Inside Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony's REAL Love Story: Jen 'DUMPED' by Ben 'RESCUED' by Marc

#jenniferlopez #jlo #benaffleck #marcanthony #documentary
Join this channel to get access to perks:
/ @betheecommentator
This series has been created, researched, written, produced, and edited by: BE (me)
Intro Edited by: / @realspacial
Welcome to Part 4 of the Jennifer Lopez Series. In Part 1, we took a deep look into Jennifer's background, childhood, and early rise to fame. We also discussed Jennifer's marriage to first husband, Ojani Noa, and her rumored affair with Hip Hop Mogul, Diddy. In Part 2, we discussed Jennifer's high profile relationship with Diddy, their shocking break-up, and Jennifer's whirlwind romance with husband number two, dancer and choreographer, Cris Judd. In part 3 we covered Jennifer's sensationalized romance with actor Ben Affleck, their engagement and subsequent breakup, also known as the 'Bennifer' Era. And in this installment, we will discuss how Latin Sensation, Marc Anthony came back into Jennifer's life following her devastating break-up with Ben.
Catch up on the Jennifer Lopez Series Here:
• The Jennifer Lopez Ser...
Sources/Credits:
www.amazon.com/True-Love-Jenn...
Special Shoutout to: www.youtube.com/ @heatherpelaez
Special Shoutout to: / @starstracks2918
• Jennifer Lopez (Octobe...
• Dinner For Five - Ben ...
• Dayanara Torres recuer...
• Jennifer Lopez In A Ca...
• Marc Anthony: J. Lo Sp...
www.upi.com/Archives/2004/06/...
www.tampabay.com/archive/2011...
nymag.com/intelligencer/2009/...
www.celebitchy.com/12378/marc...
ew.com/article/2003/10/15/sco...
www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-...
www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz...
www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/art...
Subscriber Count 5/4/24: 96.1K
"It's NOT Tea. It's Information" - BE

[@betheecommentator]

BONUS information that did not make it into the episode: The movie that Jennifer references when she and Marc "reunited" was for her movie "Shall We Dance?" which was filmed in June 2003. In part 2 of this series, we discussed rumors of the alleged 'explicit tape' of Jennifer. In part 2 we covered how Suge Knight, CEO of Death Row Records, threatened to release this 'tape' back in 2002. According to former associates of Suge's, he intended to release this 'tape' as a way to provoke his nemesis, Diddy, who was dating Jennifer at the time. As stated in part 2, Jennifer sued Suge in 2003 and later dropped the lawsuit after Suge admitted that "no such tape existed" Fast forward to part 4 of my series when the tape comes back up. Jennifer's first husband, Ojani Noa, began shopping around the following: a documentary, tell-all book, and home videos depicting his marriage with Jennifer. According to a former associate of Suge's, Suge was made aware of Ojani's 'tapes' back in 2002 because Ojani was allegedly pitching these 'tapes' back then. It's important to note that Ojani has stated over the years, that the footage he had NEVER included anything 'explicit'. It's been rumored that Scientology also played a role in the demise of Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony's marriage. According to reports, Will and Jada Smith tried to "recruit" the couple which caused tension in their marriage being that Jennifer had no interest in being a Scientologist. It's important to note that the Smiths have denied being involved with Scientology. As most of you know, I was very sick when making this video and planned on going back to add in this information, but my recovery has been rough so I included the bonus information here instead. As always, you can find sources in the description box. I hope you find this episode, insightful and informative. Until next time... BE

[@mazmedia44]

hope you will recover fully soonest - hugs

[@betheecommentator]

@@mazmedia44 aw thank you so much!! ❤️❤️

[@mazmedia44]

@@betheecommentator maybe you can make a video of yourself someday, so we can meet you (terribly curious)😍

[@LucindaR]

Jennifer and Leah Remini are close (according to ex scientologist on KZbin) so those recruitment allegations seem credible.

[@betheecommentator]

@@LucindaR yes they are best friends and I also feel like those Scientology allegations could be credible too. 🤔

[@katrinamarie5065]

The only person I feel bad for in this whole thing is Marc Anthony’s ex wife

[@lalisitabonita]

If it wasnt Jennifer, it would have been someone else. Look who he's with now. Dayanara was an innocent bystander in all of this who deserved so much better

[@theskyisblue567]

Still, Jlo engaged in homewrecking that marriage.

[@SaintMTi]

@@theskyisblue567Marc is the only person to truly blame. He was the one who took the vows

[@sanoush100]

Oh I agree, other than his ex-wife, they all kind of deserve each other.

[@user-bx9ev1bp3l]

Jennifer Lopez needs to repent of all her own sins!!! Judgement day is coming for every one o

[@dowikr]

hearing Marc's ex wife talk about her experience is absolutely heartbreaking.

[@alygarden7879]

This homewrecker deserves no pity.

[@VonSolo5]

Agree.

[@whosthatgirl411]

And the reason why a lot people in PR don't mess with Jlo.

[@okoala62]

Right! Especially their children- breaks my heart! I hope they healed from that as best as possible

[@NompiloKhumalo-jm7sm]

I hope she found her true love. She is a truly beautiful woman. I hope that divorce led her to the right man

[@thisismyinferno]

How anyone can marry a man that would leave his wife like Marc Anthony did says a lot about both of their characters.

[@katrinamarie5065]

Does anyone else think it’s weird to marry someone 4 days after their divorce is finalized??

[@Valesdia]

its wild

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Even BEYOND Hollywood WEIRD

[@mstra2341]

I would be afraid. He could regret the divorce and go back to his wife.

