I was wrong.

[@Siacourage]

"If it's lonely at the top, are you really at the top?" That hit hard. Happy belated birthday Ruri. 🎂

[@ogaimon3380]

i mean yes,that's the whole point. you against you,that's the point of the top,if someone didn't expect that,he was wrong from the start.

[@vladprizma]

I know it's not the point, but I think that you can never be at the top, or rather expect to be. My observation of life is that it is a big experiment, and it is okay to fail. If you are not failing, than it means you are not challenging yourself, and can you even expect to grow in such case? You always risking something in order to achive something. You choose you own hard.

[@macrox6017]

"if it's lonely at the top, why are we trying to be at the top?" "what is it that we are actually looking for?" --there are soo many question that i have been thinking lately can anyone answer me?

[@JonathanWangAcc]

find the people on top, (usually financially)

[@kenjirokoro]

I mean, it's always been lonely at the top, and if you don't wanna feel that, do you really need to be there? Why you just can't enjoy your life, your progress and so on, while doing such a simple thing like communication. I really don't get it, why does everyone nowadays want to be super productive, super something to achieve something, for what? Just enjoy your stupid life and every moment in it, imho. The feeling of accomplishment is great, but in the world where you're surrounded by people, the last thing that you shouldn't do is the isolation.

[@jayacus]

What an incredible video, and lesson. I loved your quote, "If your lonely at the top, are you even at the top?" Wow, just brilliant. Thank you for this video and wishing you well.

[@bluwng]

She is a child she hasn’t long enough to really know.

[@Mandalorich]

When i was 23-24 years old (now i'm 33), i was in a private security company. Started military training at 19 y.o, for ideals and the want to change the world, i've lost my self during the path. I was alone, i wanted to be alone, being greedy and thinking only on carreer and money. Than i had an incident in patrol, were i am almost died. I wake up in hospital, many days after, and suddenly my way to see life is changed. I faced ptsd, then depression, i had to face the fact to be alone in the moment that i was really in need of someone with me, and i realized that carrer and money are not the only important matters on this planet. What is said in "into the wild" is really true: "happiness is real only when shared" and also find happiness in the little things of life, such as have a good day with friends/partner. So keep up the good work and i hope you will find someone to share your goals togheter! Happy birthday! Buon compleanno! From Italy.

[@Power_Cosmic27]

Hey man. I'm all for happiness is best when shared. Same age as you. I've tried to "share" my happiness with a number of family and a few friends. Had some really bad stuff happen to me, confused and lost, on my own. Every time I try to "share", I always end up feeling used. I am still searching, and others are not. If there is a task, let the guy who is "free" take care of it. I have not found my tribe, people I can laugh and connect with. It's always awkward, and me feeling like I'm forcing myself or playing catchup. Already old, how do I share when everyone has already made their groups and theres no space for entry?

[@96andr]

Accidenti che storia... spero che tu stia meglio ora!

[@CCP-pb5ss]

nah most people are wack .. 90% mean vs 9% cool vs 1% bestie

[@CCP-pb5ss]

youre not a creator tho'..an inventor..artist..you joined the military because you need to be around teammates & the company of people..whereas creators are way more productive in solitude away from the majority..misery loves company..90% are miserable..living in quiet desperation..frontin like theyre ok when theyre not..fronting like theyve got their lives figured out when they dont..ruri's japanese gene was awakened during solitude & she connected the dots to figure out the cheat code to life..now she's rising to the top & misses being a commoner..this is..common..but its a huge mistake..we're watching her as she learns along the way but watch she's gonna get annoyed w/ the majority of people & get back into the focused zone that got her this far..watch

[@wagdywilliam1869]

Life is not enjoying the ego,for the ego never be satisfied and is self destroying., unless you give up all this and come into contact with the creator of the world and join him through doing your prayers without disconnect then his light will brighten inside you, then you will be in jewellery happiness. God bless you.

[@fond1255]

This is so true, I absolutely love your honesty and your lovely character. Absolutely a masterpiece, your video.

[@Christian-ve4bs]

I love your honesty. More than anything it’s important to be honest with yourself. Honestly I feel the same way about myself 😞

[@Itachi-fm6kw]

To...

