EP 4: Releasing Offense Through Forgiveness

[@Dayjielly]

I saw a someone say, “You may not always be able to forgive and forget, but you need to forgive every time you remember” and that has stuck with me ever since.

[@DreaKay]

I was running away from this episode because I didn't want to "deal with God" anymore...in actuality, I didn't want to deal with "ME" and my unforgiveness. Now i'm sitting here journaling and crying!!

[@middletonl1737]

Praise God for redemption

[@CrystalFoster-vm5gn]

Prayers for healing on your journey! 🙏🏾

[@tl5540]

It shows how classy of a person you are. To have your platform and you chose not to bash, but talk about your truth and forgiveness all while keeping your integrity. I applaud you Megan Ashley for raising the standard. You’re amazing.

[@chiramcbeth]

My biggest struggle in life is forgiving myself. I could have avoided so many scenarios if only I was properly taking care of my mental health first.

[@GoogleAccount00]

Now you know better. Continue to take care of your mental health and simply apply the wisdom that you now have. The past is the past. To reconcile the should have, could have, would have, simply do better going forward. Give yourself some grace 💛

[@MarieFouche8]

Same you are not alone sis

[@OG_Genesis216]

"Love people when they don't love you, love people when they hate you, turn the other cheek when they slap the other. Its not for the flesh, it's to strengthen your soul. " -Megan Ashley That's deep and also so true.

[@walkingministries5803]

This is so good. As I’m listening the Holy Spirit is also saying these unforgiveness is also a form of PRIDE. Because we tend to want to have control over what we can “keep” and/ or “release” but what many don’t realize is that when you do not forgive, you are also hindering your prayers being answered by God. So sometimes people are a by product of their own outcomes because they refuse to forgive others. Holding onto unforgiveness allows the enemy to keep you in bondage of that situation versus being set free.

[@chelciedaniel6963]

Whew! A message!

[@charnitag1420]

Listen forgiveness of self is real! I’m still learning to forgive myself, but what resonates most is that I know Jesus died for the forgiveness of my sins, and I whole heartedly believe this and stand on this, so it helps me to be reminded that his death was intentional and not in vain, and I acknowledge that every time the enemy tries to condemn me with the mistakes of my old nature, I remind myself that my identity is in Christ, and that through him I am forgiven and I have redemption! Amazing Grace, How sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me, Hallelujah 🙌🏾

[@Cattia]

I love this ❤

[@soulfulsoul7216]

For you to even be able to come up with the brand In Totality, and for it be so fitting, and for you to already have such a wonderful community in this small time of this new beginning , speaks so much volume 🎁. It’s simply a beautiful attest to Gods Plans for you 💜 Jeremiah 29:11 God is Proud of You 🕊️

[@Mrskelly2you]

Holding on to anything in your heart didn’t make Jesus’s cross lighter, He still died for it so release it to him

[@DeniseCanales-r1c]

Forgiveness is heavily needed in my life right now and the guidance shared is serving me just what I need to make sure I make it to the other side. Thank you for your vulnerability, Meg. ❤

[@Kaytjackson]

The Bait of Satan was given to me by my Aunt when I was 22, it took 10 years to forgive somethings back then and today at 44 still going through the process of forgiveness! That book is POWERFUL💞 Everyone should read it

[@myajones-yk9dq]

Forgive people ! The people who hurt you will move on with their lives and god will continue to bless them so you either can watch them and be mad in the corner or move forward and live fully in what god has for you. It’s hard but it’s what’s best.

[@getemsligh106]

If God ain’t trying to do nothing else He sho nuff trying to kill this pride and ego I’m dealing with. Forgiveness will do that. The fact that I have to forgive you knowing you did me wrong is one of the hardest things to do but when you choose to die to self daily this is part of it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Ayochun]

Forgiveness also means, that you will not post Instagram stories of quotes that points to what the other person did to you.

