This lady is the prime example of going to college and getting degrees without knowing what she really wants to do and the market out there.
@user-mv9tt4st9k Жыл бұрын
Each new degree is a new student loan and a possible deferral of payments on the current loan(s) with the hope of the next degree equalling a higher salary payoff.
@jameywallace5133 Жыл бұрын
Just looks good on a resume but it’s sometimes bittersweet
@bbslabaugh Жыл бұрын
@@user-mv9tt4st9kI've said it before and I'll say it again -- go to Work as an Apprentice. Get paid to learn. Invest on a Monthly basis in a Mutual Fund. You'll do good!
@TheseEndlessNights Жыл бұрын
Sounds like she does that for everything in her life. Does things without thinking about them beforehand.
@nowaytoisop8776 Жыл бұрын
I'm paying out of pocket and am in school at the moment. Still figuring out what I want to do with the degree. It's not that I have no clue on the industry, it's just where I want to specialize that I need to figure out.
@Tashas_Travels Жыл бұрын
4:24 😂😂😂😂😂 Just collecting degrees like a thermometer 😂😂
@ruthirwin82228 ай бұрын
Brilliant
@moniquedavis35834 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@garrettholtz8379 Жыл бұрын
The way they suggest "just double your income" makes it sound like its so easy.
@LittleMopeHead Жыл бұрын
They never said it's easy. You want to be out of debt, it's hard intentional work.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
No, it makes it sound like they understand that things that are worth doing are never easy.
@intn14 Жыл бұрын
I doubled mine just by them saying it multiple times.😂
@eile42198 ай бұрын
Right, let me that, they complain about money. We can just tell her to quit the show and double her income
@poptartkilla37187 ай бұрын
It’s a lot easier when you have a Law degree you’re not using
@TM_Stone Жыл бұрын
Just proves people with a degree(s) are not always smart regarding life choices and this is coming from someone who has a masters degree.
@orphancharmander1168 Жыл бұрын
I can relate, im on wellfare 👀🇩🇰
@formula112967 Жыл бұрын
i don't even have a degree (lifetime mechanic) and I carry over no credit card debt, no car loans, and the only debt I have is my mortgage that I make 4 principal payments a month on. I know people with degrees that are working at Starbucks and can't even afford rent, much less a mortgage.
@wobbled5609 Жыл бұрын
@Annoye MANY stupid peoples get degrees. You can be educated and stupid.
@Project-Masculinity Жыл бұрын
How dare you all my PhD in Unicorn 🦄 Studies Trumps everything (please give me a bailout 🙃)
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
They r stupid
@yep3172 Жыл бұрын
I didn't go to college. Work as a manager, no debt, house owned and a good retirement going before 40.
@Jedi12789 Жыл бұрын
You don’t always have to go to college to be successful. The drive and want to have a lot to do with it.
@drn133554 ай бұрын
There are a lot of lawyers who are successful. There are a lot of people who didn't go to college who are flat broke also. It is decisions we make.
@richthepup Жыл бұрын
Dave’s face when she said she worked for a non-profit after going massively into debt 😂 felt
@nicholeknight1893 Жыл бұрын
Dave's face when she said she has three degrees 🤣
@rayofsunshan Жыл бұрын
Depending on the job title, nonprofits pay more than some government sector jobs and she may have wanted to work towards PSLF (which is advisable for borrowing well over $100K while barely breaking into it income wise). Still definitely an understandable reaction when actively sitting on a law degree. Edit: That’s exactly what she said so my apologies for beating a dead horse. Her problem is she’s not looking deep enough into the job market to leverage her education and experience properly. Potential employers might be seeing right through that.
@veronica.baker1 Жыл бұрын
It's recommended to save at least 15% of your income in a 401k. You can use online calculators to estimate how much you should save based on your age and income. Saving at least 15% of your income in a 401(k) can help ensure that you have enough money to retire comfortably. By saving this much, you can take advantage of compound interest and potentially grow your retirement savings over time.
@james.atkins88 Жыл бұрын
For me, I believe retirees who struggle to meet their basic needs are the ones who could not accumulate enough money during their active years to meet their needs. Retirement choices determine a lot of things. My wife and I both spent same number of years in the civil service, she invested through a wealth manager and myself through the 401k. We both still earning after our retirement.
@hunter-bourke21 Жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate most people don't have such information. I don't really blame people who panic. Lack of information can be a big hurdle. I've been making more than $875k by just investing through an advisor, and I don't have to do much work. Doesn't matter if the economy is misbehaving; great wealth managers will always make returns.
@rebecca_burns14 Жыл бұрын
@@hunter-bourke21 Interesting. I think this is something I should do, but I've been stalling for a long time now. I don't really know which firm to work with; I feel they are all the same but it seems you’ve got it all worked out with the firm you work with so i surely wouldn’t mind a recommendation.
