If someone could buy me me a device that removes dust/fluff from my shirt that’d be great thanks.
@buttercupsndaisies4 жыл бұрын
Or, don't wear black? :-) Also, it was interesting to see you out in a public setting (assuming that's not your front room). Then I realised there's no one else around, so not actually public. Introvert after my own heart :D
@tomgang56124 жыл бұрын
Clothes roller?
@fizzydee39914 жыл бұрын
No need to spend money, you have a perfectly good tongue in your head 😊
@candycc79694 жыл бұрын
What's your personality type Nathan??
@Terrormitzsu4 жыл бұрын
You need an ISTJ around the house to do it, you'll never have fluff and hair on your shirt again. My ISTJ dad always used double-sided sticky tape or picked it off when walking behind me, seeing the wild, long INFP hairs sticking on my shirt. We never did get to the complete root of the problem which was my INTP mother not using dryer sheets in the dryer to remove static cling because she had nerdy allergies... ISTJ traditionalist Dad never pointed this out anyway. But, he noticed other stuff all the time. Like leaves under my car the next morning after I'd run into a hedge the night before.
@Binyamin.Tsadik4 жыл бұрын
ISTJs are far more dynamic and interesting than most people give them credit for. They can be very creative, independent and individualistic.
@JCsRadiantRae4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. I, an INFJ, would have continued to be dismissed as a ridiculous wild idea fairly, if It were not for the loyalty and diligence of a "very creative, independent and individualistic" military General of an ISTJ colleague and friend. Instead, together we solve problems no one else can solve.
@JungianStar254 жыл бұрын
Yeah, like Pewdiepie, he is an ISTJ
@TheLooselois4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@BatemanPsycho3 жыл бұрын
I don't feel too creative, but I appreciate the optimism.
@day_79873 жыл бұрын
lol, same. i dont feel creative.
@Jess-yv7zc4 жыл бұрын
ISTJs get a bad rap as being boring but they're actually quite quirky and really funny once you get to know them. They're also super smart (I just love 2nd slot Te)...which is anything but boring.
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Well said ~ Nathan
@EpicPaul644 жыл бұрын
You said it! One of my favorite jokes is "A priest, a rabbi and a nun walked into a bar. They said 'Ouch.' Why aren't they watching where they're going?!"
@Leonhart_934 жыл бұрын
Aren't they the most common? Forgive me for seeming like an @ss, but I have to say it: most of the world is obviously not "super smart". Just because they predominantly use their thinking it doesn't mean they use it well. It just means they prefer it over feeling. If you want to add "super" in front of "smart", you can probably do that only with Intuitive dominant people, and of course not all of those either.
@Jess-yv7zc4 жыл бұрын
@@Leonhart_93 I'm an INTP so I wouldn't be offended even if you were being an ass. I've always been of the mindset (even more so since studying typology) that there are many different types of intelligence. I'm also not one of these intuitives who thinks all intuitives are innately smarter than all sensors. I will concede the point that I should have qualified by not labeling "all" ISTJs as super smart....but my Ti reserves the right to decice for itself what qualifies as "super smart". We're both showing our biases here--as a Ti dom I really appreciate Te aux (I prefer it in the form of an INTJ but also find it very useful and refreshing in the form of an ISTJ. I categorically disagree with the statement that the label "super smart" can only be applied to intuitive doms--ENFPs can be quite brilliant but that Ti blind sure looks dumb to me most of the time (bias again--see? To me, logic and then rational are the highest forms of intelligence but I recognize that there is also common sense, emotionally intelligence and on and on and on) I never said that ISTJs using Te above Fi is what makes them super smart--they have phenonomonal memories and a very real grasp of concrete events and of their surroundings. If you're implying in a round-about way that ISTJs are quite common (they are) and that most humans are stupid--I do accept your premise if not the actual details. Humans are smart amd stupid, both.
@WarsOfate4 жыл бұрын
@@Jess-yv7zc I wouldn't call them 'super smart' tho but rather 'refined' on what they're doing. They're more 'predictable' and 'hard-working like a horse'. In a world that's moving from swords to gunpowder era, I image them as a blacksmith who keeps honing their skills and makes the best refined swords/katanas, while I, as an INTJ, would be moving into gun. There is no way I would have the tenacity of an ISTJ honing the same stuff over and over unless that's the last resort lol......
@s.b.71214 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm ISTJ, and I noticed that, even though we are supposed to be one of the most common types, when it comes to types you see commenting or interacting on KZbin, we are among the rarest. I think that many people who quickly label ISTJs as "rigid", "uninteresting", "boring", "traditional" fail to see that we can also be fun - in our own way - but to find that out you also have be willing to get to know us. One of my law professors (also ISTJ) has a dry sense of humour that I appreciate a lot, and he's one of the kindest professors I've ever had. I'm also convinced that many people usually don't think about our sensuous approach to things: as a hobby, I love sewing and nothing gives me more satisfaction than being able to find a gorgeous fabric to turn into a well-fitting garment. Or when I'm out taking pictures and suddenly the light seems just perfect. I live for those moments and I can get so lost in them that someone else has to "bring me back to reality".
@ms_midnight._4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@crazydiamond12734 жыл бұрын
preach. 👏🏻
@ZanetaW4 жыл бұрын
Too accurate. I can barely find entertaining istj content online :(
@huckchilli75844 жыл бұрын
ENFP here. You are the exact opposite personality type from me. Thanks for the insight!
@potatochini93954 жыл бұрын
Most people are just claiming to have INTJ personality type. Lol they make me laugh.
@lovelierose984 жыл бұрын
They say ISTJs are common and INFPs are rare, but 70% of my friends are INFPs and I cannot find another ISTJ in uni :')
@misscoffee64423 жыл бұрын
Well that is funny ~ INFP just to mess with you
@lovelierose983 жыл бұрын
@@misscoffee6442 I'd gladly welcome another INFP buddy tho. I don't mind collecting an army of INFP friends 🤣
@misscoffee64423 жыл бұрын
@@lovelierose98 😂
@milesmabale36413 жыл бұрын
Istj here lol To encourage you to look for more 😅
@lovelierose983 жыл бұрын
@@milesmabale3641 greetings comrade! hope u have a pleasant day ✋🏻
@Kwietitze4 жыл бұрын
My father is 81 years old ISTJ, and I can't admire him more. Even though he is traditionalist, he is interested in learning new skills and he exercises regularly, so he looks 10 years younger. Did I mention he's still working? So more videos about ISTJ!
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Wow still working at 81!! I would love to still be able to work at that age, I need to make sure I keep my body and brain as sharp as he has! ~ Nathan
@dasytaylor4 жыл бұрын
please do more, we need ISTJ content. i'm especially curious about their relationships and their personal growth
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Will do! ~ Nathan
@deathsheadtarot88884 жыл бұрын
I second that! While I myself am an INFJ I am surrounded by ISTJ's and I love hearing Nathan's description of the types!
