Why She Runs Hot & Cold

[@mattblom3990]

I've been dating this girl and played it perfectly except for one mistake - after making out one time I told her I 'liked' her. The change was instant now that she knew how I felt. Never to be repeated.

[@BoneMaestro]

Don't say it for the sake of games. Say it, mean it and own it. Nothing wrong with saying you like her.

[@BoneMaestro]

@Master Epps I think he said that he regret saying he likes her and he thinks he shouldn't say it ever again. I don't agree with that. I hope I made myself clearer this time

[@rustyshackleford2841]

Nope, there’s more to this story. I think you are failing to tell us something. Nothing wrong with telling her “ Babe, I like you. I love that arse. It’s so beautiful, drives me wild( turns me on).”

[@nawfsidehtown2927]

Sounds exactly like the chic I've been with. Made out then she backed away .

[@stellainverso6790]

Never say it, even if she's asks you, always laugh and say you like her sometimes ..

[@rockn1677]

Women are also more attracted to guys when their ovulating. If you catch her on her cycle at the right time, she will be the one that's ''weak and needy''.

[@kimberlyjane8786]

ew

[@ryanvtec3885]

Ill try this

[@Merknilash]

Ya man you just got to get a quick sniff and you’ll know if she’s in season or not and you can plan accordingly ;)

[@alexdimambro412]

Also, in all my time with dating……I’ve noticed that emotionally healthy woman and the best and longest relationships I’ve had, have been with women who were not hot and cold. It was just normal. It wasn’t hard. It just happened naturally. So. 🤷‍♂️

[@tkleo2006]

I hope I'm right in believing this too. There is always a chance the girl I was talking to somehow got the vibe I was over interested in her but I never forced her to do anything she didn't want to do. She said twice she wanted to go slow and didn't like to be pressured by guys. It's hard to tell what I did that was seen as pressure unless she is overthinking every little thing I was doing. Maybe if I had acted like I literally didn't care at all she would have chased me. But is that really mature women & marriage material when someone is led by their own emotions?

[@raheemcamal998]

Facts

[@raheemcamal998]

@@tkleo2006 bruh am in this right now

[@Robin-is3ke]

@@tkleo2006 i had the exact same story with a girl, she was so hot that i wasn’t natural like Corey mention in this video. She litterly said that it was al to pushy from my side etc. In the end after 2 months of dating she said she wasn’t ready for a relation and she was in a different fase as me…

[@Robin-is3ke]

You are right Alex that if a women likes you from the start she will make it easy for you… the only thing is that i often not feel the same for these girls i met… the one that blew me away this year was like a 7 at her attraction level and i rushed and chased way to much…

[@bottlewaddle6677]

You taught me so much but I always come back to refresh

[@rustyshackleford2841]

David Grainger me too. I’m currently finding success with this “swears she’s single” gal. Nothing but warm and happy feelings when she reaches for me. No talk of relationship till (if) she brings it up. Am I the booty call? I really don’t care I get what I want, PUNANNyyy! Bye Felicia!!

[@simi6152]

We run hot and cold if our interests are elsewhere, for example if you have another man in your life!

[@c2dvr]

Facts!Usually is the root cause.OTHER INTEREST!

[@Texas80]

Don't chase women, it makes things so simple. I'm on the 4th read of your book and when I think of all the dating problems I've had in 2018 it's been because I was needy and chasing. It's like a man has to have 0% neediness and 0% chasing which an easy as fuck formula to follow. I've noticed it's old programming that fucks things up that I need to be mindful of. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

[@inguim1]

I agree with what the coach says a lot of the time! Sometimes tho i feel he puts too much blame on the man, some of these girls are emotionally messed up

[@c2dvr]

Facts!

[@orlandoalessandrini2505]

Amen brother

[@Gbb93]

It’s on the man if he stays after seeing the red flags.

[@alexzamoraclips]

Every time I watch a Corey video I instantly feel better. Some of these guys are hilarious 😆

[@dtd1986]

It's also from PMS. If she's all of a sudden very moody, you know you haven't done anything wrong, and it's been a while since her last period, it's probably PMS.

[@tkleo2006]

Good point. If it was only PMS I think at some point women would either apologize for being too cold and dry or express her interest in not losing me. I cut the cord 3-4 days ago. She always replied back 3-6 hours. Suddenly she replied back in 5 minutes and had no problem accepting I was moving on. She also tried the prideful "No worries...". I'm thinking "I just dumped you. Does it sound like I'm worried!?"

