INFJs Have High Sex Drives, And That's Nothing To Be Ashamed Of

[@BoomShikha]

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[@MikeTheShark80]

My high drive is mostly in my mind lol...I don't go out and smash random people in real life.

[@BoomShikha]

Of course!!! ❤❤❤

[@zojairam]

And some people do not understand that they think that you go on in live banging all that it moves 👎 😞

[@apurvashyam620]

@@zojairam 😂😂😂😂so true

[@b7ooklynn]

Yeah!!! That's how it works. 😑

[@tommoya7452]

same 😅

[@Second_Son1990]

Yes. INFJ’s *tend* to have very high sex drives, probably due to Ni and Fe working in tandem. Though sexually, we also *tend* to be rather awkward and uncoordinated via inferior Se. But, gain an INFJ’s trust and connect with her/him on the mental plane and then prepare to be shook in the bedroom as your gentle confidante transforms right before your eyes.

[@BoomShikha]

YES!!! Love this. Thanks for sharing. ❤🌻🌻❤

[@sittaraatayee3889]

For me as an infj sex is just not sex it’s a way for intimacy, closeness, to escape for this harsh world, To merge with my partner, to get lost in each other It’s so much more deeper than just sex.

[@BoomShikha]

Oh yes, well said! :)

[@keithla_ron7762]

I completely agree and its crazy how infj's are about sex. Honestly I thought it was me, myself just highly sexual but hearing this makes me at ease. It is embarrassing for me to think about but if you can talk about it then I'm able to be comfortable in my skin. I think as an infj we're just way to in tune with a lot.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!!! Exactly. 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@mindofajb]

This was something that I really needed to hear about. Thank you for this video and I applaud your bravery in sharing.

[@BoomShikha]

You are absolutely welcome!! 💥😅😬😜❤💥

[@loenkei3214]

INFJs need the right partner to let out the beast basically. For me, if a random man touch my shoulder I would shriek away but if MY MAN touch my kitty out of nowhere I'm down for it, do anything you want to do to me. That kind of thinking... Lol

[@BoomShikha]

YES!! Agreed. :)

[@b7ooklynn]

Agreed!!!

[@suzie_155]

Love this video and I also love thinking about sex. I thought I am the weird one lol but after hearing that most INFJs have high sex drives I can relate so much. Thanks for making this beautiful video❤️

[@BoomShikha]

You are absolutely welcome!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@ashley336mccoy]

I have to say THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart. YOU are exactly what I needed to hear right now. I know you posted this video 2 years ago but kudos to you to remaining celibate in order to express and create with that kind of energy. I think you’re truly amazing for your courage to make this video. Especially coming from a Muslim background. You are a Goddess!

[@BoomShikha]

Awwww! Thank you! 😊

[@aljohara6826]

As a female, I always say "it must be my hormones" because i dont feel others around me are like that. At the same time I'm not active due to religious reasons and because I believe that I have a lot to offer in regards to the topic being discussed, I don't think that just anyone can know that about me, which seems logical. NOT everyone has to know or see.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing your experiences!

[@nreilly5901]

Hi Boom Shikha, your videos are so healing; I’m a male INFJ and although I’ve been on the spiritual path for a few years, I haven’t really ever felt understood or connected to others much, and so discovering MBTI and then discovering other INFJs has been a blessing. :) Listening to you is like listening to the female, more masculine (which is lovely btw!) version of myself. 😊 And you are so intuitive. Thanks for your videos :)

[@BoomShikha]

Loveeee it!! Thank you for watching. ❤❤❤

[@kailaalao7455]

Thank you so much for opening up and talking about this topic. As an INFJ I've always been very sexual/sexually minded from the time I was young and I would always try to repress it, thinking, as you said, there was something wrong with me. This is the first year that I am truly discovering more about myself and I'm finally learning to accept and love my sexuality.

[@BoomShikha]

That's awesome!! Yeah, sexuality is a great boon to us, and we should use it as such. :)

[@Coneman3]

It's a cruel fate that INFJs have high sex drives but are crappy at dating. What's the answer?

[@BoomShikha]

Become better at dating. :)

[@Coneman3]

But how can I learn when I don't know what I am doing wrong?

