I watched Jailbirds and figured out why I'm single. (review)

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[@ForHarriet619]

I took some time to explain in-depth why I am anti-prison on Patreon. Take a look! Patreon.com/ForHarriet

[@auntieruckus6444]

For Harriet way minute...do for you and your kids how sway???

[@PolitiKings]

NEWS FLASH - JAIL IS FOR PUNISHMENT!!! There are reform programs in which prisoners participate while they are being punished. So your suggestion has ALREADY BEEN IMPLEMENTED in our prisons.

[@treg489]

This tea sis 🍵🍵🍵🔥🔥🔥

[@reamonmapp6697]

You are smart

[@phuk8865]

So serial killers and rapists only need rehabilitation 😒 got cha

[@brooklynbornxoxo]

I honestly feel like NO ONE who has committed a NON VIOLENT crime should be in prison... unfortunately, too many powerful people financially benefit from it 🙄

[@BrooklynWalka]

Yes, I totally agree. It is pointless, these folks are being sent to prison to suffer- that is all- NO rehabilitation happening here.

[@Indiegirl007]

I was watching a documentary about a serial killer in Australia. Every since he was 13, he was what they would call a 'Sex pest'. Nothing violent, he wouldn't rape anyone, just flash people. He had a pretty long rap sheet for flashing. By the time he got to middle age, something happened where he jumped from none violent flashing, to attempted rape and strangling of two women. How many stories have we heard where it starts as just petty thievery or just stupid stuff, and it escalates to larger crimes? I disagree in the rehabilitation process of these offenders, but I definitely do think these individuals should be separated from society and dealt with. It's like, if a child steals $10 from you, deal it with it then so that they won't go out and steal $200 from someone else.

[@AikiraBeats]

Very true everyone has a dollar sign on their head

[@milesfurther4395]

I don’t think anything to do with drugs or parking fines should put someone in prison, unless they’re force feeding drugs to children, while parked across a hospital entrance.

[@BrooklynWalka]

@@milesfurther4395 lmfao! yes I totally agree with you. I think if you are out here stealing- lets get you in some kind of program with housing, jobs, and education. Lets see if we can help you take care of yourself first- before we lock you up for being poor.

[@KiaRoane]

“Yes I’m an elder, I had a flip phone” 😂😂😂

[@s_1408]

I must be ancient then...I had a PAGER!

[@devonmunn5728]

I'm going to be 20 this year. And i have had a flip phone (when i was really young like 11)

[@mcsaism]

Im 22 and had a flip phone 😭😭 but i was in middle school

[@Lulu060986]

You are not weird, straight women that are not into chasing a man as priority exist lol.

[@memoir02]

@Darlene S. I hate that shit! I'm not asexual. I definately have my urges, I'm just over the bull shit ✌

[@AJ-cq5pw]

"I don't want a relationship enough" Girl same, I have been so content just being with myself.

[@hazell1593]

Amen!! Less stress, drama and nonsense.

[@risitascositas1699]

Ditto! I'm single and sane.

[@AJ-cq5pw]

Hazel L Yup!

[@kxlot79]

“I certainly don’t want it as much as the people in this jail” 🤣🤣🤣

[@JamaicaSugar]

Yes, my mom used to tell me "it's better to be alone than to wish you were."

[@AJ-cq5pw]

You are not the weird one. I've never cared about being in a relationship. It's the norm to want to be in a relationship. People view being single as a problem that needs to be fixed. There's nothing wrong with being single and enjoying being single.

[@Sunshine4]

Lina J.Walker or people are following out natural instincts to be social. Neither one is good or bad or need to be fixed.

[@AJ-cq5pw]

Sunshine4 Never said it was. My point was that there’s nothing weird about not wanting to date.

[@jessicab331]

Lina J.Walker being single is wack!!! And yep I’m single... have been for years.

[@AJ-cq5pw]

Jessica B. Well that’s wack for you not for me

[@lorettaknoelk3475]

They REALLY DO view it as a problem!! Even for a second! People act like they have have to set you up with somebody as soon as you break up because being single is a problem that needs to be solved!!!

