I Think We Need to Let the Idea of RETIREMENT Die…So We Can Live.

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Timothy Ward

Timothy Ward

Ай бұрын

Let's be honest, most of us are never going to retire. So why are we letting the idea of retirement dictate how we live our lives and the decisions we make?
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@geo525252
@geo525252 Ай бұрын
I'm 72. My advice. Ease into it. Start downsizing early. Get your debt down, way down. Debt is what will bury you.
@mildred3378
@mildred3378 Ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%
@victoriasage7
@victoriasage7 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom
@hawkeye5829
@hawkeye5829 Ай бұрын
I agree. Live below your means, save money, pay off any debt. Do not go into retirement with debt.
@ireneturner5482
@ireneturner5482 Ай бұрын
That’s my mission!!
@George-qk6hg
@George-qk6hg Ай бұрын
Credit Cards, unpaid mortgages will kill you slowly as you age. You cannot find a job easily at 60 plus 70 plus. You are correct that you wake without knowing what could happen each day. That Alcoholics anonymous just for today is for people who wanted to stop drinking and because looking at sobriety for another 30 or 40 years 8s such a tall order this slogan just for today was made. 401 k is important because no matter what you do you are going to get older and will need to go to an old age home and money is needed. Just because one saves money doesn't mean that one cannot enjoy life in 50s,60s etc. It's just you need to put aside some money and grow it in.markets,silver,gold which ever. All this enjoy today why save is alright for the moment but will haunt you later.
@jimb3093
@jimb3093 Ай бұрын
I am fortunate to be US Army retired. I did 23 years and retired in 2015. Single, no kids. I was working a job that had 12-hour shifts, paid well. It was a beautiful day, I was looking out the window at work and asked myself, "Jim, what are you doing?" I crunched the numbers with my pension and investment income and realized I can live comfortably on it. So, I quit! I am now living!! Travel and doing what I want. The heck with impressing the world and this "high value man" crap. I load up my pick-up truck and go. I am 51 and in great health. Let's do it now while we can!
@user-ue2ut8sw5s
@user-ue2ut8sw5s Ай бұрын
What rank did you retire in?
@commuterbranchline8132
@commuterbranchline8132 Ай бұрын
Well done that veteran!
@jimb3093
@jimb3093 Ай бұрын
@@user-ue2ut8sw5s I retired as a Captain. Reason being I was enlisted, then a Staff Sergeant promotable , then a Warrant Officer CW2, then direct commissioned. I was maxed out for Captain pay haha! The Army considers your previous enlisted time and puts you in a higher pay bracket.
@tdgdbs1
@tdgdbs1 Ай бұрын
30 years Army Nurse Corps, still work but on my own terms.
@animal79thecat
@animal79thecat Ай бұрын
@@user-ue2ut8sw5s Cook 😄
@Expat-happy-hour
@Expat-happy-hour Ай бұрын
I retired a few months ago at 63.5 years old. I worked at a large Telecom company for 20 years and and have a small pension from it. I also collect Social security. I knew it would not be enough to continue my lifestyle, so I sold my house, new truck, motorcycle , boat. All of these things were just becoming a financial burden. Now I moved with my wife to the coast of Ecuador. I bought a peice of land and am building a house, all cash. That is how I got out of the rat race.
@davidsebastianelli1326
@davidsebastianelli1326 Ай бұрын
I too practiced geographic arbitrage by retiring in my late 50's and moving to Mexico. Best decision I've ever made for myself. I started collecting my SS at 62 and have no need to touch my savings. I am able to live like a Rey (King) near a few good surfing beaches on hundreds of dollars less than half of my SS and continue to quickly build my savings with whats left. I am saving much more in retirement than I was able to working full time in the US! It really comes down to quality of life.... y mi vida es buena... Buena suerte!
@denisestarr2314
@denisestarr2314 Ай бұрын
Great , thats what i did , dept free , retireing in 2 years . Enjoy life .
@adriennesmith2133
@adriennesmith2133 Ай бұрын
Good for you!!! God bless.
@charleshurstreinvention3959
@charleshurstreinvention3959 Ай бұрын
56 and just came from Cuenca---putting in for visa there in a year. I contract 20% of my life in the medical field but that i going to be gone in a year or two as well. Plan to settle in Ecuador as well. People don't get it--it can be done with a little liquid courage
@toddmaek5436
@toddmaek5436 26 күн бұрын
BOOM!!!!!
@joannapatterson4625
@joannapatterson4625 Ай бұрын
You don’t need a million dollars for retirement. That’s a major false narrative that keeps more people chained to working much longer. The key is to embrace living on less.
@doctorx1924
@doctorx1924 Ай бұрын
I read an article the other day where this financial advisor said that the people who saved up a million for retirement end up not even using all the money because they die before they can use it up. He was saying most of the time they only get up to using 200-300k of it and then pass away.
@joannapatterson4625
@joannapatterson4625 Ай бұрын
@@doctorx1924yep. If you have a mix of various ETFs and stocks, you’ll be good. Compound interest.
@mildred3378
@mildred3378 Ай бұрын
That's so true!
@punisher6659
@punisher6659 Ай бұрын
Better to have more than enough money than not enough later.
@mortonvrose
@mortonvrose Ай бұрын
Absolutely. Simple living. Growing your own stuff, having tons of fun und living healthy and don't give a sh.. about the dysfunctional system. I'm 73.
@jeannettasmith2825
@jeannettasmith2825 Ай бұрын
One of the biggest concerns for folks who want to ditch the corporate hamster wheel is health insurance, and in my humble opinion, tying health insurance to full-time employment is a major contributor to holding us hostage.
@skittles2055
@skittles2055 Ай бұрын
👍
@joannabusinessaccount7293
@joannabusinessaccount7293 Ай бұрын
The other shackle is the 30 year mortgage.
@damonmelendez856
@damonmelendez856 Ай бұрын
@@joannabusinessaccount7293you misspelled ‘Shekel’
@joannabusinessaccount7293
@joannabusinessaccount7293 Ай бұрын
@@damonmelendez856 Brought to you by American Spelling Bee in Washington.
@trdriver430
@trdriver430 Ай бұрын
100%
@ThatAppalachian
@ThatAppalachian Ай бұрын
27. Pulled mine, took the hit. Bought land, cabin that’s paid for. 100% off the grid. No bills. That’s rich.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Sounds awesome!
@sethpawlik
@sethpawlik 27 күн бұрын
Off grid would probably suck.
@ThatAppalachian
@ThatAppalachian 27 күн бұрын
@@sethpawlik It really doesn’t. We have solar electricity, hot running water, wood heat, air conditioning, fridge, freezer. Everything a “traditional” home has only far more affordable and sustainable. My wife doesn’t have to work ever again, and I don’t have to work 40 hours a week.
@spatty2589
@spatty2589 24 күн бұрын
Thank goodness you had something saved to cash in.
@yourmamalikesmacncheese
@yourmamalikesmacncheese 23 күн бұрын
Congratulations. To each their own I say. Obviously you can imagine not. Everyone wants to live off grid. For a variety of reasons living off grid doesn’t represent freedom to most people. Most people live within the city or town. Because they have a job or they want to be around people, or they like going to the grocery store and some of the other convenience of being in town. Some people enjoy their job and the fulfillment that comes with it worthwhile. Not everyone is trying to retire immediately.