[@NiMi-_-]

Happy birthday Ruri! I needed to hear this have a blessed journey on accomplish your goals and enjoy the rest of your day 🙌🏾🙏🏾🎉🎂

[@hanc2411]

I am grateful to you for your shares and what you have contributed to us. Happy birthday Ruri.

[@Naturnal]

This is the 3rd video I've watched of yours. Your channel approach is what the KZbin hemisphere needs more of. Great work! Happy Birthday to you

[@ramenra8942]

I agree! Monk Mode is only useful for a few months when you work on a significant business project. I prioritize going out with friends more and finish up all my work by the first half of the day

[@FolliYt]

I don't think I've seen your content before, but what you said in this video is very relatable. I'm 22 and I'm hoping to figure all this shii out a bit more in these next few years, but who knows. As long as I'm keeping myself healthy, it can't be that bad... Happy birthday!

[@crcurran]

Happy Birthday!! It's going to be OK. It's not your fault the situation your parents are in. You are the counter force that will give them a higher standard of living than they would if you didn't intervene.

[@_kurjala]

Happy birthday Ruri! You have really given me some of the best advice on how to work hard and still maintain a happy lifestyle. It truly is one of the most difficult things to do, but nothing is impossible!

[@talkingleds]

I wish I had 10% of your courage. You deserve joy. I struggle with my self esteem everyday, but people like you inspire me a lot to change at least a bit.

[@elainewinters4807]

Thanks for sharing Ruri, Happy Birthday🎉

[@CJ-nm8sw]

I'm 38 and I've been isolated for many years now. I live as a nomad in different countries because I don't have many friends or family left. It's a depressing life. You really need to foster healthy relationships. For me, it was mostly just unfortunate circumstances. Happy Birthday!

[@ardafirarda3295]

Have you ever tried "coliving spaces"? I used it when i was a digital nomad and i really liked the community there. Google "mapmelon" if you are interested. (i am not affiliated)

[@Artillory1]

I never commented on KZbin much, but I hear you. And I have to say you are doing the right thing always striving to improve. I often link my students to your channel because of your story and your ability to communicate the struggles you have endured. I think we all see ourselves in you and are struck by the hope you are still inspiring to this day, this very special day for you. So thank you for continuing to share your insights with us all, you give this older person hope to change and connect with the world. Oh...and Happy Birthday!

[@landmaze]

It was my birthday too, 4 April. And I was like you, ADHD, desperate, broke, without family in a foreign country. I am half turkish and half ukranian. It's hard to be in country where everyone is saying that you don't belong to them and you should leave. It's almost a year I am here, and yet third time in row I am alone on my birthday. I discovered your channel not long time ago, and only because you have success and passion about productivity, I didn't KMS and still fighting this unfair world of opportunity. I want to thank you for being open about your situation, and showing that you can change your life anytime. It's helping to go through.

[@19yrs]

Happy birthday! ❤🎉

[@dorotheakenneweg]

Happy Birthday 🎈

[@BigBaibars]

Hey pal I'm half Turkish half Syrian LMFAO

[@mfouly]

i have ADHD Too - i'm addicted to learning too - i know only 3 language & i loved ur videos i have seen many of them and i leant a lot - feel ur strong relation and love to ur family - i feel them in ur words - love ur honesty - love ur hard work and skills improvement everyday as u say - feel the loneliness as i do got stuck in it too so i feel the pain & i wish u all the best in ur whole year coz its 5 month now after ur birthday :) - wish u achieve all ur dreams , got healthy relationships get rid of toxic people , wish u enable ur self to enjoy little things that may bring happiness everyday but we choose to neglect them intentionally or unintentionally u r a great person u do provide really good idea that inspire whoever want to listen and have the intention to apply - i signed my self in the waiting list of this loneliness community and looking forward to join when time comes a big thank u from Egypt - u will be welcomed any time u decide to visit Egypt

[@SierraMysteria]

I identify so much with everything you said, with having such big goals you're passionate about, and how rough it is sometimes, and the need for a community... This is exactly what I've been looking for! I can't wait to join and to connect with like minded creators, thank you for setting this up!!

