I'm gross and uncool

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I really was afraid to upload this video and it's taken the internet 3 days to actually upload. I was hoping it wouldn't but when I watch it now that it's up, I realise it's a pretty important personal and vulnerable story I need to share.
I hope this helps you in some way.
Kisses to you all :)
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[@johannaxxx295]

This is completely unrelated .... BUT GIRL YOUR SHOULDERS😍😍😍

[@pile333]

She's been a swimmer and it's totally visible from her amazing shoulders.

[@juucize]

I agreeeee

[@yasminealioua8269]

I didn't know I was carying this old part of myself with me until you mentioned it, thanks a lot! I'm now starting to understand why I act or feel a certain way sometimes, it's mostly because I still think I am that 13 yo who was so awkward and not confident at all in her own body (cause of bullying mostly). Your content always brings value Sorelle! Thanks again (french subscriber)

[@egleslowlands]

it seems that you are yet to discover a gorgeous and powerful goddess within! Enjoy!

[@IvanRumi]

"Cool" exists inside of a group of people depending of approval of each other. Being as unique as you are is being real and genuine "cool" regardless of anyone's approval is my absolute dream, you are really inspiring with your whole "lame" life. Love!

[@brittanybrzek1491]

"i desire to be in my body; i don't wanna be in my head."

[@MoonisEmma]

This video made me cry because I too have been struggling with this same thing of telling myself lies and acting upon those beliefs. You are such an inspiration to me and it is very comforting to see someone who I wish to be like in the future going through and talking about things that I have struggled with for such a long time.

[@carlaaaaa20]

Beliefs can either be liberating or limiting. Its so important to check in and see if the beliefs we are carrying are serving us. Thanks so much for the video! I really resonated with it as I too have been shedding limiting beliefs I've carried since I was a child.

[@CorDeGeleia]

Loved this, can relate so much! I have been working for years on shedding this subconscious perception that I'm not "cool" and all the consequences in my behaviour that it has... on friendships, on the activities I dare to try... and coincidentally, I resisted surfing and many other activities a lot because of this. I even resist telling other people of my career as a marine biologist and nature guide because its something I have labelled in my head as something "cool" and it feels inauthentic to be "label" my self with something worthy of that adjective. I have been slowly healing from this over the years (not just for coolness and beauty, but so many other things), and man it is a game-changer. I have offered my self so many enjoyable experiences and friendships by embarking in this healing! And this winter, all though I still see my self as goofy and weird, I have dared to fully embark on snowboarding while I am here in Switzerland working/travelling, living in the alp peaks for the season. And man, I love it SO much! I'm so glad I have given my self this opportunity for healing and joy!

[@kawanypaiva4062]

That's exactly what I needed to hear sorelle ❤️❤️ my father was a surfer and he always wanted to teach me, but I never got to do it because I hated my body so much and I thought I would never be that "hot surfer girl". Now that I'm in the process of accepting my body, nothing's stopping me from hitting the waves! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@evita1553]

Thank you. I relate 🙏🏽

[@ReBeLRecKLesSs]

I feel this so much. I think we all have these limiting stories that we tell ourselves... but we need to see them to let them go, and realise that we are so much more than that.

[@winniepoon5515]

It's interesting to listen to a person talking out loud about these experiences and it really helps me understand that all people has their own tough times even someone older and more experienced.

[@yanagambarova3613]

You a great and real person! Here in social media it’s so rare. Love when you talking what’s on your mind! Can relate with a lot of your thoughts, it makes me feel less lonely... Thank you for that❤️

[@evabakkenegard246]

I relate so much to this video. I used to be this awkvard, strange (not like the others) little kid that was bullied and never fitted in. And it still has an effect on me to this day. The cool kids was the ones wearing a lot of makeup, was wearing cool brands and doing all these things. I was the tiny, late developed, band geek that liked to draw and play games. Not to hang around doing "cool" stuff. I still struggle this day to wear more makeup than a little maskara, to buy nice clothes for myself and to do all of these things. Im trying to work on it, but it is (as you kind of say) so embedded into my perception of "me" that its really hard to break free from. Thank you for making this video, you are not alone in this!

