MARRIED Q&A: Intimacy, Fighting, Living Together Before Marriage & Finances

[@55-555_]

I felt the same about sex. Being told no no no during the courtship and as soon as you get married it's like you are expected to have no reservations at all. It's definitely a learning process, and something we need to teach the next generation to handle better.

[@jennie_gossi04]

I agree! I feel like communication while you’re in courtship or dating is very important. you want to get to know your partner, and know that you’re comfortable having sex with that person eventually in your life. But it’s definitely awkward to talk about it... I wish Christians could normalize more sex within marriage and talk about it more openly💜‼️

[@MonaHerSelfM]

I'm gonna be honest here. You can't. Talk about everything. Some things need to happen in order to experience them, know about them and most importantly: know whether you like them or not. So. Of course it is that you get awkward or sex seems unfitting in the marriage, when you're a) not allowed to collect experience (even with the one), b) needed to wait too long, c) marrying too early and finding that you're not fitting, vibe and sexwise. Christianity for me is so dehumanizing. We're humans. Priests rape all day, everyone of them. We all do the same mistakes, were flawed. We're humans. And some people aside (asexuals or people with low libido in general), we need sex. It's a need. It affects us. The second reason, people come together. And christianity be like: no. Wth. It's so backwards, noone benefits from waiting till marriage. Jesus is dead, he won't congratulate y'all, not does your waiting bring him back. WHO benefits from that? Nya... Sorry.

[@cindys2100]

@@MonaHerSelfM God is not dead!

[@callavalhalla]

I think that there’s a point where people need to start standing up to purity culture in the church. Growing up in the church there was so much shame and guilt surrounding behavior and no emphasis on the motivations. If you’re saving yourself for marriage because you think that sex before marriage is just sinful and dirty no matter what then when you get to marriage you’ll be taking those same beliefs into the bedroom. I don’t think God wants us to sacrifice the gift of his grace for a behavioral decision based in fear. If you’re going to save yourself for marriage then I think it needs to come from a place of wanting to be pure and close with God, not out of fear of shame or guilt or even judgement which is literally everywhere. The thoughts and opinions I grew up with and the memories of deep set guilt and shame are something that I have had to deal with for my entire adult life. Bottom line, don’t not have sex to not have sex, Gods grace is sufficient (look it up) and we need it every day regardless of our virginity or lack thereof. The church has been outputting young people doused in shame and fear because of the value they put on “purity” which often times has nothing to do with the heart and everything to do with what you hide or avoid.

[@nutella2121]

India making faces at him after he told her what he doesn’t like about her is hilarious hahahahahahaha 🤣

[@indiabatson26]

I can never hide my facial expressions EVERRRR 😅🤣

[@stevejobs7658]

@@indiabatson26 same😂 sometimes a bad thing tho....😅🤪

[@CorinRae]

I agree with you, India, that "exercising" should be talked about more in the church.

[@amanuelah]

Me too!

[@MonaHerSelfM]

How?

[@drinaramirez1114]

I can’t with you not getting his “trainer” joke lol I love watching y’all and how open you are!

[@indiabatson26]

lolllllllllllll 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@joon_choco]

Omg I still don’t get it 😩

[@drinaramirez1114]

@@joon_choco oh noo 😂 so exercise=sex great trainer=great sex parter/teacher

[@jenniferkenner1290]

@@drinaramirez1114 I’m new here. Is he experienced and she was not? If I waited for marriage I think I’d want to be each other’s firsts.

[@JamieRussell-zc6gf]

She is the good sport. He is always pointing fingers at her and had 3 annoyances while she had one. He’s disrespectful. He reminds me of my husband when we were first married. He’s not allowed to disrespect me anymore. Her husband comes off as controlling. If I have any advice for her it’s don’t let him be solely in charge of the finances. Get involved!!! I’m 42 now and that’s one of my biggest regrets is letting him do it all!! And you’re hair is amazing! Keep shining. Don’t let anyone dim your light. You radiate ✨

[@jadeharrington3133]

“I can rattle off a few” 😂😂😂 I feel like he’s been wanting to get those off his chest for awhile. I absolutely love these types of videos.

