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@limitlesslifefacts2 жыл бұрын
Any advice to deal or respon to the guy that pulled away, and recently i found out that he went for vacation wt the girl he knew before??
@carecafetips6 ай бұрын
Runners give off feminine energy, not interested, not chasing
@taniamiller4572 Жыл бұрын
I just say, NEVER CHASE!! You're too good for that. He should be chasing you, and if he's not, he's not good enough for you!! 💖
@nicky_bee Жыл бұрын
"Don't hold yourself accountable for his behaviour" - that's an important lesson
@Livhappy252 жыл бұрын
A man pulls away and you’re telling woman to text asking if he has given up on her and telling him you miss him??? Lol oh my goodness. Woman don’t do that. If a guy disappears let him
@lecannet2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Mercy1- Жыл бұрын
Smh at least ask
@lisawhite8718 Жыл бұрын
@@Mercy1- maybe if he at least cared in the first place. I mean c'mon. It's very simply respect to give basic communication and investment goes both ways.
@tresnanymoonlight888 Жыл бұрын
True. Mirror his action. Periodt
@adamajassey4812 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tasrajwani Жыл бұрын
I get absolutely bored if a guy pulls away and doesn't respond or stick to what he says he will. It shows me what I have in store in that connection in the future, which is nothing fun or respectful or considerate. So I don't reach out. And they always come back but I have no interest by then. And it allows me to make more space for the more considerate, consistent and feel good guys. I love that.
@mikiwells45722 жыл бұрын
Dating sets the stage for how the relationship will be. It teaches people how to treat you. If he's doing this during the dating process, he will continue. You have to set standards. Stop allowing people to disrespect you and waste your time. Remember, you're worth it! You don't have to tolerate the nonsense. Love yourself and others will love you too! Remember, it's okay to be single. You are not defined by being in a relationship. In society, there's a stigma about single women. As if, something is wrong with you if you're single. We need to lose this mindset. Also, get a life. Like Matt said. Dress up. Go out with friends. Go out on dates even if it's by yourself. But have a good time! Live your best life. The right people will gravitate towards you. That's including the right man. Always remember. Man's rejection is God's protection! Since I've reentered The Dating Game, that's what I've learned. That's what helps me. Maybe it would help someone else.
@domif.b.76572 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@mikiwells45722 жыл бұрын
@@domif.b.7657 You're welcome hun! 😊
@joykennedyhughes62692 жыл бұрын
Great advice. I totally agree with you.
@AntoanetaStancu2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, what you said helps a lot în reaffirming the truth that we know already but that we, as women, sometimes forget. Thanks! 🤗 You're great and we are great! You're right.
@mariamoawhaisoba87392 жыл бұрын
I like this 👍♥️
@liudmilaaleagaaguilera88762 жыл бұрын
If they do despite I let them know I'm interested, I follow up once in a loving, respectful, assertive, also playful manner. If he still pulls away, I don't take it personally. I move on, go on with my busy life, and keep dating other guys. I agree with you Mat, there are plenty of amazing guys out there. Whoever wants you will put the effort, communicate, be vulnerable, take you on dates, spend time, respect you and appreciate you😊 Thank you Mat💕
@nighthawk26342 жыл бұрын
Ps Liudmilla.. where are you from. I am Australian. Your smile is awesome! You seem intelligent. Would you like to chat
@nighthawk26342 жыл бұрын
I will treat you as a true gentleman and I like your fun but clever nature 😉
@Uncensored0.1 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@diandrag_2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt! Best advice ever! This text response worked on my guy. Everything was going great and we were spending a lot of time together then out of no where he pulled back and told me he needed to “figure some things out” in his life. My abandonment wounds came to the surface lol and I asked if we could talk and he told me not yet. Then I sent him a few other texts expressing my frustration that he was ignoring me… got nothing. About two months passed, I was really still confused and frustrated that he hadn’t reached out yet. Even after I had been on some other dates, I still couldn’t shake the feeling. I came across this video and texted him exactly what you said, “ Ok it’s been months…I take it you’ve given up on us??” and he immediately replied! He told me that his life was being uprooted and he needed to move 3 hrs away to take care of his grandfather & he just doesn’t know what he wants right now. He apologized for leaving me in the dark and says he does miss me. With all that being said, It does work ladies!! However, I believe it only worked that well because I was able to step back and focus on myself in the meantime! I pray that everyone reading this gets the clarity they need. It sucks feeling stuck like you can’t move on. Just know if I can do it so can you! My #1 advice is to find you a support system who will listen and validate your feelings you aren’t crazy for needing reassurance.❤️ Edit: Make sure that when he come back that you also have your boundaries! Just because he comes back doesn’t always mean it’s for the right reasons. Guard your heart ladies!
