I MESSED UP 😢 | 4 MONTHS OLD PROTECTIVE STYLE TAKEOUT

[@ariesunicorn8225]

Ladies, you can still shampoo and condition your hair while it’s still in cornrows or braids. “Leaving your hair alone” does not mean neglecting it. An unclean scalp is a breeding ground for bacteria and fungal infections.

[@tatienono]

1:41 "too much product buildup on her hair". Which means she was taking care of her hair.

[@daniellaasemota4344]

​@@tatienonoAt least wash it too. I leave my protective styles for long periods too, but I maintain it well ( washing, re-twisting, moisturizing). I looks disgusting to be frank😢

[@TheLoveweaver]

Um that is not what that means, but ok. Product in your hair is not equal to caring for it.​@tatienono

[@LusciousNaturalgirlie]

I feel really sorry for her. Her scalp will heal completely and her hair will grow back just fine.

[@Nayanzeka]

Thanks dear, hope so too

[@hadijatunuhu6239]

Why feeling sorry for her? It was her choice.

[@NadouLove7]

4 months 🤢 ladies please clean your scalp, clean scalp = healthy hair growth!

[@chalettedorsey5989]

Right

[@lovelite6737]

the itching and the smell would just be to Dang much for me! we as human beings just gotta do better🙄

[@hashtagblackwomen-ih6iu]

You can clean your scalp while its in a long term protective style, you do know that right? And it looked like she had pleeenty growth to me.

[@anithamselle6196]

I think its better to wash first if you know you are ready to take it out so that to remove the dirty and to be easier even to avoid breakage dear .,,all in all i love your videos

[@Aniexo_]

Stop telling us what to do. I’ll be leaving my hair alone for 3 months this will be my first time! I can’t wait

[@baybischam]

Considering she had the braids in for 4 months and we lose approx 100 strands per day everyday the hair lose would have been significant no matter the technique used or how gentle the take down especially when there is already damage to the hair shaft

[@Nayanzeka]

Guess you’re right dear

[@serenapalmer1220]

I ALWAYS consider this when taking my hair down

[@vinoliabaloyi2183]

True

[@Butterfly-yk9bw]

Right

[@allthingsnathy]

There is nothing protected about this protected style smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@girlanonymous]

😂

[@deebossTito]

For tangling and matting. De-tangling dry with oil separates hair better and reduces shedding. Wetting the hair exacerbates tangling because the cuticles are lifted and stick to each other (like Velcro). The oil in conditioner is a saving grace tho :)

[@Nayanzeka]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@denisejeffrey5853]

Right use oil of choice overnight. Works wonders!!

[@asiabadd3731]

@@denisejeffrey5853 I wear wigs and leave my braids in protective style for 4months but I lose a lot of hair when taking them out. I will try using oil over night before the take down. My hair is so long and healthier these days I just want it be thicker. Also I started moisturizing and using oil while in protective style and that has helped. I just don’t get trims as much as I should, I will work on being better at that thanks!

[@Claudiinha33]

You don’t need to do overnight my dear, I saturate mine with oils 1 hour before the take down and work wonders. Now I will try 4 months, I only did 3. And for some reason tea tree essential oil preventes my hair to tangle too much. I mix with coconut and castor oil.

[@lindaavery6984]

Thanks

[@kiyan_mommy]

The only mistake here, is she didn't take care of her hair while it's in protective styling. As long as you wash and do your treatments, this is the best way to grow your hair. I did it for two years and my hair got to waist length. But dont do it, if your hair is relaxed

[@jboss3333]

Seriously! OMG! Waist length!

[@jboss3333]

Seriously! OMG! Waist length! What was ur wash routine? Which products did u use?

[@kiyan_mommy]

@@jboss3333 Don't even worry about the products, just stick to a routine - pre poo, wash , deep treatment and seal. During the week spritz(water/oil/conditioner). Wash weekly or every two weeks. And leave your hair alone. I used tresemme shampoo and conditioner and for the deep treatment I honestly just used what was available and cheap

[@ashleybanksss]

@@kiyan_mommyDo keep the braids in and wash or do you take braids out and then wash followed with blows dry then braid it?

