Ignoring an Ex

The plaintiff says he used to date the defendant and he helped her buy a car. They broke up, and now she’s refusing to pay him back, so he’s suing. The defendant says her ex bought the car for her, but she had to kick him out for cheating.
Case: 25-109

[@ayisyen2009]

I’m honestly tired of women saying “I’m a single mom” you knew you were a single mother before you entered into this agreement with this man. She was just using him for 💸 and for whatever she could get out of him that recording saved him it definitely was a loan I doubt it was ever a gift but,once they broke up he definitely emphasized on the “loan” aspect

[@rmills807]

Seems like every woman is a single Mom these days.

[@shirleywiese5230]

I’m a single mom. Kids already raised. Although it was extremely hard with one income and no support I did it and never played the sympathy card. My children turned out great and are very successful and happily married

[@dfa3366]

It's almost like saying I only have one working arm. Being a single mom is not a disability.

[@alyssahamlett]

​@@dfa3366Your comment is so stupid. I just don't even know how to respond.

[@BeKind2AllKinds]

I’m honestly sick of men impregnating women and abandoning their responsibilities.

[@Channel-JJ]

I'm so tired of hearing "I'm a single mom" like that is a badge of honor that requires sympathy and everyone else to provide.

[@nikkilardas3448]

I am a single mom and you are 100% right.

[@rckkeller9437]

I said that once, then I got a barrage of women telling me how their husbands died and it’s not their fault they are single moms. I meant exactly what you said. Women who chose single motherhood and then wined about it. Then expected special treatment because they chose that path.

[@Channel-JJ]

@@rckkeller9437 Being a widow and a woman that choses to be a single mom is different. I don't sympathize and will never sympathize with women who sleep with bums have kids with bums and then act like everyone else should help them because they made a poor life choice. I only sympathize with the kids. I don't even like the term "single mother" every mother is a single mother whether you're married or not, people only have one mother in the same way they only have one father. Children don't come from two wombs only one 😀

[@msenglish8382]

If her kid is grown enough to drive the car, he grown enough to pay for it himself

[@vtobias2]

@@rckkeller9437 I don’t think anyone intentionally plans on being a single mom. I know I didn’t. He chose to skip out on my daughter, but I never expected anyone to feel sorry for me or have sympathy. I feel for my daughter but that’s it. It what you do with the hand you were dealt. And my daughter’s dad isn’t a bum either. He’s in the military and has another child that he’s 100% involved with. He made the choice to not be in my daughter’s life.

[@coffeeaddictexpress5038]

I’m a single cat owner, it’s been hard ya know. The only time I get a break is when my cat sleeps 22 hours a day. Sometimes I have to work 2 whole hours a day just to feed it. Thank you all for your sympathy. 🤣

[@juliecranford534]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SarahWilson-qm4rv]

This comment is why I don’t mind my insomnia!! I love it

[@tipsynailsbymichelle]

i was a single mom too, never used that excuse. worked hard made sacrifices and gave my son as much as i possibly could without using or manipulating another person

[@franciscoguzman1065]

Lol. I bet she had no idea he was coming into court with tape recording. He should have had her signed something from the beginning.

[@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083]

Nah, roflol, I enjoyed her pain over the tape!!!

[@mclaybry]

It's scary that some people can get so desperate that they would intentionally and fraudulently deceive another human being under the guise of loving them. I'd have much more respect for the Defendant if she just said, "I was desperate, I had no money, I needed a car, so I took the opportunity that was presented to me and went with it."

[@josephcatsanchez6590]

Exactly

[@jaynehogue2459]

that's not desperation it's manipulation

[@crystalshaw8744]

Good luck with all that....

[@globe2555]

@@jaynehogue2459, We are all manipulated now and then.

[@sarah54471]

Truth is always better than the lie.

[@myshanamakisi6063]

Wow! Sis couldn't tell he was setting her up...😒

[@Fruity52467]

She deserved it anyway. She was just using him

[@hanaj]

Girl, how did you not know he was taping you

[@aprilpinketon2567]

Right! I don't know if it's all the court shows I watch or what, but I always expect the worse!

[@payableondeath9091]

one way to know if someone is recording you or trying to get legal recourse is they ask for yes or no answers

[@lapelcelery42]

Have to imagine he was wearing a giant hat full of recording equipment, and leaning it in toward her as she answered.

[@morbidbeauty_]

@@lapelcelery42 🤣🤣 thank you for the laugh. That's an awesome visual.