[@indiabatson26]

I think he has been 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@saraabdallah5964]

I love how you said that you were happy about your husband being the only person you will ever exercise with. As a muslim woman, I believe in exercising as a married couple only too, and it makes me so happy to see you practice that as well as a christian. Especially these days where it isn’t practised that much anymore. You go girl! ❤️

[@indiabatson26]

Ahhhhh you are an angel 💛 so much love to you beautiful !!!!

[@saraabdallah5964]

@@indiabatson26 so much love to YOU gorgeous India !!! You are truly a rare and kind-hearted person 🥺❤️

[@audryx992]

You two are what i’d imagine a princess and a prince from an animated movie that came to life! lol such a beautiful couple ✨

[@whimsicaltee412]

💯! ❤️

[@bib9507]

Without sounding rude you can tell immediately that it’s different to discuss “exercising” between the genders. I like how Daniel said he understands what you mean but he’s never felt that way, and it’s simply because he’s a man and most men aren’t made to feel almost ashamed to even bring up the topic of “exercising” in church. Definitely love the videos of Daniel being included❤️😂

[@hailey7368]

I said the exact same thing lol guys have it SO easy

[@julietted8086]

I couldn’t stop smiling. Y’all are so cute. I am also married and a christian and I agree... I think ‘exercising’ is so important to talk about because it’s a beautiful thing God created for man and wife. It shouldn’t be taboo!

[@indiabatson26]

Thank you for this comment !!!! I love this. I completely agree 💛💛 so much love to you beautiful

[@heathergustafson4237]

I know your newly married but the only door you can lock maybe not even then is the bathroom. Locking other doors is just a big NOT! If a door is closed knock, wait for an answer. When it comes to the bedroom figure it out for yourselves it’s really nobodies business. Don’t invite others in behind your closed doors unless you feel it’s really hurting your marriage and you need help!

[@KayleenLavan]

Your southern suddenly came out when you said “oh hush!”😂

[@indiabatson26]

lollll 😂 u my gosh 😂 I feel like I sounded so southern in this video

[@jordanwatson9769]

YES! It is different for the men! Even in the church. I was ALWAYS made to feel ashamed of sex even after you’re married, and i never learned anything helpful or REAL because of the church. Please keep talking about! For everyone who wishes they had that knowledge earlier.

[@indiabatson26]

it absolutely is different for men. I completely agree ! I just wished this topic was talked about more in the church. I think it would be very helpful !

[@jennie_gossi04]

I agree! I’m a girl and i hope to one day get married and have sex with my husband but it seems like such an uncomfortable topic to talk about ....I want to feel comfortable with my future husband and not feel so ashamed...😭

[@jennie_gossi04]

@Astha Shrivastava hey! We’re just saying that the church doesn’t talk about sex and educates us, us much as we would like to, that’s all

[@jodeemackenzie]

Yess! Ive been married for years and my husband still has to remind me that we are married! Its okay to talk about it and look at it as a positive, exciting thing!

[@jennie_gossi04]

@@jodeemackenzie I know! I’m not married yet but I honestly can’t wait to have sex with my husband🥳

[@jessicaduffield1899]

Lock the door. Yup! Red flag! My husband works at home. Im a stay at home mom. All doors have always been open. Never even talk about that. It just is. I think its healthy to NOT lock doors. And it does show someone hiding things. Not that your husband is..... but my husband talks to me often about how easy porn is for men and women these days. Which both my husband and I had to have the Lord help us through that. It is something to talk about in my opinion as a married couple. I think everyone should. So much on social media also.

[@brieannaperez6848]

I agree! I was thinking that too

[@kunya16]

It took me way too long to figure out what you meant by exercise. As a Christian I understand the "it's bad don't do it! Don't speak of it!" transition to "do it openly and freely with your husband any time!" Then we transitioned to me being way higher drive than him and that's a whole other topic. So yeah, talk about it a lot together. Make married sex a normal topic. In your marriage communicate openly about it.

