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I Tried to Organize My Home the RIGHT way

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That Awkward Mom

That Awkward Mom

Күн бұрын

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@kara.g.
@kara.g. 10 ай бұрын
I don’t think I’ve ever laughed so hard at an organizing video!!! 😆 From the freezer and ICAA, to having trouble “changing,” and the husbandus clutterus. You’re hilarious!! 🤣🤣🤣
@arizonashopper5095
@arizonashopper5095 10 ай бұрын
"I've been waiting my whole life for someone to tell me not to clean..." was what got me. 😂
@kara.g.
@kara.g. 10 ай бұрын
@@arizonashopper5095 omg YES that too 😂
@crystalsecor6403
@crystalsecor6403 10 ай бұрын
The collab we never knew we needed 🥰
@alexandra109
@alexandra109 10 ай бұрын
Cas and the clutterbug styles were eye opening for me. Not only knowing my style but being able to identify my family’s styles has helped so much in trying to live harmoniously.
@jocelynsmyth6604
@jocelynsmyth6604 10 ай бұрын
Definitely agree! I waited watching this video because I wanted to see the comments :) I've learned that I am a bumblebug - and that a lot of other people are crosses too. I also live with a butterfly... a very butterfly, butterfly. (Sorta reminds me of Ariel's husband). We are actively working on getting our space to work better together - and me getting my stuff together, so I can find things fast when he goes 'where are the new sponges? Where are my pants?' ...... the man didn't know he had two drawers worth of socks, he had them in so many damn places lmao
@user-wp3mt5fu4f
@user-wp3mt5fu4f 10 ай бұрын
I completely agree! I even feel the need to tell everyone. It takes time to organize, but you feel you're in the right direction if you know your style! And clutter stops from growing so I get to eventually organize everything. Everybody should feel this way!
@jacquelineclauson4891
@jacquelineclauson4891 10 ай бұрын
This was a fun video I really enjoyed it
@patkern185
@patkern185 8 ай бұрын
Knowing your style is incredibly helpful in living with our possessions. No more trying to be someone we're not and getting frustrated because we can't keep up with a system that doesn't work for us. Finding out I was a Ladybug with some Cricket tendencies has opened my eyes and made my life much easier.
@noth9617
@noth9617 8 ай бұрын
I used to hang everything on the door handles around my house because Im a butterfly but now that I know that I've put over the door organizers and hooks up all over all the doors. It's not everyones idea of beauty or efficiency but all my life I just thought I was a slob and it turns out I just really like seeing my stuff and I like things I use all the time to be in the thresholds of rooms so I know they're there and can grab them easily as I leave a room. It's so nice to have my stuff on the back of doors but not breaking my door handles or preventing my door from fully opening or closing.
@Es24688
@Es24688 10 ай бұрын
You talking about your husband actually really resonated with me. You said something about maybe he had been told for a long time that he was just a messy person which led to him not even want to try. That really hit me because my mom’s organization / housekeeping style is so different from mine. Growing up, she was very particular about it, and I was told many times I just wasn’t cleaning up to standard. Come to find out, I’m a very put together and organized person in my own style. It’s a good reminder that as homemakers, we need to be sensitive and aware of the styles of all those living in our home. We need to be willing to be flexible in order to support and encourage our children so that they can learn what works best for them as they enter adulthood.
@jocelynsmyth6604
@jocelynsmyth6604 10 ай бұрын
That sounds a bit like my beau, nothing was ever good enough, then he lived alone/with room-mates, and it didn't matter at first..... and then it got overwhelming and he just didn't want to do anything. Now we've been living together for three years, and while I knew I hoarded, he didn't know he did, and he's really resistant to change. We're working on it together.
@mariannehewitt6605
@mariannehewitt6605 10 ай бұрын
Cas is one of my favourites. Since discovering I'm a Ladybug my home functions so much better. Love this video 😍
@kbailey3238
@kbailey3238 10 ай бұрын
Same 🥰
@mysoulcalledlife
@mysoulcalledlife 10 ай бұрын
I love you and your husband so much! He is such a champ and I love how he supports you and adds so much silliness and humor to your videos!🫶
@MRPandoraHartDR
@MRPandoraHartDR 10 ай бұрын
Finding Cas was a godsend for me, because it meant I discovered I was a butterfly, which meant finally knowing not just why I failed so badly to keep things organised but how I could fix that. Which we have been doing by among other things, we scrapped the standing wardrobes in our bedroom and created an entirely open plan clothes wall for me and an open Pax wardrobe for him being an also visual Bee. And its worked! Plus also must credit Melanie from A Hoarders Heart has helped me with the emotional side of dealing with clutter and also is a fellow butterfly. 🙂
@bellemusecore
@bellemusecore 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for the channel rec. I need the emotional side too. I was already a pack rat but losing my son gave me stockpiling tendencies. 🫠 anyway. Off to process the trauma and embrace the future! 😂😂❤❤🎉🎉
@lauramooney380
@lauramooney380 10 ай бұрын
Yup! Yup! Yup!
