FIRST YEAR OF MARRIAGE Q&A: biggest fight, married too young, regrets etc....

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IndiaBatson

IndiaBatson

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@annabland1110
@annabland1110 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel, dear, I say this with love, as someone who has been very happily married for 15 years. Please, please learn to consider your wife’s emotional needs above your own. It’s true that in many relationships, like yours, many women cry a lot more than many men. But that means absolutely nothing. Essentially, your response to your wife telling you a need she has (which is very simple to fill) was “well I don’t have the same need, so you shouldn’t either.” Rejoice that she’s different from you. Rejoice in her softness and sensitivity because it is a GIFT to you. It will 100% enrich your marriage, your family, and your own life. But your job is to cultivate sensitivity and nurture your wife, and that means supporting her emotionally and comforting her. That’s your privilege as a husband, as well as your God given responsibility. It’s not your job to love her the way you want to be loved, it’s your job to love her the way she needs to be loved. It may be hard for you at first. It may feel unnatural to you, but that’s okay. It takes time to learn a new skill. This will absolutely make a difference in your marriage, even if it feels insignificant to you. Please do give this some consideration.
@RandHKIS
@RandHKIS 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. What an absolutely amazing comment. I absolutely agree with you. I think that a lot of people focus on “treat others how you would like to be treated”. I think that this sentiment is a really great starting point for how to treat others, but there is more we can do to be better to others. Learning about how another person wants to be treated and actually treating them in that way is even more important (unless they have a history of something like a mental health struggles for instance and feel that they shouldn’t be treated with kindness or things like that, then it might be best to help show them how they should be treated). The concept of love languages for instances is a great example to show that people feel loved in different ways, so it’s important to show that person love in the way they feel it the most. What’s beautiful gift in any relationship to actually try to understand the other person and help them really truly know that they are cared about.
@Lovethyself887
@Lovethyself887 3 жыл бұрын
💯🔥
@LV-bk4it
@LV-bk4it 2 жыл бұрын
@@RandHKIS Yes, Love Languages! Physical touch for me: I now fall asleep on my husband's chest because I told him that's how I alwaysthought wives did it, and because it relaxes me. Now he enjoys it, too! Now, I just have to work on spending quality time together and not just chores and errands.
@LV-bk4it
@LV-bk4it 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on! If I tell my husband even a little worry, he jumps into all frustrated trying to solve it for me when I'll I really want is a hug. I'm not a complaininer or cryer so I think I should be able to expect this.
@bethdailey4274
@bethdailey4274 3 жыл бұрын
We've been married for almost 35 yrs, best decision ever. Daniel definitely needs to give you a hug after a fight. 😉 Marriage is about going above and beyond to make the other person feel special.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
35 years 😭💛💛💛💛 wow that is so incredible Beth !!!! You are such a gem 💛💛💛
@kavyachowti2357
@kavyachowti2357 3 жыл бұрын
This is random but I think it’s kind of cute that your shirts in this video match each other’s eyes 🥰
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Omg that’s the cutest thing ever 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💛💛
@Lisa-sq3zl
@Lisa-sq3zl 2 жыл бұрын
Omg didn't even notice that. They are stinkin' adorable 😻.
@MamaRoth4
@MamaRoth4 2 жыл бұрын
What an observation. I would’ve never noticed that!