[@EvaFroggy]

I loved this video. Quarantine helped me to get to my 11 years old self and that girl gave me strength to take the first steps towards becoming who I always wanted to become. And now that I've seen this video I feel even more empowered and stronger that the more we live, the better we get, and therefore everything around us. Been following you since 2017 on instagram, and occasional videos on YT. You are someone I look up to, and would love to see more people do, specially the new generations, so they can be at a higher level asap and achieve even more and vetter than we did! ❤️🤗 Love xx

[@bethseaton8540]

I'm 5 minutes in and have to pause cause this is hitting so hard. I've always felt imposter syndrome in a social way, I always tell myself I'm not cool enough to hang out with these people or try this or be seen here because I think I'm stuck in my awkward, socially anxious 14 year old mind. hearing you verbalize it made me realize how ridiculous my subconscious way of thinking can be so thank you!

[@leosaav4356]

I think we all can feel very related to your story! Thanks for being so authentic and inspiring. Even the coolest people have those insecurities and one of the things with social media is that we are encouraged to show our best version, hiding our vulnerability. Your're one of the coolest person ever! and even more now that we get to see how you grow and share that with others :) we almost met in Bali 2 years ago! and talked through instagram, I don't know if you remember but I hope one day we get to connect somewhere while traveling!

[@Winved]

Thank you for sharing. Beautiful, down to earth, explanation of the constant EGO fight we must endure to be happy in life.

[@Rojas_Tarchoun]

“I desire to be in my body not in my head” that really hits me...

[@courtneymateri248]

Your genuine, unfiltered, authentic, honest, vulnerable, courageous, badass, and down to earth presence is an absolute breath of fresh air that the KZbin community as well as collective humanity as a whole is in desperate need of! I sincerely appreciate your existence and everything that you have to offer to the world, as I can assure you that living your truth makes you the coolest human!

[@flowerkatze7097]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I also feel kinda „uncool“ sometimes, its really annoying when i talk to people i consider being „cool“ because i start behaving really awkwardly then. But knowing, that Im not the only one really helps :) so thank you again

[@rosemarydewar1707]

One of the biggest things I’ve had to come to terms with was that humility and needless-self-judgement are not the same. Competence holds a lot of meaning for me. It’s not that I tell myself how “bad” or “uneducated” I may be, but my humility comes from how hungry I am to keep on learning. It’s not about what I don’t know or understand, but it is about what I am willing to find and discover.

[@AthenaAurora]

This is resonating so profoundly with me; thank you so much for this vulnerability, this real human honesty. It feels like opening Pandora's box but in a good way?!? So much love for this and for you.

[@lenireisner5518]

I can tell you without a doubt in my heart: YOU! Are the coolest person I ever encountered on KZbin. PS: Thank you for sharing this, you're helping all the weird girls out there.

[@IgorMarleyBasic]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I felt a lot like that throughout my life, then I started asking myself: what’s the worst thing that can happen? Getting a NO? Well, that’s not so tragic. I think I can deal with that. Girl, you are not uncool or gross, just real and authentic ♥️

[@EasySwissGerman]

thank you so much. those underlaying stories are soo important to identify and then working on not going back to them!! I love the one can learn different ways and different behavior. I takes me quite sometime but it is learnable and life is soooo mich better when changing those patterns.

[@teoyears5939]

Thank you for this, Sorelle. You have helped me open my eyes and realize it's time for a change. I'm turning 19 this year, I'll be going to college and I'm terrified of the life that lies ahead of me. I've been carrying the type of thoughts you discussed about for as long as I can remember and I kind of wish I hadn't stained the memory of these past beautiful teenage years with such dark conceptions of myself. It's high time i did something about that if i want my future self to be happy. It's definitely easier said than done, but i''ll be looking into ways of doing it.