@bethanyvanklei11094 жыл бұрын
I would love that too..istj here. I struggle communicating with infj's. I'm very logical and straight forward and use less feelings..which gets percieved like I don't care..I'm just less driven by emotion and more by logical and practical ways of discussing topics. However it tends to upset the over sensitive types easily.. even when I don't mean too.
@bethanyvanklei11094 жыл бұрын
@uh thanks for the advice. I try my best to do that but sometimes even when I'm trying to be nice and validating my infj hubby thinks I'm being mean..lol
@MattCookVideos4 жыл бұрын
I would recommend instead becoming INTJ. The S is only an absence of N.
@financegirl_61034 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed your approach to ISTJs. As an ISTJ, I am very open to change, but the key is- I need to be shown the value, need, and benefit of the change.
@zakariaorzak5 ай бұрын
😮💨💯
@traditionalgirl39434 жыл бұрын
To me, ISTJ are soooo underrated. My father was and my husband is ISTJ. They are NOT boring. They provide the stability, predictability and order that allows me to be myself (ISFP/ISTP). They work hard but know how to play when it is time for that. They are realistic . Yes, they are set in their ways but when something clearly doesn’t work they will innovate. They may not prioritize aesthetics but they do appreciate them when they see them. They are affectionate. Because of them the family goes on trips to places like Yosemite National Park which is not easy to arrange since getting reservations usually requires a miracle. We may disagree sometimes but they stick around through thick and thin. They ARE creative in practical ways building things we use like bookshelves or Christmas yard decorations. They appreciate the need to attend Church regularly. They are humble and unassuming too but people notice their dignity. I can’t believe KZbinrs so often fail to give them credit for being usually pleasant with a playful sense of humor. Thank you for this video appreciating their other qualities! 😁💙
@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon4 жыл бұрын
My brother is an ISTJ and he's fun and funny.
@artemischen40864 жыл бұрын
I'm an ISFP too, and my crush is an ISTJ!
@beccaarnold25904 жыл бұрын
My dad and husband are also both ISTJ's and I love them for all the reasons you described. They also both have a great sense of humor. And they keep me grounded being an INFP dreamer myself.
@cucugm4 жыл бұрын
@@artemischen4086 LOL Im ISTJ and have a Crush on an ISFP xD I wish you some luck ma dude!!
@jewel84394 жыл бұрын
@Cucu Lol I'm also an ISTJ with a crush on an ISFP. I have such a soft spot for ISFPs, I just wanna protect them. I can be a bit critical of most people, but for some reason ISFPs don't bring out that side in me XD
@luise_zrn3 жыл бұрын
"ISTJs can be overly controlling" We had a group work at school and in the end I did everything because I just didn't trust my group members. Just the thought of handing in a powerpoint with tasks and results that I didn't check gave me anxiety. Anyone out there with the same problem?
@sharonler-27822 жыл бұрын
Same!
@smolville2 жыл бұрын
ISTJ's are prone to sensory overload. SSRI's seem to help.
@Biosynthnut Жыл бұрын
I work on cars, anytime a coworker jumps in on my job. I will stop looking them dead in the eye. Do exactly as I tell you. Do not deviate from it. Usually they follow, or go away.
@elenwinl9786 Жыл бұрын
Yes same here, but mainly having to re-do and fix all the mess that the other students did because they didn't give a darn about their parts and the whole thing would have failed if I hadn't patched and fixed it all up. I hate group projects. I don't like my grade being dragged down by lazy incompetent people who don't care.
@KokichiAndNagitosCombinedMinds Жыл бұрын
Yep I do the same
@JCsRadiantRae4 жыл бұрын
My strongest ally at work is a mature ISTJ. He enables me (an INFJ) to create foolproof plans that make sense to the other 14 types. If I can convince my ISTJ colleague that my idea - no matter how unusual - will solve or prevent a problem, then together we can convince everyone else.
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
INFJ and ISTJ is a fascinating duo!! ~ Nathan
@JCsRadiantRae4 жыл бұрын
@@lovewho Yeah, even after 8 years, we are still a bit of a mystery to one another. Fortunately, each of us has learned from experience that the other is almost always correct. So, he accepts the mystery of my intuition and the folly of me trying to save humanity, while I accept and act on seemingly useless sensory information that he deems to be of critical importance to our success.
@shindiregitasyali92484 жыл бұрын
The guy I'm seeing now is an ISTJ. I'm an INFJ and I've been studying our functions and how they actually complement each other. I'm so excited because I'll be able to learn how to improve my minor functions from him and vice versa! I just need to help him see the same point. I hope he and I are going toward a more serious stage. Wish us luck!
@JCsRadiantRae4 жыл бұрын
@@shindiregitasyali9248 You are certainly off to a great start! :)
@keziarukmana19504 жыл бұрын
im an istj and my closest friends are all infj, we just click
@seventhsheaven4 жыл бұрын
My bro is an ISTJ. Only sane member of the family (although he has his quirks).
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Haha! Love that, he's the one that keeps the crazy ship afloat ~ Nathan
@oddment74 жыл бұрын
Literally the same in my family 😂
@dg-qn5mi4 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee😂
@soa24442 жыл бұрын
What's your MBTI?
@alicochrane80043 жыл бұрын
A love letter to istj- Istj, I appreciate you for your attention to detail, consideration of beautiful scenes such as nature and historical objects, your ability to learn from experiences and grow authentic wise ness over time, your ability to be someone’s rock without even having to approach people- something about u guys is genuine and predictable when opening up to and I love that, your playfulness in the sense that u can be the one in the group that people tease and take it lightly, your dad jokes which make u so uncool yet so real at the same time ahahah, ur ability to say calm in stressful situations just so that u can sort out what is going on clearly, ur skill at board games, your detailed and specific stories from the past that being such imagination and nostalgia to te people around you, and the appreciation you have for the compliments that people give to you. You rlly are such valuable people to have in someone’s life, you being such stability and realism to those around you, you rlly ground people without having to sell yourself to them. Your routines and logical mind make ur life something so unstressful for others to join because of the order- it doesn’t create anxiety for what to expect next and it’s so refreshing to see someone rlly seem to know what they are doing. You guys are listeners even if u have a huge map of the next forest walk you are going to have (step by step ) in your head because u never interrupt anyone. You are gems and so underrated as everyone is just so focused on themselves, but u still don’t take it to heart, I love you ISTJs- ur polar opposite ENFP :)
@alicochrane80043 жыл бұрын
Ps- I love your growth from your younger years, how you gain intuition through experience- rlly representing how human life is so beautiful and how people should learn from experience.