@hunter-bourke21 Жыл бұрын
Research and choose someone with a plan for consistent portfolio growth; "Camille Alicia Garcia" has done well with my investments, and I believe she has the qualifications and expertise to help you meet your goals.
@Kim.beneteau Жыл бұрын
Camille. Has the appearance of being a great authority in her profession. I looked her up online and found her website, which I reviewed and went through to learn more about her credentials, academic background, and employment. She has a fiduciary duty to protect my best interests. I sent her an email outlining my objectives and also booked a session with her; thanks for sharing.
@KENTUCKYUSA1 Жыл бұрын
After listening to this woman, I think hubby is smart to step aside and let her fall. H seems to be to blame for all her disasters. He is not motivated, not educated, blah, blah. But he is not $500,000 in the hole.
@IrishFrank22 Жыл бұрын
Husband needs to walk now while she has debt so he will financially come out ok.
@lagarde2011 Жыл бұрын
She doesn't have to work as a lawyer to use her law degree to make good money. Large companies hire lawyers in high-level HR jobs to deal with problem employees, contract negotiation, staff training programs, and similar positions. Her degree in conflict management would be helpful in that regard.
@jacqueline8566 Жыл бұрын
And Business Development / Transactions
@annorahharris5927 Жыл бұрын
Yea, but the pay rate for those jobs is about the 80k she’s making now. 80k is actually very standard money for a fairly recent law school grad in many parts of the country. I’m an attorney and I’d say that was about median for my graduating class. Those of us making the money Dave is talking about graduated very top of our class and work in “big law”.
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
I would think that conflict management classes came with the law degree.
@MrBrewman95 Жыл бұрын
People thought paying off their loans with zero percent was not worth doing. Now that the Fed raised interest rates it is common to have them be 7%. When I graduated in 2017, most of my loans were like 2.5% and I got them all paid in May 2020 and never looked back.
@anndeecosita358610 ай бұрын
I bought a car a year ago at 4.2 percent interest. You can get lower rates if you play your cards right. I had a zero for 60 months car loan in the past and was in no hurry to pay it off.
@i.k51432 ай бұрын
Congrats dude, W
@arielleyasmine Жыл бұрын
As someone who has a law degree and is in compliance she can certainly make more with her experience and degree. Maybe even leverage her IT degree with her law degree and go into cybersecurity or privacy compliance. Hope it works out for her
@SkyThoughtss Жыл бұрын
Yup GRC can make 150-200k and have a life out of work. Little boring and hard to get into though, but with her degrees its a good start.
@robertt9825 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, those two degree's together could set her up for some amazing careers. It's very specialized work but it pays big money with the right places. There aren't many people with both legal and IT knowledge
@anaisanwar8424 Жыл бұрын
A college degree has been a total waste of my money. I’m in retail and make no money. Anyone could have gotten my job without a degree. People get on the job training . I paid cash for my degrees. I owe nothing thank gosh.
@shea1219 Жыл бұрын
Dave and Jade did an excellent job on this call. The caller was speechless.
@carolynmaryscott11 ай бұрын
I think you meant to say is "the caller left me speechless ..." clearly she can speak.
@esterdrass4964 Жыл бұрын
I would advise the future younglings to go to a trade school and learn a money-making trade. Something like electrician, plumbing, car mechanic...any job that will pretty much guarantee you work and well-paid work. Too many people I see and hear with these high student loans and jobs that don't make a whole lot of money. Tell the future generation to go to a trade school we need more of them in this world.
@donnafontaine2799 Жыл бұрын
Yes trades is the way- excellent
@artrayus3 Жыл бұрын
I say this to my young clients all the time. With the exception of car mechanic. They do not make very much money at all. But aircraft or deisel mechanics can make good money if they get a good education and develop relationships with good mentors.
@esterdrass4964 Жыл бұрын
@@artrayus3 Yes aircraft mechanic and someone that specializes in something like trucks. But I do think car mechanics as well. With the price tag of a brand-new car these days, its likely most people will keep what they have, and they need someone to help maintain it. When a new car averages about 50g's. Tack on interest rates for a loan and high insurance rates for a new car... Plus, with a skill like that, or the electrician/plumber ect...you can maintain your own home or car.
@James_Hough Жыл бұрын
When you go in debt like that, you don't get to be choosy about "I don't like it" . Get out of debt, then be as choosy as you want.
@lindsayclark4009 Жыл бұрын
It’s a false assumption that all attorneys make 6+ figures. It’s a small percentage that does especially “out the gate.”
@drn133554 ай бұрын
He didn't say "all attorneys". What he says she will have to do white job that pays the most. Whether she likes it or not.
@thebullgatorАй бұрын
She’s 3 years out the gate and still making low wages though, she needs to hate the debt more than spinning her wheels in a job she loves.
