She Got Ditched At Dinner WITH HIS BILL. Have Online Dating Apps Ruined Dating?

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[@AbaNPreach]

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[@hiphopchild9540]

i did it...4 times I was like "I'm not paying for her"

[@Flunkerdunk]

Nah. I enjoy my life of solitude. If I want the drama of dating apps, I watch the trauma happen to other people so they can post their experiences on KZbin for me to watch. I treat it like violent video games or violent movies. I am okay the trauma happen to others on a screen rather than living it. I'm like a trauma-cuckhold. I am very unfaithful to it and get my kicks from watching it fuck other people's life up.

[@SharpWitted]

Unforgivable!!!😂

[@pro.empire]

Unforgivable! Aba N Preach hopefully if this happened to Yaa.. Plzzz post the girl FACE! We Got yaaa for sure!!!!! If this happened to a man. This could hurt a man heart and could deleting them self for not feeling value in the world!

[@27incubus]

Could it be possible that girlie is a walking red flag and he said F…… this…… s…..

[@matthewcoombs3282]

I am 54 years. My view is that online dating imposes no obligations on people to behave. In my era you dated people in your social circle. Any poor behaviour got back to your peers with social consequences.

[@BenLeinster]

Lack of community is at heart of a lot of problems

[@Ramxenoc]

Wish we still had this.

[@ReginaMcNeish]

This was true up until the apps. Reputation was everything back then. It wasn’t “cool” to be a player; now F-boy/F-girl; it’s been renamed to be casual but the actions have no honor and there are way too many men and women hating the opposite sex. If rep becomes popular again people will act accordingly. Now everyone is lazy. The #1 reason I hear people say they do OLD is because “It’s easy”. Which is THE WORST thing to do when finding a lifetime partner. Even more so bad that someone will comment and say “ not everyone is looking for marriage or life time partner” completely forgetting that DATING and (a forgotten word) COURTING was for the purpose of MARRIAGE. People have lost value in PEOPLE and CHILDREN (No your pet is NOT your child). It’s all fun and games now and EVERYONE SUFFERS. It’s a lose lose situation. OLD should be banned you can not Amazon love. GO OUT, make friends, bring back house parties make them popular again and find your person.

[@alexandrafialkovskaya8064]

I think your explanation is on point! There was no way getting away with outrageous behaviour because your social circle was your "checks and balances", and people seemed to have basic decency and a little bit of shame. Nowadays I feel like it's impossible to make someone accountable for their bad behaviour....

[@casebased8391]

Yeah but also gets complicated if you ever break up and start dating another person in that same social circle lol.

[@Jeremy-wp4yh]

The worst part of modern dating is poor communication.

[@meganod279]

I disagree. You can't even get to the communication part when most people are lying before even the first date lol

[@bcb5696]

⁠@@meganod279lying is part of poor communication lmao you’re arguing for no reason

[@sadcatwithhat3527]

​@@meganod279 Wich would also fall under poor communication

[@adb_500]

​@meganod279 that is still poor communication

[@Link_Skywalker007]

*Modern women

[@josephshepard2962]

That happened to me once. Matched online with a girl, took her out for drinks, she "went to the bathroom" and never came back. The bartender felt bad for me so I got a few free drinks. It's a completely shitty way to behave.

[@MedusssssaChristo]

People SUCK.

[@hannahdewinter5515]

You deserved better, sorry that happened

[@CTembo]

I’m going to do this to avenge my fellow males

[@zsazsa4159]

I meannnnn was u weird? Lol

[@josephshepard2962]

@@zsazsa4159 No.

[@byrd813]

I quit dating apps because I found way more cons than pros. I found it emotionally draining, non stimulating, and counter productive. The point was to connect with people, but I felt no connections. It felt like a game. The quality of people I met was poor. No one had their priorities in order. Or people were just getting out of a relationship like 2 days ago. Or people still living with their wives. Just a mess.

[@JasonlaroseLaRose]

If he's a therapist he shoulda known from the profile picture.

[@davesmith826]

I quit Hinge last weekend. My profile: 38 years old, 5'11, in excellent shape, good looking, and good career (PhD, tenured faculty at an elite university). I had no trouble matching with women, but I never found someone of comparable quality. Several doctors and lawyers matched with me, but I never met one of them in person because they all either failed to respond to my initial greeting or just unmatched me summarily for no reason. The sense of entitlement among this group was staggering. Then there are single mothers who want a 'life partner' to help them raise their kids. They don't pitch it that way, but it's the way it would pan out. Thanks but no thanks. Then there are career-orientated women who realise in their mid-to-late 30s that they want a family and are desperate (in many senses of the word) to get pregnant. The last group are women who just want to get laid and/or be showered with attention. I can understand the first impulse, but the second one is to my eyes bizarre. I never matched with anyone on the app. Chasing women is a boys' game and I would wait for women to match with me. You would think that if you took the time to match with someone and they responded in good time (i.e. not immediately but a day or two after), that you'd write back to them. But about 80% of the women I matched with never wrote back to me. 80%! For a time I was convinced these chicks were bots, but my female friends are adamant they're not. They claim they're women who use dating apps to get 'liked' by eligible bachelors simply to make them feel better. That's utterly bonkers, but par for the course in this deranged era of social media.

[@bbailey3055]

@@JasonlaroseLaRoseknown what

[@JasonlaroseLaRose]

@@bbailey3055 It helps if you watch the video.

[@user-hc9vz7oo3w]

Very true

[@TheDylls]

People don't realize that posting online is the same as being an author, in that you always reveal more about YOURSELF than intended

[@moayegbusi9623]

It just shows how narcissistic they are

[@Bendilin]

What the author said; "The curtains were blue." What you misinterpret; "The curtains represent his immense depression and his lack to carry on." What the author meant; "The curtains were literally the colour blue."

[@nemanjaradovanovic8033]

Yeah, i don't know why, but the girl is giving me wierd vibes... There's definitely something she ain't saying about the date, that would be crucial info. Like what was going on before he left?

[@PityOnlyFools]

Maybe she couldn’t stop posting online during the date

[@Zwird]

If people want to judge this woman for being upset after her date ditched her than that's on them. She might be one of those influencers that vlogs going to get their hair done and baking muffins so maybe she wanted to share it for an online audience she already had and it went viral.

[@TheOnlyTaps]

"Create trauma provide the solution" had me dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheSoundwave92]

That was so fucking out of pocket 😂😂😂😂 Edit: THE SLOGAN: HAVE YOU BEEN FUCKED BY A FUCK BOY?

[@oz_jones]

Modern problems require modern solutions.

[@lastnamefirstname2390]

💀💀💀

[@TapiwaMunyanyi]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@terraventusaqua123]

Capitalism at its finest 🤣🤣🤣

[@jwp1180]

When i lived in Austin i was warned about "serial daters" women that will go on hundreds of dates with hundreds of men just to get an evening out of it.

[@barryfleming8488]

She got treated like a man.

[@TONE11707]

Foodie calls

[@Lucy-vx9nn]

Being a therapist shoulda been her first red flag, i met a few therapists out in the world (not as a client), they are all crazy af and will admit thats why they became therapists thinking it would help their own mental issues. It never helps them, if anything makes them even crazier.

