International Bride or Scam - Part 3 : The Verdict

In this gripping finale, we explore what went wrong?
Our guest line up comprises an expert on international marriage alongside a more adventurous character; giving his views and difficulties on finding a bride domestically.
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[@akeyla]

The guy on the left seems to be getting a lot of flack in these comments, he may not have articulated himself as well but some valid points were made to the discussion. From observation I recognised a few traits linked with ADHD which could explain his overall demeanor. Apologies if this is not the case but thought I'd mention it in case it helps.

[@rsm5627]

The giy married to the Syrian/ Palestinian woman seems like a wise man. Would have been good to hear more from him. May Allah continue to bless his marriage. Ameen

[@Coco-ki6zh]

He’s wise so he spoke less

[@NBegum-ug7vp]

I didn't understand a word the second guy was saying. Bless him 😊

[@NBegum-ug7vp]

Definitely first guy spoke very well. He spoke about deen islam and the values etiquette etc

[@shahee6579]

Why do bengalis from london so often speak like that 🤢.Alhamdullilah I'm not from London ​@@NBegum-ug7vp

[@Sara-py9wb]

U should deffo should invite the first guy back !

[@H_G2013]

This is quickly becoming one of my favourite podcasts. Also, in future, add timestamps

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

We appreciate it ❤️🙏

[@hussainsharmin661]

The guy on the left side what is he even saying 😂😂 i didnt understand one single thing said 😂😂😂

[@ua1514]

😂

[@ShakeOneOfficial]

😂😂😂 that's why the host cut him off timestamp 41:27

[@shahee6579]

"Yeah, basically innit it woz sad, red flags and that"

[@hussainsharmin661]

@@shahee6579 yeah

[@asfakouser8031]

Bless him lol

[@ImranAli-hy9pm]

Iqbal said “can cook a good curry” 🤣 he seems very confident and seems like he isn’t on this podcast to impress women like that. Also he is looking swole 💪

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Why is everyone demeaning the brother on the left hand side. He's probably just nervous, anxious, high on snorting stuff and frustrated after hearing the boring pontification of the patronising ponce next to him. Also, should've told him the dress code so he wouldn't feel underdressed.

[@bash9941]

Iqbal said talking stage after talking stage 😂 but his got a point as this is the current climate of the dating/marriage scene. He looks like he has put on a lot of decent muscle from the last podcast I see him on 💪

[@zaydannurmahomed7902]

Iqbal is a A1 pak and is talking real talk! You don’t think single/married south Asian men don’t go to Morrocco to indulge with women? The older brother is wise but is generic and every middle aged man with kids would say no different! We need Iqbal back on as much as possible

[@AribunMiah]

Broke my heart hearing how the guest tfrom part one and two felt so hurt by the nasty commentsHe clearly he is an intellectual person who will inshaAllah find the right person, I have made sincere dua for him.

[@shamsul1602]

Thank you - appreciate it

[@periskibwece413]

Ameen 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@axis2312]

Anyone belittling the brother (who HAS HIMSELF REALISED HIS MISTAKE) is apparently a saint themselves. Masha'Allah. As if none of you saints has ever been driven by his nafs and emotion. Pathetic. We are an ummah, you're supposed to give the person advice in the best way and want the best for him, that's the sign of eman. But ofcourse, if you feel you're sinless and perfect, then go ahead and call him every disgusting word under the sun, it will be the best gift to him on that Day. He should send you gifts for all the deeds he's acquired from you. He went through so many deaths, so it's natural that at his weakest he sought someone who made him feel good for a while, he was shortsighted but the pain of loss and death can leave you blind. May Allah guide us all and protect us. The lesson from all of this is: hardly anyone changes after marriage. If she's not religious now, if she doesn't pray now, if she's allowing male friends into her life, if she comes from a muslim culture but still refuses to wear hijab then she will not change, no matter how much she loves you or how kindly you advise her. You can yell and break the walls til the cows come home, love does nothing to change that, infact it blinds you even more until you start to become resentful. Beauty fades, character is forever. Princess behaviour is fun at first, then it's grating. Marry someone deen centred, family oriented, considerate, mature, grounded, humble and attractive to you. Don't be so star stricken that you lose your dignity and sanity. There are plenty of women out there, you don't need to bend your morals or damage your mental health over one. May Allah guide us all

[@shahee6579]

We don't air it out for everyone to hear. We disclose any haram and wrongdoings and seek forgiveness. No go on a podcast and talk about your 6 year relationship with a pakistani girl

[@axis2312]

@@shahee6579 he wasn't having a chit chat, he was educating others to learn from his mistake as it is widespread today. which pakistani girl?

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

Looking for publishers?

