I Still Think About My Ex After 1 Year

Are you still thinking about your ex after 1 year? In todays video, Nick will discus why you still think about your ex after 1 year, post breakup.
We think about our ex because we get stuck in past memories, rather than making new memories.
Take a walk with Nick in this video, and find out why you think about your ex after 1 year.
If you would like personalised advice and coaching regarding your breakup situation, email me at [e-mail] to arrange an appointment.
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[@carthy29]

Rejection is gods protection , if he or she is not your lover anymore, then they are not the one, stop wasting time on them and go find the one

[@goldenguns2659]

Yeah that worked for 15 years, until we both couldn’t stand it anymore. Sometimes God says “wake up you idiots” when you just can’t let it go after that long.

[@cjello1]

I'm in the military, I was living with my ex for 2 years. Dating for 3 years. We had our ups and downs during these times. Once I moved away, she was in a brand new relationship with someone 3 weeks later. I was devastated, the day I left, we cried in each other's arms saying how much we loved each other. It's been about a year since this has happened and I haven't heard from her since. It feels impossible to accept that this is what happened and this is how it ended. It feels impossible for me to be intimate with someone. Ive tried dating new people, but the moment I get connected to someone, I immediately think about my ex and I can't sustain any new relationship I get into because of it. I just feel lost

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Sorry to hear that, buddy. That sounds heartbreaking. Have you considered breakup coaching or therapy?

[@cjello1]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick I think I need to see a professional. I've tried just about everything else at this point

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Go for it. It can help a lot.

[@RoyalOTI]

This is my case too, it's 10 months already

[@FLVCTVAT_NEC_MERGITVR]

Sounds like a cheater and one who couldn't hold the road.

[@timizo691]

I was married to her for 14 years. We have a 10 year old son. She got cancer 4 years ago. I stood by her through everything. Took care of my family. She left me just over a year ago. Said she loved me but wasn’t in love with me. She was seeing another man within 6 weeks of leaving me. They are still together. I would have died for my wife. I still can’t get past this betrayal.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I am sorry to hear that man, that is brutal. I don’t want you to look at this as betrayal, but i get why you are. You owe it to yourself to heal, level up and find someone better. Your ex wife feels how she feels and thats okay. You feel how you feel and that is also okay. Feel better.

[@timizo691]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick I started out just wanting her back. Now I am trying to get passed the insane rage I feel for what she did to my family. I want to get to a point where I just feel indifferent. I really appreciate what you are doing. Your videos have helped me a lot.

[@saferides2474]

​@@timizo691 that's female nature u stick by their side and they'll betraye you

[@markmattson2138]

Great video. Unfortunately I did all this. Got jacked, a bunch of tattoos, new hobbies, new friends, I did everything. It’s been a year now. I hope things change

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

It takes time buddy. Read more books, meditate, journal, and keeping on yourself. It was 18 months before I even start to feel a little normal again.

[@elcharrua1063]

August 8th made one year since she left me. In the time since the breakup I’ve lost 70 pounds and counting and have a brand new job that pays a lot more. I decided to call her august 10th and she hung up me when she heard it’s me. It sent me right back to day one heartbreak. And on top of that my new job takes me very near to her house very often. It’s so hard not to knock on her door. I want to show her how much I’ve changed but I know if she didn’t want to talk to me she definitely doesn’t want to see me. Everyday I struggle , everyday I cry, everyday have to watch videos like these to keep from going crazy. I keep thinking about all the bad decisions I made that cost me her. I don’t want her memories of me to be all bad. It’s killing me to feel like this every lady

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

You’re doing fine buddy. Forward is forward, no matter how slowly. 😊

[@domingosnhamussua3070]

after a year of breakup, i had the feeling that i had healed, but today is her birthday, it hurts me a lot not to be part of her life anymore, the pain i feel is equivalent to the day of the breakup, it's as if time doesn't had passed, I feel like sending a text saying "happy birthday" but I will remain with the no contact even if it hurts. I liked what you said in the video, it's time to build new memories so that the old ones can go away. I realized that even keeping the no contact, I did it the wrong way. but I can still better. thank you for the content you have posted here on youtube.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

You’re doing just fine buddy. Keep going 💪💪💪

[@CC-br9qg]

i just went thru this same thing. feels awful. cried all day, 1 year later. time doesn't heal.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Time does heal, it just takes longer than everyone thinks. Also, you MUST do the work on yourself, always.