[@scarletsteele1488]

Thank you so much for sharing this.. i didnt realize it til now.. but i feel you. i need to really start observing what I'm actually doing, thinking, what labels im forcing onto myself. ty, i luv you, and cant wait to see you rippin!

[@ghiyashour2662]

Sorelle.. you’re so freaking cool ! just the fact that you travelled across the world to learn how to surf makes you awesome! i wish i was courageous enough to be able to do that! i’m dying to solo travel but there’s a part in me that says you can’t do it, it’s not in you!! you inspire me everyday !!

[@ashleigray4255]

This is me and music. And social media. my underlying thought are that im a failure and im not a good singer. even with he opportunities that I have and how much songwriting brings me joy, I definitely do fight it. but that you for showing me that it is ok to change for the purpose of unfolding who you are in the inside.

[@celestegross6872]

I just wanna hug you. I’m so proud of you. We all struggle with stories like that and my own stories of “I’m not good enough” have definitely caused me a lot of grief. Thank you for being honest and sharing this with us. ♥️

[@isabellabuson5512]

Love you Sorelle! Your personality and your vibe is such an inspiration to me, thanks for being who you are and sharing it with so much authenticity! I'm 50 and partly thanks to you I'm reclaiming my dreams for my own life. Much love and gratitude to you!

[@sangchai9772]

I really feel you...i wanna cry now...we all love you...thanks for being an inspiration

[@sincerelyweird4349]

I would for sure Love to see a video about how you met or how you learned to meet the right people. I feel the same way as you described! Stay awesome!

[@Carnetsdenote]

You're such a beautiful human being sorelle, with so much sensitivity. Thank you for being you and sharing your vision of life and your strength with us

[@veronicca1675]

Your videos almost always make me choke up on tears Sorelle, in the best way possible

[@fritzifrutzi]

wow! soo brave for being this vulnerable!

[@omem95]

Sorelle, this video is beautiful. You have communicated and put everything out there that I am sure not only I have felt the same way for so long. Girl its beautiful to be true to yourself and start being the version you always wanted to be. Also surf & skate are just wicked sports that are filled with adrenaline. Keep that up, you will enjoy it more everyday. I have started with skate myself, thinking hey I always wanted to, I am just not cool enough. So I decided by the age of 23 to buy a board on my trip in Rio and went cruising around because there was nobody there to judge me of not being cool. And slowly having my confidence growing now I surf and skate at my home country, where people know the uncool version of me and they cheer to see me being me now. Cheers and thank you for opening up!

[@larabarbatowolf1335]

I am only 13, so I can’t relate to a lot of things you say but still, it’s been incredible watching your journey from shaving your head with melina to learning to be this amazing inspirational surfer/skater chick has been amazing congratulations and I hope that you only go up from here! All the love from Brazil! Ps when you said that about us wanting to be your friends I teared up 💗💗😌

[@gottadasha]

Oh my goodness, I related so much and genuinely teared up. Thank you for sharing

[@LifeAsKikay]

The message in this video hits very close to home. Thank you for the reminder and encouragement! You are such a vibrant soul, you brighten every life you touch. 🤗🤗🤗

[@dulappen494]

Nice to see such an honest video, very inspirational.

[@caglakarsli]

I love you so much, love your honesty, love your lifestyle, love how you educate others with your knowledge, love how truthful to yourself and to others, you give me strength to fulfill my life with happiness by telling us your experience on this world, I understand that we are all same one to another, please keep inspiring and don't ever stop. I'm on your pattern, much love xoxo

[@carlachua]

I've always wanted to learn how to ride a bike but I'm too afraid because I didn't want to fall, but now you've motivated me so much I might just give it a go.

