I quit my 9-5 job without a plan... what's next?

[@gabbysteed9562]

SO glad you know your worth and put your mental health first. It’s so so important!! I left a job last year as it was affecting my mental health as well. So proud of you Ella and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you. The opportunities are endless and I’m sure you will do great things! 🥰💖

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Gabby!! no job is worth sacrificing that ❤️

[@courtneybretterecker336]

Never clicked so fast on a video ever. I’m so proud of you for making a decision to quit your job for you mental health and well-being. I did the same thing, quit my job as I was having anxiety attacks and crying myself to sleep most nights. I left to go work for a smaller company, more related to my dream career and wouldn’t impact my mental health and I don’t regret my decision at all. I also had the love and support from my partner and family and friends. I can’t wait to see what is installed for you. You made the right decision and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise xxx

[@smileycitrus]

ahh thank you so much 🥺❤️ so glad things worked out well for you xx

[@victoriaivy5953]

Girl! I snapped and walked out of the most toxic work environment I have EVER been in, called my partner in a puddle of tears and he was like “go home and take time for yourself”. I was then unemployed for 9 months and my partner and his family didn’t bat an eye lid or pressure me into a job. I have never had that much support from anyone before and after 9 month I found the BEST job I have ever had (within logistics). Don’t rush into a new job, Nick and your fam have got you 💗

[@smileycitrus]

ahh that's so incredible 🥺 having such a great support network is game changing. So glad everything worked out well for you ❤️❤️

[@victoriaivy5953]

@@smileycitrus I can’t wait to see both you and your channel blossom 🌸 and I’m so excited for wedding content! I’m so glad Rach mentioned you in her videos a few times and sent me your way, you’re an inspiration 💕

[@kirstyanne4716]

It’s so awesome to put you and your mental health first. So so important! It’s one of the best decisions I’ve made personally! Xx

[@biancaf8708]

I just found your channel like a couple days ago, and genuinely am SO happy for you! I quit my 9-5 in December with absolutely no back up. My husband backed me 100% and said that we’ll just make it work. Our mortgage, our bills, or lifestyle and everything in between were all okay and I know the stress is there but I promise it will be okay!!!!!!!!!!! The absolutely freeing feeling you get from getting out of a toxic workplace is such an incredible feeling and it will motivate you to get through this next phase. You got this!!!!!!

[@smileycitrus]

ahh this is just what I needed to hear!!! thank you 🥺🤍

[@IssyRachel]

I did the same thing recently and I felt such a sense of relief so I knew it was the right decision! I don't know what my future is going to look like, but I'm working on hopefully working for myself one day and doing something that makes me truly happy x

[@katieerae]

Omg - yes girl! You will not regret this decision at all. Please give yourself the grace and rest you deserve - I’ll always be here supporting your content- I mean not “working” the traditional job and hours - means for more fun videos right? 😉 Enjoy this season of your life!!!!!! ❤️ Proud of you!!!!!

[@smileycitrus]

omg thank you!! appreciate this so much 💛💛

[@hollylawrence-watt]

I love this video Ella - thank you for uploading it! I seriously related to ALL of it 🥰 Last year, I left a super toxic job and it felt euphoric - almost like I had been holding my breath underwater for 3 years and I could finally breathe again. My family and friends were super supportive (they were surprised I hadn't quit sooner lol) but I did notice there's a weird stigma around leaving a job without another one lined up... hopefully videos like this make people realise there's a difference between long-term mental, physical and emotional suffering in a job VS throwing a dummy spit and calling it quits one afternoon. Fast forward 3 months later, I was back to my old self and I landed the job of my dreams - and I've never been happier! Enjoy this time reconnecting with yourself and getting married - I'm sure the future holds something special for you 💕💫

[@faith_friend]

Congrats girl x

[@smileycitrus]

this is so inspiring to hear! so so glad you did what was best for you and it's amazing to hear how things worked out for you. Thank you so much for sharing 💛💛

[@RC_17]

Congratulations on doing what is right for you🎉I subscribed😀I left my old job in oct 2020 & got a job working from home full time that I absolutely LOVE. Best decision I ever made was leaving that old job. I am so much happier & no longer have that sunday night fear/dread!! Wishing you all the best🤍

