I Quit Teaching After 3 Years

[@daman0015]

Thank you for shedding light on this issue. My opinion is that if you want to go into teaching, don’t. There’s so much that goes on behind the scenes you just don’t see. The job is incredibly stressful and you’re overworked for trash pay. These kids are NOT the way they were when we were in school.

[@juliaship13]

I feel like to tell people to never go into teaching is going to put society in a very bad place as there will be no education and what little educators they still are, are not going to be compassionate like we have now. It’s a double edged sword.

[@daman0015]

@@juliaship13 You have a point, but at the end of the day, that is where education is headed anyway. People already know how miserable of a profession it is, which is why there has been such a decline in teaching majors and massive turnover. Kids do not care about schooling anymore. They find it pointless, and they are there just to be there. I feel like it dwindling day-by-day, and it will not get better unless there is a massive overhaul of the entire K-12 system.

[@Heyu7her3]

Definitely don't teach in a state that doesnt have strong teacher's unions.

[@Heyu7her3]

​@@daman0015 well, parents don't care. they still keep having kids & many see it as free babysitting with perks of stuff they don't have to address. many elementary students don't know how to tie their shoes. how?

[@carolnahigian9518]

I do not BLAME You! I know why... I work in the " System"!!

[@MrJessietyson]

The anxiety is hard to deal with. This is my 5th year and this the year I really tried to have the best mindset, but I’m over it. At this point I’m just surviving

[@carriekitchen5796]

Same year 5 here and I don’t think I’m going to make it to May

[@lindsaywillard2597]

Student teacher here! I feel exactly like this. The anxiety. The guilt. Not feeling like myself. My gut is telling me to get out now, but I don’t want to let everyone down.

[@byBriannaStone]

I would recommend not going into teaching......... the guilt will pass, look out for yourself and your mental health.

[@Heyu7her3]

I say finish (if this is your last step), get your certification, & then use that to leverage in your job apps. Could be used in nonprofit work & education outreach. Good luck!

[@kitty1256x]

Teach online school!!

[@_pitschool]

You won’t regret letting people down, as much as you’ll regret wasting your time, not getting out when you need to!

[@jillsalkin7389]

What about letting YOURSELF down by staying where it's not good for you?

[@romeysiamese6662]

I was a career changer at age 45 to teaching. I spent evenings and weekends grading classwork & tests, writing lesson plans, following up with emails, creating weekly newsletters, creating computer presentations, etc. Students would crumple up the lessons I passed out- threw them on the floor. I lasted nearly 10 years, behavior issues put me over the edge. No pension now, no nice retirement, no insurance. Stressed and anxious too now, but I just couldn’t do it anymore.

[@naturallyShaiShai]

Oh no. Is there anyone taking care of you or helping so you can manage financially?

[@lanepybas6991]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m in year 2 and I know in my heart that I don’t want to be a teacher either.

[@byBriannaStone]

🥺🥺

[@asnathnyabagala9292]

The same here,I need the courage to quit

[@shanlange6331]

Honey, go do something else. It’s a big world out there really go to a different city meet some different people also a simplify in your house simplify number of clothes you have number of coffee cups you have number of earrings you have whatever you have have left , you will like it.

[@GeeMvria]

I was in the process of getting my certification through Texas Teachers when I decided teaching wasn’t for me. I was an after school instructor for a year and I SWORE it was what I wanted to do long term. It wasn’t until I started doing my observation hours where I began doubting myself. Long story short I’m working in a law firm now! Teaching wasn’t for some of us and that’s okay ♥️ Wishing you luck on your new job!

[@byBriannaStone]

I’m glad you figured it out before going into teaching! Happy for you! Thank you ❤️

[@kdoddieTR]

I quit 3 years in as well. My first year into Covid was my last year teaching. Congratulations sis!!!

[@kdoddieTR]

Also I didn’t go to school to teach either. But later got licensed. I learned that it was meant to be my stepping stone & that it was! I’m now getting paid more, working less, & happier! Went back to a career field similar to what i went to school for originally & I’m thriving here! Also, went back and got my license & certification for that degree as well, ALL DURING THE PANDEMIC. I have no regrets. Although i loved my kids & crazy families I have no plans to return to the classroom.