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

I agree 100 percent, same experience

[@Rowsy91]

Therapist would never EVER be a positive in my eyes haha she played herself

[@veronikavanquish]

this is one of 2 ways it can go. Which I mean, isn't really new right. Why did they used to call them Quacks? Is it cuz they are speaking a language we don't understand? or does it just not make sense. 👁 😂👁 Stay asleep 🤫

[@kln.b5631]

There are three logical fallacies in your argument: 1. The Anecdotal Fallacy: Which is when one draws sweeping conclusions on a broad subject matter using their own personal experiences. Like if I’ve had some bad encounters with therapists, then therapists are bad. “I’ve met a few therapists out there (not as a client), who are all crazy…” implying that all therapists must be crazy because of your anecdotal experiences. 2. The Fallacy Of Composition: which is when you think what's true for the parts is true for the whole. Like if some therapists are bad, then all therapists must be bad. 3. Lost Cause Fallacy: Which occurs when a person incorrectly assumes something causes something without enough proof. “They [The Therapists] get into their profession to learn about themselves (A false assumption/false premise fallacy) that’s how they all become crazy.”

[@kln.b5631]

In addition to my previous reply, It’s quite interesting how some women who love to use the fallacy of composition to ostracize groups of men, bawl your eyes out when a man does the same. Quite hypocritical, don’t you think? Say, a guy calls women gold diggers because of his past experiences and you lose your mind over it forgetting that it isn’t any different from this very comment you posted.

[@honieebean]

The "are we dating the same guy" groups are how tinder Swindler was caught 😂

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

😂😂😂

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

@@mr.anderson4755 Oh.

[@_..-.._..-.._]

I love that one man acted like an average woman and it became a whole thing 😂

[@frankjaeger1711]

@@_..-.._..-.._Exactly

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

@@_..-.._..-.._ Bruh.

[@Pertinaziuos]

Going out out >>> dating apps. I've dated women that wouldn't even blink at me on the apps. It just a completly different feeling going out to meet people naturally, while those apps just make people feel like trash and treat others like trash.

[@hbsharkman]

Just out of curiosity and I'm just I don't know I guess I'm a loser or something. Where the fuck do you meet people?

[@AshanBhatoa]

​​@@hbsharkmanLibraries, bars, clubs, city centres and other locales - Places that hold potential for socialisation.

[@zacrore6472]

@hbsharkman bro just like me 💀

[@biigoo2296]

Libraries, that's crazy.

[@Pertinaziuos]

@hbsharkman You can go find places to learn or practice hobbies. I started with dancing, but would also do amateur theatre, go to board game meetings etc. Bars and night clubs are more in line with "hooking up". Also try thing you wouldn't normally do. You would be surprised how many different people you can meet like that.

[@slowrider1513]

All my friends moved away after college making it hard for me to go out and meet people. This was also during Covid at its peak. So I turned to dating apps. I will admit most women on that app cannot hold a conversation for shit. But I met my now fiance on that app and haven’t looked back. People are out there if you’re patient. I’m a very traditional guy (26) and never met someone who was worth my time prior. Don’t give up people

[@meyeneetuks4680]

Oh your def right about dating apps. Women on there are terrible. Ill try my luck at a bar or something. At least there i got a better chance at getting a reply

[@MikeS-7]

You have resources for her to extract before, during, and when her team runs you through the women's court system. Your kids will be stripped from you. Your assets will be stripped from you. Your investment will be stripped from you. And your future income will be stripped from you. She knows the end from the beginning. It's her movie and the state, OAG, and judge are there to ensure she is rewarded handsomely and they profit too from Title IV D. 50%+ chance I just described your future. If I told you there was a 50% chance when you stepped outside your house you would be beat to a pulp I bet you would be more cautious than you will about the warning you received all based on facts and stats. Good luck. Your future is all in her hands...

[@LuciaSM]

I would say people are terrible. As a woman, I can say the exact same thing for men. So, it is not a matter of male or female. it is a matter of person.

[@wtfdtreats]

Getting married? Bruh.. guess you're doing to learn the hard way, even in 2024 🤣

[@DeadCat-42]

Online dating apps convinced me that women hate men and treat them like crap. I thought I was just picking bad women, nope. They are all a bunch of narcissistic sociopaths! I had no idea the contempt for men women had till I started reading profiles.. Just reading the profiles, the ego and the entitlement are as attractive as vomit.

[@jayyisfunny13]

The irony of the bumble commercial before and after this video

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

I just saw eHarmony lol

[@kopykat6843]

I just got a bumble ad midway 😂

[@d0los508]

nahhh😂😂😂 I just saw that shitt

[@jeffrenjr]

Dude i got one too 🤣

[@carolynbaguma1112]

Thought Tinder was a hetro version of grinder hook up app? Downloaded and uninstalled the Tinder app within 24 hours 😂

[@darkljs]

For me, the only difference in online dating from back in the day is that you could start a conversation with something like "Hi, how are you?" and ask simple questions like "what are your hobbies?", but now if you try this you are considered unoriginal, boring and not worth talking to

[@scantrontheimmortal]

Very True.

[@kaspersmilez]

Been a long time since I've been on an app. But i remember females setting a word limit. You basically had to approach them with nothing short of a light novel. They'll be disappointed when they find out how little cats talk

[@dudeorduuude5211]

If you are from normal places, I think it still works, the simple phrases.

[@samuelolufemiadeyina7698]

Crazy world lol

[@McBernes]

I'm dating a woman I met on match about 2 months ago now. That's almost exactly how our conversations started lol. But, we are both a year or so away from 50yrs old so our age group tends to not be so loopy as kids in their 20s and 30s.

[@bradkiss8576]

I've left a date at a restaurant only because the girl was not the same person in the photos I chugged my beer dropped $20 on the table for the beer and left. As I walked out she berated me then a female server got mad until I showed her the pictures she then turned her anger on the girl i was meeting

[@everyone1liesd459]

She must've really been a whale

[@prepordietryin9119]

You stayed long enough to drink a beer?

[@Jellybane411]

@@prepordietryin9119maybe he got there first

[@averyjames4623]

She definitely wanted a free meal and thought you were stupid enough. Good choice to leave, should’ve left a lot sooner though.

[@seeksolace2059]

Brad i need more my guy. So when you showed the picture what did the server say to the girl and what happened after 😂

[@LilRascal427]

9:40 True that hahaha. The amount of times I saw on bumble profiles "I don't message first" was crazy. Like why are you here then??

[@IvanskiYakinovski]

Attention. Most girls staying on apps just want to get likes. The other ones get flooded by men and quit cause it’s overload.

[@dianabanana9377]

as someone who did online dating from 2001-2008 and then stopped and went back in 2012 and then again in 2015. its NOT the same it has not always been the same. i will never go back to online dating and i loved it in that first half lol

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

How was it different from the past may I ask?

[@VCRAGE]

​@@tobiaslawrence8928less fuck boi culture and more looking to connect with someone. Whimsical societies cause people to behave flakey.

[@painexotic3757]

​@@VCRAGEfalse. The prob is women only choosing 5% of men. They've created the thing they hate. If they started giving average guys a chance, these problems would go away overnight. But attractive dudes with alot going for themselves don't have any incentive to be good men since thousands of women are throwing themselves at them.