[@marydietterich5968]

Thanks for opening a topic that I share the same feelings about! Sexuality makes the INFJ the most beautiful of all! It enhances their beauty and appeal! Marilyn Monroe must have been an INFJ The ultimate expression of the human experience

[@BoomShikha]

YES!! You put it so beautifully. :)

[@gracevenu1670]

Being an INFJ- Taurus. I can accept my High Sex Drive but recently I got to know that thinking and Mainly Imagining about Scenarios should not be done in our Minds.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@zojairam]

Im an INTJ and I have a high sex drive!!! Honestly sometimes is embarrassing and I do feel like is something bad 😞 specially when I’m asked “are you always this hot” 👎 I feel the need to pretend I’m not really into 😔

[@BoomShikha]

Ugh! There's nothing wrong with a high sex drive! 🤗🤗

[@rainynight6334]

I really needed to hear this!! Thanks 😭🙏💜

[@BoomShikha]

You are so welcome. :)

[@Intu11110]

I just thought my testosterone is going out of control 🤣

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching! :)

[@puffyevergreens]

Me too lol & l I'm hella multiorgasmic

[@rayalvarez7247]

ISFJ- I'm a quiet, passionate lover.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing. :)

[@fatimaamiri7793]

I m infj... 18 years old... Living in a muslim country.. And i feel every single word comes out of your moth... I sometimes feel like a very bad girl and recently it s been killing me.. 😿😿😿thank you for this video. Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@amarti53]

You're not bad- it's a natural thing not just for humans, but for all living creatures. It's a good thing, because if there was no such thing as a sex drive, humans (and all other animals) would cease to exist

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for supporting each other like this!! ❤🌻🌻❤

[@fatimaamiri7793]

@@amarti53 thank you Andrew. This world needs people like you so much.... Earthy angle💚

[@Seca95]

There’s nothing to be ashamed of. I’m a practicing Muslim myself, and I know sex is very important in Islam (as opposed to what cultures in Muslim majority countries make it sound like). How can something which is crucial to keeping humankind from going extinct not be important? Something which is important for a healthy and happy relationship? However, it can only happen between a married couple, of course. So, as long as you stick to that rule, you’re good:) (I take it that you’re a practicing Muslim).

[@fatimaamiri7793]

@@Seca95 yes .what you say is true and right but the problem is that you sexdrive will be there even if you are not married and you need to practice a lot to control it and it s sometimes hard .sometimes can even motivate you to marry the wrong person and get in troubles.

[@8neptune7]

Very true! We really do and sometimes we have to “supplement” which does NOT mean we desire our partner less. For INFJs we might want our partner even more. Remember, we are rare so society will never understand

[@BoomShikha]

YES!! :)

[@fernandocastro3531]

Infj scorpio so that's a doozy!

[@BoomShikha]

Hahaha! I can imagine.

[@fernandocastro3531]

@@BoomShikha lol, I'm not sure anyone really can....

[@adamswierczynski]

So in macrobiotic politics (yes, there is more to macrobiotics than diet) there is a recognition of the 4 social taboos: 1) Sex 2) Money 3) Religion 4) Food (total shocker) These 4 areas are ones of conversational drought, and in turn they are also the 4 areas where health is most lacking in humans' lives. Because there is a refusal and/or aversion to these topics, very unhealthy practices and beliefs persist well into the "age of information" in which we currently live. Thank you for showing the courage to have authentic conversations about such 'forbidden' topics. You are helping the world become a better place.

[@BoomShikha]

Fascinating!!! Thanks for sharing this. 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@marydietterich5968]

Sex.. the ultimate magic carpet ride

[@BoomShikha]

Exactly!! :)

[@DandinXY]

Thank you for talking about these things.

[@BoomShikha]

You are absolutely welcome!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@amyj.4992]

That's what I'm doing too. I'm using my sex energy to create art and dance and attain my manifestations right now. I enjoy the intimacy of careful emotional connections. It's nice to be able to have heightened energy reads

[@amyj.4992]

I haven't rubbed one out in 2 weeks now

[@BoomShikha]

Amazing!!! Good for youuuuu. It's so powerful, isn't it??