[@morbidbeauty_]

@@lapelcelery42 because we all know we don't have these recording devices that fit in the palm of your hand, that you can just sit next to you with the face down while the conversation is happening.. 😅🤡❤

[@Annabelangie1]

You just wanted to have used him and never having to pay back your own debt. Pay your own way. If you can't afford a car, don't get a car. No one should pay your way.

[@jomoser83]

"We were on a break!" -Ross

[@iammajestic9723]

She knew it was a loan…what’s there to payback if it’s a gift🤭

[@Sook995]

Why do women always say IM A SINGLE MOM, so what🤔that's not an get out of jail free card

[@honestyisadyingvirtue]

So she's happy it's all done at that end when she got busted for lying. What happened to it was a gift? Dudes dumb for lending that money without an agreement, and she thought she was slick and used him. She should of played her cards right knowing you owe someone that much.

[@crystalshaw8744]

So Judge is like we can listen to this tape...lol

[@GummyBearWA]

Sorry hun, hurt feelings don't cost $3,000. If you'd "managed" the situation you would have gotten off Scott free.

[@FHernandez623]

When did Ross and Rachel appear on The People's Court 😂😂😂 WE WERE ON A BREAAAAAAAK! 😂

[@David-wo9un]

Maybe she has a new man to help her with some bills.

[@theresadimaggio7241]

I think that she needs to pay him the money. It was a loan not a gift.

[@bruthamann5697]

She traded the car knowing she owed him. Pay the man. 😅

[@stephanieruiz9053]

This is all fine and dandy but what else is on that tape 👀

[@herbwheeler4470]

How do you know when a woman is a single mother? They'll tell you... oh They'll tell you.

[@reptilemetaljen]

Poor guy man she used him 😡

[@sunnyscott4876]

"WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!!!".......😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@patim5953]

The defendant needed that car to go see other men. Grass always looks greener till it doesn't.

[@shelocsher2396]

She’s foul.

[@teaingram5942]

He still love her

[@EasyGrilling101]

Great now I've got to look up the law for recording in Missouri!

[@bellaf7774]

Cabbage patch kids should not use people

[@patrickchubey3127]

" Use 'em and Lose 'em " defendant didn't know about the audio tape and got caught lying in court.

[@ahelms1990]

"What did you learn?" Can't talk like a normal person lol.

[@chuck9380]

The botch put 0 into the car and thought she was going to leave with the vehicle 2 weeks after it’s paid off

[@foreverever9001]

She’s lucky he spent any money on her

[@av8tor261]

"Buy your own car." A break means she was "up grading".

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Don't allow the person who didn't love you, keep you from the one who will. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@carmaxgamer2540]

"don't allow the person who didn't love you, keep you from the one who will" Wow. Thank you. I needed that. You're a beautiful soul💜

[@jo-annbastings]

We hear that often «We took a break» or «We broke up for a while» but, if you are happy with the one you are with, you want to stay with that person. It would be preposterous to let that person go because you want to take a break. If you need to take a break in your relation, it’s most probably because it’s not quite a good relation for the both of you. The best example for that would be like, take a seal bar and bend it. If you try to straighten it, it will be weakened where it was bent. A relationship is like that. If you take a break from your partner it’s because you are not sure about your life with him//her.

[@beckyl9454]

Majority of the time when I hear that statement, it's when people have decided to move in together instead of dating and living in their own places. So many people date and think that dating means they have to live together. You've got to know how and why people do what they do before you jump into moving into a place together. The whole point of dating is because you see yourself marrying that person and you're taking the time to get to know them. Living together doesn't have to be part of that equation until marriage is on the table.

[@jo-annbastings]

@@beckyl9454 I like your comment but I dated sooo many guys without the idea of marrying any of them. For me, dating is going out amorously with someone for a period of time and, when it’s over, each of us moves on and turn the page. There is ne need to «Take a break». When you find that special person, it should like what you said in your comment. If «Taking a break» is needed, that ‘special person’ is not THAT special after all.

[@beckyl9454]

@@jo-annbastings Your definition of dating is my definition of hanging out and being friends. Friends come and go sometimes because stuff happens. Ain't no reason to put boyfriend/girlfriend label on it. There's nothing wrong with a girl having friends we are boys and visa versa.

[@mmmfun77]

She totally used him...

[@iluvbears4861]

He probably was cussing her out on that tape that wouldn't have made him look good

[@alij6940]

I'm a single mother too and still pay my own bills. Sit down!!! Giving us single mothers a bad wrap.