@cw5948 Жыл бұрын
“She’s collecting degrees like a thermometer” 😂😂
@mustangthings Жыл бұрын
Yet another “I’ve tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas” call. What do these people want Dave to tell them?
@ctawresey Жыл бұрын
There are all other kinds of law that you can practice. I hated litigation more than I hated my $450k in student loans. Switched to transactional law and just finished paying off all my loans.
@CreativeProductions-8 ай бұрын
What do u do
@CreativeProductions-8 ай бұрын
450k is doctor numbers
@ctawresey8 ай бұрын
@@CreativeProductions- I'm a lawyer.
@chrislink73 Жыл бұрын
I have to say, the show really leveled up their audio game. The sm7b's and in-ears sound 100x better than those old headset mics. My ears are happy.
@NTUser1 Жыл бұрын
This girl needs to be a cybersecurity compliance manager/auditor. She'd make 200-250k easy
@GackFinder9 ай бұрын
NO! We don't need more incompetent people in the IT business. It's already full of incompetent people.
@DDDD-of3hv7 ай бұрын
sure... you keep telling that to yourself... reminds me in the late 90s when people attended 3 week IT courses and were demanding 100k+ salaries for installing memory chips and connecting network printers lol
@KarmaHipster313 Жыл бұрын
Train wreck woman calls in and Dave immediately attacked the man that doesn’t have $300K in useless student loan debt. At least he’s consistent.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
They should have BOTH been attacked.
@KarmaHipster313 Жыл бұрын
@@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Agreed
@Tunechi65 Жыл бұрын
Dave love protecting women that are foolish
@Chet_24 Жыл бұрын
For real! I was also put off by her disparaging her husband whe. She said he "Only makes $50k." She went into 300k of student loan debt to make 35k more than her husband.
@CroisMoi Жыл бұрын
He might have begged her not to borrow the money. She sounds willful. I would hate to be married to someone who made stupid financial decisions.
@kleindropper Жыл бұрын
Why does it always seem like the amount of student loans is inversely related to the overall intelligence of the person?
@ToastbackWhale Жыл бұрын
@@JayLawsonYou seem to have missed the word “inversely”
@Mr.Boring_Man Жыл бұрын
HER house but it needs to be HIS student loan problem. Both gotta give... it's a marriage. I understand his concern though. The debt conversation has to be had prior to marriage. Prior to "save the date" invites were sent, I showed my wife my debts (under $20k at the time) and asked her if it made her feel uncomfortable and she said it didn't. We moved accordingly. They didn't do a mortgage application together so he may have not known. Smh.
@stewbugz521311 ай бұрын
I hated working in the medical field at first. I cried all the way to work some days! I also had 3 babies at home! I took overtime and worked until I paid everything off, and I learned how to enjoy what I was doing! She has got to thicken that skin and get out of debt! Wish I could have been an attorney…
@Tyrisanders Жыл бұрын
Husband saying those aren’t his loans 😂😂😂
@williamedward3198 Жыл бұрын
Basically, as always, the advice is “double your income” and all your problems quickly melt away.
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Code word for "Don't be lazy"
@linonator Жыл бұрын
Does anyone else get the feeling that she doesn’t respect her husband due to his income? “he only makes…” Idk if it’s because she has multiple degrees and own the house but that just stood out to me.
@Theman2075 Жыл бұрын
Because if a man does not make more than his woman, she loses respect for him. Most women do this.
@Thurgor_Supreme Жыл бұрын
She put herself into a mortgage worth of debt and only makes $35k more than him, and she has the nerve to talk down?
@asoldierstwocentsrawuncut9611 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
From watching lots and lots of Kevin Samuels I think a guy needs to make 50% more than his wife to be appreciated as an earner.
@shachede6828 Жыл бұрын
If she didn’t respect him she will divorce him. He is only making 59 that’s facts. This woman has a history for settling for less, less salary, less from life, less from her husband.
@momof2momof2 Жыл бұрын
Why do people not figure this out BEFORE they get themselves into such horrible debt ???? smh
@TheFlyingZulu Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the college work is much much different than the real world job... A good example is this... I started out learning to be a professional airline pilot at ERAU, the expense of pilot training and the low starting out pay of a junior pilot was a determining factor in me switching to their Air Traffic Controller program to work for the FAA. I graduated with good grades and a semester early, but the real world of being a controller is was VASTLY more difficult than any training I did while in school. I couldn't deal with the mental workload and my facility told me I needed to resign and do something else.
@edmart3815 Жыл бұрын
You can’t say the husband isn’t motivated without telling this woman the same. You have a law degree but you do t want to litigate? At what point in law school did you not understand litigation is part of being a lawyer? This woman reeks of unmotivated. She want’s everything easy.
@gatorgatorgirl295 Жыл бұрын
There are contract attorneys. Litigation is not part of being a lawyer all the time
@slimdude2011 Жыл бұрын
What husband? In her situation she doesn't have a husband because, they're not living like a married couple, when their finances and everything else are individually separated, and not financially supporting each other. That's not a marriage! You can do bad by yourself.
