgemental " That hit so deep, having been raised in church was I know exactly what you talking about. I don't think I was judged by society the way I was judged in church. I fully understand why when people say they don't wanna go to church coz church people are so messed up, they forget that we are all human, we make mistakes and we have to learn from them

[@Maphume]

This is a great interview. I truly applaud Pastor Enoch Phiri for his honesty. Relebogile is such a gem literally binge watching her episodes now.

[@kwaananse6424]

I love this pastor; honest and humble as a child.

[@amandlafrance228]

I love his honesty, and him not being spiritual about the whole process. As sad as it may be to see someone like him divorce, it is our responsibility to learn from the mistakes of others.

[@ncumisajuliwe6874]

A true man and a Leader, not going arround to blame the wife but take full responsibility of his failed married❤️

[@tendai987]

Gttttt

[@tendai987]

0000

[@bibifrancis758]

If every man…. EVERY PASTOR. Was this honest, life would be easier. Much respect for this man!!

[@Vanna-sound]

Hi

[@thehousemixer_Dj]

@Relebogile Mabotja this show is an institution every show has lessons. I literally learn something new instead of being stereotypical. As a man and not being able to provide can really shift a lot of focus. This pastor is REAL and that's what we want REALNESS! May your show and yourself grow strength to strength

[@gofaoneelizabethmallege903]

Pastors are also human hle bathong lets also give them the grace to fall and dust themselves off and go...The Christian walk was not meant to be easy

[@williamsebolela5415]

God want us including the Pastors to be holy as he is holy, not sinners as the devil, we don't have to be half holy and half evil. We must have the mind of Christ not mixed with the mind of the devil.

[@nonosiyothula3587]

Well said. Because we expect them to understand us with our own weaknesses

[@more2much696]

That's not what the bible says a pastor needs to be a man of good standing

[@bhekicele139]

@@williamsebolela5415 l

[@mphoapril770]

Indeed Gofaone

[@wandilenkomomzinya4836]

Eish Relebogile yo studio maaan!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Whoever designs it knows the assignment🤞

[@AuthetiQLOVEAcademy-1]

As a twice-ordained female minister, (in the US) let me just say this man is speaking so much truth. The pressure on male preachers to get married is fierce! I can see that he has been hurt and scarred deeply by looking his family and by "the church" its rules and expectations. Men who watch this please note...when your woman/wife says she needs or wants something twice, STOP and attend to it before she says it a 3rd time!!! I would like to know where he is and how he feels about ministry now. I'm praying for him and his family.

[@daramolabola_]

What an introspective man Pastor Enoch Phiri is. I pray wholeness for every part of him that's broken. Thank you, Relebogile for being a great host.

[@ruthshabangu8038]

Wow what an interview, just praying for the King to re unite with the Queen who made him to be this full with wisdom, just loved this show mam keep them coming you are a 🌟

[@neosjournal_]

He’s soooo honest 🤌🏾 I love how Relebogile asks questions, she prompts the interviewees to speak

[@happyasouthafrican]

I love the honesty of this man

[@thembinkositaba942]

He is very honest to himself hope he can get it right in this love thing

[@unarinemutheloramabulana2505]

I enjoyed this interview so much! The honesty and the rawness 👏🏽

[@nforntanikevin2289]

Honesty in Pst Phiri, i like the way he protects his wife, no apportioning of blame, but taking all his blame. What an example of truth

[@patriciawillims8213]

I lift my hat to this pastor. He is one in a million. I hope they remarry.

[@thearksingers7440]

Pls remarry your first wife . Benny Hinn did it. You can too. May God help you

[@blossomheath4599]

I liked his honesty but I can see where things went wrong. 1. None of them were ready for marriage. 2. She should have gotten a job and try to find her way. 3.They weren't ready for children. They didn't have a plan. Christians are humans but we need to be very careful.

[@maccephasdumba137]

Thank you Pastor for being transparent…it takes a lot to admit your mistakes as a pastor and be so open about your personal life. There’s so much for us to learn as Christians l guess, we need to walk in true love…

[@lexubiga]

Just discovered this channel. Truth be told, I'm gonna watch this episode more than tenfold.

[@msjay6780]

🙏Appreciate the level of honesty. So sorry for what the family went through

[@dulcieself8426]

I've been watching your show for a few weeks now, but it was this episode that made me click the subscribe button. I absolutely love your style of questioning, your compassionate spirit, and the authenticity that shines through your conversations with your guests. He was so real, I felt his experience. Maybe because I too am divorced and remarried and want to get divorced again, idk. You have a new subscriber, all the way from Nassau, Bahamas. Great show! Nah, great shows!