[@Mindyourbusiness82]

"IDK ... it's really hard to guess white people ages..." Said with a straight face. The SHAAAAADE of it all lmaoo

[@lindalemoni5428]

i'm white and i felt a little sad but also had to laugh cause it's just so true, we age like bananas next to apples.

[@MsSonali1980]

I couldn't pinpoint her age either. She could be start of her 30s or mid-40s... guess she uses no sunscreen and moisturizer, so I guess she's in her 30s. Girl got other problems than skin care.

[@lindalemoni5428]

@@MsSonali1980 oh wow i thought she was in her mid 50s 😱... i'll go search for my sunscreen.

[@lindseybailes2706]

😂😂😂😂

[@MsSonali1980]

@@lindalemoni5428 I was lucky, I never used sunscreen when I was younger but had oily skin (I'm mixed with Indian (Punjabi) so I have a medium olive tone, never got sunburn) but now I use sunscreen religiously and it minimizes skin cancer risk. I have seen white ladies going on the sun bed, looking end 30 while mid 20. They dried their skin out but you can kind of reverse it if you stop and use moisturizer.

[@lydialovig]

I worked at this jail for ten years and I saw two people who met on the toilets get married. The weddings are every third Friday. You'd think* there wouldn't be that many people getting married and you'd be WRONG. Tons. People show up in gowns and families show up in matching orange. It's bizarre.

[@ThaBlkRainbow]

It's only bizarre because of the setting. But humans are humans. And when humans can find someone to romantically get attachment to, we go for it all the way. No matter how unusual it is to others. Our grandparents call us bizzare because we primarily date online. We use our phones to date people we have never met in person knowing there's a possibility of deception. We call our grandparents bizzare because Men were called "callers" and they had to schedule an appointment to come over and talk in the living room with someone supervising the visit. This was dating.

[@kenyafromcali]

WOW!

[@marianosman9382]

"Humans are humans in every context." 👌Didn't expect to find that gem in here!

[@mcsaism]

Its so simple but people truly forget this and begin to dehumanize people in the name of the law which has literally never been fair especially to poc

[@dreamylittlethings]

Have you heard of attachment theory? A probable reason those people you're referring to feel an especially strong need to be in a relationship (even a crappy one) is that the inadequacy and inconsistency of the parenting they received meant their young brains weren't able to develop a healthy attitude to attachment; and they may have instead ended up with "preoccupied attachment", meaning (among other things) that as adults they are likely to be preoccupied by getting and retaining attachment with others.

[@KiaRoane]

Eh. I do believe that ppl that murder or rape ppl, especially ppl who sexually assault children don’t deserve rehabilitation. Some ppl aren’t deserving of another chance. But non violent offenses are a completely different situation.

[@jjamerican93]

Kia Roane I feel that way too.

[@bobbym1799]

Exactly no jails is not aa solution to anything. If there are no jails cronies would definetly increase

[@aviendha1154]

Don't put rape and murder together. You can kill somebody accidentally. Nobody accidentally rapes somebody. Also you can regret and be forgiven for murder, nobody should ever forgive a rapist.

[@aviendha1154]

@@bobbym1799 you think rapists are being jailed??? No they fucking ain't. Even in America they let the worst of the worst out to reoffend. And most of them never go to jail.

[@DexDex000]

Aviendha I think that's why they said murder and not manslaughter!

[@anthonygordonjr4314]

Y’all need to be in college. Y’all are Engineers 😂😂😂

[@acestarone]

lol and the way all of the girls were in one cell to confront Daniel was similar to when all the girls confronted the college player

[@booklover466]

The prison system is a huge private business that makes United States a lot of money.

[@AJ-cq5pw]

Randomly found Yep and therefor it will never be abolished. At least not in this lifetime

[@KIANA..]

Randomly found which is why it’s modern slavery.

[@nazotunzi4428]

Aliyah J. P

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

These prisoners have better romantic relationships than most peoplr I know 😥

[@Blaquebarbgamer]

Chiiile 🐸 ☕️

[@jessicab331]

Leila 🙋🏾‍♀️.... me... I am ppl!!

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

@@jessicab331 Maybe going to jail to find your bae is not a bad idea 😆

[@bscott465]

Because everything is simplified. Unlike outside of prison where things can get complicated.