[@byBriannaStone]

That's awesome! And thank you 🩷

[@jrm371]

This is my second full year teaching and I’m also doubting my future in this profession. I enjoyed subbing and being an instructional assistant much more. To put it simply: it’s not worth it. The job is too stressful and too underpaid and you’re too overworked.

[@isabellelindberg5363]

I am 28 years old and have been a teacher for 3 years. I have a master's degree and studied for 4 years to become a teacher... I know all your feelings about Sunday scaries, always feeling tired and always thinking about work and lesson planning. This summer I got a feeling, like an awakening - "Quit". It kind of came from nowhere, but I had been spending all summer thinking about "wonder who my new colleagues are, wonder if we will be enough teachers for these kids, wonder if the colleagues will be professional" and so on... It's not right spending your summer's vacation feeling anxious. I have now been back to work for two weeks and two of my colleagues are very unprofessional and don't take their work seriously. I have done everything. I have decorating classrooms, writing letters to parents, planed the whole first week for our first graders and so on... And the two colleagues have already been home "sick" these first days of school. The admin can't seem to fire anyone because there are not enough people to hire. There is so much stuff that I find negative about this job as the days goes by and I feel sorry for it. The salary is not worth it either. If you had worked for 25+ years you won't get extra credit for it with better pay. You earn just a couple hundreds more than a teacher like me that had only been in the career for some years. I love the children and to make their days and they like me too, but this is not my calling if I'm feeling this anxious and tired all the time. I will try to survive this school year and then quit and go back to college to study something else... Feels a bit crazy but it also lightens my heart. I have always had a big interest in the tech world, like coding, but had always had a low confidences in applying something in that field. But now it's my time...

[@claire.owensdrafts]

Hi. I ran across this video and saw your comment. I feel this exact same way. I am trying to survive this year, but I will definitely not be returning after this year. Also, I am currently looking for other opportunities and if I come across something I like I am definitely taking it. You're right. The things you have to deal with is not worth it. I am on year 10 and feeling this way about a job constantly is no way to live. Fellow educator rooting for you.

[@glennwatson3313]

You gotta stop worrying about what other people are doing.

[@kdog3334]

I’m sorry you’re going through this but most of these problems are with the school you’re working at, not teaching. Switch schools or even districts before dropping your career

[@amylee8969]

@isabellelindberg5363 I was 27 going on 28 when I did my student teaching. This was in 2018, so clearly it didn’t prepare me for these post-covid kids 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

[@nomDePlume999]

More. Let these teacher-quitting discourses grow more! Let them grow into a big ball to annoy administration with! ❤

[@RBLXGaming23]

Sounds like subbing was easy but once you became a full-fledged teacher the real stressors kicked in.

[@exceptionaltalentspc4954]

Good for you for trying and realizing teaching is not for you. I've been told that I'm a great teacher and I have tried teaching in public schools and private schools only to realize that although I do enjoy the teaching part I don't actually enjoy all the other stuff that comes along with it such as students behavior and administrative demands. Life is too short and you need to do what makes you happy.

[@BREASHONTELL]

Yes I’m done teaching I been teaching for 12 years and subbing as my last time in the classroom and I was burnt out I got tired of the bad behaviors coming home with migraines stress and waking up with anxiety and the eye twitching . Girl I been there wanting to get out of education so bad I was applying for many jobs over 5,000 jobs constantly getting rejected. Feeling like I’m never going to get out of the classroom. Till I took matters into my own hands i continued to sub while I paid for my business to get off on the ground. Pretty soon I got some sales and my business continued to flourish and I have been happier ever since.❤

[@Heyu7her3]

Business seems worse for work-life balance. I couldn't do it.

[@joythompson9530]

Thank you for sharing your journey. This is my fifth year Teaching and I completely understand how you feel with anxiety and panic attacks,especially on your days off. It's a mentally heavy field. I hope to switch careers sooner than later too. For this year I am starting over in a new district and school so I'm praying for the best.

