3 Unconscious Roles We Play That Push Men Away And Block The Connection + How To Turn It Around

Discover three unconscious roles we can play that push good men away and block the connection and intimacy (PLUS how to turn things around) in this podcast episode with Clayton Olson and Helena Hart.
If you're interested in private coaching, you can fill out an application here and someone from Clayton's team will get in touch with you: forms.gle/MNRr...
Follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.c...
…or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple...
Here are the biggest Connection Barriers that push a man away (PLUS how to make him come back and want to stay forever): forever1234.com/
If you want to learn the secrets to attracting the man you want and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoach...
Get your personal dating and relationship questions answered here: helenahart--mc...
Check out my eBooks and Programs here: helenahartcoach...
While I don't personally conduct one-on-one counseling, I’m sponsored by a company that can meet such a need if you'd like to get online therapy from a licensed professional (I've worked with a therapist from BetterHelp myself and it was absolutely life-changing!). You can get a discount through my exclusive invitation here: betterhelp.com...
Connect with me on Facebook: / helenahartcoaching
Follow me on Instagram: / helenahartcoaching

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you're interested in private coaching, you can fill out an application here and someone from Clayton's team will get in touch with you: forms.gle/MNRrkZpxjuJZjLxx5 Follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Loved our talk, Helena! Great questions.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@claytonolsoncoachingYes, I love everything you shared and I definitely learned a few things during this one!

[@marievlachos103]

I feel like I am a little bit of all 3 of these so I resonate with what Clayton said about having different parts of me show up depending on my partners core traits

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! That resonated with me, too. 💞

[@cynthiabarringer2170]

I want to thank both Helena and Clayton for one putting out life changing videos as well as your coaching. I recently finished coaching sessions with Clayton Olson and no words can tell you the knowledge about myself I learned through our sessions has allowed me to be set free from the "discarded persona"..... and with Clayton's helps I became a whole person and accepting all parts of myself in order to heal and love myself! Please love yourself enough to do this for yourself! In your corner, Cindy

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

Wow, such an amazing discussion jam-packed with extremely valuable information. Thank you 🙏❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💗 Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thank you!

[@genomeara6922]

An excellent interview! I could relate to the first and third of these roles! Thank you! 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@wendydaniel1110]

I am the defender archtype for sure....I have a carefree, independent approach in my relationships with men..I attract a lot of Narcissist whom I do not allow to "c onquer" me. I know it's only for their self serving " power and control. .I can commit ti the right man and be very loyal but my relationships lacks intimacy.. I don't give anyone my entire heart because I love deep when I do, so I safe guard myself from appearing vulnerable of needing genuine closeness .It's a trust thing ..I am very mindful of when someone is pulling away getting distant.. Instead of trying to rectify the problem, I walk away, especially if it's a newer (less than a year) relationship. I am more of solo person, I don't chase a man either....I have wonderful female friends whom I have deep connections with. That's enough for me❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Love your self-awareness and ownership.

[@clarisec1451]

I resonate with the discarded.

[@B.S.81]

Helena i am on my healing journey and I have been going through narcissistic storm for 3 to 4 years know it is very hard and draining. I have recently listened to your podcast with antia boyd on how to deal with narcissistic people and how to stop attracting them antia and you said somethink that just hit me right in the face that I have been struggling with for a very long time and that is that from an anxious attachment styles standpoint you have to create sooth or certainty in your reality in order for your nervous system to feel fairly regulated if you feel de regulated you feel out of source that is when you go to high levels of anxiety and fight or flight mode and you want to avoid that so you are not ignoring them because you dont want to be with the emptiness and with the space, helena I have been doing this all the time and it has been draining my soul Helena and I was like why am I doing this why can I not just ignore them and walk away and be ok with it i got my answer because I try to create sooth or certainty for myself and I cant be with the emptiness and with the space. Helena I want more information on this so I can move beyond this behaviour that i am stuck in and ignore toxic people comming my way and dont use my energy on them and walk away. Much love!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! ❤️ I know many people can relate. I actually just posted a new episode with Antia Boyd today where we talked about that a little bit - here’s the link if you’d like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGWcd36siMyVipIsi=v5QJNpi0c8d2sguf If you’d like more personalized support around your specific situation, you can book a free discovery call with Antia here: MagnetizeYourMan.com/Call/Helena

[@B.S.81]

@@HelenaHartCoaching i loved the episode thank you. I have been stuck in this pattern for so long not even realising why i was doing this to finally realise it and be aware of it is huge for me and i am able to turn it around finally. You are both so smart and intelligent women and i am so thankful that i can learn from both of you. I am not looking for a relationship but i am looking to be peeling the layers of the programming i have grown up with so i can finally be aware of the subconscious behaviour and stop people pleasing in all shapes and forms and be my authentic self. I have booked a call with antia i am looking forward to learn more about this thank you helena.

[@B.S.81]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Helena i am curious about your programme stop attracting the wrong men so you can attract the right one i am not looking for a relationship right know but i am looking to heal my self and be my authentic self and peel the layers of toxic programming right know i am attracting wrong people in my life not just men will this programme still be helpful so that i can stop attracting the wrong people so i can attract the right people in my life i am curious ?

[@rhondabesst6817]

I resonate with all three. However, I feel I lean more towards as the defender. Great informative podcast.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 Thanks for sharing your experience here. Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@nadiar8244]

Helena, Clayton thank you SO MUCH for this episode 🙏 For not only clearly outlining the types but also giving great advice on what to do. I’m a bit of all three and only starting to uncover the scale of the problems I have. It was so timely. Thank you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! I’m glad it helped. 💗

[@clarisec1451]

Thank you for doing this podcast. I didn't even realize I was doing these, well actually all three of them.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 Thanks for sharing your experience here. Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

That’s common. We have all of these parts. Some are more dominant than others.

[@cynthiabarringer2170]

I can relate to the last persona as well!! However, I no longer live from that old programming!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! Yes, I think a lot of people who are drawn to this work can relate to that one (myself included!). 💞

[@baby-xp9dn]

Wow a huge Thank You ❤ this was very helpful 🎉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💗 Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@baby-xp9dn]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank You Helena 🩷 i will definitely check it out.

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thank you🎉

[@baby-xp9dn]

@@claytonolsoncoaching You have a new 🆕 subscriber

[@clarisec1451]

I resonate with the second one some too.

[@tamarabexley7020]

Thankyou this was so helpful! 🥰🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💗 Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@bekster081305]

Wow! Very valuable information, thank you 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=nT16lNbO-3HExNKg

[@clarisec1451]

I'm listening on KZbin and feel I'm all three

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for listening! Yes, I can see how we could have different combinations of all three of these. 💞

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

Yikes I feel like I am all these things 😔 Is there hope? 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. There’s definitely hope! I can see how we could have different combinations of all three of these. 💞

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Yes we often have these different parts. The work is not eradicating them, but leading from a more authentic place nestled in your heart.

[@Jess-wk5jo]

I have question am i emotionally cheating on morgan with my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan by meeting up and texting and calling Stephen on phone and laughing with steohen and holding hands with stephen and watching high school musical dvds that me and Stephen love without never never having no sex

[@soniavicente1754]

Wow, i've been seeing your same comment on so many different channels... If you want one guy stop emotionally engaging with the other. Yes, it's cheating and cruel