INFJs In School - The INFJ Learning Style

[@PSYCH-O]

Hey PSYCH-Os! *So do you relate to these points about the INFJ Learning Style?* Comment down below 👇 PS. Don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with a friend! Thank you for all your support 🙏

[@Protectedbikelanes]

For an infj child, traditional classroom learning in a Montessori or Waldorf setting ideal?

[@theepiczone3397]

I wish I would have known this growing up. Would have prevented me from believing when others told me I had a learning disability. That put a huge burden on my psyche.

[@AboodAbu12345]

No joke, this is so on point. I've made it a point now to set up deadlines atleast a day ahead so I can trick myself into thinking that time is running out so I can start a project last moment. It's pointless starting early cause I know it won't get done until time is about to be up, I feel like it's so much less work doing last minute.

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha that's exactly it, great tactic! Thanks for watching 😂

[@ryaneffin386]

Wait till you get to 36. It gets worse lmao. But I have done things that my present self appreciates. Comfort of life shit lol. God bless bro. You’ve got enough light to change the course of every event. I see you, you destined Saint.

[@AboodAbu12345]

@@ryaneffin386 36? Man I hope I find a final update to my self by 33, that's the goal. I'm trying to make little changes to my software at every turn to make things more efficient. If you get what I mean. What do you do to get by? If you don't mind me asking, I'm genuinely interested. 🙃

[@AboodAbu12345]

@E A I'd just read up on the learning disabilities but I don't think it should be a "Disability" it might be a different way of doing things but that's about it. His idea of learning the day before the exam is excellent, we remember the latest information better than the older ones. But that also means forgetting and overlapping memories because it would be too much information for us to process. I've been through the times when I couldn't remember the answer and I just sat there scolding myself for not remembering knowing that I know the answer in my mind. I don't know much, but your son sounds like a whole intellectual, he'll find his groove just going down rabbit holes of information, they are adventures and I bet you'd be impressed sitting with him while he does his research of random things. Also, I found that trying the answer is better than skipping it cause most of the time, we're just doubting ourselves over the right answer. I am sorry about your mum, it could traumatize anyone, but I guess death is a part of life.

[@BrainPill]

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[@educationalbrowsing8913]

The most difficult part of learning something new is connecting the dots. Not just knowing how something is done but why.

[@PSYCH-O]

Great perspective - thank you for watching! 🙌

[@rhiannalopez3805]

Exactly if I dont know how it works I wont be able to learn it right away

[@nursyafiqah9181]

@@rhiannalopez3805 yeah me tooo,i need to know why so i can understand

[@swan9491]

My biggest problem with school is procrastination for sure. I can have 2 papers due Tuesday night and I'll wait until Tuesday to get them started

[@Nubalanceacdc]

I thought I worked better that way..lol

[@swan9491]

@@Nubalanceacdc haha right? I still get them done, but it's definitely more stressful than if I just started it earlier 😂

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha yup! 😂

[@dimunnpabebet7040]

I thought that was a perceiver type thing to procrastinate most of the time

[@swan9491]

@@dimunnpabebet7040 I don't know. I just know what I do. I hear that the reason is because infjs are perfectionists, which I definitely am a perfectionist, but I don't think that's it for me. I just have a hard time focusing on something if I'm not "feeling it". So I wait until I feel motivated to do it, and that's usually when I know I NEED to. So maybe that somehow connects to being a perfectionist and I don't realize it, but I'm not sure.

[@billjacobs2799]

Being an INFJ I learned to read/understand my teachers and how they tested. The first test in any class would always be my lowest grade on a test, after the first test I knew what the teacher would put on the following tests and study accordingly, I always got A's on all subsequent tests. I learned how to read people so well I received straight A's in Grad school. I looked for routines in coursework and how teachers taught their class, obviously this worked well for me and might not work for everyone.

[@PSYCH-O]

Brilliant approach! 😂👌

[@sumaiyahkhan2485]

I used to do that in school.... But now in college....it takes time for me understand them and lecturers keep changing.

[@rhiannalopez3805]

@@sumaiyahkhan2485 same I cannot understand ot well because theres no structure in my lectures, most of them just list out things and give brief explanations

[@SeldimSeen1]

Yes, the trick is to study smart.