@FlamingCockatiel3 жыл бұрын
That is so sweet! I've had to learn to speak for myself, although I prefer that my work speak for me. Gratitude is gratifying to see. It certainly is a growing process, and I am glad to have an ENFJ in my life to help with social pointers.
@brittspencer4905 Жыл бұрын
I am madly in love w my ISTJ and I am an ENFP this was a perfect letter! He really calms my storm ⛈️ in my head lol. 😂of organization I wish I knew what I did that he loves. ❤ great letter perfectly pit
@mayudhadhi35304 ай бұрын
As an ISTJ u are making me emotional I feel appreciated thank u so much for your letter ❤
@sarahberkner Жыл бұрын
This is my dad to a T (and an I, S, and J), he cares about things being done right and is very focused on the details, is good at planning ahead, has a good memory, is blunt but usually polite and not very comfortable in social settings and in the past was prone to bad habits (he still eats unhealthy). He likes history and has a strong faith. He's very helpful to his family and church in practical ways and is retired but was a good worker.
@sarahberkner Жыл бұрын
Also he doesn't laugh a lot but he's good at telling jokes. And he wrote a fiction book that was good, it's Christian apologetic fiction.
@valentinamarcanosanabria4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been scrolling through the comment section and realized that we istjs are higly underrated and overlooked. I used to feel mad about being an istj because they said that we are rigid and partypoopers and just boring, now I’ve learned that we are actually pretty cool. I related to the “keeps the fridge full of food” part Bc its so true, I crave stability and mantaining the order of things
@optimanee91924 жыл бұрын
istj is the one human type that survives in the end. they won the evolution game. but staying alive long term is not that cool in our modern society so they seem a little bit of
@thrillingintent4 жыл бұрын
makes me wonder if modern society would last long while not being Si focused society, maybe through sheer adaptability, so when it seems to start stagnating, it's actually crumbling.. unless we're back to traditions again .. just a thought
@luisa1464 жыл бұрын
Like ecosystems, species are the most resilient when they're diverse. Ecosystems with little biodiversity tend to be the most fragile and species with little genetic variability are the most prone to extinction. I don't think the human species would benefit from every individual having the same cognitive type. That's why there are different personality types in the first place. Also we don't even know if personality is genetic so we can't really assume personality is tied to natural selection.
@andreagreenwood934 жыл бұрын
You could even argue that the fact they are so common is evidence they won the evolution game- the best genes for the environment get conserved. I'm INTJ and I believe if all humans were INTJs the human race would die.
@andreagreenwood934 жыл бұрын
@Luce M Without intuitives there wouldn't be much change or progress, but without SJs there wouldn't be anyone interested in maintaining what we've already learned and achieved.
@ThePitchblue4 жыл бұрын
@@andreagreenwood93 I'm also an intj and it's almost as though you've pulled the thoughts out of my mind, hence confirmed them thoroughly. when I think about this type (istj), I think sheer "survival". it's because I know I'm not good at it. which has drawn me to a conclusion that I need an istj in my life.
@dgcabalida4 жыл бұрын
I love this video. I'm an ISTJ and I can rarely see people vlog about ISTJ
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan
@bakutiddies98954 жыл бұрын
same!!
@endzsi6394 жыл бұрын
same
@cursedbeasts99912 жыл бұрын
this is probably the kindest interpretation of ISTJs I've seen so far that doesn't straight up shove them into the "boring" or "obsessed with gender roles" boxes haha. I really appreciate it!
@lovewho2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan
@fandomsinonechannel61194 жыл бұрын
Before I got into MBTI, I assumed that ISTJs were pretty boring like most people, but over time I sort of realized that they're nothing like that. I have two ISTJ teachers that are actually pretty interesting. One is my Social Studies teacher who was not as strict as most people might perceive ISTJs to be, he had a lot of insight about politics and current issues and was probably the main reason I became interested in Social Studies again, he strived to make other students not fail his class even though it's not their one of their interests. Another was my Physics teacher, who is a bit more strict and wants it done his way no matter what, but also shows his quirky nature from time to time by making jokes. He's not really patient but pushes us to work hard and doesn't sugarcoat things when they're difficult. Overall, ISTJs are the overlooked type that holds everybody together without the need for recognition, which is very respectable and something to be admired.
@maryann59814 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ, my ISTJ daughter has made me cry, often. Until...I started learning about the MB personality types. Now I understand how she views the world and can appreciate her grounded perspective. I give her fact and details and keep my abstract prattle to a minimum. Wish I had known this years ago.
@17x714 жыл бұрын
Lol. Sounds familiar...
@ninaninapumpkineaterz12674 жыл бұрын
My sister is an ISTJ and like you, there have been moments she's hurt me but she doesn't see how...I'm learning more about her type to try and connect with her better. She can be quite blunt at times and unreasonable with her viewpoint and I can walk away exhausted after a visit. However, she is loving in her own way and wants to be close to me....I just find her quirks a little hard to handle :-D
@alexandratzoko26343 жыл бұрын
When Istj's are very healthy in their Ne, I think they are truly the most remarkable. They can be so insightful once they begin to use it and tend to become the best mentors when they allow themselves to be open to possibilities. Their stability keeps them grounded as Si truly works wonders for them. While I personally share no cognitive functions with this type, I truly admire them and I think that it's the best thing for them to be the most common type of all. One of the many things they are underrated for is their care and empathy towards the people closest to them. These people are loyal and steady, the bad reputation they have for being 'boring' is something that I wish wasn't the case. I really love these people
@freegadflyathome4 жыл бұрын
My partner is ISTJ and I am INFP. I never thought I would be with someone like him. We really enhance each other's life though. He really takes care of me while also encouraging me to explore! All he asks of me is my affection. :-) Lol, you mentioned refrigerators; the first thing he did when he moved in was organize the fridge and pantry.
@abramfriesen94724 жыл бұрын
INFP here with a very important ISTJ in my life, keeping me grounded in reality and helping me meet the obligations I believe so strongly in. I would definitely be interested in seeing more ISTJ videos! :)
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ~ Nathan
@user-lv4ok9vo5o4 жыл бұрын
I’m my INFP husband’s “important” ISTJ!
@HalmyAfrialKhozaldy4 жыл бұрын
I have a good friend an infp but i never understand his feeling :(
@crazydiamond12734 жыл бұрын
@@HalmyAfrialKhozaldy my bf is infj and I every time he asks me "what/how do you feel?" I'm just so confused. And when he starts to confess me how he feels about me - I'm just like "um..well..that's..sweet, I guess?".
@ruthielalastor22093 жыл бұрын
Same here! I come up with the hijinks and my ISTJ reminds me of the logistics so they'll come to fruition.
@tomgang56124 жыл бұрын
My ISTJ mom is my image of stability in life. Thanks mom.
