If You DON'T KNOW Who Your Real Friends Are WATCH THIS! | Jay Shetty

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Jay Shetty

Jay Shetty

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@SelfMadeWealth
@SelfMadeWealth 3 жыл бұрын
Fake people don't surprise us anymore, loyal people do
@jebajudiths6050
@jebajudiths6050 3 жыл бұрын
True
@kazfor3769
@kazfor3769 3 жыл бұрын
So so true, just had my trust broken in a big way by someone I thought was truly supporting me and who I thought genuinely cared, my trust is broken which in turn has broken me right now, but I will bounce back and forgiveness is the key, I know I will get there.👍🕊️🙏
@AlexKashie
@AlexKashie 3 жыл бұрын
@@kazfor3769 I really wish you to get over it and forgive
@peppermintdior
@peppermintdior 3 жыл бұрын
very true
@ANU-fg5ns
@ANU-fg5ns 3 жыл бұрын
Hey dude I am your subscriber now😊
@DRose1101
@DRose1101 3 жыл бұрын
This one hits home, I realized recently I don't have true friends. I don't have any friends :/
@sakshisomwanshi2193
@sakshisomwanshi2193 3 жыл бұрын
Same here dude
@nancyeileen128
@nancyeileen128 3 жыл бұрын
Cool guy you are not alone🙂
@sakshisomwanshi2193
@sakshisomwanshi2193 3 жыл бұрын
@Gouri Menon lucky you
@r1shim
@r1shim 3 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@erickisel8668
@erickisel8668 3 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@ilovegoddoyou7003
@ilovegoddoyou7003 3 жыл бұрын
Be so busy loving God, loving others, and loving your life that you have no time for regret, worry, fear, or drama. Amen.💕
@Hatkar02
@Hatkar02 3 жыл бұрын
good distraction
@sirmuff01
@sirmuff01 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@meankamuyu4210
@meankamuyu4210 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@marvelloussyiem2283
@marvelloussyiem2283 3 жыл бұрын
Amen❤️❤️❤️
@RapFanatic4ever
@RapFanatic4ever Жыл бұрын
Yep
@harrasingh998
@harrasingh998 3 жыл бұрын
Once you realise no one is really your friend and you learn how to master and tackle problems yourself - you will never need anyone
@robertmaxa6631
@robertmaxa6631 3 жыл бұрын
In order to have real friends, you have to be a real friend.
@asz106
@asz106 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it’s more than that. You need to be a true friend yes but you need the confidence to stand up for yourself and weed out and remove the friends who are not real friends
@Baddie925xx
@Baddie925xx 3 жыл бұрын
Stupid words
@cheesecake5183
@cheesecake5183 3 жыл бұрын
That's not true at all! I've been a real friend for people and they're still not there for me at all. Try again!
@thepriestess5969
@thepriestess5969 3 жыл бұрын
@@cheesecake5183 I can relate
@nezarjamal715
@nezarjamal715 2 жыл бұрын
True, however, that doesn't always work either. Speaking from personal experience. But at least you would have given yourself a better chance to develop a real friend.
@denisehutchins4499
@denisehutchins4499 3 жыл бұрын
Test of real friendship? Hit rock bottom and see who is still there for you
@ch3ckm8
@ch3ckm8 3 жыл бұрын
nobody lol
@jensnow6551
@jensnow6551 3 жыл бұрын
Denise Hutchins that's true
@jensnow6551
@jensnow6551 3 жыл бұрын
@@ch3ckm8 I've been there when ones i know hot rock bottom. Just to be forgotten about. But i would still help one. In need or hit rock bottom if I could
@brigidvanparys2062
@brigidvanparys2062 3 жыл бұрын
Harsh reality
@stacy3039
@stacy3039 3 жыл бұрын
that was Chole problem she helped everyone else and no one but Emily who she said go away to was her real friend.
@eashwarmurthy
@eashwarmurthy 3 жыл бұрын
Real friends can't make our problems disappear but they will definitely not disappear when we are going through our problems.
