I Quit Caring About These 15 Things After 50...Here's What Happened

[@Maxx-mw2zt]

I don't care about keeping friends who are not positive and supportive just to have friends. I don't like gossiping on the phone for hours, such a waste. Also, I am learning to say no sometimes to invites that consume my weekends. I can't be everywhere for everyone. I appreciate the simple life, nature walks, traveling, reading, good people, and healthy food. Things that make my heart smile. Life is too short for anything less.

[@ceceliaswick9296]

At 75 years old I now understand that what someone else thinks of me is none of my business. I love my life, my family, my friends and I refuse to let others tell me I should be unhappy. I avoid people who are negative and angry. I love being with people who are smarter than I, people who are creative.

[@Gypseygirls]

You would love me !! ❤❤🇨🇦

[@melindamiller2804]

I also don't care about celebrities' opinions, especially when they act like they are an "expert"!

[@beckyshell4649]

I am puzzled why we think a celebrities are experts on politics,food,health issues,fashion,child rearing,home decoration,animal rights ,skincare,makeup,and fitness. Many were waiters and waitresses before making it big.

[@briancates4758]

I don’t care about any celebrities in the first place. I can entertain myself.

[@ReturnToSenderz]

@@beckyshell4649 Right? Especially when 99% of the time they have nutritionists, dermatologists, nannies, chefs, personal assistants, etc. to help them with all those parts of their lives. Let’s hear from those people who have actual training and experience in those areas, thanks.

[@pilarq7886]

wait till u find out all the female ones are biological male . Also any famous female It's way easier to hide a biological female turned male

[@pilarq7886]

​@@beckyshell4649wait till u find out all the female ones are biological male . Also any famous female, royals etc It's way easier to hide a biological female turned male

[@TC-fx5zu]

#1 for me is driving after dark. Those ridiculously bright headlights completely blind me especially on 2 lane roads.

[@HeronCoyote1234]

Between switching to LED bright white headlights, idiots who either use their brights inappropriately or don’t have their lights adjusted properly, and old eyes, I agree. I stopped night driving recently, after slashing a tire on rough concrete blocks taking a corner a little too tightly. So now I set my alarm to go off about 20 mins till sundown (plenty of time to get back home if I’m out).

[@Madamchief]

I was wondering if the reason that I am bothered by this is because I'm about to be 40 and probably need an eye checkup... But apparently it bothers a lot of people ☹️

[@carolynthompson6518]

I’m 73 and Uber drive and have to pass a health check annually. I’ve never needed glasses and have no problem with night driving. Please go for a check up. That is not normal

[@TC-fx5zu]

@@carolynthompson6518 I have eye exams yearly and I don’t have a problem seeing at night when headlights are normal. It’s the extremely bright headlights that blind me. I’m in the south and there are a lot of pickups with not only bright headlights but also big spotlights on them . They’re ridiculously bright and my co-workers that are a lot younger than I am complain about them hurting their eyes as well. Maybe you don’t have those in your area or you just may not be sensitive to extremely bright lights shining directly into your eyeballs at night lol.

[@brandywineblogger1411]

Have your optometrist check for cataracts.

[@jdax21]

I'm 49. Even before the pandemic, I realized I'm probably done going to movie theaters, concerts, and sporting events. From now on, I'll enjoy the few entertainment things I care about from the comfort of my own home. I dress for comfort. I like to look nice, but I don't stress about it. I love that I'm not as self-conscious as I was in my teens and twenties. I don't color my hair and I wear minimal make-up. I've rediscovered the joy of reading because most of what's on television no longer interests me. I prioritize sleep over late nights out. At this point, I'm all about quality of life. Good food, good sleep, and good friends.

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

I haven’t been to a movie theatre in YEARS!

[@isagoldfield7393]

My husband & I are in our early 50’s, we have separate bedrooms because sleep is very important to me & I like total darkness, whereas my husband snores & likes to have TV in the bedroom. We’re both happy & supportive of our decision. ♥️your channel!!

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Love that! And thank you for watching!

[@cn4492]

Same here!

[@lb9031]

same

[@juliemiller2658]

Me too

[@hollyashton7009]

Same

[@ms.herlan7860]

Letting go of past regrets is so important. I need to work on this .

[@kikiann2268]

I am now 75. My priorities have changed dramatically. This world is not my home. Now I just enjoy crocheting and spending time with family. Especially my precious granddaughter.