[@user-br6hy5zl1b]

В чем странность? Марк прожил с этой Торрес меньше трёх лет. За время их брака он уходил он неё дважды. Первый раз в 2002 году и они не жили вместе пол года. Второй раз он ушел (окончательно) в сентябре 2003 года. А их развод был оформлен в июне 2004 года. То есть Марк женился на Джей Ло через 9 месяцев, после того, как расстался в Торрес. Так в чём проблема? Все эти 9 месяцев жить с Джей Ло ему было можно, а женится на ней нельзя?

[@MsActor2009]

It’s crude!

[@chikari123]

Not to be messy but Marc Anthony just wanting Jlo to dance instead of singing a duet w/ the excuse of “it’s a guys song” is sending meeee 😭 cuz we know damn well…

[@methosimortal]

I think he was trying to avoid telling her that she wasn't good enough of a singer to sing that song. Which she probably wasn't.

[@19282i]

TBF he himself got a lot of flack for covering that song at the start of his career despite being an amazing vocalist. I think he did her a favour by advising her not to

[@87Lohan]

😂😂😂

[@tB-zq2db]

hahah he was trying to be slick haha

[@CraftyCuriosity]

While they were married in the honeymoon stage he said in an interview that Jlo was a good singer. By the time the relationship was ending he was done with pretending she could sing.

[@CraftyCuriosity]

Marc didn’t want her to sing because he was tired of pretending she could sing. Just dance JLo

[@AyeKay220]

Right chile hush 🤫😂

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Exactly. Just Dance.

[@tB-zq2db]

hahah reminds me of that video and he way he did his face was SO FUNNY lololol

[@CARATMom]

Do you wake up speaking Spanish to each other”? Diane Sawyer stays losing in the question department.

[@betheecommentator]

😅😂right?! What kind of question was that? Ridiculous 😅😂

[@whitneylovesweets]

The dumbest thing she could’ve asked.

[@chikari123]

Bruh that ish sent me like why would she ask that 😭

[@methosimortal]

Diane Sawyer is the worst

[@kaygee1623]

@@betheecommentator It's a genuine question, I was raised speaking English and not my mother tongue, so I'll expect that someone would have thought that I'll speak my mother tongue with my partner but on the contrary it's English that would be spoken.

[@toxxiklovee]

Baby i died when she said she speaks Spanish because girl no you dont 🤣🤣

[@pas_du_tout]

Ben does. There are YT videos of him speaking Spanish.

[@edgardonieves9758]

@@pas_du_tout It's ironic! Lol.

[@jae6335]

She didn't care about hurting Dayanara Torres. A horrible human being. She will never find lasting happiness because she is not a good human being.

[@okoala62]

I agree- that was fucked up.

[@herbertlongfellow7702]

Much as I adore Marc Anthony the singer, Marc Anthony the man, not so much. His track record not do great either...

[@methosimortal]

Marc Anthony in Jennifer's life sounds a lot like Eddie Fisher to her Elizabeth Taylor. She loved the way he loved her (supposedly), she wasn't actually in love with him. And Dayanara was collateral damage to her getting her love fix. At least Elizabeth did her best to heal the hurt eventually. Jennifer just ignores the fact that he was a married man when she clung to him like a life raft.

[@laneybobs8157]

@@herbertlongfellow7702 didn't Marc just marry a twenty year old? Gross.

[@tommybutler2454]

Yes, she is reaping what she has sewn. I feel for her kids with interchangeable father figures and being all over the world and place. Idk what she is going to do now. Her only salvation may be Vegas. And that used to be for has been and is now the big rage ? Weird. But yes, she has done some serious damage to others. Marc had a small child with Ms. Universe and married JLow 4 days later. And she talks about people knowing her heart ??? And what about Ben's kids and ex wife. I am sure they have been thru it. Craziness !

[@fireandicegurl]

Jennifer failed to love herself first and foremost and was always looking for happiness with the next guy. From your documentaries it never seems she had close female friends. It was always guys. She wanted to look squeaky clean but her behavior didn’t match.

[@betheecommentator]

I agree with you, that’s something that I told my fiancé. I said, she doesn’t seem to have a lot of girlfriends. I saw an interview, I believe it was with Wendy Williams, and Wendy asked Jennifer who are some of her closest girlfriends and Jennifer said that she “didn’t really have any”. I know she’s really close with Leah Remini and her (Jen’s) two sisters, but other than that… Edit to add: this series reinforces how important self love is!

[@desiderata333]

But JLO is very close with her 2 sisters.

[@jayrossxo]

I agree. I don't think she needed just female friends. I think she needed friends in general who are solid, grounded and wise enough to be honest and guide her. I think she was surrounded around a bunch of "yes men" who liked the lifestyle that she was able to bring them and didn't really care about the personal issues she my have been dealing with, such as co dependency issues and lacking self love.

[@okoala62]

Friends are so valuable- especially for celebrities at their level of fame- friends (real ones) keep one humble and provide a love and happiness that’s so unique. I’m a know-nothing nobody and have lifelong friends that have kept me humble, happy, we’ve shared through each others milestones and high-highs and low-lows.

[@methosimortal]

@@jayrossxo the problem is that she's kind of a terrible partner. her idea of love means taking from the other person, having them prop her up and giving her validation and support. she doesn't really take that other person into account (the documentary shows that very clearly when it shows moments between her and Affleck). but at least with a relationship, the partner is getting physical benefits. friends don't really have that incentive which is why she doesn't really have any.

[@naylani7790]

Maybe I’m wrong but her saying Ben was “her first real heart break” is pretty wild bc you mean to tell me that after being married twice prior to first dating him you didn’t experience any type of heart break at all during those divorce’s??💀😬…

[@alicesings1971]

That what I was wondering 💭

[@katiebanks7460]

Nope, cause she was the one who was done. The idea that someone didn't want her is what broke her heart, not the loss of the person & future

[@naylani7790]

@@katiebanks7460 very true and it makes me question did she ever truly love the men that she was with/married to? or did she convince herself she was in love bc they were there at the moment and she didn’t wanna be lonely?