[@jennie_gossi04]

I also agree that church should talk more about “exercising”, being a teenager and having certain emotions growing up you feel like it’s “wrong” because nobody really talks about it... I look forward to one day getting married and exercise with my husband but I feel like it’s gonna be such a taboo topic to talk about...

[@indiabatson26]

Totally !!!! hormones and all that jazz should be discussed. Totally agree ! 💛

[@jennie_gossi04]

@@indiabatson26 yes! I really wish they talked about it more. Even though I am going to wait till Marriage to have any type of intimacy... I think it should be disgusted as more normal than something to be ashamed of🙌

[@callavalhalla]

Too much emphasis on behavior maybe and not enough on the heart? Lots of young adults have to deal with deep set shame when it comes to sex (even the holy kind). Gotta make sure you don’t walk the mistake of believing Gods grace isn’t sufficient in all things.

[@natygarate]

I can't get over Daniel just looking at India while doing the skin care hahaha so cute

[@indiabatson26]

LOLLLL he was such a trooper when we filmed that 💛💛 he was actually really excited when Clarins reached out and asked for him to be in the video. He was like “ tell them I’m expensive “ hahahah 🤣💛 he was excited, so sweet

[@Juli-mw1nu]

I give this marriage 7 years idk I want people to stay married but this doesn't seem right already with the fighting and locking doors hahaha god bless

[@theaondracawley5441]

My church talks about "exercise" all the time, the good and bad to our young people and also purity.

[@indiabatson26]

That’s amazing !! I think that’s so important 💛

[@jennie_gossi04]

“ I’ll be in the middle of a zoom meeting and she’s like trying to sneak in and grab things” That was hilarious 😂😂😂 Please more marriage vids🥰

[@indiabatson26]

it’s true I do this and he gets so frustrated 😅🤣🤣

[@messily1456]

Daniel blushed so hard after lisping "statistically." So fun to see him getting more comfortable on camera!

[@ComfortingGrace]

You guys are so adorable. And such newlyweds...lol...I mean that as a compliment. I agree with India that it is good for married Christians to discuss sex. My husband and I have been married almost 13 years and let me say that your sex life will change with each passing year/month. Sometimes it won't be as frequent, other times it will be very frequent. The important thing is to always make sure your partner feels loved and desired by you. Do not deny one another other than for medical or spiritual reasons. Will you sometimes not feel like doing it? Sure. But don't make a habit of refusing one another just for being tired....because trust me, there will always be a lot of tired...even more when you have children and get older. I wish you both a long and wonderful marriage...keep God first and each other a close 2nd. ❤

[@mariefabelina3669]

communication is the most important thing in a marriage, remember you both are learning in this initial stage of marriage which can be a bit overwhelming since we sometimes forget that we cannot read minds to see what your spouse is thinking, even it may seem a silly question please talk about it, and never, never go to bed mad at each other. Blessings to both of you.

[@SwavyBlonde]

It's amazing to see how Daniel's personality changing in this married life. Looking forward for Q&A of the second quarter!

[@heatherwhynot]

You two are hilarious!! I love how genuine you guys are and I love discovering a funny, informative, Christian KZbin channel!

[@MinnieMousey06]

sex as a whole needs to be destigmatized, but especially in religious settings and institutions. like there's more to sex in religion than just "don't do it until you're married". we need to discuss why it's a good idea to wait for marriage, not just from a religious standpoint, but from a practical standpoint as well like dramatically reduced risk of contracting STDs, financial stability, more stable home environment to raise potential children in, etc.

[@MonaHerSelfM]

What the fuxk do you mean with "financial stability"? Since when is it bad for children when parents have exercises?

