If He Does THIS, You're Only An OPTION To Him

[@StephanSpeaksClips]

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[@racheltama9722]

Many times 😢

[@khemaloving4031]

Sadly and apparently, all the time…

[@cp9023]

Side chick?! Even in my last marriage. No more!

[@candacewebb120]

I know that's right 💯

[@alannawilliams6996]

A flower does not chase a bee - it blooms and the bee comes

[@karmathephoenix2474]

The man pursues and the woman approves. A woman should never initiate any moves with a man or pursue him ever.

[@caterinadelgalles8783]

I chased, got burned.

[@OItsSasha]

@@caterinadelgalles8783 I bet! Only dogs chase

[@karmathephoenix2474]

@@caterinadelgalles8783 Sometimes a man chases a woman who isn't interested, it happens. But you don't stop being a *man* because the woman wasn't interested. Move on to the next woman.

[@MedusasPenalty]

​@@karmathephoenix2474 I think Caterina Del Galles is a woman..

[@karmathephoenix2474]

@@MedusasPenalty Lol, probably so! I'm going to make my point regardless.

[@MissTiffany01]

If the man doesn’t initiate time being spent together, he’s not interested. Period. Men are easy and go after who they want.

[@SashaSamara]

My ex was never interested then, I wish I knew this before we lived together 13 years :(

[@NikkiDLovely]

Good points made here. I was with a guy in the beginning of the year who actually told me his work would always come first. He said on our first date that he'd put too much effort into relationships in the past and he was going to focus on his job. I should've heard that an ran after that first date, because when I tell you I realized 2 months later he I was just an option for him whenever he was not at work! He seemed really confused too why I felt like I was just an option when I brought it up in conversation, but he later realized he wasn't ready for a relationship after subsequent conversations surrounding the same issue. I have happily moved on to a man who does have the time for me and his job. Choose yourself ladies! Let them figure out the rest without you.

[@crystalxoxox1266]

I'm not gonna be an option TO ANY DAMN MAN!!!...I was once treated that way! & I refuse to for any reason be treated as such ever ever again!! These days ppl date for the wrong reasons!! I must now date someone who chooses me everyday & shows me how much he values and respects me! Or he'll be finding someone else real quick as in right away to tolerate his ways, behavior and red flags!!..

[@renaejenkins4950]

Mutual EFFORT is not only attractive….so is taking a LEAP OF FAITH….❤

[@cielostack2698]

The guy I’m seeing initiates most of the time. He carves out time for me even though his career has long hours. He calls me, too!!!

[@trishisback838]

That’s awesome! That’s how it should be. I wish you and your new beau love and happiness.

[@bettysue8671]

If he isn't initiating, some other woman is preoccuping his time!

[@springrolls7977]

Got me fked up 🤦‍♀️

[@flashylights]

This is tshirt worthy

[@spyroluver0951]

for real. It was his sister 😭

[@YvetteInnerGrowth]

He is mastering dividing his week well between me and the other girl (early dating). He asked for some time to decide with whom he takes things further, but it feels horrible to me like he doesn't see my true value to prioritise me. I'm giving him the opportunity to correct his behaviour, but now, from 3 times a week, he meets me only once but doesn't want to let go neather... It's draining. I'm not waiting any longer. Don't deserve this ...

[@trishisback838]

You gave me something to think about. Maybe he isn’t as into me as I hoped. Sad, but I’ll be alright 😅

[@MS-ns4ki]

You don’t even need to show me the signs - the energy

[@Marie-vz2qp]

That's why it's have to end, i don't want to be nobody options.

[@frankydottir8762]

100% my case. It was sooo confusing, because when i reached out, he was always accessible, poured honey in my ears about his feelings and future plans together (possibly future faking)... I told him that being the only one who's proactive in communication doesn't work for me and i wished him best. Never heared from him since.

[@Beautiiandlight]

God is not the author of confusion so that wasn't the person for you anyway.

[@anam5099]

​@@Beautiiandlight love that

[@findpurpose6300]

Be glad he is gone. You deserve the best and he clearly was not the best at all.

[@khemaloving4031]

I try never to start habits I can’t keep up…

[@rochellebarnard9676]

I could have used this advice months ago but I figured it out .