@scottiemo7
@scottiemo7 Ай бұрын
I've said it once, and I'll say it again--The world is a better place with you in it. 💜
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Wow! You just made my morning! 😁 THANK YOU!
@churchofpos2279
@churchofpos2279 Ай бұрын
I had 2 co workers that insisted that they were going to work until they were 65, so they could get full Social Security benefits. Both of them died . One died at 63 and the other 4 months after turning 65. Me? I took retirement at 62. I live as a low income person, but it doesn't feel like it. I get to travel, when I want to., go to festivals, concerts, and indulge in my hobbies.
@DeborahRose2885
@DeborahRose2885 Ай бұрын
You are blessed 😊
@genossinwaabooz4373
@genossinwaabooz4373 Ай бұрын
I'm 54 but got hit with sudden disability 7 years ago. Homeless and last couple years found out the deal with ssi etc = what's called a System Fail. You don't have occasion to know all these things up front, so if nobody tells you... I've still managed, barely, but managed to get into a camper with my partner and cat, and though it shouldn't be this hard, it's still worth it to have some kind of agency to figure out how to get the best health & options in spite of everything else. ❤
@denisestarr2314
@denisestarr2314 Ай бұрын
Me too
@vapeking466
@vapeking466 Ай бұрын
I'm disabled/retired at age 51. The stress and wear and tear was rough on me when working. Plus all the negative media they constantly push makes many folks lose hope. When I try to find a partner they almost always judge me as soon as they here retired at 51. If I were broke that's one thing but I'm not. Perhaps we all will need to be more flexible in the future. 🤔🙏
@TheFriendlyPsychopath.
@TheFriendlyPsychopath. Ай бұрын
I took retirement at 28.
@sandral.f.h.4041
@sandral.f.h.4041 Ай бұрын
"I want to fund my lifestyle until I don't have a life to style." I love it! I am using that one.
@albaemagana
@albaemagana Ай бұрын
My mom worked so hard to raise 6 kids on her own. When the youngest turned 18 I asked her to retire. She stayed out of debt so she was able to retire in her early 50s. She lives stress free. She's involved in missionary work with her church. We all pitch in when she wants to travel. I'm so happy to see my mom stress free. Thank you Jesus. I hope to take her to Machu Picchu Peru 🇵🇪 next year. 🙏. Enjoying you "Golden Years" is an American to enslave us in the corporate world. How about we enjoy 😉 life while we are young & healthy. Lets enjoy & appreciate the fact that we are alive & have food.
@lovecatchingblessings7388
@lovecatchingblessings7388 Ай бұрын
If many Embraced this way of life... there would be so many happier people...with lower blood pressure and stress!
@casioplayer5815
@casioplayer5815 Ай бұрын
So true 💪🏿
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@GemegeGevurah
@GemegeGevurah Ай бұрын
But, The People Want Too Control Everybody’s Lives. (Through Technology, AI, Etc.) They’re Too Busy Destroying The Land, So, That It Isn’t Resourceful, So, One Cannot Survive Living Off The Land. And, Those People, Have To Be ❌ Out, So, That This World Does Prosper, Gets Better, If People Don’t Care To Protect It, At All Costs, From These Evil People, Who You Allow To Destroy It, Then, It’s Going To Be, Not Livable.
@Blueeyedpisces
@Blueeyedpisces Ай бұрын
And fewer Billionaires! Which we don’t need anyway! Imagine a world where being excessively wealthy was…. Irrelevant!
@Iquey
@Iquey Ай бұрын
Health is wealth! And your job will use you up till you're dust. Always protect your health and sanity.
@GLADIATOR-tz7yt
@GLADIATOR-tz7yt 12 күн бұрын
My biggest concern is retiring into a bear market. With $500k in savings, I'm afraid that if my portfolio returns are low, a long retirement won't be possible. My fund could deplete from expenses faster than it can recover with returns
@MikeDavis-zg2ud
@MikeDavis-zg2ud 12 күн бұрын
I'm almost ready to retire, and having a financial advisor has been incredibly beneficial. Since I started investing later in life, I couldn't rely solely on compound interest from index funds. Nonetheless, I've managed to earn more than some long term investors. I'll be retiring with at least $5 million
@GLADIATOR-tz7yt
@GLADIATOR-tz7yt 12 күн бұрын
Your advisor must be excellent. How can I get in touch with them? I'm worried about my retirement portfolio and could really use some guidance.
@MikeDavis-zg2ud
@MikeDavis-zg2ud 12 күн бұрын
I generally avoid giving specific recommendations since everyone's situation is different, but I've worked with Emily Ava Milligan for 7 years and attest to her great service. see if she meets your criteria
@GLADIATOR-tz7yt
@GLADIATOR-tz7yt 12 күн бұрын
I looked up her name online and found her page. I emailed and made enquiries. Thanks for the help
@BryanKale777
@BryanKale777 Ай бұрын
Bro I am leaving Monday on a 4-month trip all the way up to yosemite. I got a motorhome and my truck and I'm finally retiring at 50
@chelseamurray1678
@chelseamurray1678 Ай бұрын
Enjoy it!
@genossinwaabooz4373
@genossinwaabooz4373 Ай бұрын
Happy trails to you!!!! Had I known what it's like to travel, sooner...well, it's just something I now must continue to do, one way or the other.
@Kevin-ys7sj
@Kevin-ys7sj Ай бұрын
I've. Even RV ing for years and will be doing the same ASAP Leaving on my terms, not societies! Out of debt, on a roll!
@VexedGenX
@VexedGenX Ай бұрын
I love this for you. Be safe and have fun.
@tiatia7774
@tiatia7774 Ай бұрын
Goals! Enjoy 😊
@MegaBcaudle
@MegaBcaudle Ай бұрын
I am retired, but as a 67 year old woman, I'm right with you! Who knows what tomorrow looks like? I'm okay living on less and enjoying my life NOW. When I finally said goodbye to my job I felt free. I may work again, still trips I want to take, but it will be on my terms and for goals towards what I want in life. As the saying goes, may you live until you die!
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 Ай бұрын
Indeed😊
@mosimosi630
@mosimosi630 Ай бұрын
I feel like I’m wasting my good years I’m 45 have been working for 27 years I can’t do it anymore
@rwdchannel2901
@rwdchannel2901 Ай бұрын
Most Boomers want young people to be working 12 hour days because they're worried about their social security drying up before they die. After they die they could care less if social security is gone and the people who worked 12 hours a day will have to work 12 hours a day until they die.
@mosimosi630
@mosimosi630 Ай бұрын
@@rwdchannel2901 thanks for the encouraging words I have given myself 2 years because I have a 10th grader left at home I don’t own a house couldn’t afford it I just want to live because right now I’m just a robot I also hate my office job no matter how much I exercise the weight never comes off because I spend too much time sitting I just can’t do it anymore
@mz7691
@mz7691 Ай бұрын
​@@mosimosi630I feel that!
@thehedgerow
@thehedgerow Ай бұрын
Life is like a large pizza and work should only be a slice! My dad is 75 been retired. Can't travel or enjoy life because he can't afford it, medication is too high etc. My aunt is 74 and retired, remarried and they can't afford to travel. She has a bad back and can't get around too good. They have worked so hard in their lives to prepare for retirement for what???? Neither one can really enjoy it. I am 52 divorced with no retirement. But I work my dream job as a landscaper and get paid to play in the dirt!!! They do not offer benefits and I am ok with that. You have to live for the moment because it will go by so fast!!! Live now while you are healthy! Get outside, get some sun on your skin and dirt in your nails. Don't put chemicals on your body or eat junk. Enjoy every moment and live within your means. Like Tim said, kill your bills so you can travel more!! Cheers from Kansas!!
