If someone you are dating is hot and cold, DO THIS...

Dating a person that is HOT and COLD is tough, but you can turn this dating situation around.
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This video covers the 5 major points that can transform a person you are dating from being Hot and Cold, to being red hot. Which point did you find most useful?

[@Adriana-uf8mg]

I am done with hot & cold in relationships even friendships. Nobody has time for that.

[@KingofAloha808]

💯 I agree. Life's too short for the foolishness.

[@missleelee7232]

Agreed!!

[@JagjotSingh]

I was so shocked when a friend treated me that way. I was not looking for a romantic relationship with her. And she was extremely nice the first few weeks, initiating conversation, sharing personal issues and all. But after that she started getting cold. It reached a point where I was the only one to initiate conversation and she would short respond me. I never had any romantic feelings for her but this kind of behavior has hurt me. Now I understand this sick game she is playing with me. The only option I have is to let her go because I can’t stand inconsistency even if it’s friendship.

[@fredmad4988]

That time is better spent on yourself.

[@c2dvr]

Absolutely!

[@andreathehiphopper2590]

so exhausting when they pull away emotionally. pendulum swing = no bueno

[@garimatyagi3566]

Exactly.... I am facing this

[@Pioramic]

Andrea the HIP hopper it’s so fucking exhausting

[@razvanli5358]

True!!!! Exhausting!!!!

[@jasminej6281]

I'm sorry I was distracted by your eyes. Wow. I tuned in half way lol. You're spot on mate.

[@anons000]

why do you have a barbie as your avatar?

[@jasminej6281]

Nice2347 is that a problem?

[@anons000]

Jasmine C it’s just weird

[@jasminej6281]

Nice2347 maybe she looks like me

[@winterberrybible7595]

Jaiza J dang 👏

[@magdalenakrauze9473]

I watched so many KZbin videos on hot and cold guys. I'm dealing with one now. You just remain me I don't want to and i dont need to be in this relation. You made my day❤️

[@peonmyhall]

They could also have narcissistic personality disorder if they do this. Don't just assume it's a healthy person

[@1991windsor]

peonmyhall yes it sounds like either a narcissist or probably more like a borderline.

[@TyrasBlessedHands]

Exactly

[@michaelquecera3971]

Point is for people who dont wanna play mind games to avoid them all. That includes the ones who are not self aware.

[@silencio1234]

Yes! Absolutely. It’s a red flag and a sign to back away from the relationship before you get seriously hurt. A loving partner won’t do this. It’s called intermittent reinforcement and narcs, sociopaths and psychopaths do it to control people.

[@kasiecastleberry]

💯

[@paulacrevaux5730]

I am so happy to hear this, this is what i've always wanted from a relationship

[@sweaters_and_harmony9525]

Thank you so much for your video! I find myself getting trapped in the "hot and cold" game with my friendships sometimes. And if I am honest, I will say that there is NO BETTER HIGH than being loved by the person who only shows you care and attention intermittently. But it just is not worth it. Thanks for reminding me that it is okay, and even vital, to have high standards. crucial

[@sagenosnibor9173]

your message was beautifully delivered. THANK YOU!- sending back love

[@sarahb8363]

This is very interesting...the addiction part makes a lot of sense..the high highs where they show you love and affection..what you want..then the loss where its shit..you feel shit...aye..defo let them/you know what you dont want and what you wont tolerate. If they are the right person they will compromise and strive to be a better person. If not..then find it somewhere else..who will do those things.

[@comentadoraification]

The casino metaphor is on point!

[@dlwilliamson5644]

I love this:" I am not the type of person that dates a slot machine." Beautiful. Absolutely Beautiful.

[@mzhere3921]

Just wanted to say thank you. This video helped me a lot! I didn’t understand someone behavior and after watching this I see all clear . You speak very beautiful and smart . With you well

[@2911ruby]

You have got beautiful eyes!

