DEBATE: Is Online Dating bad for us? If you aren't hot, dont bother.

[@flyingsnake3737]

Im gonna keep it real. Im a woman that likes men and they could be an 11 in looks but if his dick is small i wont even bother. You might ask what my preferred size is and ill say anything over 8. That means the guy could be a 5 or 6 on looks but with the big D it takes them to a 10. Plus points if he really knows how to work it. Obviously personality is also counted. And i dont discriminate that much on height. Im 5'4. If he is a 5'7 or 5'8 which is pretty average, im fine with it too. Call me superficial but whatever Lol. And, all races welcome hahahaha!!!!

[@bruhmomento1319]

They pinned this shit so people clown yo ass 💀

[@darkhighwayman1757]

Good way to end up alone. Dudes with 8+ inches of wang is pretty low, now add in regional, age and other things that might make it tougher. Good luck

[@CaveMaan1]

This has to be bait lmao

[@officialconch]

Wow

[@Onibyron]

Every man can have 8 inches. They just need dick sleeves that are realistic. You thought I was gonna say Millionaire, huh.

[@2shayyyyy]

As a man, I found online dating is a great place to practice your monologue skills

[@tobiasljunggren7001]

Hahah! 😆

[@zee1027]

underrated comment. kudos, sir.

[@InVinoVeratas]

Yeah, it’s great talking to yourself.

[@captainclutch3818]

I hate that this is true

[@VanessaSaintil]

Lmaoo

[@Roninonymous]

“Sometimes your type is the reason why you’re alone” Man this dude is preachi-......🤔😮🤯

[@shooklizard9039]

Me😭😫

[@Roninonymous]

Hector Silva 💀⚰️🤣

[@sirapple589]

Does that mean that Aba is the Dancing Queen?

[@Isaac-ci5wy]

I don’t see the lie..

[@AbdulMedBanguraJr]

the emoji's got me dying LMAO

[@mysticalsprings1998]

My awkward online dating story, was chatting with a guy for two weeks, thought it was going great, ran into him at the gas station, neither of us knew where we knew each other from and we're talking, then his wife walked up..... And at that moment we realized where we knew each other from.... I'm out!!!

[@liabw05]

Ooof 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@PortraitofAsha]

😂

[@berightback99]

The fact that y'all nvr met, tells à lot.

[@SmoothOpe_]

@@berightback99 they were only talking for 2 weeks. How quickly do you meet people after speaking with them online?

[@inhle1688]

@@SmoothOpe_ some ppl do it straight away like 3 days or next available weekend

Online dating for women is like shopping Online dating for men is like a job interview

[@buck8ab]

Man, that’s really good. Never heard it like that before👌

[@latt.qcd9221]

Removing racial options from an app like that isn't going to change people's preferences; it's just going to make the app less convenient to use.

[@vinsokukan1879]

Exactly

[@lore00star]

Yea it's stupid

[@jenniferjuliana10]

I've never saw an app with racial preferences option. Badoo and Hinge don't have it and they are doing great without it.

[@alext3480]

@@jenniferjuliana10 exactly i wasn't aware that they had this

[@vinsokukan1879]

@@jenniferjuliana10 those apps are for data miners, bots, & scammers. Thus they don't have to racial preferences,because they(the site) PREFERS EVERYONE. All these apps have fake profiles with real people behind them.Sometimes women didn't know they were talking to "a picture of a hot guy" that was a bot.Why didn't they know? Well, you have to keep the users engaged somehow. User engagement is key to increasing the metric for ad dollars. This technique has been around forever. Women fall for it too.

[@yeetlol1762]

My father said something fantastic I think about a lot; “a man should never be the same man he was a decade ago”

[@jonathanreyes3443]

Words of wisdom

[@Wabi-sabi8551]

Replace 'man' with 'human being'.

[@yeetlol1762]

Wabi-sabi8551 of course, just using his words

[@TnD_BigJax]

Fax yo.

[@lvrrylxrd232]

a decade is a long time man

[@neroarchangel]

"Some of you will stay lonely forever" being alone doesn't make a person lonely. You can be lonely in a room with 50 people and you could be all by yourself in the mountains and never for a second feel lonely. Don't conflate the two.

[@emmabunch-benson5361]

preach

[@FryedPidgey]

Nero Archangel Thank you for pointing that out. People really can’t understand that being alone isn’t a bad thing.

[@vinsokukan1879]

Bingo!!!!!

[@Oddness]

100% agree. There is something to be said about people being social animals though. These are the exceptions that proves the rule. For most of us, human interaction is as much a need as eating or sleeping. Some people just 'eat' less. Is a hermit in the mountains an example of a normal _healthy_ human being? I'm not convinced. It's like a lion living outside of a family unit. It's not normal.

[@vinsokukan1879]

@@Oddness or a wolf that has the skills & prefers to hunt alone. It just depends you haven't met every human on this planet to determine their reason as to why they prefer to BE ALONE. In order to explore that line of thought you'll have to get into the extrovert/introvert argument. How do introverts meet people as oppose to how extroverts meet people(*which we can usually speculate how). It depends. Preferences go as far as specific smells. Smells can affect attraction. Symmetry affects attraction. These are just some of the reasons why Jubilee really honed in on this one. Some people are naturally born with the "look". Some have game tons of it. I know a guy who looks like Captain Cave man but can probably charm your wife or girl to sleep with him. Why??? Because he is a man's man. This makes him attractive. It just depends. NOW (what I see at least) is that we've gotten into this overtly HOT OR NOT title shitshow which is pushing the narrative of "YOU MUST HAVE THIS...OR HAVE THAT IN ORDER TO COMPETE". This allowed preferences to become even more of YOU GOT IT OR YOU DON'T SITUATION. Soooo now you are left to say either you want to participate in something like that or try your hand elsewhere. People go overseas & get a better chance at lust or a partner.

[@Logitekz]

"Black women and Asian men are the least preferred on dating apps..." As an Asian man, "Yep."

[@b1gblock848]

@Jack Neet why are black women?

[@24k-u6o]

@Jack Neet you sound racist mate.

[@lionessstarseed6812]

Comment of irony and hope!! Let this be a spark for Asian men and Black women perhaps opening up to love with each other more lol, that’ll help crush the stats lol 💖 I’m Caribbean+Afro-Latina (caramel skin, so aesthetically I look black) and my man’s Punjabi. Met on a dating app and we’re years-in strong. I don’t have a type but surprisingly was approached mostly by South Asian men which I never expected. My hubby and I are obsessed with each other in the sweetest ways, he’s an incredible man...So we beat the statistic!! It happens and I vouch for how amazingly attractive, sexy and adoring Asian men are toward their significant others, I came to understand how a desire to be in a beautiful, committed relationship is more so a part of the culture and prioritized, and they take it seriously. He’s appreciative that I’m a reciprocating strong Black woman by his side. It’s been great.

[@LilMiinxx]

I've dated more Asian men than any other race. Also I see so many Asian men with so many different race women. I don't know if this statistic is still accurate. I think it really depends on how attractive people are rather than race.

[@angeliqueyoung9249]

I find asian people in general to be some of the most beautiful looking people and as a caucasion woman I prefer to keep my blemishes and freckles away from such flawless looking men.

[@RayGallardo]

The African American women and Asian men statistic isn't a new thing. On or Offline.

[@ceepinit100]

Yep, they're at the bottom of dating totem poll. The lighter skin black girl is also objectively more attractive than Kendra🤷‍♂️.

[@ayowser01]

And the funny thing is, they don't usually mix either. Black females don't typically find asian men attractive and vis versa.