[@user-fq9fg3hh2o]

He hasn't learned his got simp mentality

[@HeretoSee8]

I’ve watched all 3 videos now and brother Iqbal is exactly what’s wrong with some of the “men”. Sham saw a pretty girl abroad and ended up in a bad situation; she was from a middle class background there and him working class so the scale was already unbalanced. His USP was the passport and hers, the looks. The second brother in this video was able to articulate himself and get his point to cross well, showed humility and wisdom. Iqbal wasn’t able to articulate himself at all and seemed to be there for banter. He said a whole bunch of words that meant nothing. Why was he invited? The reason why someone like Iqbal would go abroad is because most well rounded Muslim sisters wouldn’t want a man-child like that. He’s a decent looking brother but lacks what the majority of women want. A woman will happily submit to a man that she trusts, regardless of how pretty or independent. Women want to better themselves and their surroundings. The problem is, Iqbal types who cannot string a sentence together, give the impression they won’t add value or enrich your life, the way you would theirs and would you then trust then to lead you? The scale is unbalanced and women are choosing to stay single for this reason. Beyond providing kids, Iqbal types do little else. Men are failing are masculinity so women are in turn, hide away femininity. Dear brothers who seek good wives, learn the importance of deen, good moral conduct, class and humility. The prophet PBUH wasn’t “ghetto” so try working on that first and carry yourself better. Your demeanour speaks louder than your possessions.

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

Sister how did your dad lead your mum without any English and on benefits most of his adult life? Iqbal was on there for bants and some real talk (from a males prospective) please don’t make him a scapegoat to women not being feminine and heavily overweight.

[@HeretoSee8]

@@EnamHussain-rb6sq FYI my mum and dad speak read and write in English, sylheti bengali and Shudo basha too. My dad has never been on benefits and neither has my mother. Both are educated to Bengali degree college level and ambitious in developing their lives, deen and character. Just because a high percentage of Bengalis are on benefits doesn’t mean everyone is. I highlighted he was there for bants but he strikes me as the type of guy that goes to Morocco himself. Women aren’t feminine for an array of reasons, my reason is one of many. Also not every Bengali woman is overweight the same not every single Bengali man is unattractive.

[@TravellingHungry-dh2zu]

Couldn’t agree more sister 👏

[@BWFAIZANSRD]

Sorry to say but the way he carries himself, body language and the way he talks is pretty much standard right now around London. It's just a really nasty accent/twang. The main concern is the way he kept waffling and going off topic. It was extremely difficult to watch.

[@HeretoSee8]

@@BWFAIZANSRD I’m a born and bred Londoner. Not everyone carries themselves the way this brother does, though he seems like he is nervous or has ADHD due to the repetition of words and fidgeting.

[@SA-uk2uu]

The brother on the left was all over the place . I have literally no idea what he was on about. He made zero sense 😂. As for the first brother, he was very well spoken, and gave some great examples from the Quran. Very beneficial to listen to! Kudos to the host for the content 👍

[@alianoorsuleman5163]

The “guy on the left” has ADHD. To someone so inconsiderate like you, you would describe him as “all over the place” , just goes to show what kind of mindset you have. He did brilliantly, so if he sees My comment, which I hope he does! He did well, May Allah swt bless him. Ameen ya rabb

[@user-fq9fg3hh2o]

​@alianoorsuleman5163 then he should stay home not be on KZbin, care in the community a burden on society

[@user-dc8vb9iv7j]

The guy on the left was a struggle to listen too! Keeps stuttering and not answering the questions

[@Sa7biUK]

Typical London Pak1

[@rossross8668]

Excellent show and very well presented. Thank you to both of the guests for their contributions. Yes, very different styles of presentation but, nonetheless, both had points to make. The audio comments at the end were insightful. Prayers a plenty from the Silent Majority.

[@iNikkah]

Well done, much needed podcast, we need to hear balanced stories of successful marriages and things to look out for, In the grand scheme of things your marriage should be the least of your worries, make Allah the focal point of your life not just your spouse

[@rashidmehdi5024]

This was a brilliant podcast, my only advice would be to do some research / due diligence on the guests. The brother on the right had some really interesting perspectives which were fascinating to listen to , on the other hand the brother on the left was just frankly out of his depth & struggled to make even the simplest points or answer directly. It was just laborious listening to his incoherent waffle ! Perhaps next time pair the brother on the right with someone who can communicate in an effective manner

[@Tippy257]

As a women I think that women feel comfortable and emotionally connected to men from their own race. So if you marry a Arab woman, she will always feel more drawn to her own Arab men eventually. She may not tell you that though.

[@Skh86933]

Compatability is sooo important,cross culture of course can work but both have to compromise as do all marriages, first and foremost you have to put the deen first.

[@Zazezoo]

This could be said about those from other cultures as well. Some have been successful married to other races and unsuccessful with their own race. At times other races tend to appreciate you more than your own race. Living in the west especially somewhere multicultural like london, you get exposed to so many cultures that you become more open minded to other races/ cultures. As an African, I connect more with black men but I have been married to non black and I never missed nor thought of a black man. Though I’d defo opt for a black man if I had to choose from two men with similar qualities and one black and one non black.