[@jeannereich8690]

76 here! I totally agree!

[@jchiappardi891]

I’m 72 and I’m the same!!!!!

[@susansmith493]

Oh boy could I go on and on about this. Agree 100%

[@BRuthable]

I'm 78 and right there with ya

[@susanmullins7713]

It sure does not feel like home,that's for sure.💕

[@sezh4315]

I don't care about having a "perfect" home. It is clean and tidy (ish)! but I don't care about the rooms being painted in the newest trend colours, everything matching, cleaning for hours, hoovering lines into carpets, cushion arrangements etc. When I die, it is not going to be on my headstone "Here lies S - she had a lovely home"!

[@barbaraparker6996]

I like you. Same with me.

[@TravelinRosy2025]

Yup

[@TravelinRosy2025]

Same with fashion

[@beckyg8028]

Yes, same!

[@jennugent3957]

Separate bedrooms for the win. I sleep so much better. I sleep with window wide open, very light bedding, but he gets cold. We both wake up during the night, this reduces waking each other. Life changing.

[@KerryJames-l6z]

At 56 am single don't want a man again

[@NANETTEMILLER-s8w]

Same here just get a 🐕

[@marycarlson8837]

This.

[@amandazplace5663]

I've told my husband that if he goes before me, I'm done! The world of dating is just too sketchy. I'd rather focus on other things.🇨🇦♥️

[@bevanbuckwheatshea5520]

Yes definitely get a rescue dog. Great company!

[@Silvia_Trich]

I tell my friends asking why I remain single that the only time I miss someone is when I have to bring home my grocery shopping: I don’t need a man, I need a Sherpa 😂

[@TammieBuckeye]

1) I lost all interest in Hollywood movies 2) I lost all interest in concerts 3) I lost all interest in going out to eat (enjoy only one place) 4) I lost all interest in being in huge crowds 5) I lost interest in “must have” stuff 6) and a huge I don’t care about certain holidays either. I am extremely Happy- I feel content and try new things like reaching new goals with working out. Oh well that’s just me.. it’s so freeing to me. God Bless you all

[@keener57]

Yessss! Holidays … too much fuss! It is just another day.

[@Fegga1955]

👌🙌🙌

[@FTYC2022]

Girl I completely stop celebrating holidays😂. It took a minute for my family to except it lol

[@terryallen7356]

I'm 70 and I agree with everything you said. My husband and I have had separate bedrooms for years because of work schedules but decided we both like our space so decades later we still have our own spaces. It doesn't reflect on our relationship at all.

[@carolynlineberger1929]

Thank you! I needed these! You have included so many points I have started using in my wonderful retirement years. Searching for parking-I go to the farthest space and call it exercise. I also carry my own groceries to the car, again, it is exercise! I carry the groceries into the house and immediately put them away. Then, I become a ‘couch potato’ with my little dog and KZbin! Life is good!!

[@meenakshi6344]

Love your description of your life. I wish you a lot of joy in the future

[@virginiamoss7045]

Couch, dog, KZbin. All you need! Well, food, water and shelter, too.

[@nonna628]

I’m 65 and I thought you were reading my mind. It makes me feel better to know I’m not alone. Love your show, thank you.

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Thanks for watching!!

[@KerryJames-l6z]

Am 56 don't care what people think of what I eat wear how I live don't care of gossip

[@NANETTEMILLER-s8w]

Same here

[@gracealexandre3381]

That's why I dread family or any type of reunions. They're always filled with gossip

[@Fegga1955]

Bless you,same here

[@sherilozak4326]

Totally agree. For a while I struggled with becoming invisible. But now I really like it. I am much quieter in conversations because my opinion really doesn't matter, and neither does anyone else's. My brain is quiet and happy and I believe it has a lot to do with hormones. Thanks for sharing!

[@NewCreation6123]

I love my 70's music and praise and worship music.

[@DebraMorris-q6r]

I avoid ppl in general, I enjoy my home and property, I avoid what I call life suckers, they only talk about problems they never seem to address.. by this time in life you’d think they’d figure it out? It’s so draining to be around them, self rest and care, I’ve given the majority of my life being someone to someone else, it’s my time.😊

[@glendalamadrid5567]

Agree. I avoided my high school friends because all they do is talk about other people's lives. And when I'm not around, I'm sure they talk about me. I'd rather be alone than be with these kind of people.