[@ameldamelanin2945]

You what I noticed about Jailbirds. They portray the C.O’s in a good light when we know damn well in the real world they be abusing their power

[@Asuna35]

If they hadn't, they probably wouldn't have been allowed to film.

[@TT-zl1wf]

Nah. Most C.O.’s just want to do their time much like the inmates. Most of us don’t want incident packages and fuckery.

[@earnthis1]

"Two sisters, well two half sisters, but I'm black, so I don't do that,"---yes, two sisters. You are amazing!

[@francita0076]

They will never get rid of jails or prisons as long as it is profitable for whytpipo!

[@deej5608]

The latest slave plantation of course not

[@elizabethj8130]

My cell would be flooded every day. I cannot be bothered. I’ve never been in prolonged drama. I will leave you in a second. Every r&b song i hear I’m like “ Can’t relate.” It’s this perpetual sense of idgaf ness that has me single.

[@Oone2023]

Who among us hasn't cried over a fake boo on a dirty floor?? 😂 😂

[@jvstkiki]

Lmao Frfr 🤣🤣🤣

[@lisaqualls5719]

🤣🤣

[@5thHouseProductions]

childofYah4evaeva I slid down the wall dramatically before dissolving into tears on said dirty floor! 🙃

[@dreamylittlethings]

Loved your intro explaining why you're a prison abolitionist - it so quickly made me understand the wisdom of that movement. Excellent.

[@AlphabetSoup123]

Gasp! 😱 So, I'm not the only one who could live my life alone and be severely happy. 🤯 I was starting to think it was something wrong with me. SMH I'm more concerned about being financially secure and finishing school to pursue anybody.

[@deej5608]

👐🏿👑💐 keep that sentiment. It's better

[@AlphabetSoup123]

@@deej5608 😂😂😂😂😂

[@lindalemoni5428]

i think we are just so conditioned (especially as women) to think we could only be content with a man and family. I personally am married and am expecting my first child, but i was perfectly content before meeting my partner and so was he, and i think that's what makes us work. There is no right or wrong way to live your life, as long as you're not willingly hurting someone i believe. But i do believe that even if someone wants a relationship one day, they should be content with themselves, cause if that's not the case and you find the wrong one, it can end bad cause you desperately try to make something work, that's not supposed to work.

[@crichy]

I have friends who are so boy crazy, always coming to me about their boy drama and ask me “so why aren’t you interested in having a boyfriend?” Like really?! Do y’all really think I want that mess in my life?? For some reason it’s so hard to people to understand that it’s possible to be content whilst single. They look at you like there’s something deeply wrong with you, it’s so annoying. It’s completely normal to not place certain things as a priority in your life

[@juliettedemaso7588]

"I am a prison abolitionist" 👏👏👏👏👏 Bless you, this inhumane crisis is SO important and SO under-represented.

[@876me7]

So you don’t believe anyone should be in prison?

[@juliettedemaso7588]

@@876me7 if the entire American concept of criminal justice changed. It is garbage right now, it makes things worse. We are not evolving despite undisputed knowledge and a massive body of evidence that this can be done better for all. It's a stain on our culture as it stands.

[@jklax]

@@juliettedemaso7588 So what do you do with the rapist breaking into your house in the middle of the night? Or lets say Bernie Madoff? I really wish people would think about things.

[@youngnegger2223]

Most prison abolitionist are usually either delusional about their own situations and decisions in lif3or or usually morons.

[@missbossy143]

"Harrass her through the toilet bowl" 🤣🤣🤣 One girl said she met him through the toilet. 😣 I'm done!!! I'm about to cancel my cellphone service and just communicate through the 🚽!!! Hey Neighbor!!! 🤣

[@lolitabubbles26]

I'm from Texas and I am also a proponent for prison reform and the abolishing of our current prison system. My brother has been incarcerated since i was 9 (i'm 32) and he has been a model inmate since day 1. He still has 7 years until his first probation hearing. If we had a better system we could appeal earlier for him to be evaluated as he is 100% no longer a danger to society (Imo he never was, but suffered from an extreme mental breakdown at the time of his crime). Thank you as always for being strong and standing with victims. And yes, many are victims. Victims of a system that condemned them since birth. A victim of privatized prisons that will charge states fines if they dont keep prison population at 98%. Victims of harassment into taking plea deals for first time offenders and being led to believe by cops that a trial by jury would be worse. I could go on, but we got a long fight ahead.

