"I'm Never Getting Married or Having Kids..." Woman Says She's Okay With Being Alone Forever 🤔

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After Hours with Anton Daniels

After Hours with Anton Daniels

11 күн бұрын

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@afterhourswithad
@afterhourswithad 9 күн бұрын
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@pamalamama9124
@pamalamama9124 9 күн бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@eon001
@eon001 9 күн бұрын
Not everyone get's married and has kids. It's been like that for centuries. Historically 60% of men don't even reproduce. I'm unmarried with no kids. Pushing 40. I'm focusing on my health, finances and extended family. You can still have a purpose in life without kids. It's not a perfect life, but it is what it is.
@etf42
@etf42 9 күн бұрын
Facts
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 9 күн бұрын
I'm on the same journey. I totally agree 👍🏼
@Ghostisback24444
@Ghostisback24444 9 күн бұрын
Agree
@1randomlol
@1randomlol 9 күн бұрын
Cope
@chillbrah1010
@chillbrah1010 8 күн бұрын
​@@1randomlolRight like the beta males are the worst.
@AT-gu1vr
@AT-gu1vr 9 күн бұрын
I applaud her for realizing this and not F”ing up some man or child’s life playing wife and mother. I wish more folks had the insight.
@laquishabrown5141
@laquishabrown5141 9 күн бұрын
This Is A Good Perspective.
@etf42
@etf42 9 күн бұрын
Agreed. Just leave her be
@abramlittle7102
@abramlittle7102 9 күн бұрын
She only says this because she knows its pretty much a wrap for her chances of getting the man she wants
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Exactly. Ppl always get upset when ppl voice their opinions in this manner.
@ashleyjones5396
@ashleyjones5396 7 күн бұрын
Exactly! Let her live 🤷🏽‍♀️ she is NOT harming anyone by doing this!!!
@Pappero2
@Pappero2 9 күн бұрын
As a man who’s Childfree, I appreciate these women.
@etravi5058
@etravi5058 9 күн бұрын
Why bring someone here to suffer without thier consent. Life is nothing but misery and suffering.
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 9 күн бұрын
I would more so say it's full of struggle and inconvenience which nobody asked to deal with but people always hit u with the typical "well that's life" like they don't comprehend that u yourself didn't volunteer and just randomly pop out of someone to deal with any of these messy worldly matters that don't seem to ever improve on even just a basic human decency scale.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
I agree. Lol
@jimmyjay689
@jimmyjay689 8 күн бұрын
Spoken like a true idiot
@Lipstickforever84
@Lipstickforever84 9 күн бұрын
Slimmy, having kids or marriage is not an obligation. From a Christian perspective, the Bible never condemns being single. Yes, it is said that marriage is a “good thing” but for those who choose not to have family,it is considered a gift from God too. Any Christian who tells you different, is fair weather. Apostle Paul addressed the meaning of being single. Read 1 Corinthians 7:7-8, Matthew 19: 10-12
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 9 күн бұрын
Amen.
@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf
@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf 8 күн бұрын
Well said, stated with God’s word! 👏🏾😌
@WorshipDaKing
@WorshipDaKing 9 күн бұрын
quinton is way to sassy to be taken seriously
@faiselabdulahi5642
@faiselabdulahi5642 9 күн бұрын
He’s a Homosexual 😂
@Yakijones
@Yakijones 9 күн бұрын
He thought they was gone agree with that butt 💩 lol
@brandonthompson7145
@brandonthompson7145 9 күн бұрын
Quinton definitely doesn't need a woman. Quinton wants a man
@faiselabdulahi5642
@faiselabdulahi5642 9 күн бұрын
I agree
@cryptochris8171
@cryptochris8171 9 күн бұрын
I’m starting to think so lol
@ahhmzzbriightt1023
@ahhmzzbriightt1023 9 күн бұрын
Q is a trick
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 8 күн бұрын
Why are so pressed to assume dudes are gay so much 🤦🤦 it's not your business either way
@faiselabdulahi5642
@faiselabdulahi5642 8 күн бұрын
@@ralphangel561 I don’t like taking advice from men who are down low or openly homosexuals. you see I am a straight heterosexual man I like taking life learning advice from other straight and heterosexual men. It’s all about compatibility and common ground.
@214hotrod85
@214hotrod85 9 күн бұрын
Quinton is officially GAY
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 9 күн бұрын
BIG TIME on that one.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Why is that?
@jenkericj
@jenkericj 8 күн бұрын
If he is who cares
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 8 күн бұрын
​@@zayinseven7923Y'all love assuming dudes are gay 🤦🤦
@tomaradoss3420
@tomaradoss3420 7 күн бұрын
Facts
@rasbo4317
@rasbo4317 9 күн бұрын
Why are people upset when women say they don't want to have kids. I believe everybody is not meant to have kids.
