4 Things That Will Make People Like You More - Formula Of Friendship

[@jackowen85]

Her: Can I please go now? Me holding a stopwatch: We HaVe To GeT mOrE dUrAtIoN

[@joseangelamayaandrion8228]

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[@calicochronicler6922]

Lmaoo I felt that 😂😂😂

[@louiji391]

Did it work?

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[@erivelaj1241]

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[@29957fred]

I feels like an alien trying to assimilate into human society.

[@irasac1]

Lmao

[@Takejiro24]

This comment is such a mood

[@emanuela9611ify]

I think I never related to a comment so much

[@ranjanamajumdar7302]

Me too !!!

[@LazyLewisTV]

Actual laughed out loud, like what is wrong with me?

[@autumnalannaliese]

I love how he breaks everything down into a science, instead of saying “just be yourself”

[@anthonyraucci9304]

Yeah when people say “just be yourself” I think “we’ll being myself is to just be quiet” lmao

[@Masked_madness09]

When people say "be yourself" it actually needs to be best version of you :),

[@autumnalannaliese]

@@Masked_madness09 true

[@michelenardin9189]

It's really helpful for people like me, because I'm bad at reading body language and bad at social skills, so this kind of helps me break down and have a rational look at my friendships

[@talamuffy3094]

@@anthonyraucci9304 right like Ik that’s definitely not going to do anything for me. I need a step by step guide

[@jamesluu1763]

It's hard to make new friends when those people have many close friends and don't wanna make more.

[@pupu416]

Usually people do tho?

[@Jojosiwo]

Do not worry sooner or later that friendship is going to fall apart ...and maybe the person u want to be friends...is going to pursue u.... Lol. But..naah...nobody wants to be friend of someone who sees you as last opcion...

[@Mimi-qt7ee]

I agree

[@MrBlodhund]

Start meditating. Read books, workout become higher up in the hiearchy. Do this by meditating everyday. Work out and reading cool books, be yourself. Be kind. Check out the rest of Improvement Pills video

[@akapi7386]

MrBlodhund did you change?

[@Ryan-be8sd]

You know you're an introvert when you're watching videos on how to make friends lol

[@bubbleteapinkmilk928]

Like just in the case of emergency...

[@verda3665]

Ryan Singh im an extrovert person but still

[@hermikp9193]

Welp 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@tomakapec1909]

Actually i am an introvert and i have tons of friends which i hang out a lot still i want homies, which i dont have!

[@marcovargasramirez1576]

Can relate lol :/

[@MichaelJayValueInvesting]

This is tough when you are living in Antarctica.

[@NotBanned_]

I highly doubt you got the joke WOOOOOOOOOSH

[@johnnyjoestar7595]

just like when you have social anxiety and the last time you went out was some months ago .

[@BRUH10155]

You could befriend some penguins

[@orfeas8]

@@BRUH10155 YES!

[@whysoserious8581]

Whaaaat!!

[@fistbump4403]

Duration of 11- thanking the bus driver

[@gatsbyspet9344]

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[@evaningstar7190]

@@gatsbyspet9344 😱

[@luke-gz9nc]

fortnite?

[@MasculineMan]

I remember back in business school I was taught the most important skill to have is to be able to network and meet people. Yet the only thing I learned in school was Math lol I always found that strange, like why not teach a class on how to meet people? I think Being able to cultivate meaningful relationships is probably the most important skill anyone could learn when it comes to dating, business, family, or friendships (really anything in life) There is not really a course that really exists out there that talks about this. Great content mate, if you ever want to try a different animation style let me know :)

[@tomakapec1909]

Wow mitch manly the real one

[@CHO-tr9ih]

Yeah, we students really suck at human interactions that we actually need help😩

[@predraggrujic2239]

What do we call ourselves? Improvement addicts? Pill squad? Tamed Bees? I just wanna be able to say something like "Where my Improvement fam at?" and get a ton of likes when I'm early on a video like this

[@predraggrujic2239]

THAT IS SO PERFECT LMAO

[@MrBlodhund]

Seriously pill. Your "friends" need a name ;) What About "Pillers" maybe a joke reference to being addicted to drugs But with your name

[@guesswhoami4723]

Predrag Grujic holy shit this is gold 😂👌 Lmao

[@OutPushing]

Pill Poppers?

