10 INFJ Characteristics That Make Them Great Leaders

[@PSYCH-O]

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[@patienceobongo]

This is INFJ-A.

[@TrashTrackers]

My friend and coworker recently said "I try not to live my life by my feelings". I was honestly a little put off by it. INFJs are naturally balanced between feelings and facts. I think tapping into feelings is super important, especially working in children's ministry. I've always tapped into my feelings but not let them control me or be overcome by facts

[@costoncr]

PS: I Am also PAINFULLY Honest… and it catches people by surprise because most people’s initial reaction can feel offended, but it comes from a Heart of purity.. because if I Am not honest with You, You won’t know what’s wrong .. and I’m not deferential to people’s emotions or feelings about that Truth.. My goal is to express and teach Truth.. period! No matter anything else

[@PSYCH-O]

Honesty is the best policy after all.. No matter where or when in life!

[@costoncr]

@@PSYCH-O Indeed 🙏🏽 .. Thank You

[@jamiephipps9116]

So beautiful

[@brihengen2169]

It just comes out because that’s what feels so natural. A friends girlfriend finally brought it to my attention this year, all this time I thought it was normal and she’s amazed and laughing because I “have no filter” Who would’ve thought that speaking truth was a phenomenon🤷🏾‍♀️

[@joan.willy.]

100% To me, it's also because I refuse to lie

[@valerielinares2068]

I'm an INFJ, and I found this to be super encouraging. I never really felt like I was leadership material. Never felt like I was adequate enough... I 'spose it's that pesky imposter syndrome. Anyway, this video showed me that the characteristics I already have can help me do what I was meant to do in this life. I had been trying to find my way back into life after dealing with burnout as a student. I felt like a failure. I felt like a loser. Being a perfectionist with unrealistic expectations for myself, I often have to remind myself that I am good enough. I am adequate. I am not an imposter of my own accomplishments. I often have to remind myself that I don't have to over-work myself to be valuable. It's okay, and even necessary to take breaks. Taking breaks is NOT lazy, but necessary to replenish my mind. It's okay that I'm not super human. It's okay that I'm not a robot. Thank you for making this video. I've been struggling to save myself from drowning under the ocean of burnout. And this video served as my reminder that I don't have to drown in my own burn out, that there is a way out of this mess. Thank you. You have no idea what this means to me. For the first time in a long time, I see a glimmer of hope. Thank you.

[@markkrawczyk6388]

I have been in a position of management too many times to count over the past 10 years, and I would say that all of these points are spot on. As others have suggested a difference between blue collar and white collar INFJ leadership, I believe its safe to say that if you realize you're an INFJ and you're in a blue collar leadership role do yourself a favor and get out. As upsetting as it can be to feel like you are abandoning a team with whom you've learned to respect and even love to an extent; they will often celebrate your leave with happiness for you. I have found most times that the most likely issue you will run into can be surmised as "disagreement with the fundamental principles and ideologies of higher management." In my case specifically they legitimately wanted me to sit back and manage my team. I simply will never act that way, and did just as much work or more than the rest of my coworkers to develop a "lead by example" mentality whilst promoting positivity, self growth, and team building. TLDR: It is true that all of the qualities mentioned in this video would be great in a management position; however, If I were to go back into management I would demand what upper management would consider complete freedom to manage as I see fit. If you are an INFJ and you're thinking about leadership roles, I strongly suggest you ask your interviewer about this exact point, and request for this freedom as you will be at your absolute best when in that role. If you aren't hired because of that question, then that business doesn't deserve you.

[@commentblues1511]

Your comment is spot on. As a lead myself, I also can't just sit back and manage my team that way. I tend to lead them by showing how to do it. That's just an INFJ way. I truly believe my boss realized this about me so she gave me a freedom whatever I want to lead my team. She's definitely the best!

[@patienceobongo]

Yes i lead by example and detest desk jockeys.

[@costoncr]

Now I Am INFJ.. and relate to all of these traits.. I Am also HSP Heyoka .. which means that tho My Nature expresses sincere humility… I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT tolerate destructive behaviors and I WILL confront You.. NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE.. lay person, regular citizen, the Pope, the President, or a UN Ambassador… and I become a whole Volcanic Force against injustice, cruelty, disrespect, violations of boundaries, abuse of any kind, and chaotic disruption… And I can be RUTHLESSLY RELENTLESS in confronting “bad behavior” .. tho admittedly, depending on the circumstance, I aim for a softer approach first, then, if all other recourse fails…. I AM A VERITABLE BEASTLY DRAGON 🐉… 😉 … I’ve got that INFJ rage thing DOWN PACKED!!! 😤 In fact, My biggest lesson has been learning how to be constructive with My internal force of power, so I don’t annihilate everything in opposition to the mission.. but exercise careful consideration for the way each detail has the potential to fit into the whole picture.. if it can serve a greater purpose, it can make it .. the bottom line is that I Am FIERCELY PROTECTIVE of People’s Heartspace, Justice, the vulnerable… and I will defend the marginalized and downtrodden with EVERY OUNCE of My Being.. which includes the primary Source of this world’s Life, Our Earth Mother Herself.. I Am a formidable advocate on what is Correct and maintaining a healthy sense of balance in relationship to ALL Life… and Our Earth Environment gets My TOP priority … whenever something is out of place.. I WILL NOT STOP until I figure out what’s wrong and how to fix it!!! And act accordingly, and I inspire Others to do the same

[@TheShauri]

Couldn't have expressed it any better!! ❤️

[@costoncr]

@@TheShauri Thank You kindly 🙏🏽💜

[@dv52528]

I can Totally relate!❤

[@costoncr]

@@dv52528 ☺️🙏🏽

[@gewundadfeorh8690]

I led a project once. Didn't like it much... I'd much rather just be one of the team. But yes, I was very efficient and we got everything done within a couple of days. I did do a lot of the work (but not all of it) myself, as I didn't like to delegate without volunteers. And I also felt I could do a better job myself! 😄 And everything was done to a perfectionist's standard... 😂 I also found that I didn't mind doing the leading as long as people appreciated what I did.