[@Wee.low1]

I believe in you girl

[@carlachua]

@@Wee.low1 Thank you so much 😭

[@tki6087]

Your radical authenticity inspires the fuck out of me. I love you!

[@froebelsteph]

Your work is truly amazing so thank you for creating. Your work gives me the opportunity to realistically dream because I know what I want is possible through you. It also helps to see a similar perspective to my own where in my town this perspective doesn't exist.

[@juliaalmedal6704]

Wow, I can really relate to this. I also want to be a surfer/skater but has always thought I’m not cool enough! Thanks for sharing!!

[@babetteateoatmeal7854]

i think to some extent, we are all 'cool'. we don't see it, but others do. and when we get far enough out of our comfort zone and have a chance to look over our own life from a distance (i don't mean that as in being physically far away from home, i mean new routines, new mindset) then we start to see ourselves and the wonderful things we do and we can appreciate our 'coolness' and ourselves for who we are. ✨

[@animatinglaurie]

I think you are so cool! I find you soo inspiring, your rawness and honesty I am glad I have found your channels! Thank you for your crazy authenticity I so love it!

[@eveliendekker6650]

Thank you for making this video, it opened my eyes on my own repetitive negative thoughts. Thank you Sorelle :)

[@trifalex11]

i have bpd, i can relate to this to so many levels. i can only imagine how much harder it must be for a woman.

[@CreativityCoffee]

Thank you so much, Sorellea for going through with it and posting the video! Your such an inspiration 😻🏄🏻‍♀️

[@swiing444]

Thank you so fucking much for sharing this. So healthy to hear the truth and an instagram filter from creators who never feel real. You are pretty fucking cool for this alone

[@virginielevel9914]

Authentic, fun and open to face your fears, cracks and all these twisted learned insecurities That’s why I spend my precious time watching you, precious amazing spiritual being > YOU ROCK lil’sista

[@madeloa]

This message touched my soul - fully relatable and eye opening. Thank you Sorelle ❤️

[@LoboLux]

I think you may really enjoy the book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, It talks about the subconscious agreements we make with ourselves about ourselves at a young age that form biases against us and how to break that thinking. Audiobook is just a few hours if you're short on time but you're a speed reader too so take your pick! ;) Lots of love to you.

[@gioiatiberi1053]

Thank you so much for sharing such personal things! Amazing as always!

[@AestheticAcademic]

I just discovered you and I am bloody in love. AMAZING content. The best part of quarantine for me is not having to shower as much :D

[@aurelie1545]

You are such an inspiration ! A beautiful person inside and outside 💕 A bonjour from France 😁

[@avalongrail10]

What are your opinions on courage? You seem pretty brave; trying new things, meeting new people, travelling, etc. I really admire your willingness to enter into the new and unknown and I would be happy if you talked about that. Glad you are happier and good luck!

[@RCodyWanner]

Really really love this Sorelle. ❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼 also really making me think about my own story of my identity

[@margaritastrateva6291]

Thank you for sharing it! I think a lot of us feel that way. I needed to hear those things.

[@kseniakramarskaya7553]

this is actually what I'm going through with photography. especially with posing. the way I do that is ssooo lame while other people manage to be so naturally perfect in front of the cam

[@zyoma5262]

So relating. Thanks, Sorelle!

[@72jmy]

I can totally relate to you I think that’s awesome that I’m not the only person that feels like this sometimes thanks for being you

[@stephmour3049]

I like you because you're real. Because you challenge yourself everyday and because you are yourself and it is awesome. I also feel like I don't fit anywhere because people are so much more cooler than I am. Have a great adventure, Sorelle! I'll try to have some.

[@sonyakate3436]

wow wow wow this couldn’t have come at a better time and I related to every word you said. I don’t know if my brain is ready to believe it yet but man I want to. For the mean time I’ll just replay this video until I do believe it!

[@agreigndor1]

This speaks to me on a spiritual level.