[@liaminwales]

where is the love for the Asian man? they never get the media love!

[@matty9460]

@@ayowser01 if they did neither of them would end up at the bottom because they'd match with each other

[@barryand601]

Ray Gallardo Which I don’t really get since I find black women really attractive and usually extremely down to earth. I’m not into men, but I do find Asian men to be extremely chill and fun to hang out with.🤷‍♂️

[@MrMossMan7272]

A lot of times when someone speaks slowly it’s because they are a recovered stutterer. One of the first tricks you are taught are to slow down and think about your words. I wouldn’t be shocked if that dude was a stutterer.

[@MrMossMan7272]

Jhai La personally I stop talking when I stutter think it out for a second then try again on the sentence. I never actually went to speech therapy because my stutter is very mild. But stopping works for me.

[@itallturnstodust1216]

I'm a stutterer

[@MsDragonbal776]

@@MrMossMan7272 stutterer here. Anymore strategies dude?

[@MrMossMan7272]

MsDragonbal776 haven’t actually tried it because I don’t speak any other languages but apparently saying the word you’re stuck on in another language helps.

[@sephandremanticore5438]

I used to be very articulate as a kid. I would talk fast and I would speak clearly. But after of associating with people who would stumble over their words or had a difficult time with the English language (my granma and ma mostly) I later ended up having more trouble, mispronouncing things, misarranging sentences, stopping dead in my tracks because I lost a "single word" and struggled to complete because that word is temporarily lost in the nexus of my mental dictionary, and then are times when I just "uh..." or mindlessly repeat a word until I can get back to it. I've also heard people stutter a LOT even as they're speaking slowly and mindfully. Sometimes, the vocalization part of our brain just fogs up.

[@eli30013]

If I had a nickel every time someone said “there’s someone out there for everyone “ Glad y’all said that! 👏🏾

[@D_Snutz]

..I'm sure there is someone out there for everyone, most people just wouldn't settle for that person even if they did happen to meet them...an average American in a large city, active social life, a couple of kids that go to school and plays sports, etc. will meet approximately 470 people in their lifetime (outside of family). The chance of actually meeting your "soulmate" is very slim...

[@emzkoe3904]

Lol. Right? The universe promises someone for everyone, but it never specifes the quality of that person.

[@denzel9455]

But it's never what they want that's why they are alone.

[@deviousj5868]

That is the biggest load of shit anyone can say. When someone says that you have my permission to laugh.

[@deviousj5868]

@@D_Snutz That actually makes sense

[@The-Real-JD]

"Misery and miserable people tend to be loud"... Well that explains Twitter

[@nubustong5811]

😂

[@felix-antoinechalifoux6907]

A lot of the Internet really. Just compare how long good user reviews are on like Google vs bad ones. The bad ones are always longer

[@kendradamm1428]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣

[@cyanideinmycereal1077]

Yes.

[@BklynConan]

Choice Paralysis is a real thing and anyone who owns a Netflix account can probably confirm lol

[@QwentyJ]

Or a steam account lol

[@projectatom5349]

@@QwentyJ bro I own like one game, I don't have that problem

[@johndavis9321]

That’s a fact

[@ShanteRoxxane]

Omg for me there’s “nothing” on Netflix. It’s just strange. Edit: I used quotes because it feels like nothing to me.

[@isabelangang249]

ShanteRoxxane stranger thing watch that

[@miraikuriyama4178]

"This guy is the most assertive low-energy person I have ever seen." Do you mean: Kakashi Hatake?

[@1995yuda]

damn son!!

[@RJWM1999]

He's the guy 💪💪

[@churchhide]

W

[@Pacbandit13]

We got DBZ and Naruto 🤣🤣

[@inhle1688]

no wonder i’m so attracted to him💀

[@sierraalexander1830]

I live in a small town, and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone at this point so I always try to date online outside of my town!! But it’s hard to find genuine people, so I’m leaving it up to god now

[@deanwhaley1466]

I’m ugly so I kind of just given up on dating apps all together. So sis we in the same fucking boat.

[@CoreofShane]

Oddly feel the same way but im in a big city. Well, guess it only takes one right? Odds are stacked against us but, that’s life. Good luck

[@jeremiahchacha9668]

I don’t live in a small town but I’m in the same boat... it is hard finding genuine people. I hope you find what you’re looking for.

[@nahnanananananana2914]

Move to a city with more dating and job opportunities.

[@barryand601]

Sierra Alexander Can’t relate but I really hope you find a genuine person. Good that you are looking for that rather than someone for sex. 👍

[@nal004]

I feel like there’s a lot of body language, chemistry, mystery, implication etc. that u feel when u talk to someone in person but it simply doesn’t translate over tinder

[@magssmith9111]

Exactly

[@izabella7174]

It does when you decide to meet them

[@alexare6655]

No shit so meet them in person after talking online you stupid bitch.

[@Jamminyea]

When im really wanting to get dates I can kill it in person. Leave a solid impression, give off fun/flirty vibes and all that. Online it’s just lame and seems like too much work.

[@JaydenLyleHylton]

"Some of y'all gon be alone forever" Hurts to hear the truth. But at the same time maybe there's a beauty to learning how to live alone.

[@educationalporpoises9592]

People like that have to recenter their purpose in life. My aunt wanted to get married, never did. She developed friendships and centered her life around her career as a special ed teacher, and her students were like her children. She was pretty much renowned within her district. It's sad, but clinging to what's long gone is gonna keep it sadder. Fortunately I don't think I'm in that situation, lol

[@hakatapawa7115]

Nah don't tell that to yourself. Everybody needs love, that's how we are

[@grantog123]

@@hakatapawa7115 Needing love and getting love are two different things. Just being grateful for what you do have is all you can do.

[@nettyspeaks]

Theres freedom in solidarity. I swear its peaceful.

[@anitaknight3915]

@@grantog123 great perspective!! The attitude of gratitude is everything. It's important to appreciate what you do have!

[@RylieCollins]

Is it weird that I’ve never actually had a type? I mean yeah I’m attracted to funny and nice people but physically my type changes a lot. There’s so many different attractive physical characteristics people can have and only being attracted to one type of person just limits you on possibly finding the love of your life 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@antfactory1]

Camille Collins exactly, every day I have a new type of guy. For black guys I have a type, for white guys i have a type, or mixed guys, for Asians, Indians, and a bunch of other races, and it changes almost all the time cause people are beautiful lol.

[@snoochieboochies2011]

No, but I want to maintain that I have a type so I can reject people that are objectively unattractive without hurting their feelings.

[@misterharryman]

That's the spirit

[@johnfisher1006]

I think type exists because some women can't help who they are attracted to

[@nal004]

Agreed keep an open mind! I’ll sleep w literally anybody !

[@cristina92lena]

"sometimes your type is the reason why you're alone" Preach looking at me dead in the eye when I'm trying to hide

[@ionelstoica7082]

you are not alone, sister

[@cervixcrusader85]

Pretty sure most people who have trouble finding a date/partner has this issue (myself included) :/

[@ionelstoica7082]

@@cervixcrusader85 i wholeheartedly agree, it was just a nod to a fellow romanian amongst these comments.

[@cristina92lena]

@@ionelstoica7082 I kindly nod back

[@JAHIDxJD]

Just get a Kpop husbando

[@Am-ju6bt]

It’s interesting how good people swipe right on people that looks good in their photo. Some people are super photogenic but in real life aren’t that good looking. Others might not be photogenic but look really good in real life

[@quanzy121]

Ugh I look terrible in real life and photos 🙃😳

[@nweeezy]

your comment is severely underrated

[@rationalthought9979]

Sure, but what else are you going to go by? All you can go by, appearance wise, is their photos, until you meet them. Unless you want to take the time to read their profile, which still doesn't tell you all that much.