[@jamesscheuer8367]

Same here. In any assignment or exam, I always felt it was just as important to understand the personality of the instructor and therefore, what the instructor considered to be the important point.

[@jamjam0409]

It doesn't have to be a subject that involves emotion, you can involve emotion. For example, I noticed that it helps if the teachers are nice and the atmosphere is calm or entertaining and everyone feels good. I take that with me and I remember it when I learn on my own. This is how I remember a lot of stuff. Also, listening to music helps. Like the ost of a romantic movie.

[@kikimugi2717]

Many INFJs have stomach issues from high stress as children so sitting through lengthy classes is more than difficult...we NEVER want to call attention to ourselves to ask for a bathroom pass. Not to mention the aggressive kids that want to fight us because they missunderstand our behaviour as being stuck up. The underlying issues for a true INFJ are pretty intense in simply getting through the school day.

[@aizawa6562]

For real though

[@phoenixindigo5383]

My most dreaded moments were giving speeches in front of the class. Abhorred it...

[@abigailthomas6971]

My people right here.

[@youngchap4941]

I had stomach issues all the time i was so full of stress for years me and my mom always questioned why at one point im a guy but was having like heatflashes would get really hot and a headache that lasted for months after that for years i was always hot like my bloodpresssure is off i also got I'll regular heartbeats from anxiety and im like a fish out of water its interesting all the physical affects i also have bad posture

[@Singularitytruth]

really stomach issue due to stressi thought it was only my problem

[@MrSunnyset]

100% Procrastination and writing too much during some of the the school exams because of all the details, analyzes and consequences which was required to add to prove that I learned.

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha that's a great point, always needing more room to explain!

[@jesslove83]

Oh man, thank you. I do not like memorizing names and dates of history. I don’t understand why someone would need to remember that information. Also, I do not like someone micromanaging me. I need my freedom to think. And you’re right about not liking repetitive tasks. It’s not that I can’t because I can and get really good at it too. It’s just boring and like my brain cells are being wasted.

[@PSYCH-O]

Yes exactly!! 🙏 Thanks for watching!

[@sabrinas9589]

Procrastination an impatience

[@aidabalqis4764]

It hit the bullseye for me when it says INFJ need to study alone in order to absorb the information, being in a study group doesnt make me concentrated enough to get the whole picture, but i tried my best to understand by making up examples. Im too well aware of my surrounding and that makes me feel motivated but didnt give me the focus that i want. I was puzzled however this helped me understand enough to get me through my studies better so thank you 😊

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha that's awesome - you're very welcome! Even at being alone can be distracting at times 😆

[@SeldimSeen1]

Agree, study groups are not that productive for me.

[@madjackie523]

My biggest struggle with learning was, the schools themselves. I was laughed at or rejected by the teacher for the questions I asked, or for asking too many questions. Plus, I had to go at the pace of the class and the direction of the class. No one ever wanted to broaden the scope of what we were learning so I was shut down and shut out. When this happened at college, the one place I truly believed wanted students who were hungry to learn, I walked away broken hearted that I'd been lied to. College for me, was just high-school all over again. Everything you said was on point!

[@PSYCH-O]

YES! We go through school as confused children who's questions are never answered, only to come to find out as an adult that teachers and authority don't really care to elaborate past the expectations that provide them a pay check! Teachers that truly care can totally change this outlook for an INFJ, however. Thanks for your comment! 👌

[@hugmc]

Me too I learned too read and write ✍️ when I left school 🏫 😂

[@salsabillahf3284]

The same is I feel and I finally found it my self

[@broadbandtogod]

Ouf, I had the exact same experience 😪

[@thepupil1013]

Same struggle, I'm retrying out college on a short course and it's hell

[@angelinvocon]

I skip class, read the whole book through the first week, go to all tests and ace them. Too much military school for the gifted....INFJ all the way and Heyoka. love ya's

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha that's great - you're right, INFJs surely aren't cut out for most in-class curriculum!

[@vayne75]

I enjoyed math because I could do most of it in my head and get A's, right up until algebra 2, at which point actual work was required and I didn't know how to do actual math work and immediately failed.