[@volkizengin]

Good and bad things always happen in this life. In my life, good things rarely happen. You helped me a lot. Good luck and happy birthday Ruri! ❤🥳

[@AnimalsLittleHouse]

2:33 😪🤕😭😭😭It's awalys been so hard to push yourself while it's worth it

[@ivanuwka]

Happy birthday! You are a very inspiring girl, thanks for your KZbin channel!❤

[@MuscleWatching]

I think too. Isolating oneself can be a double edged sword.

[@Cage5]

I can easily relate to your thinking. My mother works in a job where she is exposed to super tough physical conditions that are extremely demanding on the body and mind. Sometimes she goes to work barely able to walk and works for practically "no money". I would like to help her but it requires me to be successful in one way or another. I am currently in "miserable status" and am constantly working day and night to change that. Happy birthday Ruri! I disappeared a little bit too from your channel but I think we all missed you.

[@JM_Shen]

Happy birthday Ruri! I’m going through a similar process. My mom get scammed last year and later on that leads to a divorce. I isolated myself from family and friends and have little hopes. But I know I like making videos, so I start my youtube channel this year, although I still making bad videos, I believe I can become better and achieve something someday. I really enjoy watching your videos and learned a lot from them. Thank you for making all those amazing videos. And again, wish you have a happy birthday !

[@dave_savage]

Happy birthday Ruri 🎉

[@Kole-qp5ib]

Why are my eyes watering while listening to your amazing Ness... What is this Magic,😂 Happy Birthday this world is a better place because of YOU and Your beautiful voice. Thanks ❤

[@christophercoates2120]

Thank you for your honesty. Self awareness is the step we all need to make things better. The balance you seek is closer than before. Happy birthday Ruri! Keep inspiring and helping others!🎂

[@Akta]

l love your honesty here Ruri, I agree with everything you said and I think it's amazing that you're sharing this message ❤ happy belated birthday too fellow Aries ❤❤

[@ruriohama]

Thank you so much!

[@4everpartyy]

Your most honest heartfelt video yet. I loved this but please stay with us and work on your mental health. We all love you and can’t afford to lose you xxxx

[@4everpartyy]

Ps. HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANGEL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@labedition3010]

Happy Birthday Ruri, may God Bless you more and more!!

[@KeimiYoshida23]

Thank you for opening up, it's really hard in those times, along with depression and loneliness. Hope for the best for you, Ruri. You got this.

[@DIYBuilder]

Happy Birthday Ruri 🎈🎁🎂

[@kk_2753]

I appreciate the honesty and rawness of this video. You are an amazing young woman, and I admire you a great deal. No blame at all should be apportioned to you for the awful, unfortunate situation that your family was put in. It was out of your control. I'm really sorry that you and your family went through that. I have felt many of the feelings that you are expressing, and I really empathised (although, obviously we are all unique and so are our experiences). I literally clapped when you talked about the mentality in the self-improvement community concerning mental health and struggles. The narrative is unhelpful and untrue, to me. Life is such a puzzle for us all. It's such a pressure cooker. You are an admirable and impactful content creator, and, more importantly human being. Most of all, please have a lovely birthday, Ruri! You're two days after my mother and I miss her dearly. You actually have quite similar vibes and drive, which makes me smile and remember fondly. You go, girl!

[@tungcao1581]

Happy birthday! You are a very inspiring girl, thanks for your KZbin channel!

[@italozavarella5460]

Happy Birthday Ruri !!! You are a gorgeous and smart lady, your videos are inspiring, informative and entertaining, don't worry about feeling bad, everybody has a bad day once in a while, remember after the rain the sun comes out bright and shiny, Keep on going my lady 😀😃😃

[@will_ton7]

Happy birthday Ruri, you've been a huge help to my Journey really.

[@Odisej1987]

Alles Gute zum Geburtstag, Liebe Ruri 🙏🌞

[@TJ-dr7qh]

Happy birthday Ruri!! 🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@247Betterment]

I’m grateful I found your channel and subscribed

[@ThefutureselfLah]

I agree to disagree. You are 23, you haven't really get to enjoy many things in life. I just got into Monk mode for 5 months and it changes my life, I partied, I gathered, I ate, I lived and I'm now 36. If I didn't start Monk Mode, my life would continue going down the sh*t hole. You are just in a different stage. Glad you realized it and decided to enjoy life now! Happy birthday and wishing you the best!❤ you are young, live it up , girl ❤🎉

[@LeonSKennedy7777]

How does monk mode work? Which spiritual or religious school have you taken oath in?