[@LGrothier]

Your husband is such a great sport and I’m living for it! 😁👍

[@indiabatson26]

Awwww such a kind comment 💛💛💛💛💛

[@nikitagabrielle9733]

Ouuu yay a married Q&A!! My favourite kind of Q&A!!! AND I’m early for once!!😆 Love you guys!!!💕

[@indiabatson26]

thank you for being early angel 🥳✨ LOVE YOU

[@callavalhalla]

Story time! don’t know if anyone will end up reading this though haha. I was raised in a very legalistic church that put a lot of value on never doing the “wrong thing” no matter what. My father walked in on me and my girlfriend when I was fifteen and didn’t really have a strong faith back then. She wasn’t wearing a top, which was the farthest things had ever gone even though it had been well over 6 months at that point. He immediately closed the door and yelled get your shirt on and stomped downstairs. Minutes later we both came down pale in the face super scared about what was going to happen. My dad was in the phone with her parents before even trying to have a conversation with us. “Come pick up your daughter, they were being impure in my house.” Which for the record her family was not nearly as religious and this was really confusing for her parents. After that, instead of sitting us down and having a conversation about values, morals, and our relationship to God and each other he split us up. “You both need to break up” he told me when we were alone. And then he called my mom and had her drive me directly to my youth pastors house in the middle of the week without context and told me I had to go confess my sins to him and that if I didn’t then he would cut off my relationship to this girl himself. So that’s how I ended up in tears at my youth pastors house, who I didn’t have a strong relationship with and also how I ended up having to tell my pastor about my sexual sin. He made me feel dirty about it and never looked at me the same way. I was supposed to be the leader in the relationship and how dare I do something like that before marriage. (Literally just feeling up some boobs). My father and youth pastor didn’t look at me the same for the rest of high school, at which point the church split up and my family finally left the place. I had to walk away from my faith because I had so many experiences like this growing up and it wasn’t till I went and served with Youth With A Mission (which I signed up for to get hands on medical experience) that I started to get to know God for who he actually is, loving, kind, bright, shameless, pure, beautiful, and peaceful. So let this just be an affirmation to somebody out there that even if you needed to step away from your faith for any reason, you have to respect yourself and what your going through, God doesn’t go anywhere even when we do and I know that my past experiences are my own and very human, not something to judge the character of God by. Anyways yeah: end of story, basically respect yourself and your journey and know that just because you’re in the church doesn’t mean that everything is good or even okay. What I went through was traumatizing and damaging but not defining. I’m in a very happy long term relationship and will propose someday hopefully soon, even despite the darkness that was in my past.

[@desiree3488]

Locking doors is usually suspicious activity can’t you just put a sign up when turned over that says working or in a meeting. That way you won’t start to feel uncomfortable about it. Even better would be to communicate that you will been in a meeting from blank to blank before hand that way you know to get anything you need before it starts. 30+ years or marriage here only exercising with my husband.

[@9melissal]

It sounds like she just needs to learn to knock before she comes in, especially the bathroom, and then he won't lock the door lol They just still have to learn how to live with someone. It's still very new.

[@ladydinoula]

When he said that he needs alone time, I totally got it. I work with people and talk with many people everyday on work so I want sometime alone to find my core and recharge... So please be sweet to him :) it's actually really good that he can identify this problem and knows how to solve it! By the way you look good and happy together, it's very positive to see young people like this today! Greeting from Greece 😘😘😘

[@SaigeSlack]

Locking the bathroom door is absolutely understandable India 😂

[@indiabatson26]

Hahahahha the problem is our closet is in our bathroom !!!!! and I always need to grab shoes or a jacket and he’ll be in there foreverrrrr lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SaigeSlack]

@@indiabatson26 oh noooo! 😂 that totally makes sense 😂

[@DaphMrcdz]

In the other hand, my husband leaves de door completely open for me to see how beautiful he looks sitting on the throne, so yeah there's that 😂

[@9melissal]

@@SaigeSlack still it seems it's probably necessary since he said she doesn't knock to come in lol

[@SaigeSlack]

@@9melissal 😂😂😂 yeah

[@AngelaBagel]

1. Love that you’re able to live off of his salary and save yours. I knew another couple that did that for the first few years of their marriage, which allowed them to save but also got them used to living off of just his salary because they knew eventually they wanted her to be a stay-at-home mom. 2. Agree with everything you said regarding the importance of talking about exercising! The “Church” has struggled with talking about that topic in a healthy way for pretty much always lol so it’s good to hear people normalize it within the realm of marriage and having waited and all that.