@thehedgerow
@thehedgerow Ай бұрын
@@rwdchannel2901 living by the beach is a dream! So you are blessed to have that when most travel just to see the beach.
@rwdchannel2901
@rwdchannel2901 Ай бұрын
@@thehedgerow My grandparents moved from Iola, Kansas to Ventura County, California in 1950. I was born here and have been spoiled by the 55F-85F weather. After having been in the US Army and traveling around the USA and Europe, I moved back to Ventura because the weather, bugs, and environment is really bad out there compared to Ventura County, California. I'm just far enough away from LA to not have to deal with that crazy environment. If you're looking at moving you should look at the area from Santa Barbara to Ventura in California. You can probably find a private room near the beach for $750 a month. That room will probably include internet and other utilities for free. It's not as expensive as people claim on the internet. I've looked into moving, but when I see I have to pay $600-$800+utilities in other states, where I have to use AC and a heater all the time, it's not worth the hassle because I'll be paying more money to live in a worse environment.
@songstresslight4036
@songstresslight4036 Ай бұрын
You said it the key here is not to put those chemicals in your body as you stated I’m 71. I play volleyball once a week. I play Pickleball once a week. I live weights and I’m a pure healthy eater. I outrun 30 years it’s all about quality of life, not quantity.
@redruby747
@redruby747 Ай бұрын
I agree esp in usa
@thehedgerow
@thehedgerow Ай бұрын
@@songstresslight4036 amen to that!!
@laneymae
@laneymae Ай бұрын
People don't work till they die, they work until they are disabled. We think of retirement as a golden age of freedom but its actually a moving target of when we will be too broken to move or function. There is a great book about retiring called die with zero that talks about how working till you die is not the dream. its based on the value of the dollar and how to make life meaningful.
@genossinwaabooz4373
@genossinwaabooz4373 Ай бұрын
Yep, I went from peak very athletic health, at age 47, to blindsided by disability. Found out the system fails in those regards as well. You cannot always prevent or be forewarned of those things. With that in mind, there's so much one can do. Until I'm dead. Until then, I'll figure it out.
@BlackButterfly78
@BlackButterfly78 Ай бұрын
Stress and anxiety hits so hard these days that it effects your health to the point where you can't stay on these jobs until retirement. These days you have to walk away and choose your sanity.
@shereenlovelace6217
@shereenlovelace6217 Ай бұрын
Amen! ❤
@trdriver430
@trdriver430 Ай бұрын
Sooo true. Thank you
@melissaguevara724
@melissaguevara724 Ай бұрын
Yes!
@chrisc1011
@chrisc1011 Ай бұрын
Amen to that!
@griso107
@griso107 Ай бұрын
Love this 👊
@taylorhope.freedom
@taylorhope.freedom Ай бұрын
I am soon 47 years old, on governmental disability benefits, homeless in Norway, but my life has never been better, i live alone in the forest and my mental health has become better due to not worry about work, angry boss and so on. Life alone is good
@hAckAbleMe
@hAckAbleMe Ай бұрын
I'd love to visit the forests of Norway. That's a better place to be than any city.
@destroyraiden
@destroyraiden Ай бұрын
Don't they have a social safety net? Isn't Norway one of those countries that give free safe housing? Not saying you're lying but I heard many other countries have ways to avoid homeless being so.
@henna7216
@henna7216 Ай бұрын
@@destroyraiden There is no free housing. It's more complicated than that. I live in Finland where homelessness has practically been eradicated but housing is not free. There are benefits but they are low, and if you have any health issues needing specific diet (for myself carnivore) the benefits are not really enough to live off. Not being able to work due to disability means living in poverty as cost of living can be quite high.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Glad to hear your life is good despite the setbacks!
@destroyraiden
@destroyraiden Ай бұрын
@@henna7216 Thanks for clarifying.
@Nick2007
@Nick2007 Ай бұрын
I've been saying for a very long time, retirement is a scam.
@Direct.injection212
@Direct.injection212 Ай бұрын
True. Social Security is being run as a pyramid scheme.
@Andygb78
@Andygb78 Ай бұрын
Society is a scam.
@jackieboy1593
@jackieboy1593 Ай бұрын
I retired at 36, it's def not a scam. Waiting for traditional retirement is a scam.
@user-kx1sl8wd1s
@user-kx1sl8wd1s Ай бұрын
How so?
@lobiaking8318
@lobiaking8318 Ай бұрын
Marriage is a bigger scam in the us
@frankprit3320
@frankprit3320 Ай бұрын
as a Gen-Xr i learned the "hard way" , that the old system doesn't work anymore. I tried my best to achieve the same lifestyle that my boomer parents did, but it just wasn't going to happen, so i had to look for an alternate way of living that gave me happiness and I found it. best wishes.
@JKNitro-vt5qs
@JKNitro-vt5qs Ай бұрын
i'm gen x too. what did you end up doing?
@frankprit3320
@frankprit3320 Ай бұрын
@@JKNitro-vt5qs work towards becoming as self-sufficient as possible. the old system is not there for our generation. its a scam.
@JKNitro-vt5qs
@JKNitro-vt5qs Ай бұрын
@@frankprit3320 i even had my own business for 10 years. while it was better because i wasn't working 50-60hrs a week and didn't work weekends and such it still has a ton of hardships so even that doesn't work. you barely make enough to make ends meet so it's practically impossible to save for "retirement"....so you are forced back into the regular job market and we all know how bad that is. i would be fine to work 32-40hrs a week but every job wants you to work 50 or even 60hrs a week and most all of them want you to work weekends, holidays, etc. etc...i'm almost 50 years old. i've done my time in that crap working swing shift or whatever. i deserve to be off work on a holiday and on weekends. that's what they are designed for. we aren't supposed to be working on those days. it's like there's not even any common sense anymore. it's just work work work until you die. that's what society wants from men.
@cartoonbnw660
@cartoonbnw660 7 күн бұрын
@@frankprit3320 I've been putting some thoughts lately and the end game is just owning anything has a direct impact on yourself. Woke up at 24, not having much accomplished, finished college but nothing...
@Gary-sx5ox
@Gary-sx5ox 26 күн бұрын
I’m 71 and retired for seven years. I’ve learned that as a responsible dad and husband I failed to learn what it’s like to have fun. The very definition of fun is strange to a lot of men. Redefining this word is step one. First, you need to recognize what makes you happy. You can then, define fun. Taking care of yourself is the first thing in having fun. Don’t be fooled. Your health will dictate the quality of your death, not the quality of your life. My dad, for example, was sick for about eight weeks before he died because he was healthy. People that don’t take care of themselves takes years to die. Your identity will be redefined. For example: I hang around with 18 guys who have become good friends. Not one of these guys, including me, could care less what you did for a living and how much money you have. Whatever you did before retirement is not important at all. It’s time for a redefinition of yourself.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard 26 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed your comment. You are so relight about redefining fun. I’d never really thought about it like that. Your friend group sounds amazing!
@awakenotwoke2643
@awakenotwoke2643 13 күн бұрын
Well put.