[@bloodhooded]

@@rationalthought9979 yep, should we meet every single person IRL to make sure they look the same as on their profile or better lol

[@bbbbbbb51]

I haven't used a dating app in years, but I used it almost polar opposite to most people. Pics are nice, but if the profile is trash, boring, or vain? I'm out.

[@chumisntfum1614]

I think there is someone out there for everyone, but that doesn't mean you'll ever meet

[@uglyogre63]

Damn..true

[@sechabatheletsane9784]

Wow😂😂

[@dinasilva9263]

Oh damn...😲

[@TheNeoVariable]

There's honestly too many people for there not to at least have 5 people for you.

[@Rnfjaydee]

Agreed

[@latt.qcd9221]

"Online dating", as a whole, isn't just for hookups. Tinder, however, is primarily for hookups.

[@uglyogre63]

Anyone>I'm JuST LoOKiNg FoR FRieNdS

[@marcusblue1985]

Oh naw, tinder turned into 3 -4 kids, I’m not looking for games and hook ups

[@Rnfjaydee]

MarcusBlue i think the reason why people say tinder is for hookups cause a decent majority is 18-24 year olds which is just horny college kids but definitely can find some keepers.

[@TiffanyRay]

Tinder is for people who wanna hit it and quit it

[@NeonGhostCat]

"if you're ugly, don't bother." But they think we're all ugly.

[@20thcentury_toy]

The game was rigged from the start

[@20thcentury_toy]

@@Gloriacx52 why not?

[@narutokilla196]

@ria rel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️

[@patrickwillis13]

You not looking if that is the case

[@immikeurnot]

@@Gloriacx52 It's true. Two studies have shown that women consider a man who's an 8 to be "average" while men rated 5 women average.

[@indianspartan76]

20:05 I disagree. Here's why: I met 2 out of my 3 best friends by chatting up a stranger. I prefer in person approaches. That being said: the number of people that look at me like I'm crazy when I talk to them in public, has increased in correlation to the rise of online dating

[@chrissyb7916]

When I go to concerts (often by myself) more often then not I end up chatting with a stranger. They start a conversation or I do. I know people who became besties at Comicon. I think at events it's natural people will talk to strangers as they already know they have something in common. Or lines - TSA, bathrooms because you can always gripe about how long it it.

[@LadyCoyKoi]

@@chrissyb7916 I go to conventions and Medieval Festivals just to be connected with like minded folks. Events truly make it easier than dating apps, at least for me.

[@miguelangelthomas5154]

will you look at that, eh? Jubilee making actually good content. The Apocalypse must be right around the corner.

[@anthonyt425]

Around the corner? It's here already!

[@enjolireyes643]

Well, July is right around the corner. I agree. We need another mini-Apocalypse to add to the never ending year of crazy. This video could very well be the herald of what is yet to come.

[@Iffmeister]

@ungratefulmetalpansy they basically bring people of all worldviews on to have interesting conversations. The cringe videos are generally dating related, the rest tend to be pretty good

[@kanyemadmid]

this aged well

[@EatMyShortsOmar]

Thanks aba for continuously letting me know I’m ugly

[@AbaNPreach]

Np.

[@KxngTsuGamingOGkxng]

Not alone bro 😔

[@immapunchu5313]

🤣 but I'm glad they did. I'm kinda bored with the 'you go girl! You so pretty omg!' But then I'm the unwanted one 🤣 kinda refreshing someone is being real.

[@BigBallsLover6969]

Kingly Omar keep your head up king 👑

[@davidrhoden7868]

Lmao. There's only rich people and ugly people. xD

[@hungaryrat5089]

The guy in the yellow sweater almost always resonates with me, he is 10x smarter then he realizes. He formulates his sentences so god damn compact. I love it. Excuse me for my terrible English.

[@deripfina]

It’s always the people who say they have terrible English that have great English LOL

[@-taemiso-292]

@@deripfina i've noticed this as well.

[@sedftnio]

@@deripfina I think people whose English is not their first language try harder.

[@nightfighter7452]

@@deripfina very humble

[@nodiggity8746]

@@sedftnio true. When I first started learning English I was hyper-aware of mistakes, then once I became pretty much bilingual I stopped caring lol

[@nitashajohnson4767]

I live in Iowa and I am black. So I chose to never really date on apps. I have made a profile, I'm average looking and I have a lot of personality so I get enough interaction in my personal opinion. I even met a guy that was quality but it didn't work out. But because I live in Iowa which is literally 98% white I've chosen to 1. Meet people in person 2. Open up my options(not limiting it to just Black men) 3. Connect seriously with people with similar interests as me. I am currently engaged to my partner at 31 years old expecting our first child after 2 years together. We met in person. As a black woman I really don't think that online dating is for me. I am able to connect with people better in person and I understand that isn't the case for everyone. But for me because of statistics I honestly was turned off by the prospect. I didn't have the worst results but I just didn't want to put myself on a place where I feel unwelcomed.

[@anitaknight3915]

That's awesome and very wise. Thank you for sharing! I'd rather meet people in person as well. God bless you on your future bundle of joy and union.

[@thepovdweller]

Awesome! Congratulations, I wish you a safe delivery☺️!

[@marcusmaksym7804]

congrats

[@24k-u6o]

I’m from Iowa and a BW, I feel like it depends on where u live in Iowa, like if your from a small town in the middle of nowhere vs Des Moines

[@laredouter4792]

Congratulations girl! 🥰

[@thenwordpolice6982]

Reverse Ben Shapiro is cool. Sometimes you gotta speak slowly for people so they don’t jump to conclusions.

[@legoatjames2277]

Derrell Davis ...

[@HiddenOcelot]

Ah yes, reverse Ben Shapiro

[@UnitedPacci]

@@HiddenOcelot I call him Shapiro Ben

[@stinkerpops]

He might just have social anxiety. I have social anxiety and whenever I got called on in class I would speak and act like that. He might be nervous about what people would think of him and want the conversation to be over.

[@nightfighter7452]

@@stinkerpops or he just speaks slow

[@sierraalexander1830]

Also, I broke my ankle a few weeks ago and KZbin was keeping my mind busy, it got boring until I found your channel and I managed to watch all your videos, even “dear mother” from seven years ago, you guys are awesome!! 👏🏼

[@cole4236]

@Jesse Gutierrez You're an idiot. They're liking a positive review from a viewer and thats it. Stop reaching and projecting your own simp insecurities!

[@dinasilva9263]

I found out about them because KZbin recommendations and i really appreciate their vídeos💯

[@justanotherisekaiprotagoni7293]

Lol u the small town girl ?

[@masterpain7742]

Dang no wonder u haven't found a relationship yet

[@leilahdeb]

The difference about picking someone based on looks on dating apps is people get to choose the version of themselves they would like to show (specific poses, lighting that make them look the most attractive). Vs in person there’s no filter, the you people see is the real life you do there’s probably also lower standards for beauty. Online all you see is the best versions of people so the standard for attractive is higher

[@shaq8830]

Very very good point!

[@Dan_Therapist]

i know a female is overweight when she just takes shoulder width selfies

[@QuanBrown27]

- True 🤷‍♂️👍!

[@nweeezy]

@DJHart facts.... _if_ they even have a personality at all

[@Wakka144]

Online dating seems more fake to me which is one reason I never bothered with it. You are seeing a scripted and edited version of everything about them, from their pictures to their carefully worded profiles. It seems like it could be a narcissist’s playground to gain victims for supply.