[@shahee6579]

Thats different . Being born and raised in london but coming from different ethnicities is not the point. Its about marrying from anothet country​@Zazezoo

[@OrwellsHousecat]

She'll probably have a guy on the side, best of both worlds

[@MazharulIslam_92]

Iqbal aka mini looking whaam💪😎

[@imonimon1984]

Brilliant podcast, real and raw. Loved it. These stories are signs and reminders for us all. Would love to see/hear a discussion about getting married backward. Lot of unfair flack for the broski on the left. Guy's, not everyone can be articulate and educated. It ain't as easy as you think, to speak in front of a camera. Try it for your self as an experiment, 1min video and see how it goes.

[@jayr3938]

💯

[@snapp_dawgg]

Iqbals real talk! Looks loke he has been hitting the gym

[@Erik-sd7xz]

Iqbal seems like a A1 Pak

[@wg7155]

1st guest was brilliant. The other guest struggles to answer a simple question. We need more input from mature people who can speak rather a person who can’t sit still for five seconds

[@rashidmehdi5024]

I agree, he is all over the place & struggles to articulate his point effectively…all i can hear is incoherent waffling. quite frustrating to listen to if im being honest. 😅I would have loved to have heard more from the other brother who actually talks some sense !

[@AnthonyMcMan007]

@@rashidmehdi5024 Not everyone is a eloquent speaker.

[@ua1514]

Lol

[@chrbx13]

He might be autistic so don't judge

[@alianoorsuleman5163]

Iqbal Akhi if you read my comment which I hope you do, you was brilliant, ignore the hateful and judgemental “people” in the comments. May Allah swt bless you. Ameen ya rabb

[@rm7250]

First guest was good and gave us all good interpretations of the Quran especially needed in our Bengali community nice to know he is also a fluent Arabic speaker the second guests seemed a bit nervous and kept on waffling there needs to be a bit structure to his answers it sounds like his a conversation amongst his boys nevertheless in sha Allah he had some truthful straightforward thinking points that others think but don’t say out loud in sha Allah the Brother gets married May allah swt may it easy for him wish him all the best

[@lionar9225]

The host delivered the show impeccably, smooth clear to the point .but not sound quality wasn’t the best

[@shahee6579]

Never is . Amateurs

[@mrabdul609]

Great content although Iqbal wasnt articulate/nervous he made some solid points. Also there are some girls saying they wouldnt want a man like Iqbal but he wouldn't event look at use lot twice ahaha

[@mrah2423]

The first brother was great and work love to see him in future episodes. Iqbal too had some very valid points.

[@ShakeOneOfficial]

41:27 Thank You very much 😅 iqbal cut off 🤣 Too Funny 😂

[@zoainoid]

is it me, or was Iqbal wired throughout the whole podcast?

[@bash9941]

He seems cracked from pre workout or something lol

[@tanzilrahman172]

His definitely ok something

[@notnpc2543]

Iqbals speaking real talk! Looking swollen too

[@AICM324]

Second brother on left was decent. Dont troll him. He made some interesting anf solid points. I like him as a guest

[@shahee6579]

Yeah man like fun for the night don't make her a wife . Wow, amazing

[@pearlsof5534]

The host is great a very elegantly spoken Bengali man and the first guest in blue talks well using deen as example. But the guy in black t-shirt is waffling far too much (where did you get him from?!) as well as not making any sense and waffling he sounds like his talking to his lads instead of being on a Podcast which is supposed to be watched by the public. I’m sure he means well but it’s very difficult to understand him the majority of the time and the host is slyly looking at his watch every time the t-shirt guy waffles on one- soo funny 😂

[@user-yl8wg1dq7c]

This is sooo interesting in the first to watch onggg

[@trr.]

Iqbal is real talk and most men that go Morocco will go there to mess about with women lol

[@shamsul1602]

We have views from two different generations. Different life experience and wisdom. Real Talk vs. Wisdom

[@yougotlemz770]

Sad we heard 90% from the waffler on the left then the eloquent distinguished man talking about deen on the right, i understand bringing diverse opinions onto the show but all i hear is a lad speaking banter to his boiz.

[@bash9941]

Got to have a little banter on these podcast 🤔

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Barbershop talk

[@jayr3938]

Brother on the left, i think you did brilliant, please ignore the trolls and haters, i enjoyed listening to your views and opinions just like the first podcast, we need different perspectives and narratives. Allah humma Barik

[@Sarasara-mr7zn]

Sorry to say but the second speaker has so much to learn in life. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤐 He’s deffo been to Morocco. 😂 The side smile and quick “Anyway” said it all. The first speaker, Mashallah, smart, self reflecting individual, is able to comprehend things past the negatives in his own culture and holds on to Islam to make his marriage work with an Arab wife. This is how you need to be if you choose to marry outside of your culture or marry in general. Even then he said they still have ups and downs. What does this tell you ? It tells you that for you to marry full stop, you need the right character, intelligence and understanding to make marriage work in general including being close to Allah. Let alone being in a mixed marriage which is even more complicated. Marriage is not for everyone and unless you have the right character to do the right thing when shit hits the fan. It won’t work.