[@deej5608]

TRUTH. BE BULLIED INTO TAKING A PLEA BY COPS AND EVEN PUBLIC DEFENDERS.

[@lolitabubbles26]

@@deej5608 Its so true. And its bad everywhere not just in Texas where I am from. They'll tell you it is because of a clogged pipeline and a trial costs more blah blah blah. When, in reality, its just a way to expedite an assured guilty conviction. THATS what they want. They terrorize poor first time offenders who are what? 18? 19? My brother was only 21. It's disgusting.

[@deej5608]

@@lolitabubbles26 it happened to me. I was only 15

[@lolitabubbles26]

@@deej5608 I'm so sorry. No one deserves that kind of treatment especially first time offenders. They're supposed to be the "good guys" but more often than not, they're just your high school bully with a badge.

[@deej5608]

@@lolitabubbles26 thank you Queen. I was only 15 years old never really been in trouble with the law never even snuck out the house always had honors classes made good grades my first time ever getting arrested. My mom was sick and going through chemo one night on a Saturday I went downstairs to make myself a sandwich because I was hungry and to get some chips from the trunk of her car. She was in the kitchen she paid me no mind I went to turn on the stereo to listen to some music while I was downstairs and I didn't realize that the stereo was on full blast and it scared her and she just started crying profusely. I looked at her and asked her why she was crying and then I was sorry that the music was so loud then I asked her where where her keys so I can get some chips from the trunk of her car she didn't want to give me her keys her kids were in her jeans that were on the couch I'm grabbing the jeans and she's grabbing the jeans too and we're both having a tug-of-war for the jeans then I left the jeans going I said you're crazy. I understood that she was going through a lot but my mother had a habit of taking a lot of her frustrations anger sadness depression just everything out on me and she never wanted to admit that. So I go back upstairs I come back down to check on the lunch meat and bread that I was warming up in the oven I see a police officer at the door I opened the door and I found out that she called the cops on me, then my uncle's brother comes and he says automatically she's such a bad person and he points at me. and the cop is listening to my uncle's brother and I look at him and I say to the cop this man wasn't even here and then he looks at him and says were you there my uncle's brother says no and then he says then you don't need to be talking. Then I don't know where the cop tells me to stand up turns me around and put handcuffs on me then my mom looks shocked and says what are you doing and he looks at her and says you called the cops right do you want her to go to jail or not then she says yes I need time alone so I can think. her saying I need time alone why didn't you just get in the car and drive off somewhere to the beach or to the park why did you have to sacrifice your own daughter for you to have some time alone. I ended up getting a felony charge for no f****** reason and what I know now had I known then I hate to say it but I probably would have punched my mom in her f****** face. I had a public defender I don't know anything about the law I didn't have any guardian supervision with me and this public defender says to me you know if you say yes. I'll let you go if you say you did it you can just leave no problem and I looked at him and said are you serious he's like yes. the cop who was right there who arrested me didn't even say to me hey don't say yes this is a felony charge I didn't know anything about felonies misdemeanors anyting. I didn't realize me saying yes meant that I was pleading guilty to a felony at 15 years old I didn't realize me saying yes to Sterling he was going to put me on probation by the grace of God thank God I was never a bad child who drink did drugs or even left the house other than to go to school. this system is f***** up and it's even worse on black and brown kids specially the dark skin black ones

[@deej5608]

LMAO 😂🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣 Human connection is serious. It's needed and without it sometimes we feel lost

[@taters2883]

Real talk. People out here acting like they can go without speaking and interacting or being around people. That's just impossible for people. Human interaction IS important

[@ScarletRose1994]

"So how is there relationship drama if men and women are separated?" Me, gay: Oh I know where this is going "They talk through the toilets!" Me, gay: I did not know where this was going at all actually

[@kimjohnson8471]

Girl, it confirmed (not that I had any doubts) this Diva wouldn't survive in jail.🙃

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

Neverrrr everrrr 😂😂😂

[@nicholefrische-delaney7431]

I have got to watch this! Kim, I'm a 49 year old white woman. You figured out at a young age what it took me FOREVER to learn; no man is worth fighting over!