@phillyfan-182
@phillyfan-182 2 жыл бұрын
Prince EA said that too
@homelander-e4v
@homelander-e4v 3 жыл бұрын
Jay shetty is becoming a role model day by day 💯
@stayingalivewithsaad5351
@stayingalivewithsaad5351 3 жыл бұрын
I'm following him just now after having my meltdown with old friends whom, I thought were my good friends 👌💖
@homelander-e4v
@homelander-e4v 3 жыл бұрын
@@stayingalivewithsaad5351 well everybody changes so we have to move on and jay shetty really helped me to move on
@stayingalivewithsaad5351
@stayingalivewithsaad5351 3 жыл бұрын
@@homelander-e4v Good to know that 👌💯
@AhmetKaan
@AhmetKaan 3 жыл бұрын
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
@easterpatelawadh3963
@easterpatelawadh3963 3 жыл бұрын
You two sweetheart
@yummysarojo
@yummysarojo 3 жыл бұрын
You too ,buddy
@MissSmith18
@MissSmith18 3 жыл бұрын
And I hope you have an amazing day too!
@christeymaria2101
@christeymaria2101 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@keiheaherakiwi1611
@keiheaherakiwi1611 3 жыл бұрын
Back at ya lovely
@starlight_a1
@starlight_a1 3 жыл бұрын
Fake friends can pretend to be nice too . Sweet words are not always true and true words are not sweet Omg many likesss
@philindien
@philindien 3 жыл бұрын
this is a copy paste for me! Thanks!
@user-um7nj2oc7u
@user-um7nj2oc7u 3 жыл бұрын
That's why words mean nothing to me anymore. I care more about actions.
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@Lucid dreamx Yes! Everyone wants to be your "friend" when your succeed and on top. The moment you're in a dark place, they're no where to be found.
@arterisdewberry9467
@arterisdewberry9467 3 жыл бұрын
I honestly don't care about having friends at all. I'm an introvert and I enjoy spending time alone, doing my hobbies, working on myself, working on my own goals, and doing things on my own. I don't need anyone's approval if they don't like the ideas I'm creating or doing. My life is only about me. Maybe the only person I want in my life is a future girlfriend. That's about it. Friends come and go. Some will stab you in the back. Some will ghost you. That's why you can never trust people 100%
@omnificent15
@omnificent15 3 жыл бұрын
If you never trust people a 100%, what kind of relationship will be with your future girlfriend?
@arterisdewberry9467
@arterisdewberry9467 3 жыл бұрын
@@omnificent15 I mean you can't always trust someone 100%. I would at least go with 95%. Sometimes people do things behind your back even if you have a strong friendship with someone for many years. There's always going a way for them to get back at you whether it's jealously, different opinions, gossip about you, ect. Even if your best friend keeps a secret about you, one day, they will share your secret about you with a random stranger even if they promise they will never tell them about you. That's why you must be careful on how many friends you make in your personal life. There's always one person who will mess up your life.
@ambomateijennifer7207
@ambomateijennifer7207 3 жыл бұрын
And at some point, we are all 'people'.. The most important is learning from mistakes
@patrickcharles0313
@patrickcharles0313 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate.
@arterisdewberry9467
@arterisdewberry9467 3 жыл бұрын
@@ambomateijennifer7207 Yup. That's why when you get older, you must be responsible for your own mistakes and take care of your own life.
@MegaPrincessviolet
@MegaPrincessviolet 3 жыл бұрын
"Mom...I miss you" I havent seen my dad in a year and 2 month, that really hit, and when her bf said "I'm not good with emotions, talk to someone else" that's another hit for me 😭💔
@sonias9722
@sonias9722 3 жыл бұрын
Why don’t you call your dad?
@unwaveringwilli5391
@unwaveringwilli5391 3 жыл бұрын
then what was the point of that useless bf?
@MegaPrincessviolet
@MegaPrincessviolet 3 жыл бұрын
@@sonias9722 not even sure if I have his current number, and the reason I haven't seen him is cause of my stepmom. I just feel like the parent should e the main one who should make it work
@--8857
@--8857 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr..