[@byBriannaStone]

Wishing you a great school year and hope you find whatever makes you happy!! 🩷🩷

[@itsabraham1824]

Thank you for being so open and honest. Teacher’s never get enough appreciation for what they do and go through. I’m so sorry for all the challenges you went through. I’m so glad you did what was best for you. We love and appreciate you Brianna. Congrats on your new job and I wish you nothing but success and happiness. Thanks for sharing

[@byBriannaStone]

Thanks so much 🩷🩷

[@brynnwalk4390]

I always wanted to ask you how did hearing about school shootings constantly while being a teacher affect you, but I didn't want to seem like I was fear-mongering. It's good to hear you talk about it and be so honest while doing so.

[@byBriannaStone]

I definitely plan on making more videos talking about what it was like being a teacher- and about the fear of school shootings in more detail because it was something that was ALWAYS on my mind

[@JessicaTayB]

I’m a teacher currently. We just heard about a school shooting last week that happened 30 minutes away from us. It’s always in your mind, and sometimes it doesn’t feel worth it. You always think of protocols and action plans for if that does happen.

[@Heyu7her3]

I actually feel more unsafe in other environments, eg shopping, in the open public, college campus. The US has a terrible culture around violence.

[@Joycelyn]

Firstly, I appreciate you being transparent with us. I used to watch all your teaching videos before class to get my head in the game. I totally empathize with you. I quit teaching 21-22 SY and I’m heading back this upcoming school year. I had horrible anxiety and depression during my second school year and it took a major toll on me. I’m glad you made the best decision for you. Wishing you the best on your new journey! You got this!

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you so much and I’m wishing you the best returning to school ❤️❤️

[@courtney0023]

I work in corporate, so I never knew firsthand the stress that comes with being a teacher, but I can only imagine. I'm happy that you did what was best for your mental health. Best of luck in your new job and looking forward to hearing updates!!!

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you so much!! 🩷😊😊

[@Jedi12789]

Teaching is just like a corporate job except your in charge of the students and you can’t let them go and you have to show demonstrable results (test score data) that they learned something in your class.

[@mishajones2635]

wow, that sounds so stressful. I'm so sorry about your friend who had been shot. It sounds like you also had the symptoms of major burn out. Excessive sleeping. I'm so happy that you decided to do what was best for you, and quit.

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you! I have been SOOOO much better since quitting

[@Stephen_A.]

Wow, I had no idea what you were going through with your teaching job. I wondered why you slept so much after school thinking that you were super busy in the classroom. Now I know. ❤ Living just to get to the end of the day is not living. I'm happy you are taking the steps to turn your life in the direction that makes you the happiest. Congratulations on your new job ! I'm looking forward to many more videos. 💝

[@byBriannaStone]

Thanks so much! 😊❤️❤️❤️

[@Stephen_A.]

@@byBriannaStone 💝

[@animemangaluv13]

I started teaching because of you 😢🎉 but so proud of you for toughing it out

[@byBriannaStone]

Awwww keep going!!

[@Augfordpdoggie]

now you can quit because of her

[@dianerivamartinez1009]

Congrats Miss Brianna on prioritizing your health! Not all teachers have the guts to do it. The first 3-5 years of teaching is actually a teacher's "decision-making" time. It is where you will get a wider idea on what teaching, especially in the public schools, is. I have been teaching for almost 10 yrs now and I am having anxiety coz in our country there are a lot of drastic change happening in our educational system. It kind of eats me up. If only I have your strength to leave teaching and land a better job.

[@byBriannaStone]

Do whatever is best for YOU- don’t worry about what other people may think or say. Your happiness is what matter most- not a job

[@Jane5720]

You do!

[@arvayahrozier4402]

I have been teaching for about three years as well. I am applying for grad school and when I get accepted I will be leaving too. For all of those who are also leaving, godspeed.

[@MsCHICA102]

Briana, while I am sorry your experience as a teacher was stressful. I am happy that you found the time to share this with your viewers. Thank you for educating us with your knowledge and experience as a past teacher. Your content has been so useful to me, I will continue to watch your channel and wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors.