@arienfox Жыл бұрын
@@slimdude2011Right 👍
@chriswilson433 Жыл бұрын
AI is going to kill contract attorneys in the next three years; count on it.
@GregTorseth-c5w Жыл бұрын
Most people with law degrees do not litigate. That's a fact!
@nodrogytsirk Жыл бұрын
Recently retired Canadian teacher…make a great pension and benefits with money in the bank. I have repeatedly encouraged all my students to look at the trades as a career option. Seeing the insane debt of American students is horrifying!
@jhonilocran6077 Жыл бұрын
I know ADAs who make less than 100k. Being a lawyer doesn’t guarantee tons of money if youre not sure what you want to do with it
@user-mv9tt4st9k Жыл бұрын
I wonder if she continued getting degrees as a way to defer her student loan payments? I have a couple of acquaintances who did that, incurring more student loan debt thinking the next degree will make them more money. 🙄
@anndeecosita358610 ай бұрын
I know someone who went to grad school because she couldn’t afford to pay her undergraduate loans. She went on to become a university professor so hopefully it worked out for her financially in the end.
@danishhussain8046 Жыл бұрын
You are a degree hoarder but not a good employee. What is the benefit of having 3 degrees? I am just an electrical engineer with 10 years experience. I make $110+ working hybrid. You could have just any one of your degree and could make atleast 1.5 times your salary.
@reese85 Жыл бұрын
Is that a good salary with 10 yrs experience?
@danishhussain8046 Жыл бұрын
@@reese85 I work for Utility sector which is recession free. 401k matching is 150% upto 8% deduction. My market value is more (around $130k+) and I am underpaid, I will switch soon. Moreover, the Utility sector doesn't pay like one could get in industry but somehow job security keeps your mind in peace.
@frankcb11 Жыл бұрын
@@reese85yes 100% if they live under their means. Congratulations to him/her for making that much and having great benefits
@RRAREBEAR Жыл бұрын
that thermometer line went over everyone’s heads and we need to take a second and acknowledge how good that was 😆 🌡️
@currenteventsenthusiast9477 Жыл бұрын
Wait I still don’t get it. Explícame por favor 🤔
@sophiarideout9250 Жыл бұрын
Came to the comments to find this one 🤣 Not sure how he kept a straight face after that one lol.
@RRAREBEAR Жыл бұрын
@@currenteventsenthusiast9477a thermometer measure DEGREES (Fahrenheit/Celsius), so in this case he’s saying she’s collecting degrees (referring to EDUCATIONAL degrees) like a thermometer Lol
@ItsMe-ko6sz Жыл бұрын
Dave’s had that line in his back pocket for a while 😂 No way he came up with that in the spot lol. Brilliant
@johnmiller8900 Жыл бұрын
Dave is predictably predictable, and that really applies with his jokes. It may not be one he uses everyday he has certainly used is several times in the past.
@JayLawson Жыл бұрын
I'm sure he loves the fact that his wife said "He only makes 50K"
@jimroscovius Жыл бұрын
My daughter makes that much and has no debt. This guy is lazy.
@xsgtxbigboy1655 Жыл бұрын
@@jimroscoviusthe guy is lazy but the girl is just fine? Id rather make 50 no debt than 80 and 300k debt y’all need to stop slamming the guy just cause they don’t have a pu$$y
@jimroscovius Жыл бұрын
@xsgtxbigboy1655 I said in another comment that they were both at fault. He's lazy and she's a whiner. They BOTH need to work a LOT more.
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Kevin Samuels said she should find an average guy making $50k, boom here he is
@camxdidxthat Жыл бұрын
@@jimroscoviusshe’s a winner?
@EricAndradeMusic Жыл бұрын
I don't blame the Guy, I wouldn't want that debt either lol
@keiseanb1 Жыл бұрын
He shouldn't have married into it if he didn't.
@jodylarson4697 Жыл бұрын
Real estate attorney. Tax attorney. These people and many other lawyers make good money without having to litigate.
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Mediation is a growing field , with courts back logs
@kensmart1976 Жыл бұрын
How do people get married but handle finances like their single? This is insane.
@johnlanier3616 Жыл бұрын
Any man would be a complete fool to pay off 300k of her horrible decisions.
@artrayus3 Жыл бұрын
@@johnlanier3616 Then by your logic he shouldn't have gotten married. He took on her debt when he married her whether he likes it or not.
@johnlanier3616 Жыл бұрын
@@artrayus3 Exactly
@SavingsMinusDebt Жыл бұрын
Dave is letting Jade know ... this is his show 😂 Dave let Jade get some mic time please.
@BetterNBetter Жыл бұрын
Right lol he needs to work on not talking over people. We get it’s your show but respect others in the same way you want to be respected.