[@amyj.4992]

A true infj shares nonverbal communication with our hyper libido is based on emotional intelligence, especially when it gets transmutational in the bedroom

[@enso496]

Thank you for this! As an INFJ guy I struggle with this. I'm in involuntary celibacy because I don't participate in a lot of social situations due to introversion, but I have strong sex drive. And Tinder is dumb. Also I know that women are scared of men and tiered of dumb pick ups, so I honestly have no idea how to show my sexual interest. I guess I don't need sex because I'm already fucked.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing your experiences!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@tinyyellowtree4076]

Use that Fe good man, smile. You have nothing to lose. It is flattering to be of interest, so perhaps flatter someone with your interest. I recommend a walk where people are. Your Se needs exercise too.

[@baba2464]

Thanks for putting this out. Always wondered why we were this way and most of our partners were not.

[@BoomShikha]

You are absolutely welcome!!! ❤🌻🌻❤

[@prachirahate1631]

Hats off to your courage 😅! I admit that I too think a lot about it on a daily basis since 11-12 years old...... But this is something I supress a lot. And this is first time I'm saying this🙈

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching! ❤🌻🌻❤

[@btdu2789]

I've been fine without it for 15 years until now. Didn't even have any urges until recently, I'm just going through some stuff. So hard to have someone to love and grow old with.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing! ❤️

[@SRKanai1]

Im confused. You've said often that due to a low mind body connection, infj's often dont have much of a sex drive.

[@mindofajb]

In my experience, it's like an on or off switch. If I'm off, I don't really want sex. But when I'm on and I want sex, it's crazy. When there isn't someone to share that sexuality, that overwhelming sexual desire gets exhausting. I think of it as the INFJ all or nothing mentality.

[@BoomShikha]

Loveeee this!! And yes, there's definitely a difference between a satisifed healthy INFJ, vs. a non-satisfied unhealthy INFJ. And for me, because I have built up a really great mind-body connection, my sex drive is through the roof. But for someone else with a poor body-mind connection, it would be perhaps harder to feel the sex drive, even though it exists at the physical level. 💥😅😬😜❤💥

[@jenniferkirschbaum4998]

12:12 on the timer. My birthday and I am a high sex drive INFJ 😂

[@BoomShikha]

Happy birthday!! 🥳🥳🥳

[@jamessherman8954]

Yup Bingo again... I got divorced from my first wife ... I wanted to have sex with her all THE time. We had 3 kids together.. she asked for the divorce ... anyways yes I like having sex as much as I can... I went to therapist to see why... lots of what you say is right ... thanks

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!!! 💥😅😬😜❤💥

[@JOEYDEEZ369]

I have a super high drive… always have done… I’m almost 56 and I see no signs of it abating… and no.. I am not ashamed about it… because I’ve practiced celibacy now for over 23 yrs… I am highly selective with choosing who I do the beast with two backs with hahahah and I am able to control my desires… I have adopted very inventive ways of achieving sexual satisfaction… I mean sex isn’t the be all of everything but its vitally important in a relationship… sex should not be just for babies.. it’s definitely for enjoyment in my blessed opinion…. Sex is great but without that deep connection it’s completely null and voided for me… I want that connection first and foremost because when you have that with someone then the sex is like nothing you’ve ever experienced before… sex gets better with age… body confidence is key to a great sex life… I’m ultra comfortable and confident in my skin… basically I am very open minded about the whole shebang hahahahah Thank you Boom’…. hi…bye & ciao for now ;)’

[@BoomShikha]

Love this! You go girl! 💕💕💕

[@JOEYDEEZ369]

@@BoomShikha Thank you for your reply & for the compliment… and you’re most welcome btw ;)’

[@LourdesBlancor]

Omg thank you. I don’t feel alone anymore ❤️

[@BoomShikha]

So glad to hear that!!

[@kathleenstaples1341]

I love watching you talk about this so much.

[@BoomShikha]

Glad you liked it. :)

[@apurvashyam620]

This is the reason why Sanatana Dharma has so much things on sex including Kamasutra, so spiritual.♥️😘

[@BoomShikha]

Exactly!!: :)

[@nealejames2243]

Maybe the high sex drive is due to INFJs connection with external energy, (as with the soaking up of other people's energies/vibes )maybe we are connecting with the sexual energy of the whole earth. Sexual energy is a primary force, maybe we are more open to it than other people. I love your vids. Thank you for your honesty and openness.