[@raimeyewens7518]

Or she’s just saying that now because she’s with him now. Then again, most narcissists only care about themselves.

[@naylani7790]

@@raimeyewens7518 but that interview when this was said was back in 2014 when Ben was still married to Jennifer Garner, not recently… plus idk the exact timeline but i think she technically might’ve still been married or finalizing divorce to Marc in 2014 which kind of makes her statement even weirder bc wouldn’t it have been heartbreaking in some aspects to be divorcing the man you’ve been with for almost decade and had your kids with?? Marc is definitely no saint but JLo ( Marc too) definitely has some narcissistic tendencies for sure

[@CourtneyCherry-te1jy]

I literally screamed OMG SHE DID PART 4!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m so happy lol and I pray your better now 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@betheecommentator]

I hope you enjoy it, you know I had to be thorough 😂❤️

[@CourtneyCherry-te1jy]

@@betheecommentator I was checking everyday!!! Your the best thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

[@kandacekandace]

@@betheecommentator we’re watching together we love EVERYTHING you put out ❤

[@betheecommentator]

@@kandacekandace oh wow that is so sweet!! Thank you so much, I am very grateful! ❤️❤️💗

[@CCCeLyA]

@@betheecommentator waiting for part 5 😁🙏🏻

[@AyeKay220]

This is a whole case study lol

[@betheecommentator]

It really is!

[@chiablum1453]

Omg she can't sing but she somehow believed she can. She is like a Cruise performer.

[@alicesings1971]

So true ! There are videos of her singing without auto tune and she can’t find the pitch. Her voice has dropped as well. She’s an insult to cruise performers.

[@chiablum1453]

@@alicesings1971 I know Cruise performers can sing. Jlo can not sing at all. Incredible that she has fake it all this time, no wonder people are sick of her.

[@raimeyewens7518]

A lot of our current performers cannot sing without autotune and filters. I’ve been to concerts where they sound way different than they do on the radio.

[@monilaninetynine3811]

What's interesting is that during her Marc Anthony era, her singing did improve temporarily. Did Marc attempt to give her voice lessons?

[@chiablum1453]

@@monilaninetynine3811 I heard her tell in her interview, that the last time she performed with MA, she wanted to do a duo singing one of his song. He told her, he rather she danced. So he sang & then in the middle of the song she appeared moving crazy. MA is a true Virgo, told her right there to stay in her lane.

[@Mitzi73]

Even though he is messy as hell, I am a huge Marc Anthony fan. His talent cannot be denied. He sells out arenas everywhere and has a crazy fanbase. He is legendary.

[@mrsx7944]

I had no idea he was that popular. I'm glad, he's a cutie.

[@okoala62]

Right- his voice and the charisma he portrays- I bet he can make ANYONE melt and he can charm them if he really concentrates on it 😅

[@methosimortal]

he's a very gifted singer and musician.

[@lifeisall488]

He is an amazing singer really saw him once and met him by chance by down to earth. But his track record on relationship he is just a dusty

[@lalisitabonita]

He is incredible. No one sings with such passion in their voice. The song Tu amor me hace bien is my fav❤

[@stormyg9169]

JLo telling Ben he had a cheating clause in their prenup when she didn’t mind breaking up Marc Anthony’s home and cheating herself several times is so telling of her character.

[@jasmineminty13]

Im sorry... did I just hear that 4 months after ben she was married again? It's interesting to hear her now talk about how devastated she was at the time it ended and that it was the heartbreak of her life. If so how to you get married 4 months later?

[@betheecommentator]

Yes that’s correct. 4 months upon her split from Ben in Jan 2004, she married Marc in June 2004. It was about 4/5 ish months.

[@wahoo4uva]

easily. happens all the time! people quickly rebound with a next person for comfort and validation. especially people who don’t like being alone. jennifer seems to be one of these types.

[@noseyandneutral]

@@wahoo4uvathen that means she wasn’t as devastated as she claims…

[@user-po4li8jg1m]

@@noseyandneutral doesn’t mean that at all. Some people jump right into the next thing to escape the pain they don’t know how to handle on their own

[@noseyandneutral]

@@user-po4li8jg1m it’s pretty lame to justify the actions of Jenny From the Block but better you than I

[@Jjjjjko]

Never had a real opinion on JLo until watching this series. The things she does to other women, and the men in her life is flat out gross. She’s intentional when hurting and destroying others and it shows.

[@melt2947]

Listening to Marc Anthony’s ex crying and talking about her child in pain, just made me despise Jennifer Lopez. What a wicked woman. She chased that man down, yet writes in her silly book of lies that he rescued her with open arms. And whoever that therapist was that was supposed to teach her the meaning of integrity - FAIL. Her self quote of being honest, generous and loyal??!! It’s more than evident that the opposite is true

[@lysirishfleur3030]

If you really look at the way she says these things. She's actually just complimenting herself and projecting it into others. If I say it. Then, I am it.

[@GemmaKelly-tw1xm]

Jlo definitely has a thing for weddings, multiple marriages and engagements of her own, multiple films where she gets married and even a wedding dance number in the new film 😂

[@mov3172]

Jlo is In love with the IDEA of being in love ! Once the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over she usually moves on.

[@Darima2]

Omg I said that too!! When she did that movie with Owen Wilson, I was like ANOTHER movie with a wedding scene?? She literally loves being in a loop of the honeymoon phase, it seems to me. She made it work with Marc the longest, 7 years, only because he was the father of her children, otherwise as she herself said, she hung on there longer than she normally would have.

[@Jas_24]

Jennifer really needed/ needs therapy; ruining marriages, breaking people's hearts, etc bc you can't be alone. I know it's hard to recognize patterns and so on . Especially when you're distracted by other things and don't take time to be alone but still.