@lexititus2323
@lexititus2323 3 жыл бұрын
India, I just wanted to expand on a couple things to you and Daniel’s points after 8 years of marriage with my husband. 1) you guys don’t have to have to same emotional needs, as long as yours are being fulfilled by the other. Just because Daniel doesn’t need the physical emotional support like you do, doesn’t mean you both can’t give each other what you need. Understanding that you’re both different and need different things helps a lot in this area 2) you don’t need to expect yourself from your significant other, you need to expect them. When you stop wondering why they didn’t behave like you would have, and just start observing how they behave instead, you tend to let a lot more things go 3) there are many roads to the same destination. For instance, if both of you have the same goal of taking the trash out and putting away the dishes, but do it differently, it doesn’t matter. As long as the goal is accomplished. This goes for the big stuff too… the sooner a couple learns this, the easier parenting as a team will be too! 4) remember, every year, every month, every day is an opportunity to learn something new about your partner. And, it’s really exciting. 8 years into my marriage with my husband, and I love it now 1000x more than I did the first year and we are still learning and growing, together, as a team. You guys are doing awesome ❤️
@ukeme4557
@ukeme4557 3 жыл бұрын
Housework is labour! if you work from home AND do most or all of the housework (assuming this also means walking/taking care of Mochi) while Daniel works, then he does not get to criticize the way you do that work... even if it's just a joke! I could tell that the criticism is hurtful to you to, even if you both laugh it off... He should seriously stop that and be a bit more considerate of your feelings and of how difficult it is to do housework. If there's a " better way", then he can happily get on with doing it that way himself :)
@quantumwombat
@quantumwombat 3 жыл бұрын
Bruhhhh crying twice a month is nothing, I'm at like twice a week minimum, I wanna get on India's level!
@kristinmoore4624
@kristinmoore4624 3 жыл бұрын
It's only been 15 years for us but we've never had a real fight. We never raise our voices and rarely "argue" about anything. The first year of marriage isn't the hardest, it should be easy and loving, the real hard times comes when you lose parents and raising children and all of the fun stuff. Congrats on your first year! Build a solid foundation and you'll be set. 🥰 Also we live in Tennessee and you'd love it here!
@hannyhanny757
@hannyhanny757 3 жыл бұрын
You guys remind me so much of my husband and I!!!! We are married 3+ years and we have a beautiful baby and marriage is really tough but also wonderful And I have to say for all the men out there: STOP criticizing your wives Just APPRICIATE what we do and say thank you! Don't take anything for granted! And remember that we need at least 8 hugs, 12 kisses and one compliment a day. Thank you!
@flightycrayons577
@flightycrayons577 3 жыл бұрын
There are numerous ways to do everything. FYI, yes some things can be done better. The fact is, if you are not the one doing the task then you do not get to choose the way the task is done
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
yes !! The reason he keeps talking about the trash and dishwasher is because they are actually his tasks that he does but I do them when he is out of town and then he comes back and they aren’t done the way he likes ( dishwasher isn’t organized to his liking or rinsed properly ) and then it messes with his chore. If that makes sense ?
@kristenbradley7040
@kristenbradley7040 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so real and genuine! ❤️ It sounds like your first year of marriage has been both amazing and challenging. My suggestion is more thank yous. Focus more on appreciating what the other person has done for you rather than correcting them. For example, Daniel could say “Thank you for putting the dishes away honey.”
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I completely agree !!!! We have learned a lot ! and still have SO MUCH to learn 💛 we want to do it together xoxo thank you for this kind suggestion!
@matchaa121
@matchaa121 3 жыл бұрын
@@indiabatson26 India, you do deserve better... his whole attitude is painful to see. You're like a sunshine, but he's like dimming your light if that makes sense? Doesn't he realize see how lucky he is?? If he continues to be like that, sorry to say but it will eventually break you and there may become a time when you can't take it anymore. I hope he learns....
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 3 жыл бұрын
@@indiabatson26 Gratitude goes SO far in our marriage. 15 years strong now. There's also a few tasks I won't do because he's so particular about how it's done. In our case, it's hanging his shirts in the closet and putting dishes in the dishwasher. Long ago, he accepted my position that I don't do things to have them redone. Instead, he usually does both. If he can't, I'll fold his shirts or wash the dishes by hand (which I prefer to the dishwasher anyway). If I do use the dishwasher and he's rearranging to fit more dishes, that's cool by me... so in those rare cases, I try to tell myself that's what's happening and let it go. That said, if it doesn't bother *you* if the dishes get rearranged, don't worry about it.