[@jessicahawks3223]

Remember back then in the start in 2001 we were labeled as so weird and so risky for dating online and then everyone decided to join and act like they weren't insulting us that we're trying at the beginning..back then ppl were a lot more fun and laid back and not acting like it was a competition

[@dianabanana9377]

@@jessicahawks3223 yessss! thats what it feels like exactly. it didnt used to feel like a competition now it does. ugh

[@devcoffee]

I can second what Aba said about Tinder. It was notoriously known as a college hookup app.

[@cacaulaymulkin7724]

100%

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Yeah that lady made it seem like there's this horny group of people moving from one app to the next and leaving ruin and destruction. I'm not sure why all apps turn into hookup apps but I'm sure those old school ones like eHarmony aren't. It's actually probably about the age of the user more than anything. If they make it boring for young people it would probably be a relationship app.

[@Zwird]

Abolish it

[@NicheGreens]

​@@Aaron-kj8dvthere were kind of two tiers. The free apps like pof, tinder, etc. they were for hookups mainly. EHarmony and match, the paid ones, were supposedly for relationships. The "real" ones were filled with bots and people who felt entitled because they paid.

[@AlenAbdula]

So was Facebook when it started.

[@misters1r900]

The last girl I matched with told me her requirements to date her that “everyone follows” are 1) no touching and 2) bring her a gift. I gave the apps a break after that one.

[@MusMasi]

I don't mind the first rule, Second rule though is a bit off. I mean theres nothing wrong with something inexpensive and thoughtful but not if they demand it as a requirement.

[@burtreynolds8030]

@@MusMasibruh if she doesn’t let you touch her it’s not a relationship

[@benja303]

​@@MusMasi Those rules are glaring red flags

[@leehalloway8787]

​@@burtreynolds8030It's a first date they don't know if they like each other yet. The gift thing was wild though.

[@sammylong3704]

@@MusMasiIf not touching her is a requirement, then it’s followed by “and bring a gift” I think we all know what game is being played here.

[@happygolucky9004]

Most people don't vet hard enough before spending time and money on people. Have a phone call and videocall before meeting people. It won't guarantee that they won't do something like this but it will help greatly reduce it.

[@IvanskiYakinovski]

Then you’re paranoid and weird. Girls play defense in the dating game so they’ll assume the worst of everything you do. That’s why in person first impressions are more important. You have some degree of control in how you’re represented

[@jcbillman]

My wife and I met online in the 1990s before it was a thing. We hit it off and after meeting in person fell in love and have been solid since. I think something is missing in the overly transactional nature of how it works now. We met playing an online trivia game, started talking about class stuff and working on papers (met in college). We weren’t looking for anything transactional, just humans interacting. That part seems gone to me.

[@iTzDynamic]

13:40 "you on the app.. you desperate too 🤣🤣 Preach brought it all full circle

[@Rowsy91]

facts on facts

[@repost9581]

Tinder was always a hook up app. Then they tried to pivot.

[@Not_convinced]

They met on hinge

[@GreaterSociety]

I hate that tinder blocked me for asking for a casual thing

[@dertythegrower]

I have met younger college girls that wanted me for one night.. and also on tinder, even girls from below the border not from here, on work and church missions, doing it... After doing both a while...both tinder and real life, it is, both, a random mix.... its all confusing women who dont know what they truly want... ...and ive dated the both of those recently and three times, it wasnt me, ha...

[@willdegra317]

That’s what women do though

[@chunlisong8521]

Does it matter was it made hookup or not. Whats matters is that when you are on those apps be sure what your intentions are. Be clear of what you are seeking and stop cowering asking no bs questions cause you scared she gonna block or unmatch you.

[@MrMagoo-rg8er]

Interesting how no one has any idea what happened on the date yet still make judgements on the guy. Two sides to every story.

[@flowerbloom5782]

I really appreciate you guys since it puts into more perspective of the dating world which is nice for new ones. It’s good to know what to expect. I love your advice on actually going outside.

[@maestreiluminati87]

"Paying to talk to me without knowing me is weird" What the fuck are dates then?

[@30__]

Hella weird behavior

[@LagGawd]

Yoooooo lmao

[@smithsmith1956]

That's woman logic for you ☕.

[@mariam2115]

Paying for food or a drink on a date is one thing. We pay for goods and items whether on a date or not. Paying for some emoji or whatever virtual icon just to message someone is a bit cringe. It should never be that serious; just go out and meet people. I get it doesn’t make sense to y’all but that’s still how a lot of us feel.

[@smithsmith1956]

@@mariam2115 We're talking about dates. You're waffling on about stuff unrelated.

[@briankronika1699]

It's only a matter of time before we hear about someone being "followed" to the restroom because their date thought they were being ditched.

[@beewest5704]

Or you go to the bathroom & come back to find your date gone cause they thought you were ditching them.

[@althetutor]

@@beewest5704 So... Romeo and Juliette, but for modern audiences?

[@Lurkai]

@@beewest5704 I feel like the first girl should’ve said how long she waited for If you’re waiting for a whole hour and your date hasn’t come out then I’d get a little concerned and probably text/call them or something But she didn’t disclose any info between the time she got to the date and when she got home 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@cecee3480]

If someone says they need to use the bathroom I’m definitely saying me too and following them or making sure I can see where they are going. I’m not being left with someone else’s bill.

[@Lurkai]

@@cecee3480 technically if the waiter/sever saw you with two people you can justify only paying for your meal. At least that’s what I imagine

[@joshuaweiner1114]

I love how you guys communicate to each other. Great points.

[@cassaundrasolano6091]

I suppose to modify Preach’s club analogy, it’s like paying a cover charge to get into a club because the club advertises all of these attractive, awesome people. You get inside and see a bunch of weirdos, and ask an employee, “Where are all of the people you advertised would be here?” They point you to the VIP section. You shell out additional money to get into that section and start clocking a bunch of potentials. When you go to approach one of them, an employee stops you and tells you that you have to pay additional money in order to talk to someone-in fact, it costs additional for each person you want to approach. Instead of everyone being in the same space paying the same cover charge and you can approach, accept, or reject anyone.

[@Anyway_britnii]

To be honest keep first dates short, cheap and during the day (coffee, a walk at the beach, ice-cream) That way there’s less expectations on both ends and all this trauma can be avoided 😂💀

[@casebased8391]

Yup. First dates should be cheap and kept short so more time isn’t wasted if there’s no compatibility.

[@Zwird]

This was a drink date

[@NicheGreens]

​@@Zwirdshe has a full plate of food.

[@bbbbbbb51]

While I agree, a $20 dinner is a cheap short date.

[@Zwird]

@@NicheGreens I didn't see the plate at first

[@altpath]

That second girl has obviously never spoken to a guy about dating apps. They all have a paywall for men to see their DMs and respond to matches, which are probably fake to convince a guy to pay in the first place.