@glorymaemantua82702 жыл бұрын
Let it be, if a man does not communicate don't chase. A woman knows her worth :) and if he never justify the things he do. Move on and find a man who can meet your standards :).
@lemontea17142 жыл бұрын
Well said!!!! A guy promised yesterday to take me out this afternoon, he overslept and didn’t bother to text me until later in the afternoon because he wanted someone to have dinner with him, & I agreed to the dinner 🤦🏻♀️
@debraguzman7984 Жыл бұрын
That is so awesome thank you for opening my eyes
@bobbiecakanic35182 жыл бұрын
It's more then frustration it's hurting
@baribach87012 жыл бұрын
it's distresses me that too many women self blame especially at the beginning of a relationship
@israelaiesha25312 жыл бұрын
Say that. 😘
@danashine11379 ай бұрын
We were conditioned to by society. As young girls were taught that if a woman is single it's her own fault and something must be wrong with her. Good ole patriarchy at work
@Queenconsciousness3112 жыл бұрын
The answer to your question Matt is this, I matched his energy from the beginning. When I realized I was pouring too much because my energy is typically what you see is what you get, I started picking up signs that he wasn't ready. I read his energy. I will always come towards someone with openness and honesty, and when it's not reciprocated I'll match the energy and slowly back away. What is unbelievable is that we're actually friends who grew an attraction for one another so the respect is there. The communication piece is not and I'm all about communication!
@AntoanetaStancu2 жыл бұрын
Yeah... Pisces, right?? From the sign? 🙂 me, too and.. I am exactly the same, so to speak.
@israelaiesha25312 жыл бұрын
Wow. Same.
@AntoanetaStancu2 жыл бұрын
@@israelaiesha2531 yeah... ❤🤗 all the love to you all !
@annstar27932 жыл бұрын
This kind of thing is why I don’t want to bother with dating. I don’t have time and energy to deal with all the emotional ups and downs. I’m used to being single, and even prefer it a lot of the time.
@talktosteph7636 Жыл бұрын
This video is made just for me. I'm truly trying to find myself because, when am in love. I become so vulnerable to fault.
@armtz2 жыл бұрын
I’m talking to a guy long-distance and not calling as often as I would like. After a day of no communication, he texted me his almost-daily “good morning” text, I texted him “I like it when you send me a text, but I would love it if you call me”. He called me instantly, later that day we FaceTime’d for the very first time!
@Dancediva2402 жыл бұрын
You mean you both are in different states or countries?
@gionagrace62792 жыл бұрын
First, let me say...you do not need to be wrapped up in any relationship or chasing a man down like a hunter. It's ok to be alone and living your best life with family and friends and your own quiet alone time and pursuing your own interests and hobbies! That's a beautiful situation,however, I had a few scenarios! I almost always mirror his actions and I find out that is the quickest way to see his interest level. A few times, I reached out first and they waited a day or 2 to respond and we then dated but it didn't last and a few just flat out ghosted. Usually, in my personal experience, when he has pursued me, that is where my LTR s all came from.