[@polskigirl8547]

I’m slowly turning into a hermit…..I enjoy working in my garden and taking care of my property…..I’m 68 and pay my grandson to mow my lawn to give him some money to buy an ice cream cone for him and his girlfriend…😊

[@lauraesperanza812]

I don't care: what people think about me, makeup stuff, going to parties, men, false friends,toxic family, my grey hair is not a concern anymore I love it.

[@bevanbuckwheatshea5520]

I dont care about the latest fashion. Just wear clothes and shoes for comfort

[@susansmith493]

My standard. ....as long as they don't hurt. Lol

[@zimjun7]

I love to be creative with clothes and dress how I feel on the inside. Not silly trendy. Mixing certain colors, etc. Gotta have SOME fun in life. Blue jeans and tee-shirts when casual. Crazy Shirts catalog, The Mountain or sometimes WRAP of London, Garnet Hill or Bodens. It can get expensive, though. I even throw Walmart in the equation to make it work. Single at...72..oh, yeah.... 'fun." 😿💔

[@TravelinRosy2025]

Yesss

[@gracealexandre3381]

Honestly, I found out many decades ago, I'm a lot happier when I dress different from everyone. I feel happier knowing, seeing that I'm the only one with my own personal taste, my own personal fashion.

[@DrLewis82]

Yeah…. My hips and knees love me again. I wear tennis shoes everyday now. I’m 41 and started this last year. I feel so much better. No heels

[@sharie9454]

I don’t care about: tv, magazines, new furniture, expensive jewelry, expensive makeup and creams, lotions, pricey restaurants. Thank you for this informative video that is a great reminder about what doesn’t really matter!

[@TravelinRosy2025]

Yes

[@virginiamoss7045]

Haven't had cable in 16 years; don't own a TV or a smartphone. No makeup at all; never eat out except occasional fast food on the run. No jewelry. Three subscriptions, local weekly newspaper, Consumer Reports, and AARP. I do have a pacemaker, though.

[@TammieBuckeye]

I totally agree

[@robinluettke47]

I am 60, I don't have traditional TV, I have a DVD player and a collection of movies. I never investigated in jewelry, my only real piece is my wedding set. Drugstore makeup,a bottle of lotion from Dollar Tree, Door Dash a few times a week.

[@dawnkosior2511]

I'm 56 & all about the comfort, a good nights rest, staycations, no gossip, news or movies...very little shopping and still rocking to Van Halen & Def Leppard 😉👌

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Oh my gosh!! Love all of this!!!

[@hollyerickson6364]

Totally with you on all the things you listed. Rock on!

[@kellychoate8186]

Omg me too!!

[@andreaelliott7117]

You have excellent taste in music my friend. ❤

[@arthurdevrome8925]

Thank me later: 1. Frugal Travel: Sarah enjoys traveling comfortably, preferring houses or hotels with amenities over cheap options, but avoids spending on souvenirs. 2. New Music: She prefers music from her past, especially the '90s, though she still enjoys some contemporary artists like the Jonas Brothers. 3. Personal Space: Values having her own space and is open to the idea of separate bedrooms to improve sleep quality. 4. Fashion Trends: Prioritizes comfort over following fashion trends, opting for practical clothing. 5. Parking: Avoids busy areas where parking is difficult, preferring convenience and less hassle. 6. Celebrity Gossip and News: Has stopped following celebrity gossip and watching repetitive news stories, which reduces anxiety. 7. Theme Parks: Dislikes crowds and expensive amusement parks, preferring smaller, less crowded attractions. 8. Driving After Dark: Avoids driving at night, finding it uncomfortable and stressful. 9. Impressing Others: No longer cares about impressing others, focusing on personal happiness and practicality over appearances. 10.Celebrating Birthdays and Holidays: Prefers low-key celebrations with loved ones and practical gifts, avoiding unnecessary festivities and gifts.

[@TraverseEarth353]

OMG! You're my kindred spirit!! I'm with you on ALL of those things!!

[@lenisewhitley611]

Oh my gosh, I agree with everything you said. I think it’s called being secure in yourself or growing older with Grace.