[@dopemanjace]

True Talk

[@Kat_Apiata]

"You gotta see yourself the way God sees you" this is so so soooo true. When you step away from societies view of how you should be and know who you are in God EVEEEEERYTHING changes sis ❤❤❤

[@perlaneblett1830]

Hey Megan, today is my 25th birthday. I have dedicated the word “Obideience” to 2024 & I have been doing away with things day by day as 2024 progresses. I just want you to know that I have heard these same sentiments a million and one times, BUT TODAY I REALLY heard it. I am going to forgive my sisters, my husband & myself TODAY. Thank you so much for creating and uploading this message. Please keep pressing into God, the fruit of your worship & reverence for Christ is evident.

[@DCBoyzFan]

Forgiveness like change starts at home.. I forgave myself for all the pain I caused myself in 20/22, it released me to become the man God created me to be..

[@shes_ah_truckher7716]

Megan Ashely ❤ you’re like a Godly Therapist for us. Sharing your personal experiences, and giving us Godly wisdom. That’s amazing ❤

[@auriannaharrell3057]

My dad recently passed away and around that time I found this channel. My father was a pastor so I grew up in church but haven't gone in years. It's funny to me because I have multiple people in my life who I thought I had forgiven but I couldn't forget, this episode has started the process towards that. I honestly can hear my Dad's voice throughout this. Thank you.

[@walkingministries5803]

So sorry for your loss ❤

[@sajdahsamuels4037]

💕💕

[@lemogangmonnahela9091]

Sending God's healing your way. My dad recently passed too.💞💞💞💞💞

[@MarieFouche8]

Everyone of the In totality videos I’ve watched is like Abba Father is reaffirming that he hears me,he cares, and he is speaking. He uses his children to speak and I am so grateful for his love, and also grateful for the vessel that he has used in Megan Ashley.

[@meagan.phillip]

Something I’m also learning about the topic of forgiveness is ASKING for forgiveness from the people who wronged you ! Forgive them for the resentment and negative thoughts you’ve harbored against them because of the past. Extremely difficult but freedom is on the other side of that

[@OhThatsAngie]

I really pray that you read the positive comments and seeing that that you are loved out here in these virtual streets. You are a smart woman who is GONE GET what’s yours sis. Those who have lost you, leave them where they are. Respectfully and lovingly. If that connection was meant to be, it will be. I have forgiven myself, all else… no matter what it is WILL FOLLOW 💯❤️

[@susanwhitaker5844]

David said, "Make their children fatherless." Give it to God and NOT your friends (talking to myself). That kind of release prepares the way for forgiveness. Good word, lady. GOOD WORD!!

[@LeasiaNaje]

You have to learn to forgive even when it hurts you but I always pray over it and ask God to heal me and let go of the hurt.

[@Taysbookbabel]

I forgive freely - but it’s definitely hard to forget!

[@ashleighnetter]

Joseph reveals the human journey to the path of forgiveness. Thank you for highlighting forgiveness is a path of choosing to release the offense.

[@ServantofJesus247]

Forgiveness used to be truly hard for me. Now Its less difficult. reconciliation is a whole different story especially if there is no change on the offenders part.

[@oshania1595]

In here like a swimwear!!! 😂

[@moniqueparks388]

😂

[@Jacquelin-v4g]

Lmao me too 😂

[@taylored8819]

🏊‍♂️🏊‍♂️🏊‍♂️🏊‍♂️🏊‍♂️🏊‍♂️

[@sunshine32375]

Stg 😂😂😂

[@perfectionreleased2113]

And you know it 😭

[@jessw1358]

Forgiveness is the starting place for freedom. I was in a season where I thought i had forgiven but instead of walking into the new, i chose to pick that offense back up because it felt more comfortable to be at odds with that person than to truly do the work to reconcile that relationship. God revealed that in order for me to step into my next I couldn't carry the baggage from the past. Letting it go really means leaving it behind and operating from Agape love; Love without expectation.

