IQ vs Emotional Intelligence - Daniel Goleman Emotional Intelligence Book Summary

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@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 7 жыл бұрын
💡"High level of Emotional Intelligence can ensure you to get the job more easily: 71% of top managers find Emotional Intelligence more important for business than IQ, and 59% would immediately reject the candidate with high IQ, but low EQ!" (Freedman, 2014) Thanks for watching guys! Make sure to Sub if you haven't already :) ► 💪 bit.ly/MinionNoMore
@joemorrow8696
@joemorrow8696 7 жыл бұрын
MinionNoMore Hi do you have an one on one coaching program?
@Wilcosach
@Wilcosach 5 жыл бұрын
For average jobs you need high EQ person because he will be interacting with a lot of people. For specialized jobs you need high IQ person and it doesn't matter whether he has high EQ or not although it's desirable. He just need to do the job very few can do. I wouldn't hire a high IQ person to work at a Mcdonald branch. He would surely fail. I would hire him like to find me a cure for HIV. Now imagine how easy it is to find a job for a person with high EQ and how hard it is to find a job for a high IQ person.
@magicboi859
@magicboi859 4 жыл бұрын
Minions movie
@user-co4xl7wx3q
@user-co4xl7wx3q 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this video is incredibly thorough and complete with examples where they really count 👍 perfect video to introduce the concept of EQ and plant the seeds to get the audience thinking and examining their thoughts more critically.
@chukybliz7546
@chukybliz7546 11 ай бұрын
Very impressive…persons with High EQ views situation and try to learn and also make people understand why they act the way they act to make them better. They are more interested in making people discover there inbuilt abilities instead of allowing them remaining the way they have always been for years. They can predict a lot. Good job.
@crypttoxic5451
@crypttoxic5451 6 жыл бұрын
I have been doing a lot of research lately on how to better myself successfully and how to grow as a better person and Emotional Intelligence is something that I believe is extremely amazing. Watching your video has truly showed me that Academics isn't everything. I am currently 19 now and a sophomore in college and one of the biggest things my father has done is attempt to show me that there's more to success then just school. That most successful people did not make it using their degree or acedemic knowledge. So with that, I'd like to thank you for helping me understand more about this topic and understand what I can do now to better myself, and to help make my goals a reality.
@samara6811
@samara6811 7 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video on so many levels Minion I wish you a million views!
@sergeantpepper1033
@sergeantpepper1033 7 жыл бұрын
great video Indeed
@inthetrencheswithcas1762
@inthetrencheswithcas1762 3 жыл бұрын
Mate this is a horse shit theory about faking your actual feeling to be liked for promotion or favour it’s fake news and you swallowed it whole
@KenGreen-tm7si
@KenGreen-tm7si 3 жыл бұрын
I believe this emotional intelligence he’s speaking of is your ability to manipulate and capitalize on the emotions of others. This is great! 👍
@kingdrew5083
@kingdrew5083 3 жыл бұрын
facts
@tiffanyglaspie563
@tiffanyglaspie563 10 ай бұрын
LMAO!!!! Not at all……what you speak of is actually called Narcissism! 🙄
@masonhansen608
@masonhansen608 9 ай бұрын
Yea, he speaks way more than just about ones abilities amongst the public. It's more of a video of tips to think of things in a less straining way. Huge point, to me, when he dropped the 80% of thoughts are bad thoughts. Definitely walked away with a lot from this one ❤
@TravelingZebra
@TravelingZebra 2 ай бұрын
@@tiffanyglaspie563Manipulation doesn’t equal Narcissism, there is a thing called positive manipulation, manipulating for the benefit of everyone does exist
@tiffanyglaspie563
@tiffanyglaspie563 2 ай бұрын
@Travelingzebra That’s an extremely ignorant statement. When dealings with “everyone” you shouldn’t have to “manipulate for good”. Manipulate and good don’t even belong in the same sentence. To use honesty to lead the group and be able to get your agenda approved by all is the only way to do it without backlash.