@KH-qs1di
@KH-qs1di 9 күн бұрын
Who's really upset? The women that have regrets later on are the ones upset.
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 9 күн бұрын
Conditioning and lack of free thinking is a very REAL thing that's all I can say lol.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Exactly. She didn’t even say anything negative.
@ButHearMeOutTho
@ButHearMeOutTho 8 күн бұрын
no one's upset. from experience, I've met tons of women who swear they don't want kids but yet haven't gotten a hysterectomy. do later in life, they pull an ebony k Williams. single muva by choice.
@rasbo4317
@rasbo4317 8 күн бұрын
@@ButHearMeOutTho Maybe not upset but judgemental. I am mother and always knew I wanted a husband and kids.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
She’s entitled to her opinion & she stated it well. I can’t fathom why everyone gets upset when ppl say they don’t want children. You may want them but do you need them. Let ppl live their lives how they see fit. Many I know with kids are unhappy, financially unstable & just seem miserable. I agree with her on this & at least she being honest. I wish some others would keep it as honest because many are acting like they’re happy but truly they aren’t.
@katrinabaker581
@katrinabaker581 9 күн бұрын
i take parenthood very seriously. i knew for sure at 13, now 50, n still no kids!
@johnlawful2272
@johnlawful2272 3 күн бұрын
You don't look 50
@AuraGold18
@AuraGold18 9 күн бұрын
Once again Quinton proves to be an immature goofy and doesn’t display intelligence. I really don’t understand why AD had him on the show. He’s not good for conversation.
@KH-qs1di
@KH-qs1di 9 күн бұрын
What exactly did he say to ruffle your feathers? Is the part where he said men don't need women?
@TheComicCrew
@TheComicCrew 9 күн бұрын
@@KH-qs1diof course
@mih-entertainment
@mih-entertainment 7 күн бұрын
Big Facts, definitely lacks sound judgment and intellect
@1lifestyle112
@1lifestyle112 4 күн бұрын
Man dude is obviously fruity… he proves it in every video
@rgizzle517
@rgizzle517 9 күн бұрын
Im 34 and don't care to have kids or marriage. I'm an observer and be seeing too much bs come from both. I know active Father's on child support and can't get on one accord with the mother of their children and also i done heard about people cheating in marriage . One switch up changes the whole dynamic of everything. My ass don't want no parts
@abramlittle7102
@abramlittle7102 9 күн бұрын
A single childless man is different from a single childless woman.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Exactly.
@MCLottotv
@MCLottotv 7 күн бұрын
​@@abramlittle7102No they aren't they both have passports
@mic2damgood
@mic2damgood 9 күн бұрын
It is not a requirement for a woman or man to be married or have kids.
@DeionSardines
@DeionSardines 9 күн бұрын
Ty or to be a relationship.
@user-cw7ly8nu5j
@user-cw7ly8nu5j 9 күн бұрын
We owe it to Nature and earth to have kids . Marriage is a choice
@BizQAC
@BizQAC 9 күн бұрын
That’s an anti-human mindset.
@Aggie4life77
@Aggie4life77 9 күн бұрын
Nobody can force you to do it and if that’s how you really feel, fine🤷🏾‍♂️. Here the thing though. 9 times out of 10, people who say that are usually giving up because they can’t get what they want from the opposite sex.
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 9 күн бұрын
​@@BizQACNah. That's abortions
@smitht1988
@smitht1988 9 күн бұрын
17:02 Quintin lost all the straight dudes when he said that shxt😂😂😂 Ain’t no way fam
@SaniBravo
@SaniBravo 9 күн бұрын
We definitely need women, The thought of A world with just men sounds crazy. It’s like being in jail, f*ck that, I gotta see that beauty to maintain my mental health.
@th3azscorpio
@th3azscorpio 9 күн бұрын
Exactly. Both need each other. Part of the reason the male suicide rate is so high, is because a lot of men, and younger men's lack of ability to attract suitable romantic mates. Of course there's lots of other issues, but lack of romantic prospects, has a LOT to do with it.
@Ghostisback24444
@Ghostisback24444 9 күн бұрын
We only need women for one thing in just going to be honest look at society the only way goes back to normal is for men to take over women don’t have to go to war at all they can just chill watch us die but somehow they are more valuable???
@RatedRko257
@RatedRko257 9 күн бұрын
There’s actually an anime called Vandread that has men and women going against each other. They even have all male and all female planets.
@th3azscorpio
@th3azscorpio 9 күн бұрын
@@RatedRko257 Ive watched it actually, and its great. It also shows the dysfunction of what a dynamic like that can cause.