[@paul4381]

​@@LeonSKennedy7777 There's some videos from Ruri about it, but it doesn't have to be religiouq. It just means ~living like a monk, id est deleting avery distraction from your life (no parties, no video games, no social media, no videos, ...)

[@ThefutureselfLah]

​@@LeonSKennedy7777 ​ Monk mode is more of a lifestyle. You should be able to find a lot of videos on youtube. I also made one, you can check it out. It's more of dopamine detox, purely focus on work and projects, along with inner work in a set period of time, with a strict daily routine. It worked as a short cut for people who want to move faster in life. But Ruri has a point, I wouldn't suggest staying in it for way too long.

[@ThefutureselfLah]

​@LeonSKennedy7777 Monk mode is more of a lifestyle. You should be able to find a lot of videos on youtube. I also made one, you can check it out. It's more of dopamine detox, purely focus on work and projects, along with inner work in a set period of time, with a strict daily routine. It worked as a short cut for people who want to move faster in life. But Ruri has a point, I wouldn't suggest staying in it for way too long.

[@sergi3629]

​@@paul4381Sounds miserable and empty

[@sir.vintago]

Happy B Day Ruri…! ✨😁🤎

[@Mario21972]

Playing on emotions, and building business is brilliant u r really a good business woman

[@gencomments]

And we expect the mental health issues.

[@mrs.carolenamamea1793]

You're 23. I remember when I dropped out of college ASU at 23 and went back home. I didn't realize how exhausted I was because I would sleep for days... After 6 months of being back home. I was ready to leave and go back to the U.S. and strive to achieve my goals... most of it I wasn't even sure about... I don't think I really enjoyed life until I was 28 years old... So focused in my goals that I didn't really enjoy life. I enjoy life more and not feel bogged down in my late 20's to early 30's before getting married... but you know the trials and obstacles change as you age... Best o luck. You are young and still have a lot of time to enjoy life. You are doing so much better and way ahead than you may think. Best of luck and thank you for sharing your story. Love ya Ruri!!!

[@PD-wm8ho]

Congratulations for your comeback ♥️ Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰 Please make a video on the signs of mental health issues? Because most of people like me never know that we have mental health issues so please make a video on them, how to resolve them and deal with them?

[@Sultanx_Suru]

This hit at the right time of my life!! I'm 21, suffering from mental conditions and in general have the same backstory. My parents have been suffering for so long to make us have a good life yet they didn't get to rest for the past 40 years!! I really want to retire them and be successful, however, I realized that I come before everyone, even my family. I want to be relieved and not lonely. Trying to achieve my goals while surrounded by NPCs makes me isolate myself more. I ditched my friends group because they were not supportive and not as grown mentally as I am, they might not have hurt me in a big way directly, but I felt like that is the best for me. Mental struggle is a big hurdle, even the closest people to me (my family) don't have a deep understanding in mental struggles and it's hard to communicate my needs, it feels like I have to teach my "babysitter" how to "babysit" me in my struggles because my parents' generation is not used to communicating their mental struggles so there was no culture built around it. Thanks for the video Ruri, Looking forward to the idea you are cooking!!

[@Faded6o]

this a very healthy human being

[@recelece]

i’m 23 and about to graduate from my pharmacy degree but i feel lost. cant even find energy to write my thesis. i have a feeling that if i can get through all of this i’m gonna remember it as worst phase of my life. seeing comments made me think that lots of us go through this kinda stuff (is it a future anxiety? idk). all i know is that i want a break on everything. i just wanna explore myself, getting a hobby, learning a new language, maybe doing some charity; things to feed my soul and im open to advices to try new things.

