i'm in my flop era

[@traciewilliams4630]

Shaun cracks me up everytime you ask him a question he just says " Aye " 😂😂

[@SadieMc81]

Don't be hard on yourself. Life is a journey. No such thing as a flop era- it's all growth and experience. I am 41. Still just winging it 😂 but enjoying it😊

[@Hoggs-n-dogs]

We are much older than you but after a life changing stroke, I was medically retired from work. I felt like my life was ruined and I had my ‘flop’ moment. We bought a camper van and travel. It gave me purpose. We do it with our 3 dogs and life is good. The only direction I have in life is where the van takes us. Do what makes you happy. Life is for living. X

[@DemiDonnelly]

I love this what a dream xx

[@clairehall704]

Go girl! This is amazing.

[@emilypoprdan1986]

Aww Dems you are honestly such a sweetheart! You are probably the most authentic KZbinr I watch, I love the good and the bad and everything in between ❤ I’m 37 in a few months and I’m single, no kids, don’t own my own home but always remain hopeful that the best is still to come! You are doing amazing lovely xxx

[@sfaz650]

We're skipping the big wedding! Getting married in the local registry office and taking our children on a lovely holiday instead. We've been together 12 years now and honestly don't see the point in spending all that money for one day when you could have amazing experiences in the world. Do what you guys want, not what everyone else does/says. You'll thank yourself ❤️ Yay for Nana 👏

[@DemiDonnelly]

I totally agree and there's apart of me that wants a wedding and to spend the day with all my family too x

[@sfaz650]

@@DemiDonnelly you can do both! Just stick with simple or go abroad to start your travelling ☀️

[@ellem6953]

Defo along with you in the flop era, I think a lot of people got these points in their lives especially when a lot of other things are happening around us that we can’t control like the cost of everything at the moment. I don’t think anybody really know what they’re doing 100% of the time and it’s comforting to hear other people sharing the same feelings. So happy for your nana and a great vlog as usual 🥰

[@carolegreer459]

I’m in my fifty’s and I regret not travelling more before I had a family. I tell my son and daughter to travel as much as possible as life is for living! Just do it, life is short ❤

[@BeeBee-gi2zr]

Travelling doesn't have an age restriction could you not go travelling now? I suppose it all depends on what you want in life, travelling obviously has its appeal etc but having a family is a completely different thing.... Most people of average income simply no longer have the means to jet off & lets face it every week there seems to be another public service on strike, you can't even get a damn passport in the first place!

[@clairehall704]

Do it now!

[@clare4206]

Life is short and there is no age limit to travelling if you have the means grab the bull by the horns and go girl 😘

[@joanne-xh6ex]

Agree 100% x

[@Nico.1989]

I'm so happy your nan got the all clear, she is a true fighter. Please tell her I said congratulations 👏🏻

[@christinenewton8129]

Wow Demi congrats on your nana getting the all clear huge hugs I'm so pleased for you all. Enjoy your Easter pet xx❤

[@PhoebePJH]

green looks so nice on you! compliments your eyes so much in that first clip

[@angelapage9737]

Love your honesty, u r doing fabulous with your health journey and fitness. Congratulations to your nana, here's to many more healthy years. ♥️💪👏

[@meganross1409]

I am connecting so much with your channel atm! Feel such a comfort watching you! I'm the same age and although I'm already married and have kids I feel the same! I have a really good part time job but do I want to go back to uni and study something for a career, do we buy a house first, do we want to travel with the kids, do we want a dog! I honestly don't think you're supposed to know I think what's supposed to be will happen when it's supposed to xxx

[@jessicafinney703]

Congrats to your nana getting the all clear and ringing the bell, sending all my love to your family 💕 Well done for getting back into routine too, that’s a big achievement! Happy Easter 🐣❤️

[@chrisgriffiths3629]

wow fantastic about your nanna Demi , hope she continues to do well xxx

[@tracycleary8905]

So pleased about your nana, sending lots of love, you are a breathe of fresh air love your vlogs❤xxx

[@battledroid513]

flop era :/ trouble is social media makes us believe everyone has all their shit together, and its the most toxic thing of all!!! i feel like this idea of flop era just stems from judging yourself from what others are doing. All our lives go through ups and downs, quiet moments and exciting moments. just need to enjoy it all and not overthink it... Social media, especially instagram and tiktok, sure is bad for us.