[@MrCurbinator]

I put on my bio that I had no patience for messaging back and forth. Any discussion would be for the purposes of organizing a date, and we would be going dutch, no questions. 1st girl that agreed to those parameters was actually pretty cool. Glad I remembered to get her an anniversary gift today.

[@davidp4270]

I hope this is legit

[@MrCurbinator]

@@davidp4270 it is.

[@joshuagregoire9504]

@@MrCurbinator W my guy

[@idk-ye7ur]

I'm late, but wish you good luck!

[@dreadfairy6963]

That's great! I love that and wish more men would be this direct! So many men have nothing in their bio and hmmm and Hah around, playing games and wasting my time. I even have it in my bios not to waste my time if you arent looking to meet up in real life and STILL my time gets wasted and wasted...

[@anon7596]

There is someone for everyone. But your someone could be in Russia lol

[@mirisu5639]

My someone was in Syria and then in Russia before he came here and met me, so yeah 😂

[@fadlicuy2922]

or not born yet...

[@babelove45]

@@fadlicuy2922 👀💀😂

[@TacticalEntropy]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/rafLl4Ssfd1krqs

[@fadlicuy2922]

@Manga Is you can have 20 years old wife or gf when you're 40, and being a christian or atheist or devil worshiper, and it's okay. what's with these being muslim thing??

[@minahtheweirdo]

Light skin and dark skin women live totally different life experiences and its sad.

[@Ramboo339]

Strange, when the people i know show me their DMs its mostly to tons of Black women

[@64-b64]

Its sad that nobody fucking asked

[@jiminluvr8535]

@@Ramboo339 black women come in different shades

[@jiminluvr8535]

@@64-b64 I did :)

[@Jojo_D_Northstar]

It’s men that suffer not women. God the solipsism of women

[@SMOK3SCR3EN]

Cant find someone IRL Created a ok cupid account, 8 months later never been matched. Feels awesome

[@Rnfjaydee]

Get tinder!

[@TheNitroG1]

No worries man that just means you aren't 6'4" with a 6 figure job and a full head of hair...welcome to the 90%

[@moonknight4053]

Hope u find someone that fits you’re personalalitt bruh!! It’s hard, but I’m sure you’ll find someone. If it makes u feel good I’m an ugly cunt and I’ve gotta girl; peace brotha!!

[@jettsetgirl]

@Rybo Stain front & back?It's so Funny When I was younger I was like ewww hairy chest, till I met my husband and he usually buzzed it - until he didn't and I was like ohhhh mama likes...I was in my 30s then....How do woman respond to the back hair??

[@JK-mp1mg]

Hit the gym. Focus on yourself. Don't look for gratification from others. Worst thing that happens is you enjoy your life. Don't expect someone else to fix you.

[@reinux]

Biggest reason online dating is so necessary right now is because neighborhoods aren't designed for healthy spontaneous interaction. You get in your car, go to your destination, meet transactional people to do transactional things, go home, and never brush shoulders with anyone else.

[@Bthe312]

💯

[@keviniwuagwu2453]

Preach looked at me in my eyes, and told me I will be alone forever...big sad.

[@user-marco789]

Ok

[@FazeParticles]

appreciate his honesty at least.

[@olyviermonteau4300]

*HE'S MAD, HE'S MAD..! BIG SAD!1*

[@Jamfar777]

That's tough buddy

[@28219_]

but was he right?

[@eznosnopes5276]

When I hear someone describe a woman as "wholesome" it sounds like a polite way of saying they don't think you are particularly attractive.

[@asdfghj13579fly]

I thought it means she doesn’t seem like she’ll put out

[@ajh.4131]

I think they say that about women who won’t put out right away.

[@Rnfjaydee]

ungratefulmetalpansy fax lol.

[@ok-wv4og]

asdfghj13579fly Taylor yes.. it doesn't seem like they put out.. because they're unattractive.. ig 🤔

[@HiddenOcelot]

@@asdfghj13579fly I think you're right. That seems like the thing tbh.

[@toomanyrads3827]

“That’s not micro, that’s mega” my thoughts exactly.

[@ion7016]

The correct word is macro

[@hangukhiphop]

@@ion7016 it's more of a continuum micro < macro < mega it all comes from greek o(micro)n o(mega)

[@missNCW]

Yeah that is weird af

[@HashNtheBox]

@@missNCW english is a broken language dont question it.

[@Followthebuzzards689]

@Hana Ayo Alemayehu No they haven't lol.

[@GhostlyGhille]

Jubilee dude was a perfect example of when the weed hits.

[@riseofazrael]

Homeboy definitely smokes that gud gud

[@crystalgomez9428]

@ghostlyghille dude your hella cute!

[@taurnguard]

I would like to see a dating app where, if the person's standards are too high, the app replies "Get over yourself. You ain't all that."

[@taurnguard]

@Average Mo Only for people with that much ego.

[@Rnfjaydee]

Average Mo that would be interesting going to university for computer science and business wish me luck lmao

[@Rnfjaydee]

Average Mo thanks man much appreciated!!

[@deluulujee]

Wait, doesn't Tinder actually rank you and after a while match you accordingly how hot other people think you are? Or when you get swiped right a lot, you're shown more and vice versa? And then you "can" pay to be more visible.

[@taurnguard]

@@deluulujee I don't use Tinder because I'm not a ho, so I don't know. : )

[@Bl2EAKIN]

I see the top pinned comment is from a girl saying that sex is all men are looking for on those apps. The thing is, and this also applies to real life, men DON'T want just sex, unless sex is all that you have to offer.

[@joelalvarez5322]

Rip Patrice

[@Spider-Too-Too]

all men want is some intimated cuddling

[@shooklizard9039]

Some boys just want sex thou and some girls just want sex as well and dating app is easy to find sex there

[@shooklizard9039]

@@Spider-Too-Too 😂

[@harz632]

True, if you have nothing to offer but sex then men will only come to you when they want sex but not when they want to do other stuff but most single women won't understand that because they themselves never tried anything what a man wants with a man beyond sex. I'd love to spend time with women that have the same interests.

[@xicer1]

Talking slow is one thing. But this dude had to stop and think about his own age 🤣😂🤣😂

[@DSan-kl2yc]

Can't say it hasn't happened to me.

[@mirawenya]

I do that every time someone asks my age... I don’t really keep track and have to do the math.

[@Zango25]

I do it sometimes as well. I tend to keep to myself on most days. Getting a sudden call out from someone I know still throws me off guard.

[@guy-claudenkana4526]

@@Zango25 relatable 💯

[@rinrinsparkles1986]

Well it be like that sometimes 😅

[@tankbxy7609]

"you're pretty for a black girl." damn... somebody down bad. i'm praying for you, g.

[@MixManiac120]

Just shows how racism is still prevalent...and dont ever forget it

[@thomassmith4579]

@@MixManiac120 Not really. Just a preference. Some of my homies told white girls there cute for a white girl cuz white really isn't their preference

[@MixManiac120]

@@thomassmith4579 Its mentioning race...its racist bro. Also, preference isn't the same as generalization- which is prejudice. Noone wants to hear about someone's preferences.

[@thomassmith4579]

@@MixManiac120 i guess. I just don't really see the problem but thats just me.

[@MixManiac120]

@@jonathanmorris2283 The point is nobody gives a fuck about your preference when you're making a backhanded compliment dumbass. When you mention race...automatically it becomes racist. It would be better to keep your mouth shut, and not say stupid shit like that. If you dont get it- give up stupid ass. Black women and women of ALL race' come in different shapes...sizes.....and colors. Youre a liar if you say youre not attracted to ANY black women. That's fucking dumb. To single out one woman as if she represents ALL black women is racist. That's the definition of racism. Categorizing an entire race based on one entity. You are what's wrong with the world.