[@dominichutchison1322]

Criminally underrated comment

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

There was a thing on reddit where people who worked for online dating companies told their stories and one guy who worked for match and he said they told him to make fake profiles and talk to men a day or 2 before their subscription expires then ghost them after they sign up again. He also said he could see messages between people and got a free profile as part of his work and girl he was talking to was talking to another guy and he shared his number with her so he went in and deleted the message so she thought she got ghosted and the original guy ended up dating her.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

I mean, 75% of Tinder users are men. Some of the remaining percentage are bots, catfishers and fake accounts that exist solely to make men think there are more women on the app than there really are. These companies exist to make money, not to help you find love and/or sex. I'm not sure how anyone is surprised that they do things meant to part fools from their money.

[@kuja5809]

Exactly it's 1400% worse for men. Men will never in their entire lifetime even get half of the attention women get

[@itsaprilsfool]

you created a comment SO accurately on target it created a singularly point

[@Chrissycolelive]

From experience dating a therapist he was the most narcissistic gaslighting man I’ve ever met … this guy couldn’t communicate he wasn’t interested? SMH

[@NativeBloodWolf]

Same for women... Oh but you don't like that

[@tyler-ee8vl]

A therapist that cant communicate you must be the problem cause i know how girls are 😂 they be sitting there sending off "i dont want to know you vibes" expecting the convo to go good when they aren't contributing at all

[@Chrissycolelive]

@@tyler-ee8vl are you dense? She literally went on a date and the guy left her with his bill. So clearly he did not communicate he wasn’t interested. My situation is completely different. I knew a guy who was a therapist for 7 years… we were supposed to be friends but after I had my daughter with someone else he was no where to be found and blamed me why he didn’t want to be friends anymore saying he was hurt I had a child, when he never ever mentioned he wanted to date me or anything nor do he want to. He just didn’t want anyone else to have me. Very toxic behavior. Yet you assume it was me? Seek help.

[@Chrissycolelive]

@@NativeBloodWolf never said women did not. Was there a guy in the clip that got stood up? No. Can we stick to the context of the video? I’m aware women do this too. It’s bad either way.

[@NativeBloodWolf]

@@Chrissycolelive They both did something icky

[@Iamgroog]

the ad edits were good this time! nice b-roll and you kept it moving in a fast paced way that kept attention. the audio change to one of preaches part was a little jarring tho

[@vasiliosf2091]

I remember Tinder just being for hooking up. Then I started hearing about people looking for love on it. I'd always respond with "Why are looking for love on an app that's for hooking up?" and they'd look at me like I was crazy.

[@nunyabusiness2945]

Tinder always has and always will be a hookup app. Even if setting up for high value matches, the app will always devolve to hookups. If you start as a hookup app, you’ll never successfully be known to raise standards to high value matches. That’s not how life works. Edit: I should have started with “I agree with you!” Sorry. 🤜🤛

[@davantebarbain3216]

It started as a dating app but became used for hookups more and thats the current status of tinder the hook up app

[@richardgibson2158]

Still a hookup app. People are just pretentious about being whores now.

[@calleocho2107]

@@davantebarbain3216 no, it was even stated from the CEO that tinder was originally for casual encounters, which is strictly hanging out and hooking up

[@rsetha01]

😂my poor cousin is looking for true love on there, he’s probably dated like 10+ women a year and is getting upset about not settling down or finding the “one” and I have the same answer every time… “why the F on you on Tinder?” The couple I’ve met are emotionally unstable. Holy hell dude just hire a professional matchmaker at this point.

[@samantharoberts9658]

My mother actually left me stranded at a dealership before. My and my ex didn’t have a car or a ride to a dealership. So I asked my mom, she said she would take us - and I assumed she would take us home if I didn’t get a car, but she didn’t. She was using her abusive ex boyfriend’s truck and told me how he wouldn’t be happy if she took us home. I am her DAUGHTER. Stranded miles from home with no car. And it was YEARS of not seeing her. We, embarrassingly, had to ask the dealership for help and a dealership employee was kind enough to drive us home.. I was so fucking hurt and betrayed by my own mother. People WILL leave you stranded like that and it can even be your own parents.

[@Not_convinced]

Sounds like my mom. My therapist says I was raised by a narcissist. Her man gave her the kind of validation you can’t, so he’s more important to her than you are. And it sucks because no one ever believes your mom is so cold, they always assume there is something you did to deserve it

[@PHlophe]

Sam, you've had a conversation with your Momma about this since ? You need to tell her off

[@willdegra317]

Well your mother is a horrible person. Make sure you get yourself fixed before finding a mate or you risk repeating the cycle

[@laCruz40oz]

brutal.

[@aliceinwavyland]

A KZbin comment section is probably not somewhere to vent about your troubles

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

If I knew my date is the kind to record all her life for no reason I would do the same. Selfie people are a pest.

[@SweeetSpice]

I always prefer to go for coffee on a first date. That gives the option for the both of us to “cut it short” without it looking too rude if we’re not to each other’s taste. I would keep dinner for the 3rd or 4th date.

[@UzitheSaint]

I really think most would honestly, but it’s just some women specifically online saying that women shouldn’t accept that. But they’re only loud online

[@chasingsunsets87]

I hated the coffee dates. I didnt want my coffee to ruined with the potential of not being good enough. Coffee is good with friends you are going to hang out with again

[@HeliosX28]

​@@chasingsunsets87Then walk around a park that way no party has to pay and leave whenever they want...

[@rebeccashields9626]

This is the best answer. Low pressure on both ends, no alcohol involved to cloud your judgement, you still have your whole day and evening free if it doesn’t work out.

[@aliceinwavyland]

See even this for me seems too formal and structured. When you meet a good partner it's organic, whatever numbered date you're going to eat together on is the last thing on your mind

[@tiffanydegoya]

“Is that you Cindy??” 🤔🤔🤔 _VROOM_ 😂😂😂

[@jahjoeka]

"Is that you Tiffany??" 🚗💨😂

[@nunyabusiness2945]

Preach: Ty SO much for not focusing on men vs women when you were talking about the foul behavior of abandoning someone mid-date (first story). Doesn’t matter who does it, those who do that are just doing foul behavior. Most folks commenting on these videos dogpile on women doing it as if it’s ’typical female behavior’.

[@MikeMills1]

Yoh the "Unforgivable" reference was top notch for the time frame you was talking about 🤣🤣

[@BoyWonder1914]

Thought I was the only one who remembered lol

[@erikrulez17]

I quit using dating apps because it just made me feel actually alone. Hardly get a reply, and when I do it's either some bot, or chick just trying to promote her OF. --- It's like constantly applying for jobs, and they say won't hire me because I don't have experience, and I can't get any experience, because no one will hire me. --- either way the risks involved in dating aren't worth it. Can hardly think of retiring some day let alone a own a house, getting to date, marriage, having kids. paying taxes .. idk how some people do it, I hardly make ends meet, and I don't even have any baggage. I already know i'm gonna end up offing myself when old, alone, & broke. Quiet literally the only reason i'm here is for my brother, & father outside of that idk how i'm still here tbh.

[@davidukeme9218]

Bro don’t think that way. Sure life can be terrible but it’s about those little moments that bring you joy. You can’t experience happiness without sadness.

[@peaceunion5316]

Connect with God. You are clearly here for reasons beyond your knowledge right now

[@bcb5696]

@@peaceunion5316mentally weak scape goats are cringe

[@MusMasi]

Hold onto that connection you have with your Father and Brother and back each other up, so you can branch on from there. Try not to think like that, think about the small things that bring you joy and grow it from there, and if things knock you down, go back to those connections you have to know you do have a Foundation.