@heatherb5736
@heatherb5736 3 жыл бұрын
Hi guys! My husband and I have been married for 31 years. Early on, the bath mat issue came up. Honestly, I can't remember who had a problem. However, our resolution was to get a second mat, which we only put down over top of the other rug during showers/baths, and then hang it up once its wet (we hang it over the side of the tub). That way, the mat on the floor always stays nice and dry. Two grown kids later, we still do this. About marriage, as if a few random comments could impart the essence of such a huge thing...lol. A couple of thoughts. Marriage is about always turning back toward each other. To find resolution, and comfort, when the relationship or life is pressuring and stressful, with each other. You may find, as time goes on, the urge to turn away if there's friction. But it's about sticking with it, even if it gets tough. There might come a day when you're wondering what you're doing. But be patient and pray (both individually and together). Your love, and faith will help you endure. It's lovely to see your shining young faces. God bless your life and love. ❤
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of the most practical marriage advice I ever got. My husband is the guy who carefully rolls up the toothpaste all nice and neat. I'm a squish in the middle kind of gal. The advice was in situations like this, just buy 2 tubes of toothpaste.
@JW99736
@JW99736 3 жыл бұрын
Very cute. Don’t let the little things annoy you - they aren’t worth it! Don’t try to change how the other person has been since BEFORE you married them. The older you get, the more you realize this I think. But also, always be working on yourself!! Both people should always be looking for ways to serve one another and work on anything within them that isn’t Christ-like! 💗
@montanaskye3227
@montanaskye3227 3 жыл бұрын
It is so clear that God made each of you, for each other!! Thank you for sharing your lives w/us and being such a great example of God's love! Best wishes for many more anniversaries to come!!
@sophiebotello4751
@sophiebotello4751 3 жыл бұрын
I love this. As a single gal, I love that you talked about advice for single people. You both are very encouraging and I love how vulnerable you are in your videos. I pray that someday I will meet someone that loves the Lord as much as I do. Also, I love a guy that is able to cry. I know that’s a side note but I love it.
@Blablablahx3
@Blablablahx3 3 жыл бұрын
Amen sister may God bless you with a man who loves the Lord in Jesus name 🥰
@dianam152
@dianam152 3 жыл бұрын
I've not gotten much further then your curly hair video's but goshdarnit are you both stunning people! The heads you guys must be turning when walking into a room😍
@wendiconrad6128
@wendiconrad6128 3 жыл бұрын
Just a thought...whoever takes out the garbage does it correctly. Whoever puts away the dishes does it correctly. :)
@CheriJ11
@CheriJ11 3 жыл бұрын
Love that philosophy!
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
love this philosophy too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@matchaa121
@matchaa121 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly his attitude is a bit concerning. It seems like he doesn't appreciate you enough. Also the way he doesn't understand the importance of emotional support when you are crying etc. Why is he being dismissive of your emotional needs... He's a great looking guy but his attitude is wrong. India, honestly you deserve better
@Jacqueline_R
@Jacqueline_R 3 жыл бұрын
I need this on a tee shirt or something:)
@angieschieler2104
@angieschieler2104 3 жыл бұрын
This made me feel so seen. My husband is so critical, but he sees it as being helpful lol. I used to be so sensitive about it - we are both working on it. I get less offended and he stops "giving advice" :)
@toniaguinaga7609
@toniaguinaga7609 3 жыл бұрын
“I like having you to do life with” 🥰😭😭 awwww
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
so precious 💛💛💛💛
@sarahsullivan6347
@sarahsullivan6347 3 жыл бұрын
You two are adorable and have an undeniable connection made for the long haul!
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
You are so kind 💛 he really is the best ! We are still learning everyday but having fun while we do it 🥰
@redvelvetsprinkles
@redvelvetsprinkles 3 жыл бұрын
I adore you two together !!! May God bless your marriage and family abundantly 💕💕💕
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
You are so kind and lovely !!!! God bless you ❤️❤️❤️
@WH2012
@WH2012 3 жыл бұрын
This was fun and endearing to witness your banter. The two of you are off to an incredible life adventure together and have so much wisdom for your young adult age. You are setting a great example for so many. 🎈🎯
@Hobbesnevie
@Hobbesnevie 3 жыл бұрын
20 years with my husband, gets better and better-communication,transparency, and compromise are vital ingredients in our recipe to happiness with each other.