[@blastprosful]

I reach back to this video from time to time just to re-center myself and find some peace this has been such a valuable post to me. thank you again for it

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Hope you’re doing well buddy.

[@TheDublinlassie]

I cried through this and found this the best video that makes sense, thank you very much

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I hope you feel better 😊😔

[@Moonstruck292]

For me it’s been over a year since we saw each other. We spoke for years and long distanced it but weren’t official. I looked at his Instagram and he has a new girlfriend all smiles. Freaking kills me. I just don’t understand how I loved him so much and he said he loved me, and he’s so happy while I’m still here trying to kill his memory. I wish I never met him because I don’t know how to stop loving him I don’t think I ever will.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Moon Struck. Listen to this kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6Wwp6NoictmjLs

[@glamdawling]

I can relate

[@alisonbermingham8674]

Thanks, that was good. I like the specifics like when you get home and pleasure doesn't fix pain. I really think it's step by step as long as right direction. Even if you think it's useless, 'creating new memories' is amazing statement. It makes so much sense. It explains everything. Of course if you don't create new memories, what do you expect! Also i think by default i always think i am not over him but by action even though my mind is still on him, i am sure one day i will wake up and realise, my god , i can play the piano so well now, i did not notice it even happening as my mind was in mourning or i took that job or moved to that city, although it looks like going through the motions, eventually, these will be the memories but they need time for your mind to recognize them as the new you and the old to fade. Even writing this, i am not sure i will suceed but thanks for the video.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

You will 100% succeed. Keep going and rock that piano 🤘

[@sandylola4558]

My greetings to u from egypt thanks from these precious advices and thanks for your clear voice to make non-english speakers understand u very well❤

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Thank you you Sandy. I am happy that the channel is helping you.

[@heavenlypnk]

It’s about to be 7 months since my breakup. I have unhealthy habits of thinking about what could have been. It makes it worse since I was the reason for the breakup. We spoke a little and were able to fix some things. Although I still don’t have the closure I need and still had so much to say 💔

[@lindawells9328]

I love your videos Nick . Your videos really do help me and others . Be blessed and safe. Miss . Linda ❤❤❤

[@HeliodromusScorpio]

A little update to my story so she reached out after 3 months naturaly i dont care anymore. Iam open for us to meet and talk but iam pretty much done,best of luck everyone work on yourself screw them they lost you.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Glad to hear you’re doing well buddy.

[@HeliodromusScorpio]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick Your channel gave me the right mindset to move forward, thanks man a lot!

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Appreciate it brother, keep fighting the good fight. 💪💪

[@chevy2583]

I love my ex, I forgive her, and set her free. I, however, CAN NOT forgive my ex's friend who humiliated me during the breakup.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

That’s the person you MUST forgive otherwise they live rent in your head, they have power over you and they win. The second you forgive them, you remove all their power.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Care to explain, Ophiuckus?

[@williamdietz6944]

AS ALWAYS NICK THANK YOU, YOU ARE SPOT ON, IT'S BEEN 8MONTHS AND THE PAIN IS HORRID. I LISTEN TO YOU AND SEE MYSELF ,SO AGAIN THANK YOU.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Thanks William. Keep going. Use the pain as fuel to get well buddy. You’re doing fine.

[@emanspi]

You are not alone same goes for me regrettably. 9 months and still in my head everyday.

[@erikjonsson6594]

I really liked your video. You made evertyhing so relatebla. I must say this made me think about one of my friend who said : "life is like a pot with all the good things, and sometimes you hafto empty that pot, but you always want to build a bigger pot to add the old good with the new." I dont know if it makes sense to the rest of you but i could relate.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Thanks Erik. I hope you’re well.