[@anabltc]

True, just like searching for a job, it can be soul-crushing. Apps can do a number on you, they make you cynical. Don't go that way. As long as you're healthy and have yr family, it's a lot. Find a job that makes you happy (even if it isn't something that you thought you'd be doing), possibly working among people, and build from there

[@lordindranilghosh]

Tinder was forever an app for hookups not for relationship.. tinder is what started the netflix and chill.. everyone goes there to hookup even the ones creating the app wants u to hook up and never be in a relationship that is what keeps their business going.. if u get in a relationship u delete the app and not use it anymore.. hooking up brings repeat customers to the app..

[@taridean]

Spot on. People forget it's a business at the end of the day, so the apps are designed to keep you on them. Hinge's slogan is genius marketing because it lures you in with a false reassurance.

[@thevoyagerv4499]

Hookups? well sht, used it for months and no matches. it's over

[@lordindranilghosh]

@@thevoyagerv4499 yeah it was meant for that but women only swipe the top 10% now only.. so tinder is loosing a lot of men as they r wasting money and no results and men are getting scammed in foodie calls so they lost a lot of traffic

[@not0mrh]

Found my partner there 😂 we're on our 6th year together.

[@manzelllyles1804]

Abba is right. I live in NYC. Everyone was talking about Tindr & Grindr were hook-up apps; no dating, no nada. Grindr was moreso for gay men, but it was crazy in it told you exactly how close (and how many) other Grindr users were in your IMMEDIATE vicinity. It was ALL about the hook-up.

[@bakura0]

Lmao?!?!?! I got that last reference lol . Remind me of that short story with this black dude in he title called unforgivable It had some parts. Dude was going about his story telling about his girl he was with. The whole time it was hilarious. 😂 beautiful now I want to re watch that video. That should be very old. But yeah. I be wanting to get me on those dating apps hoping I can like snag be a nice women for me. Desperate just a bit but hoping to have a nice relationship. Nothing wrong with that. I still be able to make friend with people during my off time of work but those people I be encounter on the street can be toxic. But everything has a balance and good and bad. We just gotta pick our own poison in the end..

[@victoriadream]

Her going on the date without a reliable source of transportation + not carrying enough money on hand for taxi or Uber is a whole big ass red flag… My mother told me never let a guy pick you up on the first date so he doesn’t know where you live, don’t let him know you live alone & don’t complain abt car trouble - call a friend for car problems & phone a friend for a backup ride.. Don’t leave for a date without money to at least pay for a ride & your half of the date… That was a sign from god when she needed her car jumped.. she should not have left for the date & worried abt her car/money problems.

[@Astoldbyginquita]

💯

[@Godsbackhand7]

The rule for any man or woman who are dating is to have on hand/in a. Out, sufficient funds to pay for the date twice without feeling negatively impacted. If you cannot do this, you cannot afford that particular date.

[@true_plays_games]

How any of this even needs to be explained is wild.

[@bluegiraffe9407]

I got a strong feeling watching this that there was no guy and that she made it all up to get views. The whole thing seemed very fake to me. She also looked drunk and/or not mentally stable during her venting session.

Yeah but let's not ignore the fact that buddy is a therapist and decided to bounce on her. Man saw huge red flags with her.

[@markaym3735]

People are so mean and unkind. Just no sense of kindness for anyone.

[@1whitedan]

its main character syndrome...they dont think or care about anyone else but themselfs, everyone else is just an NPC there for entertainment...absolute narcicism

[@alltheworldsastage8597]

That’s what happens when you live in a godless society that promotes Thelema.

[@ashleysanford8645]

She was so obnoxious on the way to the date that he had to bail! That's all that makes sense

[@cealabeala4367]

​@@ashleysanford8645 then he should have the balls to tell her he was leaving and pay his bill like an adult. His behaviour was cowardly.

[@Zwird]

People that are rude like this need to be banned from the apps

[@Blaineisawarlock]

I recognize that my problem is with what you started to say at 15:57. I know that's my issue. My problem is that I just assume no one shares my interests. I like so many different things and am accepting of other people's interests, yet I won't even bring mine up since I just feel like they won't care. I treat other people better than myself in my head and because of this, I don't go anywhere. I don't do anything other than morning gym before work. Any advice from anyone?

[@PeacefulSeraph]

You'd be surprised at how many people share interests but they don't have the courage to bring it up in conversation because they don't want them shut down. I always talk about my interests, & I ask theirs- that's not even 100% foolproof because some things they're just embarrassed by. I say, just be you, live your best life, & if someone shuts down your interests as "weird" or "creepy" (when you know they're beige flags at worst) then, move on. I'm naturally introverted anyways, I accept a lot of people look down on my hobbies- gaming, reading manga, drawing... lol! It's whatever, find your tribe & best of luck to you ✌️

[@OwnedByTheState]

Well what are your interests? Even if it's not something common, there are others also interested in the same thing. Try a club, class, or convention that overlaps with those interests, you will find like-minded people there.

[@Mongo-ui1ll]

I am 60 and Aba and Preach are my guilty pleasure hahaha love you guys so much. You make me laugh out loud! ❤

[@kilometersnoblue4311]

Yea the apps ruined it for both genders and tbh we F-girl and F-boy as a term for a reason. Half the people can’t communicate, can’t say “we don’t click but you are chill”. And tbh it’s sad but if you ain’t married already good luck. At 33 as a Dj, my industry’s full of people like this. And it’s only gonna get worse.

[@SASMADBRUV7]

Not to use stereotypes but I'm not expecting to find wifey material in your industry if you're a DJ

[@Jeremy-wp4yh]

​@@SASMADBRUV7who's says he's meeting girls at party's to wife up? I think what OP meant is that he meets hundreds of people who act like this and are still single.

[@kawehionalani3957]

@@SASMADBRUV7Stereotypes are a time saver.

[@SASMADBRUV7]

@@Jeremy-wp4yh it's when he said if you're not married then good luck

[@nachooos7530]

My husband, a DJ, found his wife. me. a tattoo artist :D I think it's hard for everyone (everyone normal, not fboys/fgirls) to find a legit person. if you are real, you will find a real person-just don't tell ppl you are a DJ, trash is always attracted to titles.

[@wayentruoc]

So I did this kinda, Took a girl to the movies, she picked up her phone mid movie and started arguing with her ex in the movie. I got up went to my car and drove home 🤷🏾‍♂️. Blocked and deleted her off everything.

[@xXBlacky77Xx]

good on you lol

[@brooklynforever1990]

Don’t blame you!

[@bhante1345]

Why block them? Think of all the sport trolling you're missing out on.

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

You didn’t do what he did. You paid for your movie and snacks at least.

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

Lots of guys have been used so many times that as soon as they figure out this is a woman out for a free meal (called a "foodie call"), they walk. Ladies, as a group if you want normal guys to not treat you like shit, stop being pieces of it.

[@1faithchick7]

Wow, you really just justified a guy not paying for his meal huh? There is nothing wrong with walking out if you pay. There is if you don't pay. It's also wild you assume the person who did nothing wrong was the cause. You're giving me big 'I had to have sex outside the marriage because my wife would have sex every time I wanted it' energy right now. Sometimes the guy is the pos in the situation for no reason. Sometimes the woman is. Seeing people through the lense of gender to the point you automatically think one person is right or wrong just based on the gender is wild.