@jayman3575 Жыл бұрын
Def should be able to utilize your IT degree and your law degree for compliance with tech companies(especially since you have 3 yrs experience in litigation already)...as crazy as it sounds I'd suggest moving to a bigger tech hub where youd have a big shovel pay and just find a way to live cheap..it will be tough cause of the kid and school districts but possible for a few years then move back to the south after you established some great experience. Might be after 2024 when tech recovers from additional imminent layoffs though...
@diggernash1 Жыл бұрын
Make money first, then go be charitable. He told her to go to work, but she went back to school instead. Good for him putting his foot down.
@Martz7 Жыл бұрын
I love watching this show with no Debt on my shoulders.😎
@yr218011 ай бұрын
me too
@cannedham3774 Жыл бұрын
Never felt more proud of my GED... 🤣🤣 Great episode!
@ryanbreedlove7694 Жыл бұрын
Can’t educate yourself out of poverty. Poor people think the number of degrees they have equals wealth and status.
@alexthomas4846 Жыл бұрын
Education is a gateway out of poverty. However, it's not the be all end all way out of poverty. The margin of error for anything when you are poor is very, very small. That includes choosing wrong degree, starting a business without a solid plan or investing, etc.
@garfieldGG Жыл бұрын
I feel this woman on so many levels. I can’t litigate either. And if you can’t, then suddenly that law degree is worth so much less than you paid for it.
@semosancus5506 Жыл бұрын
Shouldn't law schools filter people who don't show litigation potential? It's awful expensive to not be able to use it.
@rsimmons1980 Жыл бұрын
I'm stuck in litigation too. But luckily I am doing more writing as my employer realized that is my strength. Going to Court is horrible.
@rayisnumbaone Жыл бұрын
There are definitely a ton of transactional jobs out there. I went from doing family law litigation into intake. A lot less stress but also $30K pay cut. I also paid off my student loans with a sense of urgency though.
@garfieldGG Жыл бұрын
@@semosancus5506 it’s hard to know at the time.
@garfieldGG Жыл бұрын
@@rayisnumbaone “a ton” is a massive stretch. Hell there aren’t even many compliance jobs like this lady that called in has. And it seems like everything requires you to have litigation experience Lol
@kara2162 Жыл бұрын
‘I do not want to litigate’ Suck it up. Shouldn’t have taken out 300k in student loans 😂
@Nick-gk6hj Жыл бұрын
Or couldn't hack it and can't get another job
@dino450 Жыл бұрын
They say double your income like you can just snap your fingers and do that lmao
@artrayus3 Жыл бұрын
If she dug her heels and decided she was going to double her income she could do it within about 3 to 6 months. If she's more careful and cautious 1 to 2 years.
@ethxo6734 Жыл бұрын
Too many people prefer to be comfortable in debt rather uncomfortable in a job that pays well. Difficult jobs command higher salaries.
@ChangYu-wi4ez2 ай бұрын
Difficult jobs should pay a lot more but usually pay just a little bit more than a comfortable job.
@dearestdarling9467 Жыл бұрын
“She’s collecting degrees like a thermometer” made me chuckle 😂 Dave and his southern sayings is too funny.
@fnabiev1010 Жыл бұрын
😂
@ldtriton Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@laneyluneva Жыл бұрын
Also, "I've always wanted to be an attorney"....next she says "I hated litigating" Girl...
@jet4415 Жыл бұрын
I am a CPA. I did auditing for 5 years and hated it. There were lots of other paths. Litigation is one segment of a job choice when you’re a lawyer.
@currenteventsenthusiast9477 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always wanted to be a chef but I hate cooking
@rsimmons1980 Жыл бұрын
Dave is always acting like lawyers should be making $200,000. I am a lawyer and I know plenty of lawyers who don't make near that. Only big law or medium law firms or some in-house positions pay that. And to get in-house, you generally need law firm experience.
@princetonscholar5723 Жыл бұрын
She should have been doing “summer associate” working interviews while in law school and graduated to a big, downtown corporate firm. Anything less, is a waste of time.
@rsimmons1980 Жыл бұрын
@@princetonscholar5723 GIrl, they don't just hand out those big law jobs.
@princetonscholar5723 Жыл бұрын
@@rsimmons1980 Never said they did: Study, Excel, Compete 📚
@shachede6828 Жыл бұрын
I also know plenty where are making above 200k. How much you make in law depends on you. Some lawyers want thier time and sanity won’t trade it for money. Other don’t care and only focus on money
@rsimmons1980 Жыл бұрын
@@shachede6828 And then you know that those people are the minority.
@cutehumor Жыл бұрын
Collecting degrees like a thermometer!! Savage Dave comment
@deeplansandbudgets Жыл бұрын
I am sorry to say this and be so blunt but anyone smart enough to have three degrees had to have known that amassing all of this debt was not a good idea. It is now time to start paying the piper. This can no longer be about what you want, but what you have to do to pay this debt. We need to stop giving out this amount of loans to students. There is no reason that a person with no ability to pay needs to be given loans for a third degree.