[@Beautiful383]

Meg you are really doing TRUE GOD WORK!!! You have answered the call & you will forever be blessed & protected 🙏🏽 I’m rooting for you no matter what. You have played a major roll in my spiritual JOURNEY & I’m forever appreciative for what you’ve given & taken. ❤💫

[@jayshaun87]

Working through Jackie’s Devo as well! I love to remember that God will not forgive me if I’m holding a grudge. I forgive for me even if I’m still hurt. I speak forgiveness, I speak truth of my hurt and I go to the God of All Comfort❤

[@jesusencounteredtv]

Forgiveness is a must ❤️🙏🏾 Ephesians 4:32 Be kind and helpful to one another, tender-hearted [compassionate, understanding], forgiving one another [readily and freely], just as God in Christ also forgave you.

[@ladysteph6460]

YOU BETTER PREACH IT, TEACH IT AND PROPHESY IT. The TRUTH THAT WE KNOW SHALL SET US FREE 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@goldenlifelove7251]

This is soooo good!! I'm doing a lot of internal work & prayer about the unforgiveness I've been harboring. This episode is so healing & just what I needed. My ex shattered my heart, but I've been really working on forgiving him. This podcast really helps me

[@taylorjohnson783]

Megan, you have the anointing! Continue to let God use you! "Forgiveness is not only our responsibility, but our duty" really hit for me. There is truly so much freedom in releasing and I felt the spirit when you said that. God wants us to see us as he sees us and I'm so grateful for his continued grace & mercy.

[@SpiritualLo]

Meg was the one who was supposed to preaching to us in the first place she just needed that little push and her bff to hold her hand for a while. But YOU GOT IT NOW MEGAN. THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE

[@DeniseCanales-r1c]

I need to run this episode back with my Notebook and Pen. It's like the perfect timing for me to embrace what I've been struggling with my whole life. Thank you, Meg.

[@greenegirllifestyles]

How I adore you!!!! You're such an incredible blessing. Keep walking as the Lord's friend ❤

[@veronicanunley5190]

Megan, Thank you for this . I woke up 2024 grateful to God , then I said I want to watch something positive ti start my year. I turned to this and Wow. LOVE IT. PLEASE DO MORE IN 2024. I FEEL I know this will help others in this season as well as positive mindset. Love u sister in Christ u inspire me. Vee

[@theresapatrice4776]

I love this episode. Currently working on forgiving myself ❤

[@teshayosephine4582]

I love this episode, its healing and very close to my heart. Thank you Megan ❤

[@brittaneyh.6656]

This is a timely episode. Thank you for allowing God to use you in this way ❤

[@zoiehackney4194]

Forgiveness promotes healing❤

[@heidivereen2927]

Thank you for giving us this show. Thank you for your vulnerability and openness about each topic you have discussed so far. You are such an amazing, incredible, and inspiring human being. Keep pressing your way through and keeping God first in any and everything you do. He will be your guide, and He will NEVER leave you astray.

[@Sitfrontrow]

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I saved this episode when it was released, but God had me wait to watch it today 1/2/24.

[@therisanyomoyunda9390]

Trust me I meditated on forgiveness and 4 weeks ago, I remember thinking the book of psalms says forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us,it fought in my mind,I was so busy with life I forgot about it. Here we are, he can only forgive me only if I forgive those who trespass against me

[@melanietarrio3309]

Thank you Megan for allowing Christ to use you 👏🏾. My Lord has been dealing with me about forgiveness so this message is on point. Thank you!

[@marykanono409]

Am glad to see this version of you Meg, you encourage me that healing is indeed powerful

[@itss_lxiii]

This was so good. I literally broke down and just cried bc honestly and truly forgiving can be one of the hardest things to do

[@lesaamashigo_]

You are anointed Megan,can’t wait to see what more God has in store for you🥺❤️🙌🏾

[@coukeys17]

Much Needed. I've been struggling with forgiveness for the longest. I hold grudges and it makes me bitter. I want to forgive but it's difficult especially when the other person doesnt see their wrong. But I digress

[@GoogleAccount00]

Remember forgiveness is for you and not for the person who has offended or hurt you. The forgiveness releases you from the pain and rumination of their act. They don’t have to be apologetic or show penitence, but you also don’t have to be in close relationship with them; you can set boundaries. You are attempting to be controlling (playing God) by demanding that the other person do or say something in order for you to implement forgiveness. What also helps is gaining an understanding, and looking at things from a different perspective. What can you learn about yourself from the situation, how can the situation make you better? You got this! Set yourself free! ❤