[@emma2370]

@@1faithchick7technically it was just a drink. It’s not like he bought a steak dinner. It’s still rude though.

[@nunyabusiness2945]

You really read a lot extra into that. What shall we blame all men for because of you? Being shallow and willfully ignorant? ORRR you could refrain from stereotypes and stop feeding the tribalism.

[@captainamado]

Abba described how tinder worked from the start correctly. App was for casual sex and then so my women tried to force it into a relationship app. Tinder met them half way just to get more women to sign on but the app always was and always will be for casual sex just much much worse now

[@Woozy.0]

The therapist clocked the BPD in the first hour, and needed that drink to climb out the bathroom window

[@MusMasi]

BPD can be hell to deal with, especially the distortion campaigns. I know not all BPD sufferers do this but if you have been stung a few times you become extremely wary.

[@Zheratul]

Yeah. Something happened during the date, all he got was a drink.

[@benja303]

​@@Zheratulshould have communicated like an adult

[@tweatification]

Yeah, somethings not mathing up for a dude to just bail like that.

[@VideoCesar07]

@@tweatification Some people are just natural born cowards and instead of being honest and saying the just didn't feel like it was gonna go well, offer to at least pay for a ride home or something he just left. True, dunno what might have happened on the way there but the vibe I get he just runs away from things he doesn't like rather than be a stand up guy.

[@Tang0Fox1]

This is why in the Cartibbean they say walk with your "vex money" for such a situation.

[@atrapdr6251]

For real 😭

[@beewest5704]

My gran called it titty money. You always have enough money in your bra under your tit to get you home no matter who takes you out. Lol.

[@andrephillips7764]

Facts.

[@shemwell4782]

Guyanese mother's motto

[@Jellybane411]

I’m from Texas. What’s vex money mean?

[@kingfavy6740]

I think the problem is too many matches at your finger tips makes you too picky. Yea and social media makes it worse. And i do believe too much online dating makes everything worse.

[@GearGolemTMF]

Man we had those 2.3 megapixel digital cameras and those IPhone 3/ Droids working back in the day. Never knew what you'd get unless you could make something out of the soupy picture. No filters to save you back then.

[@WalkerSportsLounge]

7:30 Turning the computer screen off with H3H3 playing is gold Getting ad revenue while slick dissing. Aba and Preach at their finest

[@chanelno.5560]

I was just about to write my appreciation for the comedy 😅 👌🏽

[@terraventusaqua123]

Of course. They can’t keep clowning of F&F now that their platform has gotten substantially smaller.

[@WalkerSportsLounge]

Yes they can lol​@@terraventusaqua123

[@onewhocollects6658]

​@@terraventusaqua123or maybe because H3H3 keeps talking about them and F&F doesn't?

[@calisavakaricotoni619]

Sneak diss not slick

[@lisablack4290]

"How am I supposed to talk to you?" 💀 Telepathically, of course.

[@DtehHermit]

Gonna need the Neurolink lol

[@bhante1345]

Not if you cane enough Ketamine. ​@@DtehHermit

[@arnauda.1609]

I think what she's saying is that based on the data they collect on you, people that would be more likely to be a match for you have a tendency to be ones that you have to pay for to actually match with them and ones that are just Meh matches you just swipe right on. Essentially the more compatible you are to them, the more likely you are to have to pay to match with them.

[@TheeLeodraco]

LOL i had a Bumble and a hinge AD watching this video lol

[@kennylesenyeho17]

Man, dating apps destroyed my confidence. Girls would match with me just to not talk to me. All I did was just swipe with no progress.

[@anabltc]

I'm sorry that it happened to you and so many others. Those matches just fed their egos. Loads of M and F are like that on apps. Some ppl really find partners but the apps are not meant for that. Try the real life, some hobby in a social environment. Have fun and build yrself up in a healthy way. In the end, nobody can be sure to find love, but do what matters to you and do yr best

[@kennylesenyeho17]

@@anabltc Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it. I’m trying to focus more on me. Heck, doing a solo trip to another country for the first time to prove I can do it. Been doing well so far. Going to get back to running and gaming again.

[@skyemilk]

Its an Ego trip

[@kennylesenyeho17]

@@skyemilk one of my guy friends told me he does that too to boost his confidence. I mean I get it but the people at the receiving end lose confidence. I understand that they are not responsible for our lack of confidence. It just sucks, that’s all I’m saying.

[@leehalloway8787]

Don't even trip. A lot of people online are bots or there to play games. Online seems to bring out the worst people. I wouldn't take it personally.

[@xtheflabeox8813]

Turning off H3 H3 in the middle of your ad saying you were suppressing unwanted noise was fantastic😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Ian-fb6er]

Problem too is that what you put on an app isn't necessarily what you need for a good solid relationship. I met my wife in my church group so we already had similar foundation and values and if we didn't have that everything would be so much more difficult

[@Dunki113]

People say you gotta go out and meet people to find a relationship but how? All I ever get told to do is go to bars and such but I don't drink and being sober trying to hook up with drunk people just seem creepy in that context alone. I simply have no clue on how to interact with people and meeting them.

[@zepheral7125]

Finally, someone with actual sense. Next, someone will say "Go youtube it.", instead of actually trying to help and explaining it. Or have an argument about why you should do better or around those lines.

[@Kevin-qr6rx]

I would say treat it as a video game with your primary mission being to live an enjoyable and fulfilling life. In this case having hobbies works well and exploring your local area. I don't go to bars/clubs that often (1x a month and usually solo). A few times out of the week I have a list of places in my surrounding areas that I want to visit (having an enjoyable life). It can be musuems, parks, book shops, malls, arcades, etc. Heck I can even pick up a martial art or learn salsa or do yoga. My primary mission is to have an enjoyable experience and it is through that I sometimes come across attractive women. Like a videogame, there are side objectives in your main missions that you can complete that gives you additional rewards (ie. approaching that attractive woman for a relationship or to hookup with her). If you live near the beach, you can go to the beach. If you have a downtown area, then go to your downtown area. Volunteer in something you are interested in. I know in my area, we have arcade bars. If traditional bars and clubs aren't your style, then look for something more niche. There's also an app called "Meetup" where you can join groups and events these groups posted. You can even create your own group based on one of your interests and host an event (online or in person). There's also another app called "Eventbrite" where you can look for local events in your area as well. This is how you can meet other people.

[@s52pana]

Go to the grocery store. Women who cook will be looking for ingredients in the produce section. You're welcome

[@MBelizariusz]

Dark Times when we ask where to meet other ppl

[@Kevin-qr6rx]

@@MBelizariusz I can't argue with that. I was a homebody and wasn't that social when I was younger. I have OP the tools, but ultimately it's up to him to use it.

[@nora8653]

Every week Hinge selects 5 people that they think are the best match for you. You cannot just swipe /like them, you have to send a rose. You get one free rose a week so if you want to like/swipe more than one of them you have to buy roses. Those people don’t come up in your regular choices. That is what she was saying.