@tamikawalker1025
@tamikawalker1025 10 ай бұрын
You and Cas are great together. Your husband is hilarious.
@madamogee9041
@madamogee9041 10 ай бұрын
I have been following Cas for a while and am a proud ladybug! I wish someone would do for cleaning routines what she has done for organizing. It would make landing on the right routine easier! Thank you, Ariel, for trying them all for us!
@leahrenea2709
@leahrenea2709 10 ай бұрын
Cass and the Clutterbug styles were life changing. I'm a 🦋 and have struggled my entire life. The only thing is she says we are worried we will forget about our stuff if we don't see it but I actually will forget about it if I don't see it 😂
@CathCreates
@CathCreates 10 ай бұрын
Your husband walking in and looking at the baskets 😂😂 I really love your videos!
@Anwelei
@Anwelei 10 ай бұрын
Your husband is impressive for going along with the baskets and for modifying his behavior as best he could without going crazy. And you are impressive for be willing to stay in phase 1. You both seem to compromise respectfully very well :) Ps I’ve now learned I am definitely a butterfly and I think my parents are too. 3/4 of the closets in our have had their doors removed over the years. I think my sister is too, as her closets all have had their doors removed too!! 🤣🤣🤣 The thought of having stuff closed up behind a door gives me anxiety. The only ones I’ll tolerate closed are kitchen cabinets.
@darlenebergantzel1534
@darlenebergantzel1534 10 ай бұрын
I love the honest analysis of how the organizing styles work in real life.
@ladybaby3
@ladybaby3 10 ай бұрын
I love Cass's and your videos. I'm so happy for this collab! I'm a butterfly in how I put down clutter (where it's easy to find), but I'm a butterfly in the sense that I don't want to see my stuff because I find it ugly and the visual clutter makes me feel overwhelmed. I've started using baskets with great success. I love how Cass says that the four bugs are divided by people who manage their time differently: two want to put things away quickly and are okay with taking extra time to find items, while the other two are willing to take time to put things away so they're able to find things quickly. I almost cried. I'm not lazy--I just use my time differently. What an amazing revelation!
@oxigen85
@oxigen85 10 ай бұрын
Yes I loved that realisation about using time differently! My bf just drops things pretty much wherever ("Football squished into the book shelf, next to the cleaning spray and water bottle? Sure why not") while I get major anxiety if I don't find the thing I need right away and can't handle the stress of having to search. It's such a struggle 😩
@arizonashopper5095
@arizonashopper5095 10 ай бұрын
Wow. I hadn't made that connection, about the searching. Searching makes me insane. And late all the time. I'd rather put it away up front, and walk right to it when I need it (bc I'm running late -- no surprise).
@inespm1
@inespm1 10 ай бұрын
The struggle to change pun was hillarious 😂
@WorrierKitten
@WorrierKitten 10 ай бұрын
IKR? Didn't see that coming. I LOL so hard 😂😂😂
@sharonlockwood1825
@sharonlockwood1825 10 ай бұрын
Your videos are great! Favorite part of this one was your ice cream organization in the freezer! Priceless!
@victoriam8951
@victoriam8951 10 ай бұрын
It took me a long time to figure out my clutterbug style, but the key turning point for me in figuring it out a year or so ago was her recommendation to look at areas of your home that you are pleased with and consistently function well for you. I found two small spots in my home that I really loved and were never an issue, and I had a revelation! Ohhhhhhhhhhh, I am SO a visual person and did not realize it at all. I had thought I was a hidden type because I’m easily overwhelmed by too many things, so I simply assumed I wasn’t visual. In reality, I want to see every last item I have out in plain view, I just want it to be non-chaotic and visually pretty. My solution to this, was to minimize the amount of items in my home and then to treat all items I have as decor, it just so happens that I can stir the soup with my decor LOL! I even have a rule for myself that if it can go on the wall somehow, then put it on the wall 😂. We don’t use closets anymore either, but have an open wardrobe wall. In the end, I think I’m a Bee in her system because I like to put things in pretty rows and decant stuff into jars and things. That revelation that day has changed my entire home! As for my husband, I’m not sure what he is, but he seems to be fine with using whatever visual system I set up, he’s just not as particular about how exactly things are placed, so maybe he’s a butterfly. Thankfully, if he sets something down out of place I don’t mind putting it back in the home I’ve created for it. The only time we run into issues is like your husband and the cards. If he has a project he hasn’t finished it sits out, and boy does that bother me! Thanks for the delightful video! It’s gotten me thinking about how to resolve that issue!
