If you break up with a narcissist, they may pursue your friends and family

[@strawberrysangria1474]

That's kind of a gift in itself. If your friend/fam knows they hurt you and still wants them around, they never cared about you, and the trash came back to take more trash out.

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

Two for one. Killed two birds with one stone

[@PerrymondProductions]

I really don't care because that will prove they weren't my friend. They'll just be cut off too

[@judywilliams3399]

TOOK ME 56YRS TO FIND OUT WHO WAS IN MY BACK WITH A KNIFE 🔪 MY OWN TWO SISTERS AND 🙃 PEOPLE I WORK WITH NEIGHBORS. THIS MALE WAS A BUSY HUMAN MONSTER.

[@Jane-rc2rk]

Can you break a narcs heart? I hope I did! He devastated mine and our daughters so he deserves some heartbreak. The man I thought he was and who he is are two different people…I miss who who I thought he was

[@excripto1]

And if they can’t get to your friends or family members they will go after your neighbors and even your coworkers and boss.

[@peacefulself7848]

You ain't telling nothing but the truth my soon-to-be-ex-husband has been sleeping with my neighbor and think I don't know! What a fool and a clown he is!!!!! Thankfully I've had a protective order against him and he can come nowhere near me so he goes to my neighbors. What a dog! Anyway, I am totally indifferent! I don't care what he do, where he go, who he sleep with, what happens to him... I put the trash out and the trash will stay out! 🎉My divorce will be final in one week and I am ready to celebrate🎉

[@megannavarro8047]

​@@peacefulself7848congratulations on the new chapter of you life!

[@ShadaeMastersAstrology]

@@peacefulself7848Good for you getting away from his disrespectful self. Congratulations on a new chapter🥂You have a ton of self control bc both him and that neighbor would be receiving tons of dirty looks and statements from the entire neighborhood, I’d tell everyone. But I get it, adios amigos just rather cut him off and keep it moving!!

[@Yaa7700]

I had a “friend” for 5 years that would date guys I dated prior 🤢

[@crankypantsmcduff]

So they'll always be sadly, horrific excuses for humans. Absolute Saddos

[@noesilva2385]

I can testify to that! No shame in there game smh They don’t care about who it is and they won’t admit to the hurting you with intent.

[@MentalHealness]

stay safe

[@paisleypark7947]

Yes.....EVEN YOUR TRIFLING, DISRESPECTFUL DAUGHTER!!!!!

[@Theinsomniac826]

That's disturbing

[@MentalHealness]

💯💯

[@josephzicaro9913]

It's mostly about keeping the old supply close for a future rebound.

[@cheekygoddess71]

Yeah he did and caught cooties sucker😅

[@SuzanneDeniseB]

True story .

[@rubyjones2834]

This Facts

[@joburgess76]

Wow, that would kinda hard, he made sure that I didn't have friends. At least, he try to anyway!!! IM FREE

[@megannavarro8047]

He tried this after he got me pregnant, ghosted me, and I wouldn't take him back. He was determined to make me hurt. Luckily, most women I know don't forgive that kind of behavior.

[@GurlDreamer50]

My narc brother and my narc girlfriend are practically best friends.

[@billydeverauex2487]

HE'S ACTUALLY BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH ONESIDEDNESS 😊😊😊

[@anniel13]

Break what? ... nothing got Brookes. Not for them tho...

[@Prodigalprincess]

Yes he did, from my family to best friend he went down the line😂

[@ws4182]

Exactly what he did!!! And it's 25 times worst because these people are also my coworkers; so close contact everyday. Oh if i could go back in time!! It's hard as hell trying to heal in a place the pain came from. He absolutely went right after my "friend" and she turned against me and had the rest of my coworkers also against me playing the "victim". She knew EVERYTHING & the narc was still able to manipulate and lie. That's because she was a wolf in sheep's clothing and I was so traumatized from him i didn't even notice her. All of the people we didn't like are now her best friends. And I'm the target for everybody. This has been going on for like freaking 3 years (from the beginning to now). Imagine not being able to escape the hell and being isolated because of it. (And no I can't find another job; it's a highly coveted job that took years to get.) I wish people really understood; i think that's the most hurtful part of it all. How my trauma is being used against me! It's like being attacked constantly and the attacker in front of others will fake sympathy and "check on you" or say things like "I don't know why she's acting like that; I'm concerned". That's some evil ish! She knew every intimate detail, saw me cry, I mean everything. Now she's his main flying monkey and he's the "man" in everybody's eyes. They have all teamed up to create like a super team of liars, backstabbing, immoral group. IT.IS.HELLLL!!! Nobody see's it but me; that in it self hurts! And when people don't understand because they haven't experienced it and be like "get over it".

[@Angela-pt6je]

Hey, I really am glad you have this space to vent. These narcissist enjoy being the reason people want to hurt themselves but they miss the peace trustworthy people provide and lie to each other about you because its obsession. Ive seen narcissist follow targets from place to place even states.

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

Good luck to whoever run off with them 🙄

[@yahriyahyahuah7504]

Im 4for 3 4 family members/friends

[@princessdanieblue]

My best friend was the one who told me my ex was a narcissist. She can’t stand him just as much as me 😂😂

[@triplet9213]

Forget both of them!

[@Angela-pt6je]

It's So true, 2 things, this only works by unexpected surprise and if you have friends and family that will do this to you. Some narcs will never have this option.......😅😅😅😊😂

[@carlaruggiero5200]

I don't agree 😊

[@Nyc99]

and how do you manage not to be like this, is it education about this disorder?

[@tranquility9325]

He's been in psychotherapy for 6 yrs

[@shanequanewkirk2029]

WOW

[@patreaceparker8551]

Cousin and I didn’t care, they had a child he accused her of mistreating the child when she tried to leave. The police came and told her to leave. He ran with her child to another state