[@darkslider802]

Actually there is a work around....if you X on all of them they will pop up in your regular feed....I'm surprised they haven't fixed it yet

[@mrblackbond]

Abba clearly did not understand then tried to gaslight preach. That was annoying. Abba, if you’re not using hinge, don’t speak on it. I noticed the change in their algorithm a few years ago and it was beyond annoying. If you don’t pay, you won’t see the folks you normally would swipe on. They know this based on who you “like”/match with. You have to pay.

[@mrblackbond]

@@darkslider802this makes no sense bc eventually you will need to actually “like” ones you actually are interested in…. What else is the point of the app. Your comment is asinine at best.

[@CoOlKyUbI96]

I know what you’re talking about. Technically Hinge is deceiving you. What the app doesn’t tell you is that those five people they select are the ones who Hinge thinks are best matches for you. But also are profiles with a lot of activity. Meaning that they already get lots of people liking their profile frequently

[@BimmerBros]

This apps sound terribly complicated nowadays 😂

[@Necrotic99]

Gotta love how the girl says that the apps have gone downhill, blame hinge for declining for placing her good matches behind a pay wall but said it was better originally and she had tons of matches.....Lady, why didn't you find your forever after when you were surrounded by your perfect matches? Sounds like she needs to look at herself instead of blaming the app

[@capo4270]

The old husband store joke has now become reality These women can't help but play the "what if the next guy" game Until the wall arrives

[@CoOlKyUbI96]

@@capo4270and that’s exactly what all these dating apps excel at. In some ways you could argue it shares some similarities with gambling. Why settle for the option presented in front of you when you can swipe and get a potentially better option?

[@JohnGalt916]

Its almost like she didnt know businesses were made to make money😂.

[@NativeBloodWolf]

She even had someone to asked to show his face so they can say something, and she did for reason, these women are snakes

[@NativeBloodWolf]

And the fact she an "independent feminist" who was offered a ride

[@Counter_Culture_Commentary]

The floor noise my guy!!!! It’s been years now lol ❤

[@austinpowell2710]

Grab coffee and talk at the coffee spot or go on a walk. Too many people go to a restaurant or bar which is not a good first date. 2nd date, sure! Now you have some rapport. My rule 1st date, casual, something we can do and chat. 2nd date, fun date, mini golf, maybe some alcohol. Third date, dinner(restaurant, offer to cook). Dinner for first date is so intimidating and leaves plenty of space for dead air. Going to a bar in a first date tells me you’re insecure without a vice.

[@beautifulstrange7057]

“Create trauma, create demand” lmfaooo

[@levinitabarlow9569]

The world system

[@chumleyk]

Correct. Tinder launched as the hetero version of Grindr that was already making waves in that community. Eventually it expanded to all forms of relationship but never shook off it's original 'mission' forcing spin offs by former employees like Bumble. Now Tinder is focussing on the sugar daddy (plausibly deniable escorting) with their new very expensive membership option because they see that sugar dating websites are making waves (when young girls on school playgrounds start bragging about how they want a sugar daddy when they're old enough you know that it's become normalized and a cultural phenomenon.. like OF.). Capitalism. God help us all. Sex is profitable, serious relationships aren't.

[@emdo.unlimited555]

Haha one can deny, it won't be plausible.

[@vicegripp]

The oldest trade ever in history. Sex will always sell.

[@willdegra317]

Blame capitalism and not the natural state of women in a feminist environment. Women all want to extract resources from men, feminist societies encourage the transparency and behavior of S working

[@CoOlKyUbI96]

I thought it was the other way around? That Grindr arrived after Tinder

[@Torgomasta]

Lol it isn’t property rights’ fault that people are promiscuous. Sometimes an economic system can’t be blamed for everything, but hey, makes you sound smart!

[@bigheadrhino]

That’s basically petty theft. He literally stole money from her.

[@krissib3394]

It was London, Stratford Olympics. KZbin was originally a dating site. You just described a new feature for a dating app; in fact, you described a whole concept for a dating app. LMFAO

[@HBKwayne]

2014 tinder had the group date feature. Where you could have your friend group match with groups. Them 2 man & 3 man missions were legendary.

[@brodrickflowers117]

The girl trying to tell the "history" of online dating apps and lying in the first 15 seconds is tough work lol.

[@MusMasi]

Might be she is misinformed and not deliberately lying, but she should do her research then and not open her mouth on something if she is that ignorant on the subject and try an lecture on it.

[@benja303]

Lying is the wrong word

[@SpikeRazzor]

​@@benja303Lying is the correct world. It's 2024, information is free and plentiful, so to push misinformation pretty much outs you as a fraud.

[@smithsmith1956]

It's best to fact check anything women say. They love to omit important information and misrepresent things.

[@Marcustrh]

@@benja303no she lied. It was never branded as the app to find love as per Aba reading of the article sighting tinder’s rise.😂 she also said it came out when she was in high school in 2010. Aba read the article that said the app launched in 2012.

[@The1WinningTeam]

"Create Trauma, Create demand" 😭😭😭 oh my gosh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Ultra1884]

I'm older too. I've used apps but never Tinder. It has always been for hookups.

[@thehsnobs]

I remember HI5... it was big in Montreal back in the day.

[@cptsteele91]

Well...browsing the comments I can see why interpersonal relationships have been twisted into a weird marketplace thing rather than...y'know forming a relationship with a person

[@STEPHx1911]

My theory is that all the people with brains and are decent will leave the dating apps inevitably leaving said apps with the worst/dumbest people. I’d be fine with that. They can all be each other’s problem

[@flowerbloom5782]

Yeah. It’s just easier for deceptive people to be deceive online. Meeting people through real life is just more unfiltered and you meeting a real person.

[@CorinthianIvory]

Don't underestimate how much people love convenience

[@STEPHx1911]

@@CorinthianIvory Yeah, me personally tho I get over it. McDonald's is on the way between my stops at times but I have better food at home. Thats just me tho

[@Ry14630]

The only thing I learned from this video is how to pick my nose with a tissue... got any tips on saving the tp? I already know the 1 ply trick but need a few more.. lol

[@alicea5]

2:02 LOL. He says it so well. 😂

[@darcspeagal2]

Unaccountable. She went out of her way to explain the history of the dating apps completely wrong to make men look majority low quality. The truth is people today are shallow about their standards but dont want to seem like it so much, so they die on the hill that everyone sucks when most people would make the most loving supporting partners if we just stopped being greedy.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

She's a woman what do you expect 😂. They have no integrity

[@Tickerchicken]

She said her type is ‘went to ivy and works in corporate America’ she’s mid and wants a successful smart guy

[@1Plebeian]

​@@Tickerchicken my type is a millionaire who's easy to emotionally manipulate 😂

[@BlaxkSun]

This specifically her experience, and you can say that’s her choice, but you don’t know someone is a asshole til they show you

[@theezenriarinze9203]

@@BlaxkSun What you said doesn't even make sense because she's not speaking about her experience she literally attempted to give a history of dating apps and lied about everything 😂

[@AP-gk6se]

I met girls on hot or not in the early 2000s. it was great because not a lot of dudes were online because it was not cool. And all the women were like "if anyone asks we met at the library". it was down hill from there.

[@leehalloway8787]

I found that Okcupid was great when it first came out.