[@TechnicJunglist]

This series gave me terrible anxiety. I never wanna leave my house or talk to anybody again lol

[@karlamitchell81]

They said I met him on the bowl with so much normalcy it was tragic lol 😂

[@jjmaster322]

The only thing I've seen of this show is when the guy says "is there any bitches on the line" through the toilet lol

[@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek]

CameraGuy322 best part 😂

[@HappinessTheBrand]

HUH?! 🤣🤣

[@dropletsonbardi]

Not to mention A1's anti black women comments...like any black queen wants you. Great review as always!

[@AlexiaM]

LMAO them yelling at that man in the toilet had me dead

[@alexp7016]

we love a prison abolitionist queen

[@phyliciae8091]

So I legit only watched Jailbirds because you said that it would be your next review. Just finished watching the season and then came to watch your review. It was crazy. I was pissed that they ended with Baby Girl and her sister. The situation with Noonie and Ebony made me feel like men enjoy intensifying tension between women. Once Squeeze started talking about sending down a shank down the bowl for Noonie to protect herself, I know there was going to be a fight and Ebony had to start it. Prison is a psychologist mind game and Ebony (once she heard that her issue with Noonie/ Squeeze escalated to the point that she could get shanked) had to start the fight, whether her reason was to settle the beef so she wouldn't have to keep looking over her shoulder or to get moved to another unit or to give reason for the CO's to toss Noonie's room to look for contraband without coming off like a snitch..... WOO! Too much.

[@AnnTheAnonymous]

As a lesbian, I she might want to keep the relationship secret because being gay, bi, etc. any part of the LGBT community can make you a bigger target for violence in prison. But yeah uhaul lesbianism is definitely a thing hahaha

[@vonnii1013]

How is that?....half the pop n there is gay bi or on the DL....how could u be a target?

[@abja101]

@@vonnii1013 people think that you are open to them when you are not a lot of times people are not, said that even gay people have types. And even in the LGBT community some people still have stereotypes if they are not informed or come from a "ghetto mentality"

[@Rissy617]

Omfg, I was at a busstop one day and this girl was talking to me (and telling me way to much information I didn't ask about) but she said she was meeting her boyfriend from jail she met through talking in the toilet. I thought she was crazy!!!

[@fts_space_shark]

The white woman with the braids looks like a hard living early 30s to me.

[@devonmunn5728]

To me she looks like she's at least 40-42

[@FaithPeach]

Ok, they asking the toilets to do TEW MUCH. Lol 🤣

[@kayb2454]

FaithPeach 😭😭😭

[@dinahnicole3519]

‘She gave him a good cussing out through the toilet bowl’ 😆

[@AJ-cq5pw]

“It’s really hard to guess white people ages” I died 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nashayclark7204]

Aliyah J. 😂😂😂

[@Indiegirl007]

10:29 .....girl, you are talking to a man through a prison toilet.

[@UKBamagurl]

I can’t keep up with all this drama. Buy it does remind me of military people while deployed. Deployed, in jail, same phenomenon.

[@twistysunshine]

This had wayyy more straight shit in this show than I thought possible... They call the lesbian moving quickly "u-hauling" btw

[@omenriver2399]

Toilet Talk is unreal and hilarious. Never watched the show but that shit is hilarious. (No Pun intended)

[@pisces-fairy7552]

I'm from Sacramento and been in Sacramento County Jail and yes all these things happened.

[@hjscollages]

Blueyez 13 you know any of the people on the show locked up?

[@pisces-fairy7552]

I personally don't know any of them but my daughter's father knows A-1 and Noonie

[@lindalemoni5428]

i'm also against prisons, very refreshing to see someone talk about it, thank you

[@iMothafuckinMe]

Im for better policies but rapists and serial killers cant be reformed,my mind cant be changed...but i love prison shows

[@MsSonali1980]

Yes, but I guess they could go into the hospital instead of prison. I mean in reality, rapist don't get high sentences right now.. -_- Lots of people who go into prison for minor crimes come out worse then they were before because there is no rehab and they get stuffed together with violent people and have to adapt to survive.