[@bash9941]

He also mentioned that when women get to much attention and simping it causes a lot of damage as it increases ego which is a major problem and the delay for marriage atm

[@kckc8178]

The guy with a black t-shirt he's immature, he don't know what his talking about

[@tajwalikhan9995]

He was all over the place, when asked a question he was going from one end of the spectrum to another and then going off topic, the first guy was sooo much better to listen too.

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

Just watched the entirety of the podcast. Great and enjoyble watch. Soild exucation by having emdad who is a middle aged man with kids and Iqbal who is younger man with great virgour potentially entering marriage. I know some of your audience are in the lates 30s and 40s and think iqbal is immature but he is actually extremely scrued on and has his priorities staright. Also, i think his mic didnt do him any justice lol

[@CallAfa]

The msg at the end by the brother caught up in the sham marriage is heartbreaking and unfortunately very true to the awful shame/blame culture we have cultivated in the south Asian community. I feel ashamed that we haven’t done more to eradicate honour based shame and allow more people, men and women, to be vulnerable and share their story without fear of judgement or abuse. Furthermore- bro Iqbal, you made me laugh! I think you’re still aesthetically inclined and not getting to the crux of what your future bride should have; fear of Allah and good akhlaq, a 7 or 8 out of 10 will be her noor radiating from within in shaa Allah 💗 anyways, both brothers presented most of my views, good panel Alhamdulilah 🙂

[@almurabitun]

Unrelated to the brother and his marriage. I think honour and honour based shame is a good thing and it's something we Asians should take pride in because trust me other cultures really could do with it at times with the madness that goes on in their cultures. Not everything in our culture is inherently bad.

[@CallAfa]

Wow, are you for real? You sound like the kind of person that would shut a vulnerable person down when they try to share that they are unhappy and at risk of emotional harm. Shame on you. And there’s no such thing as taking pride with a behaviour like that, honour based shame is illegal in the UK so I thing you ought to reassess your values

[@clemmymakata3199]

Wonderful statement made by the brother he is brave we all act like we got our things together but behind closed doors everyone is seing flames. He must be commended for his vulnerability and bravery to share a painful experience.

[@mohammadashwaaduddin6613]

My uncle Emdad always dropping wisdom and looking sharp Mashallah. Iqbal’s scoring on women is hilarious. Love it! If I was to marry abroad or just have another wife, I tell my wife I would marry a pious Palestinian lady to give her a better life and get reward from it from Allah. I personally view Palestinian women as the strongest women on earth. I think there should also be an episode on creating the best family and how to manage it as many couples struggle with this.

[@robsta_79]

Iqbal is The G… he is a living, walking social media persona with a double digit IQ. He should be a regular on the show 😂

[@curiosone8843]

These other 2 brothers were super Empaths, they need to change themselves.

[@user-yl8wg1dq7c]

The interviewer is so nice he’s such a nice person mash allah like the way he talks and he’s so considerate of us muslimahs feelings like seriously When he said about the story about how an older man married abroad and left his older wife That’s an insecurity of mine to be married and for my husband to leave me when I’m older and after I’ve given him my best years it’s just so unfair One thing to note, is I find it extremely harmful how some of the men have sort of described south Asian women as “less than” of the Arab women abroad. Like I would actually love to come onto the podcast and speak about colourism and this sort of self hatred complex some people have, as I understand Arab women may have more Eurocentric features. It doesn’t mean we are less than the women in Morocco or less beautiful! Like how the other guest who I felt very sorry for how he said south Asian girls aren’t as good looking as morrocan women? Like how are u putting your own people down. Please address this

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

Thank you sister, appreciate your well thought out thoughts. We would love to have you!! Reach out to us on our email (check bio) or on Instagram/Tick tok 🙏

[@CallAfa]

Oh my God, I love this comment!! But also, there is a Quran ayat that states that good men are for good women, and bad men are for bad women…24:26 This ayat ought to get us all digging inwardly and willing to do the work we need to do to attract better Allah Knows best 🤲🏼

[@Sa7biUK]

Preference for Moroccan women over South Asian women has NOTHING to do with 'colourism' or 'eurocentric' features

[@user-yl8wg1dq7c]

Yes it does they immediately assumed “women over there are better looking” like how does that make any sense? It clearly shows fetishisation of some sort

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

⁠​⁠@@user-yl8wg1dq7cthey are just better looking to men lol not really a fetishisation just reality to lot of men but it’s just being put out there lately 👍🏼

[@OutoftheEchoChamber]

The best advice on this show is the statement read out at the end of this video (the guy who married the Morrocan and received negative comments)! We have 2 members (siblings) of our family who left Islam and it’s no surprise people are turning away from religion when this is how the so called “ummah” behaves!

