Inside The Mind of A Quitter

#masculinity #nihilism #selfimprovement
Nihilism is the belief that all values are baseless and that nothing can be known or communicated. It is often associated with extreme pessimism and a radical skepticism that condemns existence. A true nihilist would believe in nothing, have no loyalties, and no purpose other than, perhaps, an impulse to destroy
In the 20th century, nihilistic themes such as epistemological failure, value destruction, and cosmic purposelessness, have preoccupied artists, social critics, and philosophers. Mid-century, for example, the existentialists helped popularize tenets of nihilism in their attempts to blunt its destructive potential. By the end of the century, existential despair as a response to nihilism gave way to an attitude of indifference, often associated with anti-foundationalism
It has been over a century now since Nietzsche explored nihilism and its implications for civilization. As he predicted, nihilism’s impact on the culture and values of the 20th century has been pervasive, its apocalyptic tenor spawning a mood of gloom and a good deal of anxiety, anger, and terror

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[@NupidStigger]

Thank you for all of these videos, you’ve truly made me realize many things that once let me down that now instead push me towards my goals, may Allah put his blessings upon you brother

[@user-xd7gs5uq5y]

Such great timing. Just an hour ago I have thought to myself that life is essentially meaningless. After watching this video you helped me realize that life where you just existing might be pointless, but if you just start actually living, life can meaningful even a little.

[@anjay3839]

I watched this video a couple of times... And yep... You described my entire life almost to the dot. The only difference is that I blame myself and no one else. Anyways, am at least trying to crawl out of this hole nowadays.

[@Eliass-4]

Good Luck

[@mustafahasan4137]

How about now brother. It’s been almost a year did you make some progress?

[@anjay3839]

​@@mustafahasan4137 I watched the video again and yes, This video no longer describes me, The thing with me is that I have ADHD, Dyslexia and Dyscalculia, So school life was a living hell for me I failed multiple times to pass on to the next grade, and every time I failed to pass, I ended up switching schools to continue to the next grade, all an all I have switched schools 5 times, so I never had any friends my whole life either and ofc all the failure was not due to a lack of effort, there were times in my life where I have spent more time at tuition centers than at school, but it was never good enough, I was still at the bottom of the barrel if not failing But somehow, I did end up making it to college, even tho I went for the arts, I still struggled, but eventually, I hit a brick wall The realization just hit me, that I would never be able to hold a normal 9 to 5 job, no matter how hard I tried, I was just not cut out for that, I broke down from that realization and ended up dropping out of college, becoming the person in the video, stopped caring about everything and the best I could visualize was a week into the future, anything more than that didn't exist for me that was about 3 years ago about a few months before I posted my first comment, i.e. about 1.5 years ago, something happened that showed me that I am extremely talented, at first, I was in disbelief, then I had no choice but to accept it, then I realised that if I don't do anything with my life knowing that I was this talented, I would regret it till the day I died, That is what made me want to give life one more try Right now I am still just a college dropout, but I am doing my own thing, I am determined to prove my old self wrong, I don't know when I'll be able to make money out of it or anything but am never gana quite until I get what I want

[@blueheart9873]

This feels similar to what I'm experiencing. Your videos have been an inspiration and very helpful. Thank you

[@ruiraiz9694]

Was raised by a quitter and im the opposite now

[@klover19]

I really feel the same way. I used to be fat as a kid, in middle school I never knew the importance of Semen retention due to not having the teaching of it. Now my mindset has changed.

[@getrelaxed3848]

Good for you bro, I encourage you to keep chasing succes.. always🙌🏼

[@itssteph4693]

Dont ever give up on yourself kid, you probably didn’t have the best parents but you cant control that but you still got yourself to make proud wake up, open your eyes

[@recallboxing1372]

I lost my first 15 fights then won* a cruiserweight title at White collar event at the o2. Your videos are very clear, articulate and easy to follow, keep up the word lad, and if you start doing spontaneous live streams/q&as, that would be a welcome addition... so yh, thanks for that...

[@bobbyfirmansyah8580]

Wisdom is knowing the time to hold on or let go. I spend 8 years trying to work on my Dream only to realize that im just not competent enough. balancing life, works and my personal dream is hard enough. When i decided to let go of my dream, i was at the rock bottom point of my life, but then months later my life actually get better. I got more time to myself, more money cause i didnt spend it on a Dream that i know wont come true and overal feeling content and peace knowing i have try my best. I wish i could let go a lot sooner but well, it is what it is.