[@mistybehave4886]

I’m in my 40s and my biggest regret is not travelling, I’d love to tour Canada, America and Africa, I told my son travel enjoy your life and experience it as life’s so short x

[@mistybehave4886]

Aww so happy your Nana got the all clear x

[@clairehall704]

Your 40 not 90 go do it!

[@mistybehave4886]

@@clairehall704 very true xx

[@lizmurphy6295]

Bless your nana,so pleased for her wonderful news !😊

[@jemma-joon]

Bless your heart demi, i used to do daily stretches and then i stopped for months, but i can't get the motivation. I've been off the whole week doing nothing 😞. It's OK to have ups and downs, it's ok to take a break rather than put pressure on yourself, you'll eventually hate it and get into a bad state of mind towards exercising

[@debrabretherton9568]

Your hair and makup looks lovely ,the green top really suits you xx

[@ethanjw2005]

Hi Demi great vlog ! Yes I know what you mean by the flop era I think everyone just feels the same . X

[@faystalker9851]

That's gd your nanna rung the bell keep posted on her health issues I am glad she the mend god bless her

[@Sherimichelle711]

Great vlog Demi! It feels great to workout and take care of your health & body! You & Sean are creating good habits young and that will benefit you greatly as you get older! So happy your Nana is through with cancer treatment. May God give her a cancer free test soon! I love seeing you & Sean talk to your dogs! They are so sweet!! Enjoy every day and just live! You are doing what you love and that is a true blessing. ❤

[@DemiDonnelly]

thank you so much for your support xxx

[@jemma-joon]

Congratulations and well done to you nanna 🎉❤ i hope all future scans are positive 🎉

[@clairej81]

Everyone is unsure at points of their life and I would say travel as much as you can before kids as its so much harder when you have them to look after. Life is for living and too short for regrets also so pleased for your nanna it must be a wonderful relief

[@clairehall704]

Why dont you and Sean go abroad to marry, it does not need to be a big wedding, all you have after a wedding is picture and memory but it should be about you and Sean not paying for others to have a good time, there is definitely cheaper options, think about what marriage and wedding means to YOU GUYS not what you Seen or what family wants x

[@DemiDonnelly]

it's something to consider - but we have a massive family not all able to travel and we wouldn't want to miss anyone out. For me a wedding has always been a day with family - the location doesn't matter so much x

[@clairehall704]

@@DemiDonnelly well that what you go for hunni, we had beautiful village hall what had pub next door so used that for bar, did afternoon tea and then jackets potoes in evening, we had Ceilidh Dancing showed us how a dance all together and wee disco after and fireworks it was perfect, in the village is a castle called Rockingham Castle x

[@lauralongley4696]

I had the same baby feeling with my nephew. Any opportunity I would have I would want to see him and get so excited. I would get little butterflies when I was with him and that’s when I knew I would want my own children.

[@jemma-joon]

Your eyes look so big and beautiful without false lashes, your facial proportion looks just right

[@stealthy3000]

We don’t have to keep naming normal periods of life wtf flip era. No one has a clue what we’re doing but we should all do the same thing which is love and kindness.

[@DemiDonnelly]

it;s just a good way to express myself but i feel you xx

[@K72-b4x]

So true it’s really damaging. Stupid TikTok

[@lauraburkhill3599]

Demi, I am 38 and still don't have a clue what my life is gonna be! Haha Just enjoy today for today. Go on holiday and make memories as you never know what tomorrow will bring xx

[@tabstravels2344]

I moved to Canada to be with my fiancé and we went travelling to Thailand. I got sick and had to move home (UK) for surgery. Travel when you can, you don’t know when life will happen and stop you from living your dreams.