[@understandingprophets]

to the host, brother you said men need to control their desires suggesting that the father of the 25 yr old pakistani girl should not have married a moroccan girl her age. but if a 45 yr old man can easily get a 45 yr old woman for marriage/sex whereas it is hard to get a 25 yr old girl, then surely that means the 45 yr old man is in control of his desires. i am a 35 year old muslim man, virgin, never married, no zina, i am controlling my desires and would only marry a girl who is 18-21 inshaAllah. so you are wrong on that. but you a good host. keep it up

[@uk9140]

The second speaker deffo a seck sar. Hes been wheeling n dealing.

[@renatoc8377]

With respect, different colour wedding dress and drama series are not examples of being diametrically opposed. Men and women have different interests no matter what culture. What's important is values in relation to religion, family, children etc.

[@flabbytobaddie]

The presenter appears educated as he is very well spoken. The guy in the blue blazer is also very well spoken . I'm actually shocked by other guests.

[@waheedaghafoor8332]

Really enjoyed listening to the first guest, again with the second was trashing South Asian women in the UK. Hyper focused on what men deserve and are entitled to excluding reflection on the responsibilities of men. All centred around the superficial and material, nothing about substance or character and companionship that women offer. This is part of the reason I think the majority of my friends have married revert Muslim men who value and care for them and I've stayed single. We honestly have a huge problem in the way we view and treat British born south Asian Muslim women. It feels as though we are viewed by two many British born South Asian men as less than them, something to not settle for.

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

Left over women alert 👀

[@waheedaghafoor8332]

@@anonamous6278 exactly, that's why I've chosen not to marry, I'm just not interested in putting myself through the trauma of finding a spouse anymore as it truly is a horrendous journey, one I'm happier not being a part of any longer, dipping out has been the best thing for my mental health, the way some men treat women these days like the "left over" comment above, these guys have mothers, sisters, possibly daughters right? Is being hooked up your biggest flex that you think unmarried women are "left over?" Have you seen some of the people that are married? "Gods chosen people syndrome" right there! Lol Marriage certainly contains blessings but not all that are married are blessed! What our beloved Prophet said about treating women seems to be amiss? I'll let God deal with that one thinking he's special. It's sad that people are leaving the deen because of this but not surprising. I don't intend to lose the half of my deen I have, searching for the "other half!". Stay blessed, goodnight.

[@higurk]

A load of BS. My experience of British Pakistani girls is they are princesses and think they deserve the best despite alot of them being completely average and offering nothing.

[@Sa7biUK]

​@@waheedaghafoor8332 Stop coping. You're guaranteed left over and if you were even average looking, you probably had more than enough opportunities to get married. Stop coming in the comments section playing your violin with a holier than thou attitude and get a life

[@OrwellsHousecat]

@@higurk The 'Princess' conditioning is to keep her locked in to the community/family. When she goes anywhere outside she'll be treated as a normal person, but she'll consider that as disrespectful because it's not how she expects a princess to be treated. So she'll only feel okay in her clan, and she'll feel an intangible discomfort elsewhere. Basically, it's Narcissism. FemiNarcissism to be precise. Lots of communities do it.

[@zs5098]

What's the second speaker on about? Brother going off on a tangent.

[@Hamza.T.A.A.]

We as a community really shouldn't take advice about women from Old bachelors. They are old bachelors for a reason. We needed to hear more from the married for 15+ years brother and less from the habitually single guy.

[@hmeah6991]

The 2nd guy just waffles, the first brother was speaking facts and gave a great insight into marriage, the other guy is lost tbh and waste of airtime

[@jenkinz1]

Hahaha this guy in the left is fkn hilarious 😂😂😂

[@asfakouser8031]

They guy on left oh my dayz im in laughing tears he just cracked me up aww bless him

[@user-ij5sp4zv5h]

11:10 Spot on, people try to exploit Moroccans and then cry when it ends how it starts, Allah knows best our intentions and also forgives our faults if we repent InshAllah

[@youngwise8147]

I dont think theres anything wrong at all with marrying for beauty.

[@anonamous6278]

There is nothing wrong with marrying for beauty brother as longer as you are attractive yourself or problems will arise.

[@youngwise8147]

@anonamous6278 not really, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[@anonamous6278]

@@youngwise8147 you sound young and inexperienced looks matter for both sexes but they should not be the deciding factor iman values personality etc should come first. If the bengali guy in the first 2 videos understood this he would have saved himself a lot of trouble. At the end of the day you can't ask someone what you don't possess yourself in this case looks.

[@youngwise8147]

@anonamous6278 thanks dude I am youngish at 27 and married for 6 years Alhamdullilah . Although I do agree it shouldn't be the ONLY factor but I also believe there's nothing wrong with beauty being a requirement for an individual aswell as all the important points you mentioned. But that's besides the point because your original statement was that they should both be attractive which I believe to be false, women tend to marry a man more for emotional connection the provisions he can provide and social status. Whereas men marry more for beauty, fertility and potential house rearing skills imo.