[@meganjenkins2384]

oh my gosh. Aren't they!!! My days. I am over my ex, just by looking at this man!

[@anonymousanon2993]

I have a co-worker who has been hot & cold towards me all year. One minute, she will be very quiet around me & when I speak to her I'll get one word out of her all day if I'm lucky. Next minute, she will yell out 'hello' to me with a big smile & want to talk to me. I one minute feel like we are friends then all of a sudden I feel like we are strangers. I texted her the other day telling her how I was nervous because of having to go to hospital & most friends would text you back to check on you right? Or even just to see how it all went right? Nope, I never heard from her. I haven't seen her act cold towards anyone else at my work. I can't stand hot & cold behaviour! Like either you like me or you don't!

[@Mira20153]

Wow! This is so on point. Thank you. I was on the way to 2nd Mr Jakyll and Hyde. Not any more.

[@olglez9230]

Wow. Thank you for sharing this. This is so God damned powerful!

[@deqaabdi5599]

Thank you, your advice is on the point!!!.

[@sophienavarro4317]

Thank you for this! I needed to hear this!!

[@marciafab7]

This video is perfection! Thank you !

[@monicaaustin2711]

Needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@maryvanlanen2486]

Thank you so much for this! I have a guy friend who I really connected with and after a few months he revealed how inconsistent he is in life. He got me to fall for him and then later says he just wants to go be friends instead, then it started showing how he is a Rollercoaster of whatever he says or does he will change his mind about. Like if we agree to go hangout,he'll let me know not even 5 minutes before we are to leave how he will no longer be going that day. I am finished with him!

[@_witi]

These kinda shitty behaviour hurts really bad. I have faced this and it's terrible

[@VirjScarlett]

I also feel you huhuhu, he was so good in the beginning and I fell so hard for him. The other he was good and lovey dovey and after and hr he's hurting my feelings. I really don't understand.

[@zaz4jaz]

Thank you so much. I needed this.

[@arib3871]

Thanks man. Needed to see this.

[@SCORPIUS.98]

Guys... His eyelashes are the spectacle here. Look how long they are. Also, thank you sir, straightforward advice I needed.

[@mariacasemyr]

Well spoken words. Thank you

[@celestialfortuna37]

Diego you have beautiful eyes. thank you for this. problem is so many are traumatised and accept "breadcrumbs" and many are so invested in something is better than nothing. ive ended relationships in the past after calling out hot and cold behaviour. the guy admitted it apologised for it. and nothing changed. i left him to travel around south america it was brilliant. i dont date slot machines! lol!

[@tintynes9756]

thanks.. its helpful. love and light!☺

[@kyleboyer9548]

I love your casino comparison 🔥

[@algrande2841]

Great video.. complete to the point

[@znvorz]

yup, i think im addicted to her attention/validation/care. shes hot and cold. i thought she would change this but nope. i am not a priority in her life like she is in mine.

[@DiegoCassina]

i feel you dude. that game sucks. hit me up in messenger on fb, happy to give you some ideas that helped me turn it around: m.me/diegobcassina

[@ladennayoung2939]

Good video. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for being honest. ❤❤❤

[@livelovelaughforever2131]

Wow. Thank u. I have been so focused on only the warm and sweet aspects of a particular mans personality and trying to erase and ignore his very cold and distant characteristics. U really helped me. I have to have full AWARENESS and ask myself WHAT DO I DESERVE?

[@arzooray3145]

Thank you for sharing 😩😓❤️

[@yaziibella6535]

Beautiful talk and beautiful eyes💘

[@daarchdukefranzferdinand236]

dealing with someone extremely hot and cold who is always at the casino this video is insane

[@amandam9371]

Thank you so much for this

[@Rbl7132]

This is BRILLIANT!!!!!!

[@Galedeahuva]

Love this!

