If Your Ex Moved On Quickly This Is Why

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The Love Fix

The Love Fix

9 ай бұрын

Did your ex move on quickly and it crushed you? if your ex moved on quickly this is why. They are either distracting themselves because the breakup hur them, or your ex wasn't your person.
Take a walk with me and find out why your ex moved on quickly.
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@senatorarmstrong9459
@senatorarmstrong9459 8 ай бұрын
Chose to heal, she chose to get into a new relationship less than two months after our break and threw it on every form of social media she could. I went dark, no contact, nothing. Wounds heal but leave a scar, as a reminder. Evolve, refine, grow. Stay strong everyone.
@ataenedienye5811
@ataenedienye5811 8 ай бұрын
Sorry about that, hope things get better for you
@Mossy_Bark
@Mossy_Bark 8 ай бұрын
Same boat as you here, she moved on with her fucking flatmate. Peacocking on social media, never did that with me. I'm sorry mate.
@senatorarmstrong9459
@senatorarmstrong9459 8 ай бұрын
@@Mossy_Bark that's them trying to bury us, like we never existed or mattered, and that's unhealthy/narcissistic and it shows. They complete the pole with the red flag. If they come back for you, or I, we will show them what they left was good for them, and we got better. As I will always say, never leave something good, for something better, when that something good, becomes something greater🙏💪.
@carloscarvajal5538
@carloscarvajal5538 6 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me after a 6 year relationship. She started dating the new guy two months after we split up and moved in with him two months later.
@marselawheeler9301
@marselawheeler9301 5 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me. He got married 2 months after a 3 year relationship with me. Working on healing. ❤️‍🩹
@Flufero23
@Flufero23 2 ай бұрын
My ex is fearful avoidant. After he expressed deep feelings and the relationship became “real “, he began the slow fade before actually monkey branching. We were compatible, and had a calm and peaceful time of four years together. I think that scared the s**t out of him. I said “No” to friendship and let him go. I am healing and moving on after nine months. It is still hard. I have relapses, but it’s NC forever for me. I guess he feels “safe” with the new love. He has family support. She knows nothing about me. Kind of sad.
@Musicas_e_videos_de_Capoeira
@Musicas_e_videos_de_Capoeira 3 ай бұрын
We broke up at the second time 2 months ago. I deleted her number on the first day of the break up, i started to train like an animal, following strength training program, my salary was upgraded and im learning to invest money. I dont have instagram or facebook so im kind of dead😅 After 2 months i feel that im close to be 100% moving on. I never saw her as the key for my own happiness and she always knew it.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 3 ай бұрын
Great work. 😊😊💪💪
@robpz448
@robpz448 9 ай бұрын
I got tired of it. A couple sentences on facebook messenger then ghosting. I completely blocked her back in May. We were in a long term relationship. She will be the one that regrets losing me. Dont think she thinks i would've been strong enough to block everywhere but I had to. It still stings which is why i still think of her but yah ..
@AhmadAhmad-vl4ic
@AhmadAhmad-vl4ic 4 ай бұрын
Any update bro ??
@robpz448
@robpz448 4 ай бұрын
@AhmadAhmad-vl4ic same stuff, man. She's still blocked.
@maxxstarrdom6816
@maxxstarrdom6816 8 ай бұрын
Believe me. I have no one after a breakup. Not even family. I hope to leave soon and never return without contact to and from anyone.
@marcelinolopez4015
@marcelinolopez4015 5 ай бұрын
Get around some friends
@Panzerkuchen
@Panzerkuchen Ай бұрын
this whole 'right for each other' is a load of crap after a certain amount of time together. People didn't get to choose fopr 99% of human existence, they still made it work. People just have 0 dedication and commitment these days.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick Ай бұрын
I would say it’s more important after a certain of time together, because it must be intentional effort. On the flip side, everyone has the right to leave a relationship if it no longer works for them, my friend. I write about this in my book and how to turn it your advantage.
@kkay1897
@kkay1897 9 ай бұрын
I like how you cut to the point. Thanks Nick!❤
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
It’s an acquired taste! 😁
@ZodsdiacGaming
@ZodsdiacGaming 8 ай бұрын
This is the first video of urs ive found and im rlly glad ive found this. Ive been watching a lottt of these sort of videos for the last month since my break up but no one else seems to talk the way you talk. *subscribed*
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words and support. I am glad to hear i can be of some help. I hope you’re feeling better.
@chrissharkey9644
@chrissharkey9644 4 ай бұрын
Thank you buddy!