[@PSYCH-O]

So true.. appreciation and cooperation can make all the difference when it comes to any leadership position 😅Thanks for watching!!

[@michaelkim8452]

I'm an INFJ here. I work in a busy hospital lab setting and it suits me pretty well. I get to be independent while knowing that my work matters. As the position itself gets stressful, I was overwhelmed when thinking of the leadership positions and realizing that I would probably take all of these presented factors in as well. Kudos and Cheers to the boss INFJ leaders out there!!

[@carmenlajefa7028]

Christ Yeshua is the epitome of the ideal INFJ leader (for me, as an INFP M/B with an INFJ Grant type). Love, light and blessings on blessings to you and to ALL evolved 🤍✨🕊

[@chadshepperd2421]

1. Yes, spot on and why I’ve had leadership positions since age 17. 2. Can I just link this video on a future resume? 😂

[@PSYCH-O]

Hahah if only it was that easy 😂Luckily, some jobs consider MBTI as a part of the hiring process, so you never know!

[@fazzaustralia8932]

This is exactly how I managed and I thought it was normal. Staff morale was high and so were the sales figures. I got the arse for being too good, so I just went back and ran my own business and still am to this day.

[@PSYCH-O]

Yup.. when everything is going right, people start to question our methods. Good for you, INFJs are usually better working for themselves anyway! 🙌

[@fazzaustralia8932]

@@PSYCH-O Exactly, most workplaces are more interested in playing the blame game than fixing broken systems.

[@patienceobongo]

They hate productivity

[@fazzaustralia8932]

@@patienceobongo Based on what?

[@ramsez_r]

Led a team in both formal and informal areas, can relate to all of them except number 1.

[@PSYCH-O]

Very interesting! Thanks for sharing your personal view 🙏

[@AkilahOsa]

Another well put together video, I always enjoy watching your content. 😁👍

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the kind words my friend, it goes a long way! 🙏😊

[@joshuaforbus5853]

My leadership abilities carried me. My idealistic intensity forgiven by my leaders and now I understand. Marine infantryman Sgt. 97-2006 Medically retired and I couldn't do it again. Maybe..lol love light open roads

[@PSYCH-O]

That's awesome - good for you! 🙏

[@tylersingleton9284]

I would love to teach others and be a good role model for someone under me in a business venture, but I have zero interest in controlling other people.

[@PSYCH-O]

Yup.. that's the irony of it, most INFJs want to be far away from obligations that require them to lead anyone other than themselves!

[@Jen-ko9rj]

That's the beautiful thing about INFJs though... we don't need to "control"... because we approach leafership roles with humility and respect, the people we lead, want to naturally do their best for us. I see this everytime I'm taking over for my manager when he's on PTO (will eventually be taking over for him). My team approaches me proactively to ask how they can help, because I make them feel appreciated, I make them feel heard and I encourage them in a way that no one else does in our current work place setting. We get the best out of people. We're also great at spotting what people are naturally good at and can put them in positions where they'll shine.

[@AndreaRenwick]

It's truly unique over here because I be cutting corners when it's more efficient 😂 I so wanna do things right but I just want it done

[@mycapitain843]

My issue about leading is that most often my soften side is viewed as a weakness and some people tend to undermine me or fake leading while i am there 9:06

[@albertsiltal2600]

Thanks 💜

[@whoknowssuchthingsidonthav574]

Consider yourself lest you also be tempted Galatians 6:1

[@joeyhensley9199]

Trait # 2 I do a lot. #6 and #3 are very personal pet peeves of mine.

[@PSYCH-O]

Thanks for sharing your view, my fellow INFJ! 🙌

[@jamespurcer3730]

This is skewed toward the white collar class. When an INFJ is in the blue collar class, things are quite different. The animals that I have to work with are intolerable and many of them exhibit traits of various social or emotional disorders. Others are simply fools who will not listen to reason, logic, or wisdom. I suppose that I'll have to find a trade in which I can work alone.

[@PSYCH-O]

Yup.. the blue collar class is quite uninviting for the INFJs strong suits of independence and creativity. What you described certainly sounds torturous; I think it's time for job hunting! 🙏

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

Sure that's right

[@PSYCH-O]

Thanks for the feedback! 🙏

[@crookedzebrarecords]

The only times I have showed strong leadership is when I lead by example and generally keep my mouth shut. Sports = pure leader during the game, however not after the game.

[@PSYCH-O]

Interesting perspective of sports - thanks for your comment!

[@TheWordOfGodIsFictionProveIt]

Your insights into the MBTI types is the best, but your use of stock footage and the same song playing on repeat for every video gets to be very tiresome. If it were possible, I’d mute the song and the footage.

[@weareonebrain1610]

Lfj

[@jacobpuckett]

As an infj we need to be careful when in a leadership position, because yes we can be like Jesus, but can also be like Hitler. Both are known infj's.

[@girlyrock9626]

i don't think i can be good leader.

[@PSYCH-O]

Maybe not in the way we've been taught to lead!

[@debbiesolomon4738]

I feel the same way but Ive since learn. We lead in way own.

[@bettycollins1983]

You are already equipped with the skills. Trust, because I use to be just like you. Turns out I am quite great at leading and you will be too.🤫

[@patienceobongo]

Surprise yourself