[@user-ee5om8wy7u]

They go suddenly cold and even rude to you....but when you ask them why and what happened, they respond by attacking you back and guilt-tripping you by saying things like: "nothing changed! You imagine stuff" or "Look at you - all you do is complain. What a negative person you are" or "what's wrong with you? You just pick at me for no reason!" Or "don't start a fight!" Yeah right, they are going passive-aggressive on you and you try to clarify the situation and ask them politely why they are suddenly in a bad mood and for that they blame you for "starting a fight" and call you "picky" or "selfish" or "insecure"! But caught in the moment you'd feel guilty, asking yourself "Am I starting a fight for no reason? Am I selfish? Am I insecure?" That's how they gaslight you into doubting yourself.....

[@whitebathroomguy]

Or that person is interested/secretly dating someone else

[@blissfulblooms5656]

Love the way he speaks. 🥰

[@g.mmcloughlin4964]

You remind me so much of Robin Williams (your eyes). Uncanny. Great advice btw.

[@shveitan.2932]

I am suffering this right now , exactly right now ...the same treatment.

[@DiegoCassina]

Hey Shveita... feel free to email me [e-mail] and I'll see how I can help more with your specfic situation. Cheers, Diego

[@shveitan.2932]

@@DiegoCassina Sure... and yes,... thank you...!

[@dlwilliamson5644]

"Don't be someone's down-time, spare-time, part-time or sometime. If they can't be there for you all the time, they're not even worth your time. "

[@Me-fn3qu]

Ran across this tonight. Thank you. Makes so much sense.

[@mariamodica6899]

This is so beautiful

[@DiegoCassina]

Thank you Maria

[@mariamodica6899]

Diego Cassina you are welcome!

[@kylieking8163]

God I love your eye color

[@Aileensjournal]

wowowo thank you for sharing this

[@devinepegasus5532]

I find friends at work are hot and cold I’ve always been nice to people and they make me feel invisible do I have to be mean to keep them keen because that’s not in me and I feel they know this and they end up walking all over me and push me away leaving me wondering what I did wrong sometimes I feel like I’m better off being on my own like I’ve always been since back in my school days because otherwise I feel like I’m trying to hard to be what people expect of me to be and if I were more out going than that would be a fake me I’m very quiet around people because I’m afraid what I say people would think I’m weird or crazy maybe it’s my anxiety that stops me from coming out of my shell or people are just cold hearted and fake people

[@daincorruptable2833]

True u must draw a standard if they crosses the line , they are out.

[@angelascrivens1052]

Great video

[@lynnetg]

Divine Unconditional love from our higher self is the only reality.. The rest is programming..

[@carolvevle8190]

Are we talking about hot & cold or narcissism??!!

[@lovorka3321]

what about using the same technique on them so they change? i think my boyfriend has borderline because of his mom , but he really loves me and i love him. i want to fix it.

[@tetehl4731]

Sorry i tried hard to concentrate.. Your eyes are so beautiful!! Good advice tho thank you 😊

[@Robertovillanuevaop]

So what do you do?

[@annahedman1645]

Thank you.

[@coachtee7]

Thank you so much.

[@gglin5595]

well explained ! 🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒

[@meganjenkins2384]

Omg. You are God. I have got over him, just by looking at your face and hearing your voice. Bish bash bom. Fannyflutters !!!

[@aesthetewithoutacause3981]

I find myself doing this with my crush... I know it's confusing it and I wanna stop. It's very subtle right now, and we're still just friends. Sometimes I'll be all smiley and sit closer to him, other times I'll ignore him. I've never been in a relationship, and I think this behaviour is a manifestation of my fear of being that close with someone. When he's not focusing on me, I like him. I can see myself with him. But then when he starts talking properly with me, even flirting, I get scared. Do I really want this? Am I ready for this? Things I was so sure about before l become totally lukewarm about. I think he's ignoring me now because of this. Good for him. Seriously. But unfortunately for, this makes me like him even more. So I'm really stuck.