[@ロース-z7m]

Yeah, it must be PMS, especially if she got that behaviour once a week 🤣🤣

[@brandonloggins9000]

Single for 10 years nobody is good enough for her

[@waynetaylor3353]

Women like this are extremely frustrating to try to develop a loving long-term relationship with. I find sometimes even when such women want something -you notify them it's done -they don't appreciate it. Almost like spoiled delinquent girls -best thing to do is to pull back attention so as not to waste one's time since such women don't appreciate a man's effort to build love in a relationship.

[@ryanvtec3885]

best thing you can do is have fun with her and make your intentions clear through body language. don't push her it guarantees rejection

[@kevinperlow4595]

Toxic red pill alert. Who hurt you brother?

[@Getout249]

@@kevinperlow4595 Sometimes toxicity is necessity with toxic women. I recently broke up with my girl. She did something that crossed a boundary, and I sat her down and told her why it wasn’t ok and that I expect an apology. After finally convincing her (already a red flag) she apologised, and then did the same thing a week later. I ghosted her and she’s been blowing up my phone, begging and saying sorry. I’m done and still ghosting her. Some people don’t understand with words, but with actions.

[@obbzerver]

Women don't "fall in love" at all. They decide someone is the best they can do, unless someone better comes along and then they'll monkey-branch over. Or they'll cheat behind your back because they don't want to give up comfort.

[@stephena5752]

Not true. They fall in love bro. Just not with guys like you.

[@James-xg7qp]

So true

[@obbzerver]

@@stephena5752 Lol - that's what she's telling you. 😂

[@nalla320]

Obviously you’ve been badly hurt by someone or more than one someone. Women fall in love, but just like men, not all women are emotionally healthy.

[@obbzerver]

@@nalla320 What I stated is the way it is.

[@mog882]

“ Wind up inside of her”This guy gets it.

[@Robin-is3ke]

I had exact the same experience with a girl, the biggest problem was that I wasn’t acting ‘natural’ and yes I’m reading the book.. Big eye opener this video and advice from Corey

[@em1ownerify]

Just want to say I’ve been studying really hard. Bought your book. I’m on page 72 right now. All my friends think I’m crazy but my phone has not stopped blowing the fuck up with attractive woman. I have 3 dates this week and I literally just started learning what and how to act and using your info. Guys.... don’t listen to your friends. Don’t listen to woman. This to this fucking guy. He speaks the truth. I started watching when I was heart broken from my ex, truth is though it was my feminine energy that pushed her away. Many things I fucked up on by not being masculine. I am actually on 2 weeks of no contact with her, but I’m not gonna sit around crying. I’m actually super pumped for these dates 👌 thanks man. I’ll be picking woman up more and more while im out. 🙏

[@JT-gm4fk]

sure..lol

[@em1ownerify]

@@JT-gm4fk read the book or don’t. I slept with a lot of beautiful woman after reading this book and changing the way I approached woman. I’m now in a long term relationship with a great woman. It’s really your choice bud

[@jamesf3583]

Great point Corey. I feel that hot and cold behavior in a relationship (girlfriend) is very different from just talking phase. Can you clarify

[@DJRick313rd]

I'm not a big fan of coffee shops either ... I'm a bar-goer kind of guy. But, while your book mentions David DeAngelo, he has advised meeting dates at the coffee shops before. I've studied his materials pretty well back in '07.

[@XoXo475]

It’s called the time of the month , unfortunately sometimes it’s the time of the week as well 😂

[@tkleo2006]

I recently cut things off with a girl. It’s possible I was sending mixed messages but at the same time she was making up sad excuses and not offering alternative times to do a 3rd get to know.

[@MarshallSmith27]

yall trust me I used to chase. now I really don't care. I have women chasing me that I dont even want. "why are you so hard to get a hold of I want to hangout". last year I had this one girl that gets insane attention because of her body and I screwed it up even though I knew better. we stopped talking and just last week she adds me back on snapchat and ask her whats up and I still dont reach out to her but she contacts me and sends me quite nice pics. you have to be busy and have fun and do your own thing and they will want to be a part of what your doing

[@dopedrums]

single for 10 years with a few shorter relationships in between. HUGE red flag.. Run.

[@alexdimambro412]

What if the woman is emotionally unhealthy? Major Abuse from childhood from father, always being f$&ked by men, heartbroken and just broken in general. This girl even told me “I don’t get vulnerable.” I’ve known her for years.

[@kingxenokai5373]

im wondering this too im dealing with a girl like this rn

[@snotie007bits6]

Man i think i think I stuffed up was getting on well with a girl then i havent seen her for a while we bump into together she asked for a hug while blushing we hugged talking etc about interest i joke around a bit she laughing at my bad jokes etc she told me she always want to travel to one of the places i been to I then mention you should send me a friend request on facebook because i have heaps of photos etc she seemed shocked its been a week now did i stuff up

[@thelostboyscout1489]

Women are like busses, one comes along every 20 minutes :)

[@Madmok128]

This is the truth holy shit. Never heard it put this way this should be a quote

[@dab7805]

what bus stop are you at?