@MegaPrincessviolet
@MegaPrincessviolet 3 жыл бұрын
@Dominick Sansotta she accused her cause her mom obviously had a problem in the past, and she said her mom hadn"t talked to her in 6 years. money is clearly the reason she came back
@mrinalchoudhury2725
@mrinalchoudhury2725 3 жыл бұрын
Thank god I am from India....atleast mom daddy behave unconditionally
@theglen85
@theglen85 3 жыл бұрын
Oh no, it's only unconditional because you probably follow all their rules, test their unconditional love by dating someone outside of your social class, study what you want instead of what they want you to become... Hmm fall pregnant out of wedlock
@peppermintdior
@peppermintdior 3 жыл бұрын
yeah, same. Indian parents will give up their lives for their children ♥ so would we
@lilimochifilm3254
@lilimochifilm3254 3 жыл бұрын
I hate when parents give a lot of responsibility to kids since there small as 5 years old. I started to work when I was 5-6 years old. They also demand a lot on you, doing everything like house chores while also doing schoolwork. I never was able to hangout with my friends when I was small.
@bharatsama1
@bharatsama1 3 жыл бұрын
@Favoured1 I hate to admit it but ur spitting facts and it's sad
@sophiasparkle2325
@sophiasparkle2325 3 жыл бұрын
@@theglen85 Soooo true , they just fix it in their brains since the child is young that they want them to become something , and the child might not say no then cause they don't know what to become yet , but when they finally come to know what they want to become , the parents just can't understand our feelings or even *try* to understand us , my mom thinks my brain is spoilt or something just because I want to become a singer instead of a 'doctor' or an 'engineer' as almost every indian parent want their child to be....
@Hanayaaa
@Hanayaaa 3 жыл бұрын
Pretty much now for gen z: Learn who wants a friendship for the bond than for the aesthetic.
@sf3testvids
@sf3testvids 3 жыл бұрын
I'll prob be hated for saying this but very few I am afraid.. Really wish it wasn't in our atavistic nature to be social animals or want connection... as that want can lead to a lot of misery
@Hanayaaa
@Hanayaaa 3 жыл бұрын
@@sf3testvids I hate how a lot of gen z say they’re lonely and want friendships but only say that when they see a aesthetically pleasing friend-group on Instagram or tiktok. In my opinion, it won’t lead to a lot of misery if you have a good relationship with yourself first. That’s how people mess on things like that.
@sf3testvids
@sf3testvids 3 жыл бұрын
@@Hanayaaa that's the hardest thing, the world these days thrive on competitiveness and exceptionalism that seeing all those fake Instagram friends and shallow social groups succeed (or appearance of success and happiness) makes you loath yourself even more.. You are right though self love is essential but with the way society is geared it incredibly difficult to love oneself... (in fact in order to buy products and panaceas it's effectively tailor made to make you feel insecure about oneself...)
@keiheaherakiwi1611
@keiheaherakiwi1611 3 жыл бұрын
A real friend drops everything to be there when you need them.....they are a true gift
@bsnusandesh6262
@bsnusandesh6262 3 жыл бұрын
There's one and only best friend of mine. And it's me, myself who loves cares supports for myself ever since I was a kid. I always pat on my back.
@princessalvina11
@princessalvina11 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone seems to want something ftom her, including her mother. But only one friend seemed to want to actually hang out with her and catch up. That was Emily.
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@ princessalvina11 I agree, but since she's no emotionally damaged and drained from toxic people, it's hard for her to trust anyone. It's also too bad she attempted to take her life towards the end while Emily was calling her.
@will-i-am189
@will-i-am189 3 жыл бұрын
@@amylee8969 well why did it take 10 years to finally reach out?
@LulaS
@LulaS 3 жыл бұрын
Human connection is one of our vital needs. Spend most of your time with those you share basic core values with, those who make you grow, those you love and who make you feel loved back in return. ❤❤❤
@cleverr4523
@cleverr4523 3 жыл бұрын
This shortmovie is a good look at to many modern human beings. She simply care about herself but are expecting real friends back. Usually you get what you give. To many modern people want good friends, but they do nothing to be good friends them selves.
@yummysarojo
@yummysarojo 3 жыл бұрын
I do agree with you
@peppermintdior
@peppermintdior 3 жыл бұрын
I am 21 year old, have had many friends in my life. But I can tell truly I have only 1-2 real friends.
@fawazkhan6041
@fawazkhan6041 3 жыл бұрын
So you telling me that you have 1 real freinds!! 😧 from where did u get them
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@I am Gucci When you're young, you THINK you have a lot of friends. In reality, people drift apart once they grow older and get their priorities straight. The real ones will always stick around.