@pr3tty0bnoxious35
@pr3tty0bnoxious35 Ай бұрын
truth be told, who's to say you'll even be alive in your 50s and 60s cant predict the future so why worry about retiring
@Childfree_Jerra
@Childfree_Jerra Ай бұрын
Facts💯
@marietaylor5174
@marietaylor5174 Ай бұрын
True! But if one gets to that age with no money, I cannot imagine how difficult live would be.
@abebluestein1567
@abebluestein1567 Ай бұрын
I don't wanna be a Debbie downer, but most people in the United States live past 80. If you live here, you have over a 90% chance to be alive in your 60s. You should live a life that you can be happy with today, but maybe set a little aside for future you if you can. They'll thank you.
@paulfitness5157
@paulfitness5157 Ай бұрын
I'm 46 and take 3 holidays a year ,I like my job ,save for the future so all good.I have left jobs I have hated and spent time not working where I did a lot if drinking. I need discipline and knowing I am making money makes me happy
@bazodee2
@bazodee2 Ай бұрын
​@@abebluestein1567life expectancy in the states is below 80 so half the ppl will never see that age.
@rickynunez3109
@rickynunez3109 Ай бұрын
I did notice that some people will go to work to avoid reflecting about their life. So I think staying busy can be helpful, but at the same time we do need to reflect and know what we want out of life.
@eternalabundance39
@eternalabundance39 Ай бұрын
So true thank you
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Great point Ricky!
@Gemisnotmyname
@Gemisnotmyname Ай бұрын
This is true.. i go to work to avoid how socialy empty it is outside of work
@eternalabundance39
@eternalabundance39 Ай бұрын
@@Gemisnotmyname I know a woman that works at a store I frequent. She has been frustrated in her job but says all her social life is there. Think that can be common.
@WTHenry2023
@WTHenry2023 Ай бұрын
The thing that happens is that many of us have a rich social life and good friends when we are young because we are paired with people our own age with many similar interests and outlooks. It is very easy to make friends in this scenario. Then people start dating and the friendships get more challenging. Then we get out of school (whether it is high school or college) and our age group is "scattered to the wind" and we are working with people 22-70. Then our friends get married and move. Most friendships quickly fade away at this point. It is very difficult to make friendships at this point. Now, most of our social interaction is through work and those interactions/friendships are fleeting. The older we get, the more alone we are in your thoughts, and for many the past experiences can be overwhelming to deal with. Thus many seek relief in work. It is good that we stay productive when thoughts are bogging us down rather than going to the "bottle"; however, as you state, it is ideal to reflect on our lives, deal with our emotional baggage, and seek what gives us joy. Have a great day and God Bless.
@johnmendoza5907
@johnmendoza5907 Ай бұрын
I'm digging how you just walk in the videos like a badass. Always dropping the knowledge. We love you, Timmy.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Love you too Wolf!
@johnmendoza5907
@johnmendoza5907 Ай бұрын
@TimothyWard hey thanks for saying that Timmy💯❤️
@waynespence9122
@waynespence9122 Ай бұрын
The Japanese Island of Okinawa has the longest life expectancy, and they do not have a concept of retirement, as you get older you do an easier job.
@insearchofveracity2304
@insearchofveracity2304 Ай бұрын
I just read about that. Okinawa was one of the 5 Blue Zone regions with highest life expectancy. It’s an awesome book!
@waynespence9122
@waynespence9122 Ай бұрын
@@insearchofveracity2304 IKigai?
@insearchofveracity2304
@insearchofveracity2304 Ай бұрын
@@waynespence9122 been a little while since I read the book. That word is reference to “why I wake up each morning..” correct? Ha
@waynespence9122
@waynespence9122 Ай бұрын
@insearchofveracity2304 you could say that, however a more accurate translation would be "what's my purpose"
@insearchofveracity2304
@insearchofveracity2304 Ай бұрын
@@waynespence9122 that’s right. They phrased it 2 or 3 ways in the book, but that was the cardinal point!
@bohemianjoy7769
@bohemianjoy7769 Ай бұрын
Bravo! Just been laid off at 50 - had pension and 401k. It’s all gone now.
@theshapeexists
@theshapeexists Ай бұрын
How is your 401k gone? That's yours, not your former employers.
@MT-yx5cu
@MT-yx5cu Ай бұрын
​@@theshapeexistsright
@xreediculousx
@xreediculousx Ай бұрын
were you not vested in your pension?
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry 😞 to hear that and wishing you all the best in life
@michaelb.8953
@michaelb.8953 Ай бұрын
@@theshapeexists I'm guessing since he's laid off he didn't have any other money set aside and he cashed out his 401k and took the penalty hit for doing so.
@bigchief2331
@bigchief2331 Ай бұрын
I am 31 and already feel that life is barely worth living. Imagine how the world will be in another 50 years. I've never had a real job and I never will. I scrape by earning a very low income doing my own thing, as i'd rather have free time and retain my autonomy. I refuse to conform to this wage slave rat race. Life is hard for everyone and most of the time it feels utterly pointless and painfully lonely. I only really live for food, to run and to hike. That's it.
@redruby747
@redruby747 Ай бұрын
Life sucks
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Ай бұрын
@@redruby747why the negativity? In the overall big picture life is awesome and amazing and one of the most precious gifts 🎁 in the entire universe.
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Ай бұрын
You might needs to try to change your living situation and scenery to a more positive environment like I’m trying to do. Wishing you all the best in life 😊
@FixIt1975
@FixIt1975 Ай бұрын
Try to get yourself some property, even if it's only land, that's yours. Built a little dinky house or put a trailer on it. Then enjoy your 30s. Take this from an older fart
@justpg623
@justpg623 Ай бұрын
You’re filled with negative emotion, thats the main issue that contributed to the lens you see life out of now
@baldeagle4710
@baldeagle4710 Ай бұрын
I have health problems so I may not even live past 50. I’m trying to enjoy every day that I can. I’ve been really fortunate to have lots of great things happen lately. You’ve gotta cherish each day you have
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Hang in there, my friend. Keep fighting and keep enjoying life. You are in my prayers 🙏🏾
@xtopher960
@xtopher960 Ай бұрын
What about the desire to make heaven in the afterlife?
@xtopher960
@xtopher960 Ай бұрын
@@TimothyWard I'm an atheist . Not interested in heaven . I know the now is all I have. I'm very scared of being dragged into heaven even though on merit.... Existing for ever just singing praises to a master is frightening .
@genossinwaabooz4373
@genossinwaabooz4373 Ай бұрын
​@@xtopher960 Atheist also. Not to fret, heaven comes from Egyption concept of afterlife process where, once past having heart weighed by Truth, you get to pass onto next journey that can lead to Aaru, a land of reeds, where the gods also reside, everyone together eating & enjoying the same things. So, I find that charming, as a story.
@elikelly4948
@elikelly4948 Ай бұрын
I'm 42, and a couple of months ago my 45 year old brother dropped dead of unknown causes while playing video games with his friend. It really made me think about how many years I might ACTUALLY have left. I'm looking more and more at alternative ways to live. We aren't guaranteed tomorrow. :(
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Ай бұрын
I’m really sorry 😞 about your older brother and hope he is resting in peace ☮️
@GodofWarChuka
@GodofWarChuka Ай бұрын
Damn that sucks. I’m 52 now and game everyday. I could die playing my games. Their fun, but can bring stress.