[@bradleywilliams3486]

This is really interesting! I’m currently talking to a girl who seems to behave the exact same way as you do. Is there a way I could talk to you privately?

[@aesthetewithoutacause3981]

@@bradleywilliams3486 you can dm me on my public insta @zoe.nelson.photography if you like

[@misssarada7330]

My problem 😢😂😂

[@neuroticgypsy]

Very true

[@andreeaciobanuc404]

I personally attract this kind of guy because if he is hot all the time, I easily get bored. I am too dominant, energetic, powerful and the moment he is too predictable and nice, I start dominating him and consider him weak, less of a guy. I like him being cold at times but I want them to be warm as well. And even if he is cold, I would like him to be serious with me, loyal and respectful.

[@ariesariesfearless4810]

Oh my god your eyes i can't concentrate 😂😂😂😂

[@yaziibella6535]

Those eyes , oh my god 💘

[@oldskoolgypsy9204]

Subbed 👍🏼💯💐🏆

[@andreeaciobanuc404]

But do some of them change in time? So they get tired of the other women and grow mature?

[@Stay___Strong]

I’ve had 2 dates with someone who has been very enthusiastic but recently is putting no effort into the 3rd date. It is bothering me. I’ll give her another chance but I need to just let it go if she continues acting this way.

[@TheInfamousMrZero]

Thank you

[@johnsmith-rd3zx]

its it hot and cold or trying not to act to desperate but not wanting to get rid of women either?

[@deeptinagrath4308]

Awesome

[@Chosenthebostonterrier]

What if it’s not them but it’s me ?...

[@morelions4014]

Killer hair cut maaaaaaaaaaan.

[@nidhi4079]

Okay What do i do now because if I pull away I know they’re going to turn on their hot behaviour and then going to pull me back in, how to deal with this??

[@DiegoCassina]

Decide if you want that type of person. There is a difference between a person that wants you and a person that doesn't want to lose you. If you want pure fun, all good. Go wild. But if you are looking for a commitment from that person, it'll only happen if you are more avoidant than them. If you are watching this, chances are that just isn't you. There is a saying I said to myself when I was gripped by this situation that helped me: "Never touch the same hell twice".

[@nidhi4079]

Diego Cassina that makes complete sense. I am going to think about this with this new perspective , thank youu!

[@BrandiNaugle]

You should be a model

[@theresepebbles3807]

Truth, right.

[@deborahgloria3867]

Leave RUN!

[@shrutiverma4586]

Is good to be with a man who sometimes give you hot and cold behaviour

[@bibigreen6533]

Wow that slot machine image is good.

[@marshlong]

Holy shit your eyes are like crystal 😍

[@happyloner1595]

I fucking play the same trick hot n cold to him too but too extreme one.

[@peonmyhall]

Women do this constantly, not sure why guys are getting all the blame here

[@SR77736]

peonmyhall both genders do.I know male players who do this often. It is a person who craves power and control and any gender can illicit these behaviors.

[@jvjoyner]

And it sucks.

[@gratemusic3008]

No sympathy in poker and love lol

[@ladennayoung2939]

It is funny that this popped up in my recommendations. A dude that I liked act just like this. I haven't heard from him in a couple of weeks. Today he suddenly sent me a text. I'm like ah, why text me now after all of this time? Smh.

[@DiegoCassina]

You got it rockstar! I've since found out that the ultimate solution was having a purpose. When you have a purpose, you can very quickly tell if your energy is being depleted by this person's existence in your life. When I had no real aim or purpose, man... that was tough times

[@tesswakefield1420]

Gorgeous eyes 😀

[@Lynnromesa]

I move enough to like your beautiful eyes 😉😄😘. Naughty me!

[@ramzezcerberus1417]

Good info terrible delivery

[@tamarahripley6560]

I needed to hear this! Thank you!

[@diegocassina6257]

Awesome Tamarah! Sending strength