@kristanmontano21
@kristanmontano21 6 ай бұрын
That's all you need....fake friends are a dime a dozen and they are everywhere
@aurelia0011
@aurelia0011 3 жыл бұрын
I've got my heartbroken so many times by friends that now I'm always alone but at the same time when I'm happy or sad and I want to share those feelings... well there is no one.... and then I feel lonely in this empty and jealous world
@bHgstudiosSA
@bHgstudiosSA 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@gudrunerlingsdottir4590
@gudrunerlingsdottir4590 3 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you are talking about ! It is same here in that small beautiful country I live in - we have sooo many dark souls you can't trust and stabs you in your back, envy ect. .... Tragic .....
@deborahwitlox
@deborahwitlox 3 жыл бұрын
Guuurl same...
@theoryofeverything4237
@theoryofeverything4237 3 жыл бұрын
I can really relate my self as i left for my graduation there's literally no friend of me who really cared and talked to me. I was just all "Alone". I couldn't be comfortable with my new mates and i was craving for my old buds but there's no channel from them.
@viloriadraftingdesign4203
@viloriadraftingdesign4203 3 жыл бұрын
Same but one thing I realized I have to become happy in my own.
@dancerdancer313
@dancerdancer313 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. It's hard to know who your real friends are. I pretty much keep to myself until I find new genuine friends. Also, as you evolve as a person, you will naturally lose ppl you used to be friends with.
@20-NYC
@20-NYC 3 жыл бұрын
Really needed to hear this right now. Hard to come by truer words haven’t been spoken, now a days = almost nonexistent to find true friends.
@dianadivadiamond
@dianadivadiamond 3 жыл бұрын
So of us don't know how to love ourselves before letting others dictate how we live or love. True friends are very hard to come by.
@sarathguttikonda4065
@sarathguttikonda4065 3 жыл бұрын
This even hurt me more . i am going through depression and my friends left me when i needed the most . when I saw this man it makes my depression worse . Keep your true friends they are rare souls on earth .
@seyiakogun
@seyiakogun 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you feel better Sarath.Jesus would never leave nor desert you❤️
@sarathguttikonda4065
@sarathguttikonda4065 3 жыл бұрын
@@seyiakogun Thank you
@philindien
@philindien 3 жыл бұрын
If you want loyalty in friendship: go get a dog...
@vibhs6682
@vibhs6682 3 жыл бұрын
Can't agree more !
@thanushree8447
@thanushree8447 3 жыл бұрын
so truee !
@narayanakomanduru2062
@narayanakomanduru2062 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@jonathansheppard3745
@jonathansheppard3745 3 жыл бұрын
100th like
@user-py8ub3ni4d
@user-py8ub3ni4d 3 жыл бұрын
I have a hamster-
@ilovegoddoyou7003
@ilovegoddoyou7003 3 жыл бұрын
Stay safe and stay blessed, happy, success always those who reading this 💖🙏
@victory9015
@victory9015 3 жыл бұрын
I have been alone 2-3 years now. Had friends who used my weaknesses againts me and i just blocked them and removed their numbers. I just got tired of that behavior.
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@Victory90 You can still put yourself out there to meet new people. But don't settle for less just cause you're Lonley. It won't benefit you in the longer run. Also, if you're lucky enough to have a few real friends, never take them for granted or let them go over something like petty argument. Cause they're vet hard to come by.
@victory9015
@victory9015 3 жыл бұрын
@@amylee8969 I have used to be alone now and it doesn't feel bad any way. Those friends which i blocked wants to talk to me again etc. but i dont talk to them, i dont repeat my mistakes. I wont settle for less in any way. People change or you will find their true color later in life. You think these are real friends, but it is big disappointment. So finding real friends is hard and only 2 real friends would be enough, but still it will be hard. I never take people for granted, but people takes me for granted.
@AhmetKaan
@AhmetKaan 3 жыл бұрын
*Day one or one day.* *You decide.* If you saw this comment, I hope today will be the day one for you. 🖤
@haticekubrakaya177
@haticekubrakaya177 3 жыл бұрын
Wish the same for you too!!