@Gingerspicelife
@Gingerspicelife Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. My husband collapsed a little over a year ago while sitting at his desk working and was just gone. He was only 52. I’ll never get over it. It changes your perspective on life and we really don’t know what tomorrow will bring
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
So sorry to hear about your brother. My prayers go out to you and your family.
@elikelly4948
@elikelly4948 Ай бұрын
@@TimothyWard Thank you.
@marconion
@marconion Ай бұрын
First of all i'm Canadian. Two years ago at the age of 55 i decided to put together my 10 year work/retirement plan. I have worked for the last 37 years (never been unemployed) and have always made less than 40K per year. The last 3 years i have worked in the food service industry and in the past have worked in retail for 15 years, 12 years in hotel hospitality and 7 years in senior care. The hustle culture of working 50-60 hours per week is no longer appealing to me. I'm done chasing money. Life is too short, so i came up with the plan of working until i'm at least 65 years of age by working 3 days a week x 8hrs/day (Wednesday, Thursday & Friday). I'm on year two of this plan and loving it. I no longer let work consume my life. I'm done being a full time corporate/wage slave. I'm enjoying my extra free time while i still have my health and while also keeping a low taxable footprint. Money is not everything!
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
I love this comment! Thank you for sharing your story. This is exactly what I’m talking about. Figuring out for yourself how you want to live and coming up with a plan that works for you now and in the future. You are a rockstar, my friend!
@garethwilliams6474
@garethwilliams6474 Ай бұрын
I'm attempting to transition to this now. How do you find a job that allows your work days and hours please. I'm struggling to find matching daily hours. Thanks
@kenyastephens4576
@kenyastephens4576 Ай бұрын
I started 40hr/5 days then went to 30 hr/ 3 days now debt free working 20hr/2 days. create the life you want to live!
@marconion
@marconion Ай бұрын
@@garethwilliams6474 You could say i was at the right place at the right time. My employer gave me the option of choosing the amount of hours and which days that worked best for me. I know not every employer is that flexible. Good luck in you search.
@deebee8825
@deebee8825 26 күн бұрын
​@@garethwilliams6474What hours and days are you wanting to work?
@songstresslight4036
@songstresslight4036 Ай бұрын
Balance, it’s called balance As Les Brown says”it’s better to be prepared and nothing happen then not be prepared and something happen” I took all my vacations, never worked on my birthday…etc but saved for my future because there are no guarantees either way. My father is 98. My mother passed away at 88. My grandmother passed away at 98. I have a future to look forward to. I take care of myself. I played volleyball once a week with young people 40 and under I played pickle ball once once a week I live weights and healthy eater. It’s quality of life not quantity. I have no elements to complain about. I am retired and enjoying my life just as much as when I was younger if not more. BALANCE , It’s called balance
@unitedstatesdale
@unitedstatesdale Ай бұрын
Excellent! Ditto
@genossinwaabooz4373
@genossinwaabooz4373 Ай бұрын
In all things, really, if people only knew. Balance.
@casioplayer5815
@casioplayer5815 Ай бұрын
I retired at the age of 62, but I am comfortable with what I receive from my pension and retirement. Enough to keep me afloat. Riding my mountain bike, walking, playing the clarinet and hanging out with relatives and a few friends are even more enjoyable since I do not have to get up and go to a job. I am definitely stress free. Find the peace that makes you happy! Thank you Timothy for bringing so much creativity on how to live an easier. happier, and stress-free life!
@teotwawkishtf
@teotwawkishtf Ай бұрын
To me, "retirement" is not necessarily ceasing all work. It's getting to a place where you work less and have more free time to do things that are truly meaningful. My retirement plan is to get to a place where I can work 10-20 hours per week running a side business and collecting social security.
@Lulusvideos1
@Lulusvideos1 22 күн бұрын
Same here! For me, retirement is ‘retiring’ at 62, getting s.s. and working a part-time side hustle, something completely different from my 40+ hour a week corporate job. After 40+ years in the corporate world, I’m done! I would actually like to grow my 401k rather than take from it. Hopefully that’s possible in this economy.
@australiantruckspotting8883
@australiantruckspotting8883 Ай бұрын
And if you do retire, you'll be stressed about how much money you have and trying to make it last. I think the best you can do is get yourself debt free with minimal expenses and work part-time in semi-retirement. Work for a while and build up some cash, then take a few months off. Or work 2-3 days a week only.
@wesbrown738
@wesbrown738 Ай бұрын
Yeah I agree work can provide some purpose and we need money
@kenyastephens4576
@kenyastephens4576 Ай бұрын
Thats exactly what I've been doing for the past 4 years. Debt free working 20hrs/2 days a week!
@bgreg6069
@bgreg6069 Ай бұрын
My advice. Find a profession you enjoy doing and continue to do It as long as It makes you happy.
@childofdestiny2811
@childofdestiny2811 Ай бұрын
Frankly, I’ve never believed in retirement. I don’t even understand it. Why would I want to sit and post pictures of my feet on Facebook? My plan for retirement, which is coming up soon, is to get my PhD. Immersed in the academic environment. Living in a tiny studio apartment, spending my life in the library, listening to lectures, writing, publishing and learning. These are my favorite things to do, so I live frugally and squirrel my resources away so I can bankroll this when the time comes. Staying focused on my goal creates a wonderful life for me right now while I prepare for this wonderful life in the future!
@irishouston4103
@irishouston4103 Ай бұрын
This is exactly 💯 how I feel and where I found myself and I thought I was alone. Thank you
@davidsebastianelli1326
@davidsebastianelli1326 Ай бұрын
You're not fooling anyone! That sounds just like retirement to me.. doing your favorite things you always liked to do and then having more time to do it. Buena suerte!
@teresahunt5521
@teresahunt5521 Ай бұрын
I fully endorse your plan. I will do something very similar. I'm currently 58 and still thoroughly enjoy working as a nurse. I will study and learn until the day I die. Maybe I will retire and become a doctor. You never know. Lol
@dawnbetancourt854
@dawnbetancourt854 Ай бұрын
Exactly how I feel also. I have a job I like and it gets me out and keeps me active and moving. Keeps me young! The people my age that are retired look older than the ones still working. What the next stage after retirement…death. Lol
@viadharmawheel
@viadharmawheel Ай бұрын
Retirement is about freedom! The cliche of the farmer retired sitting on a rocker on the porch only to die two years later is not the retirement we should strive for.
@Fell214
@Fell214 Ай бұрын
From a 63-year old retiree…your philosophy is right and you are an inspiration.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@robertlarsen6516
@robertlarsen6516 Ай бұрын
Sold it all (4K SF house, we owned our two vehicles outright, no student debt, and the pets had died…) and lived ‘van life’ for almost three years w a 6 yo, my wife, and me. I was over working; not overworking, but done with it. We were smart, frugal, and visited 46 states, and eastern Canada…spending quality time with both sides of the family. And homeschooled during that time. COVID broke the vibe, but there is no better time than the present to LIVE.
@rasheed5457
@rasheed5457 Ай бұрын
I’m 59, my wife and I retired at 57 from the US Postal Service. We moved to Eastern Europe and are living very comfortably. The greed of capitalism, corporations and the billionaires have destroyed the working class ability to retire, at least for the majority of Americans.
@SuperDG333
@SuperDG333 Ай бұрын
We’ve been socialized to live in fear and we have to unlearn this and learn to live from love and curiosity
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Ай бұрын
It is all about curiosity and respect ✊
@projectb3117
@projectb3117 Ай бұрын
True. Many people spoil their best days for an uncertain future.