@HereIAm247
@HereIAm247 10 ай бұрын
The genius thing about Clutterbug is, you don't have to constrain yourself to one type all over the house. :) I also had a hard time identifying my type, because I use strategies from all 4 bugs depending on what I am dealing with. (though my main type is a bee, I think) For example, for clutter I have yet to sort trough, I put in baskets and hide in a closet. For often used Items, I prefer very visual and easy to get out/put away. For my makeup/self care products, I use micro organizing. But for other things, for example off season clothes that is stored away, I use more macro organizing. Because here is the thing: different areas of the home have different requirements. So it makes a lot of sense to use different strategies in different areas of the house. :)
@IamSnowbird
@IamSnowbird 10 ай бұрын
Cass's clutterbug system gave me great insight into how I should organize. I took the quiz quite a few times and I am always the same. I like that I understood why certain types of organizing worked best. I'm not perfect about it but it has really helped. By the way you are such a normal, relatable mom. And I mean this in the best way. I hope your channel grows much larger.
@pancakey636
@pancakey636 10 ай бұрын
eyyy you completed the 3! (Dawn, Dana, and Cas) love all your contents about all these tips. I watch them all and you add to the fun of going thru the process. Keep up creating these amazing contents. You're definitely in my top 3!
@christinen.6140
@christinen.6140 10 ай бұрын
She collected the whole set! If it was trading cards, she'd get plus 50 magic for that! 😂
@claudiaa.1591
@claudiaa.1591 Ай бұрын
I've loved Cas and her videos for years, and I've just found your channel, which is hilarious. Great match!
@cindy844
@cindy844 10 ай бұрын
Ariel, I love your videos so much!! You are so creative, and you have an awesome sense of humor!! Cas is fantastic! I've learned that I have a different Clutterbug style for different areas of my home.
@jennyh4025
@jennyh4025 10 ай бұрын
Same for me! I’m mostly a ladybug, but in the kitchen I’m a cricket. I have to be able to just grab something I need without looking in the kitchen. I hate it to go through the teaspoons and desert forks to find an espresso spoon (just an example). But I don’t mind going through a bigger bin with the label „dental“ to find new floss. 🤷‍♀️
@raggsj38
@raggsj38 10 ай бұрын
Same for me also! I'm mostly a ladybug, but I'm a cricket in the kitchen and also with paperwork. Cas's big basket of paperwork makes me shudder lol! However, big baskets of anything else I love.
@Skymouth
@Skymouth 9 ай бұрын
The label - less popular snacks - gave me a good giggle! And I'm a bee, btw. I LOVE Cass!
@continuousself-improvement1879
@continuousself-improvement1879 10 ай бұрын
My space used to look like a home invasion crime scene. I had to walk across piles of mess of stuff and just have a corner on the bed for me to maybe sleep. Let me tell you, following the Clutterbug system helped me tremendously! It is easier to keep clean and STAY CLEAN if you are organized. A lot of organizers say that you should organize first then clean and I used to think that does not make sense. But they are right. Btw, I am a mix between Butterfly and Ladybug. I keep the items that I reach for most often within easy reach and inside an open bin. Everything else is out of sight out of mind but with labeling on the door to get a quick look of where is what. I have been keeping clean and organized with this system for several months now.
@db1993.
@db1993. 10 ай бұрын
Ariel! Last night I literally thought excitedly when going to KZbin, "Is Saturday yet?!?" Because I was so looking forward to watching your video~ thanks for brightening my day! 😃
@kirlynz2554
@kirlynz2554 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for always making me laugh out loud! The husband montage at the beginning ("where's the keys? Where's the ketchup? I'm out of socks. *Evil slow-mo villain laugh*" 😂). And then you struggling to "change" every morning 🤣
@Jeannie.B
@Jeannie.B 10 ай бұрын
Cas has changed my life. I have found peace of mind through her system. She is a game changer 😃
@kh0034
@kh0034 10 ай бұрын
Yay! 2 of my favorite KZbinrs in 1 video! So glad you had Cas on. Her system has really helped me.
