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[@jckays4914]

Who is here from Tiktok. This is so emotional 😢. I pray all goes well for you and your kids.

[@amosoyoo6542]

Me. What a sad story with a good ending

[@iqrainajeyte3947]

Me✊

[@lucymwaniki604]

Ndio nimefika

[@janewangui501]

Me

[@LynnWalter-oq6qw]

Me

[@b.a.bie-black506]

Can’t believe this video is from 2 years ago and TikTok brought me here now

[@wilsonkimeu8808]

I like the English, eloquence and calmness

[@sofi1672]

Yes

[@vincentomondi5612]

Yes man

[@vincentomondi5612]

Thats our style# wilson

[@queenestherngrit6415]

@@vincentomondi5612 kzbin.info/www/bejne/o4LdiX-cdt6gsKc 15yrs

[@focusdaily2742]

Your testimony has increased love to my wife, May I live to be a responsible husband & father. May God see you through this... 🕊️

[@kutesamanka5525]

seriously am sorry for what happened to her, but if you have been getting abused like this, when you have to leave dont show, dont ask for permission to leave dont pack everything and sit there and wait, just go....take the kids ...anything just go, so many stories we hear of people who waited, who in-between arguments said they are leaving the abuser, and guess what, they got gunned downed before they can even pack. when your son told you he was being abused, going to ask your husband to kindly let him take his things was you again putting him amd yourself in a risky position, this habit of being polite and submissive even after you left, had to stop the first time he laid hands on you...African women stooopp if he beats you, he looses all rights and respect, he does not have to validate anything anymore for you, just go....before it elavates to murder. go quietly and stay away

[@ChakitoTolu]

May God help you and His grace is sufficient. You are one in a million

[@mercynjoki8618]

Hallaluy

[@agneswanjau559]

This lady has a beautiful voice. Can an institution or someone use this beautiful voice for media or for advertising? May God be with you my sister.

[@mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255]

Its well wt you and your children.

[@omwengamoraa6843]

@@mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255 tttttttlm

[@niwomujunimicheal6998]

@@mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255 😀😀😀😀😀

[@NileGoddess]

No job if you don’t know someone

[@gladnessshola2718]

She really has

[@kendibeth5430]

Who notices how intelligent this lady is? She smiles when she should cry, depicts pain in sarcastic smile and humor., but great is her destiny

[@lizzwaceraofficial8307]

She no longer hurting

[@kendibeth5430]

@@lizzwaceraofficial8307 yeah, just manifestation of her feelings and emotions in an intelligent and humorous way

[@NileGoddess]

Not everyone can do that she is lucky .There are people who smile in pain

[@neosehloho1802]

I do smile while i am broken

[@eunicenjeru215]

Her English is very polished!

[@KKE1978]

Listening to her is just so calming. I can listen to her for hours. She needs to be a narrator. And she is gorgeous too.

[@harrisonwazza3563]

She is a good orator as well

[@janetkoech756]

May God see you through

[@nancynyagaki8973]

You wear grace so beautifully and you are so fine🌹

[@KandidXpressions]

I agree

[@sarahsimone9578]

This lady is so pure of heart ....I fear for those who mistreat her or do her wickedness...she is so strong humble patient..the fruit of the Holy spirit ...I pray for such ...she is so dignified

[@stephkirathe]

Her eloquence, gracefulness, beauty and calmness....it's insane.

[@damariszuckschwert9489]

Her beauty..,you cannot even tell she is a mother of 4..,some people gotta very good genes.

[@cynthiakabue3818]

This is the one of the most inspiring stories I have watched, the eloquence, confidence, peace and beauty is impeccable. May God be your source of peace and fulfill your heart's desires.

[@monicahnthenya1276]

Nmejiuma nkisoma hio kizungu mamaaaa

[@paulineandala2863]

Best advice ever... Don't get involved with someone who does not know who they are. Thank God for gifting you with peace and joy. Nothing is permanent mama. You are a great mum.