[@katherinetyrrell8810]

I can relate to all of these. At 54, I have stopped worrying about other people's opinions. I am never unkind, but I don't need to please anyone else. It is important to be empowered with the words, "No, thank you" or "No, thank you , that is not for me". Say it with a smile, and move past it. Some people try to convince me to change my mind, but I will respond with "I appreciate your input, but I will have to give it more thought ". If it comes up again, I generally revert back to my original response. :)

[@diner51214..]

great video! especially about not caring about celebrity gossip. who cares what they do?! not me, my friends, or family

[@audreyandrea460]

Same here.

[@angelmulhall1058]

I’m 54 and I completely agree with you on these things. Oh and funny about the music. Love the 80’s . Thank you for this great video. ❤️🤗

[@LydiaFaudree-mq2vz]

WOW this hit the nail on the head. Everything you said is so true! I just want a calm nature friendly life.

[@kathydaniel4818]

First time viewer. I can hardly believe how much I agree with ALL these points. I’m 70 years old, in good health, and perfectly happy with a simple life. I subscribed👍

[@KimberlyAnn1971]

I’m almost 53 and can relate to all of them and feel very much the same!! I find it intriguing how life works and your perspective shifts.

[@simonefeaster5131]

Haha, Sarah! I’m right there with you on pretty much everything you said. Especially sleeping alone (my husband and I do and we are convinced it is a huge bonus). Also with you on driving at night, birthday gifts (prefer to share experiences), comfortable shoes and loud places. I am in my early fifties and I find it liberating not to care what others say and do. Live and let live! Thanks for a thought-provoking post!❤

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Love it!!

[@lillyb3588]

I’m in my 50’s and I’m all about my health. Eating right and working out. I’m not into fashion or wearing any makeup. I have let go of toxic people in my life. I concentrate on my marriage and my daughter. Im in the process to becoming a minimalist. I like staying at home not into going out at all.

[@sharonensor7471]

I know exactly what you mean about toxic people. I was in my 60's when i realised i don't need them in my life. Why it took me so long I'll never know 🤔

[@CupeCakeSloth]

Yes! Yes! I so agree with everything you said. I felt so bad about myself thinking I was lazy and people always say go go go. Out out out! Everyone always think I’m boring.

[@We_Are_eBay]

I just can’t believe reading these comments are so rich in information. One thing about this video is that it certainly strikes a nerve or resonates with so many people. This is a very interesting video and what’s more interesting are the comments that it is evoking. I’m learning a lot here.

[@jeanjeang8914]

1. Concerts 2. Latest fashion 3. Makeup daily 4. Career climbing 5. Partying Are only some of the things I don't care about any more

[@HeronCoyote1234]

The only thing I would remove if this were my list is concerts. Some of my best experiences and memories have been concerts, in good (smaller) venues. They’re really my only non-essential expense.

[@iwanttoridemybike2224]

I, too, would take concerts off the list.

[@cherylruhr6001]

I have season tickets to a big theater 2 hours from home. They're on Sunday afternoon: perfect for us!

[@keener57]

I enjoy small venue concerts now, no more stadium performances.

[@beatagagatek9149]

Hello, Im 32 and I don't care about it either, am I gaining wisdom too soon?

[@lzrd8460]

I drive my younger sister mad because I dress for comfort now. She thinks i look like a homeless woman just because I prefer to wear sweat shirts rather than blouses that have to be hand washed and ironed(😱) . I don’t care about fashion or dying my beautiful grey hair or having a hairstyle. I like me and don’t care what others think. It’s so freeing!

[@RobynCullen-g9y]

Good on you.

[@churchofpos2279]

True and very financially smart.

[@sharonsmith7917]

I buy nothing that needs to be dry cleaned or ironed.

[@texasmimi5566]

Her time is coming. Her attitudes of life will change as she ages. And she is going to age.

[@jennifersetser9091]

At 74. I live in stretch jeans,flannel shirts,cotton t shirts..minimal makeup(boom sticks) ..I do messy things,dyeing fiber for spinning,repairing old sewing machines..and I don’t worry about ruining clothes. I have a wedding- funeral dress … no worry about dressing up..I’m lucky to be here…most of my dear friends have already passed. MY husband dresses very well..but he has his own business, and I no longer have to participate in his business affairs. He looks great..but doesn’t mind that I’m messy.

[@louisedudley6478]

Boy, Sara, we are on the same wavelength! I am nodding my head with every item! I recently had to cut out a relationship that had become toxic. It was a painful decision to make but, four months later I realize that my life feels so much easier and uncomplicated. Let’s hear it for comfort!