[@sanyatesGRIA]

Yo they violated the first dude putting his head on Goku’s body 😭😭😭

[@theprinceoffreshair1164]

Lmaooo I take it all in stride. My hair is my signature

[@sanyatesGRIA]

Mr.NoDaysOff lol true nuff respect

[@theprinceoffreshair1164]

@@sanyatesGRIA I appreciate it bro

[@arriibacon531]

😂😂😂😭😭

[@neomonk5668]

I used to be a hopeful/hopeless romantic, then I found my inner peace. That’s why I’m single...and very happy about it.

[@neomonk5668]

Jj J because I enjoy this channel. They are insightful and funny. And at a certain level I like to see the train wreck that is modern America. Plus I had 20 minutes to kill.

[@Texastee73]

There is nothing wrong with being single. At least you don’t have to deal with foolishness.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@Elkjaer Delemos if you have to tell everyone you're a player, you're probably not a player.

[@neomonk5668]

Latonya Hewitt other than your own. ;) Peace

[@XHitsugaX]

@Jj J maybe hes subbed to the channel and watches the videos.

[@theprinceoffreshair1164]

He called me a Dragon Ball Z character I'm weak Lmaoo I appreciate this reaction though. Hit the Like if you think I look like Goku. Follow me on IG @Mr.NoDaysOffpercy

[@ayileenenga9670]

ahahahaha its is Yoouuuuu. everyone love DBZ. the best anime ever

[@pelosuelto70]

Holy shit lmao

[@aydeepeperoni6018]

Best cosplay I've seen this year 10/10

[@theprinceoffreshair1164]

@@aydeepeperoni6018 you know how I do 😭

[@theprinceoffreshair1164]

@@ayileenenga9670 lmaoo dont tell anyone

[@weekendnomad5038]

Once you start getting ghosted and learn how to cut ppl off when they annoy you w no emotion it kinda turns you toxic lol

[@moonknight4053]

That good or bad?

[@cookiegirl891]

Lol facts !

[@jeepersmcgee3466]

@@moonknight4053 in what context is "toxic" a good characteristic?

[@itstimeforlife]

"This guy is the most assertive, low energy person" 😅

[@shooklizard9039]

Same

[@AbaNPreach]

Dropping another video tonight! Be sure to like and comment for dem Algorythmz

[@joejoeson891]

love yall

[@MrBlitz-kr2wo]

Which of you two wrote this🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Mm-zl8ks]

@@MrBlitz-kr2wo probably aba

[@harry31619]

First Im ugly so no point in real life or not theres no point no woman will look at me once let alone twice

[@lazyj2821]

You guys should look into this kzbin.info/www/bejne/pabKfplte9V3hpo

[@DashXero]

"When I was, like, seventeen, I would write letters to my future husband..." *Goku-lookin guy looks at her like she's crazy.* That face says it all.

[@shrapnel77]

Yeah, women like that are truly frightening to me. STAY AWAY.

[@UnfamiliarIntimacy]

I don't see how that's weird tbh. Maybe I've just been overexposed to seeing weird stuff on the net but I genuinely cannot see how daydreaming about your future husband is weird.

[@missNCW]

@@shrapnel77 although she was a kid, not a woman

[@missNCW]

Ok I get it now, she's Christian. I've seen a lot of religious women do this and religious men tend to appreciate it.

[@CreamerOfTheDairySquad]

Met my wife on plenty of fish. She lived in the next town over, wasnt far but id never had gone there otherwise never would have met her without it. Weve been married nearly 5 years and our daughter is nearly 4 and we have a son on the way and are very happy together

[@sinbalak3730]

how old were you when you found her?

[@FordyTheConeSmoker]

I met my wife online; was dating for 4 years and have been married for 1. Online gave me more confidence and allowed us too learn about each other’s personalities before meeting up in person

[@Onibyron]

That is interesting. Glad you have a successful connection.

[@misshisokapaints109]

"Sometimes your type is the reason why you're alone" YES PREACH I see so many guys complaining about girls wanting really attractive guys and saying no-one wants them. But they're not attractive inside OR outside. You might have a repulsive personality. Be realistic. I've definately experienced rejection, actually quite a lot for a girl tbh. I'm not everyone's type, my personality isn't for everyone and not everyone is for me. Don't idolize women or completely disrespect them. We're humans and some of us are cool and some of us suck. And it's not the person who rejects you's fault they don't like you. It's your problem, because YOU are the one who wants something from THEM. If I held a grudge against everyone who rejected me, I'd be a bitter ass person. Ho

[@ExeErdna]

Both men and women when they get rejected and or betrayed in a relationship some become REALLY bitter. Even with improvements, they get pissed the moment it is recognized. Like a hypothetical "I got out of debt and I still get curved" It's really hard for some people to change, I simply walked away from the game because the effort wasn't worth the results I was never happy.

[@FryedPidgey]

Miss Hisoka Paints I agree with you to a point. I think it’s more complicated than it’s just a you problem. Some people with the worst luck in dating have great personalities but that doesn’t guarantee you’ll secure someone. Sometimes it is the person who rejects you’s fault. They might not be able to appreciate something good when they see it or have their own issues that they project onto you.

[@ange6950]

red dead Most people don’t have skin cancer or dwarfism. Most people are average and 75% of people are average or above average. Yet, there are SO many bitter men in this comment section that are bitching about their dating life. And sorry to say but I can tell why they are having issues strictly based on their messages. You can’t disrespect women and then think they are going to want to be with you. It makes no sense. And all those guys believing the “red pill” will just attract low self-esteem women, because no decent women will put up with that kind of treatment.

[@ange6950]

red dead If most women didn’t find most men attractive, the human race wouldn’t survive.

[@misshisokapaints109]

@@ExeErdna I'm sad to hear that. I get bitter for like a few weeks then I get over it. It's that person not everyone on earth. Keep trying if that's what you want. But if it isn't and you're fine with giving up, okay cool🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sagekevin6473]

"I see you came with your little research or whatever "🤣🤣🤣

[@dflips4]

Right that one killed me

[@Trashboat_96]

Did they do an episode of those 2 people?

[@Elliot_97]

Learning how to approach women in real life is a huge learning experience for men that builds confidence and courage. Bypassing it via dating apps might get you a girlfriend but you miss out on the personal growth that comes with doing it the hard way.

[@taiwooluwatoba3874]

"Brittney, Holistic healer and yoga instructor" ...unemployed, you're unemployed Brittney

[@ettazak]

Thank you for the genuine laugh!

[@jennygump5835]

🤣

[@TerryHesticles]

Lmao for real tho

[@Dan_Therapist]

my exact thoughts 😂😂😂😂

[@786valerie]

😂😂😂

[@blacklanner5795]

To the other guys: The perfect woman for you DOES exist but, I married her first.

[@johnnyrayh5858]

Black Lanner I hope you get some after you show her this lol

[@truebut3243]

Lmao that means she cheating on you

[@SunshyneA]

Awwww you gone get some.😂😂

[@CashCatMoney]

Oooh someone wants to have a good day!

[@inkheart01]

lol

[@mrarrow958]

I think dating apps are all about looks, validation and attention. It’s almost impossible to find someone who can like you for who you really are. That’s why even when a lot of guys end up getting matches, it’s almost impossible to hold a conversation with the other person because they actually don’t really like you, they just want the attention and to validate that they can get whatever guys they want... it’s all about ego basically.