[@lindseygueye6078]

Let’s keep it real, prison is hardly filled with rapists and serial killers

[@lmr2323]

😂😂😂 You said you hope she gets a good cable package. 😭🤣

[@larryy3133]

The unintentional, international, shade of it all! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@phuturem2883]

Human ingenuity is tragically beautiful sometimes

[@doriangrey3817]

One minute in... absolutely hafta disagree about doing away with penal system... I did 4 years in prison. I used to think there was no place in society for prison... but there is. There ARE ppl who are just flat out sociopaths, psychopaths, habitual manipulators, and ppl who just do not want to do any "good" on this earth outside of their own wants/needs.

[@crystalrenae5807]

Definitely going to become a Patron! I was JUST searching your video history to see if you had made a video re: the abolition of prisons. I watched the Khalief Browder docu-series again yesterday and HAD THE TIME, honey. I needed to share e-space with folks who get it!!!!!

[@reyna7372]

I found your video then went to nextflix and now I’m on the 3rd episode thanks for the Sunday entertainment Finished every episode smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@booksaremysociallife]

Dollah Jr: "Mom how did you and dad mee-" Katrina: "Come, let's go to the bathroom."

[@ManningInterpreter]

You watching this show is SOOO me! I have watched prison documentaries and I’m like, “I have a masters degree and I would have NEVER figured out how to communicate and pass stuff!” I wish I could see your prison abolishionist views video. I know I am not your target Audience but I learn so much from your videos and it expands my ability to empathize and understand others experiences! Thanks! ❤️

[@momoshiggles3631]

Shoutout to the Real World!! My addiction started with Real World Boston. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@justjo510]

Mine was real world new orleans 😉

[@SmileyAdventures]

Yesss! I’m from Boston and loved that it started in my city lol

[@mekahalsey5318]

I love watching you, cause every conversation makes me reflect on my own views and ideas..thank you

[@quanasiagreen3745]

Baby girl was sentenced to life in prison last week. Smh

[@ForHarriet619]

what a shame.

[@quanasiagreen3745]

& Monster is back in jail for trying to open bank accounts using someone else's ID smh

[@aniaamz3602]

I love your film reviews 😍😍😍

[@pbelton7]

I absolutely LOVE your commentary. I may actually watch this series now.

[@TheTeresamori]

I haven’t watched this but this recap is everything

[@janellentim]

We are kindred spirits. I don’t want love bad enough

[@bawnfordays73]

Yes, the braids are really nice. Are the braids crochets? I would love to do this for summer.

[@toomanywitches]

Is there a point in your channel where you talk about the great teal chair in the background? Love it, love you.

[@JonesyFit]

You don't have to chase men to end up with a husband. All current wives werenn't chasers and do have lives, hobbies and careers.

[@CiaoColeG]

Facts! Some of the most amazing women I know are married with tons of accomplishments, well-rounded, and their husband is a partner not a crutch.

[@anastasiabrown3801]

i had to come and rewatch this again after i finally watched Jailbirds ... cause I knew some of your gems was going over my head

[@ObeyAmmalol]

THE TOILET convos/fishing had me shook

[@rachelm.3173]

No you're not weird....ditto. Life can be great as a single woman. I've experienced enough drama in my 20's. And don't miss it at all now that I'm older and wiser. I'll have to check out this series.

[@lilyolson3188]

I'd love to hear your take on the Netflix show Girls Incarcerated! Your reviews are so well thought out and in depth.

[@blackstar9816]

Wow. Life really is stranger than fiction

[@ThaBlkRainbow]

Yes Kim lesbians move fast 😂😂 You need more lesbian friends to fill you in on this. Even lesbians who are not incarcerated move at this speed. It is also true that some lesbians can and do have very deep intimate relationships without having sex. As a free woman who is dating an incarcerated woman, the struggle is real but you go through it. We didn't have a sexual relationship before she was incarcerated. Strange but true. I agree prison should be abolished. And this series along with others like it have made that point VERY clear.

[@birdiewolf3497]

Welp, I guess I will just never find a partner then. How I am supposed to find a romantic relationship when people are willing to talk through toilet bowls and I don't like texting these people, or even meeting up with them. I hate dating rituals. The whole thing is unappealing to me. I am sure my perfectionist all or nothing attitude is getting in the way of things, but I look around and wonder what exactly am I supposed to be fighting for? And why the hell should I spend money, time, and energy into fighting for it? The only thing that is really popping up to mind is to have someone share the parental responsibilities when I have children.