@BDAthleticInsider
@BDAthleticInsider 9 күн бұрын
We need woman for recreation purposes. And to carry our children that’s facts.
@laquishabrown5141
@laquishabrown5141 9 күн бұрын
Our Society Has Successfully Done It’s Job.
@Ghostisback24444
@Ghostisback24444 9 күн бұрын
Good why should our gen have kids in this economy a good reason? I don’t want to hear anything about a god we have never seen sorry or the bible
@terrymartin1660
@terrymartin1660 9 күн бұрын
As a man, I 100% understand where she’s coming from.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
The dude In the bottom right corner went right to her looks & she’s not even bad looking but yet he’s up there drinking a Pepsi & ain’t saying too much hisself.
@dreamcometrue6708
@dreamcometrue6708 8 күн бұрын
Just because we have feet doesn't mean we should all be dancers or track stars, just because we have hands doesn't mean we should all be painters or carpenters, just because we have vocal chords doesn't mean we should all be singers. There are additional skills and abilities that make people great at what they do besides the anatomical aspect. Parenthood is no exception. Just because we all have reproductive organs doesn't mean we should all be parents. It is a job that is better suited for those who have the skills and the disposition, not just the anatomy.
@telishal.9808
@telishal.9808 Күн бұрын
Amen 💯
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 9 күн бұрын
We see with society that everyone don't need to be married and have children. One of the biggest problem is that people try to force something that's just not meant to be. People just haven't mastered the discipline, wisdom and maturity to lead a life that could be for be single or being married. Everyone who are not called to be single should get married. Everyone who are not called to be married shouldn't be forced into getting married and be single. You have to know your calling and adhere to it.
@clodismccuien8082
@clodismccuien8082 9 күн бұрын
I think she is a self-realized narcissist..... She understands how our narcissism works... And she is right everybody is not meant to have children.... Most men in history did not procreate
@willcharlesworld
@willcharlesworld 9 күн бұрын
If she has to announce it..she's not okay🤷🏾‍♂️😂
@OMichelle
@OMichelle 8 күн бұрын
That part
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 8 күн бұрын
@OMichelle Stop going against your brown sister u lil tyrant.
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
That goes for all these podcasters and content creators then. She has a platform, so she is using it to speak on hot topics, just like every male who speaks on women do..
@willcharlesworld
@willcharlesworld 7 күн бұрын
@@ToniaAlex13 you have a firm grasp on the obvious 😂
@rasbo4317
@rasbo4317 9 күн бұрын
I always knew I wanted to be a wife and mother I am both I have 4 kids and I am a grandmother. I don't regret being a mother at all.
@rinabitoni3746
@rinabitoni3746 7 күн бұрын
Ha! I do!
@mih-entertainment
@mih-entertainment 7 күн бұрын
I’m sure you Regret being a you g single mom and a grandma in her 40’s
@tone901
@tone901 9 күн бұрын
⚠️Marriage and kids ain't for everyone.
@lyrikalinyoswiminpoo
@lyrikalinyoswiminpoo 9 күн бұрын
I don’t know why they’re acting all surprised like it’s not very obvious that the world has changed completely. The world has gotten faster and smarter. We don’t have to have as many kids as possible to hopefully have some productive ones we could send to work from a young age. Them days are over with! Maybe have 1 or 2 or don’t have any at all. You’ll get buried regardless. 😂
@neishapeterson416
@neishapeterson416 7 күн бұрын
Some people need to be left alone. Marriage is a contract. If you divorce you can lose your money and home. Men are coming for your money ladies
@1ganise
@1ganise 9 күн бұрын
Everyone are not made to be parents. Rather her not have and feel that way vs having a house full of kids talking about how tired she is of them. I know a female, single mother with FIVE kids, very close in age who’s always talking about how she doesn’t want to be a mother. Girl! You a little late fa that aren’t you? 🤨
@TrapFilezz
@TrapFilezz 9 күн бұрын
I don’t feel well so I let the manager of my company finish the contracts with the team today because I’m not feeling well. My girl is going to take care of me and make me feel better. Men need women.
@matthwscott80
@matthwscott80 9 күн бұрын
At the end of the day she's saying live life to the fullest regardless to what you have monetarily family friends etc. I get it totally
@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf
@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf 8 күн бұрын
Exactly! Thats what I got from her message as well. Don’t wait until you have something or someone to be happy. ❤
@verbaslt
@verbaslt 8 күн бұрын
I feel like the the panel totally missed the mark on this one. Micah's comment about "well if you dont like kids". She never said she didnt like kids, she said kids are limiting. And Quinton just being Quinton. What is he even talking about?