[@alygarden7879]

BINGO!!!

[@crab2195]

coming from someone who doesn’t care for JLo, i think we have to acknowledge that no one outside of the relationship can “ruin” a marriage. Marc Anthony ruined his marriage. it was his responsibility to protect his marriage and he clearly had no intention of doing so. JLo confiding in a married man is obviously wrong and indicative of her character but there would be no “confiding” if Marc never allowed it in the first place. both of them were wrong, but only one of them ruined a marriage. that was Marc.

[@Jas_24]

@@crab2195 I agree

[@Andreamom001]

⁠@@crab2195 I disagree. As a single woman with married friends, I am careful to avoid anything that could lead to feelings or closeness with any married man. I have enough respect for other people to avoid causing problems or exacerbating problems in someone’s marriage. If a woman flirts with a man she knows is married, she is not innocent of wrong-doing. She is a part of destroying a family. The husband who cheats is the one who broke his marriage vows and bears the greater responsibility, but the woman who participated is also doing wrong and destroying a family. A husband can’t cheat alone.

[@pearlosibu]

@@crab2195while the man bears a huge part of the responsibility, a woman CAN ruin a relationship. There’s a reason we don’t call our married male friends and try to make them our bestie. Men are protectors. As women, we should understand that he be allowed to perform that function FOR HIS WIFE. He may want to take care of you because he’s biologically crafted to. It’s for us who respect boundaries to say “wait, my calls and intrusions are causing his wife discomfort and insecurities. He’s someone else’s knight not mine. Men don’t always have this emotional intelligence.

[@sissy9393]

Once a cheat, always a cheat. I swear this seems to be true. 4x a week? Wow, that is strange imo to be in a prenup.

[@raimeyewens7518]

That is an odd thing to put in a prenup. What about your period, if you’re sick or you are having an argument and not feeling it? Instead of doing it because you’re in the mood you’re doing it because you “have” to. Not very romantic.

[@monilaninetynine3811]

Ben should have had JENNIFER signing a no cheating agreement with her track record.

[@SJ-ni6iy]

I think it’s gross but because it’s a beautiful woman, guys will think it’s awesome. 🙄Could you imagine the outrage, if a man was requiring this from a woman?

[@kimdelgado651]

@@raimeyewens7518 that’s how insecure she is.. because she thinks if he’s sleeping with her 4 times a week he’ll be to tired to get it from another woman

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

@@SJ-ni6iymany guys do make this demand and worse!

[@Antonia_801]

So basically, JL is a Bad Singer, Bad Actress, Bad Dancer and Horrible person.

[@perlacoffie6654]

She is not a bad dancer 😝 as an actress she is getting better… just saying..

[@avamelia7410]

That’s all u took away from this?

[@elineprince1323]

​@@perlacoffie6654average dancer, if she noticed any back dancer performing in Little ease in the practice, she'd make their life hell, fired as well as make them unable to work for others.. & explains how she is, she dated P diddy & they won't breakup unless that clash.. P. Diddy & she was made for each other just like Epstein and Maxwell lol

[@queenchiomaofficial]

She’s not a bad dancer, she’s one of the best dancers in the industry. She is an average singer and a pretty good actress. It’s just that she’s more of an entertainer than a real Vocalist. Maybe if she sang all of her songs and only used singers for background vocals and gave them credit we might not think all of these bad things about her voice.

[@queenchiomaofficial]

In terms of her as a person. I’m so shocked at how bad she seems. So many bad things have come out.

[@Ren0799]

😂 “She put her career on the back burner”?! You mean lip syncing 🤣😂🤣

[@WookieWoman]

She's like an older Ariana...

[@moustik31]

My thoughts exactly! Although romantically only bec. I hope Ariana Grande doesnt bully the people around her.

[@Camille_Anderson]

Except Ariana has incredible vocal & songwriting talents.

[@Camille_Anderson]

Except Ariana has talent

[@WookieWoman]

@Camille_Anderson Oh I concur.

[@Dollface2186]

Ben was in love with Jennifer Garner , and in lust with JLO

[@momentswithyahya4239]

‼️🎯

[@mrsx7944]

Good point. Imo he thinks he's better than her. Idk, something just seems off.

[@lam9129]

And he cheated on Garner… then went on an interview and basically blamed unhappiness with Garner for his alcoholism. Ben is toxic and JLO is toxic… they deserve each other… it’s sad that Jennifer doesn’t not understand what love is.

[@87Lohan]

I agree And Jennifer Garner is good for him

[@SJ-ni6iy]

I don’t think he’s ever loved anyone but himself. Anytime I saw Ben and Garner together, it seemed painfully obvious, she loved him so much more than he cared for her

[@87Lohan]

And this is about to be a 10 part series because we haven’t even reached ARod yet! JLo lacks self awareness! I think she has no idea how she comes across

[@Antonia_801]

Her frágil ego needed to prove to herself that she could “steal” a man away from a Miss Universe. Dayanara Torres is way more pretty. I never understood it.

[@creativeideator]

She loves herself only and anyone who's ready to give her the image she wants to be reflected to her. Can nobody tell me you love a guy (let alone being the love of ones life) and get married with someone else 4 months after a breakup.😅 And omg the vomiting comment from Ben Affleck, this is crazy 🤣

[@betheecommentator]

Omg the vomiting comment, so unexpected 😮😂

[@Carelesshilton]

Take a shot every time Jennifer thinks her fairytale is coming true or each relationship failing her into where she’s meant to be

[@ziggywalsh5562]

No! I don't want to die from alcohol poisoning!

[@mika9916]

I just realized, Jennifer lies.

[@theskyisblue567]

Yep!