@thevintagebountyhunter17422 жыл бұрын
Matt thank you ,you are the big brother every girl needs out here in the dating world . 😊
@elifnur54032 жыл бұрын
Well when he ghosted me I did the opposite of what I've been told. I tried to communicate and asked him why he ignored me all of a sudden, because we were very open and communicative with each other, and willing to fix our problems all the time. And now I'm left more damaged with 50 unanswered calls and 20-30 unseen text messages of mine. Please girls, please. Leave him like this, we just feed their ego by trying to communicate with them and begging for an answer or explanation. Move on, move on❤️❤️
@lecannet2 жыл бұрын
Exactly hun...its so abusive that it's best to play his game n ignore n try hard to forget...😢😔😭
@wilma6235 Жыл бұрын
Mine was sick with the flu. So I texted him was he feeling better or need anything after not hearing from him for 4 days. I waited until 4 days and texted something similar. Both times no response. I waited two weeks and texted him I assume no response means you are no longer interested and want me to leave you alone. I wish you the best in life. He read that one but no response. Probably 2 more weeks and he texted me he was ok baby. I texted back a thumbs up. No words. Neither of us have texted since. Ghosting hurts. He could have told me anything and the hurt wouldn’t have been so bad.
@michellejayde212 жыл бұрын
I actually said that a few weeks ago.. his response was “you’re thinking too hard” and then proceeded to make me look needy & crazy. 🙄We didn’t go out again. I had really liked him during the 2 1/2 months we dated but’s not after that.
@KG-bliss2 жыл бұрын
It's beautiful once a woman gets to appreciate who she is... it's beautiful to walk away from junk behavior... I just kept quiet after we spoke we were going to meet and then he sent a message to say he's in a meeting "we will chat" and then never came back... goodbye... simple and easy. I don't think he can explain himself out of this... especially after I told him if we have plans it shouldn't be difficult to get a hold of him. That's that... I just keep focusing on the one I am manifesting... he was very close but he isn't, so, I keep it moving.
@Nicole-zv7ee Жыл бұрын
"You're thinking too hard"............run.......I can tell just by that comment, that he is mentally/emotionally abusive.......run, run, run.......
@debraglows Жыл бұрын
I texted him with “i noticed you didnt answer my call when i called you. I noticed that when i texted you, you said you will call me back later but you didnt. I have no problem with you not calling or texting me but does this explain i should stop talking to you and seeing you?” He answered, “no not at all. I was busy and guess youre busy. I have many things on my head. If i didnt called you back, im sorry. But you should have also reminded me if you truly want us to talk. So whats up?” I got my answer. No need to respond to him.
@sheikhaazizaalnahyan6575 Жыл бұрын
LESSON FOR all women is NEVER beg for love, Never CHASE MEN .if its not meant to be then let it be
@tintinpenaredondo6531 Жыл бұрын
I don't chase... I will focus on myself as I knew my value and worth.
@PushPastParalysis Жыл бұрын
I always think I come on too strong as a woman and hold myself accountable. Thank you for reminding me to give myself slack and hold him accountable. The grey areas always trip me up.
@elyarahmania41462 жыл бұрын
I agree with you! For me, If a man pulls away or doesn't want to respond/communicate for three days or a week so, I totally cut him off I won't beg for his text or anything because I think he doesn't respect someone's time even though he tries to communicate or explain what's going on but remember.. someone who truly love you won't ignore or make you wait for too long for his message. As a woman we should be respect to ourselve. Just my opinion *you can take it or leave it *no hate
@gill4262 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you, good advice! 👍🏻
@botildefadel4699 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes a man Will say no i havent given up. But his actions wont match. So remember to take note of his actions Even if he says differently. Maybe he wants to be what you need but just cant be❤️
@lindalin8284 Жыл бұрын
Always watch out the actions and not the words
@sargammehrotra48222 жыл бұрын
I prefer not to poke him anymore. When he cools down, he will be back soon. If he doesn't come, it was not meant to be.
@aminatabinta36682 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now, thanks very much sir
@wonhur8852 жыл бұрын
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@wonhur8852 жыл бұрын
@Abigail Prewitt well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer.
@wonhur8852 жыл бұрын
@Abigail Prewitt her name is Shelly Renee White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
@wonhur8852 жыл бұрын
@Abigail Prewitt you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
@Debasmitabhadra4662 жыл бұрын
I am going through something like this right now... It has been almost 2 weeks now.. I absolutely gave him space ... But I think it's time for me to ask him about this and if it is not worth it then let's not delay the inevitable.