[@Cahluvca]

💯

[@theenchilada1525]

Dating is initially about looks and validation. Online dating make it more accessible for the dopamine high.

[@TheWutangclan1995]

With all of the dating apps that exist. I’ve heard more dick appointment stories than date appointments. At the end of the day they’re all designed for hooking up. We are all social creatures and are designed to procreate and recreate not finding true love.

[@Shanoa1302]

Not true we‘re made to make deep emotional connections. We have some of the most emotional komplex systems there is. Yes we‘re not made for monogamy. But not for hookups only

[@maccthemoderate2496]

Not to mention women can't hold a conversation at all, its so much work just to get down to the meat and gravy of... we just fucking or what

[@ryanstarz708]

Both of y'all assessment was dead on. Having too many options can be overwhelming for people with anxiety like myself. Social media does make it easier for women to approach men, because it does not happen to me in person👽

[@rickwaldo7]

A lot of my past relationships I have met through college, concerts lines in Seattle, and tattoo shops. Being in a place where you already have something in common makes it easier to approach somebody in conversation. Funny enough when I moved away from Seattle and gave dating apps a try. It took about 2 years of time wasted before I found my Wife. One thing I do remember is dating in person was generally finding out what you have in common with someone and online dating was more about focusing on things you don’t have in common and hyper focuses you on dealbreakers because before you matched, you looked at hundreds of candidates before them

[@latt.qcd9221]

Ironic that she brings up the OkCupid study on race, but then conveniently forgets to mention that OkCupid also put out a study on preferences and found that women rated 80% of men as less than average.

[@Helterskelta]

that's pretty much the checkmate in regards to online dating for men. Women with an inflated self-worth. Unless you are a top 10% guy, good luck..

[@itstriplem2069]

90/10 and 80/20 rule

[@ApesAmongUs]

Don't forget that men rated women on a nearly perfect bell curve. They even felt the need to explain that they had not normalized the male ratings.

[@UnitedPacci]

They like to bring one statistic that fits their narrative. They do not talk about the entire story. Women saying they struggle online dating I'm not even going to take serious.

[@yugfus]

She didn't mention that because she was talking about race. Why would she talk about women rating most men as below average when she's talking about racism?

[@Disgruntled_Canadian]

I met my husband on “plenty of fish” 15 years ago. We’re now married with two children.

[@desmondgraham650]

Stop bragging, lol

[@Disgruntled_Canadian]

Yeah, I don’t know what those apps are like, but in the old days it was a little different I guess. I honestly didn’t take it seriously at first but then I ended up liking him....and now here we are 😂 I never had luck with meeting people at clubs/bars. Those guys always came across as drunk and sleazy. I had relationships from school (first husband didn’t end up working out), then meeting people at work always got awkward when co workers would find, or things ended. So I figured why not give online a try! It does work for some people. We also have friends who met on eharmony and are married with a child.

[@shooklizard9039]

Thats the app I am on the men there are soo sweet honestly good quality compared to other dating apps

[@shooklizard9039]

@@Disgruntled_Canadian thats actually so cute and gives me hope..wish you and your husband all the best xx

[@aj6365]

I didn't realize how old Iam till now lol 15 years ago I was 20 , still single no kids

[@faismasterx]

You guys are forgetting someone: the ones who are born.... "genetically unfortunate." They're going to die alone too, but through no fault of their own.

[@notursavior1861]

not only that, but those unfortunate souls will be socially awkward. People generally have a natural disdain for them. For example, an ugly can say hi to a random pretty girl, and she can be like "eww, creep!" A simple "hi". Maaaaaaaaaaannn..... not even a "hi," how about just a smile??

[@UnknownNev]

Described me perfectly. Genetically unfortunate! 😂

[@AghomiXfit]

@@UnknownNev how tall are you

[@UnknownNev]

@@AghomiXfit 5’11” but butt ass ugly

[@AghomiXfit]

@@UnknownNev what’s your insta

[@urgandma]

This is a long winded video that basically boils down to "do it if you're hot, struggle if you're not."

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@Inebriatd It doesn't mean you'll be automatically successful if you're attractive. But if you're average looking then your chances are much much lower.

[@aaronhunter9337]

Yep, you're right

[@RevolutionCPT]

@Inebriatd Dating is the gambling that we all deal with. If you have more resources, you can play the game longer and have opportunity for success. For regular casino gambling, that would be your own money, house money, and a line of credit. For dating, for men those resources are your physical appearance, your status, your job, your humor, and your future prospects. Likewise for women, since the only thing man can 'obtain' is physical appearance or sex, those women who don't have those resources have a harder time. Short version of this... ok, you're hot. That just gets you into the game. What are you doing to win?

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@Inebriatd I disagree completely. But in this topic I was strictly referring to online dating just to be clear

[@conradkorbol]

Inebriatd you must not be as attractive as you think you are lol.

[@wrongrabbit]

I never understood the idea of "discrimination" in dating. People have preferences and they find you attractive or not. Sure, sometimes you may become attracted to someone by getting to know them even if you weren't interested initially, but that doesn't mean that everyone is entitled to a chance at seduction. edit: I mean discrimination in a negative way. Discriminating in and of itself isn't generally a bad thing, but it is often inferred colloquially as negative, hence the quotation marks.

[@lore00star]

People like to be victims in 2020... poor them

[@ghostofmisao.]

If you think all members of a certain race are disgusting and all members of another race are all more attractive, and you chose to ONLY date one race then it is discrimination, based on race. Same goes for religion or ethnicity.

[@tmselection9321]

@@ghostofmisao. you poor incel

[@jenniferjuliana10]

I stop when you said you don't understand the discrimination (and used quotes which is stupid) in dating. It exists, it happens.

[@ghostofmisao.]

@@tmselection9321 I am not an incel? How is anything that I said related to being an incel?

[@1994rhysw]

I've just recently deleted online dating as I've found it so frustrating to be constantly talking to timewasters, a lot of women are on there for you to stroke their ego's, anyone thinking of online dating, give it a try, but never pay for it, maybe you'll have more luck than I did, but beware, there are alot of women who will want to use you

[@Cahluvca]

Timewaster are in huge numbers

[@jft2nd]

Exactly man they just want to make themselves feel good they don't expect to meet their soul mates on there.

[@DJUniMekaju]

And a lot of guys are on there cuz they want you to stroke their heads. 😂

[@1994rhysw]

@@DJUniMekaju 😂😂😂

[@TurlyYours]

She is telling the truth! I was raised by a single parent and we have those talks about what happened that led her to being a single parent. At first her and my father were married and divorced shortly after. I ask both of them because it took two to start and it took two to finish. My mom had it rough, as all single parents do. She fussed at me, she took out some anger on me but she never trash talked my dad. As a teen and young adult I asked my mom often "why?" and told her I will never be a single parent. I dont want kids. Its hard, I'm grown and still call my mom and ask how to do certain things! So I can only imagine having a kid for LIFE! You're a parent for life! It takes a very strong person to be a single parent. There were times she cried, she didn't know I heard her. I saw how she had to sacrifice what she wanted to do for the better of her children. She did a great job in showing me how strong one person can be but she also never denied that it can be easier with two parents. So for me and my uterus we won't be having any babies anytime soon.

[@ates423]

I’m really happy that my first ever relationship happened through the natural events of life rather than using the online world. I don’t know what my life would’ve been like otherwise

[@aqmohra4]

"I want a six foot tall guy with a six figure salary and minimum six inch pen1s but I'm only a 5/10 myself" - literally every woman on tinder

[@BIGHEN95]

Girls be having 2 or 3 kids and have the highest standards but the prettier girl I match with got lower standards and be chill af

[@Johan87577]

Hard nope on all these ladies from me

[@Johan87577]

And I’m 6 foot and make a good living. I don’t want to date someone who only want my money and height 😂

[@michaelangst6078]

not true, but I have had to accept only being in open relationships with good looking women. To expect a hot woman these days to be faithful to you, unless you're basically having the relationship be a business transaction, is becoming a fairy tale if you're meeting them through a dating app.