[@recelece]

btw you are always a someone to admire for me, even though we around the same age. seninle öğrendiğimi hissediyorum🩷

[@recelece]

happy bday ruri the icon

[@shamsiddinibrohim5344]

What an advertising 😂

[@Blottski]

I appreciate your story so much and I’m so glad you always reference your personal struggles. It puts life in perspective for me. I was very lucky in a way even though I come from the middle of nowhere, my dad, and my dad’s dad worked and worked and worked so I can enjoy the life I have today. I recognize that every day..but here I am working so hard and stuck in a dead end career in government not moving up in skills or anything really and it’s so frustrating. First I casually looked for new jobs and dream jobs and career paths for 2 years, then in the past 1 year maybe a bit more I have been grinding so hard to move up in life and it’s just not happening. It’s so hard and frustrating but then my logical brain tells me that I’ll be okay eventually, my grandfather spent 3 years in a pow camp in ww2, I can do ANYTHING and it will never come close to what he dealt with. That’s what keeps me going at the end of the day if I’m truthfully honest.

[@MYTENGRIWAY]

Tengri blessing!🇰🇿🇰🇿🇰🇿

[@frigginryusseraphim]

Happy birthday and Wish you all the best Ruri !

[@hamzireal9119]

Please don't say you're wrong, you're the best person on KZbin, I love you❤❤❤❤

[@NarukamiOTC]

Happy Birthday Ruri! Your videos have been very helpful to me while I'm trying to pursue my passions! Hope to see many more great videos from you!

[@jakhumber1107]

Are tradind and income incompatible? I think you're not keeping up with the news. While you thought it was impossible, some enthusiasts from Eledator made ai copy trading tool. Everyone now can make money on trading. What do you say now?

[@spiral776]

Exactly.

[@JESUSGREATERTHAN]

Isn’t that what success means? To separate your self from distractions to achieve your goals? Nobody said it was gonna be easy. Choose the road less travel, Consistency is key to see results in "ANYTHING YOU DO" "Procrastination, is the enemy of progress.”

[@art-of-thinking]

only Jesus can fulfill your emptiness

[@ghostviper9579]

Amen

[@bekiryufka]

Not the jesus but the God will.

[@art-of-thinking]

@@bekiryufka jesus is the LOGOs & like the chinese bible says hes also the TAO

[@bekiryufka]

@@art-of-thinking what are those abbreviation

[@5fbycdgfdr]

Finally I can able to watch you without cc ! After long time ________ LOVE FROM INDIA

[@syeaahhhh]

The thumbnail is so scary 😭😭😭

[@syeaahhhh]

Also, happy birthday. I wish you live the best year compared to your previous ones Ruri!

[@user-si3qc4pp5d]

Why scary? I feel so beautiful.

[@syeaahhhh]

@@user-si3qc4pp5d by scary, i didnt mean her face. The title is just "i was wrong" and the thumbnail is a serious photo of her. So the first thing that came to my mind was "something bad has happened to her" and i got scared. Thats why its scary

[@soundscape26]

@@syeaahhhh That's exactly the goal, to catch your attention.

[@sarahinadream]

Happy bday!! I think a lot of us went through that isolation period during covid, some did self improvement, others got worse (me) I just started feeling normal after the pandemic last year but it really did teach all of us we need other humans. Granted, I’m an introvert and mostly stay in the house or gym working on my goals, and myself but force myself once or twice a week to hangout with someone or like go to a yoga class. It’s about balance and finding what works for you! ❤️❤️

[@corpuzone]

You’re gorgeous, smart, and resilient. You got this 🙌✌️

[@BHOKA_भोका]

Happy Birthday, 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈 I wish you grow up in your life.

[@SGECMHemanthReddy]

Happy Birthday Ruri !! Stay Blessed!!!!🎉🎊🎁❤❤❤

[@692Caboose]

Don’t beat yourself up, wisdom comes with age and lots of experiences. Just went through a 4 year breakup and I’ve learned so much about myself

[@Foreveranime1]

I am 23 too . When your family got scammed by your uncle my father died in covid , When you made money from youtube I made money from crypto and tuition, when you got into the prestigious university I made into the prestigious university in my state, I am one of your oldest subscriber . The moment your video showed in my app I subscribed you cause i felt as if we are connected.

[@I.a.a.M.]

Happy 23rd birthday! 🥳 Here's to you, Ruri! Cheers to another amazing year ahead! 🎂🎈"

[@Drawing-ty3pm]

Happy belated birthday, Ruri🎉🎉🎉 You are not wrong! That’s what it takes. It is so amazingly difficult to get to where you are right now. Without that singular focus, a person more than likely will fail.