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you so much!💖💖

[@ohhlivyahh]

So glad you did what is best for you and got that new job!! Best of luck and take care of yourself!!💜

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you so much!!🩷🩷

[@jhennd]

As someone who’s taught and subbed for 25+ years, I can completely understand needing to get out of the classroom and away from campuses. I only subbed a few times in 2021 when most schools were hybrid. My local district in town offered ZERO training for subs teaching online using new programs they’d implemented. I considered returning to subbing this year because the pay is pretty good for the area , I enjoyed the kids and teaching in general. However, school started on Aug. 10th and every single day there have been fights and/or threats of shootings or stabbings at several schools in the District. Most of the threats are at the Middle Schools & High Schools. The district has over 30,000 students (TK-12th). Today a 13 year old was arrested for making criminal threats. He made a statement threatening to commit a school shooting. The statement was made to a Staff member. A 6th grader posted on social media he was going to take a gun and shoot kids at school. Everyday there are fights and threats made at the MS (5) & HS (4) campuses. There are no serious consequences by the school district to deter others from doing the same thing. Teachers have been injured & today a fight broke out in a classroom where there was a sub. I know several who said they are quitting because there is nothing done about it. They are looking at smaller, independent districts & private schools that follow through on what they say.

[@marcmeinzer8859]

The real problem is the currently prevalent attitude that anyone can be successfully educated, at least from an academic standpoint. This reveals a total ignorance of the implications of having a below average IQ. It is my contention that persons who cannot handle individual academic subjects require vocational training which is team oriented and focused on projects, just like the world of work. And this applies to at least half of the population or in some school districts perhaps even two-thirds of the kids. I’ve had reading classes in a large urban high school where the smartest kid in the class had an IQ of only 90 and several of the kids only had a 3rd grade reading level even though they had been socially promoted all the way to the 10th grade. This social promotion nonsense needs to end at the very latest with the 7th grade but perhaps as early as the 5th grade, at which point the illiterates need to be shunted off into full time manual arts supplemented with recreational reading, art appreciation, and so forth preferably ungraded so as to avoid humiliating the poor little simpletons. And yes, such types are indeed simpletons. But that needn’t be the end of the world provided they get realistic and appropriate trades training so they’re capable of working when they reach their late teens. And by working I don’t mean dead end service and retail jobs. They need to learn skilled trades.

[@t.terrell7037]

@@marcmeinzer8859well said…

[@andrear6566]

Sending you a hug ❤ the guilt will pass, wishing you the best! You made the best decision for yourself. Congrats on your new job!!

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you so much!! ☺️☺️

[@latinbeautymaria]

This is the reality of school nowadays. If the teachers feel like this, they have a choice. Imagine how the students feel. This is a horrible state of things. Education needs to take a turn for the better ASAP.

[@byBriannaStone]

Agreed

[@soblessed4844]

You did your best, no regrets! After teaching for 16 years in an urban school district, l resigned and took 6 months to recuperate. Then, by the grace of God l was offered a teaching position in a better school district. The difference between the two districts were like night and day. Next year l will retire after 36 years of teaching. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. If you should ever want to return to teaching…choose the right grade level, school district, and school. Those factors make a huge difference.

[@threebylee]

congrats Brianna ❤I can totally relate to having stress and anxiety with a job you're not enjoying. I got a new job at the beginning of the year that's fully remote and it's been a blessing. I'm really sorry about what happened to your friend. it's honestly so crazy that it's just a normal thing here. wishing you the best with your new job, and looking forward to the new content 🙂

[@byBriannaStone]

I’m so glad you found something that’s better for you! 🩷

[@hillcatrogers9086]

Great video, Brianna. Would you consider making a video about your new job, how you prepared your resume and how/if your teaching experience was valuable in getting the job. I am in my sixth and last year of teaching and always appreciate content from former teachers who successfully leave he classroom.

[@byBriannaStone]

Yes, definitely can make that soon!

[@MsVika1Vo]

Thank you for your honesty about your decisions! I hope you have found what makes you happy!

[@byBriannaStone]

💕💕💕

[@Kellinicol3]

Good for you for making yourself a priority. In a similar situation where I’m changing jobs before the school year. But you must take care of self first. Cannot give your all to others if not at your best. Can’t wait to see what’s next in your life journey. 🤗

[@byBriannaStone]

Glad for you! ❤️ and thank you ☺️

[@aimeedentkos1068]

Parent wanted the kindergarten teacher to potty train her five year old. When told he needed that skill before he could enter, she accused the school of not caring about her childs education and being unprofesdional. Some parents do not want to parent anymore.