[@smileycitrus]

those sunday scaries are the worst 😭 so glad things worked out well for you and thanks so much for the support 🤍

[@Ali_lamb]

I am so proud of you and so happy you made this decision it’s so difficult going through situations like this! It’s also so amazing having such a strong support network! 💗

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Ali! i'm definitely one V lucky gal to have the people I do around me 🤍

[@ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh9551]

I just did the same yesterday… gave them two weeks. I’m so scared lol.. just couldn’t do it anymore. Update/ found a new job and all is well ✨ worth the fear

[@smileycitrus]

you've got this 👏🏼

[@kristyfuller92]

Im so proud of you for making such a tough decision, your mental health is so much more important than any job. Of course we are still going to watch your channel. I can’t wait to see what you do next. ❤️

[@smileycitrus]

thank you so much Kristy! means the world ❤️❤️

[@MelissaLaw95]

Wow! This is amazing 💕 I really needed this video. In January I left my job of 6 years to try something new but hated the new job more than my previous one. I walked out having not even been there a month and I'm still stuck with what to do even now. Luckily my parter is beyond supportive and isn't putting pressure on me to find my next step. It's so great to watch this video and read the comments to see how many of us have gone through the same thing. Wishing you so much luck for whatever comes next! xx

[@smileycitrus]

it's so much more common than you're made to believe! i'm sure this chapter will all make sense when you finally get to where you need to be. I'm so glad you have such a supportive partner, it really makes the world of difference. Sending lots of positive vibes your way ✨ and thank you 🥰

[@phoebehoward5067]

You are so amazing Ella, it’s such a big step leaving your job especially when it was your 9 to 5 job. Sending you all the love in the world 🤍✨

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Phoebe! means the world 🥰

[@haylou6707]

Good on you for looking after yourself. Everything you have said in this video is so so important for everyone to hear. Im excited to see what the future holds for you ☺️

[@smileycitrus]

Thank you so much! 🤍🤍

[@brookemcarthur799]

Completely agree & love this 🙌🏼 I’ve got three days left at my current job after putting my two weeks in. My current workplace wasn’t serving me or my mental health either and it was the most relieving thing to do! Goodluck with the job hunt girly! 💫

[@smileycitrus]

isn't it the BEST feeling!?! so happy for you and thanks so much xx

[@Courtz9800]

Good for you for doing something for u! I did the same thing a year and a half ago. I’m now in a position doing what I love, photographer. I feel I can take more me time but still enjoy earning an income.

[@LauraCash]

So happy for you Ella! Scary for sure however putting yourself first is the best thing you can choose to do. I went through a similar situation almost 2 years ago and got out of that as soon as I could!

[@smileycitrus]

thanks so much lovely! bigger and better things to come xx

[@katehiskins8516]

So glad you put your mental health first and also have a great support team area you. I left a job because my mental health was going down.

[@smileycitrus]

good for you!! I'm very lucky to have the support that I do x

[@xoFemmeBeauty]

I'm a big believer in everything happens for a reason too, take this time for you!! x

[@smileycitrus]

definitely! thanks Caroline x

[@alexandramurray8018]

I’m so excited to see what life has in store for you next. Thank you for being so open about this! To new beginnings!

[@smileycitrus]

aw thank you! can't wait for what's to come 🥰

[@cara2749]

So proud of you for prioritising your wellbeing, can't wait to see what the future holds for you!

[@smileycitrus]

thank you 🥺🥰

[@TessBarclay]

SO proud of you for making a decision that's right for YOU! You are going to do such great things and I can't wait to be along for the ride!

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Tess 🥺🥰

[@jasminebenson4454]

So excited for you! I quit my job a week ago for the same reason. My job was draining my mental health. 100% glad I chose myself over the job. You won’t regret this at all. And it’s so nice that your fiancé supported your decision. Take this time to relax and give yourself grace.