[@kiyan_mommy]

@@ashleybanksss keep them in. The goal is to have a clean scalp. I would only take the braids out after 3 months. Repeat again. No heat for the whole year. And this only works for natural hair, I ended up relaxing mine cz hair was too thick + 4c

[@moa5351]

For those saying how could she have left the style in for 4 months: her scalp was badly burned by a chemical. There was no way for her to wash it without severe pain and without risking infection. Even here it appears the burns are still hurting. I know how that feels from my relaxer burn days 😢

[@PsychItUpTrivia]

Homemade flaxseed and okra gel would have been a saving grace here. I experienced this matting recently and it helped.

[@sb7550]

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[@tkeisha24]

Or could have bought an aloe Vera leaf from the store cut it open put it in the blender then strain out the juice….it serves as a natural detangle recipe also it aids in hair growth.

[@maryjacob8873]

That trusty wooden parting comb is called ilarun(e-lah-roon) in my culture, It never fails me. woo hoooo, a hair transition, we love to hear that. I hope her hair and scalp progresses and gets better. Thank you for showing her hair TLC it deserved!!! side note- I thought that was you at the beginning of the video because she has a similar facial structure from the side. Thank you for uploading as usual

[@jamrock2979]

The longest i leave braids in my head is four weeks! That's just nasty.

[@caribbeanqueen9894]

What was she protecting her hair from? Against water, soap, sun and fresh air? The best protection for our hair is taking care of it and being proud to wear it !

[@sherwood9917]

I couldn't agree more. I was going to ask a similar question.

[@Shay45]

A Protective Style protects the weakest part of the hair the ends. When tucked away they won’t rub up against your clothes, lose hydration & moisture, and keeps the hair in a stretched state (shrunken hair = more tangles) Also protective styles are low to no manipulation hairstyle. The more you are messing with your hair the more breakage can occur.

[@apara2005]

😂😂😂

[@ingloriousMachina]

I put my hair in braids to minimize the ends being caught/broken.

[@aminashabdellah1642]

The damaged hair looked liked relaxer damaged

[@user-fc2xk3uv8y]

i thought the same thing

[@shanashay1399]

Four months…way too long. Also seems unsanitary.

[@jeanbastien9424]

This isn’t a protective style. Protective styles protect hair, this is neglect.

[@patricegreen5253]

She’s in the best of care❤

[@janekangethe1190]

The aggressive brushing damaged the hair more...looks like the hairdresser was too aggressive

[@Anonyme67]

Way tooo aggressive

[@graceikegwu]

There is nothing protective about this abeg.. Stop putting pressure on people!!!

[@laureenprice]

Instead of greet tea first you can try an oil so you have maximum slip for the take down Good luck

[@Nayanzeka]

Great point!

[@kenyakaynesasmrthe2nd141]

Wetting matted hair is a very bad idea. We learned in cosmetology school to always detangle before you wet it. I did not listen and ended up with dreads from not detangling first

[@jasminspepperpot8156]

I have to wash during protective style. Believe ppl can smell the sweat. Including your partner.

[@darlingbee9670]

Her hair should have been shampooed way before 4 months. Her scalp would not heal if the scalp was no healthy. Also brushing or combing the hair is important as a person can lose 100 strands a day. Let’s work on healing her scalp and the hair should be comb by the roots also.

[@Itsqueendivine2007]

Ladies and gentlemen be washing your hair ievery two weeks even if you have a protective style for long and oil the scalp so the dandruff doesn't come back

[@deempangazithadlodlo3966]

But honestly,if you leave hair for that long , it's doing more damage than good, this was no longer a protective style.