[@BoomShikha]

Ah, interesting idea. Maybe that could be it. Thanks for sharing!

[@dangulangul9490]

Osho Talks ❤️✨

[@amabeautiful92]

I feel like my sex drive is not normal And must be imbalanced hormones because normally when I am horny I do a 3 day fast spending time with God and the sex drive goes always. But the last few months when I’m horny the 3 day fast doesn’t work anymore! The sex drive is even more stronger because My vag pulse is beats 24/7 which scares me and I refuse to masturbate. The last time it took one week of fasting for the pulse beating to stop

[@BoomShikha]

Fascinating. Have you considered using that creative sexual potential to do something creative with it? That's what I do. Use all of that beautiful sexual energy to write and create. Cheers!

[@amabeautiful92]

@@BoomShikha I haven’t but I love art so I will try it. Thank you!

[@greentooth3097]

I like this video but I'm also confused because at 7:14 you begin to talk about your celibacy as a positive way to gatekeep sexual energy and direct it toward creativity instead of giving it away to superficiality. This is exactly why Islam teaches, not celibacy, but channelling sexual energy in the right direction and with the right person in a spiritual bond, not just a superficial and potentially very damaging experience of just gratifying it physically and expending it. I was also raised Muslim and I'm so grateful that I wasn't encouraged or pressured to have sex in my family environment but as a westerner it's really a big problem being pressured to have sex and if you don't have sex then you're weird or you have lower value as a virgin. It destroys your creativity and sexual energy gets misdirected. Sex in Islam is not about procreation. Sex is about pleasure and love and its highly encouraged to have sex and lots of it. Its only against casual free sex culture and losing the drive to form relationships by masturbating or casual flings. That said, there's no punishment or condemnation for masturbating. Any powerful energy has to be contained and directed. There's a lot of misery going around for people who are bombarded with sex sex sex sex everywhere. Lots of mental distress and illnesses, addictions etc. Anyways, my rant. Islam is definitely pro-sex but also against free sex culture.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing! ❤️

[@greentooth3097]

@@BoomShikha Thanks Boom, love your content!

[@LA-hx5kk]

Wonderful topic. I wish we can have a cup of coffee ☕️

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for watching. :)

[@solarqueen2555]

I have heard that creativity and sex drive are both managed by the same chakra? I don’t know how to phrase that properly. Basically, if you are actively using that energy in a sexual way, you will have less for creativity and vice versa.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, you are right. But that's just part of the story. Chakras are actually quite complex. Creativity is 'managed' as you call it by the throat chakra and by the sexual chakra. That's why it is possible to run out of it in the sexual chakra, but it's still possible to have it in the throat chakra (also the heart chakra, but that's love-based creativity). It's quite complex, as you can imagine. I would recommend the book, Eastern Body, Western Mind, by Judith Anodea, if you want to read more on it. :) amzn.to/2V8e1i0

[@Ballard68]

Courageous of you to share your thoughts on sex. Keep up the good work in all things. Thank you for your channel.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!!

[@melanie.l6282]

Because people say that we appear aloof and cold they think we are bocks of ice................surprise there is fire under the ice!!!

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, well said!!

[@chadfoxx4075]

I have deep , erotic lust and when I moved from a low sex drive country which was America to a high sex drive country which is Brazil my life got soooo much better and I haven't been back to the states for 8 year's now. Back in the states where people's sanity and sex drives are in the gutter I was getting told to get " therapy" and shamed for having a high sex drive , but when I moved to Brazil I was finally able to be myself without getting shamed for it .

[@BoomShikha]

Fascinating!! Didn't think that each country would be different in its level of sex drive. Thank you for sharing. :)

[@Virtual_Guy]

Brother I am about to move to Brazil and my one of the reasons of moving out is the same as you have mentioned...so please kindly elaborate how your romantic and sexual life had been since you moved out!

[@Ceraii]

Oh wow... I have met many many people and wondered what they were like in the bedroom. I always thought I was some pervert. I'm a guy so it just makes that feel much more true. Thus I have never told anyone I have that thought process. Edit: I am an INFJ.

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for sharing! ❤️ ❤️

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

😳omg. Same. I hate myself for thinking that I'm girl. I high sex drive and I feel so dirty...gross..hate.... disgusting....