[@jeromelubabalojacobs8872]

Same. I felt it's indecent to consume and not support this channel

[@khutintsangwane8851]

@Dulcie Self same here hey.

[@nereaigogo4442]

I am subscribing also

[@NurseHlungwani-q2y]

Wow what an experience I have gain thank Lebo❤

[@chinduidiege6701]

I love this pastor. Very sincere and honest. May God perfect all that concerns you sir.

[@compassionislove]

I like his honesty. And how what he says is very much relatable. I admire his growth!

[@martinnyirenda2525]

Wise words. WE need to change the way we train Pastors. We need to include other courses in the curriculum. When i returned to South Africa in 2004 after many years doing ministry in other nations, i realised the importance of having other qualifications. I studied IT Engineering. Apart from Ministerial and Pastoral qualifications, I am Internationally certified as a Network and IT Security Engineer and a Data Recovery Professional. Bible Colleges need to add a component of other courses into the curriculum. It is imperative.

[@curiousk4083]

I'm so impressed by this interview. Pastor Phiri truth show his faith and he's a true man of God

[@abongilesibhoko539]

I am glad the pastor is not blaming anyone but himself,for neglecting the family.many divorce cases are from being neglected if its not abondonment. Thankyou so much ,I wish many men can learn from this episode. 💯

[@nonithemba2839]

Love the Pastor’s honesty…God will help him and restore his family.

[@njabulogasa1688]

what a very interesting interview, I hope God restores everything he lost. I have the same problem as him, I focus more on myself and what I am doing more than people who're closer to me.

[@JoMbangasta]

I CAN NOT imagine the labor for women trying to bring "kings" out of "fools", I hope at the very least they are financially compensated for those projects.

[@thembimothibi2917]

Thanks a lot Rev Phiri for being honest.

[@daisyngwenya9082]

So embarrassing , you should not even publish this to the world that you are a divorced pastor .What did you teach the flock? Don't be proud of your theology be proud of God's word. I believe there's something fishy here what did you do to your wife that you dirvorced ? You seem to be very happy even when you relate.How did you speak or fight for those who can't mmmm ....fishy again.

[@iyennol4054]

@@daisyngwenya9082 Who are you? So in all that was said in the interview…….you come up with a judgemental rant…..pls sit down. You obviously can not discern honesty.

[@naomijansen9810]

i love this man's honesty and perspective about relationships, marriage, divorce

[@capitalimpactmotivation2533]

Absolutely. One's truth will have to be told regardless. I usually emphasize that marriage is a dual-faced venture. It can offer pain or sweetness, depending on the parties involved. It therefore should be approached with maximum caution when aiming to get into it,

[@Peace-wm7vc]

What an educational session! Thank you pastor for being honest in your talk, I have learnt a lot as a young woman hoping to get married one day 🙌🏽

[@Frankieo898]

I have not been able to stop watching this lady since the first time I stumbled on her program

[@regaogetswemotsepe874]

Haha dead by "Are You dating?" "Yes or No" haha 😆 Both of You Guys, Your sense of humor is on another level 🤣

[@johnkanavu6379]

So genuinely, honesty and passionately open about his situation-this man of clothes. May God have mercy on him and give him complete healing!

[@khosimabuza4940]

I really admire this man's courage and honesty!

[@cynthiamathole1168]

I like the fact that the man of God is honest.

[@meet_sinex10]

Oh my God! What a man! He takes full accountability... I respect him. May he completely heal and find love again or even rekindle their marriage 😁🙏🏾

[@mphosikhakhane1668]

the honesty!!! I give this man 100% respect!!! 🤣🤣🤣 the part where he said "bengimthuka"

[@charlenejulius8501]

Always heal first before you embark on a relationship. Give yourself time to heal.

[@sbusisomthembu5751]

Thanks Pastor, I am a Young Divorced Pastor like u n honesty I really relate to ur story. I only wish My X Wife will allow me to talk to her, not to make up bt to go separate ways in good terms.