[@mariadesotoescobar]

Its like rich and famous people wait for a miss universe or a miss whatever country to win then swoop in and marry them because they passed all the tests 😂

[@queenchiomaofficial]

I’ve always kind of felt like Marc is always married to some Miss Universe/USA or some celebrity like Jlo or some supermodel. I feel like he never marries anyone that he genuinely loves it’s always seemed like rebounds also, but maybe that’s not the case with his first wife. But I’m not sure.

[@Reading_the_comments]

She may be addicted to that "new love" feeling. You know how exciting a new relationship can be and how almost everything they do is sexy or cool, but then after 6 months-1 yr, that newness wears off. You have to actually work on everyday issues. Some people don't have the mental maturity to handle that and think they're not in love anymore because those butterflies are gone.

[@mrsx7944]

Yep. The infatuation phase when you're all lovey dovey 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰

[@Lisajed]

That's so funny the commentator kept saying THEY called off their wedding in 2003 NO THEY DIDN'T.... BEN CALLED IT OFF AT BACHELOR PARTY BY GETTING RIPPED DRUNK & SCREWING AROUND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN!! UP UNTIL THAT POINT JENNIFER WAS STILL PLANNING ON GETTING MARRIED TO BEN! HE DID THAT BECAUSE HE DIDN'T WANT TO GET MARRIED TO HER!

[@lam9129]

He knew what would pull the plug!

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Excellent 👌 point

[@JustMe-px9qy]

She looked really foolish dancing with Marc Anthony. Total cringe

[@okoala62]

It was. I mean, she’s beautiful and moves great but- it really solidifies that she is NOT a good singer 😅

[@tessahall797]

She looked like a giant next to him. He’s a very little man

[@bbygalrea9682]

One thing I noticed about JLo and her mom is that they don’t see anything wrong with breaking up marriages… JLo had no problem intervening in Marc and Dayanara’s marriage and her mom prayed for Ben and Jennifer Garner’s marriage to end so that JLo can get back with Ben again!

[@edgardonieves9758]

Supposedly, she had a powerful Santera priestess cast a spell to remove Ben's former wife and place JLO in her place.

[@okoala62]

The lines from her book- yikes. Reminds me of when I was in high school. Just this naive, immature, fantasy-filled image of marriage and relationships…..and based on her documentary? She hasn’t learned much. “Greatest story never told” my ass 🙄😂

[@LuvJenniiTompul]

She’ll call a married man in the middle of the night if she was stuck somewhere in Alaska . Even though this is a hypothetical, it speaks volumes. This is not a woman you can trust around your man, and her track record proves it.

[@reenyvincent4927]

i've been hearing about Gigli since it came out back in the early 2000s and i still have no idea what it's even about. it tanked so bad lol it's not even a cult classic

[@okoala62]

The few scenes I’ve seen against my will (like during this fantastic documentary!) Gigli just seems like such a cringy awful movie 😂

[@PiscesPower1994]

My mom and I went to the theater to see it. I loved Jlo(I was 8) and begged her to take me. Fifteen minutes in, we went home😂😂

[@RiqochetRoseTarot]

After watching this, I sort of feel bad for Jennifer in regards to her love life. She seems to me to have co-dependency issues.

[@betheecommentator]

I agree

[@selina2053]

Surely she can afford help with that..

[@tamcar04]

She can afford the best of the best treatment....she doesn't want to heal

[@user-wg2sb1dw7c]

I did at first. But she’s chasing a dream. Sex four times a week or else? Nah, she has control issues.

[@silversmoke6]

​@@tamcar04 in fairness, you don't get rid of attachment issues overnight, no matter how much money you have. A lot of people never fully recover - its a lot more complicated than "do therapy be happy".

[@yoongisbestie5194]

The fact that ben described their relationship as the relief u feel after u throw up is insane 😭 it’s funny cuz u can tell that both of them weren’t THAT in love w each other because of how fast they moved on from one another. And i dont believe in the “right person, wrong time” thing. If it’s the right person, it’s the right time, and even if they wanted to take a break, they wouldn’t have been able to move on from each other THIS fast. I think Jennifer and Ben just found each other lonely and single so they decided to give it a try again, but u can tell that it’s not genuine by how much Jennifer is trying to push this relationship in the media, instead of enjoying it herself. + Ben looks completely miserable all the time, and she doesn’t look that happy either tbh💀 I give them a few years and this relationship will end AGAIN. They’re just wasting each other’s time again w this relationship 💀

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Very astute. well said.

[@Kareena1988]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@fuqubish]

The bit where she's singing One Love on stage kinda proves she can't sing 😅 my sympathies for anyone who ever bought a ticket 😬

[@butterbeanqueen8148]

I live in the little city, Niceville where Chris Judd went to high school and where his parents live. Jennifer did visit. She’s haughty and a diva. But Chris is a great guy. It’s amazing that he’s a dancer and choreographer because he was born with a club foot. He overcame that and has gone on to experience wonderful success. But Niceville knows she’s not nice.

[@RiqochetRoseTarot]

Got my popcorn ready for this lol

[@betheecommentator]

Girl lol! Let me know what you think. I hope you enjoy it! ❤️❤️

[@seth7712]

I am sipping my hot green tea with honey 🍯

[@dp7047]

​@@betheecommentatorEnjoyed!!! Love your work

[@lyriccmg]

I was young when all this was going on but my God, she needed to rest her front lol. To be married twice already, and to cheat in both marriages, just to say your first heartbreak was after that is crazy. And to be so involved w a married man is just… she was so selfish and wasn’t self aware whatsoever.