[@youngwise8147]

Being a handsome man might get you the initial attention but it's how you keep her interested looks only go so far for males. For example if your a handsome bum with no potential you will never keep her long term. (Hypergamy) Whereas a woman can be beautiful with 0 skills and potential but can land a high value man, whatever that is these days

[@RS.8184]

The ‘long game’ 👏🏼. I am not the same religion as you, but I feel the majority do not even consider the maybe of a long game regardless of religion. I think you would be wise to give it thought even if your 🙄 of mindset.

[@igneousfury7864]

Now part 4 needs to be with the ex wife to hear her side of the story....lol

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Part 5: her manager Part 6: her Moroccan boyfriend/bestfriend

[@miamia1550]

The guy on the left was too fidgety. He kept rubbing his hand making noises very unprofessional

[@mrss9127]

Brother Iqbal, i don’t mean any disrespect but maybe you should consider bettering your spoken English. Learn how to articulate yourself properly as you are more than capable. A bit like the host and other guest.

[@ArmaniCoppedDatCobra]

One thing that was highlighted from all 3 parts is the importance of following and adhering to the commands of Allah and the obligations placed upon us from Quran and Sunnah. Some men have this belief that they can, like iqbal said, "enjoy her for the night not wife her" and act holier than thou by searching for a "good wife" who is practicing and submissive while still playing around with the type of women they talk down upon. You have to ask by having this mentality, who exactly are you fooling, Allah ? Like the expert said if you follow and act upon the meanings of surah al fatiha you would never be in a shisha bar talking to a girl. You would be lowering your gaze and praying in the masjid or helping your family by providing for them, taking care of your sisters and mothers. I was very astonished by the fact that a few people in this podcast are in their 30s and not married, ever. In my African culture, Somali to specific, we find it strange and weird that a man or a woman past 30 is not married, like there's this common belief that once both males and females hit above 30 and never married that there is something seriously wrong with them. My question is, what were you guys up to in your 20's? Over 24 is when you should be looking and settling down, studies should've been over by then and rent a house that's in a cheaper area. There is also the fitnah of these matrimonial dating sites. Since when was dating okay for marriage purposes ? Keep it halal and involve the parents, get a wali, have some oversight over what is being said between you. Stop making excuses for haram under the pretence of marriage

[@alivepixel3526]

This episode was painful to listen to and I had to skip the bits when the guy on the left kept waffling. He must've been either high or taken something before this show, couldn't even keep still and maintain composure let alone talk properly. The average IQ in the room came down a notch because of the outlier. Your other guest presented well, spoke eloquently and articulated himself well, would've preferred to hear from him more than the other guy.

[@Alij2279]

Iqs is jokes and real talk.

[@AKAK-hr7ug]

11:50 one’ child. This has been an eye opening for me. It’s a shame - children are born for the visa. 13:43 no children came from this brother and Allah alerted him within two months of his marriage. British Sisters are left with children after ‘visa’ and even face physical abuse. It would be good to talk to the ‘wife’ of the married guest. Her email please , I’m female.

[@Sarasara-mr7zn]

Hey sis/bro, there’s a loop hole in the system with regards to being entitled to indefinite leave if you have a child. Many Algerian men married white women back in the late 90s and early 2000, had a child asap so if the woman ever changed her mind about not completing his visa due to abuse or just incompatibility, he would be automatically given indefinite leave to which ever European country he settled in. Still happens now. Sad but it’s true. And it’s the same for the women.

[@mdncthetruth2556]

Audio was abit funky in this one

[@OrwellsHousecat]

South Asian UK wmn have UK passports too. Where are they going to get their grooms? Given the m/f birthrate/population is 50/50, for every guy getting an international bride, there's a UK girl - what's happening with her?

[@nottreeves5219]

bruh second guy needs to stay home man. these podcast stuff aint for him lol

[@syeedkalam4640]

Please bring on higher quality quests. The guy on the far left could barely string a full sentence together to make a coherent point. It's also very obvious he lacks experience and as such is simply regurgitating information he's superifally learned on the Internet about red pill concepts. Not the most intelligent, not at all articulate. It's very obvious why he's not married yet even after so many marriage meetings. He's not charming. Just annoying. Please bring on better guests.

[@ABM202]

I kept laughing. Sorry no disrespect to the brother. Being able to articulate oneself gives a person the respect and take a man seriously. Also shows maturity.

[@SUSHISK337]

The guy on the left kept retracting everything he said (when he eventually got there). The things he claims were "obvious" clearly weren't to him until he got told by the second guest. He has some growing up to do.