@integrityborn6156
@integrityborn6156 9 күн бұрын
Honestly I don’t blame her, marriage and having kids is just another obligation, everybody is not meant to be married or have kids. It’s no need to be trapped in the matrix if you don’t have too. All marriage and having children in this days society is, is simply becoming under contract with the state!
@diggetth1397
@diggetth1397 6 күн бұрын
Opinions, perception, acknowledgment, and understanding what it is and what it isn't. Who are we to say she is wrong? She sounds like a woman who wants no restrictions or limitations when it comes to her personal life. She wants to come/go as she pleases and answers to no one. Being a wife and mother is a huge responsibility, and if she's not up to task, she's just not up to the task of it all! I appreciate her transparency, and there are others that agree with her.
@tonylove6682
@tonylove6682 9 күн бұрын
We need more women like her. Accept the fact that you can't be a wife and / or loving partner to someone and stay away from creating problems for yourself and everybody else. 💯 🫡. The same goes for the men !!!
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
That's not what she os saying though...
@tonylove6682
@tonylove6682 7 күн бұрын
@ToniaAlex13 What is she saying...
@shundevirgo4717
@shundevirgo4717 9 күн бұрын
Nah, that was VERY diddy! He just told everyone he likes man 😻. Just date a man!
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 9 күн бұрын
I neeed u lil brown Barbie we need each other like they said 😏. Lol nah real talk though Quinton definitely came out of left field with that randomness.
@th3azscorpio
@th3azscorpio 9 күн бұрын
I think the world would be a much better place, if everyone were this honest with themselves. There's a lot of people that have zero business having kids, or being married. Having kids is a wonderful thing, but it must be done in a good, stable environment, with a great spouse. I don't think people should be shamed for not wanting children, especially women. Just like how not every man is cut out to be a father, or husband, not every woman is cut out to be a mother, or is wife material. A lot of people rush into things, trying to beat societies expectations, and end up in a world of hurt, an misery beyond their wildest comprehension. Do and know what's best for you, but own your choices.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Yes!!
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 8 күн бұрын
💯
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
Thank you very much!! You and i share the same sentiments
@steveyj3002
@steveyj3002 8 күн бұрын
Although you do have more and more men and women that are not getting married or even having children , usually these people are either happy or content and not seeking some sort of validation or constantly seeking attention from others.
@Sbx92
@Sbx92 9 күн бұрын
tracey ross the only one i seen stand on bidness wit no kids no marriage that was my crush since she was on girlfriends other than that i would say majority capping
@IAMDARIUSWARD
@IAMDARIUSWARD 9 күн бұрын
Quinton showing his true colors in this one 🌈
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 9 күн бұрын
He made a fair point. We don't need women, women are a "help mate" for us. As far as the dudes having sex with each other, I'll say stay out of prison 😁😁
@Queefmusicinstrumentals
@Queefmusicinstrumentals 9 күн бұрын
There is no such thing as meant to be. Everything is a series of situations
@DaGreatOne1979
@DaGreatOne1979 6 күн бұрын
I would never question a person who's doing what's best for them especially when I'm not going to be apart of their life
@ericrobinson1789
@ericrobinson1789 6 күн бұрын
Hey, if it's not for her it's not for her. Marriage isn't for everyone. That simple
@Payday-ky7mb
@Payday-ky7mb 9 күн бұрын
I don’t hear not one high profile man complaining about one of these celebrity chicks being single or not having children. They say things to attract attention to themselves. Most of these women know deep down inside they are not wife or mother material. Name the list of men that wanted to marry her.
@abramlittle7102
@abramlittle7102 9 күн бұрын
Im pretty sure she's had a few that would want to marry her but they werent the ones she wanted
@Payday-ky7mb
@Payday-ky7mb 9 күн бұрын
@@abramlittle7102 Just name one.
@abramlittle7102
@abramlittle7102 9 күн бұрын
@@Payday-ky7mb I dont know her life.
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
How would we know that???
@rinabitoni3746
@rinabitoni3746 7 күн бұрын
...and what's wrong with that!??? If I could go back, I wouldn't have done any of it!
@burgessfrederick2
@burgessfrederick2 9 күн бұрын
People love preaching from outside of the fence!! These people who are loud are almost never Sought after. I dont think any serious guys are lining up to take her off the market!
@1anth
@1anth 9 күн бұрын
The woman in this video clearly isn’t highly sought after (Outside of the simps who have a fat girl fetish) But you’d be surprised how a lot of people who have a huge market of options would feel the same way also….
@khurr
@khurr 9 күн бұрын
Bingo…single by choices is a real thing but let them tell it!
@burgessfrederick2
@burgessfrederick2 9 күн бұрын
@khurr everytime!!