[@kenterminateddq5311]

Kendrick Lamar's catchy diss track on Drake and a new video from Be makes my day. Thank you, BE THEE COMMENTATOR. 😅

[@betheecommentator]

My pleasure! I’m glad you’re here! I need to catch up on the Drake and Kendrick drama, I have NO idea what’s going on 😅

[@MzAbstractMind]

Omg, I never hated JLo nor Marc Anthony at all however, this Marc Anthony situation is just 🤢 How could he do that to his first wife? If he didn’t love her, he should’ve just left her alone, smh. And I can’t feel bad for JLo b/c she really doesn’t care about anyone except herself 😳 not even the men she claims to “love” 😩

[@tothemoonandback8571]

42:53 Did she just really say that she was great? Wow, the ego on this woman! I also picked up on when she said "we" ended the relationship when I think it was solely Ben that dumped her. Her marriage to Ben is doomed cause he's going to get tired of being controlled.

[@Stargazergirl104]

So, she was talking to Marc for years? Then turns out she’s been talking to Ben for years while a rod was cheating. All men it appears cheat on jlo .

[@tessahall797]

I believe Jlo got pregnant because Ben Affleck moved on a had kids.

[@karmaMatters123]

You can tell that Jennifer hadn’t changed in this interview, she’s saying she was finally good enough to be by herself …umm, Wouldn’t to beautiful children count when it comes to you being alone? Wouldn’t the amazing love they have for you and you for them render you not alone?? But, oh ya….nanny’s! But I truly believe Jennifer is super selfish. As well as very, very, very full of herself.. In all of the interviews, the interviewer will be saying positive things about J Lo and every time Jennifer interrupts thethe interviewer to talk about all of these other great things she does and all of these other attributes she has. Jenn, all of these men were so in love with you yet none of them wanted to stay with you because you are not a kind, friendly, sincere, appreciative person. You treat your fans and even people serving you horribly and then try to tell the world that you’re misunderstood. Even Marc Anthony, who was o in love with you for so many years, couldn’t stand to stay with you …and you guys barely spent time together because of your careers. I know this word is thrown around a lot, but I truly think that she is a narcissist.

[@methosimortal]

adding to that, treating the 3 years she kept a semi-low profile to focus on her kids and husband like it was a complete dissolution of her identity as a human being ... lady, come off it! do you have any idea how many women would just love to be able to take 3 years off their work to raise their babies and spend time with their husbands??she's had a charmed life, anyway you want to look at it and yet whenever she puts out a documentary, she acts so put upon, you'd think she was going through a nuclear apocalypse.

[@queenchiomaofficial]

Yeah it’s very sad that she’s actually like this. So many questionably things that she has done over the decades to hurt her image and people - from how she treats waitresses to how she doesn’t give any credit to artists. She would always go on and on about how she couldn’t get it right with her love life or how shes found true love with Ben. When really she needed to say she was wrong for taking tips back from waitresses when Ben would tip them and she was wrong for not giving credit to artists for all of those songs, she was wrong for not hiring all of those dancers just because they were virgos, wrong for not allowing drivers to look at her in the eyes/wrong for getting them fired if they did. She needs to admit her faults and clear some of this damage up.

[@1971_happylifedog]

Excellent video! I think Ben and JLo are the perfect couple. Jen only loves Jen and Ben only loves Ben!

[@peaceknot]

Damn, I'm barely into this and already I'm like what- how're you gonna stipulate how many times a week a partner is going to be intimate with you? This woman. Smh

[@lam9129]

I wonder if she thought this would eliminate cheating?? If she was traveling for a concert, how would he be able to do so. But again… forced intimacy… is never a good or healthy.

[@lam9129]

I don’t. She had the money and could have afforded the privacy of counseling. Jennifer what she helped Mark do to Dayanara was wrong. She just cares more about herself. Women like her are running around all over the world. Money cannot buy happiness.

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Well, Tho I don't like JLo. But, I think that's gossip. I find it unbelievable that some of these things are put in a prenup

[@BrightAura777]

You would be such a phenomenal book narrator. Your voice is amazing 😅❤ you’re amazing at this and anything else voice related you’d be great.❤

[@okoala62]

I was thinking that too! I’d totally listen to a book narrated by Bee!

[@Tatiana-cp1fc]

Jennifer quoting the Bible is ironic. The Bible also says that your FIRST marriage is a covenant and that remarriage is adultery.

[@floriepalacios3188]

She is a control freak, manipulator , that explain the 6 + relationships. And because of her needs..she destroyed the marriage of Dianara ,really…

[@moustik31]

Mark Anthony destroyed his marriage. He always had the choice to turn JLo down.

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Well, they were already separated and filed for divorce before the marriage actually ended Unfortunately, our feelings and emotions don't always end when the marriage does. As the mother of his children. He should've been more respectful of his actions. But he, like Jen only thought of themselves.

[@baylorsailor]

I find it far more romantic to have a partner that you're with through the highs and lows. You know, the marriages that last for 50 years; rather than a whirlwind romance that ends quickly.

[@lysirishfleur3030]

I can tell you have been married a long time. From this day forward. (Everything in between.) Until death do us part. That's a serious commitment of love.

[@vivdoolan6846]

Jlo is an empty vessel but is also a narcissist ...... so once the 'pretty face 'bit is done, they realise she is bad news

[@kandacekandace]

I think Marc didn't want Jennifer to sing with him and just dance because all of the bad reviews she received while performing with him, but the way you ended this was perfect like how movies end. Now I have to go listen to one love and watch that performance the season finale of Idol. Jlo should of just hired you to do her biopic everyone would of loved it because baby I'm hooked!! Don't be gone to long please ❤❤❤❤

[@sonyakinsey4376]

I never comment on these videos but MY STARS the way she talks about every relationship is awful. Apparently each failed marriage is a learning experience and the new biggest heart break, and yet she seems to learn zilch. I genuinely feel sorry for her exes. I'm sure none are perfect themselves but I can't imagine having listen to her talking about them like this.

[@jessicajuan5811]

Plz do a series about the many men of Kim Kardashian. I think it’d be super interesting.