@missheju169
@missheju169 10 ай бұрын
14:26 Hello I have an idea Add an extra empty bin underneath your table so you may replace when the full one is place elsewhere (rotation)
@MK-lp4he
@MK-lp4he 10 ай бұрын
Could you fit a fourth bin? The card bin looks like it can barely hold one week’s supplies. Maybe even two spare bins, so that when they go to the basement he can have some time to unload them the ways he wants before they have to immediately return back upstairs?
@MK-lp4he
@MK-lp4he 10 ай бұрын
A fourth bin would fit if they were oriented vertically, and if they were oriented vertically there would be less space in front for things to sit outside the bins. Great video, love it!
@pancakey636
@pancakey636 10 ай бұрын
all that 4th bin will do is allowing her husband to procrastinate more, he's going to need a fifth one eventually. trust me that's my husband about our laundry basket. 2 weeks he hasn't put his cleaned laundry away coz there's a spare we could use. the spare was supposed to be a replacement coz the other broke by the handle but still useable. just haven't thrown out the broken one. he used to put away his clothes when we only had one.
@bellemusecore
@bellemusecore 10 ай бұрын
What's a weeks worth of card supplies?
@BethanyChanPlans
@BethanyChanPlans 10 ай бұрын
Your videos are my absolute favorite! You always go the extra mile to make them super entertaining.
@user-rb7gb3ft2w
@user-rb7gb3ft2w 10 ай бұрын
Great video. Just a thought. What if you got another extra bin for his cards, and when it is full you take it down to the basement room and leave it there. Get out the second bin and fill it up. Maybe by the time that one is full he will have emptied the first one.
@brendalg4
@brendalg4 10 ай бұрын
I thought of that too but he might not ever empty the other bin. He might get even worse.. knowing that he has two bins and that somebody will bring the first bin to the basement... He doesn't have to clean the first bin at all. When the second bin is full too, he's just going to dump the first bin when he gets nagged to bring it back. He's not going to take the time to sort it neatly back where goes
@beckyschauer7650
@beckyschauer7650 10 ай бұрын
@@brendalg4As someone who personally struggles to empty bins, that’s exactly how I would react to having two bins… fill them both and go… a third bin couldn’t possibly hurt! 🫣😆
@mrsp2115
@mrsp2115 7 ай бұрын
How about a new bin whenever the bin on the table is full. Just keep buying bins and putting the full one with the other full ones in the basement. Then just TOTALLY problem and she doesn't have to look at it. She can throw a big blanket over it when she has to go down to the basement for laundry or whatever. @@beckyschauer7650
@Acts238kjv
@Acts238kjv 3 ай бұрын
I literally cackled when you showed yourself struggling to change I’m still dieing😂😂😂
@Pajali
@Pajali 10 ай бұрын
Cas is a gem! She’s so good at breaking things down so you can figure out your style, and she gives a lot of suggestions and explains the reasons behind them, so you know what to look for even if those specific suggestions don’t fit your situation. Hands-down, she’s the most helpful organizing guru I’ve found.
@draeleigh1
@draeleigh1 10 ай бұрын
I love Cass! You have the best people on your channel!
@laurelarmstrong4535
@laurelarmstrong4535 10 ай бұрын
You are my weekly motivation. I start my Saturdays with a smile
@thebaxters1375
@thebaxters1375 10 ай бұрын
I wondered when you were going to collaborate with Cas! I love her and have been following her for YEARS!!! Great video!!!
@cececarter7663
@cececarter7663 10 ай бұрын
Stash of icecream 🍦 The best organised space. I really loved it!!! Made my heart happy. ❤
@Seoulsearch616
@Seoulsearch616 10 ай бұрын
Along with the helpful organizing tips, I love seeing glimpses of your daily home life. ❤️ Hope you're all doing well, Ariel! 🎃🥰👻
@cowsonzambonis6
@cowsonzambonis6 10 ай бұрын
Your ice cream 😂😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 That’s a life win!
@marjiescott2302
@marjiescott2302 10 ай бұрын
That is the best stash of ice cream I have ever seen!!!! I love it!!! I'm So jealous, my six kids don't let a stash build up at our house.