[@Shezbad757]

That sounds so ridiculous that I can't even believe it. The sad thing is I know that it's true. SMH

[@nayelietorres2817]

I’m in my fifth week teaching and .. it’s exhausting i want to quit

[@byBriannaStone]

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[@Augfordpdoggie]

do it. I taught for 24 years, and quit in 2022. teaching, one of the few professions that after 24 years you are still not treated like an expert. its a toxic abusive relationship. Start looking for jobs now, and when you get one, you can quit. teach the parents and admin a valuable lesson

[@horselover40]

I quit mid semester. Kind of felt awful about dipping like that but I was offered a fantastic opportunity and couldnt pass it up when I was so miserable where I was

[@Graeberwave]

The eye twitch…I forgot about that…

[@Shezbad757]

Omg, yes. BOTH of my eyes would twitch. Top and bottom lids. Like wtf.

[@Graeberwave]

@@Shezbad757 It stopped for me after 6 years, or maybe I'm just numb to it now lmao smh wtf

[@dundermifflin1888]

Hey Brianna! I taught and subbed as well for two years and I realized it wasn't for me after the second year and now I do something else and I am happy. Good for you that you decided to make this decision for yourself. I have so many great memories of teaching but who knows? maybe I'll go back later on in my life. Can't wait to see what you'll do next!

[@byBriannaStone]

Glad you chose yourself!

[@De3e3]

@dundermifflin. May i ask what you are doing now? Great job for choosing you!

[@kimcheng5210]

I’m literally graduating next year for a teaching degree and decided to switch majors last minute. My experience subbing and stories I heard from mentor teachers definitely outweighed the positive aspects of this field

[@CarolPittenger-yp2dc]

So glad to come across this video! I am in my third year teaching as well and am looking to get a new career! I sometines wonnder what is worse, the admin and some fellow teachers that drag us down or the lack of discipline in the classrooms. Anyway you can throw some ideas. My way on what field to get into?? Congratulations on your new career!! 👏

[@linasaidwhat]

I’m not a teacher, I’m in a different industry but the way you describe stress and anxiety and depression (sounds like it) are very relatable!

[@CoCoFantastique]

How do they give a 3rd year teacher a mentee??? That is not fair to either of you. I am so happy that things worked out for you !!

[@byBriannaStone]

lol I didn’t have a choice but I was happy to help him

[@latonyalee7821]

I am currently a sub and have been since 2018 (NC & FL). I've taught preschool but plan to teach Kindergarten in the Fall. I've been blessed to sub at 5 wonderful (top high and middle) schools in Jacksonville, FL. However, there's no amount of money that would persuade me to teach past 2nd grade. Some of these middle school girls and these attitudes along with the cell phone issue would drive me crazy. I am self-employed for the most part but find it difficult to get things I want (new house, car, etc) because my income isn't steady, so I'm going to teach for 2-3 years and see how it goes. I'm happy you got out and are in a happier place. I was at a school 3 years ago where a student was shot as we were leaving. That almost took me out but I landed in much better schools now.

[@TABO744]

I totally understand,I support whatever you got next coming ❤❤❤❤ LOVE YOU BRI. STAY SAFE …

[@byBriannaStone]

THANK YOU❤️❤️

[@glennwatson3313]

I have been teaching for almost thirty years. My kids are great. My admin is fine. My parents are kind. I will keep teaching until I can't get up anymore. I think many teachers put too much of their life into it. Its a job. Do your best, but don't kill yourself. You can't save the world.

[@mariamunozpiz6070]

yes!!

[@fujikokun]

I think this is true. People who struggle with work/life balance shouldn’t be teachers.

[@Beyondblessed261]

@@fujikokunI’m listening to her video and it seems like she was dealing more with depression from outside of the classroom.

[@nevilleboone8]

This is the best teacher video by far. I started January 2020. Ma'am I'm done

[@rebeccairl2290]

Congrats! Best of luck on your future endeavors!

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you so much!

