I Mentored Her for 8 Months and This is What Happened

[@caling98]

This was a great interview. No one ever mentions that mental health is one of the keys to success in this business. Love the transparency.

[@JenniferMillerjaneofalltrades]

Wow! Your sister is much like me in regard to thought processes. Fear of failure is a big one for me.

[@les0101s]

This was a great interview and your sister has accomplished a lot, especially since she has 3 kids. One thing I noticed about you guys is that you are both very well-spoken, so very easy to listen to.

[@cayleyelaine]

Thank you!

[@ashleyyoung1904]

This was awesome and so relatable! I struggle with consistency as well and one thing I always think about is “why can’t I list with the same eagerness as I ship?” I’m always on time with shipping because it will instantly derail my ability to sell if I’m not. I need to apply that to more aspects than just shipping. We need to do a weekly call/accountability group for moms/women in reselling. We are alone all day working and then interacting with kids at night it’s easy to feel defeated. It would be good to have people to check in with weekly to say “what have you done for yourself this week?” Type accountability call. Thank you so much for sharing! I am the only mom I know who does reselling full time and it was nice to know someone else does too. 💕

[@cayleyelaine]

That's a great idea!

[@WrightDreamer]

Love this idea...I need accountability as well

[@toadevergreen2561]

You mom ladies should start a Facebook group 💞

[@promisedlanders]

Yes! Please come back with an update! Everything Chey said; lack of consistency, being late, excuses, perfectionism.. it’s like she was talking about me! So motivating to hear how hard she worked and how fast she turned things around🏆❤️ Great job Chey! And thanks Cayley for asking the BEST questions👏🏻❤️🏆

[@GrowingOlderWithStyle]

I loved this! What a lovely sister you have. Great advice. I so needed to hear it right now.

[@lindakamps2037]

You two are beautiful!! Thanks for a great interview. Mental health is so important, I’m glad you brought it up. I’m an RN and reselling is so beneficial to my health all around!

[@cayleyelaine]

Thank you so much!

[@get_a_flipping_life6079]

That was GREAT! Just what I needed this morning while I’m making excuses for not working yet!

[@tiannapetty3945]

Great interview. I do love that you brought up mental health. This year I started scheduling exercise and house keeping into my work day. Even though it seems to have nothing to do with reselling I find that if I have a cluttered or messy house I don't get as much done (since I run most of my business out of my home). Just tidying for 15 minutes in the morning sets me up for a better day. Also if I start my morning with 30 minutes of exercise I get way more accomplished work wise than if I skip it.

[@emeraldgardenvintage1479]

I loved this so much! Hopped on earlier to see if y'all were live, and I saw your updated video with your sister. Realized I never watched this one, so naturally I wanted to watch it before the new one 😂 I have 3 children as well, and have been a stay at home mom with them for 4 years. This summer our routine will be changing, which will in turn have a big effect on my business. I really connected with this!

[@meredithprintz7009]

Loved seeing the two of you! That was fun, please do it again!

[@Robert74450]

She was great as an interview as a mom it was nice to hear about how things get in the way this year my husband got very very sick needin 24/7 care from me and we had to move this set me back a lot

[@dirtisbetterthandiamonds]

I have to agree about Mercari. A "lady" gave me a terrible feedback after she admitted to scamming me in the mercari message system. Instead of making things right, the Mercari CSR just deleted the messages. I was appalled since I had been on there 4 years, had 100% positive feedback with hundreds of sales! I was told that NO MATTER WHAT, Mercari does not remove feedback and I must have done something to deserve it. Within an hour, the buyer had my stuff, which at this point was now stolen, listed for sale in her account....never going back.

[@tbrownell102]

What a wonderful interview! Thank you for your honesty and giving spirit.

[@tenyacollier3946]

Thank you so much for the video, I appreciate it and it helps me alot....I just have to say, I have to take a breathe and say it's not personal & take my emotions out of my business...I try not to take the messages personal, I try to look at it as maybe buyer may have had a bad day, and we as people are all imperfect, so I try to be incredibly apologetic,...especially if I have made a mistake....but I appreciate you ladies so much, the draft savings bank, ❤️ the setting reachable goals...every since I started watching this C.E. channel, my business has improved and I have improved....❤thank you so much

[@evelynbishop9544]

This segment was GREAT. As a perfectionist I totally related to much of this. And started making changes about 3 months ago. I support the concepts. and can say it has helped grow my business. I went to an average monthly sales of $200 to $800. May I reached my sales goal of $1000. My biggest change I listed 2 items every day. Now I plan to work on 2 things you mentioned a) Having less perfect listing. b) start banking for my vacation. Your advice was so valuable & well received. ❤️😊👍

[@lukeaustindaugherty8297]

This was a clutch and deep conversation. I've been a full time ebay seller (along with writing and music) since 2011 and been through lots of ups and downs, in the economy and in life. When I lost my son in 2020, that crushed me. I'm JUST getting my stride back with my business in the way that I like to run it. Mental health is HUGE in our industry as entrepreneurs. Especially when you're the only or one of the very few moving parts in your system. If you're hurt, your business hurts. Thanks for being so real on this one!