[@reesespieces450]

Sage advice. Thankyou. I'm crying 😢 it's 2 years since breakup and a lot happened but still love and miss him. Its so hard

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry to hear that. Have you sought therapy for yourself?

[@reesespieces450]

Yes I've tried to access free services but the waiting list is up to 1 year 😢 and I can't afford paying privately so I'm just struggling through each day 😢

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry to hear that. You can join the FB group if you’re not already there. facebook.com/groups/369216338064474/?ref=share_group_link

[@reesespieces450]

@TheLoveFix-Nick ok thanks Nick x

[@williamdietz6944]

I'm in il for 2yrs ..I THANK YOU NICK A THOUSAND TIMES GOD BLESS YOU

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

My pleasure. I hope you’re doing well.

[@spiroguru]

nice video nick as always!!!having rough time in my new job{i wanna find a way to change it}start lessons for drive licence for car{i have for motorcycle}continue to dance lessons...rock and roll..in my job when i am tired thinking about my ex..but most time thinking that i need to find a better job..and a better girlfriend than the previous..but job is priority..actually is good to be single..despite the society says..always try to improve but life sometimes gets very hard!!!!!greeetings from athens!!!p.s waiting for the calisto protocl and the dead psace remake!!survival horror games are amazing!!!

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Hey man. Thanks for that. Sorry to hear your new job isn’t to your liking. You want to find a way to change! That means finding a new version of you. That takes a lot of hard work and time buddy.

[@mitbhagvat3225]

Been a year for me now ..and it's still a struggle..tbh I'm doing fine then all of a sudden there is a missed call @ midnight on my birthday I know who it is...I know it's her hoovering but its put in a bad place..just listening to this video has perked me up and helped .Big up to Nick thanks Man !! Your videos get me through.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Glad you navigated that well mate. That’s real growth.

[@mitbhagvat3225]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick been tough bro I had that contact this early this morning and it hit me ...till I heard this video..I knew it was her even tho she private number me.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Every creation requires some form of destruction Nietzsche

[@mitbhagvat3225]

So I reached out and got knocked back via email she was asking about life etc saying she knew I had a new job etc asked to see my new car all normal chat ...then all of a sudden I mentioned maybe catching up then she said her boyfriend wouldnt like it ...I just wished her well.Left it at that but that hurt like hell.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry to hear that man but I hoped it taught you a lesson. Don’t be the go to person for the person you can’t go to.

[@ThmiiGii]

We are now 12 years later sinds we broke up in 2011 . Still think about her everyday and never found someone else who gave my a better feeling

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Buddy, if you’re still stuck after 12 years I highly recommend you seek therapy. I hope you feel better.

[@rwentfordable]

You've got to get therapy. This is way too long to be stuck.

[@jiggy9456]

This made me cry

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I hope you’re feeling better 😊

[@goldenguns2659]

I loved someone for 15 years after we broke up. We loved separate lives for all that time but we were both unhappy. We both still thought about each other. It’s hard but the answer was to break everything apart and be together. It isn’t easy (after 15 years and families) but it’s better than never setting things right.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry to hear that but i hope you’re finding your way to a better life.

[@Chris-fe6ku]

How did you do it?

[@goldenguns2659]

@@Chris-fe6ku It wasn’t easy. We made the decision to leave our marriages and be together. Divorce is no fun for anyone and I wouldn’t recommend it, but sometimes it’s the only way. I just wish we would have gotten it right in the first place.

[@Flufero23]

It’s been nine months since he monkey branched. NC forever for me. I am healing and focusing on my own life. I do have plateaus. Then I heal further. This is a journey, especially if the relationship was real and did have love. As long as I am going in the right direction, I am okay.👍🏼

[@felixthecat2786]