[@coukeys17]

Thank you for your advice. Much appreciated @@GoogleAccount00

[@Blessedbeauty527]

I love this episode so much already 5:20 offense is definitely the bait of satan smh!!!!! Thank you God for the power to forgive and the privilege of being forgiven 😭🙌🏾

[@Destiny.Gaines]

Good teaching!!!! This was on point and very much needed! Lord I thank you for making me new! I release trauma from past relationships/ friendships, the trust issues it gave me and any hurt I held on to. In return I gain the strength to go forward with peace & happiness!! Amen that was so goodT

[@Luvdowtin]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Beautifully spoken. Forgiveness releases you from so many things and prevents any struggle to move forward. Amazing podcast❤

[@xotiffany7]

This episode is so good! Im listening to it for a 2nd time within 24 hours. Thank you Megan!

[@iAmTeshaMarie]

Soooo many people could benefit from this message. Including myself. I needed to hear this, so helpful. Thanks for this 💕💕

[@jemimatakwi]

This episode was so good. God opened my mind and heart to forgiveness last month and I started to remember all the times I knew God forgave me. Forgiveness isn’t easy but it’s necessary.

[@liingee]

I seriously don’t understand how you can share all of this love so effortlessly and in such a way that we can follow and it be so simple. THANK YOU MEGAN seriously thank you from the bottom of my heart for your service. If the rumors of you and B are true - I hope you guys find your way back together 🤍

[@kimwoods267]

I needed this. I really needed to forgive my son‘s father and move on so I can receive blessings.

[@kidquaydenise90]

THIS WAS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOOD. I was truly revealed to myself. and was able to put down so much i had been carrying. it feels like the road to true progress can finally begin.

[@jazminealysia]

Megan Ashley you are ministering, if to no one else TO ME, God brought me to you podcast as support for you into this new era of your journey from where you were. And as that same girl “still fighting that fight” ive indulged into your content and will continue to do so because you’re just the intermediary christian figure I was yearning to have for fellowship and guidance(even through social media connections)❤

[@jazminealysia]

and I’m bringing everybody looking right here too!

[@queenzee_unpack4511]

I needed this episode I will watch episode 5 today aswel. I love you Megan so so much and thank you so so much for reminding me that it’s ok to feel betrayed but we need to FORGIVE thank you so much sis. God is doing amazing work through YOU ❤

[@kaylabell3855]

Wheeeewww this episode hits different! Needed this.

[@AAA34FL448]

I'm learning so much from your book recommendation. I went out and bought Bait of Satan, and I want to thank you for offering that up. It has helped me so much, and I'm not even halfway done yet. Sometimes, a fresh/different perspective is all you need. God is always on your side. Keep going, Megan 🙏👏

[@jessicalong6011]

I needed this for sure. Father help 🙏🏾 Thank you ❤

[@duretti]

The way you talk and articulate your words allows every word sink deep for me... ❤🇰🇪 Thank you for this

[@Patience_Grace]

Thanks!

[@_GoldisLove]

I am so grateful for you Megan Ashley. To be this vulnerable and strong to still share, lead and learn with us , is remarkable. Truly God’s servant. One of his strongest soliders. So, thank you again, thank you for your advice, perspectives and wisdom. Bless ✨

[@TiannaUncommon]

This is so on time! At the beginning of this week I decided to put real effort into forgiving others and learning about it as much as I could and then this episode comes. God has been telling me it’s time 🙌🏾

[@nikasnook]

Same here😌🙏🏽

[@jay_hovita]

This is the first time I've followed a podcast from the very beginning. After already experiencing Megan's growth through the years on the KFS pod, I'm excited to continue to witness the evolution of her growth in this space as well. I'm on my own personal journey...similar to Megan's in various ways and it's content like this that keeps me going in my day to day. I honestly don't know how I've made it this far and continue to make it... Through God and this type of content He has really been KEEPING me. AND THAT CALL!!!! EXACTLY ME IN THIS SEASON RIGHT NOW!!!!!