@maahgolaminmoussavi8503 Жыл бұрын
Hey Mat. Thank u so much for this video. It was just for meee. So here is my story. We didn't even go on a date. He liked me and gave me green lights at first, then I started to like him back. But things suddenly changed. So I sent him a text that I wanna know him better and see him more so I wanned to know if there's any interests to start a relationship together. He said that he's got personal matters. I still see him at work as we are neighbors, he just works some blocks away but it made me easier to decide what I'm goin to do next. I still like him, but I'm focusing on myself as u said, and started dating other guys. Maybe we will connect in the future, maybe not. Who the hell knows
@shuhuimok38142 жыл бұрын
Great advice ! I like it that Matt focuses on the psychology that women must have in such situations. The techniques won't work if you don't understand the underlying self-empowering and self- respecting psychology.
@How.Dare.You.2 жыл бұрын
This msg is cringey. Better to call or meet than sending such dramatic txt 🙄 if a guy is wishy washy and wants to be casual no right word will change it. I did something similar and told him I feel hes not really interested and I wanted to give this a chance. Hed tell me he is super interested yet his actions showed the opposite. I cut him off and he would come back after months doing the same breadcrumbing bs. Save your dignity, nerves and time and block him for good. Hes clearly frying a bigger fish else where and treating you like a filler and backburner.
@vp51342 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. The truth is men know what they want and if he's lost interest, there's very little you can do to reverse the pulling away...
@fullmetalalchemist45622 жыл бұрын
When a man pulls away, you pull your all far away. Whether they lose interest or try to make you chase him by playing games. First one is a dead end. Second one is manipulative. Therefore the reason behind is not important.
@mariaisabelgonzalez93872 жыл бұрын
I know my value and he either take it or leave it, lol 😆
@sk06162 жыл бұрын
Agree
@PrincessMultiracial2 жыл бұрын
Idk because women make comments like this all the time on most dating advice videos but then it begs the question as to why you’re even here to begin with 🤨 Women can know their value but don’t lie to yourself that you’ve never been, or currently, caught up with a guy who’s giving mixed signals, and got confused on the perception of “value”. It happens
@boertung2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! This indeed serves me. I have nothing to add but say thanks a lot for your help to saving me time and heading for my goal with more confidence
@sophiebjorkman29982 жыл бұрын
Wow this is literally perfect timing. Thank you Matt!
@monicatobon53732 жыл бұрын
Lol! I've recently had 3 pull away! One was a bf of 13 months! I didn't reach out to him because I was seeing signs of him pulling away but i was also starting to see characteristics I didn't like in him. The next man did tell me he had a lot going on in his life. I believe him. Up until that point he acted as if he were really into me. The most recent one...hmm, not sure what his deal is. Although we haven't started dating I was hoping to. His text appears every week or 2 to tell me life got away from him and he would like to see me again. Anyway, I'm not holding my breath and I've moved on. Like I've heard, the bad ones weed themselves out!
@lecannet2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have the exact same 2week text guy...I'm sick of him n I love him..now I need to let him go..cause Fk that for my sanity...who do these guys think they r...
@Thepowderroomlondon2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt, you’ve come at the right time! ❤
@ayeshamaso0dbajwa837 Жыл бұрын
Luv is not about give n take its the name of giving.
@kotone_lovesanime8514 Жыл бұрын
My situation is rather complicated. I’m not sure what to do or think at times. All I know is we still talk and he is there to help me when I need it. But barely see other. I get he is going through stuff and so am I; but still.
@meaghanparent87402 жыл бұрын
This video is gold! Much much much needed! Thank you!!!!!