[@Sealwithwificonnection]

Paul Mariager lol like this one

[@helz151]

I just want to say thank you, I am a 15 year old high functioning autistic girl and I have always found it really hard to make friends and how to make them better friends. I have also been stressing because I don't know what they see me as. Putting it in a point system with different categories and ways to improve will help me keep track of it all and help me know what to do if I want to for example make a friend become a close friend. It makes me feel like I have control of the situation and making friends now does not seem so random and hard. Thank you so much :) you are changing my life

[@SpaceThing5]

Hi, I'm also a 15 year old autistic girl struggling with navigating socialization and friendships and stuff. just want to say you're not alone and I wish you the best ^^

[@OwFan88]

@@SpaceThing5 I play brawl stars 💀 I don't think anyone likes me... But I wish you the best and hope you have made a lot of friends!!

[@shreyasproi6768]

Formula Of Friendship Proximity- how physically close you are when you interact with the person Duration- how long are your interactions Frequency- how often do you see and interact with this person Intensity- how much emotion is sparked during your interactions Increase the Points to Level up the Closeness

[@darajohnson4617]

The four things as a tl;dr Proximity- how physically close you are when you interact with the person Duration- how long are your interactions Frequency- how often do you see and interact with this person Intensity- how much emotion is sparked during your interactions

[@iNicky777]

damn.. I can't believe how you just explained friendship using math..

[@siddhesh34000]

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[@iNicky777]

@@siddhesh34000 exactly..

[@aleenaabdullatheef3915]

@@siddhesh34000 couldn't relate moree!

[@janamitrovic2047]

I have to admit, this course is so well done. Like this guy is literally giving you ones of the best explained, visualized, interesting and right classes in the world and that's totally for free?! you are still complaining?!?! if you want to change your social life, you have to work on it, AND THIS GUY LITERALLY GAVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED!?!?! LIKE YOU DONT HAVE TO READ SO MANY BOOKS TO GET TO THIS POINT?!?! this is just like a school class, some people complain that the problem is in the teacher, some that the problem is in course and actually all that is the problem is you. if you want to change, you will HAVE to work on it.

[@jikman681]

Do you want to know how i have 30 close friends according to this? What social magic did I use to accomplish that? Its simple im in the military XD

[@williamsalazar244]

I had one close friend but he passed away. I am now older and wiser with the knowledge he passed onto me.

[@nibbax7772]

Guess I gotta join the military now

[@nondescript4311]

I guess i need to join military now.

[@TheBaron97]

Dang, you really analyzed the friendship formula and nailed it down in the simplest way possible. Great video 👍

[@tommac21]

Really because not one word of it is true

[@trish__0144]

Needed this! I’m tired of being awkward around others, and having such few friends.

[@tommac21]

Don't take his seriously. Not one word of thisvis true. You can't make someone like you or be your friend. This is totally up to the other person

[@traymiller9837]

quit trying to make friends, you don’t need em. y’all ain’t see past certain things and jump to youtube videos but trust me y’all are in the best position in your life

[@colegatito]

When your best friend has enough points to qualify as a s.o.

[@Rosie-tm8ln]

But your actual S.O. only has enough points to qualify as a "close friend" 😅

[@christinepan.1149]

This is extremely random but I LOVE your profile pic💜💜

[@pepsuuu7095]

What does s.o means

[@chillincarrot7069]

@@pepsuuu7095 Significant Other or a boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife, basically

[@louiseleite3866]

Introverts don't have problems with making friend. People with social anxiety and Avoidant Personality Disorder do.

[@talharaza1901]

You're really helpful and full of knowledge dude, I love all your teachings

[@sheikhabdullah873]

I don't want people's acceptance. I am who I am. And I do what makes me happy

[@jawadoumar]

*being in the same class *sitting next to each other *talking during lectures *being in same hostel room *sleeping on the same bed *eating together *studying together *playing together *laughing together. Damnnnnnnnn.... That's how me and my friends live.

[@shadowshaman1521]

I really liked a pretty girl in my class a couple of years ago. We saw each other very often and we even travelled in the same bus, but there was no interaction and minimum eye contact. I faced my fears of approaching her and before we knew it we would sit together everyday as we took the bus to and from school, the relationship escalated fast and I soon became one of her close friends simply by facing my fear of rejection and increasing proximity, frequency and depth. ( This actually works )

[@americohagim1131]

How’s it going now?

[@shadowshaman1521]

@Americo Hagim she moved country's and had a change of heart, when we finally met again after several years... I travelled to see her) she had moved on with someone else. Was really painful letting her go bcuz I loved her since I was 10 now I'm 20, but life goes on eh... I'm still getting over her lol but I've learned a lot about life and relationships with women since.