[@kaylafleming6527]

Literally love you Megan, you have truly been an inspiration to me…… thank you!!!❤️

[@amberbug90]

I agree, forgiveness is for BOTH ppl involved.

[@Splenda333]

God made me watch this more than once… I hear you

[@xchorro]

proud of you megan, i knew since the podcast with jackie you had the conviction and drive for Jesus in your heart. Keep going forward this is a hard path but He promised He will never leave you or forsake You. He is standing with you making you more like Him layer after layer

[@Lilpudss]

From day one your testimony & words from God have always been fitting for my life. This one though….. you stated bible stories that have been repeated to me this week. I needed this real bad. You are God sent… keep walking into your purpose.

[@kyeashapeterson398]

Forgiveness is hard but when you do release makes you feel better! Took me a while to learn this. Great episode ❤🙏🏾🙌🙌

[@C.oleu80]

Really thankful for your podcast, since I started paying more attention to every single positivity you uttered in your message completely changed my life.

[@cokolove3152]

In a short amount of time …you said so much…I was never into podcast until KFS and you’ve always been a light…people don’t understand that is a great responsibility…Thank you for showing me how to walk in that light…I really want to see you and Sarah J. Roberts you women are phenomenal women and definitely needed during this time!!!

[@thebakdrop]

Thank you Meg for this episode. This whole year i have been confronted with this message of forgiveness. One of the things that stands out is we tend to think that an apology or a sorry or admission from the offender will heal but i came to learn that healing only comes from God. And many times this year i have had to do the action of opening my hands repeatedly as i declare that I release this person and all the emotions attached to God. And at the point that we open up and release it to the Lord is the point that he can start to heal us. We give God the permission to start our healing since he is the only one that can heal when we release our pain and offense to him. Thank you Meg. Love from Uganda 🇺🇬

[@Jay_quise]

speaking big facts! my life changeed big after learning how to forgive. Amen

[@Kendra_KG]

Well said Megan. Well said. I have been working on forgiveness for about a month now. Now I have your video to assist me along my journey. I greatly appreciate this. ❤

[@bibliciousTV]

Keep being a light 💡 thank you for this video ❤

[@therisanyomoyunda9390]

Before I even start with this episode,this is my girl❤

[@chandiamond8546]

This was a word Meg! So helpful because I really struggle with this but want to be better ❤ You are right Gods way is the answer always

[@ReeB727]

I need to be forgiven …. Literally watching this podcast God stopped me and made me look at myself as a grown woman . Although this happened as a child it’s crucial to heal the inner child in me and that other person ! Drawing nearer to God allows you to SEE … wether it be little or small . GOD SAYS forgive , I needed every bit of this .

[@massielmartinez1579]

Been counting down since last week ❤ yayyy now an hour of some soul food for real

[@SloanesWorld]

Gods will not mine mindset always, thank you for being you! 🩷

[@Trulymichellerenee]

Thank you Megan, this is what we want!

[@CoolGTag578]

You are truly AMAZING!! I really needed this thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@marchmadness3129]

Love your pod in the mornings w a cup of coffee. You’re also so pretty! - p.s I didn’t know I was gonna tear up on this one. Hit home for sure.

[@kaiyanikki1014]

🙏🏾Thank you so much for this Megan!

[@Listentomusicist]

A powerful encouragement and reminder, amen 🙏🏾

[@brenaefernander7554]

I must say this is good medicine for my soul.

[@niac2024]

Another truth banger Megan 💕

[@ashleydunbar9179]

Wow! Didn’t want this episode to end. So grateful for a part two 🙏🏽

[@Nichole4Hope]

Thanks for sharing that devotional. A reminder to purchase it. Had it on my list.

[@womanofvalor7]

Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him.

[@taneshastern7881]

Grace and Mercy ❤

[@TheTrapicorn]

Thank you Megan 🥺🫶🏽

[@TiaMia0707]

I’m offended by one of my aunt’s husband- I forgive him but my trouble was moving forward with wisdom in how to carry on with this person- this my prayer now. ❤ I’m not sec righteous but I don’t want to partake with that person anymore. Tell me if I’m wrong in this way of thinking children of God?