[@OgVregor]

My God, too true. I was best in my class at math until they asked me to show my work 😂

[@ritchieritchnsd]

I think if it wasn't for the fact that I love to form curves and loops and eventually the way I see things on paper. Whether through the written or illustrated form. I've always been prone to writing everything down. Or drawing. Or creating with my hands. It's always been an obsession with what my hands could do. I guess not everyone else is like that...I am so facinated with how everyone on here connects with what was said in the video. ✌

[@4Iris2]

If I don't have a plan to begin the task I will do time-wasting busy work while telling myself I am getting organized.

[@PSYCH-O]

Great point, Marjory - I too can relate. Thanks for watching!

[@ritchieritchnsd]

Same. Although I love a clean house, I will focus too much of my time on getting my messey home showroom clean, while ignoring the artistic project that's due in a week.

[@juice_lime5114]

Nailed spot on. I do better with a simple topic but with larger freedom. Cold hard facts in a crowded environment caused me significant trouble all life. All the time, curiosity gets to me and I end up researching much more than needed. I struggle to remember dates of an event, unless it is a deeply memorable self-experience. The teamwork was where the "chameleon" trait shine. Back then I couldn't explain why, I struggle to make friends but can always coordinate with teammates like a well oiled machine. The procrastination until last minute part got me laughing, just "thinking too much".

[@SeldimSeen1]

I identify with as an INFJ. I expressed to my ex-husband that I wanted to go to Duke and he said I was incapable of going to Duke. So, I enrolled at Duke University at the age of 48 as a divorced single mother and working full time. I graduated with a 4.0 with a Masters degree in nursing 2 years later. Talk about being determined, organized, and focused. Being a bit of a perfectionist with my projects, I did find my self pressing the "send button" to my professors at 11:58 pm more than once.🤣

[@apollo12002]

I always struggled to get good grades at school ( a few decades ago), I had no idea I was a INFJ then and only found out I was one a few years ago, though I didn’t give it much thought at the time. I have found through my IT career I have had to take a fair number of courses with exams to get qualified in different areas and they all teach in the same way , where your in a class for a few days at a time expecting to remember lots of facts in which to be tested. Though I did pass , I never felt very confident with this as I always found it a struggle as during the lectures my mind was racing around the subject area trying to make sense of a specific topic in which I could match a idea or process to a persons motivation for doing something it that way, your example of the romans made that really hit home.

[@optimus8740]

As an INFJ I generally procrastinate because I have an old soul and believe in my intuition and also match with a wise taught that " Be patient, every thing comes to you in the right moment" (including my ideas and my energy as well. LoL 😂😆)

[@PSYCH-O]

That's a great point actually, I too can relate to that to some degree 😂

[@priscilaperin1383]

😅🤣😂😂😂😂

[@s.4rah625]

That's literally me😭

[@claytonia1586]

This is so spot on! I didn't learn anything at school. Disruptive classrooms and too much going on. I always had to go over it at home. I was terrible at tests despite revising because facts just drop out of my head and it made me feel stupid. But in written work and assignments done at home I excelled. Even at art college, I did barely anything in class time. My teacher said I was on course for a fail but I tried to explain to her I'd done the work at home. Then on exhibition day I brought everything in and got a distinction and a special commendation from the monitor. This was so spot on. 👌

[@dancif7715]

As procastination is one of our biggest mistakes, i try to make preparations of the asignment, so when the last day comes, at least i have everything prepared for a smooth start. basically if its a conceptual map of some lectures, i try to read them all in the first week, then another day i prepare mini conceptual maps of each one, so when the day comes i have everything set up and ready to do it the last day, as fast and efficient as possible, also something else im recently trying to fight procastination, is to set the dayline one day earlier than is supposed to, not a lot but it helps in emergencies.

[@PSYCH-O]

Awesome tactics - thanks for watching! 🙏

[@saucepan2342]

thank so u much for this, i've seen this work for me & now im gonna do it more -infj

[@Intuitioncalling]

Your INFJ descriptions are some of the best here on KZbin. You should have way more subscribers than you currently have and I know you'll get there. Just a suggestion. Being an INFJ, I would really appreciate if you can change your background music. It is groovy and I can get it why you might choose it for your videos but being an INFJ, I would love to watch your videos even more if you can just choose some classic piano like the one Michael Pierce has or some other sad and somber indie tune to really help my intuition go wild with ecstasy.