@eddiep812
@eddiep812 26 күн бұрын
Don't know why you were in my feed... but I don't care! Inspirational... SUBSCRIBED!
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard 26 күн бұрын
😁😁 Welcome to the channel/community!
@onefinalfightt
@onefinalfightt Ай бұрын
I love this message. When I was 18, 21, 27, I kept wanting to live an alternative lifestyle- but even the idea of doing that for ONE year was met with “but you have to start college”, “you’re already in college why would you stop”, “your career is finally picking up, this is going to ruin your progress”… Here to confirm, there will always be something, and unhappy people will always be first to bring you down.
@drewsbenmad
@drewsbenmad 26 күн бұрын
I never thought I would retire early. I was just 55 and working as an air conditioning technician most days I had to medicate because my body was getting abused at work and this happened everyday. My wife worked full time and is six years older than me. One day my wife said that’s it I’m going to retire and I thought how are we going to live on my income? So we got with a financial guy who looked over our finances and when he was finished he just said okay when do you want to retire? Sometimes you just need to get professional advice to help you understand your finances. We both quit our jobs and traveled for a year we sold our house in the suburbs and bought five acres of land which we are now working on. It’s not perfect but it’s better than working and I don’t have to medicate everyday 😊
@njambinjoroge4137
@njambinjoroge4137 Ай бұрын
I have laughed so hard! This is the absolute truth. We have boiled our lives down to retirement. It’s good to plan for it but don’t let that be the only goal in your life. LIVE.
@miriam2909
@miriam2909 29 күн бұрын
Don’t know how long you’ve been vlogging, but I just found you and you’re so refreshing! Making me think a lot about my life.
@legiontheatregroup
@legiontheatregroup Ай бұрын
Live now. Great advice. “I want to live the kind of life I never need to retire from”. Saw that years ago on another KZbin channel and it stayed with me.
@danieltajc8816
@danieltajc8816 Ай бұрын
Currently retired, bought into the "Golden Years" . Guess what? Fools gold! I look at young people that are traveling, hiking, backpacking, etc.. and I think they are enjoying life to the fullest while they can enjoy it. I wish my body would let me do more than I am capable of doing now. So some regrets, YES. worked my ass off, financially secure but missed some of life's great experiences due to work.
@tracy419
@tracy419 Ай бұрын
When my wife and I were dating in our early 20's, we saw all the tourists in their 70's barely able to walk wandering through our town. We sold everything, got backpacks and flew to Europe. Ended up there working and traveling around for a decade. We enjoyed our youth while we had it and even though I'll be working till I die like most of us, I don't regret anything about it.
@xreediculousx
@xreediculousx Ай бұрын
seems like a wonderful trade off.
@Skyfoxx23
@Skyfoxx23 Ай бұрын
@JoseFlores-kl6jm
@JoseFlores-kl6jm Ай бұрын
Preach it Tim! I was let go from a job last year. Looking back I was not happy with the pay or the environment, so it might have been a blessing in disguise. However, I landed back on my feet.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Glad you landed on your feet!
@robertlarsen6516
@robertlarsen6516 Ай бұрын
SPITTIN TRUTH!! Watch it again, people. The man is bringing it. Pray unceasingly, Patriots!
@ms.rivera7898
@ms.rivera7898 Ай бұрын
Great topic, Tim! I definitely believe in this. Especially if you have lost loved ones or people close to you. When you see people pass away, it gives you a different perspective. LIVE now, be kind to people, patient, travel (even within your own state), eat delicious food, go volunteer, find an exercise you love and do it at least 3 times weekly. Definitely budget, and save some, but enjoy this life.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Words of wisdom!
@CookingwithDesi
@CookingwithDesi Ай бұрын
So true. Don’t put off enjoying life until retirement. Enjoy now while you have your health. Ive seen so many people pass young . Thank you for the reminder! 💗
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to comment and share your views Desi! 🧡
@melissaconrad4665
@melissaconrad4665 Ай бұрын
The promise of SS is the carrot to keep the old horse trudging along.
@Maintenance63
@Maintenance63 Ай бұрын
Yes, you are correct. Most of us are on S.S. and our investments went south. We need to rethink the whole retirement thing. I laugh at these folks with $100,000 trucks, $350,000 homes. We have lost our F-in minds. Thank you, much respect for saying it.
@leannetriano7768
@leannetriano7768 Ай бұрын
I have been retired from teaching for 3 years. Life is better than ever. Saved and have plenty to live well in.
@propaneman5852
@propaneman5852 Ай бұрын
I’m 44 and only finally realized retirement isn’t going to happen for me. I tried, am still raising a family. There’s just no way at this point. You make a lot of great points.
@dantheman6607
@dantheman6607 23 күн бұрын
Pay off your debts and save !! You can make your own retirement
@josephsmith9130
@josephsmith9130 Ай бұрын
My wife and I are doing well. House, 2 Toyotas and credit cards paid off. She has Medicare and I have VA health. Traveling to Spain this year.
@MsMaxinejoy
@MsMaxinejoy Ай бұрын
That is the key‼️ BECOMING DEBTFREE ‼️🎉
@fdoctor79
@fdoctor79 Ай бұрын
Enjoy and Congrats! 🎉
@michaeltillman886
@michaeltillman886 Ай бұрын
What's up my Brother? I just love the title to this video. You see, I'm 72 years old and I'm not ready to just lay down yet. I got things I like doing and things I want to do. Now, back to the video.
@3namechangezalowdevry90day7
@3namechangezalowdevry90day7 Ай бұрын
Don't "plan" to work til you drop. An injury or layoff can sideline you.
@trailsandbeers
@trailsandbeers Ай бұрын
I retired 20 years ago, my boss didn't notice yet 🙃
@roseeze166
@roseeze166 Ай бұрын
😂😂
@nicholasselke5214
@nicholasselke5214 Ай бұрын
The best thing anyone can do, before deciding upon their savings/investments and life enjoyment ratio, is to get their total debt to zero. Once you do that, your overall cost of living drops dramatically and you don’t have to save as aggressively to be able to afford to enjoy your golden years. That will allow you to balance planning for your future and enjoying life now. Always best to find a happy medium
@toniclark3512
@toniclark3512 5 күн бұрын
I really agree, I am 66, retired at 62, my hubby died of sudden death, 6 month's ago. sooooo blessed we had the time to spend together because NOTHING IS PROMISED!!!.
@gregcrawford1523
@gregcrawford1523 Ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more! 54 and been side hustling for most of my life. Society, family and all look down on those of us who choose to be happy rather than chained to a career we don't like or even hate. It's a struggle sometimes but I would rather change it up and try different things than be stuck. Love your videos! Thanks for the validation!
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Keep doing you my friend! Never get stuck!
@jeromeburdine966
@jeromeburdine966 Ай бұрын
Most of us are working "prison jobs". If you can't wait for the weekends or your vacation, you are working a "prison job".