@Brys4n Жыл бұрын
4:22 Dave just dropped the hardest bar in history🔥🔥🔥🔥😂
@katinafrancis76432 ай бұрын
I don't understand spending all that money for college and have nothing.
@leemp337 Жыл бұрын
kids, don't go work non profit after college until you pay off your debt and have your finances in order. Help yourself before you help others. Wealthy people don't start philanthropy until later in life after they made their wealth.
@krogdog Жыл бұрын
And women on Eharmony think I’m a jerk for asking if they have student loans. I need to show them some of these videos, smh
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Accountability is Kryptonite to women.
@artrayus3 Жыл бұрын
At least it's a pretty easy rule out if they have an attitude about a fundamental question. If they get pissy with you for asking that then move on. If you married, they would expect you to take on that debt burden as if it were yours. The least they can do is be transparent about it.
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@artrayus3 Another red flag, next....
@Ojisan642 Жыл бұрын
“He can’t make more money because he doesn’t have the education.” THE POOPER SCOOPER GUY MAKES SIX FIGURES! I don’t think that requires a PhD.
@reese85 Жыл бұрын
He owns his own business but he can make more cuz I make more than both of them as a garbage man
@MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION Жыл бұрын
I make 150,000 no degree just a cdl
@lot2196 Жыл бұрын
I make ,$87k with no degree. Wife makes, $42k as s secretary. Our home and vehicles are paid off. Kids grown. Sorry, just felt like bragging a little.
@reese85 Жыл бұрын
@@MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION class A otr?
@MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION Жыл бұрын
@@reese85 class a regional hazmat tanker
@martinmi5 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t help her pay her student loan either. Dave is cutting the husband down for only making 50K but he didn’t go spending 300K on degrees that he isn’t benefiting from
@sikwithin Жыл бұрын
I understand this but marriage isn’t about living separate lives.
@9StickNate Жыл бұрын
Dave also said nothing about the Mortgage. If marriage is a partnership, put him on the mortgage too.
@RobTzu Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't hire her to fix a speeding ticket.
@herbertscott9575 Жыл бұрын
Law, like medicine is one of those gigs that sounds and looks good when you're on the outside. If you borrow 300k, you need to embrace all the suck, work 16 hour days, hustle, study, research for promotions, raises, bonuses, become a recognizable/active leader, master you job, field, craft....until your credit report reads Student Loans.......$0.00. Credit Cards.......$0.00 Auto Loans......$0.00 ECT. ECT. I've seen people do it with basic 30-60k jobs. It's nothing less of a tragedy and irresponsible to be in debt 300k, with a law degree and CHOOSING not to be the best performing lawyer in your area.
@jlava1575 Жыл бұрын
I love when they say things like "if you double your income and he doubles his income you'll be wealthy" like really? Why didn't i think of that? Why don't I strap on my job helmet and squeeze down into a job cannon and fire off into Jobland where double my income jobs grow on jobbies.
@jlava1575 Жыл бұрын
@triiii1303 what middle class?
@CroisMoi Жыл бұрын
@triiii1303. Like any degree, it is only as good as how you apply yourself. Lawyers are a dime a dozen. If she were at the top of her class, she would have gotten a better job. The top lawyers work hard and don’t want lazy ones to deal with.
@ChangYu-wi4ez2 ай бұрын
I’m laughing so hard THANKS 😂
@jlava15752 ай бұрын
@@ChangYu-wi4ez sometimes Dave's genius is almost frightening.
@DG-mk7kd Жыл бұрын
You lose the choice of doing what you want when you borrow the money Yes work is grinding and depressing, but it is also grinding and depressing to not get a loan paid back (I own a tiny little bit of bank stock, I pay taxes, and I have cash; so if the loan is not paid back I am injured one way or another)
@AlexKaehler-qc8kd Жыл бұрын
What’s an IT degree? Comp Science, or a two year network admin AAS? Either way, neither is worth much on its own. Certifications and work experience is what matters in IT.
@carlaritchie331 Жыл бұрын
The interest on those loans are fighting against her. She has what it takes to find a better paying job.
@jeanmethelus6595 Жыл бұрын
It is sad to see Dave always interrump Jade :( and She's very talented
@3str3lla18 Жыл бұрын
Did not notice until you pointed out, but it happened several time in this video.
@MichaelCarrPilot Жыл бұрын
He’s consistently talking over his co hosts. Wonder why we see such turnover.
@CroisMoi Жыл бұрын
I think Dave is the star. I would not call in to talk to the others.