[@nyclassic4ever130]

🤣🤣

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the kinds words and feedback! 🙏😌

[@jacobpuckett]

That fear of failure is truly crippling at times. It's hard to distinguish between confidence and narcissism, at least for me. Everytime I feel any amount of confidence, my super ego smashes it, believing it's narcissism.

[@thosebeyondgod]

Great video! Our Fe (extraverted feeling) function is concerned with harmony, but not simply, as many assume, in its social/interpersonal form. In fact, harmony appeals to us in any form. Take, for instance, Henri Poincaré, the super-genius mathematician, physicist, engineer, scientist and philosopher. He was an INFJ and had a greater motivation to study and contribute to higher-level mathematics, philosophy, etc. thanks to his Fe. He was an off-the-charts abstract and visual thinker. He used his Ni to come up with completely new ideas and perspectives, and harnessed the power of his super Ti to impose structure and accuracy in his discoveries. Many INFJs hesitate to choose the Sciences as a career because they think they won't be able to compete with 'thinkers' (INTP, INTJ, ENTP...), but they couldn't be more wrong. You can use your gifts to offer different kinds of contributions to humanity. Follow your passions, never stop improving, and you'll get there! I'll follow my calling, will you follow yours? (English is not my main language)

[@nyclassic4ever130]

This was right on point! I was ok at test taking but my mistake was to sit at back of the class. I found myself scanning the room the entire time. This one looks to be struggling, that one is focused, that one got up to the bathroom, that one isn't even taking the test, oh this one now came back from bathroom, omg that one is finished and leaving already..and I'm only on number 30 😳 .....

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha yup, sounds about right to me! 😂

[@Hannah-ts6kz]

This makes me feel very understood I always say these things.

[@morelandevents9058]

Spot on and I suck at test taking even though I understand the topic all this time I believe it was anxiety.

[@verntoews6937]

With overwhelming introverted intuition, I was far too busy in my own mind to pay any real attention to my teachers.Although I remained just aware enough to pass with mediocre grades With a tested IQ of 137 I took care of the education I actually wanted and valued 40+ years ago I formulated several equations based on Hippocrates 4 base temperaments and discovered the quadra matrixes only to verify my findings through Meyer's Briggs most recently was that genius or do I remain quiet and humble

[@JoeMotionVideos82]

I used to be a Respiratory Therapy instructor. I used stories from my personal experience to illustrate the topic of my lectures. I found that my students learned a little easier, with a relevant story.

[@PSYCH-O]

So interesting.. As much as INFJ may have trouble communicating their feelings, when it comes to their thoughts and ideas, they can find extremely unique ways of allowing others to understand them - so that's quite INFJ-accurate!

[@JoeMotionVideos82]

@@PSYCH-O Thank you! That just made my day.🤜🤛

[@wildfyah]

That explains a lot. I tend to pick courses that complement one another

[@sumimeos]

When I was in elementary school, I suck at math. It's not like I'm good at it now but at least I had better understanding why we need math in our lives now than before. Before, I always envy my classmates because they can easily get it (memorizing the pattern and how the problem be solve at its own formula), because when I was the one who tried to solve it, my mind go places, trying another formula that my mind randomly offer. And that makes me procrastinate my homework too much because of taking a different route in my own ways to come up a solution. And that makes me hate math more because I always tell myself that, I won't need all those new invented problems that math ask you to solve, because the only thing that is most important are the basics ( +, ×, -, ÷), because foundation is really crucial in our lives. Then after reflecting, I don't know if it's an Infj thing to always reflect especially at night to deal or gained a new perspective but it's really effective anyway (the internal monologue scenario). I understand that we need math for our brain to boost our critical thinking and have a solid observation skill (though, scientist study that the part of our brain for critical thinking on the frontal lobe, is still not fully develop until you become 25 years old). Still I don't like math. But there be a day when I have this new found hobby and me writing this on a several papers, experimenting, having lots of data to analyse how many days, and information to observe so I can ace the project I was invested in. I guess I find procrastinating as a lot more advantage than disadvantage now because that makes me have time to rest and have a clearer new plan to approach things I don't understand the first time. Unlike before I always criticized myself, you know? the perfectionist thing and thinking why others move so fast and me still stuck on the same thing. So setbacks for me now is like a rejection in disguise, so we can know what we really wanted to pursue or recreating a new ways to achieve the things in our heads. Procrastinating for us is like reflecting if we have a stable mind and not driven by anxiety. (Sorry for the wrong Grammer if there is one) have a great day, Folks! Stay Healthy and attractive.