[@jmorgan7317]

@@leehalloway8787 i met alot of girls on Okcupid when it just started, it was really good. Got hookups and relationships. Checked back on it few months ago and had to delete. Our times were so much easier.

[@beewest5704]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@TruthxAR]

@@leehalloway8787 okc was 38 fire emojis

[@AP-gk6se]

@@leehalloway8787 Plenty of fish wasnt bad either at first. me a few women there.

[@josephc.3839]

He seen what was coming down the road and said hell no!

[@MusicProducerGameDeveloper]

Speed Dating looks fun and challenging never been but would like to go one day In Atlanta i stay near not to from the city Now on the Dating apps they suck because 1 they allow anybody to contact especially without getting premium 2 the location filter sucks because they either have not enough people in your area sign up or there is a bug/glitch in the system 3 oh boy it sucks certain Dating apps don't have video capabilities for facetime and profile videos 4 the age filter it's the same as location not getting what you want 5 interest filter sucks as well i am a homebody staycation and baecation introvert gamer Sucks that you can't match with a person who shares your common interests Sucks all around

[@torachan23]

There is a lot she isnt telling us. You tell me a man went out of his way to pick you up, go to a restaurant, ONLY ORDER A DRINK when he theoretically couldve finessed you for more, and left? Nah there's more to this story.

[@marlonw.5097]

Haha true I get what you mean.

[@easylife6348]

Facts mane, this shit isn’t adding up like why he asked her on a date just to mysteriously leave. Men don’t do stuff like that without a reason.

[@gregkareem9824]

​@@easylife6348stop cursing its a sin

[@chrisjohnson2065]

She seems to be on shit from the beginning to me. Or is she just like all that?

[@marlonw.5097]

@@easylife6348 true. I mean you’d almost hope that she’s telling the truth given that she had the nerve to post his picture, and potentially ruin his career and personal life. It’s unbelievable the lows people will stoop to once you refuse to put up with their bullsh**.

[@koolaid1314]

7:25 Ngl throwing shade in the middle of a promotional ad is actually crazy lol Well timed 😂😂😂👌🏽

[@CARLOSF11]

Old enough for Hi5 😂 Don't forget Migente, Blackplanet, AsianAvenue etc 😅

[@bengherasim9286]

Great show guys as always but damn that floor squeaky mad

[@benjamincaddle2018]

Literally women are dating the same men because they shrank they're dating pool and those men are having fun being in high demand. The fact women use an app called "are we dating the same guy" says a lot about dating.

[@ButterflyyyXoxo]

Most people dating online are dating the same people. That being said Most people do not use dating apps so they're not having that issue.

[@Link_Skywalker007]

Exactly, they scream men are cheaters and fboys but that's because they all want the "666". 6 figures, 6 foot, 6 pack. Lol. Most men are not that lol. And if they don't have that man, he is a place holder until she manufactures a way to get out of being with him or cheats. Recognize female nature. The consider the 1% as all men, there is no use telling her there are more genuine men, they don't care lol

[@renenetatm8222]

If you are not going to keep those dishonest men accountable, you are part of the problem

[@Zwird]

If you live in a small city your chances of dating the same person increases, women who are online dating aren't dating one guy at a time hoping it sticks when they have a bunch of other options available.

[@Link_Skywalker007]

@@renenetatm8222 we will as long as you keep dishonest women accountable also. Don't scream at men but whisper at women. Keep the same energy

[@saerbhreathach540]

We only get one side to this story, her side. We have absolutely no idea what was actually said/done during the start of the date...maybe she was so "out to lunch" guy felt instantly bugging out was the only way. Maybe she put off major confrontational vibes and so guy decided to avoid that BS. We simply do not know BECAUSE the only side of the story we're getting is her's...🤷🏼‍♂️

[@gregkareem9824]

Stop cursing its a sin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.......

[@itsdw2323]

A man doesn’t just run out, block her on all socials for no reason. Tell us what you told him pls.

[@Drageisha]

A man wouldn't run & block for no reason, but a BOY definitely would. He ordered that drink as "payment" for picking her up at home. No one has to behave themselves on the internet & he most likely got a better offer.

[@itsdw2323]

@@Drageisha i can tell your a woman by how stupidly biased your comment was.

[@KayKay-or6cd]

Yes they would!! 😂

[@itsdw2323]

@@Drageisha that comment was so stupidly bias. I can tell your a woman.

[@bummblebee77]

Maybe you're onto something. If he was going to go through all that trouble just to bail, why only order a drink? Wouldn't he have ordered an appetizer and then a large main meal? Maybe he saw red flags and fled as soon as possible.

[@crystalfierro2877]

It is a fact, I had a few dating apps for 2 days, I was super overwhelmed and deleted it.

[@jazzysimz_8]

This is why I deleted Hinge, it was getting ridiculous I had good conversations with people but it never went anywhere and at this point I kept getting the same people on my feed and the people that "liked me" was quite humbling as a lot of people had said too, because they were not my type. I had it for months and held on for as long as i could and I got the hint that I would have to pay in order to get at least "decent" people nah.

[@mishaa7263]

I moved underneath a rock last year and i'm loving it

[@SparkOutUs]

Why?

[@ponorj]

😂

[@vinceee_r]

Is this patrick?

[@kopykat6843]

Must be nice. I hope one day you at least expand to a hobbit hole. Looks very comfy.

[@SuberExtraMan]

Aba's appearance continuity in the ads is fckn gold ahahah

[@notchristina542]

Yup. Ancient one here: I have never used tinder. I remember when it came out and it was not for serious dating. When someone said they met someone on that app, you knew what time it was.

[@RealSigmaQueen]

Back in the 90’s and early 00’s, on most dating sites men paid for membership and women were free to join. And before the websites there were chatlines where you talked to people and met sight unseen. No pics, just a voice. Kind of like love is blind.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

And before that, it was personal ads in newspapers.

[@barongerhardt]

@@AngryReptileKeeper And before that it was some lady at church/temple/friendly gathering with the perfect niece or nephew.

[@zoeshaclarke8315]

@@barongerhardtOddly enough, my pastor is trying to set me up with her nephew, the good ways never stop, lol!

[@Durmomo0]

Its wild seeing some of those personal ads from 100-150 years ago @@AngryReptileKeeper

[@franklinwarning7031]

Most men on these apps kind off still pay for memberships and women not. Because if you have 10 likes for example, the app will most of the time not present them to you. In other words, some people swipe for weeks without finding 1 match. Paying kind of helps getting pushed more forward. Women can swipe once or twice and have a match.

[@improvwithlions4173]

I uninstalled dating apps a few years ago because I don't connect with people over seeing a few photos and knowing whether or not they think pineapple on pizza is wack. I second guessed myself about whether I was rejecting profiles too easily and ultimately only went on one (unsuccessful, awkward) date over fourish years of trying them on off. It felt very one sided all of the time. If I got a rose from anybody I'd probably crawl into a hole out of shame. I'd hate the sense that I was obligated to talk to them because they wasted their two bucks or whatever too. I'm lucky I was able to meet someone the old fashioned way not too long after I realized dating apps weren't for me.

[@IkeVictor]

What a OG youtube reference! lol….”want some waffle fries 😤…” most won’t get that haha