I REGRET HAVING CHILDREN: Pt. 1️⃣

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ChildfreeLT

ChildfreeLT

Күн бұрын

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@saladfingers.
@saladfingers. Жыл бұрын
There are so many people who should never have been parents. I hope to God I will always remain childfree. I do not have the capacity to raise a child.
@christinam370
@christinam370 Жыл бұрын
Idk, having kids feels like a trap to me. I’d rather focus on myself and my life, rather than focus on raising another individual.
@christinam370
@christinam370 Жыл бұрын
and don’t even get me started on marriage. I’m only 22, and just recently got out of a 7 YEAR relationship. that’s 14yrs-22yrs of my life wasted on a cheater. like no I don’t want a relationship or children, i want friends and maybe a pet or two
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
Thats smart 💯
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
@@christinam370 I can understand not wanting kids but maybe you will meet another person in 5-10 years that will treat you right and you could get married one day but please dont disregard that and stay single all your life unless that is absolutely what you want.
@joejackson7601
@joejackson7601 Жыл бұрын
​@@christinam370solitude is a virtuous one... alone aka AllOne.
@martuskarogowska
@martuskarogowska Жыл бұрын
I used to dislike children, I accept them now and I even enjoy them in small doses. But I would not want to spend too much time with any. Too boring & tiring.
@tinyking11
@tinyking11 11 ай бұрын
I’m a mother of 1 & I agree. Being a mom is definitely boring af and tiring. I don’t like routines and it’s literally the same thing day in & day out. 😐 I’m 1 & done.
@liamodonovan6610
@liamodonovan6610 2 жыл бұрын
Hi sweetheart iam 100% behind the childfree movement iam a childfree male conservatives say childfree people are selfish but there is nothing more selfish than having kids just to go on to regret them your beautiful as you are and you don't have to have kids love you so much you are not selfish
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Liam! ❤️
@SR77736
@SR77736 2 жыл бұрын
This most ppl ego have kids do it for selfish reasons. Parents are super selfish
@liamodonovan6610
@liamodonovan6610 2 жыл бұрын
@@SR77736 i completely agree with you no one asks to be born into this world
@willkillem737
@willkillem737 Жыл бұрын
You are defective
@stephaniepersin4222
@stephaniepersin4222 Жыл бұрын
You can’t be selfish to someone that actually doesn’t exist.
@DC-ef8op
@DC-ef8op 2 жыл бұрын
40 and now no one bothers me about kids!!!!! Yeah!
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT 2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome. Thanks for watching 🙏🏾
@TxHoneyBee
@TxHoneyBee Жыл бұрын
I'm a 30 yo woman, and I just bought my dream home. I don't want children, and I don't want a stinky male in my home. I feel blessed.
@MaishMajor
@MaishMajor Жыл бұрын
You are living my dream congratulations 🎉
@TxHoneyBee
@TxHoneyBee Жыл бұрын
@@MaishMajor Thank you, dear! I'm wishing you success on achieving your dreams too!
@MichaelGodding
@MichaelGodding Жыл бұрын
Another misandrist bites the dust😂
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
Why you say that?
@TxHoneyBee
@TxHoneyBee Жыл бұрын
@@ChildfreeLT They're mad that they can't live in a woman's home and ruin a woman's life. LOL!! Hit dog hollering.
@indigoearthangel888
@indigoearthangel888 Жыл бұрын
39 never been pregnant 🥳
@theunknownbachatero8899
@theunknownbachatero8899 2 жыл бұрын
I often wonder if those ppl who choose parenthood (& regret it) ever did their prior research, as in talk to friend/relatives who were already parents & get the FULL SCOOP. For me, I've already seen what my friends/relatives who are parents go thru from a distance. That way, I NEVER buy into the whole "U're missing out" bullsh!t.
@kitsontuli2713
@kitsontuli2713 2 жыл бұрын
People had been lying about parenthood for the longest cause it's taboo to say parenthood sucks. I too am observant and that's why issa no for me.
@SR77736
@SR77736 2 жыл бұрын
They probably didn't. Some meet someone,have unprotected sex then boom. End up parents. Those in that situation have no clue what they're in for.
@SR77736
@SR77736 2 жыл бұрын
@@kitsontuli2713 exactly doesn't look worth it to me.
@Nancybabt
@Nancybabt 7 ай бұрын
Plz I regret it so much. I got pregnant at 35 and people begged me not to give my son up for adoption and to drop out of my master degree program. They all told me they will help me and how being a mom is great. I regret keeping him and I did finish my master degree. However everyone who told me to keep my son haven't helped me and alot of them are horrible parents who ended up homeless.