[@dustieperkinson5457]

I'm an INFJ and the more I see how it resonates with me.

[@mohadesehsinichi9650]

My biggest struggle is the damn details! I cant stand the amount of effort I have to put for memorising details when Im learning sth

[@1975KyleDavid]

It wasn't until I watched this video that I finally understand why I struggle learning through the standard manners of note taking. Despite jotting down what my college professors lecture on, I struggle remembering on these notes. combined with notes taken on the text books, too. The irony is that I have no challenges with literature and writing classes--my majors--its remembering biology and astronomy that kick my arse.

[@morjanakter6033]

I am an INFJ and I find my learning style resonating with all the points described in this video !

[@shamila009]

These are so accurate! It's uncanny...

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha - thank you for the kind feedback 😂🙌

[@davidriad1843]

Thank you for the video. It's very spot-on. But had to watch this vid numerous times, as my male INFJ brain kept on melting at the 3:38 mark.

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the feedback!! Sometimes if you speed up the video 1.5X it can help to follow along 🤗

[@madhelapuhin1551]

When I was still in uni taking up engineering there's this exam that you have to draw the orthographic projection of this particular problem..when I entered the room and saw the problem on the board I immediately said " excuse me sir but the problem is wrong"...well the prof challenged me but he lost it.. you can't challenge the mind of an infj that automatically tranforms iso to solid ortho in an instant...and it's in 3d by the way...and imagine all the math formulas..i don't memorize I understand...and i have a photographic memory...

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha awesome - nothing gets best the INFJ's complex observation skills.

[@jersonjohn8041]

Everything is so accurate… ESP the last point which is scaringly real

[@SabinaRiggs]

Something that helped me a lot in school was doodling on all of my classwork. I was either the first one finished, or the last one with tests, depending on the subject, but i usually had good grades in all of the classes i had moderate to high interest in. Turns out that I'm a kinetic learner. It helps me have a memory to associate with what i learned so that i can recall the information easier. There were even times i corrected the teachers, but I never did it in a stuck up way but more like you forgot this or remember this? Types way. I guess it won't come across the same way through typing but i made sure my tone was appropriate and not so as to say that i thought i knew better than them. I was respectful. The classes that i strongly disliked, i got bad grades in, but if i had a good teacher in a subject I didn't like, i did pretty ok and would get Bs. I had friends in every kind of clique but i wasn't in any myself. Most of my teachers liked me, although gym class wasn't great as i got older. I preferred to conserve my energy for other things that were more important since i only have a limited supply of it, since middle and high school were more draining. I tried to stay to myself as much as possible and i got along well wih my teachers usually. I always felt like they understood me better than my peers. I felt like i was way older than everyone which made it difficult to participate with my peers as normal teens would be expected. I was terrible at getting my homework done but i always made a point to get homework done for the teachers that hardly gave any homework, or if it was a fun writing assignment

[@wildfyah]

I'm ok with tests when I can accurately guess who set the tests, what they say during classes and previous papers they set I practice with

[@PSYCH-O]

Hahah that's awesome, always looking for alternative methods to success 😂

[@sanzr617]

Procrastination is something I counter before it sets in lol. I know myself this well to have a plan at least. I love the accuracy around structure the details annoy me so I abstract learn and usually am right. Yes to INFJ feels the room and make it my own for my own comfort. I love this explanation of INFJ, its timely and much needed thank you.❤️

[@pizzainthebox3449]

Love your info! Please turn down the volume on the intro drums to match rest of video volume.