[@baybabe95]

I’ve never seen a video with the two of you interacting before! It’s really cute to see your dynamic. I’m happy you’re happy girl. 💗

[@nhouse7962]

I love how much you guys can laugh and joke, its good for a relationship to have humor!

[@ammarahhussain4127]

omg love the true-ness in your vids !!!

[@indiabatson26]

ahhhhhhhhhhhhh we kept it 100% LOLLLL

[@bethanysweet3047]

Your husband is such a tool. i hope your ok with this....You should have someone who makes you feel good not constantly putting u down and complaining.

[@disneydona9707]

India: “I don’t get it”. You guys are a riot!!! So funny together. Love it.

[@_annhelga_]

you two are GOALS! thanks for your beautiful and fresh energy together, loved seeing the husband wife skincare routine :)

[@Amy19959]

Not living or sleeping together before making a lifelong commitment to somebody?? I cannot even imagine.. I'm so glad I wasn't raised around purity culture or religion. No wonder so many people end up in unhappy marriages. You can't truly know somebody until you live with them

[@beautifulmariah6677]

I completely agree that openness about “exercising” is needed.people need good wholesome education about it because even though you should wait till marriage,it’s still a beautiful thing.God gave us “exercising” as a physical representation of joining together in marriage and he didn’t have to make it enjoyable but he did so there shouldn’t be shame in it✨

[@jennie_gossi04]

I agree

[@indiabatson26]

YES I AGREE ! ❤️ so beautifully articulating

[@beautifulmariah6677]

@@indiabatson26 🤗

[@robdebl2414]

You guys are seriously the cutest!

[@rebeccakatobo3170]

it's the sandals for me, and thank you so much for being so vocal about a topic that is sort of shrugged off. Honestly, God bless!

[@77bobbycar]

Locking doors is strange. But it might be about him claiming ownership of your place. As, you will be comfortable with your surroundings. But you might feel your space is being invaded. Also, if he is an introvert. He will drained by people. So he needs to recharge. Alone time is recharging. I really would recommend moving. Getting a mutual space will help him recharge with you. And, the space ownership battle. Haha Really love your spirit India, and love all your content. 🙏🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@judiegarnett2644]

As women coming up on her 20th anniversary and happy to be going to bed with the same man and look forward to seeing him every night after work.

[@desiree3488]

Married over 30 years now and still love my hubby🥰

[@indiabatson26]

So precious !!! I love it 💛💛

[@sunnysky4513]

Been with my husband for 20 years and married going on 14 years. It’s not always been 🌈 and 🦄 but I love him and can’t picture my life without him.

[@judiegarnett2644]

@@sunnysky4513 Anything good in our lives take work and a want to work at. Here is to many many more years.

[@MsHappygirl26]

He kind of reminds me of my ex. A good guy with a good heart/intentions but EXTREMELY immature. He would hurt me with words, kind of similar to what Daniel does in this video, and then tell me it was just a joke or he was being sarcastic. All these small hurtful jabs that you laugh off in the moment add up and eventually I couldn't deal. I hope he is just trying to be a funny guy for the video and is not like this to you all the time.

[@jw0777]

very refreshing to see your thoughts about living together before marriage and premarital sex. AND when you both agreed about God/Marriage/Spouse Bless you both

[@Anne52191]

Yes, India, I completely agree with you! Sex in general in the church is either hugely demonized or hugely glorified in marriage as though it's some sort of amazing award to win that will change your life. I've always felt ashamed of my sexuality and tried to hide the fact that I felt so strongly because no one seemed to understand or care. I'm really glad that you aren't ashamed or scared to talk about it. But, I do have to say that I can also see Daniel's perspective, that it can be uncomfortable to talk about sex in group settings. I guess each person is different. :)

[@alicej-]

he looked so uncomfortable talking about "exercising" lmao Cute couple💖

[@indiabatson26]

He really isn’t comfortable talking about it. Which I understand ! his friends and family Watch my channel and so he’s cautious of what he talks about. So I’ll leave those types of conversations for our girl talks from here out (;

[@alicej-]

@@indiabatson26 looking forward to it 👌 ;)

[@ingridrodriguez3273]

It’s completely 💯 percent understandable to be uncomfortable talking about sex in front of a video you know thousands of people will watch

[@meredith18352]

I agree about the locked doors so much that when we built our house I made sure there wasn't a single internal door with a lock on it.