@susanfennell94892 жыл бұрын
I have had this situation - he had to take an unplanned trip to NYC to cover for a sick co-worker and there was a huge amount of responsibility for him. This was after a first fantastic date. He said he would call but did not over a weekend and he is normally very expressive so I sent a text late Monday night and stated I enjoyed our time but now I felt a mixed signal was being sent as he ignored my texts over the weekend and I posed the question “if you were me and you wanted to pursue a relationship what would you do”? He responded 13 hours later that he was under a microscope with his job and needs to fight to keep it. He is there for two weeks then returns to Miami - so I said I did not want to stress him but was here if he did want to text otherwise I looked forward to seeing him when he returns and he stated I was the one light in his life in this current situation. So……we will see
@gill4262 жыл бұрын
From an outside perspective, that doesn't sound like it's going anywhere. This stuff happens in patterns and it will repeat. I would back away from that. Take care!
@susanfennell94892 жыл бұрын
Well I would like to break the pattern if that is true
@gill4262 жыл бұрын
@@susanfennell9489 Yes but I meant his pattern. That's something only the person can break and it's often pretty tough. Best wishes to you! :)
@susanfennell94892 жыл бұрын
@@gill426 thank you
@DannyD-lr5yg2 жыл бұрын
@@susanfennell9489 I hope he keeps appreciating you, and how you _don't_ want to add stress to his life! :)
@namakulaflorence77482 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot for the great show,I'm going through the same at the moment and the only solution I possibly could get was to not text as well so we can be even
@hananm.37462 жыл бұрын
thank you so much Matt for your brilliant video it just touched a spot where I get shy not asking why when long distance
@ivaneph2 жыл бұрын
Any advice when he’s the one who broke up with you for shallow reason and now texted you a video he found like forcing not to talk to someone you love is the hardest thing a person can do.
@Concatenate2 жыл бұрын
Move on.
@vanaphill24542 жыл бұрын
Let him go
@annstar27932 жыл бұрын
I love that we have to turn to a book by a terrorist negotiator to navigate the modern relationship !!! 😂😂😮
@ahashimi481 Жыл бұрын
He said he will call me back four days ago, and he vanished and did not fall through, I kept silence myself until today when I got a text message from him telling me that he misses me and he was not feeling very well. I told him I’m glad he feels better but I didn’t go crazy I didn’t give him no ❤️ or nothing. He texted me a loving phrase from a song I texted him cute face emoji. Pretty much the ball on his court and he should be nice out about it.
@l.mariea76722 жыл бұрын
Omg!! You are brilliant and so HEALTHY. My guy is not this healthy, by a long shot. He wants only me and is committed-on HIS effing terms. I may have to leave 😢 And, I am strong enough. And-i haven’t yet given up on us. So….🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 praying for a miracle…or, to let go
@baribach8701 Жыл бұрын
Ladies, I don't care if you're 15 or 80. Let the man prove himself. Let the man pursue you. That's why they're called Hunters. Men will climb mountains, swim Rivers, and you do anything to get to the woman they want. If he continues and to be distant from you, he's either not ready for a relationship or He's Just Not That Into You. It's not your fault, unless you slept with him on the first date, or I should say in today's terms, the first time you hung out.
@Meepsavage Жыл бұрын
Bari Bach what If he started out chasing /pursuing and I was hesitant and needed time . We’ve only Talked a less than 3 months and I “ended” things a few times . Once I came around and decided I wanted to move forward with him Now he is the one saying he time as he isn’t sure if I will stop Talking to him again. We last spoke Sunday night and I haven’t heard form him Yet . Do I wait a few days and reach back Out or should I just not reach out if he does not contact me ?
@Meepsavage Жыл бұрын
**I apologize for the spaces in between my question
@warmtabano9557 Жыл бұрын
@@Meepsavage k
@haileypeterson989 Жыл бұрын
It's never your fault regardless if you had sex on the first date or not.
@yurimaperez11452 жыл бұрын
Great advice, thank you for sharing every Saturday 😊
@xxyz3212 жыл бұрын
I learned that from “never split the difference” also, lol!
@RealAsianBeauty Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the videos you are creating. Always the best ❤
@sillonelove11 ай бұрын
Isn’t it funny that no one said ever “ hey just reading your text now. I don’t really like you like that so I am dating other people. Have a nice life ! 👋 “ 😂
@blueturquoisett844811 ай бұрын
He has been pulling back so I match his energy the same way, just hang back...