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the suggestion - we have notified our editor! 🙏

[@ccsunflowers7655]

I guess I take a slight curve to his. If I'm procrastinating it's because I want to make sure I have all the info I need to make a accurate decision of purest of truth. I don't like to have to go back over things. Especially when I spent a lot of energy, time and resources to get the answer or solution I was looking for. This trait about me is to ensure that when I'm guided to share my knowledge I know that I gave the bottom line truth but I will also tell the listener that their perception is different then mine and that's how it should be. No person on earth is exactly a like and we are not meant to be. Diversity is one of humans challenges as well as opportunity to learn and then grow from the differences of others as well as seek their own truth to follow their own path through life's journey. Self descovery then exceptance then understanding then growth then share then growth from what you receive from others. That is the true meaning of life and while on this journey you are becoming aware of your light, your purpose and how u are to project it. Don't forget your free will. Free will gives you options of self, others, goals, dreams, aspirations and endless opportunities in each of those to take learn from and shine through.

[@PSYCH-O]

Well said my friend, thank you for watching! 🙏

[@ccsunflowers7655]

@@PSYCH-O Your most welcome my dear¡!🤗🤗❤️🤗🤗🌞💯

[@theghosttiger1446]

I can't understand how people can study around other people. Im usually distracted by their very presence around me. I hear people speak and my mind wanders to their conversation. It seems hard AF to be alone. Once I was doing homework in a park and a guy who just got out of prison approached me for conversation, later on a police officer showed up running a search on both of us.

[@PSYCH-O]

Exactly, distraction is the worst.. and once INFJs get into their concentrated thinking flow, you better not interupt! 😂

[@calisg1010]

Reading makes my mind quiet for a moment then it continues to wander. I need hands on learning or videos. I can watch a KZbin video and rebuild just about anything.

[@gingerbreadzak]

00:33 📚 INFJs are attracted to learning topics involving emotion and human connection, where they can utilize their empathic abilities. 01:54 🧠 INFJs prefer a conceptual learning style, relating everyday topics to human experiences for better understanding. 03:18 📝 INFJs prefer structured learning with freedom, disliking repetitive tasks that inhibit creativity. 04:44 🔄 INFJs are adaptable to different learning environments and tactics, thriving in calm surroundings. 05:43 ⏳ Alone time is crucial for INFJs to focus and integrate information, amidst their sensitivity to external stimuli. 06:38 🧠 INFJs prioritize understanding over memorization, often researching to gain a deeper comprehension of topics. 07:34 ⏳ INFJs may procrastinate due to perfectionism and fear of failure, despite their drive for excellence.

[@MusicalMarble]

I try to get all the work done in advance rather than procrastinate, though I'm an INFJ. If there's an end of semester paper, I like to get it done in the first two weeks so I can spend the extra time in the rest of the semester learning whatever I'm really interested in.

[@PSYCH-O]

I think that's something that most INFJ strive's for.. great will power . 🙌

[@MusicalMarble]

@@PSYCH-O Take INFJ plus no brothers or sisters plus latchkey kid. it wasn't a matter of striving, it was more of a 'do this, or it won't get done' situation

[@Phantomyre]

Something else to add-- I learn best through hands-on experience rather than theories.

[@sonakshisrivastava1008]

So on point the whole video!

[@nisshoku1568]

I wish I knew all this stuff in school, because I had so many problems that they placed me and special education classes and then couldn't figure out why I was there when they did Place me there, because it seemed as though that I was intelligent enough to understand things at a higher education, and then it just made it a roller coaster.

[@danilvanlaethem9463]

This is spot on, thanks for the video

[@ritchieritchnsd]

I'm not sure... I realized I cannot learn something I just don't want to. Took Biology 101 three times, and failed all three semesters. I appreciate biology, but I passed Physics 101 the first time. Physics made more sense to me because I experienced a lot of what it talks about and was able to connect it to my life in one way or another...never thought of it that way before; even though I mentioned this to my wife many years ago. Lol. But yeah...I just can't learn things I don't want to and can connect with my emotional moments in time, is what interests me. I kinda feel exposed bro! LOL!!!

[@PSYCH-O]

Hahah cheers! Thank you 🙏

[@fernandapastorguerrero1784]

Def the last part, thats why Im watching these videos jaja

[@JS-eq3tt]

I have a photo memory when I need to. I can collect every line in a TV show or script. Within hours.

