If He's Not Pursuing You Consistently, Prioritizing You Or Committing, Do These 3 Things...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Get FREE access to Chelsea's Masterclass here: www.chelsearosecoaching.com/datelikeaqueenh If you’re interested in coaching, you can book a free consultation call with Chelsea here: chelsearoses.as.me/?appointmentType=34539576 Follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@mgee303]

I’m finally at the point where I find myself turned off by guys who are inconsistent. I see it pretty much right away now, usually within a few dates. Wish I figured it out a lot sooner!

[@datingdiaries1681]

Same.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜

[@Powerskaty]

I recognized it but I think age made me think more scarcity so I accepted it. No more!

[@GGGG1040]

The same.

[@godisbigenough]

I was in a relationship with a man like this, and I'm so glad that it is over. Definitely happier single.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜

[@AnimalLover-yw6ry]

I walked away from a man in January because of the inconsistency. It was hard walking away from someone I was totally into, but it was worth my self respect. Plus it allowed me to totally take him off the pedestal once I could see it from a distance.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! I’m glad you were able to walk away. 💕

[@pamanderson925]

I am just glad however, that I finally took my power back. I went to go visit my daughter across the country or halfway across the country I should say, and my vehicle broke down and after 26 years of marriage though my husband did not want to come help me and save me so I said screw it I got myself an apartment. I’ve made the best of friends here and better people around me more support people who actually care, so letting go of a 26 year marriage is becoming easier for me every day and I have because I’ve done the shadow work because I’ve done the dive into myself over the last six years Spirits been bringing me amazing men in my life to interact with, and I understand what you said in the video because yes, I would look for any and all red flags and push people away but then I realized that it was in me because I was still being triggered things definitely do take a turn when you love yourself and knock these donkeys on their ass for once, and show them who the hell you really are

[@charlotte5671]

Yesss woman!! That takes strength and courage but it gets you to where you want to be! ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💗

[@kellibyers9620]

Ive been here but i raised my standards and got my power back 💪🏽🙏🏽❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💗

[@Suz562]

Thank you both for this video. I needed to hear this. Fear and a false sense of safety have kept me from having a real commitment in my life. New standards are going to change that.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad it helped. 💗

[@geetatripathi2454]

Even in a committed relationship men tend to be hot and cold and confuse and if confronted they tend to block. What do you have to say for that. They also leave and pull away.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

This sounds like an emotionally immature or emotionally unavailable man. The question is what are your standards/boundaries? Do you let him keep a foot in the door? ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree - that sounds like an emotionally immature or unavailable man, or someone who’s not going to be into you for the long haul. The right man will definitely NOT do that. If you have a belief that all men do this in relationships, that’s definitely something to take a look at because that will keep you attracting those types of experiences over and over. If you’re in a situation like that right now, this episode on how to convey your standards might be helpful: kzbin.info3RbplVL9zs4?si=eNI9VYRzWLltsDi3

[@DebR1210]

OMG! This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💜 This video might also be helpful for anyone who can relate: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fdm4OPqNKShs0si=S5L0OWorp9_Ku_nl

[@GGGG1040]

Me too

[@pamanderson925]

I’ve actually been prompted to write a book about all of this, as well as all the other information I have about our birth charts, and how they affect us how the planets affect us what placements show us what we need as a child for nurturing, and how if we didn’t get it that we would Act or think and feel a certain way as adults and how we can navigate our lives better and how there is actually a book that can come with you for raising children and I have a secret to that book. I know what it is I’ve been given that privileged information by spirit to help people so they can heal themselves. Healer. Relationships heal their family lineage, and working on that book now

[@krissyunstoppable6979]

Go ahead write & publish your book you may become "Best Seller" & touch lives! 😊👍🏽 from an Author who just publish in April 2023🙏🏽

[@craftswithjeni]

I need to read ur book

[@tjaspire]

Helena being sweet and classy as always! ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 🩷

[@Monika-uo9xd]

Some people / couches say that a man should ask a woman to be exclusive after 2-3 months of dating and within 6 months a man will know if she is a wifey material or not and if he sees a future with her - there should be a conversation about moving forward and taking the relationship to the next level ( only a conversation which will make a women feel secure and she will get an assurance from a man). Some people disagree with that. Also if a man will not initiate what’s next after 6 months should a woman ask “ what’s next / where this is going”… I don’t want to waste my time …What’s your advice? I’m 38, I have a stable career , house so I’m only interested in men who want to settle down. I’m trying to avoid men who are playing games… actions always speak louder vs words

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video that my husband and I recorded together might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nHbcep2GjpJojJosi=lPKD8vUPTVY0-Lfa

[@jcanangel]

Thank you so much for this episode Helena and Chelsea❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! 💗

[@deirdreslater4866]

Powerful nuggets spoken

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💜 These episodes might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fdm4OPqNKShs0si=w_wpQIlH4tR4YXqZ and kzbin.infoPRQ44DZTNA8?si=-6SGL-W34DegO0u8.