@mariamoawhaisoba87392 жыл бұрын
Heey Mat!.... It's great to hear from you. Thanks for reaching out, I am just learning not to put a man off and this happens to me. 😄 Good for me. He only showed a sign haven't said anything, I know he is going through work related issues , he has met another whom he displayed,no problems life goes on. "Good radiance "...... If only I could find out if he was the same guy who followed up on me under cover throughout last year until I deleted my FB page. Keeping hope alive. 🤷🙋💝
@vickydenman45812 жыл бұрын
I pull away completely and block. Even though I’m still in love, I put it up into God’s hands and totally work on self-improvement. He has always found a way to come back. It always seems like a miracle, because the last thing that you want is to pull back. Men respect women who walk away.
@juliejohnson4972 жыл бұрын
Wish I knew this all in the '60s, 70's and 80's. (So many men, never a wise choice on my part.) Signed, 75 and single.
@MyVlogTherapy2 жыл бұрын
Can you please provide verbiage of how to hold the man accountable? Examples of how to address them, bc I don’t think women have enough tools for this, especially framing it how a man would receive it well. I tend to come off with blame or accusing, even though I don’t intend to.
@lindacapek5704 Жыл бұрын
what if a guy is from the gym - gives signs as going to the gym at the same time for months, leaves at the same time, stares at each other and finally introduce myself and acted like i don’t exist- why???? we have hardly talked - and now stopped everything… why? what did i do????
@WJessiM Жыл бұрын
Thanks Mat! I love learning from your wisdom.
@amandapirot10222 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mat! Perfectly timed video. This is helpful for dealing with all men in the dating process, but especially with a great guy on the Asperger's spectrum. Went on a 2nd date with a guy last Saturday. He lead me to believe he was very interested by actions. The guy is mature, kind, very smart/educated, and interesting. I wrote him a casual thank you note the following evening and that I had a great time. Didn't get a text for another almost 4 days (he was traveling)! I've been obsessing. I'm realizing it doesn't matter that this guy has a particular set of communication issues. It's about finding out whether he is definitely still interested? And then setting communications standards. (Ironically, he's a corporate healthcare communications executive).
@equationinterrelationship012 жыл бұрын
Just do the same, 😉😄, without even asking why... Don' t bother, exactly for the reasons you mentioned and, move on with your own life...!!! When there is TRUST between the couple, pulling back does not really matter that much! Leave them room. On a more professional relation or early stages, of course one needs to be taken accountable for his/her behaviour...! Of course, politness and respect to the expectations of the other is a major characteristic in the relation. If it' s lacking once, most probably it will lack more times, in the future too (red flag) !!!
@valc6621 Жыл бұрын
I want to share something but firstly sorry for my bad english. So i met this amazing person who would do anything for me and find any excuse to see me and we being happily dating for 6months then a week ago he been distant, he was always flirting before then he stop but still ask if im ok or if i eat and stuff After 3days i ask him what's wrong, he told me that he has news that he have this great opportunity to work abroad Now he told me when he's going there he will work for 13hrs and he willing to try ldr but he doesn't want me to get frustrated or hurt bcs he will be in a different time zone Plus he doesn't know how long he will be there or if his next post will be here We still don't know what to do bcs we have a strong feeling and ofc a busy life and will be in a different time zones
@pinkpearlx Жыл бұрын
I was getting to know this guy at first he would always text me good morning and good night and carry out a conversation through out the day. If he was working and couldn't text he would let me know. Slowly he started communicating less. The first two times I expressed how I felt and stopped communicating. I was silly enough to reach out to him. Same thing happened this third time I didn't explain myself or my feelings and just blocked him 💔 obviously he doesn't feel the same about me. It hurts but at least I didn't invest too much time and energy into him
@aleksandramichalska5223 Жыл бұрын
We don't pull away people who we love.
@kristinavoshall47652 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I seen this when I did much needed now I know how to handle things I'm going through with someone I'm talking to and know it's okay to go on other dates and not just focus on him I don't think it's going anywhere with him he always has something going on to hear him say it SMH 😡
@Books_Makeup Жыл бұрын
I say if he pulls away. LET HIM. He is doing you a favour by showing that he can't handle a relationship.