@KatrinaT
@KatrinaT 10 ай бұрын
Two of my children and I have ADHD and watching you and your husband makes me think you could both utilize some of the same executive function resources and dopamine building ideas. Habits are very important and tying positive results to actions completed (even effusive praise) or adding fun or hygge ideas to make activities more appealing can help so much!
@bn_leake
@bn_leake 10 ай бұрын
I'm a butterfly-ish but what I really want to know is what bug is the mom with lots of littles who would love to put things away when she's done with them, but often has to tend to a child mid task and never gets back to it and all of a sudden it's time to make dinner and clean the dishes and nurse the baby and fall into bed before remembering she left the kitchenaid on the counter, the laundry on the couch, and all the homeschooling materials in the dining room table? That one is probably the centipede 🙃
@bellemusecore
@bellemusecore 10 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha I was trying to think of a flitty bug like a dragonfly but it's totally a centipede. 🤣🤣🤣 A thousand things going on at once! You sound like me! Trying to keep things organised in the chaos with 2 homeschoolers and 2 toddlers 😅😅🥴🥴🫠🫠🤣🤣 We got this lol we'll morph into butterflies later, the days are long but the years are short. 🥰🥰🥰
@HannahRainbow88
@HannahRainbow88 10 ай бұрын
I've been following Cas for about 15 years. I'm a cricket but I have to compromise and make everything in communal areas butterfly style for my husband and our son. The key is decluttering often, so there isn't too much overflowing out of their visual, large category homes to drive me as crazy.
@marthavanderpool6829
@marthavanderpool6829 Ай бұрын
This, too, shall pass. All too quickly. Enjoy the chaos, but do continually declutter and simplify. I just wish I had heard of “minimalish “ in about 1986. Makes everything easier.
@carolfuller4940
@carolfuller4940 10 ай бұрын
This was my introduction to your channel. Been following Cas for months. I like your style and have subscribed. Thanks.🎉
@truelove-tr7mg
@truelove-tr7mg 10 ай бұрын
Her bug system really works! I have always used transparent boxes and throw away the lid. When she talked about 4 types of clutter personality, I know exactly where to fit my clutter personality.
@antoniab5254
@antoniab5254 10 ай бұрын
I love how this video showed solutions for both partners. My husband and I have very different styles as well and it’s so hard to find solutions that work for both 😅
@amynapier3551
@amynapier3551 10 ай бұрын
Love this. Now if there was a way to stay organized during the holidays in a multi faith family, that would be a miracle. Keep shining bright.
@karensohm1723
@karensohm1723 3 ай бұрын
You are tooo blinking funny thanks so very much for the giggles ...and another push to get something done❤
@katemolly100
@katemolly100 10 ай бұрын
Definitely need to know your spouse’s style too!! I’ve been watching Cas for about a year now and have made awesome progress ❤
@wildrose070
@wildrose070 10 ай бұрын
I love your new filming space! I watched the video so I know this is a corner of your bedroom. The background is so easy on the eyes!
@ThatAwkwardMom
@ThatAwkwardMom 10 ай бұрын
Me too!!
@sariahsue
@sariahsue 10 ай бұрын
I seem to remember Cas asking her followers who she should collab with. And I seem to remember suggesting you! I'm glad it happened! It was fun to see you two together!
@tgood9344
@tgood9344 10 ай бұрын
My husband leaves closets, drawers, doors open always. Also lights, he doesn’t turn them off. I’m just thankful we have a small dog so our front door & garage door does get closed. (He parks in the garage & the door closes on itself.) Thank heavens. Help! I like things clean, not cluttered & less is more for me. It’s a daily struggle. I’m currently going through each room decluttering & it’s a ton of work but I’m feeling much better. Takes time & I work out of the home full time but I’m doing it. For my husband he’s not so keen on me getting rid of stuff. So I kinda stash a box with things in it in my car trunk then donate. It’s just stuff we haven’t used in years. Thanks for your encouraging video & with your husbands added process.👍🏻🌺
@JaneH3675
@JaneH3675 10 ай бұрын
That's so funny.. my husband is a great organizer, but.. he has a habit of leaving dresser drawer open half way and the closet door not fully closed, and yes leaves on lights. I haven't figured out yet why he does this 🙄 . But it drives me crazy. I like all doors closed. Lol
@HobbitBroad
@HobbitBroad 9 ай бұрын
I've watched the clutter bug on KZbin a few times. I'm pretty sure I'm just like your husband, but with way more horder tendencies. You clarified a lot she was trying to tell me. Now I'm still trying to figure out how to declutter my home but without buying new 'stuff' to organize with. I just know somewhere in one of my many piles there is something to help me organize my stuff without buying more stuff.