[@Jade.123]

I was in the doctors office 3 times in one month when I took a teaching job. The kids are not ok and they need to fix it

[@amylee8969]

It’s always sad to see things getting so bad that teacher are driven away into quitting. As teachers we always wanna be there for the kids we love. But there’s only so much a human can take.

[@culverp1138]

I’m in my third year of teaching currently. I got a scholarship for all four years of college and am required to complete that many years in the field before I can walk away. As soon as I finish this next year, I’m walking away from this career for good. Lack of parent and admin support, kids not respecting me, and making such little money have been the biggest factors for sure. My mental health has been absolutely destroyed this current year with all of the responsibilities piling up. I totally relate with the stress and anxiety. It’s just not worth it and can’t even enjoy time off. Also COVID has absolutely had a huge effect on these kids even years later. These kids lack basic skills they should’ve learned already. The phones are also destroying these kids’ minds. So yeah, just trying my best to get through it as positively as I can but it’s been very challenging. They really don’t tell you about ANY of this stuff behind the scenes at schools. I can’t wait to be done

[@AlejandraGonzalez-kk9lc]

I can relate so much to how you were feeling while teaching. I'm a preschool teacher and teaching can feel rewarding at first but there's so much that goes on that you are not told until you experience it. At the moment, i'm also at a point where I'm re-evaluating the pro's and con's of whether I want to come back or not next school year but I'm to what seems like holding on by a thread to try to finish the school year. It's affecting me mentally and emotionally and I'm not liking that I'm putting my mental health as a least priority. Trying to stay positive and hoping that a better opportunity arises.

[@GhostEyedD]

I was a mental health counselor for four years and the amount of teachers I had on my couch was insane, their stories more so. They were some of my strongest clients. They went through the same guilt you did for wanting to quit. Some of them did and were a lot happier, but many of them remained because their passion for it was so strong

[@asnathnyabagala9292]

I need to quit even right now but I don't know what to do after to quit 😔

[@RameshKumar-ng3nf]

A sweet talented girl like you deserves what you wanted to do in your life. Great decision and i am glad you quit what you didnt like. Quitting a job dosent mean end of life. Life is Big and just 1 life. Do what you like to do and enjoy life to the fullest and be Happy 😊

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you ☺️

[@ikeacha4153]

I’m sorry for your experience. I hope you are finding healing from that trauma of losing a friend. It seems like that’s when everything started to unravel.

[@rachel.c.p]

Im excited to hear about the new job - hours, work schedule, etc! What happens with your retirement contributions from the teaching job?

[@byBriannaStone]

I am pulling out my retirement contributions and going to start a new one with my new job

[@DaddysGrl463]

I am in year 25 and can’t imagine being an early career teacher in this climate. The kids are the worst. Each day I’m seconds away from losing my job dealing with some of the rudest monsters I’ve ever seen.

[@deniceworks6328]

Sometimes you have to do wha’s best for you and your mental health. Congratulations on your next chapter in life.

[@byBriannaStone]

Thanks so much ❤️

[@thenation2093]

I’m at the same period you were discussing around 7:55. Constant anxiety everyday before class and over the weekend.

[@byBriannaStone]

): get outta there

[@CourtneeG]

7 years in education and that anxiety trip right before the end of breaks are REAL and can turn manic real quick. I’m going through one now as I go back in a week and a half…..The breaks are becoming shorter in exchange for a “pay raise” that’s equivalent to a joke in this $1800-$2100 rent economy

[@mykayleighwhite]

This is my second year supply teaching in Ontario, and even just after my second year supplying I haven't been enjoying it and i'm thinking of doing something else instead.

[@nadaadd7093]

I quit a month in and I couldn’t be happier i was really stressed overwhelmed and burned out just in a month i didn’t want to stay like this anymore so i just quit + all the teachers in the school told me they want to quit even the one who spent 3 and 10 years and I didn’t want to be like them going to work everyday wishing to quit and feeling miserable

[@Jedi12789]

Hey, a few things: 1) great video and story 2) ppl are realizing teaching is not a fall back/plan b career and that most jobs are easier as there are after school duties that can turn teaching into a 60-70 hr. Week. 3) even at your worst you are better than no person in that classroom - states can’t fill these teaching jobs now. 4) teaching can be rewarding and both soul sucking at the same time 5) teaching is hard whether it’s year 1, 5, 15, or 25. It’s constantly changing and you have to be adaptable to make it. Good luck.