@blazerstimul8
@blazerstimul8 9 күн бұрын
Sought
@Dipset415
@Dipset415 9 күн бұрын
You’ll be suprised bra somebody clapping and put babies in precious 💯😭
@donovan_99_
@donovan_99_ 9 күн бұрын
We all have way too different lives and experiences in this human experience for us to be put in a “purpose” box. Everyone has to develop their own life philosophy for what makes them happy and content with life. For women, most happen to have kids in that philosophy, some dont. Lets stop oversimplifying life.
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 9 күн бұрын
U get it big dawg I'm proud of your rationality 💯.
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!
@user-cw7ly8nu5j
@user-cw7ly8nu5j 9 күн бұрын
End of the day it’s her life 😅
@TAHJ1987
@TAHJ1987 9 күн бұрын
Im ok with everyone expressing there own opinion..i just dont like when people try to force there way on other people...if your fine with no kids and not being married..then ok..thats your right..but me personally i still do beleive in love and wanting to get married and start a family...it aint for everybody..theres pros and cons to everything...
@nenajay3174
@nenajay3174 9 күн бұрын
@TAHJ1987 EXACTLY!! Realest comment on here. Thank you for this.
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
And that's why she talked about her. But ppl always hear what they want when ppl say they don't want kids and run with it
@tomaradoss3420
@tomaradoss3420 7 күн бұрын
I agree with everything she said. I don’t think she’s giving up. I just think she’s open to how life will be if she didn’t have the marriage and children. So she is weighing the pros and cons. Some women can’t have kids , and some won’t be married. But you can still have a full filled life without both. By walking in purpose. I have one daughter and that’s enough for me. I don’t like being tied down, and I don’t like worrying about my daughter as well. So I get it!
@Stevey_Montage_Official
@Stevey_Montage_Official 9 күн бұрын
This The Honesty We Need. Just Don't Lead Good People On Either Way. If You Do Or Don't Want Children, As A Man Or Woman, Find Somebody Who Feels The Same Way As You And Keep That Same Energy.
@huhwhatyousay2652
@huhwhatyousay2652 9 күн бұрын
She sounds like she's having a life-changing reality and deciding to stop wasting her time pursuing that particular dream or goal.
@abramlittle7102
@abramlittle7102 9 күн бұрын
@@huhwhatyousay2652 yeah. This is her just giving up or coming to terms
@malthecpa815
@malthecpa815 9 күн бұрын
She said she’s not living for the “when (life event) happens, I’ll be happy” and just be content with her life as it is. Yall took that as her saying parenting is horrible? Yall just be talking to talk sometimes
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Exactly!! She didn’t say one thing that was negative.
@stburnermusic
@stburnermusic 9 күн бұрын
Most of us don’t have great daily experiences with women.
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 9 күн бұрын
Yea if u casually nicely just say "hey wassup" or "what's going on" to random blk females in between the ages of 20 and 50 I guarantee around 30 something of them would just either look away, give u side eye, do a quick mean mug or just not acknowledge u at all lol sad but true.
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 9 күн бұрын
Women are just not nice or pleasant to dudes anymore. Misandrists movement is strong
@ghorn1217
@ghorn1217 9 күн бұрын
@@ejayemike6541Billions of women on the planet, many of whom are NOT black.
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 9 күн бұрын
Women treat ya'll bad everywhere ya'll go??
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 8 күн бұрын
Most women are not nice, kind and pleasant to men
@vermellvain5469
@vermellvain5469 6 күн бұрын
I dont blame her...shes not going to be a baby momma she also will live longer and have a better quality of life
@user-ng2gf4ox9q
@user-ng2gf4ox9q 7 күн бұрын
Okay, let me just say this I am a black woman and I have (SPD) now of y'all don't know what that is that schizoid personality disorder when a person would rather be alone and not even be in a relationship or have kids. I have never seen a doctor to get tested to see if I have spd or to see if I am a hermit. A hermit is someone who enjoys being alone, not have any kids, work from home, don't have a relationship not even with close family members. I think I am all that, but some hermits are in a relationship and sometimes I get bored and want a man a husband and maybe a kid. I am a writer so I spend most time in my characters world more than my own world. I live in my stories more than real life. She is a hermit or she either has schizoid personality disorder when a person is aloof and stand offish. When they have a friend they will drop that friend in a heartbeat just as they ask to be your friend they will drop you quick of tou make them mad or step on there toes that's how I am. But I still want a man and a husband, some hermits are in a relationship but most of them not. I think black people we don't know anything about people being a hermit we need to keep learning. I finished school in May 28, 2005 and guess what I am still learning, y'all need to keep learning.
@dgo9121
@dgo9121 8 күн бұрын
How do you leave a legacy, but no one to leave it too.