[@TheFabulous1985]

I love your videos and the braids suit you really well!!

[@j.r.4627]

I am a former public defender and former private defense attorney. I agree that the prison system needs serious reform, however, and I could be wrong, but prison abolitionists seem to think that prisons are filled exclusively with poor white and minority substance users who should be in rehab instead. Or that people who commit violent crimes have mental illness and with proper treatment they wouldn't be violent. Except most violent offenders do not have mental illness. Prisons are also filled with unrepentant child predators, traffickers, rapists, and murderers who will tell you straight up that given the opportunity they'll do it again.

[@sincerelybrittany6176]

I saw this same series, was so nice to hear your thoughts! Lol! 😩

[@LittleMsLibra8]

Not sure if I want violent offenders like serial killers/ or serial rapists out of prison. But not opposed to trying other forms of social/behavioral rehab and treatments for non-violent offenders .

[@iMothafuckinMe]

“Its really hard to guess YT ppls ages” DEAD also TRUE💀

[@letsalltakeawalk6906]

Ladies!! It's 90% men 10% women!! You're the hot commodity! Don't fight over a man, get yourself 2 or 3 men fighting over you!!!

[@YoulandaDBarber]

I agree with you about the prison system. I do not want a relationship to. I would rather get another Ph.D.

[@SM-vr8dz]

Loved your reflections on this series.

[@dawnmullen4348]

I binged watched this show as well. Great breakdown!

[@rahmed8930]

Thank you! I love listening to your voice 💙

[@sharr630]

OMG! I TOTALLY feel you on the not wanting a relationship enough to be in one. I'm also an only child so I actually enjoy being alone like 75 percent of the time lol.

[@teatodd2]

Thanks for explaining that Baby girl drama with her sister. I was lost and didn't want to rewind 😆.

[@swiftset]

"I met him through the toilet" ... never thought I'd hear that.

[@vanessakennedy1420]

New subbie ❤️🥰 love the content

[@victoriadavenport7332]

The argument in the toilet with the trio was hilarious.

[@djny8135]

fantastic video really went a lot of routes thru this show. I was also really taken in by jailbirds and i think you really explained it well. Also yes abolish prisons!

[@bugfacedblogs]

rapists, child predators, and murders deserve prison..... those people are the scum of the earth, and no matter how I slice it, I can’t think of a world in which I wouldn’t rather my abuser to be in prison, kept away from all of society.

[@crichy]

This show was so good I’m mad they left us on a cliff hanger like that!! I need Season 2 ASAP 😩

[@haleyscloud]

I love your reviews!! I LIVED for the toilet talking!!!

[@AlexiaM]

Ugh your mind. I just love your channel so much.

[@AlexiaM]

Also wtf am I doing. I need to go sub to your patreon bc CONTENT

[@leroystea8069]

Appreciated your comment about the prison system, Kim. Great video.

[@judoxx8877]

Thank you Kim!

[@TyHarrellShow]

I saw the previews for this show but decided to skip it because I try to avoid negative things, but after your wonderfully hilarious review I will be watching when I get off work. lol

[@abiejjjsh7349]

I love that you did a review of this show. It helped me see things in a different perspective. Like they really are just a bunch of young ones like myself just gushing over having a boo lol.

[@Joie_totheworld]

You listen to the Read! I stan forever

[@Lena-sc6qp]

I love that that podcast!!!

[@zeusmonroe3793]

I like your attitude and the way U Converse so you got yourself a new subscriber and since you around my age too I feel like we can relate 👍 Just please no BS advertisement every 3 min on videos.

[@toyakasmir]

I have heard so much about this show! I had to pause this and start it!

[@zenfulkatoria]

Omg I just finished this show. I know things that I never needed to know. I trust no one now. Toilet bowl talk 🤮 no thank you.

[@kikib.4519]

I have trust issues. So I rarely trust people.

[@AlphabetSoup123]

Does no one else find it disturbing that the gifts, et. al., have FECAL matter on them?! 🤢 I'm disturbed just thinking about this fact.

[@zenfulkatoria]

AlphabetSoup yesss that is disgusting