@scullcandy49484 жыл бұрын
Hi, random/weird question, I’m an istj and I’m always kinda scared that im emotionless, does your mom feel that way to you or not? This is such a weird question eye-
@filipasilva7273 жыл бұрын
I feel the same as an ENFP. My father is also an ISTJ. On the other end, I had a rough time being understood when growing up
@soa24442 жыл бұрын
What's your MBTI?
@jadint1793 Жыл бұрын
My bestie is an istj. she's one of the most goofy, talented, and artistic person I know.
@thirstwithoutborders9953 жыл бұрын
My husband is an ISTJ, and the thing about them is that they seek the best way of doing things. They may not innovate, but they test the rules and optimize processes and if an ISTJ finds them good and solid, they stick to it and you can be pretty certain, it really is the most efficient way. To me, as an INFJ, his logical and stable approach just gives peace and stability.
@jeanette24754 жыл бұрын
Love this!! I have an ISTJ mom and two ISTJ brothers and yeah how much they overemphasize their “plans” that they freak out about is spot on. But I will say, they are way more open minded than they get credit for. They argue very harshly so people mistake that for rigidity, but if you decide not to get offended and argue with them with logic, they actually will listen. ISTJs can even become revolutionary if you work on them long enough and appeal to their inferior Ne haha.
@MyChihuahua3 жыл бұрын
In a world constantly causing upheaval to tried and true ancient wisdom, holding down traditional values is a steady, revolutionary act.
@rayanalfadel59114 жыл бұрын
When I was first getting into MBTI way before I knew orders of functions I was typed as ISTJ. Upon further analysis and rigorous re-assessments It became clear that I was INTJ, just with a very developed sensory approach. I’ll always consider ISTJ as the workhorses that actually rule the foundations of the world’s development. They’re the engineers to the architects. And for that reason I’ll always respect ISTJs. It’s a shame I don’t see many that often.
@satyamprakash70304 жыл бұрын
I am an INTJ, but I was never able to relate to an ISTJ. Seems like a difference between devloped and u devloped INTJ is farther than what I thought.
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Very well said ~ Nathan
@satyamprakash70304 жыл бұрын
@@lovewho I appreciate your effert - RANDOM KZbin USER
@idksorry55764 жыл бұрын
The same exact thing happend to me hahaha
@seyhuncelik95843 жыл бұрын
How did you find you are not an ISTJ?
@michaelm13264 жыл бұрын
"I've seen this storm before, we'll be ok"
@Juju-tw7we4 жыл бұрын
Green screen? 'cause that's one hella nice background / place My dad's ISTJ. Quite pleased to see this!
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Actually its a building in my local area where different businesses work from ~ Nathan
@Raring934 жыл бұрын
I have an ISTJ internet acquaintance. We never became particularly close, because the only thing we have in common is a love of fitness and exercise, and even in that regard we have quite different opinions. She is quite stubborn, and has sometimes agreed that I'm right when discussing something, but still holds on to her beliefs, which I don't get at all. I got the impression she is quite a consistent worker at her job, and she keeps to herself and refuses to engage in other people's drama. I don't know if I can ever connect with an ISTJ, but I think I like them. Maybe even admire to some extent.
@crazydiamond12734 жыл бұрын
Is she an ISTJ though? Cause "beliefs" aren't really reliable source of opinion. Facts are way more important for us.
@TheMrAlgoh4 жыл бұрын
My dad's an istj, he likes collecting various antiques as his hobby, our house is quite filled with this. One time our family told him he needs to give some away to make more room space, he gets in a fit of rage and is stubbornly impossible to reason with. Nobody in the household talks about minimalism in front of him.. Well you know... He says this things hold strong sentimental value and brings nostalgic comfort to him and that we can get rid of it once he's gone. Besides work he enjoys cleaning his antiques, and when guests visit, a smile is written over his face, because he gets to talk about the history of his antiques collection and has a precise memory of when he got it, the dates. Are most istj dad boomers like that?
@sergejbertram37554 жыл бұрын
I (INFJ) had a very hard time to convince my mother (ISTJ) to get rid of some very old and worn out furniture and stuff of all kinds. It took awhile but she finally understood that less stuff can be beneficial. But she kept all the supposedly antique objects and is very proud of owning them for some reason.
@isaacfazekas96724 жыл бұрын
Yo is loving antiques an ISTJ thing? My best friend is one and she’s that way, I thought it was just her XD
@carlurbananimals4 жыл бұрын
@@isaacfazekas9672 yes istj love antiques, because as cs joseph says our mind has the largest collection of reference points, we collect this information without even really knowing that we do it, it helps us to be motivated since our weakest function is Ni
@andeannafarnes47194 жыл бұрын
My istj hubs hates antiques and old looking styles. He prefers ultramodern clean cold Euro lines of decor. He has a Libra sun so the clean calm esthetics May come from that.
@melodica54074 жыл бұрын
@@thekiwisqu33z34 Funnily, a few months ago i found my age old ipod that i used to listen to 8-10 years ago and i noticed that the playlist isn't really much different than the one in my smartphone right now and i'm just 27 🤣
@Ashley-xd9ik4 жыл бұрын
i have a crush on a guy at work, and I'm almost certain he's an ISTJ. Of course I can be certain without forcing him to take a test, but he has many of these qualities. I admire his work ethic, his dedication, his reliability. He is a little rigid at times when he's working or studying, but he's also got a great sense of humor and he's down-to-earth. He's also playful and likes to help people.
@sammyj11834 жыл бұрын
Great video! I feel like ISTJs are also great at legal advice. They’re the ones I run to when I realize I’ve made a mistake at work 😬. They know the right questions to ask and will put a new process in place right on the spot to ensure it never happens again 😅.
@traditionalgirl39434 жыл бұрын
Sammy J, so true. They’re the ‘go to’ guys for common sense and practical solutions - and they’re humble too! 🙂
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Yes they're like encyclopedias of useful knowledge ~ Nathan
@khusnulkhatimah6223 жыл бұрын
As an ISTJ this is sooo true bcs ma INFJ friend always come to me if she need advices 😅
@suuuuuuuuuu20084 жыл бұрын
My mum is an ISTJ, and I am an ESFP. Without my mum, my life would have been so much more chaotic growing up! She is the reason why I value hard work and studying and always being on time despite me being an ESFP and naturally very fun-loving. My mum loves to work and learn something new. She always gives 100%. ISTJs are such a great personality (and I am saying this, altho me and my mum often clash... like... A LOT).
