im so confused all the time

january 19, 2024

[@comodyno]

this video is such a vibe honestly

[@Incommensurabilities]

❤✌

[@ariemarie6471]

I don't know why I was recommended this video but it definitely struck me hard as someone who was also in a similar mindset for a long period of time. What helped me honestly was to just focus on the small things in my life that brought me any joy, the little things. I was too focused on the bigger picture, being successful, just trying to make it through to the big life goals. Graduate high school, graduate college, get married, etc etc. I did this without focusing on the life I was living in between. I realized that as amazing and important as those are too, the small things that happen in between are what's really important. Right now I'm relaxing and drinking a cup of coffee, earlier I was playing with my new kitten. I meet up with my friends every Tuesday to spend time with them. You don't need to always know where you're going or where you'll end up. You don't always need to know what to do with your life, you just need to live it.

[@AnnePfaff]

i don’t know why its being recommended to people either 😭 thank you for your lovely comment, it has been hard to stay present so you for the reminder ❤

[@GoStormPlays]

Hey Anne. I used to feel the same way, honestly. Life can be confusing, terrible, or downright depressing a lot of the time. Life can change so much in so short an amount of time, and it can make us feel lost in the deep sea that is this world. What you have to remember is that the small struggles that we face day-to-day are just temporary. If we put our hope and trust in the right things, we can get through it. There's an analogy that I used a while back that I think illustrates this quite well: Imagine your favorite painting in your head. Now imagine just one insignificant looking random spot on it. When just looking at the spot, the painting can seem dumb and silly, but when you zoom out and get the whole picture you see that that small insignificant-seeming spot contributed to making the whole painting as beautiful as it is. Without that one spot, the painting would lose a lot of its beauty. Our lives can seem pretty insignificant and dumb at times, but we have to remember that we're part of a bigger picture than you or I could I ever realize. I'd be happy to continue this discussion if you want to. God bless.

[@NinoPega]

I love this comment

[@GoStormPlays]

@@NinoPega Thank you.

[@zarrowthehorse]

life is all about struggling, too. Maybe that sounds depressing, but there's something about knowing that that helps me.

[@GoStormPlays]

@@zarrowthehorse I don't know if life is about struggling, but struggles are going to come in your life. You just need to make sure you're prepared for those struggles.

[@ra14an]

Lord knows how this vid popped up in my feed but I'm glad it did. I hope you have a wonderful day as well Anne and also go and own those meetings like you're the BOSS😅

[@AnnePfaff]

awww thank you 🥺

[@megmurry5904]

Omg SAME. Esp as a student it's like, what else is my life? I try to focus on doing things like crafts I enjoy and not putting presure on myslef to be perfect or anything.

[@404-UserNotFound]

Hi Anne! Thank you for taking the time and energy to make this! I hope you had a good Friday, and I hope you're doing alright!

[@theparanoidandroid3583]

I don't have any good advice but know that lots of people feel this way x

[@u_o_me_a_muffin]

This video… I can relate. I’m in college yet I still don’t know what I want to do with my life, nor do I understand it. I was also homeschooled for quite a bit so I have no friends… no social life. It’s honestly tough. I’ve also applied to jobs last year so I could feel like I’m being productive or find some sort of meaning to my sad life, yet no success so I ended up quitting trying to even find a job and just focus on school and what I enjoy doing. It’s quite demotivating and confusing. But my best advice for you, you’re still young. You have a LOT of time to figure things out. I know it feels hopeless, you’re not alone on this since many of us are also in a similar position. It’s normal not to know, so try to be more kind to yourself and try to put less pressure on yourself. Our purpose is to just enjoy this weird experience we call life, and learn from it. I wish you well, just know you aren’t alone. We’re all really clueless…

[@AnnePfaff]

trueee i had never felt as confused and alone than i did in college. maybe it's something that we weave in and out of as we navigate life. we have time!

[@Mettlord3000]

Ah, I understand this feeling all too well. Take care out there. (Also, thank you KZbin recommendations for showing me this)

[@beenisweenisiii3825]

I feel like I always expected there to be some perfect way I could be living and I hated myself for not knowing it. It was so unfair that I couldn't figure out the right way of living, and it felt like if I didn't figure it out soon, then I never would, and I'd be doomed to fail. But recently, I've come to the realisation that that's exactly how everyone else feels, too. The people I know who "have shit figured out" are just trying their best. They dont know how to live their perfect lives either. So, I'm just going to give things a shot, and hopefully, it works out.

[@thelightside77]

I completely agree with everything you just said.

[@GoGo-ze1mq]

This video is damn incredible. You have achieved a kind of perfection with it's simplicity, huge props to you Ann. The first 10 seconds are so on point it seems like the beginning of a movie.

[@AnnePfaff]

aww thank you so much

[@ETFRoss]

Yup. Doesnt get much better either. I thank God for my family though.

[@junoismad]

oh i feel this, hope you had a good weekend and good luck in everythig!

[@liesl5313]

Idk why but I kind of really needed to hear this today. I’m graduating college soon and thought I’d have my life figured out by now but I just don’t. I try to take it one day at a time but I don’t really know what to think about the future. Anyway, I wish you luck in figuring life out too Anne.

[@AnnePfaff]

when i was about to graduate it felt like the scariest thing in the world and it seemed like nobody else felt that way. you’re not alone!