[@lukesguywalker]

I want to thank you for your dedication to your craft! Your commitment to fact checking, editing, and presenting facts is top notch. I hope you are on the mend ❤

[@amyferguson8856]

I don't respect these people personally or professionally. I do however respect YOU

[@betheecommentator]

I appreciate you so much!! Thank you 😊❤️

[@yukil.spencer3848]

girl i ran once i saw the upload

[@betheecommentator]

Aw thanks for the support!! ❤️❤️

[@stargirlrachel]

I never understand why every wedding has to be a big white wedding? Surely after the first few, you'd feel silly putting on a white dress and spending thousands of dollars... Maybe it's just me.

[@LaureeAnna]

I'm excited for this one! ...no one can stand that woman.

[@betheecommentator]

Thanks for watching and for your continued support. We have just 1 more left and that’s a wrap! We will finally be done and I’m so ready to move on 😅🤣

[@hsk2909]

@@betheecommentator Not even thumb screws could have made me investigate this ..uuhhmmm..specimen , sub category of woman..I do my best to not use the typical ugly words..I'm a woman, always respect hard working women of every walk of life, admire and support in any way shape or form that i can..so, I as a woman, have a HARD time accepting Jennifer as a part of a larger womanhood. Woomanhood that is out for the best of their communities and CHILDREN above all. This super star ( for no great talent reasons) MULTI MUTLI MULTI MILLIONAIRESS will not chip in on a new basketball court for the neighborhood kids in the Bronx!!?? You what BÄITSCHH?? ( My native slang) YOU , THE Jenny from the BLOCK?? Lol, go take a hike. On your bike. Off you go, in to your pink sunset whatever, just -go away. She does NOT represent true womanhood in ANY way shape or form. Just my opinion. Sue me if you like J-LOW.

[@mariadesotoescobar]

Ben basically got told he needs a more "traditional" wife passing person who is more OBEDIENT 😂

[@LizettesB3autyChannel]

@mariadesotoescobar 😂😂😂

[@TheLoveweaver]

Yup!

[@nana7905]

Can't stand Ben Affleck

[@aalucyaf-zp5ut]

She keeps saying how she cried for this or that. But I can't even imagine her being able to shed a real tear at all.

[@lysirishfleur3030]

She probably cried. For herself.

[@salomealhusami594]

Yaaaaay! A new Bee's video! Thank you for your, as usual, STELLAR work! 😍💗

[@betheecommentator]

Thank you! I have some very interesting topics/stories coming up! Stay tuned ❤️❤️

[@salomealhusami594]

@@betheecommentator I will definitely be on the lookout for any content you so generously provide! 😊😍

[@LG-zy9dp]

She didn’t learn anything from therapy. She craved the spot light Narcissist Marc Anthony is a HUGE superstar Talented man She is not so she felt in his shadow yes agreed. She had to get out because she is the one that has to shine

[@vanessacarvalho9076]

Spot on! During their tour together ( when she got pregnant ), she gave an interview to a radio station and she was saying that she learned everything about touring with Mark. I was shocked that she started her music career in 1999 and until 2005 she never toured before. She made a fortune from music lipsyncing on TV programs and small appearances and albums sells 😳😳😳 Shocking! One more proof how her weak vocal were so critisised during that time. I saw Mark Anthony in London and that man sounds better live than on cd. Total power house, bless him! I think after American Idol, she met Steve Mackay and he is so good as a singer and vocal coach that he managed to develop whatever vocal possibility she has. Definetely she got better but still not for the hype of her music career. I believe she thought that she and Mark are equals ( he is also an amazing actor and I would love to see him more in movies ), but during their relationship she couldn't compete with his talent and got resented.

[@geegee4010]

It's so amazing that this grown woman bases her relationships as a fairy tale.

[@gossipsquirrel]

I was starting to get worried about you Bee!! I check your page religiously so happy to see part 4 You’re the most authentic creator on KZbin

[@monilaninetynine3811]

She just hurts people and goes from glory to glory. Wow‼️

[@MourirSarin]

For a narcissist , at times, Jennifer can seem so unsure of herself …

[@mariagabrielle6383]

Narcs are empy.

[@pearlosibu]

But THAT is classic.

[@methosimortal]

all narcissists are insecure. their bolstering is just that ... empty words to put up a front. t

[@melt2947]

It’s an act

[@teresarabe8516]

In her This is Me documentary she accuses her Mom of being a narcissist. 🤔

[@melaniesheldon8013]

Jlo reminds me of an ex who was never happy with whoever he was with 😂

[@lolamead5227]

Jlo like an older Ariana that can’t carry a 🎶

[@ryansgirl2002]

Netflix ought to be beating down your door! Your work is top notch not just here and there, but EVERY TIME. Every single video you've made is next level. Thank you so much for sharing your content with us all, you deserve way more subs than you have.

[@betheecommentator]

Aw thank you so much for your feedback. I’m glad you enjoy my channel and I really appreciate the hype regarding my content, o appreciate it so much! ❤️❤️

[@misskeirstin6355]

Bee your videos are only getting better and better!!

[@betheecommentator]

Wow, thank you so much!

[@misskeirstin6355]

@@betheecommentator I’ve been watching your videos since the beginning! I love your work! Keep up the amazing job ♥️

[@bronzegoddess8709]

Excellent work as usual ❤. Mess on top of mess lol. Kim K's love life would be another good topic to cover.

[@thebronzedempress]

JLO has ALWAYS reminded me of Elizabeth Taylor. Period. She’ll be with any man she wants for however long she wants, whether that man has a woman or not.

[@trawlins396]

I said the same. She was friends with Dayanara just like ET was friends w Debbie Reynolds.

[@trawlins396]

ET was way more glamorous though

[@Camille_Anderson]

​@@trawlins396better actress, too!