[@jumokejoie]

I cannot carry my hair more than 4weeks.😮

[@abioni6092]

Me too I was wondering how someone can walk around with 4 month hair in the name of protective styling. Unless she was depressed or had other mental health issues 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@BombAfro11]

Non copine,nos cheveux ne méritent pas cette maltraitance 😢😢😢😢

[@Anonyme67]

Trop d’accord. Je trouve qu’elle les peignait trop brutalement

[@sambayb8869]

Ive left mine in before for 4 months and when i took out i massages oil and conditioner and i used a huge comb then a wide set comb then a regular comb.. then i washed a few times and deep conditioned it was great

[@wynterbreeze1202]

Sis, you have a beautiful face. A big chop would look beautiful on you. It's damaged and it's only hair! It will regrow healthy and quickly. I just did a big chop and 30 days later, I have significant hair growth. I dont do anything special to it. I just moisturize with my oil then apply a moisturizer.

[@lindaavery6984]

That looks like more than some year's did you wash at all 😮

[@gillianforte713]

That's damn nasty

[@ijamaica1052]

4 months is too long to keep in “ protective styles” without washing the hair.

[@EneOchete]

Leaving the hair for that long without oiling or washing it is really not a good idea protective styles still need to be washed and oiled

[@mhjgh3834]

Well done!👍🏽 That's exactly how i would have handled it.

[@154angel154]

Is she transitioning? Saw in the vid that she is eventually bc'ing. 😊

[@charmelldewee8802]

She made a mistake by tucking the way for that period I had severe heat damage after wash and braid my hair at a salon... I only saw the damage after 3 weeks taking the braids off it was so tangled when it gets in contact with water 😢😢painful but I did my normal weekly wash routine and moisturize the hair every second day the moment my scalp healed the hair started to grow back.... I opt for a soft reset and now my hair is full and healthy again natural hair is magic

[@sarahm5926]

The amount of hair she lost is the amount of hair I lost after leaving my hair in a natural protective style for 2 weeks😢 !!! what can I do to proverb that ? Does moisturising and spraying my hair during a protective style help this ?

[@Ronldbx6]

4 months!? My shi be tangled after two weeks! I know that shi was locked!😩

[@tanyamcloven5476]

Needed a rattail comb and separate smaller sections

[@shieldedbygrace2284]

Why would you leave a style for so long ????

[@asiabadd3731]

⁠ I wear wigs and leave my braids in protective style for 4months but I lose a lot of hair when taking them out. My hair is so long and healthier these days I just want it be thicker. Also I started moisturizing and using oil while in protective style and that has helped. I just don’t get trims as much as I should, I will work on being better at that.

[@Nayanzeka]

👍

[@MayMay-gd9ge]

​@Nayanzeka You should have loosed her braids first before applying water. Better yet, the client should have loosed her own braids and washed her hair herself. You kept brushing and tugging at her hair while it was wet. Dont you know hair is weak and fragile when it is wet and yes you pulled on her wet hair until it shredded. The client felt this happening and then tried to remove her braids herself but you stopped her. Are you jealous of her thick hair?

[@e_star_lice]

What product did she use for the dandruff so I don’t go and use some.😢

[@IndianBeauty02]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@augustineshigwedha]

How 4 months without washing the hair, what happened; she got sick or it's normal like that😢. Sorry

[@hazhu2153]

How anyone can go 4 mnths without washing their hair. After wk 2 I would start getting palpitations. I would of simply cut it down to the new growth and start fresh

[@AuntieThree]

She had hair and scalp damage from a relaxer not a darn dandruff treatment.

[@jennapitts8373]

What are you protecting your hair from?!

[@sherondariley4224]

She need to protect it from her😢

[@Shay45]

A Protective Style protects the weakest part of the hair the ends. When tucked away they won’t rub up against your clothes, lose hydration & moisture, and keeps the hair in a stretched state (shrunken hair = more tangles) Also protective styles are low to no manipulation hairstyle. The more you are messing with your hair the more breakage can occur.