@ruthmontecer5542
@ruthmontecer5542 3 жыл бұрын
My grandma always said if it doesn't matter a 100 yrs from now it's not worth fighting over. And never stop learning. Happy Anniversary Lovebirds!! ;p
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
THis is so good !!!! I love that !!!! oh yes we have MUCH to learn 💛💛💛
@JM-ig4ed
@JM-ig4ed 3 жыл бұрын
Re the shower matt thing.... getting out dripping wet is something only an only child - or having own bathroom does. When you grow up in big family using same bathroom, you learn to wipe off as much as you can in the tub / shower, put the towel on the floor, step out onto the towel to wipe bottom of feet and lower legs. That's what I was taught to do in our family of eight. But really, even if your family is two - I think it is only considerate.
@charishanson8730
@charishanson8730 3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I were getting our marriage license and were told by the people working in the building to not get married lol. But I can completely say it is the best thing we've ever done, and we love spending every day together. Continue being best friends and congrats!
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh that’s the wildest start to marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so glad you are loving it ❤️❤️❤️😭
@Bexwizard
@Bexwizard 3 жыл бұрын
This was a really interesting collaboration with each other. The hardest thing I’ve found being in a co-dependant relationship is compromise. This is my down fall, I feel like I’m similar to Daniel especially in the home as I like things done a certain way. I think the compromise comes with time and age, wisdom as well. Trying to remember that someone is making the effort to keep your shared home nice for both of you but just acknowledging that you do things in different ways, that’s okay, and not worth beating someone down because they don’t do it the way you think it should be done. Equally, if it really bugs me, I just wait until my other half isn’t in the house and tweak or remedy the thing so it’s to my satisfaction, that way I’m not criticising the way they do it, I’m just perfecting it slightly and not holding this against the other person. I learnt this lesson the hard way in my marriage that unfortunately failed last summer, a marriage of 15 years, from a relationship that started when I was very young. I was very critical of my ex, about the little insignificant things, and looking back I know that was one of the things that wore him down and was a factor in the break down of our marriage. Getting back into dating, in the beginning I was looking for that perfect person, unfortunately unconsciously comparing them to my ex. But in time and with experience I realised that no one person is perfect, it’s what you put into the relationship and what you both want to get out of it that matters the most and builds that strong foundation. Thanks for your honesty, I know this will have helped a lot of people. I’m always so grateful for your cander India so thank you 😊
@kiaraeijo
@kiaraeijo 3 жыл бұрын
This was cute! I kind of do what Daniel does when I get out of the shower. I guess that’s the Cuban in both of us. I hate feeling cold when I first get out of the shower so I make sure that every part of my body is dry. I definitely agree that Daniel needs to give you a hug after you guys fight🥰❤️
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
it must be a Cuban thing then !!!!! That’s too funny !!!!!
@jessiespataro-dowling5401
@jessiespataro-dowling5401 3 жыл бұрын
Continue to laugh, continue to communicate and learn from each other. You're a beautiful couple. I am newly divorced after 21 years. I see so much love here. NEVER STOP TALKING, LISTENING AND LAUGHING!! ❤
@dancegirl5lem
@dancegirl5lem 3 жыл бұрын
i cracked up laughing so many times. so relatable and so real. love y’all.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Awwwww this is so kind 🤣💛 thank you for the love !!!!
@SnowStig26
@SnowStig26 3 жыл бұрын
The butterfly wings in the picture behind Daniel look like they're giving him bunny ears 😂
@ssh6414
@ssh6414 3 жыл бұрын
Or a hair bow
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
omg that’s adorable 🤣🤣 the cutest little bunny
@jessicabrewster6427
@jessicabrewster6427 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel!! Hug your wife after a fight! I doesn’t matter if she cries 5 times a day lol Love you both ❤️
@jessicaripko
@jessicaripko 3 жыл бұрын
I have been married for almost 4 years (we have been together for almost 10 years) I would say that the first year is hard but when you have kids it’s a totally different kind of hard. This year (we just had our second kid) has been the hardest.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even imagine adding kids into the mix honestly. I’m not ready for that yet !