[@Laura-tp8wz]

Absolutely!

[@nunya8010]

So tape EVERYTHING because this judge always screws the guy over with stuff like this and if it was a woman the judge says its a gift!

[@hollyjames4622]

Kurt is so dismissive. I love it! He dont be wit the shits at all. Hehe.

[@baller9real]

I live in Oregon, and it's a single party consent state as well! Probably a more liberal minded thing lol As the judge mentioned that where she lives in Florida, it's a crime, and Florida is more conservative lol

[@hanaj]

California is the same as Florida and is very liberal

[@kylahaynes4099]

Felony 3

[@jacobsladder6715]

Not so true lol pennsylvania is a TWO party consent state.

[@minglifeng2862]

I mean I hate Florida, but that literally has nothing to do with nothing to be honest. Lol. Besides Oregon sucks big time too. Where all the micro-aggressive white people with white savior complex live. LOL

[@scottr3484]

In Pa it is illegal to record anyone.

[@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821]

defendant is such a liar

[@SilverSergeant]

Bitter Plaintiff.....revenge lawsuit.

[@kyoto32001]

typical female defendant who uses men for stuff.

[@brendan11707]

I really don’t think so, he gave her 3000 for a car, he probably didn’t care if he got it back when they’re together because they kind of share money anyway but when they break up obviously he’d want the money back

[@franciscoguzman1065]

@@brendan11707 she seems like a user as well. I mean not even a penny he received all that time.

[@scottr3484]

The mooch gets it. I love it.

[@adrianprince7266]

The plantiff shouldn't have done shit for the defendant at all. Not to mention she had a child on top of that also which wasn't his. She should be happy someone even wanted her in the first place. Gotta learn from the defendant's mistakes men. But he was smart to tape record her.

[@peryole]

I’m a single mom should not be words allowed in court, or anywhere. Being a parent is a choice and there are plenty of Single dads, people just don’t care.

[@sharonjohnson8512]

Why do some people dress for court like they were going to a barn raising?

[@gino007able]

every state should be one-party consent this will weed out liars.

[@WarGrowlmon18]

I'm dying to know what ELSE is on that phone!!!🤩🤩🤩

[@rosej5029]

Hell have no fury like a man that has been scorned!

[@jimh4167]

She loses her big grin When the judge wants to hear the recording

[@awesghulam]

What else is on that tape?!!!!! I NEED to know...

[@firstladypie760]

She agree saying she was going to pay bk. Then the judge ask her again and she said it’s a gift.

[@ravenikon1261]

I wish my boyfriend would say anything he give me was a loan….he’d be single

[@Cheesycheddar642]

Maybe you just talk like you type and he just doesn’t understand you. 😂

[@kia4334]

🤣😂

[@msawyer110]

And you probably weigh as much as a mack truck

[@courtneyr6645]

You’d probably both be better off in that case.

[@vt-yp7yq]

LMAO 🤣

[@cassandramae85]

What else was on that tape though?? 😂

[@sig9girl]

She needed a car. She broke up After the car was paid off. That makes her a…

[@AP-uo7sp]

He should've kept the car in his name🤷

[@jimh4167]

She doesn't think before she speaks On the purchase she agreed to return the money

[@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083]

She was using him.

[@k22897]

He was giving creep vibee. While she seemed scared idk hope she is doing better

[@fernandofffff]

Touché, Plaintiff.

[@haiblayre4360]

Now I need to know what was on the tape

[@peryole]

She didn’t know what he got her on that’s why she stayed quiet. All states should be 1 party consent, I have checked recording laws before visiting some states and in some, videos are more legal.

[@mikelyer]

When she said what were you thinking I know exactly what she meant. He is a perry cornball so she was gone pay him back in oral compensation LoL

[@pamelahaze3211]

My ex offered to buy me a car ...in fact almost nagged me about it..I said no no no....no thanks. And I am *cough cough* a single mom....but my sons are grown... and I think the ex just wanted a taxi service...I would be "obligated" to drive him around... because...you know..he bought me a car....

[@jennifermartin4631]

How come they just can't let go and move on!!!!

[@rckkeller9437]

Not a very nice woman.

[@kathyhansen9546]

Counting on his fingers driving me crazy.

[@darrenbennett9132]

That tape saved him otherwise he would've lost Yea boy

[@AnneOhn123]

hahaha busted....