@6698814 жыл бұрын
ISTJ here. Thank you for creating this video. The Te function is definitely my biggest asset to walk through life. But it certainly can be boring and rigid. It has to go through the steps of “If A then B then C then D then E”, just to promote maximum clarity and precision in communicating. Intuitive types can find this overwhelming, but surprisingly the mature ones tend to enjoy it. The Si is like a giant archive with infinite shelves and categories. Overtime, due to the Fi, some experiences that seem to be less and less important, are being put into the “recycle bin”. I’ve had my fair share of being told indirectly as boring or too serious but also humorous and reliable. Not really want to care much about it though as long as I keep living with my values. Thanks again
@EpicPaul644 жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing us ISTJs some appreciation! I do hope that, as you continue pondering our type, you'll come to the realization that we don't necessarily defend traditions for their own sake, but rather, if we personally have enjoyed the tradition. Introverted Sensing is also about personal comfort, so our own self-imposed routines will be the primary focus of our preservation, unlike the ESTJs, who sorta just defend tradition. Still, very informative. I try not to over-subscribe to too many KZbinrs, but if more folks start talking about my type, I'd like to promote that idea more, so consider me intrigued.
@loverofbeautifulthings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Nathan! Something tells me we aren't actually the most common type (our FB group is one of the smallest). I would love to meet other ISTJs and have yet to do so (everyone around me is an INFP, lol, I seem to be a magnet for them!). As someone who is Si dominant I would love to see a video about how sensuous our lives can be...I live for beauty, gorgeous fragrances, delicious food, soft fabrics, clean sheets, etc. I get so wrapped up in all the sights and smells of the world that I sometimes forget where I am. It's a fabulous way to experience the world and I wish everyone could. :-)
@EpicPaul644 жыл бұрын
I'm an ISTJ, too, so you're not totally alone; you're just mostly-alone, because it seems like our type likes to keep to themselves on KZbin... : /
@s.b.71214 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm ISTJ, and I noticed too that, even though we are supposed to be one of the most common types, when it comes to types you see commenting or interacting on KZbin, we are among the rarest (while there are loads of INFJs and INFPs). I think that many people who quickly label ISTJs as "rigid", "uninteresting", "boring", "traditional" fail to see that we can also be fun - in our own way - but to find that out you also have be willing to get to know us. One of my law professors (also ISTJ) has a dry sense of humour that I appreciate a lot, and he's one of the kindest professors I've ever had. I also agree on the fact that many people usually don't think about our sensuous approach to things: as a hobby, I love sewing and nothing gives me more satisfaction than being able to find a gorgeous fabric to turn into a well-fitting garment. Or when I'm out taking pictures and suddenly the light seems just perfect. I live for those moments and I can get so lost in them that someone else has to "bring me back to reality".
@loverofbeautifulthings4 жыл бұрын
@@s.b.7121 Thank you for sharing~~I know exactly what you mean by the feeling you get when in the perfect photography light or working with a sumptuous fabric. One of my favorite places for sensory stimulation is a state fair~~all the colors and lights and smells and happiness~~I get so filled with serotonin and endorphins, lol.
@crazydiamond12734 жыл бұрын
Yay, fellows ISTJs.
@DreamQuillRose4 жыл бұрын
@@loverofbeautifulthings I wonder if you can understand that an INTP could get overloaded at a Fair, or a concert. I always used to get a migraine after a family outing, even thought I love music and love having fun, because of sensory overload. It's almost like a handicap. The worst part is how my family never understood - none of them ever got headaches, let alone migraines so bad the pain makes you throw up - so if you don't mind a bit of advice, please be gentle with those of us whose brains are not wired to withstand strong amounts of sensory stimulation like perfumes, flashing lights, loud music or at least, heavy base, or even rough-textured clothing. I am always astonished how people can actually choose non-smooth, non-cotton cloth for fashion and when I ask how they can stand how it feels against their skin they say they don't even notice. It would spend the whole day distracted by my own clothing. There are things I do envy about other types. It took my ISTJ mother almost 15 years to remember that if she wants to buy me clothes, they must be SOFT. And that soft to her is not soft enough to me.
@kristenscott30044 жыл бұрын
I’m an ISTJ! very helpful and insightful! We get a bad rep for being boring but I’m thankful you broke down the nuances of our functions to bring them into a positive light. All types are important. And I appreciate those who explain each type (not just their favorites) to help bring understanding, respect and unity to all types. Thanks! It’s actually very hard to find quality ISTJ videos because we’re the “most common”. So you tubers just think, why is it necessary? A bunch of people running around like robots running the boring tasks of the world. The order their pens, eat the same breakfast, and have a strict schedule. Not much to them. Haha. But there is a method to our.... order (madness for other types I’m sure lol). Videos that help explain and encourage acceptance of ISTJ’s are helpful. Everyone thinks the N types are mysterious and complex (which is true of course!) but S types also have a range of depth and intricacy that goes unnoticed. I think what would also be helpful are food for thought videos that challenge our weaker cognitive functions. Maybe explain our negative feedback loops (I think also referred to as Catastrophe mode? Haha). Anyway. Helpful insights! Thanks for thinking of us!
@actionchaplain14 жыл бұрын
An ISTJ here. Thanks for the video, Nathan. A few thoughts: 1. Commenter Bubs333221 mentioned she has an ISTJ boyfriend who thinks in terms of pictures. I do this a lot myself, and was admittedly not entirely aware of it until she mentioned it. It makes sense, though, as seemingly a lot of ISTJs like myself love to watch videos, television, and what not. As one might guess, video/television watching is a form of self-soothing, though I've made efforts to make it more educational as well with videos such as these. 2. Bubs333221 also mentioned ISTJs talking to themselves. I discovered years ago that doing this can help me think more clearly and intelligently. So sometimes I do this when others aren't around to get my mind to start reasoning better, or I may work through a problem verbally in front of others in real time if I'm in a conversation with them. 3. Commenter Margo S mentioned the ISTJ love of tools and their accumulation of them. I had a fellow ISTJ as a friend for years, and she has tons practical items for the areas she is interested in, particularly cooking. While I am far more minimalist in terms of owning physical items, I tend to accumulate information in terms of books, courses, and the like though the vast majority of this information is digital. So yes, I do have the ISTJ collection trait, but mine just happens to be a lot less visible unless it is being accessed. 4. Commenter Maureen Brown mentioned that ISTJs don't prioritize aesthetics, but value them if they're there. That has certainly been my experience. 5. Speaking of typing MBTI through using online tests: I'm not sure if this the best way to type someone as they may not go into enough depth. When I first got into the subject, I used a book to type myself and had to go through a lot soul searching and self analysis over a few days before I was able to come up with my type. Later information gathered from other sources helped to confirm my initial type assessment. 6. Finally, more ISTJ videos, please. MBTI KZbin videos and the accompanying comment sections of them have been very enlightening, and I would like to hear more about my own type.
@ruthielalastor22093 жыл бұрын
Your comment format is wonderful. I appreciate this.