@Kalaxian80animations
@Kalaxian80animations 3 жыл бұрын
Wish the same to you bro!! Good luck! I don't expect anything in return when I offer someone something
@Kalaxian80animations
@Kalaxian80animations 3 жыл бұрын
@Dominick Sansotta :)
@Kalaxian80animations
@Kalaxian80animations 3 жыл бұрын
@@haticekubrakaya177 wish you too bro!
@Kalaxian80animations
@Kalaxian80animations 3 жыл бұрын
@Dominick Sansotta you too man!!
@magdanavarro90
@magdanavarro90 3 жыл бұрын
I've had the hardest situations and only a few people check in to make sure I'm ok I've gotten so sick with anxiety and only a few people check in. But out of all my experiences my dog has been loyal whether I have physical or emotional pain shes there she understands what I go through.
@NatashaWaithera-d9n
@NatashaWaithera-d9n 3 жыл бұрын
Yep i feel her this is how people are nowadays. It sucks sometimes it's good to stepback n see who has time for you and vice versa.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 3 жыл бұрын
When you are a true friend to yourself you will know a true friend when you see one. Friends don’t agree with you but tell you the truth, and they don’t lean and may not hang out with you, but they are there to help you when you need it.
@dhiaajalloul9994
@dhiaajalloul9994 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. You're not just telling stories,you're changing lives.
@RapFanatic4ever
@RapFanatic4ever Жыл бұрын
Better than DharMan
@AhmetKaan
@AhmetKaan 3 жыл бұрын
Loving yourself is vital for your happiness and well being then you can spread that love to others. Positive vibes to everyone ❤️🙏😁.
@praveenkumarvemula4909
@praveenkumarvemula4909 3 жыл бұрын
IAM Keep watching this video again and again.. bcoz..., I always have trust issues with my friends and I needed this a lottt!thanks for making such videos Jay!!
@sumitpaul3080
@sumitpaul3080 3 жыл бұрын
Once upon a time, the human was social, then they became personal, now-a-days they are professional, so they can not keep a relation without a score!!
@KM-lp6gx
@KM-lp6gx 3 жыл бұрын
The Moment I noticed that I have a fake friend: I told her (I thought we're best friends and she called me always "my treasure") with tears in my eyes that I lost my job and got fired because the group lead in the office couldn't stand me: "Oh my honey, that's sad." Me (crying): "Yes but you know I'm saying Ro myself, it can happen to anybody at anytime and I really try to not let myself down for that." And she responded: "Oh yes honey it can happen to anyone but it will never happen to me, I would never ever let myself get fired you know." BOOM. Sad story: I still remained a friend of her and 7 months later she cut off the friendship sayin to me she can't trust me and I'm illoyal. Uff.
@joannpotts6025
@joannpotts6025 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true is rare to have good friends who you can trust and know they will look out for you when you need them the most some people make out they care when they don’t and talk about you to other people!.
@farhaanhaque9341
@farhaanhaque9341 3 жыл бұрын
So true, applies even more in today's fast moving and ever changing world, huge respect for jay shetty and loads of love for your great work...!!! You are always and truly inspiring to millions including me...!!! Keep up the great and honest work...!!!😊🥰😘
@augustusolivian7022
@augustusolivian7022 3 жыл бұрын
Jay Shetty doesn't know he have actually changed someone's life through his videos . I went to a church and a girl gave her testimony saying that there was a time when she was lost and had no idea 💡 what to do until she started watching videos of motivational speakers like jay shetty 💪🏻💕 she build up herself without complaining about life and today she is a strong woman ❤️ God bless Jay Shetty Amen !
@elenahernandez4609
@elenahernandez4609 3 жыл бұрын
So true but also heartbreaking, i didn't expect that ending 💔
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@Elena Hernandez Yes, I really wish she didn't do that to herself. Emily would've helped her and had her back.
@talhahhussain6064
@talhahhussain6064 3 жыл бұрын
This video helped me out a lot. Thank you Jay, much love bro
@aarushisingh4341
@aarushisingh4341 3 жыл бұрын
I am so lucky to have 5 true friends in my life. Blessed
@angelfirelite
@angelfirelite 3 жыл бұрын
Well, I am a senior and most friends are dead or just on their own life's path just like the young ones do and yes, there is jealousy as well! I find that I have loved myself and people in general, but, I just leave them where I find them and accept that at least, there was someone new to talk with and make your day. So, always be happy, kind and enjoy your life, the simple things are the best, peace is so comforting and no one needs drama!