[@Ceraii]

@@Jivi_Galaxy I first noticed it as a teenager. Teenage boy, raging hormones, highly intoverted, yeah I thought that was the case. But as I got older I noticed it never stopped. This is who I am. Now that I'm diving into learning more about INFJ I saw this video and was like wow that's a thing. I'm not the only one! I encourage you to not feel dirty or gross or anything like that. Own it. It's part of you. Even if you never tell anybody you think like that own it. It's part of who you are. The sex drive bit I don't think is necessarily connected to the personality types though. But hey that's part of you as well. Own that as well. Sexuality is part of the human experience and therefore not something to be shamed or feel grossed out about. It is perfectly ok if that is a strong part of you. A worthy partner would certainly embrace it.

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

@@Ceraii thanks for saying that 🥺❤️

[@Ceraii]

@@Jivi_Galaxy just like the video says. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

[@Bucky1836]

Trying to learn to live with my INFJ personality, love your channel....i just wanna smash with someone that understands😤

[@BoomShikha]

Join the INFP FB group if you haven't already. facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/

[@Bucky1836]

@@BoomShikha ill join thanks 😃

[@itsmepearly607]

When you say you’re celibate does that include masturbation? Or just the act of sex alone.

[@BoomShikha]

During the really strict times, yes. But not right now. :)

[@Monkwhispers]

Yes... She is one hundred percent true.

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for watching!! ❤🌻🌻❤

[@deadsoon]

I'm INTP but I relate! I've got an unusually high sex drive but I never actually consumate with a partner given I'm single and hooking up seems inconvenient given I would not know the risks with a stranger. I think high intuition and introversion in the Jungian sense will bring about this inclination, and I have read about how high IQ correlates to high libido but less sexual partners.

[@BoomShikha]

Interesting! 💕

[@rachelolivia875]

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗"I am PROUD of BOOM!,is what I would encourage u to say in ur MIRROR. Thanks once again, it all makes sense👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤩🤩🤩🤣

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for watching!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@feiwaan]

3:18 I wonder what kind of country that was... because it’s just absurd.. islamically,sex is good but between married couples only (man and woman) and it’s not a bad thing.. As for masturbation,and others then this is not allowed. Am just clearing that up,a misconception if you still have such beliefs. You can’t go to hell if you are doing it the right way.. I.e sex husband and wife... anything outside of that is a taboo Even as a single lady as I am,my parents teach me how to do so,everything I need to know,with numerous hadiths explaining what is allowed and not allowed. So it’s not a taboo,just don’t go out of the legislation that’s all.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing your experiences!! :)

[@saranox7319]

Still superficial when having sex with a narcissistic Person. I was like a sex Addict because it was the only „intimicy“ he Showed me.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing! ❤😍😊❤

[@kokogauze3582]

How to convert this huge energy to creat things and be productive at work?

[@BoomShikha]

I've created a course on this. Check out my website themillionairehippie.com

[@cradleofcivilization3144]

Sex drive means good health

[@BoomShikha]

True!

[@skyyadav4877]

Whoa! Thank you Thank you very much for making this video. I always used to think it's only me who has this strong feeling of sex driving but now I'm happy to know I'm not the only one. ❤️ You follows me on insta but here I have to follows and subscribe your channel ❤️. Thank you and we appreciate your courage. It was difficult but you have done it.

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for watching!!! ❤❤❤

[@swatirajsgi]

Very enlightening! an INFJ.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching! ♥️

[@draconbow190]

Thanks for sharing this :)

[@BoomShikha]

You are absolutely welcome! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@infjinfj1900]

Thank you for sharing this (: 🙏🏽

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@parthamajumder4105]

So soo true. I am in love with your video.