[@nicolecato634]

Every man I meet is this way. My dad treated me like this as his daughter. He was an inconsistent drunk.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. This episode might be helpful for anyone who can relate: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZYsi=KG3AhovOiski5C1k

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Read Women who love too much. You need to go to counselling for children of alcoholic parents. If you don't do the work you will keep repeating this cycle.

[@Triciacampbellplusmodel]

Wow! I need to do my work. I have been going through this.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful for anyone who can relate: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fdm4OPqNKShs0si=L1zbZaadcTUyAVbX, kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=FV1MqGdEF7kdKjtT and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=V3_Qm8iq6SAc9MIf.

[@tasrajwani]

This is so perfectly put! ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 🩷

[@datingdiaries1681]

What does it mean when we don't feel physical attraction to the men who are emotionally available ? It's like if the guy we felt chemistry for was available we would be all in with him. It's so confusing.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, that’s actually very common and I’ve done a lot of episodes on this. This one would be a good place to start: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZYsi=WMfwnf63BioASiTG

[@butterflygoddess2436]

You are two of my favourites 🩷

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@milliemarino2407]

If he doesn't respond to my text should I forget about him?

[@breakergirl47]

You know the answer but you are believing your heart. The Bible says the “the heart is treacherous and desperate who can know it“. A man who wants to be found comes to you effortlessly. The one who is not responding to your calls or who you have to call and sms doesn’t want to be found. It’s that simple ❤

[@pinkpolkadot3]

Thank you I love this video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@myramalloy6638]

Yes! It happened, then i thought I did find a real man with feelings bthen the toasting started and the live booming . I give up

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💙 These are the videos I’d recommend for anyone who’s experienced something similar: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqMsi=Ubot6xzpJKvt-Jus and kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNEsi=QWK1YYITSaRcZbs7.

[@pipermcpickles5283]

This is great information, thank you both! 💖🪷💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️

[@pamanderson925]

As a woman who was once in the military, met her husband there and spent 26 years with that jack ass, and gave him power over me. It wasn’t until my grandmother’s death a few years ago that was the catalyst for my getting back on track with my journey in healing and spirituality and I will say it was the best thing that ever happened for me as much as I miss her, but then again, I can connect to the other side, so I’m not as sad as some people are the blues lamp however, an avoidant attachment style man is definitely something to run from, but for that matter, women need to learn their own attachment style as they should learn about all the others as well so that they can see the flags so they can see the flags in themselves so they can make those corrections and so they can see the flags in any of the other types of a attachment styles in men.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! 💞

[@theeempress4956]

Great video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@Foxie635]

Just told off a guy. Feels really good. We are still friends though without benefits.

[@craftswithjeni]

How do watch your podcast Helena?! 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You can follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214 That’s where I’m spending most of my time now, so I’d love to have you join me over there! ❤️

[@craftswithjeni]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you done..

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@ceceliafears7822]

It looks like a not invested and is like a cat fihing and bread crumbing and ghosting . Yet he hangs around . They always know what a woman or female wants to hear . Being someone who dosent respind or ignores you . I stood my boundries and I have standards and I have self respect and I dont need him to feel like Im worthy because I am worth everything . I bowed out that way you will see if he realizes your worth in his life make him miss you block him and make him come to you in person and stick to your standing your ground . You deserve to be respected and valued and your to be the priorty not something else or someone .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💙 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s going through something like this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fdm4OPqNKShs0si=O0R73UXUd2CDX3Qx and kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=xDc-cWuzTyOrjYM_.

[@Jess-wk5jo]

Hi helena I have question for you over affairs please can you answer my questions over affairs. 1 Is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not 2 can people have affair or Cheat on someone without having no sex 3 .If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating 4 can i have affair without never never having sex. 5 is it really affair without having no sex 6 can i have emotional and physical affair without having no sex?

[@catherineaubert2098]

That was the same question over and over …YES ITS CHEATING

[@nicolecato634]

So where do I find the incredible men?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This episode might be helpful: kzbin.infoKJluwcHD498?si=dTUVWqxY68FYV0wg

[@etiquetteconnoisseur6184]

Exactly. I know very well about this. I want to know what to say to him the next time he contacts me. I’m open to meeting other men. I only meet men though, who want to sleep with me right away. N.B. I’m in France😘

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

While I don’t know the details of your situation, this episode on how to convey your standards might be helpful: kzbin.info3RbplVL9zs4?si=Ul-7aZgGh5pwavD_

[@monicalevyt]

Please who is this woman? How do I follow her?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Chelsea Rose is a good friend of mine, and we’ve worked together for a couple years now. You can get free access to her Masterclass here: www.chelsearosecoaching.com/datelikeaqueenh If you’re interested in coaching, you can book a free consultation call with Chelsea here: chelsearoses.as.me/?appointmentType=34539576

[@monicalevyt]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you

[@latushasmith1016]

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