[@diplomatdiplomat2800]

No, I think you should be talking to a counselor, especially a trained professional marriage counselor. Not a fellow pastor because pastors (who are mostly men) will only tell the women to stay and endure all the problems in their bad marriage. Seek advice from a trained marriage therapist to get unbiased opinion and protect your privacy from your church elders. Remember this in your next marriage. Good luck

[@nosicelogqojana9556]

Awuyi!! Sheim P.s. 🤗❣unenyani,maaan I love honesty,thruth,I salute u👊

[@leonndhlozi2739]

Relebogile is so smart, she's so spontaneous with the questions n she ask things we really want to know.... Just subcribed n set on the notification bell💃💃💃💃

[@RefLekhanya]

Relebogile you are becoming more and more beautiful each year 👌😍 I love how serious you take your work lady.... #much respect

[@lesegomolefe3909]

I know a very powerful man of God who did not go to Bible school. He doesn’t rely on a human being to teach him the mysteries of God. No single human being can do that. How are you taught God mysteries? It’s God himself who reveals. Holly Spirit is our teacher, our advocate. I have learnt very little from most pastors. Their teachings are not motivated my the holly spirit.

[@Peaceful_17]

Wow i love u 4 being dis honest, am so reassured to hear from u dat man has inside being of being a fool, child n king.

[@rifumo01madalane70]

Ps, when u r ready for marriage again,Re-marry ur wife,at least both of u would be closing an old chapter n opening a new one with ur kids.

[@sithembisomjoko7980]

That's deep

[@zolamongwe1316]

Wow! What an innocent truthful man of God,God will definitely bless him.

[@xolani2321]

God is happy with Reconciliation with your wife

[@christianexpressions1585]

I agree

[@nyambi_m]

So true, pastor get married out of pressure..... Sad reality in the church

[@jedidiahmacasky2980]

Your comment is honest. He might have been pressurised to marry but the choice of a partner was absolutely his. They didn't bring that specific woman by force to him, he chose her. Blame shifting is not acknowledgement of your failure. Ignorance of what type of personality temperament was suitable for him led him to his choice and misunderstanding of the needs such a personality led to marriage failure. Let's learn not to blame others for our choices. 💜

[@mosesramohlokoane1618]

If we were to believe in this pressure angle of matters, then we should also acknowledge that the real reason for the breakup was the realization that he actually did not love her hence his refusal to give her his time/love. The second thing here is that he discovered that he was a business man and did not like being a pastor anyway. I think he alluded to that in this interview. He sounded very honest here but some of the things he said makes one to think there are more things than meets the eye here.

[@jntshinga2164]

Thank you Ps Phiri for you candidness and transparency. May the Lord abundantly bless and restore you and your family . ...wounded healer mmh! Amen...powerful.

[@tshepisoprettyaphane6879]

I have learnt a lot from this session

[@lutherluke5267]

I love the straight talks from the Pastor and excellent presentation of questions from the interview. Watching from Papua New Guinea

[@nonkumonkoe]

This Pastor gets a 💯 from me. His honest, he is accountable. Love this 💕

[@gertrudes6636]

A whole sermon right there , much respect to the pastor

[@thulisilemathonsi3639]

Owww Pastor Phiri much love and your honesty and transparency was so relevant for me,,,,may you heal and hope you find love ❤❤

[@TJ-my9nh]

I now have great respect for Ps Phiri. You really became vulnerable in this interview and I can see your genuineness. I am a Pastor myself and I can relate

[@bohlalewaka]

Ausi waka thank you for this interview. You are doing well mara i wish you could have allowed the conversation to flow seamlessly so that Ntate Phiri can narrative his story. Great show and channel ausi waka.

[@bukekanohashe]

He’s so honest. I love that he’s not pointing fingers. I have so much respect for him ♥️

[@masalamashaba7719]

I love her show. So authentic, so guiene, so real. You definitely need a tv show.

[@preciouschihota8228]

God is the Healer, you are the Vessel Pastor Phiri. Just love your openness we are not perfect we are perfected by the word. Big Up and stay strong. I respect you, Brother Phiri.

[@benedictpharoe9430]

Great interview. The Pastor came out very honestly. Divorce destroys families

[@tinaogodo2051]

God bless you Pastor Phiri for being so sincere. It takes guts to admit to falling. You did not make excuse or justify your stance. I hope your message would reach not only pastors but men in general. The error in many marriages is when men believe they are providing; therefore, women should understand or manage their physically absent husband. I pray God heals your marriage and reunites both of you. And, Yes, judgment is in the church, and that is why judgment will begin from the house of God.