[@Sam-K14-77]

Unfortunately having seen the episode it was marred by the gentlemen on the left . He couldn’t articulate himself in the first episode and that continued here. You can see the difference in mentality, wisdom and age between the two guests. It’s a shame as the episode and topic had a lot of promise. The host looking at his watch when the guy on the left kept speaking had me lol

[@nasakh2680]

Guy on left is that annoying friend u try ignore

[@abdulrahman-vz1lu]

great video. can you do a video on mental health in islamic community. many people suffering in silence

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

Thank you. It’s on the production line 👍🏻

[@naveedsaeed3317]

​@@Silentmajority-podcastI would more than happy to go on your podcast I'm pakistani born in the UK just going through a divorce after twenty years plus married in family ex came from a village in pakistan

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

@@naveedsaeed3317 Firstly, I’m sorry to hear that. Please email us (email in bio)

[@zarapeace660]

Am sorry I strong disagree about what bothe men are saying about the brother. He tried really hard to make things work. How can you judge him in that way?

[@rezwana123]

the guy on the left has deffo been morroco... he knows way to much lol

[@OrwellsHousecat]

😹

[@AnthonyMcMan007]

Audio is terrible. Put the mic closer to your guests!

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

Noted, thanks. We are upgrading the mics, it’s the mics. Apologies. Hope the content and audio is still coherent, we did our best to enhance the sound. Enjoy 👍🏻

[@AnthonyMcMan007]

@@Silentmajority-podcast It will definitely improve your videos. Might be that audio is being picked up by multiple mics at once. You can try just have 1 mic each close to the guest like other podcasters. Thoroughly enjoy your podcasts. Keep up the good work young man. Really like your impartial stance even though some guests I can see your scratching to tell em otherwise lol

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

Appreciate it, will try going forward. 🙏❤️

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Three mics all picking up the same sounds

[@flabbytobaddie]

My husband is Jamaican and im bengali allhumdulliah we have had zero cultural issues. But I'm not cultural tbh perhaps that why .

[@shahee6579]

Yes, and when culture is strictly followed that's where problems arise. May Allah bless your marriage .

[@waitaminute2015]

Jamaican culture is very promiscuous , so how is that working if you are practicing Islam?

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

I don’t believe he is even loyal… I doubt her parents even came to the wedding if the was a wedding lol

[@jameelamangera7633]

Iam not Bengolie but i meet lovely hard working well educated girl.her iman is very good.that what the man must see to get merried.

[@tajwalikhan9995]

Why are my comments being deleted?

[@OrwellsHousecat]

KZbin has a list of naughty words, phrases, concepts & topics - automatically deletes

[@user-fg6uu2fu9x]

Ive seen a lot of my relatives and friends from pakistani background marry bengali women . I was wondering why and i can see why based on the left man

[@Sa7biUK]

I don't know for sure but I think he's a Pakistani. As a Pakistani I am guessing from his mannerisms, waffle and lack of any intellectual thought that he's a typical UK Pakistani and the smartly dressed well spoken brother is Bengali

[@anonamous6278]

@@Sa7biUK I think you need to listen to the show he clearly mentions that he is Bengali and by the way their are plenty of Bengali men lack of intellectual thought waffle and manners.

[@bless2390]

A lot of bengali girls that pakistanis marry are usually the ones bengali guys pass on.

[@hajikhan8477]

Ive read the comments on the first and second parts. Whilst I don’t disagree with them nor do I agree with them I probably would have been saying the same things as the people in the comment section but Ive had my share of experience enough to make me understand that that anyone can fall into these scenarios and lets not forget Hadith of our Prophet Peace be upon him that women are the biggest fitna for men. The fact that the guys in the comments comment certain stuff that is probably because they never had any interest or attention from a beautiful woman but from my experience I’ve realised when you do get that interest from a beautiful woman there is nothing that can break you out of it thats how strong it is unless you are messing her about and not sincere. Reminds me of the saying of Mike Tyson everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face. Everyone can talk until they find themselves caught up in that situation. Don’t be so sure tomorrow you wont get caught up in something like this Just something to consider before judging orhers

[@anonamous6278]

You brother definitely sound like a man with experience of the fairer sex. Most of the men that go to places like Morocco aren't used to attractive women giving them attention here in the UK mainly because they aren't attractive themselves. Since they can't get a attractive women on merit here inn the UK which they feel entitled to they go abroad using the leverage of UK passport to secure a female well out of their league. Problem arises when these women secure uk passport they divorce the men . A man who can't get a female on merit won't be able to keep a female either.

[@binnyjan9509]

The fellow in a black t shirt is making some good points. However, the poor communication skills and filler words let's him down. The other two gentlemen seem to have understood the power of being able to speak clearly. Please grasp the command of the English language and replace cus with because and innit with isn't it - that will. Make a small difference for a start.