[@olyviermonteau4300]

@@michaelangst6078 it mostly is true.

[@MRJDXTRA]

"Dating/life is hard" "Do not pray for an easier life, pray to be a stronger man/woman

[@theenchilada1525]

Dont even pray. Be a better man/woman.

[@MRJDXTRA]

@@theenchilada1525 to each their own

[@toade1583]

@@theenchilada1525 You can pray, but you also have to work towards it too, they go hand in hand.

[@MRJDXTRA]

@King why do you want a easier life

[@MRJDXTRA]

@King nothings wrong with a chilled life. The quote essentially is saying don't ask for struggles to get easier but ask for strength to conquer them. Plus i would say i hope you find fulfilment in your pursuit of computer science.

[@brittanycasto6829]

As someone with severe social anxiety I find it easier to be myself online than in real life...

[@jackreidasaboboras3654]

Your little baby is beautiful!!! She seems to be very sweet too.

[@jrbionic404]

The Long Boarder seems to give everything a lot of thought and has perfect points on the subjects everytime. Great call Aba and Preach on how he takes his time to speak clearly and not stumble.

[@macktheripper7454]

She’s a holistic healer. Break out the crystals and chanting guys

[@bangarang3810]

Time to wash the stones

[@doms.6701]

@@chicoandthem4n holistic healers are similar to homeopaths. Both are based on bunk science

[@jazzbelly3589]

@@doms.6701 herbal medicine is not bunk science... believing crystals/rocks have mystical powers is definitely bunk science.

[@aronramirez9352]

That's the same thing as a Jedi

[@aj3706]

@@chicoandthem4n We aren't taught to be delusional so am happy that I didn't turn out to be someone like you. You and Karen would make a great team.

[@abundance1232]

The fact that you have to bleep out “sex” is mad WILD!!🤨

[@samlsd9711]

KZbin is becoming Saudi Arabia now 🤣😭😂🤣😭😂

[@drgarad]

@@samlsd9711 which is a good thing.

[@Percido]

KURULUS OSMAN English Subtitles Kappa

[@gj9157]

@@drgarad ok BOOMER

[@TheJbh147]

@@drgarad censorship is an objectively bad thing because of the power dynamic and the subsequent oppression of the subjective "bad" content

[@missjenliz]

I read somewhere once that the reason the grocery store Trader Joes (USA) is so successful was from the idea of the paradox of choice. The company uses primarily their own brand with limited options of each item and that's what makes them so successful. The buyer is less overwhelmed with the amount of choice provided. It's one of the most crowded groceries in my area so I believe it lol

[@_internetnoah]

3 in the morning, good stuff guys 😂😂

[@kevingreat875]

Sameeeeeee

[@moeee429]

yesss lol

[@thetrueanimefreak6679]

Fr man

[@user-kg2nm9dw2f]

eastern time zone gang

[@emzkoe3904]

It'll probably end up deleted and reuploaded. That seems to happen a lot when they post early.

[@mwemachitafu4348]

6:29 I thought he said "O'Reiley" as in auto parts. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jade_Almond]

"There's some of y'all that are going to stay lonely forever" damn I felt that and it's true. Not everyone will find a partner and I really hate when people that there is.

[@YOURFAVORITEDOOMGUY]

The issue with me if you have high standards for yourself and bio is gucci with me you'll get a like from me But I see through your pictures it's not like your bio nothing adding up I'll pass

[@Jade_Almond]

Q Lock what do you mean by that? I've never heard that before or ever.

[@Jade_Almond]

Q Lock It's not about being lazy I asked a simple question, because you mentioned something and I expected you to answer it without the attitude but yet I'm the lazy one. So I'll make the assumption that this "80/20 rule" isn't a thing since you can't provide an explanation on it.

[@Jade_Almond]

afrodamus ah okay I see. Thank you for being kind enough to provide an answer to the question asked and giving insight to the matter. I appreciate that.

[@Jade_Almond]

afrodamus need more people like you in the world. You stay safe out here good friend. 🤙🏾🤙🏾

[@vickyoli]

I was in Chile, my husband a syrian man living in NY. We have been together 7 years, 4 married :) Online does connect your best friend/partner that probably is hidden somewhere in the world.

[@thisakwardguy]

That one person that dislikes the video: “I was in this.”

[@nainami]

"sometimes your type is the reason why you're alone" 100%

[@yourstrulyeuphoria5130]

Around 16 minutes preach attacked me personally and I actually needed to be told off like that, oof.

[@manjitkapri1816]

Well it's simpler to fix it than you think. Be open-minded, less shallow, question your decisions and try to become a better person.

[@truestdude]

@@manjitkapri1816 👍💯

[@HiddenOcelot]

@@manjitkapri1816 I've done my best to do that, but I can't really get rid of liking cute things. I think the girl I have now is adorable u wu, but she also wants to live her life her way, and I love it. You don't need to get rid of being shallow, but learn to love people for who they are.

[@borussiagermania7428]

HiddenOcelot I bet she controls you

[@HiddenOcelot]

@@borussiagermania7428 I make sure I'm looking out for my best interests, I still chase my dreams, j still play games and keep my mental health well, I still do what I want to do. We support each other.

[@bobino4646]

The best is when a girl messages you first but is trash at carrying on a conversation. They’re just on there out of boredom

[@legendarybb2888]

Facts dude

[@chrissyb7916]

Not everyone is good at texting. Facial expression and hand gesture can not be seen as well as sarcasm, wry humor etc.

[@iseeyoushay]

Aw I hate this. Like why did you text me?

[@Gchildwarrior]

Bumble: where women make the first move Random Women's first move: "Hey." Dang. At least say something weird that grabs my attention in a good way 🤣

[@dreadfairy6963]

Theres kinda 2 sides to this coin... some ppl are just better at conversation in person, I'm one of them. Another reply mentioned saying something interesting/quirky as a first line and I've tried this to dismal results. I usually get no reply or the guy is dismal at conversation after. It's a 2 way road. If a girl/guy comes in with a lame "hey" a conversation can still be built after, but if the guy/girl is terrible at convo as well then 🤷‍♀️ Also u both may just not have anything in common. After a few probing questions the conversation falls flat cuz u guys just move in different worlds really.