@nataliedowning4574 жыл бұрын
ISTJ here! Thank you so much for making this video! Your points were incredibly accurate. We ISTJs love stability and often value it over everything else, even our own desires. For example, I absolutely love creative writing. I spend upwards of twenty hours a week writing and treat it like a part time job. (Even with something creative I've managed to turn it into a routine) But as careers in writing can be so unpredictable, the idea of pursuing writing as a permanent career terrifies me. Instead of becoming a writer, I would much rather pursue a stable career that I'm good at (like financing, surprise surprise) even if I’m not passionate about it. Anyways, it's amazing to see so many fellow ISTJs in the comments. Thanks for sharing your stories and opinions! And thanks to everyone else for saying such kind things about us, despite the perception of ISTJs being boring and stuffy.
@bminerconklin63874 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. Thought it was high time I left a comment. I am an INTJ married to an ISTJ for 23 years and found this a very accurate representation.
@hant6794 жыл бұрын
My husband is an ISTJ. Thank you for this video - I really enjoy hearing about his type. I'm an INFP, I don't always understand him, lol.
@misscoffee64423 жыл бұрын
I am an INFP and I think ISTJ are so interesting, I wonder why it is not seen as our ideal type, although I think this thing of ideal type is bullshit
@tofusamurai224 жыл бұрын
It's a sign of typology maturity when you can clearly illustrate the potential of each type (and even cognitive function) to possess excellence, while also tactfully articulating ways in which a type (or cognitive function) could improve on likely vulnerabilities. Thanks as always, Nathan! :P
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Really glad you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan
@klaramolitva4 жыл бұрын
Very nice and accurate description of the ISTJ. They're super necessary for our society to be able to run smoothly and effectively, as you explained. But they are also extremely common and not so 'weird' as some of the other types and that's why I think they are sometimes not so interesting to delve into. They seem so 'normal' ;-)
@klaramolitva4 жыл бұрын
I don't mean that in a derogatory way. I love ISTJ's. I find their stability, practicality and loyalty very soothing and pleasant.
@nailachoudhury37954 жыл бұрын
My mum is ISTJ and what you said about pessimistic Ne makes a LOT of sense. When i knew little about mbti i thought she was INTJ because whenever anyone suggested an idea she would immediately consider every possible way it could go horribly wrong. She is extremely over protective and cautious about everything because of this. I thought this was Ni "seeing the future" until I realised she is ISTJ. Tertiary Fi has a big effect on her personality too, she's the type to get along with everyone because of how good natured she is except when she feels something is unjust, in these cases she can be very blunt and uncaring about the emotional impact of her words because her values have been hurt. I think with INFP (me) the Si and Fi create very individualistic values based on personal prior experiences which shape our behaviour, this makes us seem sensitive by getting upset about things that others don't understand. Whereas with ISTJ the Si and Fi cause them to care deeply about values formed by their external environment (maybe society/family/values they grew up with or traditional ones) which makes them seem rigid or inflexible because they get upset when a '"rule" or tradition that they follow and expect others to follow, has been broken. Idk if this is a common thing but the ISTJs I've met have all had a really strong sense of humour
@rx500android4 жыл бұрын
I'm writing an ISTJ character, and more content will certainly help me write this character better, I would love to see more vidoes about this type
@hannahverner221010 ай бұрын
As an ISTJ, I can say that this video is much needed. Please make more.
@SethNoorzad4 жыл бұрын
I'm reading the bible and this video made me think of Moses in the desert as a possible archetypal ISTJ figure -- introverted, sober, a giver of the law, keeping the newly freed Israelites from wavering from their covenant with Yahweh.
@hannahmathilda71014 жыл бұрын
Interesting point. I can see this, especially the speech impediment or nervousness he had. What other ISTJ Biblical characters do you see as?
@POMOnkey14 жыл бұрын
@SethNoorzad nice that you used his name
@sad_doggo25044 жыл бұрын
interesting, I'd actually love to see a Bible breakdown for MBTI
@sad_doggo25044 жыл бұрын
J H Well Jesus was certainly a maverick who refused under pretty much every circumstance to compromise his ideals... very abstract in relating to the world around him... compassionate and giving yet not sparing the feelings of others... hmm... ENFP?
@ameliadeshane91923 жыл бұрын
Definitely want to hear more about biblical character types.
@iamsoohappy4 жыл бұрын
Spot on! My partner is an ISTJ, and this made me understand and appreciate him so much more. Yes please...more ISTJ videos.🙏💜✨
@samuelunias6734 жыл бұрын
I'm an ISTJ and I really like the unique way you went through this topic. And about your last suggestion: good move.
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'll be doing more ISTJ videos over time ~ Nathan
@fakvachayna45 Жыл бұрын
I finally can confirm I am ISTJ. SI: I always think of the past, If I see something, I would feel like.. "Hey, this is how I felt when..." When I encounter something new at school back then, I was like, "dang, why do I always struggle with new concepts when some of my peers get them right away" but AFTER I learned it, it's mine. Always felt like, why is it hard for me when I haven't experienced something yet. Though some people might feel the same way, some people love new things. I don't, to some extent. I always reflect on things and always wonder if I could travel back in time. TE: I have this desire to control my environment, the money I have to spend, the grocery that should last for n amount of time, the people around me etc. Though I don't use lists and label things, they're in my head already. I like writing things down though. FI: I'm personal, if something says something against what I believe in, I take offense, really, like I want to beat them up. It's my TE wanting to put them in place since my FI is hurt. NE: If an NE dominant can think of a hundred different ways to do things, I can list a hundred ways they can fail. Jeez, now I know myself! Sorry, for the long post. Now, I can work on myself to be a better version of myself.
@cecitrigos58104 жыл бұрын
Yes! More videos on ISTJ, pls. :) I´m an INFP and I think my crush is ISTJ. Would love to know more about this type. Love your videos. Thank you!
@peasoup92993 жыл бұрын
Meyers-Briggs types me as an INTJ with a low percentage on N, but I’m pretty sure I’m an ISTJ. I appreciate your insights into all the types. You’re very concise and clear with your points without feeding into the stereotypes. Thanks for your videos!
@Rachelle_Creates4 жыл бұрын
This is my husband, I’m an ENFP and he is so wonderful! You explained him so well, he’s so grounded yet he loves to go on adventures with me, (as long as he can make a list and plan 😂)
@radosawszmid78223 жыл бұрын
I'm ISTJ and my wife is an ENFP - I love her so much. She's cheerfull, not so organized and almost always thinks positive which is what I lack the most as I'm often pesimistic and overly analytical. There is one thing you can be sure of - once he said marry me, it means he will not leave you until death:)
@freespiritedcat2 жыл бұрын
I like how I, an ISTJ, nodded all throughout this video as all the points you presented, Nathan, really resonated with who I am and life experiences. If I may add, because of extraverted intuition, people perceive us as "boring" but they sooner come to realize how reliable we are due to our stability and reliability to keep the systems up and running. Please make more ISTJ videos. More power to you and your channel :)
@john.10347 Жыл бұрын
I'm a INTJ. However, I've come to realize the value of the idea of ISTJ, I often see myself becoming more align to ISTJ in a sense
@theycallmedolly Жыл бұрын
Great job explaining my personality 😊
@feuerrm4 жыл бұрын
ISTJ here! It always surprised me that given the abundance of this type in the general population, how few videos there are about it. I found this one to be quite accurate to myself, and I'd love to see more videos about it!