[@BoomShikha]

So happy to hear that. :)

[@Silla685]

Thanks for your reply, Boom in the previous post and so sorry cannot reply in that post even though I tried and thanks for the feedback that I really thought about and it really helps me out. btw, I really appreciate your bravery in speaking about this topic that always labeled as 'taboo' and frowned upon. Really encourage me and help me to understand and accept myself better. and I have a question if you don't mind. In this video, you sort of mention that you using yoga to transmuting this sexual energy and moved it upwards into your heart so you can have more creative energies and can you share it in a video format in regarding how to do that ? because sometimes I lack of creative energies and hit a block when I'm trying to do my creative works. #eagerlyawaityourreply Thanks a lot and I will wait for your reply ! you're always inspiring and really give me a clarity about many unanswered questions that lingers in my mind. Hope you always be succesful and happy, Boom ! ^-^/

[@BoomShikha]

I will add the idea to my list and lets see when I get to it. I also have a course on the exact subject, moving sexual energy to creativity. www.udemy.com/from-sex-obsessed-to-creative-genius/

[@RubiscoTalks]

Thank u so much ❤️

[@BoomShikha]

You are so welcome! :)

[@derricepugh8509]

My word for it is deviant. Sexually Deviant. Odd to me how closed off the collective is on the subject of sexuality.. The action, when we are sold sex in any medium we desire. Sex is a source of confusion to me. Sex drive is only the tip of the iceberg. Great topic.

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for sharing!! ❤🌻🌻❤

[@mamz4834]

Ohh shit is it just an infj thing I thought it was something else 😭

[@BoomShikha]

It's related to many things, but being an INFJ is definitely one of them.

[@DJDevon3]

As a female we have so much power within us which is always stamped down upon because of this masculine patriarchal society we live in.

[@BoomShikha]

YES!!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@MichaelGodding]

Feminine matriarchal system also.

[@ecstasybliss3710]

As a INTJ male That has a kundalini awakening I agree the feminine energy is wayyy 10 times more powerful than the masculine I’m an INTJ so I’m in touch with both energies we are all made up of both . gender doesn’t matter women is the only gate away to the spiritual world there the only one that can bring a human being on earth that’s coming straight from the spiritual world plus that’s a whole life force energy inside of you .

[@Everydaygirl-j7g]

Thanks for making this video, ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BoomShikha]

You are so welcome!

[@marjorieguzman19]

This is not true. I am an INFJ and I do not have a high sex drive. In fact, I’m asexual and I rarely think of sex. I would say that my sex drive is almost non-existent. One size doesn’t fit all. Not all INFJs have a high sex drive. I’m starting to question this personality type thing.

[@BoomShikha]

I go through moments of this as well, where I don't even notice that I have a sex drive or a body. But that's because in those moments, I am highly disconnected from my body and spending way too much time in my head. And of course, not everything about the MBTI type is going to resonate with everyone. If it doesn't work for you, filter yourself out. ❤🌻🌻❤

[@gerbenhoutman9348]

I'm glad I'm not alone ;) It should be a transcendent experience! I've always felt cheated by other types. Maybe that explains my obsession with pleasing the female.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching! ❤❤❤

[@ladyshark5530]

Gurrllllll good for you! Especially since you were raised in the total opposite set of beliefs! I understand you 150%. I too am female pansexual. And if people ask I just say.. I just don’t discriminate gender age or color. I don’t see the difference in most ways. I always have sex on the mind as well as love. Just thought I was searching for my person and don’t want to touch too many people but the ones i very much are attracted too I fantasize about regularly. I also LOVE talking about sex. I wish people felt more comfortable with the subject and maybe one day we all we be. I do get people to open up about their sex life with me and I just listen. And give advice when asked for. I literally have sex more in my mind than I do physically lol and have no shame. But I’m also very odd because I’m only good with one intimate partner. It’s a battle all in itself. I admire you girl!

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us! 💥😅😬😜❤💥

[@ladyshark5530]

Andrew Martinez wow dude no!

[@smilealways4978]

Your right thank you for this , coz I'm a Muslim n I lived in middle East till age 16 and I was always controlling I still control but I don't force myself controling my sexual urge It thought me to be patient idk if it's good or bad ... But being Muslim touching private part is said sin. I do have fear coz one side my religion one side my emotions and needs but I've started to accept little and understand myself.. How did you transfer sexual energy to creative??.

[@BoomShikha]

I have a course on this on my website. Check the link in the description.

[@jamescob9934]

This is so embarrassing lol you know to much about us infj boom. It's crazy that we are a paradox in this way to I'm demisexual so I only really have a strong crush on a few women(all those women are high calibers women. Their smart , funny, kind, adventurous, independent the supreme woman on earth lol) in my life time but yet I have a high sex drive (one big paradox). Bit I heard people with high i.q have high sex drive and high sex drive is link to high creativity. Do you think so ??????