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Judge Milian needs to watch the FRIENDS episode re WE WERE ON A BREAK 😂😂😂😂

[@sociallyaccept985]

I'm confused did he cheat like she said? She never brought that up?

[@BABYGIRL4U1]

Lol how sad if you just kept him happy he would of never taken you to court but I can imagine he would have you jumping through hoops. Defendant was not mad she clearly is over the situation after all he saw her new ride 🤣🤣🤣

[@jaynehogue2459]

Really...I.. you are actually defending what she did

[@BABYGIRL4U1]

No I am not defending her. Purely pointing out how smitten he is. If you can’t afford something give it back or pay it’s simple. He did that thinking they would stay together.

[@jasoncoan7679]

I love this girl, she reminds me of Sarah Huckabee

[@marlenelowman9389]

The plaintiff stated the defendant put $1000 as the down payment. How is it that the plaintiff says she didn't pay a penny. smh

[@jamilahzahirahhadid]

She put $1000 down on the vehicle, he meant she hadn’t paid a penny toward what she owes him.

[@marlenelowman9389]

@@jamilahzahirahhadid I understood that also. But ty for replying.

[@mickeypoo305]

Never sign for anything regarding someone else

[@griffin2263]

defendant "pay you as time goes on " judge "so you agree this is a loan .." defendant "it wasn't a loan" ......that is what you call a loan

[@MountainOrbs]

He should not have one it's clear she wasn't going to pay him back and waiting that whole time... Ya sure you thought u get the cookie back

[@supreniasigler301]

Now try collecting.

[@antdogg5041]

STOP buying people vehicles that you’re not married too!

[@clahzee30]

Wanted to take a break so Todd could take her to pound town then after its all beat up she then wants to reconcile smh..

[@Fush1234]

In the beginning God said. Let there be food. And he ate it all. 🤣🤣🤣

[@pfizer69]

😒

[@rayb.6345]

Ephesians 4v29… let all your talk be encouraging. Jesus bless you.

[@SuperDcaesar]

DUDE creepy for having other audio files that he said he had that she never knew was being recorded.

[@franciscoguzman1065]

@Doug C not really especially if it was a verbal agreement and they had nothing in writing. I would have had her signed something.

[@SuperDcaesar]

@@franciscoguzman1065 I mean the other audio files he had that he wouldn't say what were on them. Dude was def recording them during their private moments that she wasn't aware of.

[@ginger7344]

Well it’s not like she can manipulate them on a pole

[@BeKind2AllKinds]

I better any man that came in and said “I’m a single dad” would elicit sympathy and praise. But, when a woman says she’s a single mom, every comment is about how it’s wrong. 🙄

[@ChasRiaStJohn]

That guy is so lame🙄

[@franciscoguzman1065]

@Cherie St. John why? More like she’s a user. Nothing in life is free.

[@SmilingSynic]

Single mothers are generally NOT looking for love. Rather, they are looking for HELP, especially the financial kind.

[@kittyfan]

umm...no, she just said that she'd made arrangements to pay him back....

[@frankgiuliano380]

She didn't want to talk to him..just take his $3000. bi--.

[@peryole]

She used him and without that recording he’d be SOOL.

[@ravenikon1261]

He a mess

[@palopinto4065]

Did she put a thousand on a $4000 car or a $3000 car? The plaintiff mentioned his boss and 4G in a half a sec before judge cut him off and $4G was never mentioned again.

[@roybrown4944]

I can get there's sex recordings on that tape.

[@vixiestarfire]

Oooooh what else could be on that phone I wonder… 🤔

[@ingesexton811]

Probably some BS he thinks is important that no one really cares about.

[@carriegarcia4173]

She used this guy and tried to play the I'm a single mom card. Grow up there are single parents everywhere and they don't all use people to their advantage. You wanted him when you wanted a car. Waited 2 weeks after he paid it off to leave, she planned that. She's definitely wrong and would do it again.

[@M.S.Y.C]

He isn't all good either

[@andreabutts8697]

User

[@katie1535]

Im a single mom too can I use that excuse

[@colejackz]

Lol no one wants to talk bad about women now lol this is sad.

[@jamesbernardino4264]

Damn it now I wanna know what else is on that phone! Or if I slice the phone is it Cake? It’s cake isn’t it? Oh for fucks sake.

[@sandwichman100]

first clue she has a child and its not yours you dont buy cars for this person

[@sandwichman100]

lucky boy he can legally record her knocked herself out with her big mouth