[@shum0]

The fact is .. one you have try the internation dishes you would not want to stick to just seafood. (Winkwink) But guy should remeber our fishes very basic and minority have a few sharpe bones here and there ... however the international u never know options are vast too much to handle, too many sting rays, hammer sharks and puffer fishes the will destory you taste buds for life. If you know what lingo im speaking . Stay bless

[@user-em8fd2ci1n]

Iqbal is funny 😂

[@Ak-qj1lf]

The sound quality is really poor couldn’t understand the men talking had to rewind many times

[@danaikariwo1360]

I disagree with the opinions of the two guests on the gentlemen who appeared in the previous episodes, the guy tried to make the marriage work it was not meant to be . whether he did his diligence or not.If God says this person is not the one then it's not happening

[@doop6995]

pillow fall at 35:00

[@MohammadImran-se9il]

All guys should be mindful of the tightness of their trousers/jeans. Hopefully the host can adjust the camera angles to avoid exposing their midsection.

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

Apologies for what you had to see. Excellent reminder. We will adjust camera angles for next time. SM Admin team

[@doop6995]

he said 7 out of 10 ffs not 8 lol

[@user-yl8wg1dq7c]

The bot on the left is married no? He has a ring on his hand it looks like a wedding ring

[@Silentmajority-podcast]

At the time of filming he was not married. Perhaps it’s fashionable 😂, it’s on his right hand

[@BWFAIZANSRD]

Bot 😂😂 💀

[@adeelali6588]

I know 2 brothers who are married to moroccan women and MashaAllah are happily married with kids. Allah huma barik. I think it's wrong to label the country as such that they all are after money. Obviously brother in your previous post went to a shisha bar and fell into a trap. The normal girls in morocco aren't allowed to be outside alone especially at night time. Even in the uk which normal good girl will be going to shisa places. So it's wrong to label the country as whole. And also the guy in your first podcast is a weak brother and lacks masculinity however i do feel sorry for him as he seems a very nice and genuine guy. But he's too nice for his own good. When you let your women talk to other males etc you are inviting for trouble. Moroccan or any women will not respect such man. If you want to find good moroccan wife. Do not go to bars/shisha places and go instead to smaller cities preferably and get to know their culture etc. There are good and bad people everywhere. I am from pakistan and i know many people who got married back home and got done over for the visa. I believe it is a women's right to want to choose a man who can give her a better life. But don't be a dayuut no one will respect you 💯

[@adeelali6588]

@anonamous6278 i agree there is always a high risk of it. But i trust in Allah when it comes to these matters. If you are a good man and not looking to find wife in shisha/bars i am sure you'd find a good women. I am just against labeling other countries. The way i see it you get good and bad people everywhere. If you are bad yourself you gona find bad women/husband. A lot of these man are going to clubs and seeing these working beauties and they fall for em. Doing family background checks always helps. If you are not strong enough person I'd suggest not to go look for a wife elsewhere.

[@farhank8336]

exactly!

[@aariskhan6761]

These brothers are not islamicly dressed, and flashing their aura with light colour trousers!

[@shahee6579]

I could see the shape of the left guys privates .

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Just because he looks ghay doesn't mean he is, he might just be bi

[@user-fq9fg3hh2o]

Where that in the quran?

[@599____________________70]

Podcast was let down by the second guest. So shallow too.

[@ImranAli-hy9pm]

I think he made some good points actually

[@599____________________70]

@@ImranAli-hy9pm shallow points that he then back tracked on

[@599____________________70]

@@NaimahKhatun he said something along the lines of he doesn't want an educated hard working girl because she'll go to pfc at 11pm at night. The daftest thing I've ever heard. With the crime rates in the uk women barely go out at night!

[@599____________________70]

@@NaimahKhatun someone commented below that he has adhd traits. That definitely seems to be the case which explains his lack of clear explanation

[@lovenature1919]

???? u didnt know that arab wear white wedding clothing?

[@kalamchoudhury7319]

Guy on left. For crying out loud.. work on your vocabulary. Using ‘obviously’ every two seconds as a filler word in your sentences..

[@SA-uk2uu]

😂

[@patchoulihead2139]

Omg the conversation around rating womens looks is totally messed up..as a Muslim why are you objectifying women like this? Wth😢, glad he was called out by the others. Gross.

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

Men that have options have rated women fo 1000s of years especially when It comes to looking for a wife.

[@Sa7biUK]

​@@EnamHussain-rb6sq Louder for the feminists and left over women in the back 👏🏽

[@enlightenlife2840]

​@@Sa7biUKleft over women? Only an incel and women hater would speak in such a manner. You men claim the prophets as You're role model but truly its the most unlikeable thing ever. All women and men have value and potential. Life does not revolve around marriage. I'd rather be happy single than miserable whilst married. Let's focus on quality of life and relationships instead of flexing im married.

[@NaimahKhatun]

⁠@@enlightenlife2840 unfortunately sister a womens value is intrinsically linked to our youth and value in the eyes of men! Don’t get me wrong we should speak to everyone with respect no matter the age/race. I am also a left over women 😢 but lets become better people and improve our quality of life and buy a cat

[@EnamHussain-rb6sq]

@@enlightenlife2840 your not desirable as no man put a ring on you hand. And yes if a women isn’t married by 27 most of the world will see you as left over Btec women. Welcome to reality

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Great content, terrible audio quality