[@sidneyachia1909]

This is REAL GREAT advice!!! ❤️ Thanks.

[@AbubakarSeif]

After watching three stories, i have seen how much violence exists in homes. As men we need turn to God to teach us how to treasure our families. Our wives need to be treated right...

[@queenestherngrit6415]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/o4LdiX-cdt6gsKc Lov urself

[@brendamcbee5734]

Ongezea volume…… true !

[@bosetinuola4818]

True

[@siloalapei2448]

Women need to just leave toxic men. Marriages are overrated. And men nned to do the work and not scapegoat their BS to God or lack of Him

[@michaelguy5446]

0 pop s(((

[@ollybossy]

Your voice is so soothing. You held on till you couldn't anymore, you're such a beautiful and talented woman, life is just beginning for you. Lots of love and hugs to you.

[@rosemuraguri9311]

I empathise. Never leave your children with a person you cannot live with.

[@Mabrrrr]

That's the truth. Whole truth right there 😭😭😭😭😭

[@KKE1978]

Totally I concur

[@vinnettepeterkin9366]

I beg to second it

[@shantaodera6769]

Women go through so much in relationships but they never speak out. Thanks for coming out to share your story. I hope you get avenues to support your children and give them a stable environment. Pole sana

[@lindatsuma8305]

Who else felt like crying with the tone sh used on"even if love is over there must be humanity..😪😪

[@konahhill7083]

True words 👌

[@Shezztravel]

it broke my heart

[@lavyshams99]

Just came from tiktok i am crying 😭😭 😭i just left marriage with the saying the Early the better i was psychologically abused I pray that life get better with my son here ❤️ Soo encouraging

[@carolinenjeru7360]

Hugs darling all shall be well ❤

[@PanaNorBobo]

Men like him end up being miserable in the end. He will regret ever abusing and mistreating you, he will literally come back begging you to take him back. i send love and light to you and your kids.

[@akinyiokeyo4618]

100 percent!

[@mwangiem2195]

Waaaa I think this lady is a good orator. May God meet you at your point of need.

[@gicherumburu4047]

This lady is extremely eloquent, intelligent and calm... Her dad definitely failed her, just as did her husband. I hope she recovers and gets back on her feet, and most of all, that she gets all the happiness

[@SylviaNyariro]

How did her dad fail her though??

[@susanwanjiru8695]

I like how she narrates the story without crying.

[@claudiamiraho6415]

Things women go through in the name of love and kuvumilia in marriage 😢😢😢 may God see us through....

[@barbrabarbra6208]

Women really go through alot, i really love the calmness and smile she has. May the almighty strengthen you, heal and open a way for you dear 💖💖💖

[@heatherhatch9290]

She is such a "Good woman"! I hope she is surrounded by many loving people for the rest of her days. ❤

[@totietoo6218]

The fact that she is still calling him my husband after all this mess shows how much she loved him but the man took her for granted. Never ignore the red flags in the name of protecting him

[@omondiantony1207]

Am sincerely sorry, for what you have gone through. Let me say, you are very beautifull. I believe your kids are gorgeous too. God is faithfull may His light shine upon you and your family

[@alicenyambura1130]

Wow!!!She is so beautiful with top notch English. May the Lord bless her and her children. It shall be well...

[@tinangorora6371]

Why do people make reference to her English.... I’m Zimbabwean so I find this reference to good English strange

[@FamousBerry139]

Kenyans loves mixing English Swahili all the time

[@thomasshimenga6081]

Just Love your "BIG HEART" despite all you went through from your youthful days. You need to be spiritually disconnected from your past as they may also befall your children.God bless you My sister Atieno.

[@gracenyaboke8483]

Friends of Hope,let us do something n help her get back on track.Most importantly get her girl back to school.

[@kenmaritim9543]

Surely

[@lucywambui8092]

Jamani add me to the list of friends of hope.