[@musicworld1717]

Best course available out there on internet . Thank you so much .you changed my life

[@mateopuna98]

For anyone interested, so far most of this course's principles come from "The Like Switch". It's a great book, and I recommend it to anyone truly interested in improving even further his or her social skills. Also, I have to acknowledge that Improvement Pill has improved these concepts, making them more measurable, and I love the new perspective this has brought to them. Can't wait for the next episode :)

[@Qwydjandjwbnd]

I adore the mathematical approach on how to get closer to people

[@jaywinged]

long distance relationship havers hearts shattering after they see they need at least 35 points

[@chadashley2026]

To be honest, I actually am more analytical, so this approach makes a lot more sense than when a coach advises me to just "be myself." It allows me to process what is going on and to take things step by step. If you are like me and you never experienced being your true self to people before, you won't really know what it's like to be your full self around people. Hearing others tell you to be yourself will just not make sense, so this really helps.

[@vasilisdouklias6992]

I never really thought that frequency was a factor in frirndship. All of my close friends go to another school and live at least an hour away. The other factors are strong though and there might be other things at play that we will learn later on. Anyways great work as always Improvememt Pill!

[@xploslost]

hey its been 4 yrs after u watched this video so any changes in your life?

[@samuelšellei]

Proximity - how physically close you are when you interact with the person Duration - how long are your interactions with the person in mind Frequency - how often do you see and interact with this person Intensity - how much emotion is sparked during your interactions

[@jasonlee3508]

THIs is so cool, thanks for the work. Now, I understand why friends become distant now. It's proximity has dismissed.

[@strottlon]

How on earth I've been living in this world for almost two decades and yet, hadn't ever realised how easy it is in its core to get to know others xD

[@nocturnal7345]

I used to watch videos like these. Until I learned it myself that I don't need people to like me. I really don't care anymore. :)

[@landonellis4570]

I feel outta place ngl, I’m an extrovert, but I do cross the line sometimes and these are super helpful

[@pc...430]

I don't have high Frequency with anybody, I don't like it to much to see the same people over and ovwr again. I see my best Friend every few Months and it's always awesome

[@poopcorn8236]

Jokes on you, I experience intense emotion when I ask my crush for a pencil

[@unknown_person5905]

Sameeeeeeeee

[@TheeGirlabouttown]

Wow. I’m so grateful to have found this series!!! I’m soooo excited to strengthen my friendships!!! 😊😊😊😊

[@estrellaipc]

With your videos I discovered that I don’t have close friends, I’m gonna work on it!

[@indridcold8433]

The more one is liked, the more social drama, conflict, and possible victimization will come their way. I remain as unnoticed and anonymous as possible. This assures the maximum possibility of never having to endure drama, conflict, betrayal, nor being used for the benefit of the narcissist. I will never allow any of the negative things I mentioned to happen to me again.

[@nazmoonnahar1927]

I hope Stacy finds this video and implement the rule and make a lot of lifelong friends.

[@gabrielegenota1480]

I would SO play a game about this. Also... I'ma start listing people I know and list points

[@kirtisingh7458]

Thankyou for these videos!! Being a typical INTP. I needed a logical explanation to understand this..

[@allMelanie]

what to do if they keep brushing you off like leaving your messages on read or giving you one worded answers? 🙃

[@andrex6288]

Yeah take ip:s advice. I have an aquintance who keeps trying to interact with me and cant take the hint when I ignore them

[@sandyo2943]

what if they come back?

[@h.y.3457]

Sandy if they come back it means they only want you for benefits, not who you are

[@TimmyTurnersDad.]

Dingleberg!

[@animebae40]

@@andrex6288 why wont you hang out with them 😲 just asking so i can know what not to do

[@7261m]

Watching all of these videos it's like "yeah thats obvious" but its like I need someone else to say it to me for my brain to really process it lmao

[@slavicthule]

bro literally me in everything

[@lifeofdarwin9509]

Everything in this video can be summed up by spongebob’s FUN Song

[@FollowingtheWhiteRabbit]

Interesting content but what a shame that it seems so marketing/algorithm oriented for example with the “watch to the end statement”, and the ad for your programs in the middle, plus a few other stuff that make the content seems a bit cold and mechanic (IMO) (not so much nice illustration or humor in it for example). I understand that you want your content to be a success on YT and want to use it to promote your stuff but maybe a more subtle way would work better, or with a content not only helpful but also more engaging in some ways (tone, illustrations, humor, colors etc.). Just trying be bring a constructive feedback, hope you don’t mind. 😊 Thanks for the content!