[@foosdontcry]

"for shy people that are attractive" that's me gang gang

[@davidp4270]

Yeah that used to be me then one day it just clicked an I stopped getting in my own way

[@spiritkin5159]

ngl that’s me too & hearing that was like a lil slap in the face to just stop getting in my own way

[@genty-c01]

the shy and unattractive continue their lives in solitude

[@11Ash11]

"Sometimes your type is the reason you're alone" (mic drop Preach)

[@11Ash11]

🖤🤔us ladies need to lead by example... right? 🙂 Show you gentlemen how we prefer to be treated. If we want ya'll to be self-aware...we need to show you how... by being accountable ourselves & not just telling you how you aren't "good enough"... Or do you disagree? 😘🖤

[@11Ash11]

@Josip love it. Yes 🖤😘🖤

[@11Ash11]

@Josip exactly. And bitterness doesn't give either sex the right to act like a used-up douche bag. You use people, you get used. You attract what you display. 🖤😉🖤 Don't want a gold digger (male or female) ? Stop acting shallow af. 💋😎

[@11Ash11]

@Josip I don't have that problem. All my exes have been varied and I usually leave them better than I found them... Build up the ones I love. 😉 I love men and I have found that as I evolve and grow, so do the types of men that approach me. That's why I said... Like attracts like... If your type isn't changing... That's on you and your self-growth. Yeah, some sick sharks will circle pray that isn't suitable for them... But that should not be the majority of the ones you encounter. If all you're getting are sick sharks... You need to take a moment to self-reflect & adjust yourself before getting back out there. If you don't... It's on you. You know what I mean? I think that's fair to say for men and women. If, ladies & gentlemen, you are attracting a particular shitty type... And you don't like it... The change must come from within. Change your own shit first. Just sayn... We all are part of the problem here ... Not one sex over the other. 🖤😘🖤

[@11Ash11]

@afrodamus some people take kindness as weakness. I've been on the receiving end of it myself more than once... So I feel your pain. But if it turns folks like us cold.... Those shallow feckin arse holes win. We just have to get better at spotting them and showing them the door faster... And get better at allowing healthier folks in when they do come knocking... You know that sort of way? I think men are equally guilty of setting expectations just a bit too unrealistic as well... Most folks these days are seeming a bit guilty of wanting more for doing less. 🖤

[@amillercma]

To hear Aba say he's always seen himself as unattractive is mind boggling to me, in my opinion he's a very attractive man. His personality is great and he can dance which makes him even more attractive, over all, in my honest opinion, he is extremely sexy.

[@rogerx1258]

He is simply talking about his physical appearance. He is about a 6 I would say. He doesn´t need someone to defend and support him on that front when he himself just sees it as just being real.

[@SuperGorak]

I am a hetero dude and I thought that the way he carries himself must be super fucking alluring

[@chelsfromyoutube]

I think just going on looks, he's attractive, too. And remember that if it weren't a pandemic, he might look better bc maybe he'd be getting haircuts and a shapeup. Idk, but...he said in HIS opinion. But we all know he knows others feel differently bc they're all up in his dms.

[@shaunyjimenez9637]

I strongly agree, thing is he isn't the above average man

[@MothGirl007]

That really surprised me - I think he's very attractive.

[@gregkiepal7682]

"some times your type is the reason your alone" 15:50, damn that was straight up a truth nuke!

[@matmacquarrie8566]

15:40 - "No. I don't think there's someone for everyone. Some of you - are gonna stay lonely, forever" Delivered while wearing a tshirt with "Positive Mind" on it 😂 I love this channel

[@blkbrdmntrvimes6438]

You have to admit it was said pretty damn positively

[@devinsarno8917]

Perk of not being able to sleep. Just saw Aba and Preach 30 seconds after they posted

[@MultiJayjack]

In person?

[@MultiJayjack]

Tenticle Ass they way he worded it made it sound that way. Geez 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@30yovegan34]

@@MultiJayjack bruh, you're talking to a tenticle's ass...

[@devinsarno8917]

30YOVegan 😂😂😂y’all funny but yea it was 4am I could’ve worded it better

[@jrbionic404]

I hope this makes someone feel better: I am a light skin black man with long dreads and I'm like big muscles type ripped and called a "pretty boy" at times and now a model. I have trouble getting matches too. Side note I'm also well educated. Dating apps are fun but still kinda blah for most men I think and probably women too, I wouldn't know their perceptions of their experience. I know we as men are used to significantly less matches and responses than they are. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Hope this helps someone feel better about their lack of matches too. 💛 Edit: I used to be obese at risk of diabetes. I was only hoping to convey that you're not alone whoever you are and dating apps are hit or miss regardless coming from my experience. I described how I look now to give perspective. I posted 4 recent videos on my KZbin so you can politely assess how I look if you'd like. Some of you think I was lying. 😊 Thanks to those who understood I meant this post to be a positive one. 💛

[@justdoit.86yearsago]

So are you single?

[@Texastee73]

This is a sad, but shallow fact: Money can make anyone attractive.

[@jrbionic404]

@afrodamus Exactly what you said basically. Thank you for understanding I meant well.

[@MyChannel-ul3tm]

Honestly, you’d prob have a better shot on a black dating site bc the women are all looking for a black man. I know that all my friends who use the apps where you could filter race only put white and hispanic and so black, asian and middle eastern men don’t even show up.

[@jrbionic404]

@@MyChannel-ul3tm Never thought of that before. 🤔 Thank you for the idea.

[@Mskiraven]

They wouldn’t have been like that in real life because most ppl don’t have confidence to approach very attractive people.

[@bashwill236]

“Some times your type is the reason why your alone “ wooosh “rann dil “ 🇭🇹 lol

[@yvetischo]

Yeah I felt that

[@fredaamour4121]

😂😂😂😂 bien sûre.

[@treffle17]

I scrolled down just to find this comment 🤣

[@pretzelcrungelchappiput3027]

@@username113 exactly i don't why people always associate with personality or traits with a certain gender or race.

[@Tubb2581]

It's bad NOW. I met my wife 22 yrs ago on AOL. Today these kids want to keep it online and it's about money. Back then it was about dating and taking it offline.

[@shooklizard9039]

Because back then men had balls to ask women out face to face now men are becoming passive.

[@Geck0GC]

Aba saying he's not attractive hurts my self confidence, and I'm someone who *does* think I'm attractive. Not to sound cocky, I just mean that I have confidence in my looks. If nobody else thinks I'm attractive, that's fine cause I think I look good.

[@dog_boy5123]

It's great to have confidence in yourself

[@anna820x6]

As a pretty attractive female, I have to say to the statement "online dating makes it harder to commit to one person" that it depends on the person. I have had 2 relationships, one previous and one I m currently in both long distance and both I've met through the internet. Even though I have many options and there were many dudes hitting on me, I could choose and stay faithful. I just feel like online dating enables the behavior of people who already have trouble committing in the first place because it makes it easier.

[@sh00kah]

Perfectly put.

[@justdonny5201]

The black guy has the closest type of hair The mc of cowboy bebop has

[@kfrank9455]

Mugen

[@amilcarballantyne]

@@kfrank9455 that's samurai champloo, he's talking about Spike

[@warlord0331]

@@kfrank9455 bruh 🤦🏾‍♂️ smh

[@sadesemolu]

I'm really trying to figure out how to get my hair to look like that.

[@prod.kidmizu]

@@sadesemolu I have locs and I think he has a fade, with his locs twisted together. Then pushed up from the back.

[@Destiny-lt3eo]

I met my fiancé online ☺️ been dating for 3 years getting married in August

[@Mysteryofmines]

Good for y’all sweet heart ❤️

[@mack6up]

White guy?

[@Destiny-lt3eo]

Mack Giles he's black

[@justdoit.86yearsago]

Which app did you use?

[@Destiny-lt3eo]

Justine POF

[@Lizwelt]

I just don’t See the Point in dating at all. I love being alone and in peace.

[@Kemelya]

Girrrrrrrrllllll preach I miss it

[@mrslick58]

Because being alone for too long is not good especially for certain people

[@thelonestonr7243]

@afrodamus do you actually think being alone is good for us ? dont forget the human is a social mammal. i feel like you lived solo while lying to yourself for so long that you ended up believing yourself. i aint gonna change that lol

[@mrslick58]

@@thelonestonr7243 there are idiots that actually try to convince themselves and others that it is a good thing unfortunately

[@thelonestonr7243]

@afrodamus the real question is, who hurt you? who fucked you over to the point of thinking that way? not to be an ass but theres professionals to talk to. i think you have some deep emotional trauma you need to tap into.