[@Mabrrrr]

How do we do that?

[@ruthcliff8498]

Was a group formed? kindly add me

[@agnesthomas2587]

Add me to the group

[@okodedemairabuor4935]

You are amazingly intelligent and blessed with the gift of gab, your determination is out of the ordinary, any surport that comes your way is well deserved. Please count me.

[@fatalyss]

I love the way she sums it all up. What strength and purpose she carries.

[@euniceawuor4668]

When a man becomes abusive, please leave. His love for you is gone and most definitely someone has already replaced you in his heart and life. Abusive men never change. It gets worse and worse.

[@cherylmartin9031]

Most men get abusive when they have a mistress

[@Wakinyua]

@@cherylmartin9031 I beg to disagree... abusive men are users and they don't love. They are people who don't love themselves and have no ability to love. They are people seeking validation every other day. They don't change. They copy paste themselves to all their supplies

[@cherylmartin9031]

@@Wakinyua thats why I said abusive men have mistresses....abuse is a learnt behaviour that can be unlearned. No one is born abusive...every baby is born angelic. They copy the behaviour mostly of their care giver. Generational cases. Divorce follows the whole clan and the grand children's children. A person in love will NEVER abuse their loved ones.

[@memorynelson445]

It's called narcacism

[@HellenLen-hy6vj]

​@@cherylmartin9031 Narcissists they are. Always behaving like they are the victim! So horrible.

[@njokindungu6155]

Even if love is over, there must be humanity. I’m so sorry for what you went through mum. May God protect and provide for you and your children always. Hugs.

[@elizabethmusingarabwi399]

Very sad..all her youth was waisted for nothing

[@evaluna4318]

This woman just made me cry again, she reminds me of what I went through, I suffered alot in the name of where will I take my children, I loved my 3 boys, they used to cry with me in dark rainny nights, ,my fast born was 7yrs old when we left there home,,His 21 but still tells me the dramas he can remember. God,I know you have done this to me and you can help this woman too.Wanawake tunatesaka kweli.

[@malotjhaseakamela9021]

Cruelty at its BEST.

[@akinyiokeyo4618]

One never forgets,I remember I was six when my mum started her journey of trauma to date....I can remember the dress I was in and I was seated on some plastic container a blue one to be specific,it was about 4pm.....I am now a mature woman now

[@rosemarymwape4998]

Even if Love is over, there must be some humanity 🙏🏽

[@cathy3842]

O oooh means a lot

[@benz4369]

There is something very authentic, unique and comforting about this host. Watching it full, I can only say one thing you are an asset, which majority of men will want to possess as his perfect partner. Atleast for me let me be honest here, I feel I would have been lucky man if i had - - - 😷

[@moureencaroline6446]

Very Touching story.. She is a strong lady. BEST ADVICE NEVER DATE SOMEONE WHO ARE STILL FINDING THEMSELVES

[@lifenlivingbyfaith]

TRUE

[@victorowinyo4182]

Should men also date ladies who are also still trying to find themselves

[@damariszuckschwert9489]

@victor omondi Of cause no its a big mess as well.

[@elizabethnimwaka7948]

Her story is so inspiring it teaches us not to loose hope in life ,this lady is so beautiful inside and outside what an amazing soul sometimes we don't realise what we have until it's gone.

[@effieogayo5942]

This woman is sharp 🙂so bright and intelligent 😊 May God' favour her and the kids

[@magbenny1416]

I can't believe that man left all this beauty. Her story is so sad, I found myself crying. May God heal her and continue giving her the strength to move on and take care of her kids. This men are devils

[@nosim7440]

Not only beauty but a humble and good hearted human being

[@danieljohn2184]

God will provide her the best husband.

[@dorothyokayo5911]

I love the big heart that Atieno has... God is making a way for you, where there seems to be no way.. Just be calm and keep praying and pray for him too...You are still a beauty! Bless you girl!