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Sometimes it hurts but we really need to take care. Thanks for watching!

[@chickenmama4384]

I’m 56 I could care less about pleasing others. I spent years stressing over what others thought about me. I focus on what makes me happy. I bought a farm last year. My children had a fit I DO NOT CARE. My husband and I wanted this and too bad what anyone else thinks. Also who cares if I wear the latest fashion or have the most trending whatever.

[@LilyGazou]

Congrats on the farm. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@EsterHorbach-it9tb]

I totally agree. It's o u r life we're living, not somebody else's. As long as I don't hurt anyone with the way I'm living, it's my and only my choice. There are things I wished had turned out differently in my life. Things I can't change. But I've reached a point in my 56 year old life, where I'm less concerned about other's opinions of me. I dress the way I want to. I buy the things I want to. And I rediscovered minimalism for me. For me it always was kind of an ideal. Then there was a period when ppl around me influenced me wanting more just for the sake of more. These times have gone. Oc there are material wishes from time to time. Sometimes I can and want to fulfil them, sometimes not. A big changer was covid. I realized that I not only want less, but also need less. Nowadays I get excited over rearranging things or even declutter. The small things.

[@ChristyAndrews-jk6cr]

I could have written this myself! So very true on every point! Especially about needing a coffee machine and fridge in my hotel room and hating loud venues!

[@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654]

I actually cheered when you talked about toxic friends. I like friendship where it was like. “no good deed goes unpunished” 18:48 with her. If you are trying to make a friendship with someone who doesn’t want to be friends with you or with someone who’s just not interested, (I had an old friend who just kept saying she was busy.) it can hurt self-esteem.

[@pattycake8272]

Some people told me not to take off my bi fold doors on my washroom closets. I lived with those brown dusty things for years. This year I took them off and put up curtains...so happy now. Crazy why I left them like that for do long

[@cynthialugo3401]

Exactly I did that also, easier to throw in the wash when get dust or dirty

[@suefanning2067]

I’m 73 and can relate to everything you said. I agree with you sister!

[@jennieparker5798]

I'm 48 and loving this stage of life. I think you nailed them all! More time and money for what's really important...especially comfortable shoes!!!

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Yes!! Love this!

[@hollyerickson6364]

Wow, I totally agree with you on these things. It's really freeing to let yourself not care about things that are a waste of time and energy! I work with several ladies around my age and we are all experiencing many of the same things. So nice to know we are not alone in this and it is a natural and healthy process of gaining wisdom. Great video!

[@markritacco270]

Your dad was right...better times were had in the past. I was born in 59 so my wheelhouse is the late 60s, 70s, and early 80s. To this day when I listen to my vast collection of music media I go to that and nothing else.

[@KateBurt-b4e]

I 100% agree with all of these points. And i'm to the point where I will tell people No I don't want to do something,

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Yes! No is a complete sentence! ☺️

[@kathydaniel4818]

Saying “no” only hurts for a minute. Saying “yes” can make you miserable for a long time!

[@cindland]

Disagree on the separate bedrooms. Were married 30: years this year. We love holding hands as we fall asleep or just reaching over to feel that the other is there. But SEPARATE BATHROOMS are mandatory! Do agree on the news and gossip. Life’s too short to be sucked in to the drama!

[@debrahill2272]

I try to run my errands and schedule appointments before 2pm, to avoid excessive traffic and mingling with people leaving work..Atlanta traffic is horrific..🙂 Am I the only one that does this..Everything you said was relatable to me..👍👍

[@nygrl6102]

I moved from Atlanta to central NY to get away from the traffic there. I live in a city but can get from one side of it to the other in 20 min any time of the day and any day of the week! That's like gold!! Lived in Atlanta for 45+ years and watched the traffic become intolerably stressful. I had friends in Decatur I hardly ever saw because it took too long to fight my way over there!

[@lindsaybezet3517]

I don't enjoy traveling. I am a homebody and blessed that I live in a beautiful place. Secondly, I don't really like music, period. It seems like people today are infatuated with music. It is everywhere, in videos, in stores, etc. I don't really enjoy it. I totally agree with you about celebrity gossip. Don't care. I agree about not watching news. I prefer reading news as well. You made a lot of great points! You are a wise lady! God bless ❤️

[@becky9194]

Very much agree with no crowds 😊

[@sokalbenoit]

I feel so understood right now, thank you! And that loudness in the cinema - omg, I would go see a movie from time to time if it didn't hurt so much.