[@mozartrn1]

Unfortunately it has taken me years to figure this out 🙄

[@butterfliez9584]

Same here...😢

[@frankydottir8762]

I was very confused until i saw this video and everything made sense to me.

[@Leastlikely_1]

I didn't initiate convo for 6 days, he didn't either. Then sent me a message saying I'm cheating on him. Wth...

[@678tanesha]

😂😂😂😂 Been there girl. He was a clown though.

[@frankydottir8762]

I think what they were really after, was to bath in our loving energy (which is always a nice feeling and boosts ones self esteem) They just wanted to take but never intended to give. (just sweet talk now and then enough for us to stay)

[@TheShellybaybee]

Wow, ℹ seriously wonder who raised this new generation of men… like what waste everyone times

[@caterinadelgalles8783]

Option just poofed away!

[@vilmacabanbabilonia8214]

Think with your head and not your heart.

[@frankydottir8762]

It can be very confusing even when you think with head, especially if you haven't experienced it before..

[@kishataylor7789]

I so enjoy your content thank you❤❤❤

[@springrolls7977]

I think so 🤷‍♀️. He doesn't communicate 🤷‍♀️ .

[@cynthiagomes2979]

I wish he would talk to me. God got it.

[@candacewebb120]

Stephan you know damn well we had no business doing that CHYLE 😂😂😂😂

[@LaTremendaChica]

Truth 😂

[@xoxobutterfly]

Yup he has my number but hasnt asked me on a date so im going on a coffee date with anothee man 😂

[@tyyonasweeten]

So leave women alone then lol.

[@allthingsasiah]

Here for it😊

[@mariaowens3399]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@LionessOfBeauty]

What does it mean when you're the only one to initiate affection?

[@trishisback838]

It’s possible your person is shy or just have an avoidant attachment style. Talk to him/her about how their lack of affection is making you feel and decide if it something you want.

[@joelanturk6280]

It means there is absolutely no interest in you. #RunGirlRun 🏃‍♀️👍🏾

[@tyyonasweeten]

💯💯 needed it

[@MayaColumbus-bc9ek]

love your work

[@janinekia7942]

🚩🚩🚩..too good Stephen ❤

[@kudaeratravels1720]

What if he's an introvert & is really not into intiating anything as he's scared of rejection or being seen zoned in messaging? 🙃😵‍💫

[@frankydottir8762]

Even introverts, when they love someone, will at least message.

[@Cclearly9]

@@frankydottir8762 Literally me right now. I reached out to a guy for the first time this week, I NEVER do that. It was like pulling teeth to get a conversation going so I just left the conversation where it's at. It takes 2 people to make a conversation and I don't have time to be pulling stuff out of my 🍑 to talk about. At least I got some pracice in.

[@spyroluver0951]

I dated an introvert and he used the same excuses for two years. As soon as I had the courage to leave, he said I will do all these things with me. Too late after spending years to tell him how i feel

[@maurine3553]

What of one who will reach out via calls or messages but will never initiate a meetup with you?

[@mirelarajic579]

You should tell him that you would like to see him or spend some quality time together and from there you'll see how it goes.

[@bluebird5289]

Penpal

[@scottlane2580]

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[@candacewebb120]

I take it again nobody told HIM to 🪜 step in that arena honey then we can't gloss over that's a pattern a 13 year one to be exact he wasted that woman's time all those year's long 😮😅 🙌🏼 it's been in the entertainment world 🌎🌍 nothing is gonna change about that 🤣 🙌🏼 with the different color characters etc we have to accept HIM for who he is, like we have been doing and we didn't to do that it's going strong 💪 with those characters year's and ears 👂😅😂😂😂

[@raquelhaddi69]

Doesn’t apply 👍 thank god but can I say that this shouldn’t be applied to anyone who is in a Twin Flame connection because in those complicated relationships there is always a runner & chaser

[@MissAmeriNegro]

Please elaborate

[@Pschool1]

Can you explain further ?

[@FoundSheep-AN]

Twin Flame are a deception from Satan. Try to look up on KZbin some videos typing Twin Flame deception - or Twin Flame demonic It’s a mental programming to make you accept an abusive satanic relationship that is not from God That’s not the way God intended the relationship between men and women to be

[@frankydottir8762]

I don't believe there's twin flames. We can love many people in our lives. Mutually.

[@aniyadainnovator5869]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