[@bobogitau5383]

Good people always fall in the hands of bad partners....thank God u healed may God bless you and your kids

[@bekly.5106]

True. I wonder why

[@ExploreJapanTV]

You are right! No point dating anyone who is yet to discover whom they are. Period

[@thembisaodendaal]

I always tell my girls in life there are no guarantees as weather you are a virgin or not whether you marry a wealthy man or poor man there's no guarantee that he won't end up treating you like this man but there's nothing worst than a man treating you this way and you have taken care of him.dont ever make it soft for men they must deliver their pound of flesh as a man is expected in the same breath I train them to be independent and self sufficient never to rely on a man but never to allow a man to not bring his side.

[@ExploreJapanTV]

@@thembisaodendaal right!

[@cathy3842]

@@thembisaodendaal oooooh you'you've spoken gosh❤❤

[@phoebewanjiru1955]

May God hear her cry. God will make a way and you will be alright

[@ellerfitz]

😢 That's really good advice: Don't date someone who doesn't know who they are. If they don't know who they are, how would you know who you're dating?

[@faithalivizaluyayi5470]

Salute to us women. Sending love n kisses to all my fellow women. Women are the strongest in the world. Special creatures from God. God bless you mami😘😘😘❤️😇

[@achiengcaroline5920]

Sadly we women are our own worst enemies.

[@nyarsakwa1492]

I know the feeling my dear,for a moment i thought you are giving the story of my life....i know God is still writting our book,and we shall testify of the goodnes of God

[@euniceombura7917]

Who is like a woman living her parents to live with a stranger calling a husband oh God have mercy on us

[@Wakinyua]

Same way.

[@rispermotivation1166]

For us youths it's a challenge that we should not date at young age, so let us develop ourselves first

[@blandinamyinga9489]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@marykasiva2686]

Why are men so cruel though?

[@Yemzy]

The eloquence is beautiful. Her narrative prowess is outstanding 👏

[@ramahalarabelani9070]

Immediately I saw her I loved her, she is so beautiful in and out 😍😍😍😍😍😍, God bless you mama.

[@phanoh9659]

Beautiful for sure

[@patriciamunayi7706]

What a beauty! Inside and out! God will come through for you. Yes He will. Peace is more important than an abusive and disrespectful partner. You are strong! You will survive!

[@moseshandsam1865]

U r still so beautiful and strong princess never lose the hope .....keep the spirit of going May good bless u and ur family

[@iatuhaire369]

The things a mother would do for her children... Thankyou for being faithful. May you continue to see God's faithfulness in the land of the living.

[@emmamugambi1333]

You a great woman and a fighter! You are welcome lady ! Well being of you and your children is what matters.. thats a strong personality right..you are no one's practice wife..you are beautiful , resilient, ..stand strong for you and your kids cos that's who you are!! Much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@cathy3842]

Lessons learnt.Never trust,Never show that you can die for a person,Never bow down for a man in the name of love,Always be quick when you start seeing red flags,

[@anneanjao7008]

No. She summarized the lesson; Never date young and never date/marry a person who is trying to find himself/herself.

[@cathy3842]

@@anneanjao7008 good student

[@millicentwaithera8639]

Wow! Peace of mind is priceless......may the same God who saw you through the years of shame and agony, lighten your path.

[@omaatlamokgwa]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 maybe one day i will have the strength to share my story without falling apart. May God continue to walk with you and thank you for sharing your story❤

[@nancykimani8427]

My goodness, she's gone through so much... May the Lord remember her and her children and provide for all their needs.

[@ginnafraser6013]

You're strong lovely, smart lady you're so forgiving! I love that in you because that's how we heal and set ourselves free. And I like when you say, "even if love is gone, there is still humanity." I am in tears as I writing this. May God bless you and your children.

[@TimothyOrwahOgutu]

Women go through alot in marriages, my advice is never stay in abusive marriages.