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your transparency by the way 💛💛💛💛
@jessicaripko
@jessicaripko 3 жыл бұрын
@@indiabatson26 of course! I will say that it’s totally worth it when you are ready ☺️ ot is definitely tough, but our Kids have brought so much joy and laughter to our lives
@MsYolost
@MsYolost 3 жыл бұрын
This whole "you have to get over it quicker" is lowkey toxic
@jeffgriscoa8131
@jeffgriscoa8131 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all make a great couple! I pray God will continue to bless you two!
@nataleedenlinger635
@nataleedenlinger635 3 жыл бұрын
daniel needs to treat her better i don’t like the vibe he gives me
@Mimi-hn6iv
@Mimi-hn6iv 2 жыл бұрын
How can you tell how he treats her, just off of a 15 minute video?
@kathyyore309
@kathyyore309 2 жыл бұрын
Best couple ever! So nice to see a beautiful Christian couple. Your joy is so fun to watch! God bless you
@jcmorton8003
@jcmorton8003 3 жыл бұрын
Just too adorable!!!!!!!!!!! I married my BEST FRIEND 50 years ago! We have been through EVERYTHING ... TOGETHER! God Bless you both
@leannewoods4482
@leannewoods4482 2 жыл бұрын
So Love you guys! You have such great attitudes and are so funny! Married life is so wonderful and you all have a great future ahead of you I believe! Keep putting Christ first in your relationship!💙
@daniellehodgson105
@daniellehodgson105 3 жыл бұрын
Even though I'm far from ever being married, I thoroughly enjoyed this video and love that you two are together 💖💖
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Awwww you are so lovely Danielle ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@toniaguinaga7609
@toniaguinaga7609 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are the cutest couple & I must say you both have beautiful teeth 🦷
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
this is so kind !!!!!!! I prefer his smile to mine !! He has a less gummy smile than me lol but thank you angel
@kat1368
@kat1368 3 жыл бұрын
Wow its been a year already?! So glad to see that you two communicate well and are always working on it. Keep having fun together in life 🌻
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe it been over a year either ?!?!
@aly969
@aly969 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who lives with/(is) dating a half-Peruvian for 9 years (minus some time apart) the “there’s a better way to do things” was the MOST familiar thing to me 😂😂
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
oh my gosh 🤣🤣 it must be a Hispanic thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Blablablahx3
@Blablablahx3 3 жыл бұрын
You guys from the bottom of my heart I pray that God continually blesses you with wisdom and compassion to continue on this journey together ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🥰 much love from your sister in Christ 🌸🌤
@Rebel_Vamp1r3
@Rebel_Vamp1r3 3 жыл бұрын
Personally even if I do eventually have a partner I would not want to/feel the need to marry to them, but hey as long as both parts are on the same page and there's love, whatever works!! Hsppy anniversary to both🥰🥰
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
yes as long as you are on the same page ! That’s what’s important. if marriage isn’t for you I’m sure you will find someone who feels the same way ❤️❤️❤️ thank you angel !!!!
@Rebel_Vamp1r3
@Rebel_Vamp1r3 3 жыл бұрын
@@indiabatson26 🖤🖤🖤
@robdebl2414
@robdebl2414 2 жыл бұрын
Love the video so much! You guys are so stinking cute!
@kelsieosenbach6764
@kelsieosenbach6764 3 жыл бұрын
Haha the shower thing made me laugh because me and my husband are the exact same way as both of you! I get out of the shower immediately and my husband dries off in the shower!
@s4hg663ws
@s4hg663ws 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel is such a Capricorn lol “There’s better ways to do things and I don’t keep that to myself.” Love him. Love y’all.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
omg wait did you know he was a Capricorn or was this a guess ?!?!?
@s4hg663ws
@s4hg663ws 3 жыл бұрын
@@indiabatson26 I knew before 😂
@s4hg663ws
@s4hg663ws 3 жыл бұрын
@@RCH45ACP awww, who hurt you?!?