@heathersmeather
@heathersmeather 10 ай бұрын
It’s good that you and your husband have macro in common. I’m a ladybug, and my husband is a bee/butterfly. He naturally organizes like a bee but has a hard time keeping up with his micro systems. He’s a stacker and a spreader, and a saver and collector. 🤦‍♀️ I’m a hider and a declutter-er. So there’s a lot of minimalist vs maximalist. I just compromise and figure there’s worse things in life. So, I put up with the skateboard decks (over 100 now) tools left everywhere, and tiny dragon ball-esque collectibles all over every surface of the computer/family room downstairs. I figure I can put up with all that because he takes care of yard work, car maintenance, plumbing, etc. We’ve got three teens, too, so I figure the house will never be ladybug perfect, or minimalist, but it’s mostly tidy, clean, and comfortable. I can live with that. 😁
@jessicaxmm
@jessicaxmm 10 ай бұрын
Cas’s method is so down to earth and practical. I tried Kon Mari method for long time and never succeeded until I found Cas
@bittersweet3-
@bittersweet3- 9 ай бұрын
My favorite vlog with U + Cass ever! Came back 2 watch it a 2nd time. enjoyed it even more second time. !Be blessed. Ciao
@aliblue3605
@aliblue3605 10 ай бұрын
Cass is so fun, love her. That was so fun you got to collab with her.
@keksmonster1153
@keksmonster1153 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! My baby is 8 months now, and i still gft depressed, but you're are so funny it lights up p my mood. My husband is also a butterfly. He is flying around the house and leaves stuff everywhere. As a ladybug I'm struggling. But i will try to be more patient witu him and myself. You're baby is adorable!!!!❤
@toryevanss4512
@toryevanss4512 10 ай бұрын
Your new filming spot is beautiful! That paint color is perfection.
@kyliemurphy6954
@kyliemurphy6954 10 ай бұрын
Great video - I'm exactly the same as you - a ladybug with butterfly tendencies - and I think my partner is the same as yours. I've learnt that I have to organise our pantry in a way that works for a butterfly otherwise it gets sabotaged!
@sara_387
@sara_387 10 ай бұрын
What a fun video! What about a card sorting tray/box for your husband? One with various dividers. The stacks of cards, make it look like he needs a more detailed system. But yes, the crunch point of any system is when it needs to be reset or emptied out from time to time. We always had the same problem with paper clutter.
@ClutterbugPod
@ClutterbugPod 10 ай бұрын
This video made me laugh so hard. You are awesome! Thank you for doing this! 😂
@anncarlson5991
@anncarlson5991 10 ай бұрын
I love Cas and her helpful bug system. I REALLY love your creative and funny videos. I am curious if you were on speech team or in drama club, you are so, so good at these videos, funny, witty and informative. Thank you for your fun twist on life. I appreciate you.
@ThatAwkwardMom
@ThatAwkwardMom 10 ай бұрын
I always wanted to be more involved in drama club but I was just so shy in High-school. I joined the drama club but because of how shy I was I didn't get any speaking parts. Cameras are easier than people 😉 Thank you for your compliments 😊
@skhjs9246
@skhjs9246 10 ай бұрын
I feel this. I’ve been working to set up systems that work for me over the past few years. Then I got married. And my systems don’t work for my husband at all. Tried the bin thing, and it landed in his office, never to return! I’ve at least got him on board understanding that we need systems that work for both of us. So he is actually building himself a collection containment unit with a matching piece for his office so things can move back and forth quickly and easily without driving me bananas!
@lindabourcet1349
@lindabourcet1349 10 ай бұрын
So important to work as a team and communicate without blaming. I had my husband take the Clutterbug test and he is a cricket just like me. If we can’t do it perfectly we don’t start so we are working on ‘good enough’ systems (until we can do it right).
@coffeebeforemascara
@coffeebeforemascara 10 ай бұрын
OK, you got me there with your "Husbandus Clutterus" montage... I died.... you are so clever and funny!
@lindsaybezet3517
@lindsaybezet3517 10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ariel, for another wonderful video. You are a beautiful lady inside and out. God bless you and your family 💓
@ThatAwkwardMom
@ThatAwkwardMom 10 ай бұрын
Thanks Lindsay ❤️
@sparklejesusfreak
@sparklejesusfreak 10 ай бұрын
Loved this and honestly long before Cass I read a book that said look at where you are putting like items and make it a suitable home there instead of trying to give it a new place to live. So if mail ends up continually in the same place give it a bin with things that need to be filed, things that need dealt with like bills and another for things that you will consider but ultimately will be discarded like coupons or weekly ads.