[@apara2005]

​@@Shay45none of this is true. You've been brainwashed. If hair needed protecting your body would give natural protection. Let's be real, it's because you hate your hair and want to hide it.

[@valeriesignaturesalon]

hi, is the young lady in this video your sister? yall have the same facial structure

[@Nayanzeka]

Yes she is

[@bernice1123]

If her hair is weak and it's wet don't use a brush it will definitely break More

[@jamiestorm673]

ladies, I understand protective hairstyles, low hair manipulation however, it is never OK to do this, four months is too long to keep anything in your hair

[@ruthern1]

Detangling spray might help but damn 4 months.. thats a long time

[@janicefrost4190]

That looks like more than four months.

[@TTee203]

I can barely wear my mini twist 2 weeks. 4 MONTHS is really a long time!

[@sarahm5926]

The amount of hair she lost is the amount of hair I lost after leaving my hair in a natural protective style for 2 weeks😢 !!! Help people 😅 what can I do to proverb that ? Does moisturising and spraying my hair during a protective style help this ?

[@alenabisam]

Ok so i was hoping to keep my hair for 4 months.. it been two months already i also wash it every week on braids ..i braided it 13TH September but now im not so sure ..im unbraiding it right here right now

[@Nayanzeka]

Yes you can!

[@Ammygold2468]

This is almost like, after being advice to use texturizer to make my hair softer, I didn't even what texturizer was I ended up spoiling my hair, it got relaxed, now I'm just suffering to grow my hair back up, hair of 7yrs just went down like that, I'm just soooo pained whenever I remember it, my hair is just struggling to grow. I'm tired 😩

[@Nayanzeka]

That’s so painful, your hair will grow back in no time dear

[@Ammygold2468]

@@Nayanzeka thank you, I'm trying to grow it, I'm following some of your routine though

[@renataedwiges5044]

Deus abençoe cabelo dessa moça de crescimento. Pro cabelo dela senhor toca no couro do cabelo dela e coloca vitamina milagrosa em oro em nome de Jesus amém

[@Shani-kq6tk]

Use oil next time better than conditioner

[@Katrina-s9w]

Yes it is

[@bellocholo3626]

Conditioner is better as it adds moisture Oil seals moisture

[@charnacharna3981]

No one should have a protective style for over 2 months,it's not healthy.

[@coxo9994]

The longest time you can keep your braids is 3 weeks

[@Diva_D_Jennings]

Why did she leave the braids in for so long? Hopefully, she will not repeat this again?

[@EstherNepo]

Stop brushing, you are damaging...

[@hadijatunuhu6239]

Haba! How could she let her hair become like this? Couldn't she use a mirror to see that. She is even lucky she did not harbour lice! As for the Lady doing the hair she really tried to have accepted this job - even if it was her business!!!😮😮

[@jalastarchild]

The damaged hair must go

[@Lizzyuzor]

Looks like she was almost running mad

[@ms.kk.a.ybrown3755]

Should have used oil & not water... start at the bottom and work your way up ..

[@MsJoyce31202]

How in the world she kept that hairstyle in for that long?

[@missmcintosh405]

Sorry, but not washing your hair and scalp for four months is grim.

[@amberkhashmal]

How would you say you messed up prior to posting this video? This is not a video of you taking your own hair down.

[@renataedwiges5044]

Esse cabelo , precisa lavar bem com shampoo fazer uma boa hidratação , ta muita sujo o cabelo credo

[@thetruequeen6747]

I thought I was bad leaving my protective style in from 2.5 months but I am very careful when I take my hair down and yes I do have sheddings but not too bad sometime. But I never put anything in hair I just keep it naturally kinky. It’s pretty healthy though.