[@Sealwithwificonnection]

I'd rather have him be straightforward, tho. I don't mind there not being much humor as long as the info is solid, which it is. Would you rather have forced jokes or just straightforward info? Not saying IP can't be funny, don't know, but maybe he's not trying to be funny for a reason. just my 2 cents

[@Shikoshen]

I resonate with this so much. Cold and mechanical, driven with the need to promote. Like we get it IP, you want growth. This is a business. Ok. It becomes painful when you stop the lesson in the middle to advertise. If you focus on continuing to deliver meaningful content, perhaps you won't have to advertise in such an uncouth way. We still appreciate your vids.

[@Deuces0810]

Improvement Pill you don’t teach how to get friends. Just the levels of friends. You haven’t helped

[@kaqueburlington4278]

He gets his message across. Other videos try to be funny and some actually are funny, but the content sucks & the message is confusing

[@Sofia-bl9cb]

pill, this info is so useful - but please could you make a video on how to be more "intense" and spark a lot of emotion? i'm guessing it's about being hilariously funny and engaging, but that comes hard for me :( pls help, other people always seem to make friends so quickly

[@saahensharma1740]

Seeing this during covid and thinking why I'm in college and don't have any friends. Due to covid, I have been to my college once, nor have I physically met any of my classmates, and due to the new varient don't think will go to college anytime soon. Now through this video I realise I have a 1 in literally every category leading to no real friendships or relationships. Sad life

[@bodhitkunwar5849]

hey improvement pill can i learn how to make newfriends in this awesome series

[@bodhitkunwar5849]

oh ok then i will stick to this series

[@CB-yr4hq]

I think KZbin wants me to make friends instead of watching videos all day lol

[@dmtdreamz7706]

On a certain level, we have I like you in our brain, the neurochemicals that show up in flow: so dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, endorphins, and serotonin. If you were to try to cocktail the street drug version of that, right, you're trying to blend like heroin and speed and coke and acid and weed- and point is, you can't do it. It turns out the brain can cocktail all of 'em at once, which is why people will prefer flow to almost any experience on Earth. It's our favorite experience. It's the most addictive experience on Earth. Why? 'Cause it cocktails five or six of the largest pleasure drugs the brain can produce. We're all capable of so much more than we know. That is a commonality across the board. And one of the big reasons is we're all hardwired for flow, and flow is a massive amplification of what's possible for ourselves.

[@mathscicrafts1927]

give me a heart improvement pill !!! love your videos ❤✔💯

[@GuneetJain]

Just letting you know that your videos are addictive!

[@realcheez795]

I mean, u can not really place a s.o right after close friend, because.. when you whant someone to be your "girl" or something, you really dont want to get in "friendzone" (my personal feeling) Perfect video as always :D

[@camilatempesta4283]

I feel like a robot

[@cmchrist93]

I'm enjoying your videos so far 📝

[@MrCash-lm1xz]

It’s weird to see this as like a certain number of points to befriend someone.

[@angeluchiha52011]

The example about the girl in the same class is exactly the same situation that i have with my crush. I need more points. Thanks 😃

[@samwright939]

I feel like this is how nerds consider getting friends work

[@kwanda6941]

:v

[@ictogon]

The accuracy of this comment hurts my soul. This is my first week at college and I spent all day trying to meet people and no one wanted to, now I am in my dorm watching this video :'(

[@isitkenny]

What if you've never met someone in person, but have become fairly close over text? How do you classify that sort of a friendship?

[@naenoart]

This made me realise that dating sims are a lot more realistic than I thought...

[@laynstevens]

Lol sort of

[@safaegounni9820]

Thank you for sharing these interesting information with us, I was really clueless about all these factors.

[@iovei2408]

How many episode will publish in this AMAZING course

[@iovei2408]

I'm looking forward

[@fireandmugs6712]

Well this certainly explains why I always become really close friends with my coworkers - specifically my office mates.

[@CelestialCookies]

I was always confused about how to make the difference between an acquaintance and a stranger .The video is very helpful in that regard but could you give us a few tips about how to actually get to be someone's acquaintance? It is hard for shy people ( such as myself ) to engage in conversations with strangers that they share the same class with for example . Thank you for the helpful content anyway!

[@nagyzsombor8808]

Im an extrovert and i watch these videos too, because I dont know if my friends like me or hate me or do I annoy them.

[@itsmedrew.2097]

same here

[@mr.mittzz]

The fact that i watch this series is for writing a character not for social making friends things

[@MrBlodhund]

This is actually a really good course!

[@RonaldDelRosario-m4s]

Thank you I learned now how to make more friends

[@charlescabrera5037]

Having a rules of friendship can help me solve problems.