[@beyouchris30]

You two are so adorable. I smiled the whole time lol.

[@pirjoraila4605]

What if you saved yourself for marriage and after the wedding realized that you are not compatible intimately? I surely have not been happy with some of my partners ( not that there has been that many) and would have been devastated to be married to them only to find out.

[@dianah.9718]

🎯right??? 😵

[@oliviatucker1587]

I love you and your videos!! I’m also a newlywed and love these kinds of videos💕

[@rosea8968]

Maybe he’s just awkward but he seems a little condescending

[@coffeecrochet4732]

I think he was more awkward/nervous in this Q & A due to the topic which made him more sarcastic and deflective. Their other videos are more relaxed and funny.

[@sherry4538]

I just watched it and thought it seemed really awkward, too. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@mer-ced-es]

I was thinking that too 😭

[@raei6723]

ya he seems off

[@hailey7368]

I kinda got the same vibe too

[@katiemaus2870]

You guys are so sweet together!!!

[@indiabatson26]

We are a mess together 🤣💛💛💛💛 and I love it!

[@mysonruns]

You guys are great! When Daniel mentioned India yelling from the balcony" I exercised today"! Reminds me of that Geico commercial where the lady puts that Fit bit on her dog's tail & says" look how fast I'm running!" Too funny!

[@Metallikat]

Thank you so much for being so open about your relationship!

[@susancraigo8218]

OMG my husband does that to me with zoom meetings for work. I need to lock the door. Good idea. To resolve the spending/savings differences budget for allowances or fun money. India can save her fun money if she wants.

[@indiabatson26]

LOLLLLLLLL 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he might not be keen on the door locking 🤣🤣🤣

[@susancraigo8218]

@@indiabatson26 Very true. He might start banging on the door and that would be worse. LOL

[@indiabatson26]

@@susancraigo8218 lollll🤣🤣🤣

[@aprilc.3697]

Men like to lock the bedroom door at night for security reasons. I’d prefer to keep the door open myself, but my man prefers to keep it closed and locked.

[@bellydancebysamantha]

You guys are so cute but seriously I can’t stop staring at how beautiful India is

[@madhushreee]

I enjoyed watching this video so much :D had a smile throughout the video. Also I couldn't take my eyes off you, you're looking so beautiful

[@susanthomas5883]

You 2 are the cutest! Thank you for being vulnerable to us. You're hearts are so good. :)

[@laurac445]

Clarins is the best!

[@nellabella14]

I don’t like how uncomfortable he is talking about the subject. I mean I get it but I don’t. I feel like he should understand why you want to share your experience.

[@lenaxox4167]

idk i get why, it is an awkward topic and india is a very open person but this is out there for the internet and it's still so new to them so obviously daniel won't be completely comfortable

[@indiabatson26]

I think not everyone is comfortable with discussing their sex life online and making videos about it that their family and friends can see. it’s tricky because it’s “our” sex life and not just mine. if it was just mine, I’d tell details y’all wouldn’t even want to know 🤣 but it’s both of ours. So we have to find a way to meet in the middle and both of us feel comfortable 💛💛

[@nellabella14]

I love that “tell all” aspect about your personality. Thanks for the response. I’m a Catholic married women myself so I love how open you are. Big fan ❤️

[@indiabatson26]

@@nellabella14 awww I truly appreciate it babe !!!!! So much love to you 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@lizshoemaker8713]

Don’t worry Daniel, I got your joke and it was good haha.

[@lisal440]

LOL!! It’s so annoying how women are like “I truly only want to exercise with only you” and men’s respond is always “fine, I made an oath” implicating they wouldn’t if there weren’t rules. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@leandragustum7621]

Yeah its messed up imo

[@julcsivideos1]

I totally agree, it is especially weird when a Christian man puts it that way (in Christianity you're supposed to wait until marriage and be monogamous), because you'd think he'd have a different mindset... I love India tho, she is so pure and seems really in love.