@michaelhoppe3920
@michaelhoppe3920 5 ай бұрын
This video is AMAZING!!! I am currently taking a Human Intelligence course in which we discussed EI/EQ and this did such an amazing job at explaining and demonstrating scenarios that apply to the different domains. Thank you so much for the hard work put into this video. So great. I am going to suggest its use to my professor because it is a shame this isn't already a resource that they have integrated and included for students. Again, this is SO GOOD!!!
@bussyhaver
@bussyhaver 7 жыл бұрын
Mad respect for this one, my friend. Subscribed.
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot!
@azaleaslightsage1271
@azaleaslightsage1271 5 жыл бұрын
This is so true I have a High IQ got me nowhere Due to ALOT of abuses neglect as a child, My emotional intelligence was at a 10yro level, I was stuck in childhood emotionally, I used Emotional intelligence to heal myself from CPTSD ...PTSD... SEVERE ANXIETY...HYPERVIGGILENCE... Depression few other nasties, This completely changed my life, I now teach people Emotional intelligence for a living, specializing is teenagers (That had Adverse Childhood Experiences) teaching them to Re-parent themselves with Emotional intelligence This helps them tremendously & changes thier lives into the Positives & changes the cycle they were repeating from thier Parents/environment Great video explaining this ✌⚡💖
@sariyusulaimon9085
@sariyusulaimon9085 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting! Would like to understand more about social and self management
@s-a-mw2168
@s-a-mw2168 7 жыл бұрын
Your vid got me interested in Emotional Intelligence Where can I take an Emotional Intelligence test?
@Ben-nx7yy
@Ben-nx7yy 6 жыл бұрын
What are your sources for the graphs? And images you show?
@azaleaslightsage1271
@azaleaslightsage1271 5 жыл бұрын
Who cares it's true
@inthetrencheswithcas1762
@inthetrencheswithcas1762 3 жыл бұрын
Yep this is Fake News to appease lefties
@Ben-nx7yy
@Ben-nx7yy 3 жыл бұрын
@@inthetrencheswithcas1762 um idk why you think its political or why you are making it political lmao
@Ben-nx7yy
@Ben-nx7yy 3 жыл бұрын
@@azaleaslightsage1271 tell me youre a sheep/follower without telling me youre a sheep/follower
@LocXly
@LocXly 8 ай бұрын
Not many people understand what eq is. Solution solver, understand the people you are working with, utilize skill set of certain individuals
@nnajivalentine2009
@nnajivalentine2009 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this video it has helped me in a big way
@handle11141
@handle11141 5 жыл бұрын
EQ is excellent for personal emotional management. However, I doubt its success in an organizational setting. Working within the emotional framework as a group increases the likeliness of a consensus based resolution, based on present state instead of analytically sound decisions. Moreover, it becomes a question of fairness to all rather than clear-cut Merritt based benefits. Most importantly, EQ is often communicated within groups by way of an analogy, though highly efficient at setting resolve and declaring behavioral expectations, it can also be the cause of failure if not readdressed or modified in order to keep the competitive edge. Emotions in general can be changed with a cup of coffee or a pack of sugar.