[@josephfulton7167]

cool coach great information thanks

[@nicolejennings8389]

Meh some people I only text once a week and that's normal for the majority of people in my life. Even my favorite friends are not a daily basis. But I can go years without seeing them and pick up where we left off without missing a beat.

[@businessmeetings5807]

That’s the point. You will love a man more when he embrace the fact that you do this to everyone. Not just him. He should sit back and wait for you to come to him

[@jondough3339]

There’s a difference between friends and lovers

[@zazzaz84]

Always on point, thanks Corey!

[@victoraizenwilson4432]

Man don’t pursue we get pursued!!!!

[@rachelray4040]

Why is it better for the woman to pursue more? I’ve done it and it’s backfired 😂

[@Robin-is3ke]

The guy you chased had not enough attraction and chemistry etc so always date a guy who show’s high level of attraction

[@eternal_napalm6442]

Pure gold.

[@soulofachristian8704]

I read the book 0-0 times, that's my problem..

[@MrChuchu212]

how to be brian griffin

[@emanuel_soundtrack]

But its not a mistake to say i have a free ticket for an oper today at midday after 3 months together or?

[@testchannel7718]

Read his book 15 times guarantee all the insecurity we’ll be all gone

[@mannyquezon9043]

This is "ME"...i messed up,what should I do..????

[@DJVOutdoors]

This is very good

[@benbenben123ben]

Is there anyway to talk to a woman about these games? Like? Just level with them?

[@desiroots7806]

No.. There's no logic in their brain.

[@rayteerlink8868]

Desi_Roots Hahaha

[@benbenben123ben]

@@desiroots7806 Yea... I know now. They’re kinda npc’s. Slaves to their emotions, and they run on cycles.

[@ouicertes9764]

Why do I hate myself? Why am I fascinated and can't stop listenning to this bullshit? The more I listen to him, the less I want to date... What is the interest for me to be just an "opportunity to have sex"?

[@walterbass290]

if flakey run forrest run.

[@samuelwebster2769]

You say call her once a week then you she must do most of the chasing a little confused now..

[@marcleroux3426]

in other words you call her once a week, she has to call you the other 6 days

[@andrecordova571]

Love your videos Corey and the knowledge they give, saying thank you is not enough! Have a great week! ps: greeting from Peru

[@rambultruesdell3412]

" C " right 3+ lunch time coffee... Hot + cold...

[@omarmoreno1772]

I’m not agree 100%. The game of hot and cold is a mental game some people play is nothing wrong with the other person . The people that play hot and cold regardless she do it unconsciously or not he or she do it to protect themselves they have mental issues can’t as function in a normal person . She bath you in attention first then she pull back she is playing mental games with you ! Dude you most get off now

[@briandeluca4318]

This is true

[@addemupp4458]

Three r's rinse recycle repeat 😆😆😆😆

[@animemania1516]

Umm wrong. I'm a woman and I play hot and cold because I've met to many rude men

[@Frank.Melendrez]

Anime mania Well that’s not very fair to the good men out there who aren’t rude. You wouldn’t want a really great guy becoming hot and cold to you. That about that.

[@erickandrade1921]

Hey coach is giving your number to women and telling them text you when their free better than exchanging numbers or asking for hers?

[@rustymertz]

Not the coach, but I’m pretty sure I know. No, it comes across that you’re scared to ask for her info.

[@itaynativ1754]

Perfect

[@damonrjoseph3012]

Great video

[@Bibbs65]

Hey Coach how do I get the book?....From what spectrum should I order from ? Thanxs

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

+nowatout amzn.to/1Uh5djJ

[@donharris8846]

This crap makes me believe we aren’t meant for relationships. The nature of women only wanting men who don’t want them is ideal for a non-monogamous relationship. Seems that men should constantly engage with new women to get women

[@Somarinc]

I am a woman and I don’t agree that women should do 70-80% of the pursuing. A emotionally healthy woman wants a leader in her life not a wimp/feminine man who is going to sit back and let her pursue him. If you want a relationship and something long lasting… you as a man do need to do the pursuing and make the majority of the effort in the beginning. Her job is to stay in her feminine and reciprocate your efforts. Plain and simple.

[@vamonaa]

I'm a woman and I don't like over eager men. I don't want a leader in my life, because I'm leading my life. and I don't need someone to pursue me, I'm not a rabbit on a field. it's good when a man shows an initial interest, does the first step and has interesting options. but it's a woman who accepts a man.

[@ThomasP525]

Lol no.