@Thurgor_Supreme Жыл бұрын
There goes Dave, simpin again. The dude only makes $35k less than her and he didn't have to bury himself under a mountain of debt to get there
@9StickNate Жыл бұрын
They want him to assume stepdad to her Student loans. They don’t seem to mind that the house is in her name though.
@Rob-fn1kp Жыл бұрын
Always
@Sid00077 Жыл бұрын
She can make a lot more with her degree, but she said she doesn't like to do the work that pays her almost double her current salary.
@franciscunningham19394 ай бұрын
Dave always goes hard on the guy not matter the scenario
@curiouscat3384 Жыл бұрын
"Just Do It and SHUT UP!" The latest and greatest of Dave Ramsey :)
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
The add on slogan of Nike
@curiouscat3384 Жыл бұрын
yes but they didn't say "shut up'@@alinatamashevich3354
@chookchack Жыл бұрын
This is crazy. Maximum degree with relatively minimum income. I have an IT friend who makes triple her income working with the state or county.
@kevinb8881 Жыл бұрын
Collecting degrees like a thermometer, wooooo, I like that!!!
@bryandelcid4065 Жыл бұрын
Why do people get 300k in student loan debt just to make 85k? You can make that with an associates degree from a community college for free 😂. Feel bad for her honestly.
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Saying you’re a lawyer is a lot more prestigious so there’s an oversupply of lawyers
@khoalam323 Жыл бұрын
Yea, you use Financial aid to pay for tuition and everything is free as long as you pass your classes. I make $55 K with my associates degree.
@harpldlewis7764 Жыл бұрын
With a Law Degree already, maybe she could do some additional studies in the are of taxation and become a Tax Attorney.
@JordanJiujitsu Жыл бұрын
More studies??!?!? What got her in this mess?
@harpldlewis7764 Жыл бұрын
A Diploma in Taxation would be all that is required, not another Degree. This would cost no where near what she has already spent.@@JordanJiujitsu
@neisci Жыл бұрын
She's a professional student. She needs to make ALL those degrees count for something and maybe later, after paying all debt she could consider going back to school. Which she doesn't need.
@shansmith7100 Жыл бұрын
Dave said “shut up”, silence! I look down at phone! 😂
@LilannB Жыл бұрын
I do not understand marrying someone and saying their $300K of debt is their problem. I am a woman and if I married a man with $300K of debt I would want to help him get out from under that burden. If you help your spouse you are helping your family.
@raulgallardo5140 Жыл бұрын
Oh just dont marry someone who is in debt
@AnthonyMcNeil Жыл бұрын
Those degrees really don't do anything. Sucks, I hope they can get through this.
@shachede6828 Жыл бұрын
They are tool. Can’t do anything on thier own
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Wrap fish
@moniquejames2517 Жыл бұрын
Look into the personal injury field (car wrecks, slip and falls, etc.) Preferably, a firm where they feed you cases vs you having to advertise and do the leg work. Let them call you an ambulance chaser. Your bills will be paid. You have a goal. Try to stay on the pre-suit side. Majority cases settle prior to trial. May have to do depos and mediations, but PI is lucrative. May take a year with no experience to get the caseload moving, but worth it over time.
@pompeiyous2138 Жыл бұрын
You got an IT degree only to realize you don't want to do IT. Then you got a law degree to realize you don't want to fight in court, probably because you're not good at defending your clients. You would have been better just working at Walmart straight out of High School
@Fishouta Жыл бұрын
And then she took courses in conflict management, which "didn't help", to help her with her issues with litigation.
@mimi11011 Жыл бұрын
As an attorney that left litigation after 3 years, its not always because you weren't a good attorney, over 50% of lawyers dislike practicing because it's draining dealing with other people's issues everyday especially in family law. You become their therapist and it's also a personality issue if you're not argumentative and you come to realise you don't enjoy arguing in court everyday. A good pay is what keeps most lawyers practicing, not enjoyment of law.
@gregory4154 Жыл бұрын
"Collecting degrees like a thermometer." LMAO !!!!
@wittenberg5 Жыл бұрын
It's a myth that all attorney's make 200K plus. If you don't go to a top 25 law school you will struggle because there is an over supply of attorneys. The high paying jobs are prestigious law firms that have their pick of the best graduates.
@drtij_dzienz Жыл бұрын
Yeah legal aid needs good lawyers but doesn’t pay the big bucks
@robertmalone1487 Жыл бұрын
So true. Also sounds like she went to law school later in life. Large law firms are not going to hire a middle aged student unless they have a special skill set or was a top student. There are exceptions of course.
@fahlou2019 Жыл бұрын
that's not a myth. Depending on where you live a Paralegal can make over $150k. I make more than that as a Contracts Manager.