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
@@s4hg663ws ok 🤣🤣 well I need research about Capricorn’s now !!!! Lol
@missleb3537
@missleb3537 3 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh the sweetest! I just want you to do life with.... so honest😁
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for watching !!!!!! We really appreciate your love & support 💛
@Taylorolivia1116
@Taylorolivia1116 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are too cute! Happy Anniversary! This video was very helpful in I will be getting married to my Daniel in a month!
@shoszannah
@shoszannah 3 жыл бұрын
Well... India is way too good for this guy, she deserves better. I hope he will change, for now on every video he's a bit of a jerk.
@Jacqueline_R
@Jacqueline_R 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, some of his comments are not very nice. I thought I was the only one who noticed.
@bridgetburt
@bridgetburt 3 жыл бұрын
Omg the sneezing into the hands thing is so gross haha. Glad you showed him the right way. Also my boyfriend came around to hugging after arguments and now he enjoys it too. Don't give up on that one 😋
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to keep pushing on it !!! I force him to hug me after every argument. Hopefully he will start initiating it more
@velvisperez9489
@velvisperez9489 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel looks so silly with that bow on his head😅(from the decor in the back)
@LV-bk4it
@LV-bk4it 2 жыл бұрын
It IS critical! My husband does the same thing CONSTANTLY!
@sarahdavid147
@sarahdavid147 3 жыл бұрын
From past experience I have noticed when people say that the fun they’re talking about is sleeping around and getting wasted every single weekend.
@evenash5525
@evenash5525 2 жыл бұрын
Just because you think there is a “better” way doesn’t make it so. Let her do it her way when she does it and you can do it your way when you do it.
@emilypritchard2241
@emilypritchard2241 3 жыл бұрын
I love this video! I always laugh at other couples fights bc they are always so silly! I remember my husband and I fighting when I was about 6 months pregnant and I wanted chicken fingers. And I was worried we wouldn’t have enough bc he wanted our other 2 children to have them for dinner. & I got so mad that I was slamming a spoon on the stove screaming at him while making Mac n cheese! So stupid! But so funny to look back on! Enjoy each other time flies! I love that Daniel said not everything has to be so drawn out bc that’s the truth! Just communicate and work it out and it’s all good! ❤️
@annyvitoria3074
@annyvitoria3074 3 жыл бұрын
Rocked this look,hair and makeup in the video
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you angel
@laurawilliamson1699
@laurawilliamson1699 3 жыл бұрын
It's a different way of doing it, not a better better way. My husband and I had to learn this as we had justed to living in with each other during our 1st years of marriage as well. I had to learn how to let go of some of the ways he does things and he had to learn to let go of the way that I do them. Being able to step back and allow something to happen in a way I wouldn't do it was one of the best things for our marriage. We are both too strong willed type a personalities so this was a challenge initially.
@MinnieMousey06
@MinnieMousey06 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel just wear slippers when you're in the house and your feet won't get cold when you have to use the bathroom after India has showered
@lauramathews3151
@lauramathews3151 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel has butterfly bunny ears and I can't take my eyes off of them. My now hubby and I were an exclusive couple for 10 years before we got to tie the knot. We were high school sweethearts a year apart, both went college, while each had a parent with cancer, moved cross country, became self sufficient, moved in together [out of necessity; that was not the plan], while saving up for the wedding, and we've been married for 3 years and we bought our house last November. It's not our forever home, but it should last through hetting 2 kiddos thru elementary or middle school...