[@kratosfacts8300]

Learning something new in the lockdown

[@life_withJesus77ORTHODOX]

Here before Justin Y

[@fleskimiso]

Are you sure I can amplify my relationship with other people? In certain situations, when people will get to know each other very well, they may stop maintain their relationship. Why? Because they may find them different and in long-term they find out that this relationship won't contribute to them any good. So they decide to break up with each other. BTW. Keep uploading. Great job. I wanna comment on your videos in order to remember better the knowledge within video.

[@13thravenpurple94]

Great work 🥳🥳🥳 Thank youuuuuu 💜💜💜

[@aniketpaul5528]

This video was very useful Thanks 😊

[@claudiablack4440]

Regarding proximity, where do online communications fit in?

[@msc_color]

You are making this sound like a game..... interesting.

[@hugoforcada2167]

So basically y I have to grind to level up my friendships

[@drago6568]

i know all of these things, that is what a marriage is, i want to know how to get closer to people

[@ZakuHD]

Hey ImprovementPill, first of all I like your videos. I watched the BeeFriend course and now I’m watching Tamed. You come up with some very useful tricks 👍. I have a question: You never say anything about „tasks“ or small gestures someone does. I think that when you do such gestures from time to time and/or if they want something from you always stay reliable then this boosts your worth enormously. What do you think?

[@ralph411]

Wow Improvement Pill. This is cool

[@eduardog.5236]

Hi! Just a quick question about a special case I had (regarding proximity). I recently had a long-distance relationship, which I think would fall under S.O at a first glance (bc of the definitions). She was a girl I maintained a relationship with for four years. We met at a kids camp and saw each other again after two years, for a total of 5 irl encuounters. After evaluating our relationship through the scale I got P=1(or9), D=8, F=10, I=8. Totaling at either 27 or 35 points, which signlas we were either only close friends or S.O. ...What do you say? Thank you so much for the BeeFriend course, what little i've seen has been amazingly helpfull :D Merry christmas!

[@Shin_mid]

Thank you for doing this. That's a really nice modell to go with.

[@nishantt.8717]

Imagine before each human interaction, you starts calculating points, Just like anime.

[@andylochan]

man i need this 😀. Love the videos

[@defnekolay7496]

This was enlightening. Thank you ☄

[@Angel-ip7pw]

Dude i want friendship with: Proximity 6 (same class) Duration 6(hour and a half long classes Frequency 9 (every school day) Intensity 6 (speech class so there usually some emotion in it always) Only known him for a week

[@Ailani....official]

Now I really have to take a course to learn how to make friends. Lol.

[@nex_extreme9631]

I love the background music! Its so relaxing and emotional :D

[@butlikenoheterooranything4654]

Trying to use this to help my romatic relationship! Sounds like it would work, i hope it does.

[@lemoncat4683]

Oh man I just realized this, but for so long I thought it was Improvement Phill not Improvement Pill 😂😂

[@julia.d5685]

@@pezvonpez idk why but i thought the same i'm so stupid😅

[@nibbax7772]

Julia. D y’all never heard of dr phill?

[@Potatosaurus423]

When your best friend is in the significant other tier and your girlfriend is in the friend tier T-T

[@kenweeraratne431]

This feels way too over-analyzed and oversimplified.

[@prettyme4387]

how can something be BOTH over-analysed AND oversimplified? You sound pretentious

[@michaelkennedy5119]

@@prettyme4387 haha oh my gosh, I felt the same! I read Ken's comment and was like, "wait... What?!" *re-read* "wait!..... WHAT?!?" Haha

[@italianfries8778]

@@prettyme4387 Honestly, he also isn't wrong...

[@saharelragig6023]

their literally the opposite how is it the same?

[@redaghassah7718]

I agree. I mean according to this the therapist sould be almost your S.O but I don't think you can consider him as a friend😅 This is how it's oversimplified yet overanalyzed

[@sondersighs]

Do you have anything for keeping long distance friendships? Or keeping highschool friends once you graduate?

[@theiconsean]

Damn so basically to get a Girlfriend your Duration, Intensity, Proximity needs to be a 10 and Frequency a 5. Sounds like doing a quest or a mission and you need to have the right armor/high level weapons to beat it lol

[@ronanooi4972]

Who knew you could calculate friendship with numbers

[@alessussuperbus6982]

Testing this with all my friends

[@hassansci2436]

"i consider you a close friend" Me looking down at my excel spreadsheet: we'll have to up tge intensity if it's to work out...

[@AlwaysImproving1]

Loving this new course, thank you! How do you create this content? Where did you learn this information?

[@lukamagic.4514]

Exactly!