@kaiung7542 Жыл бұрын
@@fahlou2019 But the COL is higher in those areas too. Definitely not worth it to get into massive debt for a law degree barely paying 100k
@fahlou2019 Жыл бұрын
You don't have to get into debt for any degree.I didn't. The issue is that the caller seems to be confused about what she wants and just collects degrees with no goal in mind. She can make a lot of money if she stops running around without a purpose@@kaiung7542
@nealp885 Жыл бұрын
I don't think most people with law degrees make 6 figures right out of the gate.
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Probably, but in 3 years, with drive...easy!
@_2315_ Жыл бұрын
0:12 😂😂😂 Homegirl was hurt lmao
@westcoast5681 Жыл бұрын
Husband. 311K debt, nope not my debt. That's drowning debt, nothing the husband could do anyway especially if he has some debt as well, he wouldn't even be able to make dent even if he tried. That's insane debt. 3 degrees, at what point did she say to herself, enough is enough and stop getting useless degrees and pay off her first degree before getting more degrees. It's insane, she likes to collect degrees instead of them to earn money. Madness
@carolsmith2699 Жыл бұрын
It's absolutely true the old saying....someone can have book sense but no common sense.
@maryallen1017 Жыл бұрын
This whole thing is giving me anxiety. I'd rather be working at McDonald's making $40,000 & no debt than having to pay for $311,000 with the amount going up everyday from interest and only making $85,000. Plus House payment costs added in. That's Crazy! How does she sleep at night. 😢 How old is the Child? Are their Childcare costs every week also? Husband also has his own darn mess. Listen to Dave & Jade! Get on the same page. Work more, Work together. Look for a better paying Job. You got this! Wishing you all the best!
@annehajdu865411 ай бұрын
*there *damn
@FlansyLinny Жыл бұрын
How the hell did she get a loan for a house with that much student debt. I have no student debt and I make 50k and I can’t get approved for a house.
@Silverdragon517 Жыл бұрын
Her house and his loan 😂
@untouchable360x Жыл бұрын
She has more degrees than a thermometer.
@Gopher316 ай бұрын
I liked the degree debt so much, I went back for more….. TWICE!!! Hope she manages to convert them to income in future.
@steelrob7917 Жыл бұрын
Lawyers don’t make six figures right out of the gate
@northharriscollege Жыл бұрын
She keep throwing her husband under the bus. 😂
@luisvigo3777 Жыл бұрын
He should run as soon as he hears this video
@KingOfSwords720 Жыл бұрын
It's because he "only" makes 50k 😂 but he doesn't have 300k in debt. Why would he want to combine his income?
@EsiriE Жыл бұрын
@@KingOfSwords720they’re MARRIED
@stud6414 Жыл бұрын
Sounds about Female
@mannyjeanpierre4062 Жыл бұрын
@@EsiriEyeah he was a fool to marry her lol
@Bmrk3495 ай бұрын
My bet is he told her not to get those extra degrees
@northharriscollege Жыл бұрын
Why don’t she just be an attorney for a tech company?
@shameekasimon Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a good plan.
@gooserich3970 Жыл бұрын
Problem solved!
@markg999 Жыл бұрын
Proably cause she isn't good enough lawyer.
@trent797 Жыл бұрын
Not happening unless she went to Stanford or some other top law school AND has experience.
@rsimmons1980 Жыл бұрын
@@trent797 If she gains more compliance experience she could have a chance. Could move over to the big banks.
@workinonit9562 Жыл бұрын
This proves that people with all this education are not very smart. At what point would you not ask yourself what the heck am I doing????
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
So the husband pays rent to her??
@elainepatterson5587 Жыл бұрын
Get her, Dave! Reality will get you every time. An attorney who doesn't want to litigate....🙄
@gooserich3970 Жыл бұрын
You read my mind!!!
@pep590 Жыл бұрын
Like being a doctor who doesn't want to be around sick people.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
Real attorneys NEVER see the inside of a courtroom.
@Sam-gv6lo5 ай бұрын
Three degrees and a lot of debt .. I know people who went to community college and got a nursing degree and right now they are making very good money
@VS-fo9py Жыл бұрын
I would love to hear a follow up on this story in six months to a year. But unfortunately I don’t think she will listen to any of the recommendations. She is not scared enough of that huge mountain of student loan debt, but she sure was proud that she didn’t have car debt. That’s some scary mentality. I listened a second time and at 5:17, she mentions working for a non profit for ten years so that the loan is forgiven. Wow! She really wants the easy ways out. Just make more money and pay the loans off yourself, it’s your debt, you chose to get these expensive degrees, stop expecting to work minimal and expect to get a handout. Geeze.
@DewTime Жыл бұрын
Why get a law degree if you don’t want to do the type of jobs that pay a high salary? That makes literally NO sense unless you already had a trust fund set up. To be honest I think she “hated” litigation because she didn’t have the competency for it. Passing a test is different from working the actual job.
@nadiaaguiar38611 ай бұрын
You said it! Exactly what i was thinking... she prob doesnt like it cuz shes not as good at it. Bt then she should hv thought abt alternative paths