[@randomoldlady_]

OMG I am so sorry you had this horrific experience - as a finally retired teacher I actually "quit" teaching more than once and really understand the ridiculous pressure teachers are under. I actually didn't expect you were going to tell this kind of a story. I hope you are recovering well - I know what it is like to literally become mentally ill from the school environment and have it carry over into my entire summer. Also did the thing of changing changing changing - new classroom, new materials, new new new and yet it is ALWAYS THE SAME!!

[@TheSunflowerdiary]

I am here. Currently on a break from work at the beginning of the semester, feeling guilty for taking the time off, grateful for the job but also feeling all manner of anxiety, panic and depression that this will be my life and career. I love the kids, they are great but, I hate the rules that are attached to the job. Not enough time too. The parents can be like being in customer care jobs but, I get them, I sympathise with them, I just don't want to be part of it. I hate the way topics like discipline is handled, I hate the new rules, they are not good for anybody. It's making me tired of life. I will try to finish out the school year as I cannot exactly leave now but, I don't know if I can. I am so burnt out and no longer enjoying most of the things I enjoy. I don't sleep well but always want to eat. I dread the weekend being over and am not happy about Friday. This is not sustainable. Just as she said, outside, I seem fine but, I am not. Planning my exit and hoping to be able to make it till the end of the year. I am so tired now. It is not fair to my students or colleagues either. I am getting all manner of symptoms because I am in so much emotional turmoil and it isn't sustainable.

[@dee_byrd]

I was waiting for you first day vlog lol Best of luck!

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you!!

[@animemangaluv13]

Take care of yourself ❤

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you 🩷

[@MelToll]

If it’s not in your heart it’s better for you to not be a teacher, it’s better for you and better for the students. They need a fully invested educators, heart and soul. We hope you feel better on your new career path.

[@SarahG266]

I love that you made the right choice for yourself! I found you through sub videos. I’m getting ready to sub and begin a credential program. I often wonder if it’s the right path, and I think it is like you say, you have to try it to know. So, I thank you for being encouraging despite your own choice to quit. I love that we have options!

[@hparkersd]

I got my BA and teaching credential and never taught. As an adult, I always worked in Higher Ed. My last job was so stressful, that I never wanted to go back into that field. I got a job teaching for a private tutoring company. Very fun, rewarding and I love it. Started out in-person, but transitioned to 100% online format. Very convenient and no longer commute anywhere. I have over 30 students over 5 days. :) I too would be stressed working at a public school, but this online program is perfect for me. Likely isn’t something that everyone would like, but definitely doesn’t keep me up at night. :) Good luck in your next career!

[@sophiaclark6254]

That sound amazing! What’s the name of the company?

[@Shomomomo]

Dropped my teaching program after a semester. I know you said not to let videos like yours discourage us, but after experiencing the shift in student behavior first hand through student teaching, I knew that it wouldn’t be worth my time.

[@PhreshNicky]

I’m thinking about quitting my long term spot at the start of winter break. I’m so drained and unhappy.

[@byBriannaStone]

Leave! It doesn’t get better

[@WitnessCreations]

Happy you found the courage to do what was best for you! If you never tried, as you said, you would have regret for not doing it.

[@voqlts]

Awww I remember you being my English teacher my freshman year, you were great and I’m glad you put yourself first Ms.Stone 🩷 Thank you for everything and changing my experiences! I will miss waving and saying hi every time I saw you 🫶🏼

[@byBriannaStone]

I will miss you too! Hope you have a great school year 💖💖💕

[@TessDavid-i1b]

In my first year of teaching now...I just know that this is not for me and I feel so lost at what will come next. Thank you for sharing!

[@byBriannaStone]

Start searching for other options!

[@acedia4453]

Teaching is never ending controlled chaos where you are always at fault according to both parents and administration. You need to really have a passion to move forward.

[@lucyzheng123]

Happy you were able to do what was best for you!

[@Heyu7her3]

Many of the best teachers I've come across came into education after another career

[@danakollman7297]

19 years I lasted.. I pushed through for the last 3 and just couldn't anymore.