[@ikhowaka1471]

Marriage is challenging for both men and women..... you need serious counseling before you go in .......and you must try everything to make it work. You only leave under two conditions (1)cheating if you can't forgive (2) your life is at risk

[@doctorrees4473]

Wow, what a story. Just when I think my life is in shambles then I hear stories like this, I just ask God for forgiveness for complaining nothing and it just humbles me. Atieno you are such a strong woman. There is nothing sweeter than peace of mind. God is with you.

[@justinetwahirwa6670]

May God lift you up so that you build a house for yourself, get money and take care of yourself & your children.

[@iatuhaire369]

I thought i was the only one who loved the way she speaks... can listen for hours. You're soo calm and smooth and believable.❤ Meanwhile what is street parking?

[@ireneatieno84]

Everything happens with a reason and there's time for everything. Our GOD is good no situation remains permanent 🙏 it's well my name sake.

[@vioma2668]

First I must compliment you! You're a very good narrator I love your English.

[@gracenyaboke8483]

Shez eloquent.We schooled together in Pri.Im deeply hurt to hear her story.

[@vincentomondi5612]

I like her english too

[@atienoolangfamily3010]

@@gracenyaboke8483 hi seeing your comments now long time dear, call me

[@sxndits]

You are beautiful , articulate ,calmn, composed and with all this God has a good plan for your life.

[@charlesmungo6782]

This is an example where two men failed to be responsible fathers. First was her dad allowing another man to mess his daughter, then the husband and his ways. Men we should learn to take care of and protect our families.

[@carolmurwayi1161]

You are so so right.

[@i_am_b1anca_207]

He’s sick. The recording of his abuse while smiling is psychopath behaviour. God protect and provide for you ❤️

[@fatmanasir6691]

Atieno, I hear you. I'm sorry. It is well. Thanks for sharing your story(my story, our story).You look really lovely and that dress becomes you. Sometimes you got to let go, not look behind and never look back, like in the Sodom & Gomorrah story literally. You can only love so much. Love/insulate your children more than you hate your ex. Walking way from an abusive partner is not a walk in the park. May you find healing and forgiveness. I know there is a God and Karma too,=. You reap what you sow.

[@tshidimatshidiso3285]

THE WORST MAN IS THE ONE WHO THINKS HE CAN LIVE HIS OWN KIDS AND RAISE ANOTHER MEN'S KIDS

[@lindakaree8386]

Yes the truth

[@iatuhaire369]

And yet the world is full of them

[@alhamdulillhforislam458]

You are right

[@TheFrancesZachary]

Please let this lovely lady begin to pray over her children, to avoid generational transfer of the evil that pursued and troubled her husband. These are spirits that follow bloodlines

[@estherbernnardino]

Same as rape thoug

[@ROBERTOOGEMA]

@@estherbernnardino Very true... curses follows even the innocent those who were never part of it and don't know anything about it...2nd Samuel 13:15...the same sin that David committed followed him to the fourth Generation when his own son lay with her sister..

[@margueritelawrence4556]

@@ROBERTOOGEMA i

[@Smokeylucas]

You are very strong and grounded. Your breakthrough is here now. Don't change who you are. May God answer your prayers for your family❤

[@Butterfly-jt6cr]

You're very brave. A lot of people are going thru the same thing. Hope this inspires someone to walk away from a bad situation and trust God.

[@fransistsikai4694]

A very strong & courageous lady. May The Lord continue to bless you. My heart goes to many couples experiencing abuse in silence.

[@sophiao5855]

You are a very eloquent, beautiful, and a good story teller. Wishing you mummy and the kids a bright future.

[@lahiranigatu6965]

Omg I have been crying...this is a touching story,you are so strong,I admire your strength.

[@nancyaram6794]

This beautiful woman sounds like a fairy! Her voice n aura is angelic! What a story!