@katrina_vart
@katrina_vart 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Jay! I have no idea, what's going on around, but the story looks quite familiar. Your videos bring a lot of clarity!
@loralefebvre7157
@loralefebvre7157 3 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. I am so blessed to have a few CLOSE friends.
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@ Lora Lefebvre It's heartbreaking that she took her life or at least attempted to after being emotionally broken. Those people don't realize how lucky they were to have such a sweet genuine person like this girl. Never take real friends for granted, it's extremely hard to find good friends like this. If you're blessed enough to have them, cherish them! Even if it's just a phone call to check up them.
@gab7683
@gab7683 3 жыл бұрын
I used to have two close friends. we've been together for 5 years until two people came in our life. we're SOLID friends meaning no one is left behind. i'm that kind of friend that will ask you to be my add on even though i'm the only one invited. I'm that kind of friend that won't make any reason for you to feel outcast. They made me feel that i'm their sister so i treated them as my sister. this is the reason why I got hurt when I found out my two closest friends + the other 2 booked a flight without me. i confronted them and they said their plan is not gonna happen anymore bc of covid so there's nothing to be mad at and i was like so if it's gonna happen, they're not going to tell me? they said it was all white lies. they said sorry. i said sorry. we're good then weeks after, they were attacking me online saying indirect things like "i'm sorry i didn't ask for your consent to go somewhere". they made me feel like my feelings are not valid. i guess it's my fault too, my fault for expecting too much from them bc they said they're my true friends. i asked myself too, am i toxic? if that's so, then good for them for eliminating me. Part of me thinks was it my loss or was it theirs.
@brydiegrace8132
@brydiegrace8132 3 жыл бұрын
It theirs loosing a great friend like you x
@gab7683
@gab7683 3 жыл бұрын
@@brydiegrace8132 🥺 was i?
@brydiegrace8132
@brydiegrace8132 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it was
@darshanlimbachiya2930
@darshanlimbachiya2930 3 жыл бұрын
There is no one like jay Shetty he is really giving nice massages by his videos keep inspiring and motivating us 😇🤝
@margaretkos4255
@margaretkos4255 3 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this. Sadly no firiends. Only those who are not real... so sad.
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@Margaret Kos As an adult, I can personally say that I have only 4 good friends. These are mainly people I grew up with in middle school and high school. My other past "friends" we're either temporary (they're present for a season) or just aquantences. That's fine by me. The smaller your circle, the less drama and heartbreaks you have.
@margaretkos4255
@margaretkos4255 3 жыл бұрын
@@amylee8969 thanks Amy. Sadly i have not cared enough for my College friends. I going to love the world and people. And hope i will meet new ones and be intimate with.
@randomykkkk
@randomykkkk 3 жыл бұрын
fake friends are not good for your mental health sometimes,But to me,I felt like the girl overworked herself
@ritamaurya4354
@ritamaurya4354 3 жыл бұрын
I know my few friends not connected to daily talk but when I need n when they need me we r available always yes we have many problems n solve it urself bcz no other person can help this .so don't hate any .try to understand them this is good for u n others also.
@ctb_butterfly_fly_away5413
@ctb_butterfly_fly_away5413 3 жыл бұрын
You can be surrounded by all these people and feel alone
@araceliduran4083
@araceliduran4083 3 жыл бұрын
Sure don't miss those days .. Thank God my real ones know who they are .
@benta2
@benta2 3 жыл бұрын
I am my best friend first before I truly get true friend.✨
@TakeBackYourMind997
@TakeBackYourMind997 3 жыл бұрын
I think a great way to evaluate your friendships is to step back, drop your ego, and imagine your viewing someone else's situation. What would you think of your situation an outsider?
@gilbertkasembe9261
@gilbertkasembe9261 3 жыл бұрын
People don't like you for YOU infact they only like what you are doing for them and that is ALL. The only thing is THAT people come and go and they leave with clues whether they give you a lesson, they make you stronger or they make hold you back.