It's been 5 years and I'm genuinely over it. It's just that sometimes something will remind me of my ex and I realize that I still miss this person from time to time. I think it's normal to miss someone. I don't know why we can't just accept this. Life is about heartbreak amidst happiness. We need to accept that life consists of suffering and sorrow and that people come and go throughout it. We need to accept that maybe you will always miss a person, but that doesn't mean you can't move on and find personal happiness. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who I'm excited to spend the rest of my life with. I just watched a movie yesterday and there was something about the main character that reminded me of my ex. The shape of his face, his smile, his eyes and mannerisms. It just made me feel a little sad because I remembered that I miss that person. You don't have to forget about someone to "get over them." If anything, it should be the opposite. You should really feel your emotions, process your heartbreak and sorrow. Think about it from every angle and (dare I say) obsess over it. Once you've done all of this lamenting, you will be able to push forward knowing that you've considered everything. You've remembered every single aspect of this person and over analyzing everything about the relationship. Every society has mourning periods for the loss of a loved one because they understood how important it was to truly grieve. Sometimes grief happens in stages and it takes longer than a year. There's no magic timeline for when grief ends and happiness begins. The reality is that they are simultaneous. Grief and happiness coexist together. Maybe you will never get over the loss of a person. It's ok and wonderfully human of you. Most people dream of having something that special with another person; whether they loved you, cared about you, or missed you in return.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

They will forever be a chapter in our books, and maybe that’s your favourite chapter. But, it’s not the whole book. 😊

[@jennifermeza8861]

👌 so good!

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

😊😊😊

[@timcorley5558]

How to let go when I’m so obsessed with her? With another guy after 15 years of total love!! She’s a great person.

[@jorgeriera3337]

No she is not it's an illusion cause 15 years meant nothing to her it's a fantasy don't fall for it. Move on

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Tim, get busy with living buddy. Get out there and make new memories. Jorge. That’s not true. If it meant nothing, she wouldn’t have stayed for 15 years. It’s just the relationship stopped working for her and that’s okay.

[@timcorley5558]

How to get her back? She says she still loves me too. Other guy is easier choice

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Her actions tell you everything you need to know my friend. I know that’s direct but she’s showing you with her actions.

[@goldenguns2659]

Dr. Nancy Kalish. Read her research.

[@kristaevavold2779]

“I love you, so fuck off.” that statement hit.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

🤣🤣, a personal favourite of mine 😈😈

[@bradleylauterbach2415]

what if, after 2 years, I still cannot determine what contributed to the failure? It still haunts me, because even after 2 years she was the best person I've ever been in a relationship with. I've dated around but nothing has come close to that. She never gave a reason, and honestly I can't see any major red flags or fights/issues that could have made her come to that ultimate decision. I have an analytical mind so I really try to understand reasons for things, especially if it has to do with myself.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Maybe there is nothing to see other than she left? Buddy, most of the time the reasons are irrelevant. The end result is the same. They left! It’s savage she it’s horrible. Student or victim mindset. Which one do you think is going to get you through this?

[@goldenguns2659]

Please see my comment and see the research by Dr. Nancy Kalish. She’s the only one who’s done research on this specific but common phenomenon.

[@imjackm2174]

It’s been 3 years for me and I thought I was doing ok at moving on but in the past few weeks she’s been coming back into my head again and it’s really bothering me. I don’t know why this has happened to me all of a sudden and it’s starting to make me wonder if what I was doing was all a front and that I’ve never been over her and it makes me question if any work I’ve tried to put in to make myself better is now no longer worth it

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

That sounds like a breakup relapse. Have you ever considered therapy?

[@nickolazcarters]

I have to set her free because I love her.... You're right 💔 12:56

[@edwinmartinez5417]

She detached from me over (i assume) a couple months before she dumped me, what i can realize was because she was lonely, depressed; but said it was to work on herself essentially. (our relationship was 4 years long, in months leading up to our breakup, we’ve had different schedules and not seeing eachother wasn’t good for her codependency and anxious attachment, fearing i’d dump her because i had school work and gym and that she was weighing me down… I i could feel the second-hand depression taking a toll on me too. after two arguments it was clear to me she wanted out and she did it over text and ghosted me.) what she really missed was hanging with some old group of guy friends (one of them liked her) and a month later she gets in a relationship w that guy, and show off their relationship within weeks. i keep being told she downgraded but i know that girls care for emotions rather than looks, especially after sleeping with him. She moved on fast and seems so happy and after three months they seemed to have a disconnect because a lot of their social media posts were deleted (and she was bragging about independence), but they are now 4 months in and looking happy on twitter again. (age: me 22, her 20, rebound 23)