@stephaniepersin4222
@stephaniepersin4222 Жыл бұрын
First you can not be selfish to something that was never fertilized. Second I’m 58 and not married and past my breeding years. Never wanted to breed and loved my young adult life and looking back I had a wholesome life doing fun stuff. Not everything about being single means partying and being a whore. I’m very conservative in my private life and dated around, not screwed around.
@DesNReg
@DesNReg 10 ай бұрын
I enjoy listening to other people’s views about life, especially when my views are different. I have a cousin and sibling who doesn’t want kids. It was hard for me to understand and hearing other people’s perspectives helps with something that doesn’t naturally resonate with me.
@PS-tn7zz
@PS-tn7zz 3 ай бұрын
The pandemic reminded childfree people why they should stay childfree. Imagine a child home all day complaining about how they can't go play with their friends, go to the park, participate in extracurricular activities. They would become so annoying and depressed!
@jazsmans9523
@jazsmans9523 Жыл бұрын
I am 29 and still living with my Toxic old dad and his 24 year old women, if i could leave i would but its impossible at this point. living in a car is looking good every week XD
@marydethmary9721
@marydethmary9721 11 ай бұрын
Dang. That sucks
@PortiaTaylor-rr4qe
@PortiaTaylor-rr4qe Жыл бұрын
Marriage and kids are two mental and emotional suicide i can and will forever avoid
@sophiaelayne9984
@sophiaelayne9984 Жыл бұрын
I had my children in the early and mid 90's and I loved every minute of it. But that's me. It's not for everyone and you need to be very honest with yourself, your spouse or potiental partners. And don't compromise for anyone or anything.
@VLP_123
@VLP_123 Жыл бұрын
Hello! I just saw your channel pop up in my feed. So glad to meet another CF Black woman! Thank you for your content, and congrats on achieving over 500 subscribers!
@tinyking11
@tinyking11 11 ай бұрын
You have a beautiful natural face. 😍😍 I enjoyed this video. I’m a mother of 1 and don’t plan on having more. No man can change my mind. It’s not for me.
@kstayblessed
@kstayblessed Жыл бұрын
I know a woman who had her baby in the hospital and ended up catching covid.
@amandaperry4236
@amandaperry4236 Жыл бұрын
Is this an intelligent beautiful woman with no kids, supporting Burnt-out Moms!!?? 😢😢😢 I genuinely have mad love for you ❤❤❤
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
🧡🧡🧡🧡
@shirleygriffin7672
@shirleygriffin7672 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Just got back from shopping this morning. Stay safe......from the Ozarks using my Leopold Bx5 Santiam HD 10x42mm Roof prism binoculars waterproof
@Datb2
@Datb2 8 ай бұрын
You’re so beautiful
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT 8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🧡
@hindwidad2723
@hindwidad2723 Жыл бұрын
To be honest, I don't think anyone wants to have kids for real. is just that society has conditioned us to follow this blueprint of getting married and having kids to be complete
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
Most of them are miserable as well
@hindwidad2723
@hindwidad2723 Жыл бұрын
@ChildfreeBlackWoman kids are a lot of work. Call me selfish but I like to have the freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want.
@stephaniepersin4222
@stephaniepersin4222 Жыл бұрын
@@hindwidad2723 it’s starts with little girls getting baby dolls. I hated those dolls but loved Barbie who was promoted to have a life.
@domdom1304
@domdom1304 Жыл бұрын
Nooo way you actually believe that!!!! Ofcourse some people want them…. It’s a great experience that changes your life forever and some people say for the better and some… like you.. say it’s for the worst. For everyone their own…
@DesNReg
@DesNReg 10 ай бұрын
I absolutely wanted children! It’s okay that you don’t want them. It’s wild for you to project your feelings onto everyone. Just like someone wouldn’t think anyone one would want to vote for Trump or Biden, there are always people who actually do want to vote for them.
@Mai-sx3yf
@Mai-sx3yf Жыл бұрын
Off topic but you have such a pretty face :)
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🧡
@derrickclark7392
@derrickclark7392 Жыл бұрын
Sexy asf 💎
@aimee6120
@aimee6120 Жыл бұрын
Love this ! What are you doing for this no kid November 23 ❤ in 🇬🇧 love the content !
@ChildfreeLT
@ChildfreeLT Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I havent decided yet
@AgainstLife1000
@AgainstLife1000 Жыл бұрын
My cousins fiance threw up the whole 9 months of pregnancy. Sick. Could not work.
@tiny22022
@tiny22022 Жыл бұрын
no kid november lol
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