@priscillaramirez2400
@priscillaramirez2400 3 жыл бұрын
lol some of things y'all talked about reminded me of my ex bf... glad to know it takes an india kinda person for him to love, and not a me kinda person lol
@divine20246
@divine20246 3 жыл бұрын
India is very kind person . He is Lucky
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
awww we are both lucky 💛💛💛💛
@astridbutcher2961
@astridbutcher2961 3 жыл бұрын
Just came to your channel for the bathing suit tips and I guess I'm staying for life! Lovee your videos!♥️♥️♥️
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Omg sweetest comment 😭💛💛💛💛💛
@evievi5264
@evievi5264 3 жыл бұрын
Guys wish you all the best for your marriage.As far as criticism….men start criticising when they get married to their wives and on the other hand women stop criticising when they get married.That life and that’s marriage.You see men don’t care what a woman they are dating does when she goes home but they do care what their wife does.On the other side of the spectrum a woman tries to soothe any tension in her family ❤️💕💋
@marinfam6
@marinfam6 3 жыл бұрын
Tell Daniel that all those little things he thinks thst can be done better actually are really non important and he's gonna have to let it go smd just appreciate i
@kristinmoore4624
@kristinmoore4624 3 жыл бұрын
I think that comes with time and maturing. The older you get the more you realize the important things.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
I think he will realize it soon ❤️❤️ he’s learning ! And I’m learning too ❤️❤️
@StrongAndRaw
@StrongAndRaw Жыл бұрын
I have an idea for Daniel...those things you are critical of are now yours! Your chores, my man!!!
@cynthiasellers890
@cynthiasellers890 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with ur husband. Life has just begun. I'm with someone in the army and things can be hard. We do love each other
@hannahhood9953
@hannahhood9953 3 жыл бұрын
I love your chatty vids like this :)
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Awww I really appreciate it 💛 I have so much fun filming these !!!!
@AngelaVEdwards
@AngelaVEdwards 3 жыл бұрын
Married too young? Aren't you both in your mid 20s? That's not too young at all. 18 is probably too young; depends on the circumstance. Some of the "Duck Dynasty" kids married that young and I thought about it but I realized that their parents all married that young, too and all the parents are still married so the kids can make it work if they've had the good foundation they've had. I can tell Daniel's happy. He's smiling way more widely and way more easily than he did before. You're good for him, India. 💖
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
some people tell us we got married too young but I think it was the perfect age for us 💛💛 & I appreciate your kind words about Daniels smile. We are definitely happy together but have our days just as any normal couple would 💛💛
@kristinmoore4624
@kristinmoore4624 3 жыл бұрын
I was married and had 3 kids three and younger by 28 lol people always have comments but you just do what works for you!
@AngelaVEdwards
@AngelaVEdwards 3 жыл бұрын
@@kristinmoore4624 Yep. You know what's right for you.
@YeshuaKingMessiah
@YeshuaKingMessiah 2 жыл бұрын
Mid20s is perfect Do not wait That’s baaad advice
@Jacqueline_R
@Jacqueline_R 3 жыл бұрын
I've been married 31 years, and my husband still expects me to read his mind. ( many times anyway) Has caused many challenges. I wish he would gently communicate more often.
@julieerickson8045
@julieerickson8045 3 жыл бұрын
Every single argument Daniel has for the after shower drying situation I feel on a spiritual level right down to the wet bath mat near the toilet 🤣
@leahschroeder3533
@leahschroeder3533 3 жыл бұрын
“What is the bath mat for?” SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK, INDIA 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@navedian739
@navedian739 3 жыл бұрын
Nope martied too young 20's is a good thing bro's, it SAVES YOU from a lit of hassle, troubles
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 3 жыл бұрын
Right? Married at 21 (me) and 22 (him). Now it's 15 years later and no regrets.
@rebeccas9488
@rebeccas9488 3 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute!! Now there's not a "better" way to do the dishes, there's a "different". And after a few years of them doing the same annoying thing, you have to learn to let it go otherwise it drives you nuts.
@bonnyhicks6036
@bonnyhicks6036 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are so cute❤️
@marikekok1602
@marikekok1602 3 жыл бұрын
Early in our marriage my new husband said you don' t hang the washing like my mother, it should be like this....he hangs his own washing now🤣
@emiliadonoghue6770
@emiliadonoghue6770 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha you guys are so funny and sweet! The shower situation is hilarious to as my husband Daniel is just like your Daniel and I am exactly the same as you. 😂😂😂 we’ve been married for 7 years and the fun really does just begin when getting married. These 7 years have been the best of my life.