[@edwinmartinez5417]

Im trying my best to move on, but it still hurts a little. To completely ignore what she’s up to has been the hardest task i’ve ever come across in my life; but i’m improving on not being so curious. I’ve been in no contact since two weeks after the breakup and blocked her 2 months ago after i can clearly see her trying to make me jealous on twitter. I have given little to no reaction on social media after finding out they were official. Still healing and stuck between choosing solitude or talking talking to random girls, it’s my first time being a single adult. Thank you so much for your videos.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Sorry to hear this buddy. As she moved on, or had found another guy to fill the dark hole inside her known as codependency? Social media is just a highlight reel of bullshit. It’s not real life.

[@imissme8313]

@@edwinmartinez5417 update

[@lanasaleh8715]

Maaan i moss ur voice it has been along time since i visited the channel

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Thanks. I hope you’re just visiting and not back because of a breakup. 😊

[@kathy5847]

It's almost 3 years since he left me. I'm still not over him. And he won't talk to me.😢😢😢💔💔💔

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry to hear that. What do you is stopping you from moving forward?

[@jayrubio7299]

Sounds good, I’m going to behave and think like a dog 😅

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Sh*tting on the floor is great fun 😂

[@oolongmilktitty]

It’s been a year since the break up. I’ve had my happy moments since then but lately I have been sad and lonely. And only during those times I start to miss my ex. It also hurts that I see him while I’m out and about. And sometimes I’ll catch myself staring or my friends would tell me he’s staring. Is it bad that I want to talk to him?

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

It’s not bad you want to talk to him. That is simply how you feel and that is always okay. What will determine the outcome is how you respond to how you feel.

[@elizabethwywrot1276]

I still love them and miss them after 14 years being apart.

[@damianograziano4769]

hi… it’s 2 months now from my break up and yea it feels like shit. I keep crying and crying, thinking about all that was and that is now no more. For me the thing ultimately is that i don’t really wanna let go of all the memories and of the version of me that loves her , i can’t….it destroys me to think of erasing it, i can’t cope with the thought of really letting her go…so i guess that for me it’d be really hard, even more than it is already, to really move on… :(

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry. That sounds rough and heartbreaking. Do you have the means to go to therapy?

[@damianograziano4769]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick i guess so

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Do it and stick to it.

[@vast6432]

Honestly brother this whole time I've been trying to move on and I can't and I really came to the conclusion that love really isn't for me man I've been heartbroken for 3 years now and I'm barely building myself back up but even then I still think about her alot but don't talk about her much everytime I connect with someone new maybe flirt a little I stop cuz deep down inside I know I still love her and I can't just use someone to forget about her it's complety selfish idk what to do

[@vast6432]

But at the same time I guess this is the way to be I won't be hurt ever again by someone new after connecting with then maybe I was meant to be alone I always dreamed of a future with someone but yk I prolly wouldn't be a good person to have a future with so really I think this is for the better

[@Gen1Demmi]

One year today 🥲

[@x_xdiox_x]

Im just empty inside me and she found someone eles that in my class and my heart feel like it gone :(

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

That’s savage buddy. Do your best to work on yourself, level up, do new things, make new friends and get on your purpose. I promise you will feel better.

[@outroseok]

one year for me, I've been hurting a lot lately. I guess it's bc the 1 year anniversary of our breakup is coming in a couple weeks. /:

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I hope you’re feeling better today.

[@kkdarksun8257]

I usually never ask for help and it's been a year and 2 months since I've been with her. I tried my best to forget about her by talking to other girls and editing etc. I sort of forget it but i break down every week or so suddenly. I'm trying my best to forget about her. I will be unfollowing her on socials and removing her number from my WhatsApp, I really hope it'll help. Thank you for your efforts ❤️

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

You can’t forget about her, that’s impossible. You can work on you and yourself love and worth. Focus on that and the pain will go away over time So, less time trying to forget her and more time loving yourself.