[@winkstar9265]

33:38 Wow all that fancy foot work looks like a clown show. hahaha

[@naylani7790]

lmaooo 😭

[@lindsgray]

when you started this jlo deep dive i was thinking it must be because its relevant due to the collateral damage & hate she's been getting recently. but this video was truly a deeply humanizing depiction of who she is in a way i wasn't expecting. thank you for this & all the work you've done!

[@betheecommentator]

Thank you SO much! I’m so glad my intention for this series landed and that you are enjoying it! ❤️

[@_Garlic_Queen]

I am bingewatching all the videos and I'm just tired of her going through the same loop again and again, and every time having some introspective story about how she now does understand what's good for her, only for her to rush into another marriage again....

[@robinwilson4332]

I believe Jlo loves any man who loves her, smh, I also believe some of her relationships are a tactic of what benefits her at the moment for example, puffy helps market her into urban music, Ben help her more with movies and Marc help her enter into Latin music. Jlo just says the same thing about every relationship when she's happy, same damn script lol 🤣 I'm in love, I love him blah blah blah.... She has to truly love herself first to know what love is from someone else. She just replaces one man after another, she always has a backup man smh, the cycle will continue until she breaks this toxic pattern of if you like me I'll love you, that's not love. And she still continuing to do it smh. Sad that she had to trick her friends and family to come to her wedding lol because I know they probably said I'm not attending another wedding lmao 🤣 I met Jlo older sister and she is a really nice person, a real one and I know she wasn't feeling Jlo 100th wedding, Gurl marry yourself please. I'm not making fun of Jlo I'm making an observation, of the patterns of her relationships with men. She hasn't changed it even being with Ben same pattern of behavior, I hope she changes because it's lonely trying to find someone to complete you, no one has the missing puzzle pieces but you Jlo. Once she gives herself the love and validation she needs, she will find peace in her relationship with whomever she chooses but this false narrative of a fairytale true love isn't reality Jlo, she over romanticize her relationships and when the butterflies are gone so is she! That's all it is really! Relationships are hard not always rainbows and sunshine lol you have to stand the rain Jlo listen to Can you stand the rain girl lol 🤣 that song is what you need to do to have a lasting true love story! Talk to older couples who have been married 40+ years they will tell you how to make a marriage work. My grandparents been together through it all and it wasn't always pretty either but they are a true love story, R.I.P both of them truly best grandparents. Jlo, you and Ben, Nope! y'all have to put in the work and years first and that's probably why people ain't buying what you selling lol 🤣 Please stop with the BX stuff lol 🤣 you have no idea what your talking about this message is from a Born and raised Bronx native ❤️

[@lysirishfleur3030]

I think she's more in-love with the idea of being in-love.

[@caroljoan3792]

i had to delete my post because she finally discovered she is the only person who can save her is herself ... she can give love and receive love but no one can save her. if she doesnt love herself she cant love someone else nor can they love her. i hope she remembers that because its the only way she will ever be happy

[@baylorsailor]

So in short, Jennifer left Ben for Mark, because Mark worshiped her and that's what she's looking for in a relationship. She doesn't want an equal partnership. She wants to be worshiped while at the same time wants somebody who's mysterious. So it's really impossible to please her.

[@trawlins396]

I noticed that. Everytime she mentioned Mark it was "he loved ME, he'd do anything for ME,, he makes ME laugh, he always had feelings for ME". She never once said she loved him.

[@montyollie]

I haven't commented much through this series but I've watched them all and LOVE your content, you know that! LOL I am mesmerized at how wholly unlikeable JLo is. She's just so into navel gazing and so obsessed with sex/love/men it's surreal. Not my scene at all. I'm sure you heard about how she just made some obnoxious zillion dollar movie that she SELF FUNDED that is kind of a performance art piece about her love life. I'm so bored of her love life. Oh. Except when you make it. I love your videos so much, you have such a relaxing voice and such a measured pace.

[@mazmedia44]

enjoy your comments

[@betheecommentator]

Aww thank you so much for your support and feedback during this series. I haven’t watched her documentary or movie yet but I will as we are approaching the final part of the series. I have heard that she self funded the visual movie of the album for $20 million 😳😮 Just 1 more left❤️

[@daphneroman9163]

I think she is very well liked. She is a hard worker, discipline. You do not see a photo of her leaving a club drunk. Poor men choices in the past is something normal.

[@aalucyaf-zp5ut]

Word is that JHo and Ben kept sleeping with each other throughout the years through their marriages.

[@flowerchild89]

Self esteem comes from within, JLo! You're not from the Bronx. Wasn't the ❤ of your life Marc!?!? How is it Ben???

[@gizib14]

Damn Jada really is for everybody 👀

[@susieschlotzhauer9924]

Ok the codependent Princess complex , “I must be rescued by a man” explains a lot

[@itssarahonly4181]

Got so excited when I saw the notification for this video! Loved it & and am praying for your health & recovery. Thank you for your amazing and very well researched videos. Always enjoy them!

[@methosimortal]

Yay! I was looking forward this part!

[@ThaMightyWon]

Glad to see you're back to it. 100k is right there. Stay locked in! ❤👑🌹

[@brookie_cookie9563]

Been waiting for this one!! Love your videos

[@cassieaguot6858]

Love when you upload, Your voice is so soothing! ❤️🧘🏿‍♀️

[@lillian9676]

What a thorough composition of this story - I can attest that having followed her love life you got it all spit on .

[@chelsea5226]

I agree with the other commenters, she seems to need to be in a relationship's. Especially a relationship were the guy bent over backwards for her (and over other women)! I am sorry you have been sick, love!

[@melinehhacopians1184]

Shes so annoying 😒

[@betheecommentator]

Just one more episode left, my love and we will be moving on!! ❤️❤️😅

[@mazmedia44]

😅🥰

[@bronzegoddess8709]

​@@betheecommentator Her hot girl era with Casper lol