[@ericariko8807]

Today ... you made me voularable , cried all through coz of your grace . wow you are blessing ; thanks for sharing

[@tabithamulwa8714]

Ooh my dear you are a strong woman you story is so inspiring may God give you grace and more grace am touched ,may God bless your children my dear.

[@mwendakanyua]

It's painful. But you know what?? He will come crying to you. Save this message!

[@nalugopriscillar4591]

Thank you so much dear may the good Lord bless you darling. God's grace is sufficient, from Uganda

[@marykimani1818]

May God provide /protect for your children! Well said Hope! Children's are blessings....

[@carolineomori1032]

You are such a beauty!!!! So well spoken. Listening to you has been very enlightening but also should i say very collected. 4 kids? You got good genes kabisa. Peace is what is most needed. You are a super strong woman, super strong. Lynn ngugi ( tuko talks) please reach her so tuko people we can support more

[@sarahruth1718]

i like it when she said "i left with my 4 kids with a smile" strong woman

[@megimeg8118]

Advice what did you do... Coz am in the same situation and don't know what to do

[@sarahwema9684]

Atieno you are a rare gem. You are a strong woman. May God grant you your heart desires mummie. What an encouraging story.❤❤

[@neemaatieno9611]

Atieno my namsee..much love mama. God is always faithful..no situation is permanent things will always open up

[@wanjajosphine5062]

God's glory has been sufficient to you...you look so much beautiful, blessed and bold...I love how you smiling while sharing the story ,the scars you got will be your staircasese to success.....God got you dear

[@emmaatieno7057]

Your first responsibility to humanity is kindness and love for yourself.

[@gongandipowithdfredoluoch3226]

May the good Lord continue blessing her and the children. Message of greatness and honour to many.

[@idawairimu7093]

So sorry for all the trouble you went through.. You have really matured through the difficulty.. You really endured a lot.. God is able to take care and provide for your children

[@rosemaina1882]

All things work together for good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose. God is still on the throne and He has good plans for you and your children. Be blessed my dear

[@brianomondi5148]

May you always find peace in the Lord. May God's favor be upon you. Keep the walk with the Lord. Suffer long in Jesus. Joy shall come in the morning.

[@rhodandinda2388]

I needed this...Thank you sir

[@sofi1672]

Amen

[@carolinekolom5510]

In most cases we brood abuse on us by not putting boundaries the first day we sense some element of abuse. If he does it the first time, don’t think it was ghost, it’s him and that’s is just the beginning........ nothing can convince me that any man should be given a second chance after his first tempt to abuse you....

[@bettynthembwa760]

Exactly..

[@fridaycandy995]

....Because it's never going to stop.

[@sheilarono395]

Nimeolewa na wine na whysky this shit ain't happening

[@felixotieno2433]

Quite a sad story! I love the resilience of the lady. Blessings

[@nimky1422]

Thank you for sharing your story with us ,it's really inspiring,may God fight for you and your kids,all shall be well again.

[@alicenyokabi217]

The enemy fought your marriage and chose you in particular bcoz of your great destiny. Very soon you will testify of God's doing in your life! You are very eloguent n beautiful no wonder the enemy has no business fighting one with nothing to show! God bless you.

[@venaokode7396]

😢Wow, what a life. I love your real and narrative techniques. I'm glad the Lord has been Faithful to you and you're strong for you and your children. I'm sending positive vibes along your may. May your story be an Inspiration to women going through what you went through. Blessings ma!!

[@mojaonemedia3443]

She has gone through a lot but the living God will her through.

[@bonmirindo477]

Very touching story. Your are a very strong lady. Your future is very bright. God bless you.

[@emmanuelosindi]

woow , i love her composure and the pure vibe just oozing out of her ..

[@rozanneclaudettemoses3509]

God please restore her in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ Amen🙏🙏🙏

[@peach5860]

You're a strong,beautiful woman. Sending love and positive vibes to you and your children ❤🙏🏾

[@kevinanyim3893]

As a father of girls, I can feel your pain. I am so scared for my girls.