[@dianehackett4197]

Well done nana 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@patriciastrange4377]

Happy Easter sending love to your brave nana❤❤.A wedding day is just one day but marriage is for ever you and Sean wi Will figure it out what suits your needs. Xxxx

[@nicolalangley2373]

Give Nana a big hug xx

[@gaynorprior9864]

Demi you are so pretty you don't need any makeup ❤

[@chloe4301]

In my opinion in terms of your savings, keep a small amount for a rainy day fund and travel. You can’t take money to the grave, you have your health and your youth. Life can change in a split second, like we all discovered with covid, so make the most of it when you have the time, money and health to do it 💕

[@Tattooed_Vegan_Mum]

Me and my husband got married just before our ten year anniversary after a one year delay due to covid. We’d already booked it two, almost three years, in advance to spread out the cost. Ours was a pretty big wedding but as our cost was spread out we didn’t feel the impact. I cherish our day and the memories as well as the magnificent photos we got. But, my best friend, planned her wedding and did it very small all within three months and equally loved her day. It’s a conversation you and Sean need to have and go with what feels right and what fits your budget

[@Tattooed_Vegan_Mum]

In terms of travel, we are just waiting for our flight back from our first family holiday abroad. Me and my partner have never been abroad but have done tons of in country travelling. Again I’d suggest booking for in advance and travelling in country until then if it’s in your budget

[@sarahcooper8383]

I can totally relate to this. I feel like life is passing by.

[@poppyclark6982]

go travel. it will never be the wrong choice, and you obviously have it on your mind. there are no wrong paths or decisions, whichever one you take will be the right one. Travelling will open all sorts of new opportunities, struggles and perspectives. 27 is so young, travel whilst you have the money and the time/ freedom. Your house, friends, family and dogs will all be there when you return. Maybe the travel bug does need to be explored! sending positivity xxx

[@Monica_6521]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Congratulations Nanna💞

[@kararandall265]

I am a firm believer that happiness is the biggest success in life. Do what makes you happy. Don’t put pressure on yourself to do something or be a certain someone. Do what brings you happiness. Something I have learned at 39 years of age is to use money to create a passive income. Once you have a form of passive income you can do anything you want. Another thing I have learned is enjoy the world. Travel, soak it all up and experience it all xx You are totally normal we are all the same and travel through different phases in life - go with it and don’t worry about it xx Yay for no Cancer ❤

[@Rach1709]

Demi this is literally life, I’m 40 and no idea what I’m doing- it stresses me out too!!! You never know what to do x

[@clairehall704]

I feel you need to live in the moment, don't be stressed about what may not ever come, think about what you enjoy doing, can you make a job out of it? when you enjoy work you won't work a day in your life, be kind to yourself x

[@BeeBee-gi2zr]

Lets face it being a grown up has its benefits but its very stressful too!! I suppose you do what you have to to pay the bills but always try & do things that genuinely make YOU happy & not just focus on others constantly

[@rebeccabushee2717]

I suggest traveling!! Especially if it's been a passion put on the back burner! I'm turning 33 next week and I still have no clue what I'm doing with my life but one thing is, I'm traveling all over and everywhere I can! As for the wedding.... Everyone has their big dream wedding growing up but honestly it's a piece of paper signed and certified that your legally together..... 10 out of 10 recommend just skipping the big wedding, just say I do, and put the money for the "honeymoon" into traveling!! You can ALWAYS renew vows later in life and have your big fantasy wedding on an anniversary or something!!! Side note .... Yay for nana 🎉💚💚

[@clairehall704]

Agreed that what me and my husband did, great advice but don't stop travelling when you have kids, we saving to boys toyko next year x

[@rebeccabushee2717]

I agree as well! My 5 year old has been to many places with me! A few times I left her behind because of safety concerns and being my first time in a few areas but if I enjoyed it, I brought her after. It's important to see all you can see prior to kids more so for convenience and less responsibility really. That being said though, sharing the memories and experience with your children is absolutely doable and should be encouraged more these days!

[@clairehall704]

Why do people in comments think there no life after kids 😂 you don't have to be young to travel or child free, we don't have to have the same job etc for all your life, enjoy everything and all age!