@anononnl
@anononnl 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent 'older' book: Getting the Love you Want: A Guide for Couples
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhh ok I’ll Google this !!!!!! Excellent thank you so much !!!!!!
@sros779
@sros779 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are adorable! 🥰
@KaylaNatalie
@KaylaNatalie 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe it’s been a year ❤️❤️
@navedian739
@navedian739 3 жыл бұрын
Don't push it Don't Over share trust me
@maxhr1749
@maxhr1749 2 жыл бұрын
I used to cry more than I do now, but I also upped my anxiety meds. Lol My husband doesn’t handle crying well. No hugs because he thinks it’s better to leave me alone. Plus I think he just doesn’t get it.
@sheliadennis9004
@sheliadennis9004 3 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute!!💕
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Awww thank you angel 💛💛
@jamiebrennan5779
@jamiebrennan5779 2 жыл бұрын
You 2 are such a sweet couple. God bless your marriage. Remember a 3 fold cord is not easily broken when you 2 & Jesus Christ. Marriage is a fun adventure together. Enjoy your journey
@haydeefm7414
@haydeefm7414 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings of a lifetime for you too. You are just made for each other. :)
@sarataher5636
@sarataher5636 3 жыл бұрын
Idk whether india naturally speaks like that or shes acts it up at the beginning of the vid but that funny AF HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
@RoseDsables
@RoseDsables 3 жыл бұрын
where are your earrings from India please? they're awesome
@debbieventimiglia2216
@debbieventimiglia2216 Жыл бұрын
I was married for 35 years, my advice is to always keep Jesus in your marriage, and first im your life
@rosieaustin9911
@rosieaustin9911 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute. Don’t try to change the other. Just know you’re different & God made you that way. I think u seem really happy. 💓💓
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely ! We are just always trying to be the best versions of ourselves but not change for each other 💛 bless you rosie
@gabbyastudillo5991
@gabbyastudillo5991 3 жыл бұрын
Linda pareja🙏😘 God bless your love.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
awwww muchas gracias ❤️❤️❤️
@marycolling4544
@marycolling4544 3 жыл бұрын
Love your top where is from
@megstarbright
@megstarbright 3 жыл бұрын
Your husband is hilarious but also a little bit of a know it all lol time for him to ease up if you had to learn to 😋
@uplate6674
@uplate6674 3 жыл бұрын
I hope to someday have a marriage like yours!
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
You are so sweet Kathleen 💛💛 our marriage isn’t perfect, but no marriage is. We truly have so much fun together ! And laugh every single day so I’m grateful ❤️
@marloflanagan7421
@marloflanagan7421 3 жыл бұрын
wait, you do all the housework and he's complaining on how you do it? OH NO. That's not cool. Welcome to the 21st century. If he doesn't like it, let him do it. He's got two arms and legs. You both work and everyone has to chip in.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Lolllllllll I don’t do all the housework 🤣 he does the dishes and takes out the trash 💛 but I do it when he’s out of town. we are not perfect 😅😅 but we are working on it. He’s working on letting the little things go right now ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and I’m proud of him for sharing it publicly. It’s not easy to do ❤️❤️❤️ I’ve got my own things I’m working on too ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love you xoxo
@lunadigioia1824
@lunadigioia1824 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel- estj; India- isfp (my uneducated mbti guess)
@N.D.Veronikasandul
@N.D.Veronikasandul 3 жыл бұрын
They folow in Love🤩😍
@phoebetonkin8020
@phoebetonkin8020 3 жыл бұрын
So happy for youse
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you my lovr
@annyvitoria3074
@annyvitoria3074 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple .I liked your video
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 💛💛
@podsmpsg1
@podsmpsg1 3 жыл бұрын
He's a lucky guy.
@indiabatson26
@indiabatson26 3 жыл бұрын
Aww we are both so lucky ❤️
@podsmpsg1
@podsmpsg1 3 жыл бұрын
@@indiabatson26 you're a wonderful lady.
@emilyspears8911
@emilyspears8911 3 жыл бұрын
Who else noticed that India's blue eyes match Daniel's blue shirt and his brown eyes match her brown shirt? 😍
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