[@BoomShikha]

I would absolutely think there would be a connection between creativity, sexuality, and intelligence. 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@malikvanrheede4151]

Damn an here I thought I was crazy 🤔

[@jamescob9934]

@@malikvanrheede4151 yeah I'm kinda weird :)

[@ABHINAVKUMAR-vh3ln]

I am feeling a lot means a lot. I need help in reducing my feeling. It is affecting my studies, sleep and work. Please, I need some guidance. I don't know whom to talk to about this. 😥😥😥😥

[@BoomShikha]

Try square breathing to reduce the noise in your head. www.webmd.com/balance/what-is-box-breathing

[@ABHINAVKUMAR-vh3ln]

@@BoomShikha I was not knowing about this. Thank you. I will try this method. Thank you for your reply. You are so sweet. 😍

[@thewatcher9621]

Thanks for this video! Really. Hahahah

[@BoomShikha]

You are so welcome!

[@cynthiadavis9174]

I'm 61 years old also pansexual who was fortunate enough to have a forward-thinking who told me that sex was when I was young. I'm not saying she told me to go out and have sex with she told me was that sex between consenting adults it's perfectly natural and beautiful. I do experience the all-or-nothing infj thing. If I'm in love I want sex all the time, if I'm single not so much.

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for sharing!! 💥😅😬😜❤💥

[@soofascinating]

Infj is compatible with infj. Aren't we r awesome

[@BoomShikha]

Hehehehe! Yup.

[@larapunk3532]

I'm a Muslim cause this I didn't try it therefore I do not have sex drive maybe when I get married But there's a point I want to spot about it Mrs boom that Islam Is avoiding us from things that are in long term had bad effect because this they avoiding us from doing sex while we are young for two reason 1 we waste our childhood or as teenage in adult thing 2 that having sex many times with different partners as the Gf and bf are changing regularly now studies confirm that having sex with more than one partner at the same time or after with short time it affects the women with many disease as well as the men I know a lot of you won't accept this idea but I'm just spotting the light or. Wiping the dust about misunderstood thing thank u I hope you tell me about your opinion Mrs boom and u guys

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@sakusaiyan]

Have it ALOT, you only life once anyway so why not joy. :P

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@alexadellastella5247]

Really??? I'm not sure it's the same for every INFJ.... I'm more on the asexual side myself and definitely INFJ.... might be the exception, don't know...

[@BoomShikha]

Interesting! I notice two trends in the replies on this video. Either hypersexuality or asexuality. 🥸🥸🥸

[@tinyyellowtree4076]

Double high fives Boom!

[@BoomShikha]

Awww, thank you!!! ❤🌻🌻❤

[@eeshitagovil]

❤❤

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!

[@nawakaida7499]

This has nothing to do with INFJ. It’s just her personal story about how beautiful sex is although she’s not been having any sex for years now. Ummmm …. Ok I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@BoomShikha]

Hahaha. Thanks for the synopsis. :)

[@andresalvarez1732]

😋 #GuiltyAsCharged

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching. :)

[@misbhamomin8945]

Me infj t hu Mera bhi same problem he

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing. :)

[@melvinpatomendoza]

It is part of "The Law of Creation"

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching! 💥😅😬😜❤💥

[@Mannan7007]

Thanks Mam ji

[@BoomShikha]

You are welcome! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@Coneman3]

Where do you live? 😉

[@BoomShikha]

Thailand.

[@Coneman3]

@@BoomShikha shame, I am in UK. 😞😁 I have a very high sex drive. I fancy many women and in an ideal world would have many lovers at the same time! I don't feel like being monogamous. I agree it's a life changing positive thing.

[@johnnyboy1586]

Infg????

[@BoomShikha]

INFJ. Check out 16personalities.com.

[@TheGs386]

I'm an INFJ. This wz theeeee worst ramblings I've ever heard!!!! DAMN!!!! Wit wz the point and aim of the video? Wut did she want us to take away from her sharing? I got nuthin!!!

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for the feedback and I suggest you stop watching my videos because they are all like this! Hahaha... 😁😁😁