[@DemiDonnelly]

i just think it becomes harder with kids? maybe the cost side along with considering person in every decision espeically young kids x

[@clairehall704]

@@DemiDonnelly I have 2 boys who are now 16 and 12 I really belive that kids pick up on your stress, it just about been organise and riding the waves, we saving to go Tokyo next year with them but we also have travel plans when they fly the nest x

[@teresagalvin6233]

I just have to say demi I went to Australia nd it was hands down THE best experience of my life the memories make me smile fun times friends made wisdom gained it really was a great experience i highly recomend oz if u ever do decide to travel😊 and the hostels were great fun aswel its a bit party central if u like that watching big brother always remind me of my hostel friends we had such tight bonds and made friends for life 😊❤

[@elaine8955]

Take a breath and just live life don't plan it x

[@Alis-Nicola]

I’m in my 50’s and if I had the finances/opportunity I’d buy the camper van, travel with your dogs while you can. You can do a wedding relatively cheaply..it all depends what your priorities are. Life is short and the years fly by and before you know it your in your 50s and wishing you hadn’t waited to do things. xx

[@DemiDonnelly]

this is exactly how i feel i dont want to look back with regrets x

[@siantowers1243]

I always said I wanted to get a qualification and travel before I settled down and get married ,and did just that luckerly. Have a chat and see what Sean wants to do too.Maybe use some of your savings and have a holiday either in the UK or abroad .I hope you feel better soon.Take care.xx.

[@bethanyholloway7830]

Read Holly Jackson’s books! They are amazing! Once I read I can’t stop! X

[@sarahstonehouse5493]

Maybe consider going to see a life coach, they could help you make your plans x

[@rebeccacomerford7800]

I feel like I’m in my flop era too! I’m 27, have no idea what I want to do with my life - I’m getting married next year and then we’re going be to doing IVF but I’m stuck atm and there’s stuff I wanna do before that but funds and time aren’t on my side. It’s all a lot!

[@danellhartmann]

travel...you have no kids, you have the money, you have the time, you are both young....you will never regret seeing the world!

[@teresagalvin6233]

Hi demi in ur voice it sounds like u want to travel nd to be honest travel broadens the mind u will always have this way of thinking (more positive and understanding )and those memories u will cherish during the harder times in life. It's a thing u do for YOURSELF. U get to know who u are more when travelling and its so much FUN! I would totally rent out the house nd go travelling for a year see how like it. Ps might be scary but how exhilarating! And imagine the vlogs 😮😂. Wise person once sed in the end we regret the things we DONT do not the things we do 😉great vlog sorry for unsolicited advice 🙈❤❤

[@stephrussell21]

Travel more, otherwise you'll always regret not doing it and wonder what's out there! And amazing news about your nana!

[@killielila]

🎉🎉🎉 nana rining that bell

[@lifeofsj6440]

I'm in my 30's now and I honestly believe your 20's you are trying to figure things out and it's the hard grafting years! My wedding is something I will cherish all my life but I think it's each to their own! You could combine both and get married abroad! Either way my thoughts are it only happens once (or that's the plan anyway!) Xx

[@KRW-hv6rn]

I’m 29 and still don’t know what to do in life 😅 You don’t need a big wedding to get married tho, I got married at 25 in a registry office and had a massive party afterwards with all the family. One thing I would say is get a good photographer/videographer for it. I paid less that 3k for my wedding and my sister paid over 25k...at the end of the day it’s a piece of paper and as long as you have each other and are happy then who cares 🙌❤️

[@jamieleighcarradice8822]

We got married up at gretna green with just close friends and family best decision we decided with cause we was stressing out with wedding planning then we decided on party when we got home with everyone xxx

[@emmastewardson2761]

❤️ would recommend Paige toon books 😊

[@margaretbekhait9795]

Just travel life is so short enjoy you're life and see the world you have to go to Thailand.❤🍸

[@stacey9616]

Well done to both of you for getting up and going to the gym, it’s without doubt the hardest part! Just out of interest, did your PT come up with a workout plan for you? I know you’ve had a break from the gym as such, but it sounds like you’re slamming the cardio. Do you both weight train as well? For me I find that a combination of the two is a happy medium for overall results. Also, such amazing news about your Nanna! ❤

[@dianekay7117]

Sooooooo Happy For Your Beautiful Nanna Congratulations and Around of Aplause Happy Days Happy Easter 💟 🐰 🐇 🐣 🐥 xxUKxx Love xxx 💓 xxx 💓

[@mariaatkinson8862]

green is a really nice colour on you.