[@elwow72]

I want to ask everyone ...what do you think teaching will look like 10-15 years from now? My OWN personal OPINION is that teachers will teach students online (like COVID years) and students will not go back to the classroom because of all the horror stories and abuse teachers experience. I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts.

[@kidnthehall]

Ugh I think I needed to see this. I’m not a teacher but definitely feeling like I need a career change…

[@byBriannaStone]

Listen to your gut

[@animemangaluv13]

Mood after my 3rd year imma do something else :)

[@byBriannaStone]

😂😂

[@zechariah4455]

hope you find a another job that works out well for you praying the best 🙏

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you!!

[@SincerelyxYours]

I just decided to pull the trigger on wanting to become a teacher but do you feel that Elementary school might be easier just because kids are, still kids and not grown up yet, maybe more fun and enjoyable things to do, ect. This isn’t discouraging, but all you said was something to ofocrse think about. Are schools the same all around?

[@thiisgirlsariah5060]

Aww man Ms. Stone I was wondering where you went to. I thought you just moved classrooms I didn’t think you actually left☹️ I hope you are doing a lot better since you quit tho.👍

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you Sariah, hope you have a great school year! 💖

[@user-oo9ez4cj4v]

Your experience is exactly what I'm going through.😢 God help me.

[@asnathnyabagala9292]

I need to quit this job but i don't know what to do after quitting Only one thing i know is I'm not happy with this job

[@byBriannaStone]

Start talking to friends, hunting on job sites and trying to find something!

[@asnathnyabagala9292]

@@byBriannaStone thank you dear

[@Blossom1232]

Whats your job now? Im legit in my 3rd year, and I just can't stand it anymore. Im actively applying to jobs lol

[@byBriannaStone]

Social media content creator for a food blog

[@ricksanchez2425]

Barbers make good money once u get certified if u Kno how to do hair well definitely recommend Barber or cosmetology school

[@jadadianna]

Praise God. I didn't even watch the video yet, but I am happy for you lol.

[@byBriannaStone]

Lol thank you 🩷🩷🩷

[@Michael-kb3tt]

This is the most relatable video I've ever seen lol.

[@marieljackman1850]

😮 that’s why they are looking for foreigner teachers!! I was ready to apply , but now I feel like it can be a nightmare … far away from home 🏡 I don’t know if I still want to apply 😊

[@awos6559]

Congrats!!! It’s a miserable job if you don’t like it!! You did the right thing!!!

[@whatever5922]

It’s so sad that school shootings have just become a norm almost. I wanted to become a teacher but shootings are the main reason why I didn’t become one, I would rather teach in another country

[@RBLXGaming23]

You picked the wrong grade level. Always go with the kiddies. Much less stress.

[@DavidGivinsnhe]

Shhhhhhhhhh😊😅😂❤

[@danapride]

Not true! I am in seconds grade, and we are stressed to the max. Yes school shooting was threatened this year from an unhappy parent.

[@byeteaching]

In 2024, job hunting without a solid strategy is like searching for a needle in a haystack. That's why I've created these tutorials to guide educators toward opportunities outside the classroom.

[@lazvegaz]

Thank you for sharing with us. You seem very genuine and kind by the way you tell your stories. I wouldn't be that cool to be honest. So what happened to your old time friend who got shot during teaching?

[@byBriannaStone]

That more so my friend’s story to tell but if you Google Mansfield Timberview s*ooting you can read about it

[@Augfordpdoggie]

good for you. teaching is an abusive, toxic job

[@byBriannaStone]

🙃🙃

[@tonybrown7041]

For sure

[@jessical2158]

I dont know you, but I'm so proud of you. Congrats on your freedom.

[@byBriannaStone]

Thank you ☺️

[@patricblack1]

I remember when you first started talking about teaching.....

[@byBriannaStone]

😭😭

[@horselover40]

I made i made it a year and called it quits. Not worth it

[@byBriannaStone]

Smart decision!

[@izzafizza339]

10 minutes away. Didn't your school go into lockdown damn that's close

[@dorothyjbond]

You can feel your stress while you are talking about it.