@mysugar_haruto22222 жыл бұрын
This is what i need, thankyou Mat ❤️
@Diamondbeach Жыл бұрын
I’m a big fan of urs but the text seems a bit desperate. You already got the answers w his actions.
@tetsidoris7368 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Matt, I know its gonna be fine. Bless you💞
@Supergirl-oo5lr Жыл бұрын
A man pulls away he can fudge off. His loss!!! Why do we have to do everything in a relationship?
@jenniferjer3332 Жыл бұрын
I just texted him that if he’s just not interested in hanging out or chatting anymore it’s OK I don’t wanna keep reaching out to him if he isn’t interested. So far crickets and it’s been hours. I’m thinkin..bye..
@leezhenqi6132 жыл бұрын
Very good advice. Agreed with 100% what u said. Thank you very much
@donnaferrara5212 жыл бұрын
This video was amazing and your so right. 🙂
@lynn-ve2je Жыл бұрын
Yes this video help me because I'm going thru this same thing with the person im talk to and thank you for this tips one thing I do when someone pulls away is I would say hey I hope everything ok if you need talk I'm here and I leave it with that but these tips will help me
@raahimahmed2241 Жыл бұрын
When my man pulls away I shift my focus and do practical and necessary things in my life
@chrischris97182 жыл бұрын
I’m hesitant about “Have you given up on us?” as we were at very early stages of our interaction (we’d been on 3 dates), I feel this statement is more suitable for when there was something significant. I’m inclined towards “Have you given up on trying with me?” Mat/viewers, can I have some thoughts on this question instead? 😊
@wj19152 жыл бұрын
Yes, I like that too
@henriettemwiza47002 жыл бұрын
I believe if you go on 3 dates with a guy there must be a connection or some chemistry. So if he pulls away, asking this question is the way. “Have you given up on trying with me?”sounds a little desperate, it’s either there or not. Tell me I got things to do 🚬
@hshfyugaewfjkKS2 жыл бұрын
I find everything he suggested about that idea completely cringe-worthy. To say have you given up on us after 3 dates sounds Stage 5 Clinger material. I also wouldn't tell a man I missed him if I'm the one that had to reach out for him. If communication changes with me and a man I might reach out once casually and then let him re pick up the lead. If he doesn't I move on. I'm not going to chase any man no matter how much I like him. If a man likes you he will let it be known and if he isn't then he either isn't into us or he's got attachment issues and you don't want him anyway.
@taniamiller4572 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I've been chatting with him for 3 months, we've had 2 dates, he let me know up front how busy his schedule is, and that's fine, but all of a sudden, no communication. Just a short reply if I text. I then told him I was going to stop talking with him as I felt he wasn't ready for a relationship, and it heated up for a few days, now back to barely anything. I'm going to cut and run for real now. We had an instant, deep connection, which makes it difficult, but I feel as tho he's not ready for a great woman like me.
@lynnita321 Жыл бұрын
@@hshfyugaewfjkKS 1000%. Well said and thank you.
@phoenixrising8860 Жыл бұрын
Ladies walk away , block and move on. It becomes easier because you start to notice patterns . Never get emotionally attached
@user-er8wj4wi9v7 ай бұрын
He said to me he would call me back when he gets the chance and never told me he was back from vacation.
@pinkmaithai62312 жыл бұрын
Thank u. It was very helpful
@midamalait51942 жыл бұрын
This its served me and help this advices of your's Mat, cos dating online its kind wonderfull but at the same time a lot of emotions comes up,this video now it will help me for the upcoming encounter, thank you very much Mat,it helped me a lot .