@JodiYeager
@JodiYeager 10 ай бұрын
I adore you and I also adore Cass. I'm so glad you had a consult with her. I'd love to have one myself. However, that toothbrush holder is genious, and I absolutely MUST have that in my life. Yesterday, if not sooner.
@outofmyelement932
@outofmyelement932 10 ай бұрын
The new spot for videoing in your bedroom looks GREAT!!!!!
@Jessica_Jones
@Jessica_Jones 10 ай бұрын
This is so similar to the recent progress that's been made at our house! My husband is a butterfly and I am a cricket. For a long time it was tough finding compatible ways of maintaining things, but when I finally learned more about butterfly tendencies and how to compromise better? Man, I'm still amazed that my husband has actually been "following the systems" quite well, and so have I, which makes it that much easier for me (and not annoying at all anymore, lol) to put away the handful of things that still get left out ☺️ Love your hilarious ways of making a point, haha...thanks for sharing new knowledge AND some good laughs 😉
@marjolijnbas9987
@marjolijnbas9987 10 ай бұрын
I saw a video of Cass literally yesterday and thumped up a comment of someone who suggested a collab with you. I thought how cool that would be... imagine my surprise seeing this video! What are the odds 😅 Awesome vid, loved it!
@jamesonplaysyoutube8643
@jamesonplaysyoutube8643 10 ай бұрын
Your videos crack me up lol. Im glad your channel is taking off. Super happy for you guys
@lynnen.5151
@lynnen.5151 10 ай бұрын
You’re adorable!! I love your channel & sense of humor!
@Rosa-kf6yy
@Rosa-kf6yy 7 ай бұрын
You and your hubby are quite entertaining while still getting the message across. I subscribed. :) Right! We have to recognize the truth with our spouses and praise them for what they can do. Bravo.
@ruth4114
@ruth4114 10 ай бұрын
I love this collaboration. Both ladies are so funny and it's a delight to have them together. Great job!👍🏻
@susankirkland6293
@susankirkland6293 10 ай бұрын
i love this - creative ways to solve clutter problems - these videos help me think outside the box to solve my clutter problems
@thechickincharge1073
@thechickincharge1073 10 ай бұрын
Clutterbug was the absolute game changer for me!! I never could figure why most of the recommended ways never worked for me, as I spent so much time trying each one! It was because those styles worked against ME instead of for or with ME! Most styles organize in a hidden way and I am visually driven! I even decorate with visual abundance and it makes my heart happy! I am autistic and a butterfly but when I get overwhelmed I get extremely detailed and nitpick. I clean/organize and micromanage in my home if I am stressed about things I can’t control. I always called it ‘productive worrying’ but it turned me into a workaholic with fibromyalgia. I never thought to connect it with my autism because I didn’t find out until I was 58! I love cleaning and organizing and Ariel’s videos make me happy!! (Cas keeps me sane!!) GREAT VIDEO!!
@Siures
@Siures 10 ай бұрын
Same. When I discovered that sorting pencils for hours had nothing to do with how I organize 😂 because afterward everything went into one bowl.
@dianasimplifies
@dianasimplifies 10 ай бұрын
Centipede!!!!!😂😂😂😂 ok I love that bathroom sink idea. My vanity is a mess at all times and it's all mine. Hubby has his own bathroom.
@saintinlower48
@saintinlower48 10 ай бұрын
I decided to subscribe because you’re funny! And I like Cas very, very much because she has helped me very, very much.Great job on a fun and useful video!🎉
@brits6952
@brits6952 10 ай бұрын
Thanks Ariel!! I’m in the middle of decluttering and reorganizing. You always post the most positive helpful things!
@Jess-Gonzales
@Jess-Gonzales 10 ай бұрын
AAAHHH YOU FINALLY DID A CLUTTERBUG VIDEO!! I have been her follower for about 3 years and 2 for you and I have been waiting for this day ever since i saw you were doing cleaning reviews
@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654
@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 10 ай бұрын
I have a friend who really really needs this. I’m going to give it to her.
@bemk78
@bemk78 9 ай бұрын
I've been following Cas for a long time and I love her, and you! This video was a great reminder that I need to consider my husband's and teenagers' organizational types. I'm a cricket and my husband and son are more likely butterflies. I have struggled to set up a system than works for them as well.