@jimmyjay689
@jimmyjay689 8 күн бұрын
Anton is a goof
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
U don't need kids to leave a legacy
@johnlawful2272
@johnlawful2272 3 күн бұрын
Linage and legacy are 2 different things
@Romejkl
@Romejkl 6 күн бұрын
she's speaking for herself so its ok
@InternetMoneyPE
@InternetMoneyPE 6 күн бұрын
Good for her. If I had a dollar for every woman who said they wanted x, and then behave in a way that absolutely contradicts that, and now you’re on child support or being accused of being insecure or this or that… if she can’t do that then good for her for recognizing it on the front end.
@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818
@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818 7 күн бұрын
She will regret it when she gets old with no kids, no grandkids, great grandkids, no family.
@MinnesotaEverything
@MinnesotaEverything 3 күн бұрын
They hate “Pick Me’s” and put out that type of content when “They CANT GET THE MAN THAT THEY WANT!”
@KH-qs1di
@KH-qs1di 9 күн бұрын
Actually, men really don't need women for survival. Sex is something else.
@melizzamelizza
@melizzamelizza 8 күн бұрын
Ya do though. Ya need women.
@johnlawful2272
@johnlawful2272 3 күн бұрын
​@@melizzamelizzafor sex and companionship not survival
@restlessyouthproductions
@restlessyouthproductions 9 күн бұрын
She needs to stay single and unmarried. She really wants these things , but is incapable in meeting the requirements. It’s a defense mechanism.
@tiabangtanii2597
@tiabangtanii2597 9 күн бұрын
Or she just doesn't want to reproduce and endure pregnancy,mind your business not her womb.Not everyone desires what you want(that's self centered/fundamental thinking,you can't force someone to change their psychological/emotional wants because that is not a choice but imminent.Just because you can,doesn't mean you should,this is why institutions such as adoption centres/Foster homes exist due to unwanted children and mental health issues such depression,postpartum psychosis etc exist and you lack the understanding to open your mind
@ejayemike6541
@ejayemike6541 9 күн бұрын
You're sick lol stop creating assumptions and narratives out of thin air that u want to be true about her.
@abramlittle7102
@abramlittle7102 9 күн бұрын
​@tiabangtanii2597 "mind your business"? That statement makes no sense in this situation when she literally just shared her business to the world
@integrityborn6156
@integrityborn6156 9 күн бұрын
It’s funny how you don’t even know her, but swear you know what she wants!
@tiabangtanii2597
@tiabangtanii2597 9 күн бұрын
@@abramlittle7102 when I say business,I mean don't try and certify knowledge about things you don't know,considering how he thinks that her not wanting children is bcs she is infertile or can't access a partner,when that is the definition of being childLESS, choosing not have children is different and is called being childFREE.they are not the same and implying that they are is disrespectful to both those who want to have children and those (who can) but don't want to,goodnight💤
@mireederrick1977
@mireederrick1977 9 күн бұрын
She would be great for The Draft! 😂😂😂
@user-mg8fn1bq9d
@user-mg8fn1bq9d 9 күн бұрын
Would probably get in shape as a result also! Live a longer, single life and serve the nation at the same time!
@mireederrick1977
@mireederrick1977 9 күн бұрын
@@user-mg8fn1bq9d We need to ask her husband about it! But, Killary will never let Harris be President before her.🤣🤣🤣
@apexra4206
@apexra4206 9 күн бұрын
Killary is hilarious
@mireederrick1977
@mireederrick1977 9 күн бұрын
@@apexra4206 Facts 🔥🔥🔥
@tomaradoss3420
@tomaradoss3420 7 күн бұрын
The young guy , has a right to feel the way he wants . I wouldn’t even convince him of anything. I respect his views.
@jessyxavier2874
@jessyxavier2874 9 күн бұрын
Let her go on then WE DON"T CARE......
@tony3879
@tony3879 8 күн бұрын
She is over 300 pounds. She is not getting married proposals.
@orestodomundo6652
@orestodomundo6652 9 күн бұрын
The thing is that at end of the day you can’t exactly make or predict how someone will lead their life and if they are going to grow beyond their early life foundation. In my case, i’m 25/male, I find it super difficult to open up to just people in general with my affection because I come from a single parent household, so I find it almost taboo to show love to someone. It’s not like I don’t want it but I feel like I always default to loving myself because that’s my pattern. So if this woman says she wants to grow herself first she better be really reallly careful about how that will affect her later years. I think you should always at least pursue it but at the end of the day when you come out and claim that it’s an issue for others it’s you projecting.