[@Protectedbikelanes]

I would say depending on the mbti of the parents and teachers will determine an infjs enthusiasm for school. A strong positive support system/environment is crucial. They already love learning but it's like Natalie Portman said, she loves learning but studying sucks 😅 so yes sometimes people don't realize it's the way in which a material is presented, the perfectionists side needs be able to dive in before measurements/numbers are given in order associate it with the subject imo

[@phoenixindigo5383]

Must be why I preferred Art as my favorite subject...of course, I was a perfectionist with it...so..

[@dimunnpabebet7040]

Really wanted to learn about infj student.Clearly I'm a big procrastinatinator and last semester at school,I repeated sophomore year because my results didn't meet the requirements to get into junior,so I went through that year like it was the last.It's also due to me being a perfectionist when it comes to certain subjects since I usually get very good grades in maths and languages studies,but I'm trash in everything else.In fact the subjects I had to choose were very limited and didn't appeal to me,of course I can't just perform badly in a class because I don't like it or I'm lazy,but I just don't see where it's supposed to help me later on since I want a job that doesn't involve anything with those although I'm still indecisive about my future career at that point.

[@dimunnpabebet7040]

@@sojourneroftheland yeah hopefully I have the same luck in college,school really cut our opportunities to reach our potential

[@PSYCH-O]

Great point - with interest and passion INFJs can truly excel. On the contrary, lack of interest can make things seem seriously torturous. 🙄Thank for watching!

[@89dirtybird]

Being dixlexic adds a special sprinkle of somthin nice in the mix 4 me. Thinking about where the box come from not what side 2 think on lol

[@Year-tk9ii]

These are all true because i have been doing this even without people teaching me abt this

[@johnhyne1666]

My short term memory is in the toilet and I have to move it into my long term memory to do well. Doing poorly on daily quizes but can ace the final.

[@aswinbenny3180]

I am really bad at memorizing. I am lazy at studying topics at school yet I study them just before exams by making acronyms and codes. The irony is that if that topics which i dont like to learn was not in school cariculam and was just a general topic, i would has aced it

[@PSYCH-O]

That's very interesting - less pressure to do perfect probably worked in your favour for the less crucial classes!

[@sarahthomas2922]

Memorising is hard for me too......its so tedious!

[@johnweber7960]

Spot on.

[@pauladuncanadams1750]

Bang on target!

[@annoldham3018]

I prefer working alone and no background noise or as little as possible.

[@sofiameistrell6934]

IMPRESSIVE

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for watching! 🙏

[@ursulabarreto2844]

Alone time is gold❤

[@aquachicken9297]

Procrastinating 100%

[@Protectedbikelanes]

What about other mbtis?

[@PSYCH-O]

Theres plenty of videos to come! 😋

[@cha_rishim_a]

true 🙌🏻

[@mzafor3081]

Well when someone pressurize me about their expectations I can't do perfectly anything on that topic I want the passion actually :(

[@njs31stairpod36]

I don't know if I'm the only one but as I grew older I started missing school cause it was just not the optimum decision for my grades

[@mikeymembam4051]

I like math yes but now i am a medical student

[@PSYCH-O]

Well, at least you'll be helping others! 🙌

[@wethefreaks5373]

I feel you. As a 3rd year med student I personally dont know what im doing with my life anymore but ill still try

[@sithumiperera5212]

I always loved math, but still here I am, a med student in 4th yr🥴🤭🙈💚

[@rosaliedensmore2800]