@barbkellen66582 жыл бұрын
Oh boy!! LOL did this hit my situation square on the head!! And confirmed EVERYTHING I did was right. After about a month of VERY sporatic contact weather in text or me driving over there. (We live in a very small town) I would try exhaustingly to get him to respond. He would in very short responses. (I feel to appease me) Then finally after I felt that he probably thought I was bordering on being a bit crazy by the way I'd try to get a hold of him he sent me a text and said all 3 of your points. I told him "you know ALL of this could have been avoided if he would have communicated what he just said when he started feeling this way." and I am thinking that it is totally unfait on his part to act like he is all in and then totally do a 180 and a about-face. and expect me to figure it out!! Then he used on me something that I told him I used when I last dated someone local and there is a chance we'd run into each other. I said to him (my ex) to save on it being awkward "lets keep it amicalable". SOOOO he sends me the said text and then fast forward to that evening I see him out WITH HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND. Do you think he felt the need to send that text because he knew he was going to be going out that night with her and there was a chance I'd be out? I think ABSOLUTELY!! I am so over it!! Yes it hurts like hell. I am getting to old for these games!! LOL Thank you Mat for validating my feelings!!
@denaseverson8617 Жыл бұрын
I have a question? I've been getting closer to my dentist, he's been having me come to his office to meet him at his lunch break to have coffee together. For my birthday his bought me candy for a gift and told me he never buys anything for anyone so I should feel lucky he likes me! For his birthday we was meeting because I told him I have something for him...when I got there he was sitting in his car, told me to come sit with him. After giving him his gift he gave me a big hug and a kiss on the cheek. We were talking and laughing then he got quiet, I asked if he was ok. He answered back with "when I breathe my heart hurts" I wasn't sure how to answer him :( Not sure if he is interested in me! What should I do?
@envyallison926 Жыл бұрын
Something don’t seem right there
@Perfectlife777_ Жыл бұрын
He likes you
@sheilaabellana27222 жыл бұрын
I realized more..thank you so much sir for sharing this vedeo to make me awake...☺️🙏
@naivivmaribujoc Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir Matt thank you thank you .
@vanessapazmino5920 Жыл бұрын
The guy that I was talking to , started having bad communication, I told him that I felt disconnected and he never replied to my message , the last thing I said was that he ever wants to talk he can go to my house and have an adult conversation. I feel that I screwed up and I missed him but he is not texting me
@Flown555 Жыл бұрын
❤️ Totally the right strategies . Thanks Mat 👍
@Freekoismus Жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt! I feel relieved!
@pinkycostelo92292 жыл бұрын
if he doesn't value you walk away. He is not worth it. There's plenty of fish in the sea..Lol
@auxijessy3942 Жыл бұрын
That was a brilliant thought which I would follow
@ayeshamaso0dbajwa837 Жыл бұрын
Feelings are always particular with the particular person its not a job or duty to be changed once ya really luv then story begins to connecting souls.
@turtlecrochets8653 Жыл бұрын
He disappeared. I let him disappear. Not sure I wanted someone who was gonna be this flaky in my life anyways. I am a big girl. I don't need to be with someone who does not want me. Not that low on self respect, as yet.
@lovelyandbountifulgirlProudofw Жыл бұрын
Let him go wherever he wants if he love someone then let him be don't chaze him You have your own life do it and be carefree.
@cheyennealvis82847 ай бұрын
A ladyfriend sent me this video and I can tell you what he says is 100% true. I think as guys we need to send these videos to women as a subtle way so they can get the message and break up with us. That way there'll be no complications and there'll be no heartache or heartbreak and you can just move on and tell the guy "I'm just not into you". Usually if a woman calls me over and over again every single day and she gives me no life or privacy and wants to hang out with me every single day, instead of being mean to her or blocking her I send her @matboggs videos. And then she just blocks me or deletes me on her phone and then just goes away.
@riapuspar29252 жыл бұрын
At the first time i keep blamming and ask myself what am i doing to him, did i make mistake ? And bla bla bla.. but times goes by .. i start to think to the same way.. im not calling his back when he is not calling me (it's hurt)
@malenaanja7293 Жыл бұрын
My strategy is to delete his number and let it go somehow...
@mayvanessasoliman7925 Жыл бұрын
All i can say in this world my life are made for brokenheart as always...😢
@amitha44622 жыл бұрын
But Matt, when I ask my BF to follow through, he tosses the question back saying I should follow through. I guess the next time when this happens, I m going to ask “ who is the man in the relationship ?”