@DJ-ll9hv
@DJ-ll9hv 9 күн бұрын
I don’t think everyone should or will get married and have kids but let’s be real. Man or woman you have to compete and do everything in your power to put yourself in the best scenario to attract a mate. Look at how she is and her mindset, if a man of her type and preference showed up would he even choose her? Not all but many black women want this scenario but refuse to compete and do the work to have that life because a man is supposed to take them as is. If she thinking finding a mate is challenging what about keeping the mate, carrying, birthing, raising the child and also establishing a great family dynamic while being confident and happy with who she is? What she’s asking for is not easy in this day and age and honestly I don’t think she wants to put in the work to get the results.
@Ghostisback24444
@Ghostisback24444 9 күн бұрын
Put what work in
@johnlawful2272
@johnlawful2272 3 күн бұрын
​@@Ghostisback24444I guess the gym
@pickmeisha
@pickmeisha 7 күн бұрын
I’m married, yet we are and will remain child free. On the contrary to her point and unpopular to many, I needed a leader, provider, protector in my life so I made finding a husband THE priority. In general I need men in my life in different facets. The world doesn’t move without men. It’s my purpose and how I function as a woman to be a helpmate. I truly believe aside from severe mental or emotional trauma and deficits, women who speak like this have given up and/or don’t have the tools to position themselves as wives/ribs.
@perseverancelite1
@perseverancelite1 9 күн бұрын
She’s selfish and that’s cool with that mindset she should never get married or have children because everyone involved will suffer.
@quincycuthbert5408
@quincycuthbert5408 8 күн бұрын
She would be selfish if she had them and chose irresponsibility
@markgillus99
@markgillus99 9 күн бұрын
Men have legacy. Women can have a legacy. But I don’t hear women talk about how they want to have a daughter that people look up to want to be like. What a woman is suppose to be act walk and talk.
@huhwhatyousay2652
@huhwhatyousay2652 9 күн бұрын
You need new co-host.
@niya_gbisland
@niya_gbisland 8 күн бұрын
She's spewing this mess because she hasn't met no one or no one wants her.
@uniqueamerican4963
@uniqueamerican4963 6 күн бұрын
Not all women want children though, but most women want to get marry.
@AetheriusComics
@AetheriusComics 8 күн бұрын
My thought on this is, I don't think she's hetero, and I think she's non monogamous. As, these are the kinds of women to tend to be anti marriage and children. Not monogamous hetero women.
@brianalexander1922
@brianalexander1922 9 күн бұрын
People with this mindset shouldn't have kids, but you shouldn't have this mindset. It's the mindset of a child that doesn't want to grow up. No man or woman is an island. This idea that you can be fine by yourself is cool when everything in life is going good. But what happens when things arent going good? Feeling okay with being alone could all go away when a disaster hits, personal, or large scale...if you get sick, lonely, old, etc., then what? We're all humans. We only got as far as we got because of community. Quentin has a goofy redpill take. A world without women would be boring. Part of why men do a lot of what we do and become who we are is because of women. I dont need them to go cave diving to save me, or set some concrete. That's not their purpose.
@tomaradoss3420
@tomaradoss3420 7 күн бұрын
Ok the young guy , is gay ? Well that explains his viewpoint.😂😂😂😂😂
@skr5639
@skr5639 9 күн бұрын
In all age ranges, I was never qualified enough in some aspect...i was told i was ugly and fat by black men....now I'm geriatric (44), fat, and ugly....disqualified...I will be alone and I'm ok with it now.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 8 күн бұрын
Plus size women get married all the time.Have you thought of opening your dating options?
@vermellvain5469
@vermellvain5469 6 күн бұрын
Hey gurl there aee many woman that were murdered by husband's boyfriends and tyrones.. that rejection was your protection.. trust me and u know what else you could be up 4
@123pb
@123pb 7 күн бұрын
All this lady is doing is quitting before she gets fired
@hr9336
@hr9336 8 күн бұрын
Poor baby is a failure and trying to give herself a pep talk to feel better. Nothing new here. They are making these videos at break-neck speed.
@shiningstar4885
@shiningstar4885 8 күн бұрын
The Bible even says that some people are called to singleness. It’s actually considered a blessing. I’m not saying that this woman is the case, I’m just speaking on biblical terms, since a lot of people look at it as “being alone” everyone doesn’t have that gift to endure being single or childless.
@ToniaAlex13
@ToniaAlex13 7 күн бұрын
Why isn't it okay? Not everyone will share the same path in life. It's as simple as that. She is sharing her pov on a topic that's well talked abt how is she spilling nonsense. Not everyone will be married, have children, own houses, properties etc. Haven't history already shown us this?
@gmoore326
@gmoore326 7 күн бұрын
Being rooted in material is never good because there's no stability in it. There's only stability in an uncahnging God. Shout out to Anton shutting that down. We need each other, God saw that it was not good for man to be alone.