[@No1likeSharon]

Yup. I guess that’s just the way it is. I think it’s extremely rare to find a man that loves you like you’re the only one, most perfect and desirable woman, in the world.

[@BionAvastar3000]

I saw it more as he was a little annoyed that she'd even ask cos of course it's only her for him, duh

[@leandragustum7621]

@@BionAvastar3000 could be

[@ARyde05]

I love what you said about God :) I learned awhile ago that it’s like a triangle and God is at the top point. You are at one point at the bottom and your partner at the other. The only way to get closer to your partner is to get closer to God. & its very true! ❤️ love the video !!!

[@jamiebowden4707]

Girl, please remind Daniel how lucky he is. He has WAY too many pet peeves - where you leave your shoes? Seriously? He locks doors? What? Your a beautiful, precious, sweet, kind girl and should be treated like a queen. Settle for no less!!! 😊

[@SaigeSlack]

This comments just rude lol. Both have their problems I’d be prettt annoyed about the cups too lol. But it’s not that serious. They’re happy no one is perfect

[@SaigeSlack]

You just made Daniel seem like he doesn’t deserve her because of minor things. So dumb

[@jamiebowden4707]

Maybe your right. But it just seemed like his complaints were a little harsh. I felt bad for her. She's so sweet.

[@SaigeSlack]

@@jamiebowden4707 trust me when you’re married that’s not harsh 😂 just honesty. Everyone has pet peeves haha

[@SaigeSlack]

@@jamiebowden4707 she is so sweet though, but like I said no ones perfect haha. Everyone has there things that bug people. My roomate leaves his beard hair all over the counter, I tell him; he’s not upset haha. Sorry if I came off rude haha

[@beautywearsboots6458]

I'm catholic, so very different from most of christianity, but before we could receive the sacrament of confirmation, we all got a talking to about exercise from a priest. The church reviewed the topics that would be discussed with the parents a week beforehand, and my family had some views that differed, so it was a great opportunity for my mom and I to chat. I was 13. She did most of the chatting. But, the gist from my mom was fitness is not something to feel shame about. So, India and Daniel, I encourage to discuss what your message is first, and then work backwards into how much you need to share to convey that message.

[@ElleMaryAnneBesttt]

love you and your channel💕

[@indiabatson26]

Ahhhh love you babes !!!!!💛💛💛

[@7VanillaBean]

Daniel made me so uncomfortable in this video!! He comes across as such a player and an arse which breaks me because India deserves nothing less than the best! I REALLY hope he was just awkward for the video and isn’t actually like this. Buddy should not be SO eager to bash his wife about things via a video that he hasn’t brought up before....

[@carlajones8521]

Real men don't nit pick... my father never did!!!

[@annaz2349]

AGREE . tf was that. Not in front of thousands of people...

[@shawnee.]

I personally think India can work on being more feminine/meek/ respectful toward her Husband. Letting him lead as the bible commands, and I feel he would be happier and more content. I could be wrong but that's what I perceive!!

[@GB2595]

Oh give me a break. It’s 2021, not 1950.

[@shawnee.]

Relationship principals are timeless! ♡

[@kelsieosenbach6764]

Y'all are so cute!!! Love the video!

[@ashleyann4442]

I agree with you Christians need to talk more about exercise😉 and intimacy also about how to still have a good exercise life even if you didnt save yourself for marriage but became born again after and the intimacy issues that causes.

[@darth_bagel]

I’m the saver too while my husband likes to buy expensive nice things (though he is budget conscious). So funny how the stereotype is typically the opposite 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Nish_M]

Same with me and my wife

[@indiabatson26]

Twins 💛💛

[@serenityh.]

13:01 the fact that we both said “just fine” at the same time is hysterical to me. 😂

[@angelacrowder6127]

Hi India, I absolutely enjoyed your video! I love your channel. Thank you so much for your videos! Have a wonderful evening!! 💛

[@indiabatson26]

Awwwww I hope you like watching the video !!!!!so much love to you XOXO

[@rebeccamosaad969]

Literally my favourite couple😂❤️

[@indiabatson26]

We loveeeee you xoxoxo

[@rebeccamosaad969]

IndiaBatson awe I can’t believe you answered! Love you too!!