So.....I agree with this entire video, except..... being a sigma INFJ empath I feel like there's a lot more to the process depending on the circumstances...... myself for example...... recently because of work I had to learn in a group (my job is probably one of the worst jobs for the INFJ but I'm limited in the area that I live so this is what I got so I could take care of my kids as a single mother) of people who some I know, some I don't, some I can feel their bullshit hater vibes radiating off of them poisoning the room in their efforts to be the dominant.........the new people I'm trying to read so I can become comfortable with them, half of the people who I knew before hand are awesome and the other half disrupt my energy like none other........the learning in question is pretty difficult and going into it knowing there was little to no faith in my abilities from the majority of the people that I'd be working with really had me on the fence about doing it because I am Soo underestimated and severely misunderstood..........all of these energies on top of the "difficult" topic, on top of the resentment because not only was I succeeding I was excelling and apparently faster than some of them when they first started.......my point is, with all of that stimulation, excess negativity directed at me personally, under a lot of pressure to be successful in order to get the things that I need (benefits) all surrounding something that is not something that would be beneficial to me in a way that makes me feel good about my purpose in life, it makes me feel exploited......... and I'm sure you see where the difficulty lays in that situation....... learning environment, subject being learned, so many things going on that most people don't see or understand...... makes certain things extremely difficult when it shouldn't have been. Ignorance is bliss, but I don't have that luxury, I hear what isn't said out loud and feel what isn't shown on the surface........a blessing and a curse depending. Sorry this is so long omg

[@chillingongreens]

I am so awful with math and logic. I am great with abstract concepts and bigger picture ideas. I love learning about people, but struggle to fit in anywhere. I have ideas of what things could be, but neglect the things I should do. If I could have a career that lets me study people while being alone, that would be perfect. ... I just don't have the confidence or skills to make up for my inadequate ability for socializing. And I don't have the drive or discipline to perfect a craft on my own. *sigh*

[@PSYCH-O]

Every INFJ is unique - you'll find your groove at one point or another! 🙌

[@AboodAbu12345]

I've had the exact same dilemma until I came across psychology. You literally get to manipulate people to be their best self and they actually listen cause they came to you 👀 and you get to analyze everyone in their world on your own. It's the perfect job for an INFJ.

[@BrainPill]

What INFJ Must Need to be Happy. Please watch and comment if you are able to relate. kzbin.info/www/bejne/n2O9k2irpr-Gnbc

[@AboodAbu12345]

@@sojourneroftheland of course you can. And I know you're going to figure it out someday. It hits you out of nowhere, you just gotta keep the question in the back of your mind, let your subconscious do the hard work.

[@AboodAbu12345]

@@sojourneroftheland I meant of course you can imagine how it must feel 😂 But no, I'm not a psychologist, not yet any way. I hope I do continue my studies to become one, especially since I get disinterested in everything fairly quickly.

[@randomfornow]

Really? I'm an Infj and I always hated rhymes, hints, songs, or anything of the sort. I always felt like it was cheating somehow, like I don't really know the information organically.

[@phaeton01]

my INFJ learning style? full on autodidactic and nothing else. i walked out of school and never looked back, so disgusted was i with the lack of morals, the teachers and the other students, i would wake up everyday after feeling like id grown another 10 IQ points in my sleep. i still thought i was retarded for years after school but it turns out that was just the decade long intellectual hangover, not to mention the bollockings and shitty remarks id get from teachers and parents about 'being in my own little world all the time'

[@najiabushibba8963]

So how we should deal with a pure scientific info like medicine when it comes to learn about it ??.cuz in scientific information u can't use ur emotions or understanding tech to learn it bcuz all the informations r facts ,thats why i said like medicine ..by the way im med.student😁😁😁

[@PSYCH-O]

Ahh..now that is a great question, my friend. I think it just comes down to reasoning behind the info.. you know you're a med student to help others, the technical info is just your ticket to get to the point where you're able to!

[@mattwilliam4803]

-all this INFJ worship on KZbin - it's a bit much, right ?? - and I'm an INFJ - please, enough

[@leongliyang6946]

How to read a book in INFJ way... book is a type of box , try think out of the box/book... the book is dead but my brain is alive... common sense is a needed... lost in my head with imagination yet can't focus the huge thick mind taxing textbook, nevermind just add some symbol/shape/pattern/rhyme/poem/make up story/parable/joke whatever crap is in my head as long as i understand the crap, teach other to make memorize deep with feeling. digest one point of word not the whole sentence, one word equal to full of meaning to me, one word can create a universe to me, is very full for my head to digest just one word with trillion of perspective way. Meanwhile, during exam...my brain flush out write all a lot of crap sentence with too much information gathering input in once... until out of paper, and become novel... 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 all the time

[@Nubalanceacdc]

😍👌

[@PSYCH-O]

🙏💙

[@joshuastockwell5219]

Memorization