[@WarriorPrime1]

Another bulls eye! Thanks for your critically important videos. I would add that not only should one be aware of their possible negative parental upbringing but also beware that you might be doing the same to others.

[@marcusm1766]

This video was spot on

[@alterzz2121]

Thank you so much, I needed this video. Recently I dropped out a class from University because of a mistake I made and I felt bad

[@geneticallysuboptimalsurvi3931]

I still struggle with myself and I loathe success of others despie being a successful young scientist myself. Quitter mindset and jealousy go hand in hand, usually resulting from discouraging childhood experiences, or lack of good ones. It took years of effort to start overcoming that inertia.

[@JasonOmegaKakos]

Amen!!! Thank you for this video 🤝 I truly needed it

[@1HuntingShark]

Personally had a much different experience. Obviously it’s anecdotal so shouldn’t be held with serious academic standards but when I was a child my parents pushed me to try new things. Had me participate in swimming classes outside of school, after school football even karate for a short time. Always kept telling me to keep trying, kept saying I need to be patient with myself and that I have “my own learning speed” but their encouragement, and that from educational authorities weren’t enough to change my mindset. Even if I got awards and praise for achievements I was always getting them much later than my peers. Can basically put it to autism although I wasn’t diagnosed till age 14. No matter the encouragement I received, the pep talks about how success isn’t a straight forward line, my mindset just couldn’t be changed and even to this day it still lingers. Most things I have ended up quitting. Gave up football when I knew I couldn’t ever be as good as my peers, gave up karate early on when I knew i just wasn’t really internally aggressive, gave up going to the gym multiple times because I didn’t feel like I fit in with the overall gym culture and couldn’t escape the internal monologue. Gave up on a large social circle I’d built up because while I’m currently at university I couldn’t manage to balance both university commitments and social commitments. I could go on and on but to be more brief I’d object to the video’s first argument. I don’t think it’s always the case of humans becoming quitters because of a lack of encouragement, that could apply to the majority but I do believe there is a sub section who are just inherently quitters. You can give us the most encouraging environments and still we have this internal dialogue to just quit of throw things away

[@cschiud5571]

Absolutley agree on this, worked super hard and diciplined for a goal the past year. Ended up in a selection process which put me in an environment in which i didnt manage to put out as much as i would wish or had the potential to. No matter the hours of hard work and dedication my inner dialog made me quit in a few hours of decission making. Sometimes its important to ask yourself for what or who you are doing things. I think quitting is some form of failiure beating yourself. An as with all failiures they bring experience and knowledge. If you quit, this doesn't mean you can try again and figure out what made you quit!

[@zhelvaanugrah874]

"Kesediaan seseorang untuk sepenuhnya dikuasai oleh kesedihan akan mengubahnya menjadi individu yang paling dibenci dan paling tidak diingat di mata dunia"

[@BlueSkyCountry]

"Winners never quit". That is what every casino CEO will tell you. 😂

[@user-mn6li2yv4d]

I would say … It’s a spectrum. You need to know when to quit … because being always anxious about “ achieving “ is no life as well ….becoming overwhelmed and in the end shut down ….…. I am leaning now how to stop controlling…start living life by making daily small choices that makes my day feels better … and god knows how difficult is that ….. in our current world we are taken by achieving…. Meaning…. Gaols ….. addictions … anxiety …… but what if we look at the animals around us …. They eat .. play …. Work to get their food ( if wild ) … and life goes on ……… No meaning obsession

[@daviddimalanta259]

This video triggered me. I knew it from the beginning. I know I can. The guilt-trip game and confusion always get in my way. There are so many things my parents don't understand what I want in order to fight boredom and depression. I wanna trying to become independent (dad told me to need money), trying to learn martial arts (dad told me not to but deep inside it make me even worse and more violent than not learning martial arts at all), learning social gaming and seek my "PUA" mentor (mom's guilt trip game pulled me back two times)

[@thENDweDIE]

I became a "Quitter" sometime after I heard the definition of 'Insanity..!! I had a Seventh Heaven like childhood...minus the television pushed over the topness...and just two older sisters... However, I was simply unable and unwilling to go through the age of loss...again..!! No matter how many times I'd get a job, then my own place, and even a wonderful girl...I would inevitably ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS lose it all..!! This sounds impossibly vague, I know...and if anyone ever actually reads this, they'd have a million questions no doubt. Yet it's sadly the fate of at least one soul in the world...who could only convey so much here...