[@kerryfisher9406]

I love you guys you both are just glowing ❤️

[@almacorbellalugo9067]

You guys are hilarious 🤣 😆 😂 😄

[@indiabatson26]

we are a mess together 😂😂 thank you for watching XOXO

[@shreyabhan9680]

WHEN DANIEL DID THE "STATISTICALLY 🤓☝🏽" HAHAHHA

[@annyvitoria3074]

I loved skincare tutorial. Have a nice day

[@daniellehodgson105]

OMG I laughed all the way through!! I love you guys and this video was awesome like always India!!!!!!

[@indiabatson26]

Awwww you are an angel 💛 I’m so glad you enjoyed the video beautiful 😘😘

[@stellamuller5508]

What would also be really interesting: do you guys have the same sort of humor or how important is it in your relationship or for you in general?

[@giselleruby7495]

Your videos are the best❤️ where is your lavender tee from? I know that seems random, but your basics always look nice quality lol

[@valerielinares2068]

What does "tanamojo" mean @ 12:06?

[@Mr.Law2.0]

That’s another KZbinr

[@vianaahmadi8775]

You guys get along so cuuuute

[@victoriadinottia7906]

Oh my goodness that was a lot of serum and moisturiser. U really only need a little bit. Hope that helps, love u guys!

[@rosesmith000]

THANK YOU FOR sharing your life with us!!! Agreed on exercising topic!

[@jeanettegeraci1515]

India - Your lipstick is perfection! Brand and shade please? 😻 💄 💋

[@annyvitoria2662]

4:23 Rocked this Look,hair and makeup

[@GK-rt2oz]

Living together for a couple years before even getting engaged is necessary to me. I need to know if we work well living together on a daily basis and our tolerance of being with each other constantly before the big commitment is made. The pet peeves y'all mentioned are things you would've already known and possibly could've worked on before getting engaged or married. (I'm not religious so totally understand Christian and other beliefs are different and that's okay!)

[@angelag669]

You two are just the cutest.

[@kikamix1]

You got a good trainer 🏋️‍♂️ 🤣🤣 that was funny. And that long list.... his honest ❤️ you guys are just the cutest!

[@karagarcia9326]

I've never related to a more real coup-le then you both! new subscriber here. About to be married in a week!

[@nikolettjozsika7176]

India, your necklace is gorgeous. Where did you get it? Does anyone else have an idea of where to find it? Thanks!

[@indiabatson26]

Are you referring to the little one with the heart or the herringbone chain ?

[@nikolettjozsika7176]

Oh, I didn't even notice you had both of them on! The herringbone chain please.

[@ssh6414]

Food for thought: your purity was important to you prior to marriage and it should be now, as should the purity of your unmarried viewership. All your subscribers didn't get married with you and some of us enjoyed your more innocent content. Also, the fact that you and your husband are intimate behind closed doors is HOLY, not dirty, not impure. Once others start imagining you and your husband in the throes of passion you've led others to sin. You've invited that. I'm married. I'm not worried about you sullying my ears. I'm just offering a point of view. Much love, God bless ❤️

[@indiabatson26]

I appreciate this perspective. And I still create lots of content centered around natural beauty, feminine hygiene etc. But I do not personally agree That I am leading others to sin by sharing about this stage in my life now. I hope My content shows people that can just have sex with one person for the rest of your life and it can be a beautiful thing, As opposed to what society tells the world. Whenever I talk about these topics I am always careful to not get too detailed or explicit in anyway.I’d like to discuss these topics in a very wholesome way . But if these types of videos aren’t for you personally I have many other videos that don’t discuss this topic 💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@denii7094]

don't worry Daniel, i got the trainer- exercising joke 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Elizabethmarie1313]

Never tried Clarins but def interested in trying it

[@joem80003]

Awesome you guys got married I think you need to treasure her

[@juliesjourney8625]

I’m new to your channel...praise God there are still people like you! Your chemistry is great! Really enjoying your channel!