[@sarahm5926]

Is their anything you do to your hair whilst it’s in a protective style to stop it for over shedding and being over tangled ? I left my hair in protective style for 2 weeks and I lost A LOT of hair most of my thickness is gone 😢

[@thetruequeen6747]

@@sarahm5926 Yes I do wash and condition my hair every 3 weeks plus I use island mango oil on my scalp and sometimes a leave in conditioner spray just to keep it moisturized.

[@TTee203]

Dirty hair does not grow, causes extreme breakage!

[@joyatawodi2440]

4 months???! Why? I can't go beyond 4 weeks. And MAX, 5 weeks. How was she walking about with her hair all closed up and not getting any air or water for 4 whole months?! 🤧

[@apara2005]

Thats still nasty. I wouldn't admit this.

[@BeetaTumbre]

You said you know too many times...😅

[@tamaramartin3468]

This is unsanitary. If a man comes close enough to you and gives you a kiss you will smell like you haven’t washed your hair 🤢

[@Anonyme67]

Sorry I am married and I keep my hair for 2 months without washing and it only smells conditioner which in fact smells good.

[@PloveTV2020]

That was a very long time.

[@misslolita200]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@EneOchete]

I don't think you should have left it for that long

[@anneaburime6942]

That was wrong by putting conditioner before loosening it

[@preciousejamike656]

You should have worn hand gloves 😮

[@caraadebajo1388]

I can never carry my hair up to four months

[@Diamond-cr6fx]

That looks like more than 4 months 😳. You can wash your hair with any protective style. I'm sorry 😮 that's being lazy and not keeping your hair clean! Lbvs 😂 smdh! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ladymcgill8016]

4 months 😨😨😨😨, it that healthy for your hair? It can't be

[@Boke_marwa]

You are brushing hair hair..... adding to the damage

[@NwaBene]

You should be using hand gloves 🥺

[@oluwatoyin6348]

You should not have used a brush on such fragile hair especially so wet

[@rabisulemann7641]

This is not encouraging at all

[@AfolabiJoshua-mb7pc]

Wear ur gloves next time ND cover your customers backs with towel while u aid them on😢😮

[@MarieMMomoM]

Helle

[@chalettedorsey5989]

That’s nasty and laziness to leave those kinds of braids with where most of your scalp, is unable to get air for that long

[@youtubecreat243]

GROSS

[@godisgood566]

Why took so long. That's is terrible

[@NaoPhiri-vd7uh]

Soo bad is she your sis

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

She said yes to someone who ask me same question

[@esthermaina8053]

A wooden hair pick

[@Nayanzeka]

Thanks

[@penny8144]

Omg you were supposed to put oil then conditioner and detangle in small sections 😮

[@MsLA-tz4si]

What dandruff treatment caused the damage?

[@shaffy856]

Her hair started locing. You must wash you hair regularly, not just to remove build up but for scalp health. It is not a protective style if you arent taking care of your actual hair

[@MsJoyce31202]

Right.

[@EneOchete]

it's true they should have at least oiled it

[@NyamebaNana]

Chai hairdressers really try, ooh, bc there is no way I would've put my bare/ungloved hands in that hair 🤢🤮.

[@daniellaasemota4344]

No lie. It's actually disturbing and gross🤢🤮🤧

[@NyamebaNana]

@@daniellaasemota4344 definitely

[@tirzahemmanuel7944]

No sis, even if it's for 6 months, you should have been doing the usual regularly. Washing every two weeks, and making sure it's well moisturized and oiled regularly.

[@esthermaina8053]

When you moisturise they don't break. Ladies leave it dry for the four months. Just spray water over it daily

[@squacequaye806]

The twists after detangling was a great idea . Ladies lets be careful tge products we put in our hair and skin.well done

[@darlingbee9670]

4 months and that’s all she lost was not a lot.

[@LifestylewithMaame]

4months is not protective hair that’s neglecting that hair

[@queenawill3542]

Transitioning hair is difficult to detangle after protective styling because of how different the textures are. Aloe vera gel can definitely help with detangling and its good for hair and scalp health

[@lindaavery6984]

Why did she do this