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Right?!? What’s up with that! Ear plugs next time for sure!

[@LauraMacMillan-el2kc]

Not to mention ill-behaved theatre goers, and the filth and mess on the floor - pop, popcorn, candy wrappers, gum and etc. - long before the show ends, and that you have to wade through on the way out. No thanks. No one admits to buying DVDs anymore but if there a show I desperately want to see (which is very rare for me) I still do it. Less than the price of a night in the movie theatre and a lot more pleasant!

[@gracealexandre3381]

That's why I never go to a cinema or any other show with loud noise. My ears start popping after seconds of being near a high volume. That includes people yelling, talking loud.

[@TSunshineful]

I am 76. A friend of mine said you sure do say I don’t care too often.Then I realize that may be hurting peoples ‘ feelings which I don’t mean to do. So now I’ve changed to that’s not important to me. Maybe there’s another way to say it more nicely. I don’t care to go anywhere. I use to travel a lot but now I don’t even care to drive anywhere. I am happy staying at home. I love my solitary life. I have so many interests that I do care about. I love researching how nutrition improves your health, I sell my things on eBay, I have my pets. Downsizing keeps me pretty busy.

[@lindawilson4625]

I can relate :-) I will also say you'll get more hardcore about what you will/won't do and with whom or where you will spend your time as you get older. You simply won't waste your time on anything or anyone you think isn't worth it.

[@bevanbuckwheatshea5520]

❤

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Love this!

[@jenniferoram4147]

I just have to agree with everything you said. Just goes to show we really are the same as I live in England and can relate to every point you made. I am almost 75 and now a Great Grandma and enjoy having time to myself to do as I please. I must just learn how to say “No” to people when they suggest doing something I really don’t want to do. Thank you for sharing your helpful thoughts. 🇬🇧

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Thanks so much for watching!!

[@fabriciusallard8029]

German here. The biggest enemy of the supermarket companys is the shopping list, which only shows you what you really need to buy. 😁

[@DianaStitching]

I agree! I always take a list and ignore all the "specials " near the checkouts. Best wishes from the UK x

[@elyjane8316]

Been doing that since I was 18.

[@CathieG]

I completely agree! Especially with separate bedrooms, no more movies or loud places, trying to find parking or driving at night! 😁

[@patriciawilcox944]

I am definitely on board with not caring about all of these things!

[@smorgasbroad1132]

For myself--it all boils down to having nothing to prove to anyone any longer. My children are grown and doing well. Husband gone. The past of worrying about what others think of my lifestyle, home, clothes etc. all of that is not worth my time now. I have no more to prove, I've done my best. Now I do as I please. As a child, you please your parents, then teachers, then friends, then bosses, then spouse and children, maybe a few more bosses. Nearing 70 and retired there's only myself I please today. And if that means cooking all day, or laying in bed reading a book all day so be it. 👍🏻

[@nadineabbott]

Hi Sara my husband and I have separate bedrooms since 1996. We were married 15 years at that point and I got Colon Cancer. Well my husband snores loud and I do wear earplugs. So since I needed my rest he slept in the spare room. He did get tested and now uses a CPAP machine. I need my own space , and I’m not the best sleeper. I think we both value our own space.

[@nadineabbott]

By the way celebrating our 43rd anniversary on May 30.

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

I think we value sleep as we get older! Congratulations on 43 years!!!

[@lynnhensley4326]

Same. 51 years married. We have separate rooms on different ends of our house. We both have trouble sleeping. He snores and is up going to the bathroom frequently.

[@virginiamoss7045]

Couples would do well in my opinion to start their marriage in separate bedrooms. Nothing is stopping them from "visiting".

[@shatricegrimes5992]

@@nadineabbotthappy anniversary!

[@leecolebatch7371]

I agree with all your comments!! I'm 69 and have just finished treatment for a rare abdominal cancer. I had a year of treatment and recovery to sit around and think a lot, and realised that I like me and the way I am and if anyone doesn't like the real me I can live without them!!! I like to laugh at life and not be too serious, it's a great way to get through cancer treatment. So people thought I should take it more seriously and spend my precious time moping around. Not for me thankyou. I don't care about those people. Give me happy anyday😂😂😂😂😂 Aussie granny

[@chuck62830]

I am 55 and I feel the same about almost everything you said. Good job

[@jogriffiths4797]

When it comes to celebrations, I always say "give me a memory", which can be a picnic at the park or a walk at the beach.