[@LectureLearner]

We love you too ❤️‍🩹. Thanks for making content that will help us reach your level too. Best of luck! ❤️

All my best in your personal journey. You are a fantastic and inspiring content creator. I am 59 and wish you happiness to you and family. I appreciate your high sense of values

[@robertlonn6128]

Belated Congratulations on Your Birthday! Bless, Heal and Prosper! Looking forward to Your Next Video! 😀👏

[@aniopara]

Happy birthday to you Ruri. At 23, you are young and inspiring. Of the truth, I have learned so much from you. Keep growing from strength to strength.❤

[@ALPHAKAZUYA1]

Happy Birthday Ruri!!!

[@AliAlili1033]

You deserve every wonderful moment coming your way. Have a truly magical day! Happy Birthday Ruri!!!

[@tsm7964]

Happy Birthday! You are so amazing! I have been in monk mode for 2.5 years. Sometimes, I don't even go out my apartment door for 3 or 4 days, and I love it b/c I am more productive now than I have been in 10 years prior. I would say my stress level went down after monk mode. (I also have a cat which keeps me company.)

[@MissesWitch]

The first 25 seconds just sounds so relatable to me haha ^ ^ Living like a monk and just focusing on my goals is what I have been trying to do!

[@SuperImmortal24]

Happy birthday ruri.🎉🎂

[@gghh5180]

Happy Birthday to you Ruri! Glad you are seeing things more clearly now and taking action to regain control of your mental health! All the best to your new platform!

[@1stMilcom]

Your video resonates so much with me! I did the same thing for 7 years on KZbin and made 539 videos to become the top promoter for BCH worldwide. Yes it is lonely at the top. This is why I just made my FINAL VIDEO few days ago and will go incognito to live the life to the fullest! Time is the most valuable asset we have. Carpe Diem!

[@outerspace..]

Darlin, i’m 44 years old, monk mode is crucially important for anyone seriously wants to take control back their lives. I’m newly subscribed to your channel and i have to admit that your contents are highly valuable! Keep up on the path that you’re in! You’re such an inspiration in this confused world.

[@Martty8807]

Happy birthday Ruri. I've struggled a lot, but seeing your progress and resilience, I'm encouraged a lot by you.

[@NowAskHow]

Happy birthday. Joined the list and sent it out to my kids so they could see it. What you do is important, but please don’t be so hard on yourself. You can’t control other peoples actions and you couldn’t know what others were going to do. Keep doing the good work.

[@DavidDiaz-cy5px]

Happy Birthday 🎉. Thank you very much for the advice. It is a good idea to have compassion for ourselves.

[@HariV2025]

Ruri, I am nearly 50 but I look up to you as a great teacher and your content is incredible. I have a daughter and I will encourage her to watch your content as well. During the period of 1998 to 2004 from my early 20s to late 20s, I also went into Monk mode, it wasn't to become a successful entrepreneur (looking back I now wish it was), more a process off self discovery and transition from youth to adulthood and get into my current career working in Tech (which has been a really awful sector past 2 years).

[@niemansianpier4668]

Wow!! Your message has touched my heart deeply🥺... I believe that you aren't guilty for the financial tragedy that your family suffered, You are doing the best you can to help your parents financially and that is excellent...that says a lot about your generosity as a daughter. But there comes a point where you are simply working too much and not enjoying your youth!! I know that helping your parents is your priority and that you do it with a lot of love but life is more complex than that... you know, you have had depression and you have ADHD so you must be very aware of your psychological limits!! During all the time I follow you on social networks I only hear you talk about productivity and professional development...and it's very good but life isn't just work and productivity...You aren't a working machine dear Ruri...you are a beautiful human being!! Society will always force us to give more of ourselves, to work overtime, to become workaholics... But we must find the balance between the different areas of our lives, IT'S NOT EASY AT ALL!! But it's necessary to know how to manage our work and family life... Sometimes depression MAKES US THINK THAT WE AREN'T DOING ENOUGH, THAT WE ARE LOSERS AND THAT WE WILL NEVER ACHIEVE OUR GOALS!! But it's not true Ruri. We all need time to relax in life, moments with family, time to be alone and think, etc. Avoid demanding too much of yourself... No matter what happens, your family will always love you for who you are and not for the money you can generate... Happy birthday Ruri!! You are an inspiration to me and I will always support you unconditionally. ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹😻 My email: [e-mail].