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@ Gilbert Kasembe There's 3 kinds of friends: 1) The temporary ones who are present for a season then drift apart as you get older (perhaps your teen years). 2) Those who use you when you're successfully on top, then betray and leave you in the cold when you hit rock bottom (fake ones) 3) The real genuine ones who actually care about you and will always love and be there for you no matter what. Learn to determine which category they fall under??
@aracelyd.6455
@aracelyd.6455 3 жыл бұрын
I have few friends thank God they are very good girl’s true friends. I can trust them. Thank you Jay for sharing this video. 🧚🏻‍♀️🌻
@mariaansola1964
@mariaansola1964 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I feel that's me right there OMG this lesson fall in my garden,sometimes I need to talk to someone, somebody I cried I need a hug sometimes it's only work to home, I feel to take along rest off just quit. Thank you it help metro see more.
@crystalanamericaninsicily
@crystalanamericaninsicily 3 жыл бұрын
They NEVER criticize...they give you encouragement.
@pubgpro-player2745
@pubgpro-player2745 2 жыл бұрын
1- they help you without keeping score 2- they make time for you(investing time and energy) 3- they celebrate your success 4- you can be your true self
@ananyaalwayssmiling
@ananyaalwayssmiling 3 жыл бұрын
I am lucky to have amazing friendships. I am grateful.
@VinayKumar-rs4yu
@VinayKumar-rs4yu 3 жыл бұрын
Your older videos were always far better than the ones that are coming these days. Idk what's wrong. "Old is Gold"
@ShaunHolden
@ShaunHolden 3 жыл бұрын
Your friends are the ones there through it all. Good, bad and the ugly
@rozaparvin-1387
@rozaparvin-1387 3 жыл бұрын
thank you, always! your stories and speeches are great. and yeah, after a lot of years, I have finally come across a great friend. i am really grateful for having him!
@user-ml3bg1fc9b
@user-ml3bg1fc9b 3 жыл бұрын
Real friends will help you to face your problems but the fake one only by your side when you're on a good times.
@deisyperez6611
@deisyperez6611 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jay I just love your channel please keep doing more stories!!!❤️
@guitarsz
@guitarsz 3 жыл бұрын
Jay this is such a great topic, and SO COOL that you put it to film. Powerful stuff man. LOVE it.
@donnawebb6057
@donnawebb6057 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so inspirational, and I enjoy all of them. I love your words of wisdom and your knowledge on relationship of people. God bless you.
@SONY95ish
@SONY95ish 3 жыл бұрын
Another great skit from Jay, I feel like people these days trust treacherous people too much and the good people get sidelined and ignored 😔
@olawuyiayomide4694
@olawuyiayomide4694 3 жыл бұрын
The best loyalty test to know a true friend... is when challenges come It will purge your relationship and see who is meant for you and those who were meant to be your acquaintance
@RapFanatic4ever
@RapFanatic4ever Жыл бұрын
I just rekindled with someone I lost contact with during Covid. She's always been a really good friend of mine
@pyschologygeek
@pyschologygeek 3 жыл бұрын
A the Truth, Even Don't Like. choose the right way, 'll surround yourself with people who share values. In this way, always rely on to give good advice and help guide through life. Sometimes, may not notice ourselves falling off track
@abhayagicha
@abhayagicha 3 жыл бұрын
True Friendship is Just Fictional Nowaday's 😇 Be Your Own Best Friend that will be The Best think you do to Yourself 🤗
@huffepuf3066
@huffepuf3066 2 жыл бұрын
True
@craigsaunders9599
@craigsaunders9599 3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly well said, now I know how to choose a true friend
@amylee8969
@amylee8969 3 жыл бұрын
@Craig Saunders Friends fall under 3 categories: 1) Temporary friends just there for a season when later drift apart. 2) Fake ones who pretend to like you when you're on top and take advantage of you. Then leave you hanging when you really need them. 3) Real, genuine, and humble people who truly love you and will always have your back.
@craigsaunders9599
@craigsaunders9599 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I'll keep this in my mind
@DasherShortsYT
@DasherShortsYT 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I have real friends :)
@aisha6935
@aisha6935 3 жыл бұрын
Everything he say is true I had fake friends. I know now their face expression if they dont want to listen to me or the tune of voice.