[@anacurrier8351]

OMG! I'm 57 and checked all the fifteen! I thought I was weird! I'm so happy I came across this! Thank you! Thank you!!

[@Laura55sere]

A lot of what you are saying came to me a bit later in life, in my 70s and I suddenly decided to not do so many ‘favours’ for people, I’m done giving up my weekends helping people out whilst I was working all week . I don’t put up with being insulted either, that only happened twice but both times I pulled them up on it. I’m not a school kid anymore, bully me and I’m on it straight away.

[@geniajirak4303]

Regarding your husband and the great shoes. Yes get that second pair, but don't put them up. We should change our shoes after 1 day of wear and let the cushioning and shoe relax, dry out and be ready. We should have 2 pairs and wear them every other day. Thanks, great content and advise.

[@BradPaulson-o8c]

Hi Sara, I just turned 63 and boy can I sure relate to everything that you are saying!!!! Thanks for sharing this wonderful video. J.😀

[@Es_Elle]

Agree with the list. Always carry ear plugs, a light sweater, and a hand fan when I go out the door!

[@dotdotty2561]

I agree with all 15!! It only means we have become more careful, choosy and no longer are agreeable to wasting time or money. Our health becomes so much more important.

[@KerryJames-l6z]

I am 56 can relate I enjoy comfortable accommodation we're on holidays and good service

[@saj810]

I feel the same about celebrations (none) and practical, thoughtful gifts (like the veg planter you mention). So nice to know others feel the same.

[@neshanthaharischandra]

Thanks for the insight. I'm 59, and now I know that some things I feel are not out of the ordinary for 50+s. For instance, parking the car. It's nice to know there are others feeling the same way.

[@kellysearer9643]

I agree with MANY of the things you listed! I just love spending time indulging myself in arts & crafts! I don't mind being by myself! 😁

[@adriaba790]

I'm 67, and have been feeling like this since I turned 50! So much less worrying to do Picking the people I really want to spend time with and letting go of the rest, caring less about other's opinions,not going shopping or buying stuff unless really needed ,etc I only go to theme parks or noisy places with and for my 11 yr old grandaughter!! 😂 I support your list 1000 % 😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@dianaw248]

I agree with everything you shared! Thank you so very much for sharing…we know our “ comfort zone “! Love your channel!

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

Thanks so much!

[@CarlosRodriguez-zy5lv]

Thank you for this video it made me feel happy and normal again that I’m not the only one feeling this way you are so special thanks again 🙏🙏🙏

[@cathypritchard4306]

I agree completely with all of these! Spot on!!!

[@barbaramatarazzo4269]

I am with you as I get older my taste has change and things that I want in life are diffrent and guess what it is ok I no longer need or want to explain myself to anyone I made it the far 61 I am sure I can handle the rest of my life just fine...😊

[@jjohnson7297]

RIGHT!..SOO TRUE

[@beckym920]

Thank you for this message! I went to an NFL game today for the first time and felt disappointed. I was thinking that there was something off with me where I couldn’t relate with others. It seem like so many people are having a blast. I didn’t get the hype and I didn’t enjoy myself after the second quarter, so I left and enjoyed sitting at the river, waiting on the train and taking time just to be still. We don’t have to like whatever everybody else likes to though. I realized that I need to try different things so I can see what I like. I totally agree with everything that you said on the list. I wish we were friends.

[@sarahthompson7820]

I’m nearly 40 and I’m right there with you on about 95% of these

[@pamelagoodson9034]

Agree with most of these. First time for me watching one of your videos. You are so energetic and upbeat and that makes for a great video!

[@lisapitts9518]

Oh my, you must have read my Journal! LOL. I do not drive at night, I use a flip phone, we still watch DVD's. Simple life.

[@JudithMcPheron-pb9lv]

Exactly. This Grandma's in!

[@beverlyhale9687]

You have been so honest, so in touch with the world today. We are 78 and 81 and we used to love the movies, but now they are too crazy and loud and why do they play music over quiet conversations of the actors to 2here we can’t understand what they are saying. Young people have forgotten to learn manners. I took out cold water to the young fella building our fence, he never said thank you, just took the water? Tailgating us when we are driving the speed limit is annoying.