[@smileycitrus]

thank you lovely! So glad you chose yourself too 🤍 sending lots of love and good vibes your way x

[@lind1520]

I am so glad this video came up on my rec feed! I'm from Adelaide myself, and resigned from my full-time job of 6 years last September. I quit for the exact same reasons as you - and had no back-up plan either. Toxicity in the workplace, the unrealistic expectations set for me, the management and overall culture and work just got me to the point where I couldn't take it anymore. I decided I wasn't going to keep compromising my mental health and wellbeing anymore. It was REALLY hard to take the step to do it as my fiance (now hubby) only just quit his job a month before me, as he had some health issues we needed to prioritise (his work place wasn't understanding of him needing better work/life balance and treated him poorly about him taking sick leave - so he left). However, I have NO regrets. My husband's started a new job recently, and I am still on a career break and only now have I started to job hunt again. The last few months have made me truly realise that I really lost a part of myself when I was putting my job first. In the last few months, my husband and I were able to get married (which we kept putting off due to work), go on our honeymoon, have a few more staycations, spend time with family, have lazy days, summer swims, experience new things and places, and so forth. No job is EVER worth sacrificing your mental health for. I used to start and end my work days in tears - and spend my weekends FEARING for Monday and having to go through it all over again. It's been said that the last 12 months has seen a big boom in resignations in S.A and it makes sense. I am so happy for you in taking this step. You are your biggest priority. I've been fortunate enough that my family didn't pressure me to get back to work straight away and I have no doubt that your family are the same. Your fiance is so supportive and amazing. Spend this time doing things you love and relax! Job hunting can wait. You'll absolute glow on your wedding day. Sending you so much love ❤️❤️

[@MariamRizvi]

OMGGGGGGG!!! Girl, first of all I am so so proud of you for making this decision! It's honestly so inspiring hearing you putting your mental health first. I can't wait to see what's next for you. Being in the same line as work as you, I can really relate to how stressful it can be and I've had many days where I have panic attacks before work and spend days crying! My dream is to be a full time content creator so I'm hoping one day I'll be uploading one of these videos haha!

[@smileycitrus]

thank you so much lovely!! you've got this ❤️

[@ffs991]

Sending positive energy your way! Enjoy this down time to focus on your big day! When you are in a clearer headspace you can have a serious think about the next step. Personally I could see you as cabin crew for an Aussie airline. It uses your customer service skills plus your interest in travel. (plus think of the cool airline vlogs)

[@smileycitrus]

thank you lovely! that actually does sound like my kinda job 🤩 i'll definitely look into it xx

[@turnerrebeccaa]

Quitting when needed is such a phenomenal feeling. It’s so worth it despite any kind stress that comes alongside with. All the best with your next chapter, Ella ♥️

[@smileycitrus]

thanks so much lovely 💓

[@BR3NNAA]

PROUD OF U ELLA!!! Everything will work out in the end and putting your mental health first is something we can all take away from this, it’s so so so important! Looking forward for your future and to see what it holds🎉🤍

[@smileycitrus]

absolutely!! nothing is worth sacrificing your mental health. Appreciate the support so much 🤍

[@amandawilliams6910]

Al the best Ella in your new adventure. So glad that you were able to quit something that was not doing yourself any good. Take this time to enjoy the next stage of your life. And when the time is right you will definitely find that dream career. Xxx

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Amanda! onto bigger and better xx

[@heidiheartsu100]

good on you Ella life is too short to be in a job that is no longer serving you! wishing you all the best xxx

[@smileycitrus]

exactly! thanks so much xx

[@eliseangus8570]

So great to watch this and see the weight lift off you! Can't wait for more content 🙌🏼💕

[@smileycitrus]

thank you so much 🥺💛

[@krsaara]

This sounds so similar to what I went through as well! I also quit my 9-5 full time job just before christmas. I was so burnt out and it definitely was the right decision! Feeling so much happier now. All the best to you! 😊

[@smileycitrus]

so glad it worked out for you! thanks so much 🥰

[@RetroSparklesx]

You go girl, my hubby quit his job a few months ago for similar reasons and to try something new. It has its challenges currently living off one wage while he’s studying but the shift in happiness that I’ve seen in him is PRICELESS. As a side note I work in recruitment in Adelaide if you ever want to have a chat about realistically what could work for you!