@elvdell5582
@elvdell5582 Ай бұрын
Not gonna get mad, not gonna be rude LOL. I retired early. At 51, and I am sooooo glad I did. I will NEVER look back. Retirement is entirely possible if you are intentional. I'm not a millionaire. I did make a decent salary. I started off quite meager too. Former Navy and veteran but only 5 years in. If you keep your debt low or non-existent, own your home and vehicles. Don't succumb to having everything new. No mc mansion. It is entirely possible. And I've lived the entire time. Let's see, Aruba, Jamaica, Mexico, Costa Rica, Vietnam, India, Colombia, South Africa, Montenegro, Ireland, Spain, Brazil, Portugal, France, San Andres, and I could go on. Spent 37 years with one company, no pension, just modest investing, and living within my means. I think the message needs to go out there that you can both live in freedom and retire if you live within your means. I moved around in the same company every 5 years or so. So never got bored. Didn't love corporate America, but it got the job done. Oh... and I don't plan on slowing down at all... 🙂 I did it for precisely the reason you said, I've had that longstanding thought of I may not live to do it later. So I've done it all along. I remember well people living their lives through me. Every time I went traveling, they were all googly eyed like whaaaat... I've always looked at them like I really don't understand why YOU aren't. Whatever your passion is. Do that.
@dantheman6607
@dantheman6607 23 күн бұрын
I’m right there with you, plus with an employer that pays me 8 weeks of vacation a year I use it 😂 live your life now !!
@lindahall9686
@lindahall9686 Ай бұрын
It makes sense that if you take care of yourself and don't work yourself into the ground, you can live a longer and healthier life. You can work part time as long as necessary to fund your basic needs. Why should you ruin your health to make it to an older, retired age, and then die a few years after? Makes no sense.
@johnbruenn8755
@johnbruenn8755 Ай бұрын
You are spot on with the slavery analogy. George Carlin once said the powers that be want us just smart enough to make widgets, but dumb enough to do it till we die. Even a honey bee has a better quality of life than most Americans. Oh, if I could go back in time and have a real conversation with my 18 year old self.
@timothykeith1367
@timothykeith1367 Ай бұрын
Male honey bees die when autumn approaches, only the female bees survive the winter - most of them die
@strothermartin5368
@strothermartin5368 Ай бұрын
I've been retired for 2 and a half years. I miss the people the building but not the work. House paid for. Pension,SS,403B. Retired at 62. I want mine NOW!!! Its great to retire from a job I hate with a passion.
@churchofpos2279
@churchofpos2279 Ай бұрын
Totally get it. It took me almost a year to recover physically and mentally to recover from a job that I grew to hate.
@strothermartin5368
@strothermartin5368 Ай бұрын
@@churchofpos2279 I have two bad knees, bad disk in my back. Having trouble straighting fingers on left hand. Time for me to go!
@Texasriogrande
@Texasriogrande Ай бұрын
I am 52. Went through a divorce 4 years ago and started over with nothing. I have been paying $1600 a month child support and going through that divorce, it lead me thinking about how short life really is Right now I can walk without pain,but I can't run anymore thanks to Highschool baseball ⚾ and countless hours in the gym when I was younger 🤣. My point is this,,,, when a person reached retirement age, there is no chance you can enjoy what you worked so hard to gain because your body is old. This video is spot on!! I take two trips a year out of the country,,,while I am still able to walk and see things. I can tell you right now,,,, when I hit 62,there is no absolute way I will be able to do what I am doing now. I have a pension. I have a 401k on top of that. However, that means absolutely nothing when your health goes south. Love the channel!
@smann7236
@smann7236 Ай бұрын
Marriage scares me...why can't we live happily ever after? Why did you divorce ?
@AlexMathersFilms
@AlexMathersFilms 23 күн бұрын
@@smann7236 Marriage is the worst move for any sane man. It's almost inevitable that you will divorce.
@_giona
@_giona Ай бұрын
I am with you 💯 on this one. This morning I had a conversation with friend who is frustrated about trying to retire. 41 years with the company and she is begging to leave a few months before her retirement date. She has been pushed from office to office for almost a month and she is at the end of herself. If she leaves even a month earlier her pension gets reduced. After 41 friggin’ years! Please make this make sense.
@mochaCF61
@mochaCF61 Ай бұрын
My parents were born during the Great Depression; both of my parents worked up until dying. Dad worked for the government and had a pension, but Dad never got to use it. Ma worked a series of jobs, she didn't save money, and she bragged about getting Social Security. The SS checks weren't enough, and Ma worked PT jobs to supplement that money. I'm semi-retired, and unfortunately, I had jobs that didn't allow me to do much including saving money. Many people didn't because situations happen before becoming seniors like job loss, health issues, financial issues, etc., took what savings were available. I have a college degree, yet like most people, that degree didn't do much for me to get me ahead. If I had waited until my full retirement age to collect SS, I still wouldn't have received a substantial check.
@JG-DivMan
@JG-DivMan Ай бұрын
Wow! This is the first video from you I've watched and I'm SO glad that I did! Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
@ruthpullis9279
@ruthpullis9279 25 күн бұрын
Do you remember the saying tomorrow . Ma let's go to the park ma says tomorrow. you got your mother you said we could go to the park your mother turns around and says tomorrow. when you get older you realize Tomorrow Never Comes. You realize you're here today gone today because it's always today there's no such thing as tomorrow it's always today so don't put off what you can do today because when you go to sleep and you get up it's still today.
@johnchedsey1306
@johnchedsey1306 Ай бұрын
Totally agree with this. I figure that when I'm 65, I flat out won't be physically able to do some of the activities I'm enjoying at age 50. So I'm making sure I get out to see the sights I want to see and accomplish things that won't necessarily be possible for me in the future. I'm fortunate that my job is decent and allows for ample PTO. The last three years in particular have been very fulfilling in getting out there and doing things I truly enjoy.
@weaver1561
@weaver1561 26 күн бұрын
OMG! Thank you! Your words have changed my life. I have heard this before but you said it differently.
@soulshine3288
@soulshine3288 Ай бұрын
I read an article on Yahoo a few months ago, that said, the average person lives 11 years after they reach retirement age. Don’t wait for retirement to live! I’m 50 years old, and I choose to live my life now, and take early retirement if social security is still available.
@p.m.8316
@p.m.8316 Ай бұрын
No one can take the free time you had away from you.
@mikieemiike3979
@mikieemiike3979 Ай бұрын
My retirement plan is to work a remote job part time.
@ianhepburn6555
@ianhepburn6555 4 күн бұрын
Amen brother from Canada. Truth is truth.
@emera1750
@emera1750 Ай бұрын
This came along perfectly
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
👍🏾
@CR03_Outdoor_Adventures
@CR03_Outdoor_Adventures Ай бұрын
That’s pretty much how I’m planning to live my life. I’m 20 and still live with my folks and pay generously low rent, but I’ve been grinding side-hustles and working since I was 15. I got screwed over with some jobs because of the mess in the beginning of this decade, but I have discovered seasonal jobs. Right now, I work a part time job 9 months a year that gives me 30 hours a week give or take. I get out at noon and can enjoy the whole day, but I try to get at least 10 - 15 hours of gig work just to get more money. The good thing is I can choose when I work and when I want to enjoy myself. I live pretty frugally only fund my hobbies, rent, gas, and food. I have saved enough money to buy like 6 acres off-grid in the hills, and that’s what I intend to do this year or the next. All I need is a little cabin or trailer, I haven’t decided yet. I plan to become a homesteader because food is becoming outrageous, and I don’t eat junk. I enjoy being healthy and able to do physical activities so I only eat organic foods or foods with fewer ingredients. If I could grow 70% of my food, my cost of living would be so low that I could just work gig and seasonal jobs. Pair that with low taxes in the state I’m looking at and no utility bills, I might have a chance at living. I wouldn’t have utility bills because the properties are all surrounded by forest (hunting, trapping, and fishing paradise.) I would use septic/modern outhouse and grey water system, solar/occasional generator in winter, and rain catchment or spring water if I find one. I’m not lazy when it comes to working on things I’m interested in. Luckily I went to vol tech so I know how to do most things myself. I am also a creative person and I see raw land as a blank canvas to build something amazing. Also like you said, the future is uncertain. My generation will probably never see retirement like the boomers did, if we even make it that far without some kind of war or catastrophe happening. I’d rather live in the present than constantly worrying about the future.