@sheilatouthangofficial8439
@sheilatouthangofficial8439 3 жыл бұрын
She is an amazing actress
@tiffanyt4005
@tiffanyt4005 3 жыл бұрын
When I was a student at American Heritage, I made a few good friends who were nice and praying that I would zoo recover from an traumatic experience in the emergency room and when I transferred to Allison Academy, I made new friends. I also got to know Nakia my high school crush.
@vinaymulukutla358
@vinaymulukutla358 3 жыл бұрын
I got attacked by a gang of thugs once, just roughed up a little bit. I then told one of my classmates at college about it and he started grinning. I was thinking like ''Dude...what's so funny? I got assaulted by a gang of goons and you find it amusing?". I was just about to say something to him when he said with that same smile: ''That's how you find out who your real friends are''. That brought me screeching to a halt. I'll be damned if he wasn't right and I have never forgotten those words from him fifteen years on.
@abdulbasith2566
@abdulbasith2566 3 жыл бұрын
I love my best friend more than anything, but don't whether he is faking or not. I am confused really sad about him
@trebomit
@trebomit 3 жыл бұрын
Love all of your content Jay and co.! ✌️❤️
@sanprovictory3513
@sanprovictory3513 3 жыл бұрын
Jay, can we eliminate anger ? Tq so much for making all cool.vids.. GBU
@MarylnBowan-vg7te
@MarylnBowan-vg7te Жыл бұрын
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Eye miss the deys wen my friends were ppl not text meesages
@Kay-show
@Kay-show 3 жыл бұрын
Really nice video and thought provoking
@mo_7199
@mo_7199 3 жыл бұрын
Real friendsip is when you think about not what they can do for you, but what you can do for them. The best way to attract true friends is to start by being one yourself.
@rohithreddy75
@rohithreddy75 3 жыл бұрын
It doesnt work like that
@mo_7199
@mo_7199 3 жыл бұрын
@@rohithreddy75 have you tried it?
@rohithreddy75
@rohithreddy75 3 жыл бұрын
@@mo_7199 Yes. No matter how much you give it wont work until the person really wants to be good to you.
@mo_7199
@mo_7199 3 жыл бұрын
@@rohithreddy75 i'm just saying, you have to be good before you can expect that back. don't waste your time on people who aren't willing to recipricate
@prestonmcleod1726
@prestonmcleod1726 3 жыл бұрын
True friends will be there during ur hardest time.
@booitslovelace1674
@booitslovelace1674 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jay I needed this one now.
@Retirement02042012
@Retirement02042012 3 жыл бұрын
True friends are so rare
@ramon78433
@ramon78433 Жыл бұрын
Wow this was deep, and there have been wayyy too many people in my life
@muhammaduddin9268
@muhammaduddin9268 3 жыл бұрын
Real people hard to find.
@itsourvision27
@itsourvision27 3 жыл бұрын
We see these people everywhere... something different... surprise ❤️
@toyshanger8945
@toyshanger8945 3 жыл бұрын
This happens in real life, I am a foodie and I found stores only treating me well to take advantage of me promoting them, when I pointed an issue with their service I was ignored. True friends are people who don’t keep scores
@abdullahmorad7117
@abdullahmorad7117 3 жыл бұрын
I already know who mine are!! Why am I watching this?
@djhenri9755
@djhenri9755 3 жыл бұрын
Stay safe and blessed from London
@itsmelissa5788
@itsmelissa5788 3 жыл бұрын
Well, I've only got acquaintances. If I don't check on them, there will be no contact at all for months. But if we meet, we're always having a good time and we can be ourselves. Unfortunately, that doesn't happen often and only if I ask them to come over many many times and tell a fixed time and day.
@guitarsz
@guitarsz 3 жыл бұрын
The girl who plays Chloe...she's fantastic. The script could have done without the "Mom, I miss you line" though. Why would you miss someone like that.
@elmin82
@elmin82 3 жыл бұрын
Emily is such a good friend ...
@isabelmariereynolds
@isabelmariereynolds 3 жыл бұрын
This is so sad and so heartbreaking
@Manchestergirl54
@Manchestergirl54 3 жыл бұрын
Very relevant video at the moment.There are friends and there are associates.
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