@emperorlivion
@emperorlivion 7 күн бұрын
the problem with these women is that they have kids later on in life anyway. They eventually need a man to provide and try to run a hail Mary with the same selfish mindset. If these women stayed off the dating market completely it would be good for everyone but they never do. Ask these same women that say 'I don't wanna have to worry about another person" if they believe in 50/50 and the answers are hilarious. These types of women are ridiculous because they really never stand on business.
@humus4000
@humus4000 9 күн бұрын
Good content guys real talk 👏
@JamesASharp
@JamesASharp 8 күн бұрын
These women are strong and independent. They'll be fine.
@BeverlyAnn57
@BeverlyAnn57 9 күн бұрын
My parents were married for 59 years and I never met my forever, so I am months away from being 58 and I’ve never been married and I don’t have any kids because of the example my parents set! And who told that guy that he was at the top, and he’s single because of his ignorant mouth and juvenile behavior!
@acdatrainer8631
@acdatrainer8631 9 күн бұрын
Nobody should be alone!
@mamboshumba3394
@mamboshumba3394 9 күн бұрын
It’s always the big ones🫠
@theagbaman
@theagbaman 6 күн бұрын
Not everyone wants to or should have kids. Nothing wrong with that. Case closed.
@Benit4real
@Benit4real 9 күн бұрын
No one gets the fairy tale. So what she says makes no sense. But if she is OK with being alone. She knows herself. That's good
@chrisj9090
@chrisj9090 9 күн бұрын
Why doesn’t she make sense?
@Benit4real
@Benit4real 9 күн бұрын
@@chrisj9090 because no one ever gets the fairy tale. It's a relationship myth. It's Cinderella. All relationships have issues. Look at our soncalled role models. How many stay together without issues? We just have to figure out what we are are willing to deal w. No one's checklist has all boxes checked and if they do in the beginning, make sure you are checking in pencil and your pencil has an eraser.
@DTex
@DTex 9 күн бұрын
I don’t mind a woman being that kind of woman when it come to kids, if she TRULY believes that. What kinna worries me, is the women who spill that, verbally, but REALLY don’t feel like that, deep down. They havent felt what they “think” they should about kids, therefore allowing themselves to dismiss the idea by their early 20’s. Think of how many times these women say “I still have to find myself” @ 29-30. They’ve been indoctrinated into thinking they either shouldnt want kids or want kids way too late
@willnola5782
@willnola5782 9 күн бұрын
Our bodies wouldn't be balanced without estrogen and androgen
@cashflowhustles
@cashflowhustles 9 күн бұрын
I said the EXACT same thing with Kevin Samuels. He wasn't wrong on a micro perspective because women can't survive without men outside of reproduction and procreation of course. But on a MACRO LEVEL that whole Gender War competitive thing was completely hypothetical, non productive and complete fantasy. Of course a fish is not a bird or horse or lion or butterfly but being different or weaker or stronger is not a bad or horrible thing. Stop trying to COMPETE with a bird or fish and UTILIZE their uniqueness and diversity for an actual PRODUCTIVE PURPOSE to achieve compatibility instead of animosity or a "War" of any type. The purpose of a competitive "War" is to actually WIN that war. War and competition have to have a PURPOSE or objective or end goal. So women do indeed serve a PRODUCTIVE PURPOSE as well as an AESTHETIC ENJOYABLE purpose or EFFECT outside of just pure mundane utility. The Gender War never made sense to me and was a counter productive exercise in futility. And to quote KS he DID SAY that we NEEDED each other at the end of the day. Successful teamwork requires COOPERATION and not Warfare or a competitive rivalry.
@jimmyjay689
@jimmyjay689 8 күн бұрын
Great in every way, yet alone and single😂
@DeputyHill
@DeputyHill 9 күн бұрын
I agree with her 100%
@ashleyjones5396
@ashleyjones5396 7 күн бұрын
There is a lot of sacrifice when being a parent and spouse, but the reward for me is greater. For some people, the reward is not greater and many love their freedom. A lot is given up even if temporarily like traveling when you have kids. I remember watching a YT video sometime back about this. I have told my husband that if God forbid anything happened to him, I wouldn’t get married again. It’s bc I want to do what I want to do and when I want to do it. Our marriage is great, but there is a lot of compromising and bc of his job we don’t get to travel as much. Also, my husband is the spender and I’m the saver/investor so we constantly compromise with this.
@christexaport
@christexaport 9 күн бұрын
She just being loyal. Waiting on me. 😂
@tomaradoss3420
@tomaradoss3420 7 күн бұрын
The unattractive are the ones getting married and enjoying each other. Look around. It’s us with the list😂😂😂me included.
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