Video summary 💓 1. 2:21 having the mindset of: life is only good when he is around 2. 3:42 excessive agreeable-ness 3. 5:15 indirect communication (talking in circles, passive aggressiveness) 4. 6:37 pessimism 5. 8:35 insecurity, body shaming, low self esteem 6. 9:35 lack of clear boundaries 7. 10:45 no drama
@BernMendez7 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@karanolson90266 ай бұрын
I love when you say "What do I mean by that" because it is so helpful to hear what you are trying to say than simply making the statement. Your videos are amazing...so insightful!
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! : )
@rachelannecreamer4107 ай бұрын
Thank you. You have been helping me... Balance and Regulate my tendency to over analyze and be obsessive. This... Of course...overwhelms me. I try not to spill this onto my boyfriend, but when I am not as successful as I could be in balancing, I tend to distance to protect him which makes me again over analyze. I have ADHD with autistic tendencies and so understanding relationships had been difficult if it's not something I can study to learn like a text book. But... You make it easy. ❤ You have no idea... How thankful I am. Bless you, Bernardo .
@BernMendez7 ай бұрын
Rachel, I'm so grateful to hear this from you. And feel SO PROUD of you for taking an active stance to learn more about relationships to help your nervous system regulate with less anxiety. I appreciate your vulnerability and courage. You can do this! : )
@user-xy9iu5bb3l6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the advice and support
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@elanaseger28686 ай бұрын
Great information ❤❤❤
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful : )
@SharieFoster7 ай бұрын
It is so helpful to hear what you share - from a man's point of view.
@BernMendez7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Sharie : )
@jennymichellelewis29827 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your wonderful, knowledgeable advice. You are the best we love you.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@BernMendez7 ай бұрын
Jenny, You are so welcome. I appreciate your kind words.