[@nygrl6102]

I'm 66 and I love discovering new music! Greta Van Fleet! Billy Strings! David Kushner! Imagine Dragons! There's so much great new music out there. It helps keep me young.

[@Vivcarbajal]

I’m 48 and I love Billy Strings. Going to see him live in August. First concert for me ever. Can’t wait.

[@emilisa8978]

I am 26 and almost all of these apply to me! It's not about beeing old, only about beeing "properly" grown up and knowing what serves you and what doesn't. I've been married 6 years and share a bedroom with my husband, but the nights when our daughter has a nightmare and he spends the night in her room i sleep so much better.

[@eh6454]

I enjoyed this 😊 The first time I heard Mel Robbins say that what other people think or say about you is none of your business, it was a revelation! It’s so true. I was such a ruminator, but now not so much. Like you, I save my energy for the things that matter 😊 New subscriber 👍🇬🇧

[@KELLY-maybeiCudBeUrGirlfriend]

Hi, your Uncle Frank was right on because I just now liked & subscribed & turned my notification bell on! I am about your age, and I totally related to everything you said!!! and such GREAT advice!! THANK YOU !! ❤❤ GREAT VIDEO !!

[@carolynmerritt7100]

I get separate bedrooms when the snoring deprives one of adequate sleep. Earplugs don't always do the job.

[@bamboojenkins8]

Ma'am you are right on point and just gained a new subbie. I can't agree with you more!!

[@kimberryhill3403]

This was an excellent video & I agree with most of what you said.

[@barbolson8768]

Hi Sara. I am 63 and I agree with every single point you brought up in the video.

[@mariahaggman7027]

You are my soul sister! Lived with the same mindset for twenty years and i love it.

[@TheElephantInTheRoom12]

First time viewer here. Good video and it made me think about whats really important in my life and what's not. Two things. One is I agree with you about the music. I have 1 playlist that repeats all the time of music from my younger years because that's what I enjoy. I am unfamiliar with most music & artist of today and don't like the music. I used to feel bad about that but after watching this video-IDC or dont care! The second thing is that I not married now but me and my future husband will have to have separate bathrooms. Sharing a bedroom is fine-but my own bathroom is a MUST! Also, I have to agree that I don't like crowds anymore, "prefer" not to drive at night, gave up the high heel shoes and can't stand too much noise either unless its my own music that I'm playing loud. One last thing, what you said about friendships was really helpful. I have had a couple of friendships end and felt bad about it expecting that it should have lasted forever but how you explained it made me realize that its okay to move on from people and friendships. Life is too short to hang onto people just because.

[@MadisonBriggsArtchick]

Matinees are great for shows, movies, get togethers, etc. I am an early riser (4:30 a.m.) and go to sleep by 9 p.m. most days. It is difficult for me to stay energetic later in the evening.

[@saraconklinfrozenpennies]

I'm up at 6:30 and am in bed by 9:30! 😂 And you're right! I love a matinee.

[@char5477]

I MAYBE go to a movie once a year...too expensive and I rarely see anything I'm interested in seeing. I've been watching movies from the free Kanopy service from my library. They've got a number of movies that are good and interesting that I've not even heard of. Plus, I can keep the volume comfortable. :)

[@robinc2651]

I loved the snarky. "Your opinion is yours, and it's none of my business' 😂AMEN!

[@MABADBledsoe]

Near bounced out of my chair when you mentioned having a minivan.🤩 Thought "NEVER!!" until I rode in one, later "ANYTIME!!" & now have an SUV an miss my mini...I was happier when I started this🙃

[@JyothiMuthusami]

I can relate to everything you say , and I think they're all very sensible points you make!

[@lilachart6371]

I love this ..I like the fact that its clicked with me that I can make changes that really suit me and dont care if it raises eye brows. I cleared my wardrobes to comfy and practical and my favourite colours, with just a couple of special occasions outfits. I dont drive late at night , and I dont watch the news and have reduced my social media to practicaly nothing. I prefer quality time with family and friends , than gifts for birthdays/ anniversaries. My husband and I dont plan our vacations in great detail anymore we just go with the flow ..no more rigid we must see this or that . Finally we count our blessings daily and not fuss or stress about the future, just try to live in the moment ❤😊