@TwinFlame4201
@TwinFlame4201 9 ай бұрын
Morning my man
@badman231177
@badman231177 8 ай бұрын
It just hurts so much. Hard to cope
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 8 ай бұрын
I hear you. Pain need to be felt my friend. We must walk towards it not run from it. I hope you feel better.
@fernielenabenavente7337
@fernielenabenavente7337 9 ай бұрын
My ex broke up with me, and I went instant no contact, but after 2 months a mutual friend told me she had sex the next Day from the breakup with another common friend. It made me angry and I told she to meet, and I told her I did not want her to speak to me anymore, but now she is no lomger with the mutual friend, and I still miss her so bad, and feared she will never tall to me because what I said, even it have already been 2 months of NC
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that. She’s shown you exactly who she is. Believe her. Focus your own self love and healing. Feel better.
@hyperion752
@hyperion752 3 ай бұрын
All of my exes have one in common emotional damage and clingy
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 3 ай бұрын
If you keep choosing those kind of partners, then it’s you who is the problem, my friend.
@ukaszbuzak3611
@ukaszbuzak3611 9 ай бұрын
First if all stop looking at her. You just need to focus on yourself. Its 72 days from she monkeybranched me left out of the blue. As i know she is still the same person and not working on herself but im progressing fast on every part od my life. Just focus on yourself and you will find better one. Im observe your Chanel from day one my brakeout and It helped me a lot. Thanks Man! Ps Im already meet some nice girls but i'm still not rdy for ltr.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
If it were a case of just moving on, everyone would just do it. It’s not as easy as that my friend.
@whiteswordwarrior9995
@whiteswordwarrior9995 6 ай бұрын
How r u now? The girl that did everything for me but I didnt do enough for and took for granted, monkey branched on me too. Been 14 days of no contact now. She dumped me stone cold for another.
@ukaszbuzak3611
@ukaszbuzak3611 5 ай бұрын
​@@whiteswordwarrior9995 First at all i didnt belive time will heal the wound but it happening. Just do not made my mistake becuse i belived that everything still could be fixed after two months. No it canot- Trust can never be fully regain and she will never respect you if you will come back to her. Erase everything that is realted to to her or you will delay your healing proces. It was hard form me in first place but when i done that healing process incresed fast. I belive you will be ok but you need to belive in time! Cheers mate!
@whiteswordwarrior9995
@whiteswordwarrior9995 5 ай бұрын
@@ukaszbuzak3611 ty g. She block me anyway
@nirjal6212
@nirjal6212 12 күн бұрын
​@@whiteswordwarrior9995 any update brother 🤧💔
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262 9 ай бұрын
Ex gf got in a rebound and her rebound proposed after them dating for 4 months. Haven’t spoken in 7 months. She is hardcore over me and onto other things. My friend told me about the engagement. Break up was last July, but we didn’t fully end things until February. I’m working on myself a lot and have met someone else. I just gave up and move on. I was her first long term relationship. The relationship is beyond dead. I see her in public and she acts like we are strangers, so I treat her the same back.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
I’m glad you’re working on yourself and seeing someone else. That being the case, why are you still consuming breakup content?
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262 9 ай бұрын
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I was at work teaching and I got the text that she was engaged, so in that moment I got some anxiety due to that old wound breaking open, so I calmed myself down and felt fine until later at night before bed, I went to KZbin and saw your video, so I watched it. I Felt that I needed a rational mind to explain how I feel. It helped. Break ups are not easy.
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262 9 ай бұрын
I'm always interested in growing past the pain. I still am reminded of it.@@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
Yeah man, break ups are savage. May i suggest that whoever is supplying you with information about your ex, that you ask them not to.
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262
@franciscobeauchamp-flores8262 9 ай бұрын
I told him several times to stop. I stressed to him that it's doing more harm then good. I hope he understands now. @@TheLoveFix-Nick
@chisomoffor6877
@chisomoffor6877 9 ай бұрын
Nick help me , he keeps reaching out but with nothing still trying to get me to be cordial and I keep enforcing my boundaries. He cheated on me and I know I shouldn’t take him back but I’m still fighting with my heart and mind to see why I shouldn’t take an ex back. I’m tired
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
You may have to block him, my friend. I get that you’re fighting with your heart, but some self parenting has to come into it.
@edwinhernandez5581
@edwinhernandez5581 9 ай бұрын
I AM IN THE SAME PLACE.
@flat4wankel
@flat4wankel 9 ай бұрын
My ex still... breadcrumbing sayin she miss me....
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
Dude this can only happen if you allow it to.