[@Alexa-zi8py]

I love you Sorelle, you're a rolemodel😊 good for you that you worked that out for yourself, keep going!! Lots of love❤

[@abbiestokes8403]

Jesus this helped so much. To feel like u ainy the only one its liberating

[@zocastationhornet2227]

Living and Learning.. you are real.

[@saholio]

Dude - you're wearing my favorite top that you have so finally I looked it up today - damn! You look better than the model for SURE!

[@FreakOnAPanda]

thank you so much for this video, it opened up my eyes a lot

[@aishachaudhry4728]

You don't know how much you helped me with that :)

[@jasmi0555]

With every one of your videos I feel so educated on a higher level. Thank you for allowing me and helping me exploring what I want to do and who I want to be. Your art and content mean so much to me. Have a lovely day, saying Hi from Slovakia. X

[@MrAsyouwish]

Thank you so much for saying this!

[@the9file]

i've always thought a lot about what's cool & uncool. idk what it means, i think it can be good.

[@Sanonim06]

Thank you too dear, to watch you and being inspired by you became my morning routine :) thank you

[@Yayoi4]

I loved this video 💙 You're so inspirational, thank you.

[@_callmeluana]

Thank you for talking about that!! You’re beautiful and you’re worth it 🤍 Besos y abrazos Sorelle 🇨🇷

[@kelseysolin1322]

Seriously love this video, I’ve said these things to myself for as long as I can remember. Being 5’8’ since grade 6 didn’t help haha. That you for making myself become aware of this. Thanks for amazing content and being who you are!!

[@MyFukinBass]

i always learn something new with your videos.

[@ThisKidMegan]

thank you for posting this.

[@ZoniHD]

thank you sooo much for sharing Sorelle!!

[@nikkiknutson2846]

stoked for you!!! also if you surf= you're a surfer ;) This video is powerful, thank you for sharing! Seeing some of myself in your story

[@Bliss839]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🏼♥️

[@Therosecottage.]

Thank you so much for sharing! This is so so inspiring!

[@lolaabadia9397]

Gracias por compartir, Sorelle

[@italianplastick4031]

Hey what are the chances that I just came here to watch the diy photoshoot for the 20th time, and you literally just uploaded 🙏🏻 it's a sign ❤️

[@SorelleAmore]

daaaaammmmn. 20th time! Commitment girl!

[@margett__]

You’re such a gift Sorelle! Just want to thank you for sharing your journey with us! Peace ✌️

[@tanyahumenyuk4995]

Thank you for content like this. And you are amazing ☺️

[@nielshansen8548]

I tried to explain this to all the female students, I tried dating. Most young men divide young women into Attractive and Non Attractive. And Attractive, you are! I envy that, you had the balls to go to Greenland

[@klara_t]

thank you for being

[@AnnaPoli800]

thank YOU!

[@rutastyles]

Wow, every word of yours is sooo...deep!! soooo true!!! heart heart heart, sending you sooo much looove Goddess!! (I would totally use some emojis but I'm writing from a chromebook and I have no clue how:D)

[@merlin8046]

If someone as cool and beautiful as you thinks so badly of themself, there is absolutely no hope for me to ever even tolerate myself because I am indeed uncool, gross and dont know why Im still alive when everybody around me is so freakn fantastic. I hold on to some cool stuf Ive got but its nothing compared how much I hate my body and some parts of my personality

[@AndreiGajzago]

I'm really happy you found out that you're a great friend! Cheers!

[@mancavisocnik3498]

That's exactly how i feel.

[@dfwolfe23]

I have always been an admirer since pin up passion. Keep up with the amazing content.

[@SorelleAmore]

You've been here so long David! Thank you!!!

[@laraevers1670]

Damn i feel like i needed this video. Thankyou for sharing❤ love your videos. I like your open conversations.

[@edenmyrtle]

Thankyouuu for this video 😊❤️

[@lucjazet]

Thank you for this video❤️