[@RocketBirdz]

I def didn't find this video, this video found me

[@coscorrodrift]

same, i've been applying to only positions where i think i'd be a fit but i barely even get acknowledged, which makes me doubt myself. it's honestly brought me so down. sometimes i try to do what the comment with the most likes says, to be present, enjoy the little things, friend's company, a good meal, that i have a roof over my head, etc. then i remember that it's my relationship to those things what holds me in this tension and doesn't let me feel truly grateful. how can i be grateful of a home cooked meal or a roof over my head if it comes with an unspoken bond where i have all the weight of disappointment? or enjoy a moment with friends when they're seeded with doubt

[@AnnePfaff]

i feel the exact same way, and in the past few months I have been trying to explore my connection with people, my environment, and things and why so much shame and guilt comes up that prevents me from truly experiencing gratefulness. it's so hard to sort out the thought processes in your own head but it feels worth it... i think it comes with a lot of grace for yourself and self-forgiveness to start seeing where the blockages lie. but yeah continually getting rejected makes me feel like im on a ticking clock that will explode soon, but every day the sun rises again and nothing devastating has happened so i keep going :/

[@Andy_Babb]

I know how you feel. I’m having a hard time wanting to move forward bc I’ve lost everything. I hope you find peace and feel better.

[@giovanilha]

Hope you get the job, take care!

[@MLCloneCODgamer]

Count me as one of the people who randomly got this suggested to, but take joy in knowing that every cloud has the bright sun hidden behind it, waiting to shine for you again. Have a blessed day, and I'm sure that something bright comes your way. This also goes out to all the confused and frustrated people out there

[@BryceDoesLife]

god i feel this

[@a-love-supremist]

a friend of mine was telling me they've applied for 200 positions and still can't land a job, it's real out there

[@cassandraaltman715]

Hope you're doing alright today

[@gmg1154]

You are amazing girls.. I love you

[@Speeddekhmeri]

I thought I might be the only one with this problem sometimes I get so confused that I take half an hour to should I eat samosa or drink faluda 😂

[@NinoPega]

I too feel that way. when im at school i just like get confused whple day. maybe cuz im autistric idk have a good week :3

[@liiiiish]

I hope you’re okay, and I bid you good luck on everything in your life. Life gets better, I promise

[@manomanotutu]

incredible 🖤

[@gaa6218]

Well, we all have a time period like the one you are having, but everything ends making sense, so keep going 💪🏻

[@Danuxsy]

Anne I'm your biggest fan and you are amazing!!

[@teoextreme]

There is one quote I've heard somewhere that I constantly need to remind myself to: "Often in life... you feel so bad that you think to yourself that you'll never feel better, but the truth is that eventually... *things will always get better*... and it will usually happen when you least expect it." Also, personally, when I feel terrible... than I find that quote very difficult to believe in, but then as soon as I get better, I think to myself "damn, I did it again". Good luck in your future job, you'll fell so proud once you master it.

[@souzousplinters7128]

so real. thx 4 sharing

[@starfosh]

I hope you are ok anne, I feel the same way

[@addisonlandis2855]

is youtube just randomly recommending this to everyone lol I don't know you but I hope you have a good friday too :) (it's saturday now but still)

[@CanonInDsharp]

yeah same here

[@ШералиБакоев-я6щ]

So pretty 😘😘

[@vieyes5tom256]

i feel this

[@EldritchOlivia]

:0 a cool person!! i hope u had a nice friday :3

[@SOak145]

This is like watching a female version of myself. I don't know (x3). I'm confused AF too. What even is life, anymore. Have a good rest of your week everybody bye.

[@salemccc]

truly a vibe. subbed.

[@i_am_just_trying_to_animate]

Bestie same

[@sakoora4412]

I get it, hope you have a Good Friday 2

[@no1legobatmanfan]

i hope you had a nice weekend anne

[@endofblackpill]

It's ok red faction is coming out next week.

[@sophiecharlotte8314]

Same girl

[@MennoSchreuder]

Good video, honest and real 👍 Wish you the best, I'll pray for you. Jesus loves you.

[@Joe-pu3qi]

Dont THINK. Works for me

[@Indigo657]

Me too bro me too

[@mohammedsaleemkeepitsmile5728]

Nice

[@artificiyal]

keep making these

[@user-hb3so4ib1n]

me too

[@imagrandpazombie]

Me too Anne 🎉

[@haulein]

Good luck ok your job meeting

[@hellenmadeitt]

love you

[@erinmcmath9709]

life is weird and wonderful gf

[@thelemon5069]

Yup

[@Bluzlbee]

the universe is rigged, don't worry, just roll with it, if life was a d20 atm, the current timeline is a d6 don't compare yourself to others either (if you do), stay head strong by staying physically active and reading philosophy wish you the best

[@jamesscutt1969]

Don't be confused go for what you want

[@ilikemovies22]

Real

[@raphfung]

real

[@mr_murmiaucher3876]

good luck with client

[@fiveflames2636]

Maybe try to find a good man and become a housewife? …and maybe in the future have babies. It’s still a noble thing despite what society claims.

[@thanhnguyen-ht2zv]

im new so just wanna check in... r u still confused?? :)

[@AnnePfaff]

LOL yeah i think i will be for a while

[@advaitawho]

Wtf is this? 🤣

[@Hedonistic_RnR]

If I find this interesting or entertaining am I a misogynist ?

[@R4K4R4]

Only if you wouldnt find it interesting or entertaining anymore if a dude said it :P

[@GuardianAngel4Christ]

Part of the problem is not you so stop being hard on yourself. Our so-called leadership has given our country away and how a young person can survive nowadays is beyond me. Pray God leads the right people into your life and don't run them off if you realize they are sent.

[@Jaytheflyguy1]

i’m confused now 😐