[@cayleyelaine]

Wishing you the best!

[@shellyosborne1303]

I can relate to the low self esteem your sister has struggled with..great advice from her and nice to hear her goals! Great video…

[@moneymovejenn]

What a great video! Super insightful, extremely helpful but mostly so relatable!

[@karentatum8798]

Cayley, thanks so much for this perspective. I can totally relate to your sister. I can get so caught up in the details, each and every picture being perfect, etc. We we won’t even talk about my insecurities. Basically I am my own worst enemy and have all the potential in the world and need to get out of my own way. I have watched soooo many KZbinr’s and they have all helped, but for my particular situation this has helped the most. Thanks so much and the best of luck to you both!!!

[@stardavis6618]

Such a great video. Loved this interview with your sister. Hope to see more of her in the future!

[@mpatrick8673]

My sister and I are accountability partners for our businesses. I'm full time and she is part-time, different product categories but same struggles. It's nice having someone who understands, and knows what everything means. We do the same discussion about mindset, attitude, goals, roadblocks, aspirations, etc. This was great!

[@MicheleLoritoChase]

Fantastic interview! Wow! Thank you to you both.

[@karenscott7465]

This was interesting and very helpful. Would love to see a follow-up sometime.

[@ceoptimist]

If you think the best of your buyers, believing that they are honest and kind...you will be amazed at how they suddenly all become honest and kind! I was just like you, thinking the worst and being insecure...I changed my outlook and they all become much better! I do the same with my family and that helps too...I have a habit of catastrophising and being aware of that helps too...great interview, come back again!

[@patriciaquintana8073]

If PM is going to penalize us for out of stock, then they must make it much easier for us to delete items! Thanks for the video:)

[@cayleyelaine]

Truth!

[@watermelonmpls]

Enjoyed hearing from another reselling mom! Very professional

[@GodSaveTheClothes]

This was so good! I’m in the same situation…stay at home mom part time and inconsistent listings but ready to buckle down!

[@lisa_yvette3875]

Great video..so nice to get to know your sister..

[@HannahsHeirlooms]

Really enjoyed this interview with your sister! She has a lot of great tips. It took me running myself in the ground trying to list as much as I could every day to realize that’s no good for me or my business. As she also said, mental health is a big thing! I know I really doubt myself and feel lonely quite often. It sounded like she really struggled herself. I hope she knows she’s amazing for being a wife, mom and boss!

[@Natureshealingventure]

Great video! Thank you 😊. Extremely relatable

[@bonniep.5165]

Great !!! Thanks Ladies 👏🏼👏🏾👏🏽

[@creativeplum]

This was great motivation and good reminders 😌

[@mjanejewelryfindings]

It was a pleasure to finally meet you @goodwill today!

[@cayleyelaine]

It was so great to meet you!! Thanks for saying hi.

[@bestbargainfashion5575]

Great interview on how to get kids started with their own business!

[@danafindwell]

Such a great video! Thank you both, i would love a check in!

[@rebacarmack8335]

Please have your sister on again- you two are very professional and enjoy the content.

[@diannemcgriff3811]

Great interview with your Sister.

[@snugglebug4tm]

This was so helpful! Thank you!

[@Bobbie-Loves-To-Thrift]

Great interview! Thanks for sharing! 💗

[@cclovelacegrace]

Your sister‘s story is mine Exactly as far as going from part-time to full-time and having two kids and trying to juggle all of that while wanting to increase the business!

[@marbeau7929]

Thank you for uploading! I agree, consistency is vital in reselling, which I feel can only be achieved by setting realistic goals - it took me time (getting burnt out a few times) before realizing this though LOL

[@cayleyelaine]

Girl, same!

[@katrinamurray1001]

I love this 💖 thanks for sharing

[@paulakeenan9377]

Great video. I really enjoyed it.

[@stuckinfreeport1]

great motivational content. thanks

[@Robert74450]

Bamboo takes a long time to grow at first and then explodes

[@togetherrrr]

How long does it take to list 20 items?

[@cayleyelaine]

I'll have to ask her.

[@ivethurbina4458]

I have a question! Why do eBay buyers want everything for $10 and $12 Do you sell clothes for that price? Thank you

[@cayleyelaine]

Occasionally but my average selling price is $30-$40. So I do have majority of buyers purchasing for much more.

[@ivethurbina4458]

@@cayleyelaine Thank You 🌷

[@cclovelacegrace]

Please please please count me in if you ever open a mentorship. I would love to do a one on one call or some type of accountability with you.

[@cayleyelaine]

We've been talking about it 😉

[@la6136]

7:25 Omg yes Mercari customer service for sellers is absolutely terrible. If something goes wrong they will not help sellers at all. Do not recommend selling anything valuable on there.

[@lisachristinaconfirmed5067]

Hi Cayley! This was v helpful as I have 2 kids. Does your sister have a channel or Instagram?

[@cayleyelaine]

She does not. But I'm hoping to have her back on my channel soon!

[@silvergrlfriend]

Good video

[@andonarnold7469]

$5000 for her gross a month but what is her monthly earnings? Love the interview ❤