[@smileycitrus]

I love this! it really is SUCH a relief when you finally make the call 🥰 I would love to chat with jobs too xx

[@annewetherall7785]

Always supporting you Ella from afar! The right decision and wishing you success in all you decide to do next. P.S. The cats love you!

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Anne! lots of love x

[@isabellarussell5060]

This is awesome! I’ve just come across this video and it’s really reassuring to hear someone in a similar position to me. I’ve just resigned my full time job that I’ve been at for 1.5 years as they couldn’t support me going part time while i return to study this year. The uncertainty is scary but I know it’s a great decision. I’m telling myself not to rush into a new job too and give myself time to get on top of things. Hoping it all turns out perfect for you ❤️

[@DiankaKate28]

So proud of you Ella, it’s so important to put your health before a job! I have been in the same situation and also made the decision to resign without anything to go to. It was only a month after my husband and I bought our house, so such a stressful time but it was the best decision I made for my mental health. Can’t wait to see how your future unfolds 💕

[@smileycitrus]

woweee our timelines are so crazily similar! so glad things worked out well for you 🥰

[@michaelmcfadden4397]

7 years ago i quit my job which was a 10 year career, so many good things happened after that and tomorrow I will quit the job i am at now. I love the boss and company, i just dont enjoy my life at the moment. I am scared but I KNOW it will work out because it did last time. If you are not happy in your situation you need to take the next step in life :)

[@hineawe]

Great job putting yourself first!! This time in your life is so important and you want to enjoy it with everything you have xxx

[@smileycitrus]

absolutely! thank you lovely xx

[@hungryforlyf3786]

Hey girl, I’ve been binge watching your KZbin videos. I fell into people & culture (fun side of HR) at age 17 may be something worth exploring in a new chapter. Sending positive vibes your way

[@smileycitrus]

oooh that might be my vibe! thank you ☺️

[@TaylahLouiseBudgets]

So glad you have made the right choice for you, I know and have clear faith that you will land on your feet and feel free from those struggles. Amazing news! xx

[@smileycitrus]

thanks so much Taylah! xx

[@curlyhairlove]

YES ELLA!! I left my job in a similar way in January and it’s the best thing I’ve done for myself in a long time. It’s definitely intimidating to figure it out as you go but also so worth it to put mental health first. Proud of you and excited to see where your journey takes you next! 💗

[@smileycitrus]

go YOU!! & thank you so much 💛

[@sheriberrix]

Kudos to you for prioritizing your mental health! It's not wrong at all to close one chapter of your life, because it means you can make room for new opportunities! Excited to see what the next part of your journey takes you, and once you're in a job you love, it'll all be worth it.

[@smileycitrus]

thanks so much lovely 🤍

[@MariahViani]

Good on you for putting YOU first 💛

[@smileycitrus]

thank you!! 💛

[@michellebanning4554]

This feels like the sign that I needed to do the same thing I’ve been thinking about it for months but just been too scared

[@smileycitrus]

DO IT!! the best feeling ever 🤍 sending all the love & support

[@kimberleyrose3665]

I recently made the same decision and quit my job for my mental health, and I felt so terrified and felt terrible my husband had to pick up the slack and being the only income.... but there is so much work in SA at the moment, I had 6 job interviews and I got offered all 6! So I had another job in 3 weeks!!!

[@faith_friend]

Wow congrats !!!

[@smileycitrus]

wow that's amazing!! congratulations xx

[@simoneee4227]

Wherever you go in life and whatever you do make sure you always ensure you put yourself as number one. Always do what’s best for you 😊

[@smileycitrus]

YES 👏🏼 couldn't agree more

[@mollyacton8749]

Proud of you for following your heart! The universe will provide I know that for sure ❤️❤️

[@smileycitrus]

thank you Molly 🥺 bigger and better to come, for sure 💛

[@waverley1739]

Wow Ella! What exciting and scary times it is for you! Well done on taking that leap and putting yourself first, that isn’t an easy thing to do & you are so strong for recognising what needed to change in order to look after yourself. I admire that and I admire you sharing your journey online! I know you aren’t a Christian but a verse that came to mind while watching your video was John 13.7 which says “You may not realise now what I am doing, but someday you will” and I think that’s so true for you! One day you’ll look back and see what a great choice this was for you! Enjoy this time as you prepare to be married and the final weeks before the big day! Such exciting times! Soak it all in and look after yourself! Take care x

[@smileycitrus]

I love that! thank you so much for sharing 🥺🤍

[@billykidman1879]

Congratulations

[@byyoursideentombed]

Somehow I saw this coming. It might not have been the cause but as soon as I heard about the floods, I felt for you and what you'd be on the receiving end of. Change is exciting, enjoy it.