@smann7236
@smann7236 Ай бұрын
Wow you're 20! So lucky..only advice I can give is invest in stock market, and work on side hustles...you will be loaded in 30s, if you start investing now..
@ChaiTogether
@ChaiTogether Ай бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO! I’ve changed jobs often until something aligned and cut off any relatives or people who were in the way and judging my journey. 😊💙
@Over60sowhat
@Over60sowhat 26 күн бұрын
"I just need to fund my lifestyle until I ain't alive no more." Yes!! Now that's something I can get my brain around!!
@bertschb
@bertschb Ай бұрын
Retirement at 56 (9 years ago) was the best decision for me. I could have kept working and piling up more money but I had "enough". No alarm clocks. No ridiculous meetings. It's so nice. I'm building an airplane to keep myself busy. That's my only advice. Make sure you have things to do to keep busy. Sitting around watching TV for 30 years isn't a very rewarding retirement.
@melissalee9171
@melissalee9171 Ай бұрын
I know I will not be able to retire financially. I plan to work until I die, but I will only do work I enjoy.
@carabauming3812
@carabauming3812 Ай бұрын
This video is the sign I needed right now! I have been agonizing over whether or not to sell my horse because it would allow me to save more aggressively for retirement (I am 30). It's a very expensive hobby but I love it so much and it is truly my happy place. Life would be dull without it. My retirement is not guaranteed, but good times at the barn always are. Thank you!
@dianacarpenter565
@dianacarpenter565 Ай бұрын
I’ve let go of a few horses in my 61 years and each time was like selling off a piece of my very soul. Yes, it is an expensive hobby and I’m definitely “horse-poor”, but nothing gives me greater joy and fulfillment. Don’t give up the relationship you’ve built with your four-legged, or it will leave a hole in your heart for the rest of your life. If I lost everything but still have my horse, then I call it a win. Hang in there, and ride on friend!
@deannab56
@deannab56 Ай бұрын
New to the channel, and I am happy to comment to support and share my story/view. I have worked as an RN for 11 years, and like the majority of my colleagues, I am suffering from burnout and moral distress/injury. I had recent health issues that made me have to put aside the things I love for a couple of years (hiking and biking), and it was a big wake-up call. I am 36, and I was nearly disabled. I am fortunate that my health turned around after having a hysterectomy, and I feel that I have my second lease on life. So, I quit my job, and I am working far fewer hours. I am outdoors far more than I was before. For the first time, I feel like I am beginning to actually live. I grew up on a farm and began working my ass off since I was 5. After working my ass off for 31 years, I am tired of it, and I literally cannot imagine doing it for another 30-some years. As for health insurance, there are options with agents that can be more affordable and a better fit than a company can offer. I wouldn't recommend not having insurance (god forbid we live in a first world country that ensures its residents have access to affordable healthcare). I have seen patients rationing their medications and not going into the hospital until they were profoundly sick because they either couldn't afford health insurance or their coverage was insufficient. Why the hell in America can someone go bankrupt after one hospitalization?!?! It blows my fricking mind. Healthcare is a RIGHT - not a privilege. Anywho, I am happy to be here and contribute. I am grateful to have found your channel, and I enjoy hearing you echo many thoughts I have had for YEARS.
@juletaurus
@juletaurus 25 күн бұрын
I've been an LPN for 30 years!! Still at it and being I was raised I fear, it's hard to stop. I moved around and have no lengthy pension. It's madness. I'm so tired.
@charlenefriess2128
@charlenefriess2128 29 күн бұрын
Fund my lifestyle till I'm gone! Best thing ever said. Love your attitude.
@lebronsdaughter246
@lebronsdaughter246 Ай бұрын
At 50 had a stroke I worked a jod for 23year small 401k and got SSDI and LTI I’m 52 now live your life now don’t look at the Jone’s small life happy life 🙏🏽❤️
@HowardAbraham
@HowardAbraham Ай бұрын
You can fight the system but you must be willing to lose.
@jimhahn4683
@jimhahn4683 Ай бұрын
You are vocalizing what I've been thinking about in my head. It's good to know that I am not alone in this way of thinking.
@michaelparker3188
@michaelparker3188 Ай бұрын
Preach brother Preach! Your right! I love this exchange. Thanks!❤😎👌much love.
@candipurple4405
@candipurple4405 Ай бұрын
I believe in balance. You need to save and do things that bring you joy. I have seen too many videos of people in their 70’s living in their vans. Their biggest regrets is not saving. Working hard and dying young sucks, but living into your 60’s, 80’s and 90’s with housing and food insecurity sucks even more.
@colin1657
@colin1657 Ай бұрын
I don't think the idea of retirement needs to die, but be redefined for the 99% of us. That's pretty much the point I took from this. I'm starting to feel this way too since long-covid. Careers are done, pensions are pretty much gone, and the 401(k) is not safe either. The new wealthy is going to be minimalism and maximum mobility. Modern society is in a death-spiral and does not work anymore because the social contract was broken a long time ago.
@cplusmorecomments
@cplusmorecomments Ай бұрын
I worked the same union job for 20 years (60hrs per week) that went bankrupt back in April 2020 right at the start of the pandemic. The company told me that I was too young to collect pension,so they are just holding on to it....AKA.... spending it! The company actually did me a favor by laying me off because I never would have started my own business if I still was working there.Full time jobs just suck up your time and keep you in the rat race. They aren't worth it in 2024,unless you're making a very large amount of money yearly ($500,000) Thanks Tim. You motivate people to live the way they want, unlike the Rat racing cookie cutters and debt slaves
@dantheman6607
@dantheman6607 23 күн бұрын
Did you ever get your pension ??
@LindaLorbecki
@LindaLorbecki 16 күн бұрын
Thanks for "getting real". Another good and insightful video. It's the direction the world has headed to, so finding a lifestyle to live a good life is important.
@YouSnoozeYouNooze
@YouSnoozeYouNooze Ай бұрын
Do anything you can to be self employed ASAP. My dad always told me if you work for someone else they pay you the minimum to keep you around. When you work for yourself there is no limit to what you can make. It's even more true now that employers have no loyalty
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
You Dad is a smart man!
@thenigerianfile
@thenigerianfile Ай бұрын
Spot on and so zen. Thank you for the courage of this video. This saved me a lot of stress years ago: “Better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing, than a long life spent in a miserable way” - Alan Watts. That quote was revolutionary for me.
@jorgedominguez496
@jorgedominguez496 Ай бұрын
I think gradually moving toward minimalism will let you both invest more before retirement and will reduce anxiety about not having enough saved up for retirement. You can have both, get out of the rat race to live happy and have enough saved up. It’s all about getting impulse buying under control now.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Ай бұрын
Exactly!
@chelseamurray1678
@chelseamurray1678 Ай бұрын
Agree
@Truthhunter
@Truthhunter 15 күн бұрын
Very well said Tim. great video. I enjoyed it.
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