@Camroc37
@Camroc37 6 ай бұрын
She was texting a guy while NEXT TO ME before she even broke up with me. Didn't see anything wrong with it at all. No desire to work things out and just wanted me to be okay with her breaking up and treating me like a bad friend while ignoring me and talking to him. 3.5 year relationship. Makes me wonder if I was being completely immature and accepting someone that wasn't worth my time. There were some bad signs but she was obsessed with me and very thoughtful so I just stuck around. I think maybe she's an attention whore at heart. I'm being a little more mean than usual to make myself feel better, but still the complete lack of respect on her end is crazy. I hope I will look back on this time and be happy it ended, and have found someone more well-rounded.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 6 ай бұрын
That’s rough man and I’m sorry. She taught you exactly the lesson you needed to learn, so you can be better in the future. Thank her for it and wish her well. Better women out there for you.
@Camroc37
@Camroc37 6 ай бұрын
Thank you. It is so easy to only see the good times with her, but I know in my heart we are fundamentally different people and it wouldn't have worked. I think I just really miss her bubbly personality and the constant love I was getting from her. I learned what I did wrong, and I do thank her for the pain that is leading to my success as a person. I only hope she will come to learn and feel the pain I have, but now that they are together maybe she can ignore it forever.@@TheLoveFix-Nick
@Bloodsport1337
@Bloodsport1337 6 ай бұрын
Question. My ex reached out 2 weeks after the breakup saying that she missed me and tried calling twice. I ignored her bc I knew she was drunk. She blocked me after that and no coms for 3 months. Was ignoring her in that case the right thing to do? If she wasn’t drunk I would have answered
@AhmadAhmad-vl4ic
@AhmadAhmad-vl4ic 4 ай бұрын
Any update bro ?
@RobbiJamesVogt
@RobbiJamesVogt Ай бұрын
My ex tried her best to make it work. I made a mistake. It’s what’s meant to be. Metallica said it best - Sad but true.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick Ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that man. I personally don’t subscribe to what is meant to be is meant to be. Relationships require intentional ongoing effort and maintenance. That’s what real love is.
@RobbiJamesVogt
@RobbiJamesVogt Ай бұрын
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I agree completely. She is very insecure in relationships and is terrified of commitment. She also has a very low self esteem. It was a losing battle. I couldn’t help her. I tried my best but the more she worried - the more I worried.
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick Ай бұрын
I hear you. Keep in mind, it’s not your job to fix anyone but yourself. Focus on that and you’ll likely attract women who have their shit together. 😊
@No-hopes-given
@No-hopes-given 9 ай бұрын
How long until they detach? She still contacts me 7 months on from the break up with breadcrumbs…
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
It’s different for everyone. I’d be hesitant to assign a generic number to it. However , I’d say if it’s been 6 to 8 months they’ve probably detached, but I’ve had clients where their ex’s came back after a year, 5 years and even 10 years in some cases.
@No-hopes-given
@No-hopes-given 9 ай бұрын
@@TheLoveFix-Nick thanks any ideas why she keeps coming back with any excuse for contact 8 months on?
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
Only she would know, but my guess would be anxiety and maybe keeping you as a back up option.
@CK-px9ok
@CK-px9ok 2 ай бұрын
He’s so BEGGGGGGGGGGGG
@tatsukinomiya
@tatsukinomiya 9 ай бұрын
So, I have a question; What if you have a kid with your ex and they decided to break-up and rebound?
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
What’s the question, buddy? Can you give some more context, please?
@tatsukinomiya
@tatsukinomiya 9 ай бұрын
@TheLoveFix-Nick Yeah sure. So, my ex & I had a lovely boy in May. In June, she decides to move out & break up. Note: The kid is 100% mine. She told me that she felt alone in the relationship & the only negative things she's said was me over indulging in video games (though she was offered to be included), giving my friends more attention than her (again invited to be included), & communication. So, she rebounds with a friend of hers. The way I've been moving since, especially after hearing from her that she's "talking to someone" was just focusing on myself & only communicating about our son (I'll be in the army soon so I have matters to attend). She claims to want to just be friends because I'm a "cool person" & expressed (idk how much bull it is) that she's seeing the potential in my growth & feels she's been holding me back from said growth. So, yeah lol
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that. Is what she said true?
@tatsukinomiya
@tatsukinomiya 9 ай бұрын
@TheLoveFix-Nick I'm not 100% sure because I've been keeping my mental health from spying on her social media as much as possible & just letting the Universe work But if "true" is about her holding me back, ive never saw that from my POV
@TheLoveFix-Nick
@TheLoveFix-Nick 9 ай бұрын
When it come to playing too many computer games and not giving her the attention. Is that part true?
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