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s strange how few ISTJs we see around! Thank you for your comment and cool channel btw ~ Nathan
@MyChihuahua3 жыл бұрын
I think most may mistype themselves cuz they just wish they were! 😀
@putritiara90833 жыл бұрын
I’am an infp my boyfriend is istj it’s kinda hard sometime to understand the way he think, but i admire him
@AngieRival4 жыл бұрын
Good evening from Australia - I liked and subscribed a couple of days ago. You have a lovely nature and sense of humour I appreciate!
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ~ Nathan
@tfranc3474 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness for istj's keeping things running smoothly and taking care of the details. Lord knows I can't lol
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Amen ~ Nathan
@16SixteenSaltines3 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video explaining the difference between an ISTJ and an INTJ? I very much appreciate your content as always.
@senantiasa4 жыл бұрын
All of the SJs are the bulk of humanity. Humanity has probably survived multiple times because of you all... Maybe a bit boring, but we can't live without you.. Thank you!!
@celtic4264 жыл бұрын
Great videos, been watching your videos for a few months and still not sure what type you are - that's a credit to you for keeping it non-biased
@traditionalgirl39434 жыл бұрын
ISTP
@actionchaplain14 жыл бұрын
@@traditionalgirl3943 Sorry Maureen, but his wife said in one of their earlier videos that Nathan is an INTP.
@traditionalgirl39434 жыл бұрын
actionchaplain1, I must have mistyped on my keyboard. With two ISTP kids I NEVER would have knowingly guessed Nathan as ISTP. My bad. But thanks for the correction. 😁
@sad_doggo25044 жыл бұрын
I know someone who is ISTJ and I'm trying to get to know them better. It's really difficult because I think for me there is an expectation of a lot of transparency and spontaneity in relationships. This is really helping me learn. Definitely would appreciate more!
@bradleyboyer99792 жыл бұрын
My brother is an ISTJ, and I am an INTJ. We have a good relationship, but it's amazing how hard it is for us to relate on certain levels. He likes to talk about practical, real-world, physical things such as home improvement. I like to talk about ideas and concepts. Despite being very similar in certain aspects, we are almost like two different species when we communicate. I still love him, though!
@tanyavgee4 жыл бұрын
ISTJ here - You explained so clearly - Im career developing - so this is GREAT !
@kyerinn4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m an INFJ and very interested in having my family members take the MBTI. I could not figure out my very emotionally private brother, though I suspected an Introvert Sensor. Turns out he’s an ISTJ and now I am more interested to learn about this type. I have a couple of ISTJs in the family and they are traditional types. They’re also very reliable and upstanding people. I have a lot of respect for them. So please, more content! (I’d also like to request some ESTJ love.)
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! I'll certainly make sure to keep adding ISTJ videos ~ Nathan
@carlurbananimals4 жыл бұрын
Best istj video i have seen!
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ~ Nathan
@Famdogg4 жыл бұрын
I've wanted to see more in-depth videos about ISTJs but the more chaotic types seem to be more interesting to people so there just seems to be less material on ISTJs.
@NFPura3 жыл бұрын
This is by far the best video on ISTJs I have seen. Such an underappreciated and underutilized type! Huge potential for comedy too, despite their reputation as being boring and predictable (though actually, that might be the reason why…). It always fascinates me why the type that is supposed to be the most common MBTI personality, is ironically the least represented on KZbin. It’s almost like they’re allergic to themselves, IMHO. Probably my favorite personality though. Sooo easy to mess with. (J/k)! It’s all pseudoscience anyway, haha. (>*.*)> You’ve just won a subscriber!
@cobbleman28144 жыл бұрын
That information was pure gold, thanks for it.
@Hi_dr8084 жыл бұрын
Just took the test today and I'm a ISTJ. Perfectly describes me haha, really amazing how accurate
@louise74013 жыл бұрын
I’m an ISTJ and can relate to most of what you say. However, I think we can be quite innovative especially in terms of changing or developing practical things that aren’t working. We see flaws in systems very clearly and if that’s the case, we will spend time researching and developing something better.
@Sagacypher3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. We really need to dismantle this weird idea that SJs are just doormats that stick to the same methods or whatever. I literally saw someone in this comments section say that ISTJs don’t change, develop or grow. Like what?? They’re saying this about human beings over some online personality typing system, it feels like they’re limiting their knowledge on how psychology actually works. It’s so….stupid lmao. It’s like they see tropes and caricatures, and not the complex individuals that each human naturally is.
@meganjohnson66013 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏 Excellent video. Both of my parents are ISTJ and this was an excellent description of them! Very accurate.
@lauralowe31654 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ married for 19 years to an ISTJ. Would love to see your comments on the relationship between these two types. We are pretty typical of our types, although I can tend a bit toward INTJ.
@rosieposie95647 ай бұрын
you are probably infp.
@TheRealHerbaSchmurba4 жыл бұрын
0:11 if only, however ISTJs are too busy fulfilling their duties to watch youtube.
@hanshuman13824 жыл бұрын
Spot on. I always ask what, why, who, when.
@sandstone_block59803 жыл бұрын
The istj stereotype is so annoying! Im an enfp and one of my close friends is an istj and we both balance each other out so well. They’re hilarious, super smart and emotionally deep as well as creative. Thx for this vid :)
@Champ02224 жыл бұрын
I think this is my personality type from the test I took and after relating to so much of what you said. My only thing is that my personal experiences and the things I’ve learned have led me to believe that a lot traditions in general just aren’t efficient and aren’t something I care to focus on preserving
@nathanmillet9624 күн бұрын
I love learning the inner workings of myself. Keep them coming!
@P54-l8r3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! IMO One of the characterizations of ISTJs …. especially regarding the stereotype of being a traditionalist. Considering how Fi is informed by Si resonates. The frame of maintainer works well and is doomed to be undervalued. Good stuff!
@lovewho3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! It's nice when types that aren't covered that much enjoy the videos, I should make more content on ISTJs! ~ Nathan
@UmatsuObossa4 жыл бұрын
I'm not an ISTJ, but I have an ISTJ character, and though I know everything about him already since I made him, I still love hearing aspects of his personality articulated.