[@kkdarksun8257]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick I actually thought i wouldn't get a reply back. You have my respect and subscription. Thank you for your hell and dedication this really opened my eyes :)

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I appreciate it. Thank you. I do my best to reply. I’ve been when you are and sometimes we just need a voice in the dark to point us in the right direction. You’re doing just fine.

[@lestermatos2989]

Today is the one year anniversary of him breaking up with me and TOMORROW IS MY ACTUAL BDAY and yes I am wondering if he is thinking of me or what today is and WHAT TOMORROW IS….

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Lester, firstly happy birthday. Secondly, f*ck what he thinks. Go enjoy your birthday and spoil yourself.

[@lestermatos2989]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick thank you ehehe yes I have been doing that for sure!

[@blastprosful]

After 18 months im over it but it has changed me

[@toddavigliano1969]

Everything you said is so true I’m fighting my ass off. I’m hitting the gym every night hard I’m doing everything I literally can and I keep on coming back to the beginning of this break up. I’m trying to talk to girls I’m not having much luck but I’m still out here, I’m traveling I really have no real friends which I think is a very big part of being or I should say feeling alone man I’m on edge truly, I don’t know how to fix myself

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Stay strong brother.

[@CC-br9qg]

hey.. i am in the same exact boat as you, down to the traveling a lot as well and having no real friends. i am 23 and i haven't met anyone since my ex boyfriend in the year since he dumped me. i don't even feel like i have the bandwidth to deal with the stress of potentially meeting someone again. i still have flashbacks. i think the friends piece is really what hurts us more than the breakup at one year out. with social support we likely would be feeling a lot better by this time. i don't have any advice, as i feel on the edge as well. giving you a big hug.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Go meet yourself. That is what is missing. Go start new hobbies and volunteer. That’s how you can make new friends.

[@donshifty]

Does no contact work if i cheated before and hurt her after the break up once verbally? After i hurt her verbally, she blocked me on almost everything but snapchat, and she sent me a text 5 days later on my bday saying “I just wanted to take time out to wish you a happy birthday. You’re not my enemy. & Although things are not how we expected them to be… I still want to make sure your enjoying yourself. You’re only 23 once! God bless.” but blocked me again afterwards but continues to keep me on snapchat??? even after the initial breakup she brought me an expensive hoodie for my bday and wrote a letter…i said the bad stuff after that

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Dude, this will be brutal. If you cheated, she was right to walk away man. As for no contact, the intention isn’t to get your ex back, it’s get you back and work on your shit.

[@donshifty]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick so most likely, in your opinion, i’m done?

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Let me ask you this. If she cheated on you, would you ever trust her or take her back?

[@donshifty]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick personally no, but before i said the hurtful things she said i can have her back in the future…. i was caught back in may and we stayed together until oct 8 where she got the strength to walk away

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Then buddy, you have your answer. Actions never lie and words don’t mean shit. Her actions are telling you everything you need to know man. My advice is to take the L and dig deep to why you felt the need to cheat. That’s an internal thing, not external. You got caught my friend. Time to take responsibility.

[@satriani19751]

after divorce its been 7 years i am not able to move on. my children keep me stuck

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Tamas, what do you feel is holding you back?

[@satriani19751]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick the information about her and her life that I am forced to face and know bcs I am in contact with them.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

The cure for that my friend is to have good things going on in your life. What are you doing to facilitate that?

[@satriani19751]

@@TheLoveFix-Nick @TheLoveFix-Nick I have a couple of things .... I have a garden, a carpenter workshop, I run, I go to sauna. but I keep thinking about what she is doing bcs I constantly get info from her through my children. so i am not able to liberate my mind from her life. And I lost my confidence and trust in women so I dont date. and I feel a littke lonely and isokated especially knowing that she is dating. her dating is the hardest to get over on mind.

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

Have you considered therapy?

[@Thepixiebella]

I’m a wreck

[@TheLoveFix-Nick]

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you’re feeling a little bit better today 😊

[@nickolazcarters]

Not you're not. You're just a human like everybody else

[@DancehallDivasRealityShow]

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