[@thENDweDIE]

@@UriYAHTheNazarite Are you haunted as well too..?? I'm being serious as a heart attack, and quite literal also...however, in no way ever defined by Hollywood. I speak on dreams...there's one that has come twice a moon, for over two decades now..!! Yet it's come to define my entire life...and death. It was all over...before it began..!!

[@thENDweDIE]

There is wisdom in hardships... There are poems in grief...

[@rabdeus7713]

Thank you brother...

[@vurhn2009]

I also quit doing stuff if I got told on what to do even if I didn't ask like I got all planned and ready but a single sentence would encourage quitting until hours later. I feel like that's weird or not, either way my mother won't ever change. It's like being pampered and assisted when you've been doing this for years and last year you want to do something in your own but no matter how much you tell honestly you don't like to hear it again you will hear it again.

[@vurhn2009]

Additionally I wish to give people respect but it's going to be hard fixing relationships especially if you know people closely but nonetheless I never resort to violence, just confused and lost but annoyed. Like people change their minds when they keep their word, and yet I'm here not saying that I keep my word because I know I won't do it until I sign up or give permission I'll do so.

[@EddyYounes111]

It's been along time since I didn't check ur videos ! Great I'm back on track

[@Forged88]

Appreciate that you've sticked around mate 👊

[@marcusm1766]

❤

[@TheAtomicWarrior]

I'm currently a bit over-weight and am planning on going back to doing physical activities to lose the weight, started going out with a date and I'm trying to slowly get into art by drawing a bit. I got doubts it will last, but I'll try and keep those habits up.

[@abdulhamidmuktar9763]

"A quitter never wins and a winner never quits", said Napoleon Hill.

[@ajc6615]

Sounds about right.

[@elonmusknigachocolate]

But sometimes I do wonder how I should do all these things i want to do? My mind is full of irrelevant, negative and corrupted thoughts. I do have a lot of desires but no self esteem, no motivation and no effort. What should I do? How do I overcome all these insecurities?

[@Forged88]

You'll never find out if you never put yourself in the field my friend. Inaction breeds doubt, and doubt can only be removed by actions, because actions give you the experience & adaptation that you are desperately needing to start building some form of assurance & confidence in yourself. You have desires but no motivation is bullshit. Your fear is overwhelming your excitement. You have to be stubborn & hard headed when pursuing your desires. Those who have no persistence/grit won't survive

[@jacksavage279]

Winners quit and looser's keep going.

[@eugenetoo6038]

Nice vid🎉 First commenter

[@mocromo2010]

for me it's because I'm a perfectionist.

[@tflue7269]

Want to do if you have controlling parents

[@Forged88]

Rebel & pursue independence/self reliance

[@ELLHNIKA]

الحمد لله على الحياة

[@RazorM97]

I used to think of life as completely meaningless so I never put any sort of effort in anything because life can't be satisfied. But now I realized that I wasn't getting a bang for my buck by acting like this.

[@Svemirsky]

Beautiful video. Atm I'm a quitter 1/1. Maybe life will get better, but most probably won't 😅

[@cursorjustvanished]

try your best to make it better and more meaningful, it'll be worth it

[@hhptbt]

I'm a new subscriber. Your videos are really valuable. Could you slow down the audio speed of your videos to 90 - 95%? I currently have to set the speed to 0.75 to catch up, but 0.75 is a little too slow, but 1.0 is a little too fast. Edit: audio speed like in this video is good to me. The recent videos are a bit fast.

[@Forged88]

Will try mate 👊 thanks for the input

[@redseagaming7832]

There's no such thing as luck it's called personal choice. If you believe yourself a quitter you're gonna end up failing everything You do mainly because you gave up already.

[@Banele808]

This guy sounds like pain from Naruto.

[@simpleboi6843]

never came this early

[@ValourFlame]

Insane man

[@donkeytrek5464]

Damn im early

[@Memerific42069]

I'm the tenth comment

[@undergroundmoto8287]

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