@yolisquintanilla-ll9gy
@yolisquintanilla-ll9gy 10 ай бұрын
Love this! My husband collects magic too! But he is a cricket with bee tendencies, so we bought a large dresser and place it right next to the bed, and has enough space to check and organize, that dresser has like a locker/mesh style so you can see through a little bit. Love that you hubby is a magic fan too
@JasmineBrownOttawa
@JasmineBrownOttawa 10 ай бұрын
Yay, I'm glad you did this collaboration! Cas and the clutterbug styles really changed my approach. I love the practical solutions that have worked for you!
@notbroken4342
@notbroken4342 6 ай бұрын
Your husband is a good sport. I have a butterfly hubby too and have been pushing baskets on him for years with minimal success. I am a cricket who sometimes does bee things.
@christinef7739
@christinef7739 10 ай бұрын
Taking Cas's quiz really changed my life. I'm also a ladybug but all the organizing columns I read were geared for visual organizers. Everything out and arranged by color. I thought it was so pretty but it drove my nuts and was impossible to keep neat. Finally realizing I need most things out of sight was a real game changer. Now I'm able to keep my small house tidy and organized at all times. I divorced a long time ago, but my ex was like your husband, everything had to be out at all times. I don't know if I would have been able to "retrain" him. 😅
@debranielsen2002
@debranielsen2002 10 ай бұрын
The two organizers who always make me laugh - together. 🎉 👏🏻
@drivers99
@drivers99 10 ай бұрын
As a former Magic (that card game those cards are from) player, I was thinking those baskets would be too rough for the cards. And I noticed the paper that got added to line the baskets haha. Probably need a smooth basket for those. Then again I would also try to keep dust from landing on them.
@Careeeeen1
@Careeeeen1 9 ай бұрын
WOW! Cas is such a great, inspiring and knowledgeable Person! And she has such a positve energy! I just LOVED this video, thank you both for so much insight, info and inspo!!! It is very interesting to learn how we can shape our habits with such a simple gadget as baskets on the buffet... of course all habits are rabid dogs... But I like the idea of tackling them, and the mothods in this video make so much sense to me. Thank you!
@ladygrndr9424
@ladygrndr9424 9 ай бұрын
Loved this collab, and happy to find you! I've been following Cas for years, and am very, very much a Cricket (I have to see things, but also need it micro-organized). But knowing what YOU are can be the easy part. Finding out what organizational styles the other people in your house are, AND getting them to stick to an organizational method is the hard part. My husband and son are also butterflies and my house is a series of piles of things my husband is in the middle of, and stuff from school that my son just drops everywhere. I'm going to watch your minimalist and cleaning videos now, to get me back into the mood of tackling the mess--and trying to get them to adopt an organizational system--AGAIN.
@mojyoqueen350
@mojyoqueen350 10 ай бұрын
That beautiful mtg cards pile... I'd say me and my partner have the same problem, but we are both crickets, so our collection is beautifully organised and kept out of sight.
@Sahmgirl
@Sahmgirl 10 ай бұрын
This vid has my 2 fav organizers!! Cas from Clutterbug & Ariel from That Awkward Mom!! Loved it!
@irishcreamkb1
@irishcreamkb1 10 ай бұрын
For his cards, try hanging a shoe organizer on hooks on a wall or behind a closet door. He can still be able to sort his cards and take it downstairs easily. Install hooks for the sorter down there, as well.
@blessed1113
@blessed1113 10 ай бұрын
You are so much fun! 😂 I’m a ladybug here 🐞discovering this has helped me so much at home 😍
@Rosannasfriend
@Rosannasfriend 4 ай бұрын
I agree with what you said at the end. Phase one looks like endgame to me, lol.
@theresaanndiaz3179
@theresaanndiaz3179 10 ай бұрын
The clutterbug system was an eye opener for me. I am definitely a bee, but I think my husband is a butterfly. He is amused by my love of labeling everything.
@banaa9463
@banaa9463 10 ай бұрын
Hahaha I love the narration for the husbandus clutterus!
@strll3048
@strll3048 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, you really helped this family! You two mesh so well, it would be nice to see more videos together. This lady's humor is a superpower.
@konichiwa373
@konichiwa373 9 ай бұрын
I don't usually comment, but I really enjoy your videos. Thank you so much for sharing the toothbrush organizer. I have trouble with mess on my bathroom counter due to lack of space and maybe a few too many products...lol I didn't know these were a thing and I'll be buying one today.
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