[@smileycitrus]

thank you 🤍

[@amaljamal3172]

Girl if it costs you your mental health it’s not worth it. I’m sure your going to be fine. Just set up your LinkedIn account and you’ll get great offers. Also content for looking a new job journey so we can’t wait!

[@smileycitrus]

🤍🤍🤍

[@betsylynnvedrine3784]

Sometimes two weeks is not enough.. Will send resignation letter after work today.

[@moniquelatise3173]

July 2022 I stepped out on faith and left my job of 27 years to pursue my side hustle which is stand up comedy, my best decision ever.

[@smileycitrus]

congratulations ❤️

[@mariancounsellor]

Well done for being brave enough to do what makes you happy! I ❤️ the Australian accent too. It’s like a happy accent if that makes sense lol!

[@smileycitrus]

haha thank you!! ❤️

[@Nikki-oh9uq]

Proud of you Ella 😊🥰

[@smileycitrus]

thank you 🥺💛

[@clairepeters3870]

I quit my first *professional* job after uni with no backup plan and in those months where I didn’t have a job and was getting rejected I was thinking “did I make the right decision?” But then I got offered my absolute dream job and now 5 months later I have never been happier! Working in a job you love, with a team that you love makes the world of difference in every aspect of your life, because we do spend so much of our lives at work. So proud of you for making this decision for you and so excited to see what’s next for you! 🥰

[@faith_friend]

Congrats ! X

[@smileycitrus]

that's amazing!! thank you so much 🥰

[@Jessica-ni3nh]

Good on you Ella! I quit my job last year for my mental health. I was working 106hrs a fortnight in a casual position, and my employer would crack it with me if I turned down even more hrs. They had no care for my welfare! You've got to watch out for your own best interests!

[@smileycitrus]

106 hours?! that's INSANE. So glad you made the right call and put yourself first xx

[@bernadettem4232]

Aww I can relate to this so much. Your well-being is so important and priority number 1. Wishing you all the best for your future 💖 Im so curious to know ( because I’m in a similar position at the moment). Does leaving your job affect your mortgage application.

[@smileycitrus]

Thank you so much!! luckily our mortgage has all been approved and our home loan(s) have been set up, which is partly why I waited till now to make the call just incase it affected anything xx

[@faith_friend]

Congrats xx

[@smileycitrus]

thank you! xx

[@kirstyvirgo]

So proud of you for making this choice!!!! Absolutely OBSESSED with Nick being the best support to you and making sure you could do this with so much confidence!!! Can't wait for you to be free for lots of hangs for a while hahahaha! xxxx

[@smileycitrus]

hahaha thank you my gal! LOTS of content days to come xx

[@BEACHDUDE71]

I will get a new job next year

[@briannatipene4549]

I clicked so fast when I saw the title ekkk!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle]

Congratulations. I quit my job 2 years ago and now my income is double what it was because I am doing what I love.

[@smileycitrus]

wow! amazing

[@sarahkate96]

Follow your heart hun xx

[@maddysjourney9500]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jessicaatkins4089]

Would you consider doing KZbin full time?

[@smileycitrus]

I would love to! maybe one day! x

[@Mamaslittleblog]

Sales contact centres (even if you’re not in a sales team, contact centres for companies that sell anything) are in my opinion the worst places to work. Everyone loves it at the start, everyone cries in the end. I can’t believe you lasted 18months that’s a really long time in contact centre world

[@smileycitrus]

hahaha I love this 😂 so true

[@dimmy2291]

I'm in a inbound call centre so we don't sell anything either but it's been brutual since covid.