[@rictravels]

Happy Happy Belated Birthday Ruri!!! 🎉🎉🎊🎊 I feel you too about a lonely YT creator... I'm a lonely travel YT creator not at the TOP yet... Fighting the fight & hope for the best!!!

[@trybeingnice]

Happy birthday Ruri. Love you and blessings.

[@luciewang9790]

Happy birthday!! I relate to what you have said so much... Thank you so much for sharing. I hope you feel better soon and that we all do too!

[@JoelAguilarCerna]

Happy birthday! God bless you in everything you do.

[@ashutosh3658]

Happy Birthday, Ruri!! 😎🎉🎉

[@serialtoxic6427]

I struggle with loneliness, ADHD and PTSD, during Childhood trauma. I wasted many Years of my Life, trough Addiction and Procrastination, distracting myself trough Videogames, P**n and binge eating. I am glad i quit binge eating and smoking Cigarettes, i lost wheight and slowly a Way shines trough the Fog of uncertainty. I am at the Beginning of my Monk Mode now, i dont got Friends anyway in my Life, so i choose Success. Happy Birthday afterwards Ruri ❤️ Love your Channel 😍 You are so amazing and inspiring.

[@xest3121]

Thank you for every inspiring video you’ve given us. Looking forward to whatever you have planned. Happy Birthday!

[@Aisired]

Happy birthday, Ruri! I remember the time when I was a lone wolf. I pushed people away because I didn't want them to hold me back or influence my way of thinking. But at some point, I did ask myself what's the point of "improving myself" if I was gonna end up alone anyway. It was like I just lived in my own imaginary world. After that, I kind of measure my progress and values based on my social circle. If I am constantly surrounded by people I can admire, respect and look up to, who bring me joy and peace when I'm with them, then maybe I'm doing it right.

[@vladislavpolakov3935]

Watching this in april 5th and tomorrow is my birthday. I also will become 23😅. Happy birthday,Ruri. Wish you all the best🎉

[@lockhartlucis]

Happy birthday 🎂 Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾 Best wishes on your journey

[@ricodosineen3317]

Hi Ruri I just want to thank you for everything you taught me about life, productivity, goals and just every thing to live a successful life, I remember in April 2020 I watched your videos for the first time and before that my life was suck as sh*t, but now due to motivation I gain from your videos my life got much better. You're strong person you will achieve the best I believe that, good luck with your life and success

[@JVLIANREYES]

Lady Ruri, I want to wish you a very happy birthday. Hope your day was great. I am a new visitor to your channel. I truly enjoyed the Zen like teachings, along with your passion and the way you articulate your words very informational, yet very deep and meaning. Thank you for what you do.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🪷🪷🪷🌻

[@SinghPratapAyush]

Happy Birthday Ruhi !!! Love and support from India💐

[@friedrice2477]

Happy Belated Birthday Ruri 🎂🎉 Thank you for the many lessons!

[@yiyahe]

I've always been amazed by how honest you are. The first video of yours I watched was 'I grew from ZERO TO 100K SUBSCRIBERS in 3 MONTHS (& how you can too)', and I really appreciated how openly you shared your KZbin journey. There's a Chinese saying - 将欲取之，必先与之 (You have to give to receive), and I truly believe you've achieved so much because you've given so much. Another thing that blew me away was how deeply you think, especially at such a young age! Thinking back to when I was 23/24, I wasn’t really into deep thinking. I just did what everyone expected of me and tried to fit in. ADHD is a gift rather than a problem. My best friend has ADHD and struggled with focusing. But as she learned more about it and stopped seeing it as something to 'cure,' she realized that while ADHD made it hard for her to stay focused, the divergent thinking sparked her creativity unlike anyone else. Instead of fighting it, she embraced it and found a balance between focus and ADHD, finding peace with it. Just like the 'Yijing (I Ching)' says, balance is the key. Happy birthday, Ruri! Can't wait to see where you go from here.

[@TheGameVentureYt]

Thanks for Giving us great Advices, Yup on Self Improvment journey We become more isolated and some Bad friends might fade away(Which is 100% good) but also some good ones will slowly drift, Thanks for bringing this point. And Happy Birthday 🥳