[@kayleighmarie3086]

Live life for today! I don’t regret not buying things I regret not making memories. I’m mid 30’s now my father passed away last year and I completely feel how you feel, I’m extremely lucky to have an amazing husband and 2 children13&11, however I do wish I had travelled more pre settling down, if you have the opportunity do it! We are planning some trips with the kids this year including NewYork it’s lovely to be able to travel and make memories that will last forever. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@DemiDonnelly]

i love this comment so much - it's true and i need to rope in my spending habits as stuff just doesn't please me the same way traveling does x

[@rebeccacomerford7800]

We’re getting married at South Causey Inn in stanley and decided a weekday wedding is better for us as it’s half the cost. If we could sit down and have a proper conversation I’d have eloped or had a destination wedding.

[@DemiDonnelly]

we've been to a wedding there - it's beautiful x

[@shazzavlogs]

Follow your 💗 xx

[@kerry_xLyons]

I've been with my partner all my 20s now he's 30

[@dianekay7117]

Just travel see the world because you won't be able to do as much when you have Children Plus you won't be able to get up and go Honestly Demi I'm in my late 50s now time flies so quickly and really regret not travelling xxUKxx Love xxx ❤ 🌞 🌅 🌏

[@jemma-joon]

Where's Luna?

[@hannahrussell5583]

Demi can you and Sean do a fitness challenge over 4 weeks again?

[@libbyrose7698]

just travel around the world, spend ur savings,vlog it, get more money, come home, save some more years, get married, you never know, you might die next week and all them savings will be gone, you may as well travel now you have the money xxx

[@lucymay9425]

👏👏👏👏Yay Nana 👏👏👏👏

[@joannemiller1979]

❤❤❤❤

[@kellymariew5028]

I'm 48 and still don't know what to do with my life 😂

[@amy1461]

Don’t waste your money on a big wedding for social media! Sounds like you want to travel so do it and tie the knot at a local registry office or something x

[@DemiDonnelly]

it 100% wouldnt be for social media - have a massive family and would love a day to celebrate with them, but as of right now I'm not sure it's the passion at this point.

[@beth7944]

Travel, because money comes back but time doesn't. xx

[@jennifervictore5471]

Can you afford to buy a camper van and travel the UK several months out of the year? If yes, then do it. Can you afford to travel to various countries throughout the year? If yes, do it. Can you afford to or want to spend £20G on one day and forfeit other life experiences? Weddings today are expensive, not just for the happy couple. Weigh up what's worth it and do that. 😁👍 You've grown so much as a person & as a couple over the past year💕

[@TheFlip_Side]

I know I’m older, but what I’m about to say, I hope you at least consider. I got married a very long time ago, and my parents and I spent a lot of money on my wedding. The most important thing I want it from my wedding more than anything in the world was to have a picture of my father and I walking down the hall… It’s Did not have to be in a church, it’s not a fact I did not get married in a church, but I just wanted that picture of my dad and I and I wanted a picture of my mom, my dad and myself. I am somebody that’s in the event business in the states, will tell you right now, not to spend that kind of money on a big blown out wedding. You could have something not at a venue Very simple put together still have amazing pictures with your parents, of you and Sean, but I would not spin but people in the United States are spending right now for a wedding. Some weddings are going at $50-$60,000!

[@donnawileman9586]

Where’s your other dog?

[@DemiDonnelly]

She’s just not in the shot haha she’s around x

[@kia-883]

Sean’s not going anywhere so I think enjoy travelling and doing fun things now whilst you’re young, the wedding can come in the future. I almost think if I ever had kids one day I would want them at the wedding, so I don’t mind waiting. Just do what feels right and makes you happy! 🫶🏼

[@Gingerrogers124]

That floppy thing off tiktok is completely made up don't fall for the crap others tell you 👎

[@willmccarthy7633]

I vote Travel Demi- you will never be able to get these experiences back and can always save money again for any future businesses

[@catherinebarlow3079]

Sounds like need to someone counselling so you get everything out why you are feeling like this demi we all days weeks like it , and not been mean but drinking won't help you the way you are feeling please speak to your gp or go private , don't you have someone at KZbin that that can help