@sofiaraquel45784 жыл бұрын
I feel like I just learned more about myself as an ISTJ, thank you for this! (:
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it! If you haven’t already then feel free to join our discord server. It would be great to get some more ISTJs on there! The link for the Discord server is in the description of most of the videos, feel free to message me on there if it’s confusing at all ~Nathan
@sofiaraquel45784 жыл бұрын
Love Who Oh thanks for letting me know. Just joined!
@patrycjakowalska22864 жыл бұрын
Love all your videos Nathan, I give you thumbs up before watching, because I know you'll always deliver. I'm in awe of your brain, you use words so accurately, it's spot on and effortless. I'm an infp in relationship with istp for 20 years. I would appreciate a video on istp, thank you 🙂
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! So we have a couple of ISTP videos so far but I’ll be sure to add more! ~ Nathan
@scullcandy49484 жыл бұрын
This comment section passed the vibe check... y’all are so nice wow
@christopherdiaz8514 жыл бұрын
As an ISTJ, I know for a fact that my views are far from popular a lot of the time. It's not exactly that ISTJs in my experience are skeptics by default. But we remember pretty much everything that has happened to us. We remember things that if they didn't happen to us, they happen to friends, and family. Using literally what we would see as raw data, and data that is not only visible to us but consistently repeated with overall consistency in terms of method, reasoning, physical approach, all of that forms much of our basis of worldly understanding and processing. Now, I have a friend who I had a blow up with last night and he accused me of having "general statements" about my view of things. The thing is, I know he has not experienced what I have or seen what I have seen. The thing is, I can state what I have long held to be a truth, but even when you give evidence that is genuine raw experience and not a "generalized statement," what agonizes a lot of people like me, many won't accept the truth even if given ample proof for it. But a weakness for someone like me and I think a lot of ISTJs, is that we have a hard time communicating what we see because I'll just say it, we have a hard time watering down a lot of things for those who may not always our view. It's not for lack of trying, it's just hard thing to do, especially when through experience, you know how a person will respond with a more than substantial degree of certainty. We are not without our faults, I must emphasize this. The downfall of the ISTJ is that we are very much what I would call emotionally incompetent. For people such as us, the why and wherefores of you doing something is very important, having its place more than you realize. But how you go about the action, that is what is even more important. But this goes into what I would literally call the dark side of this personality type, we have largely no issue at all micro-managing the hell out of something if it means that is sustained and the product is what is desired by either us or our overseers. I fully admit, we would regulate something as mundane everyday bowel movements if we could, all for the sake of efficiency. We have our good sides but that is very much as was said, emphasized in MAINTAINING our friends and families so they can be active and productive but also being happy themselves. A lot of what we do is fueled by genuine concern of someone or something and having it work at the best form possible for ALL effected parties. In closing, are we assholes? Sure but mileage may vary. Are we stubborn? Yes. Are we lacking in compassion? Depends very much on the situation, but largely, despite belief, no. Do we care? You better believe it, otherwise we wouldn't dream of wasting our time on something or someone if we saw either as being a moot endeavor. In the end, we want things to work as they should. We desire and crave structure and order and largely justice. All of this stems from a desired respect and equality for everyone and for, ideally, reciprocation of these same respects from everyone. But for an ISTJ, make no mistake, it is no problem at all to strip away what are perceived as "freedoms" for the sake of genuine equality, justice, structure, and maintained functionality.
@MyChihuahua3 жыл бұрын
Bravo! (until that last sentence).
@christopherdiaz8513 жыл бұрын
@@MyChihuahua Hey thanks, I'll take the bravo. Goes to show ya, ISTJ can be accurate 90 percent most of the time, but hardly 100 all the time.
@duonghan47823 жыл бұрын
I gotta comment about this, I'm ISTJ and really agree about 2:43 part : overly controlling and rigid but to prevent something they see overly chaotic that discount the wisdom of experience that has been built up slowly. They have far less tolerance with people who come in with their mind short-sighted plans to shake things up, they have a particular "disdain" for those personality types. I can confirm this is 100% right. I experience this while working on a project with an E-T- partner, someone who approaches a problem with quick testing for fast time and i insist on take care every side of the problem, but altogether, that approach of him works, basically. So I have to change my view (yes, i journal about this, and this became "past-oriented" experience for a Si like me to learn upon), and change the way i got plan and work.
@mushroomfog25093 жыл бұрын
I am in complete love with the intro chord It's perfect
@notforapanpam56024 жыл бұрын
This video confirms that my dad is an INTJ and not an ISTJ. The man has no concept of personal maintenance, or the fridge.
@benyouri4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving credits to ISTJ's
@lovewho4 жыл бұрын
Anytime! ~ Nathan
@katherinesmith18494 жыл бұрын
I hijacked someone else's account to like this a second time, with the hopes of getting more ISTJ videos.
@jessicanicholls71568 ай бұрын
I love istj's appreciation for something they deem "top shelf" wether its a product, moment, food, or funny situation. Their reactions to those things are fascinating.
@avedic4 жыл бұрын
INTP here....watching this to try to understand my ISTJ mother. This helps to appreciate where she's coming from....and the value in that. I LOATHE "tradition" and authority and conservative segmented labelling of reality. For me, freedom to think and create as I see fit is paramount. But what I love about all these MB types....is it shows you how crucial we all are. We balance each other. I'll end this comment here, because, as an INTP....I could _easily_ continue on for another 10 paragraphs. I've done it before. Hell, it's my default.
@laumay73644 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of that character in the cartoons who is sleepwalking into various dangerous situations and the ISTJ is desperately trying to keep him alive. The next day the character is refreshed but the ISTJ is exhausted. 😩
@boryman29994 жыл бұрын
I believe my High School Valedictorian is an ISTj. He is also an accomplished graphic designer and video editor. The true brilliance of an ISTJ is the exceptional ability to discern.
@BatemanPsycho3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I got this on a test, wanted to learn more and your video accomplished that
@laurabenitez19364 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping me in check, ISTJs. Kind regards, an INTJ.
@MissRainaRose4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you touched upon how much tertiary Fi affects the ISTJ internally. People don’t often see it from the outside (and that’s understandable), but it’s really very much a part of who we are.
@FlamingCockatiel3 жыл бұрын
I am a little confused on that yet. Could you clarify?
@MissRainaRose3 жыл бұрын
@@FlamingCockatiel Sure. My usage of Fi can be very unwavering and is definitely shaped by principles that I chose to be of importance since early years (Si dom + Fi tertiary). Once I have decided that something has to be a certain way (especially morally), it is really difficult to change my mind about it. I would even think an Fi dom that always knows how they value things in detail (ISFP/INFP) wouldn’t seem as stubborn as an ISTJ because of the dom Si+tertiary Fi combo. I would imagine a similar comparison to INTJ’s usage of tertiary Fi as well, and that would partially explain why they’re so end goal focused and unwavering as well.