@YaniitaLinda
@YaniitaLinda 3 жыл бұрын
Organizational settings include interaction with others, right? I believe that EQ is important to have in the handling of these beings on a professional, and business level. It makes perfect sense why those of higher emotional intelligence achieve more. Or however he stated it. I think we have been bred and conditioned for so long through a combination of these education systems, the types of "foods" we are given, the media, the music we listen to, propaganda,social media etc have all taught us to mismanage our emotions in some way or another. And for some kind of instant gratification :/ .. We got used to it, and it shows. And failure can be involved with anything. Maybe higher EQ ppl are more risk takers? Maybe makes sense why many are leaders in business?🙆 And a cup of coffee or sugar just alters your physiological state, and does the same thing cocaine does to your brain. Using that to keep emotions in check just sounds unhealthy.... So much to unlearn and relearn here. This world and much of the shit in it is so baffling to me -_- lol
@domi69ify
@domi69ify 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t sound like you understand EQ too well. I hope you know that high EQ is the ability to easily recognize, understand and properly manage the emotions of your own and of others. In no way does that mean an increased likelihood of a consensus based resolution or questions of “fairness to all.” Ironically, not understanding that might indicate an average or lower EQ. High EQ definitely doesn’t mean just placating emotions with other emotions, pacifying everyone around you by avoiding possible negative emotions or a “cup of coffee.” High EQ is purely about recognizing, understanding and properly managing emotions. Humans are complex social creatures that experience emotions. Trying to downplay EQ is ignorant. Good luck with your belief and all 8 billion of us on this planet.
@thebariexplore7279
@thebariexplore7279 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative. Thanks a lot.
@YaniitaLinda
@YaniitaLinda 3 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SUCHHHH A GREAT VIDEO and explains much of what I have been questioning about myself especially lately. Thank you for your break down, your visuals and your video attachments. Really, I got tears in my eyes how grateful (and surprised lol) I am for finding your video. I appreciate you 🙏🏼
@aamirarain6309
@aamirarain6309 4 жыл бұрын
I guess it is going to be a life changing lesson. Well done
@anneka896
@anneka896 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic Video!!!
@Nemesis_T_Type
@Nemesis_T_Type 4 жыл бұрын
IQ is only useful if you are working in a field that requires analysis. Even then your toxic work environment may affect your career growth and high IQ people are very emotionally sensitive. That stoic face that they do is just a mask. EQ on the other hand is important in almost every aspect of life because if you want to be successful you have to deal with people. High EQ people are charismatic and good at manipulating people to do their bidding. Confrontations are a normal thing for high EQ people and they thrive in it.
@jasonmask7440
@jasonmask7440 6 жыл бұрын
Eq is taught in School, from positive education programs or being taught not to lash out. and "stop it I don't like it" I learned that in school. most schools don't have a subject for it but, to say it isn't taught is overstating. we learn most of our social skills in school, including Eq.
@oMeGa0122
@oMeGa0122 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man i have a very low EQ. And i suffer most of my life. My very high IQ makes me suffer even more because of the imbalance. Im not very successful in life. One more step and i could fall away. But if it happened would it matter? I cannot tell if i should go or stay. Same old picture feels so hollow. And I always wonder how can anybody knows whats best for me. It is just another page i turn in shame. My decisions brought me to my knees. I always needed someone to blame. It just feels so hollow. However, it is time to do what is best for me. I believe i can change. Thanks for the video
@agnirelaxgaming
@agnirelaxgaming 2 жыл бұрын
Practice Meditation, yoga , taichi, prayer to increase Eq. I tried them it worked a little bit. if u r not interested in prayer then do other.
@kenishasamuels3621
@kenishasamuels3621 4 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video thoroughly
@emmaebuz
@emmaebuz 4 жыл бұрын
U did a fantastic job
@ghaida2259
@ghaida2259 5 жыл бұрын
A very helpful , so thankful and will use some of its information
@matemathiasgranic9856
@matemathiasgranic9856 6 жыл бұрын
thanks for the video! really nice work
@evelynbacwa1831
@evelynbacwa1831 5 жыл бұрын
I have learnt a great deal. thank you
@latashetty2329
@latashetty2329 2 жыл бұрын
Enriching video
@jonnylpenman
@jonnylpenman 6 жыл бұрын
I've been told my EQ is really low but my IQ is 149... RIP ME
@henrikswanstrom9218
@henrikswanstrom9218 5 жыл бұрын
It's your brain. Not really much you can do. Either you find something sad or you don't. Trying to 'train' your EQ is kinda the same thing like psycopaths studying people so they can learn how to blend in. You'll be able to 'cope' better but it's not genuine. It's more like knowing the answers because you've studied the answers rather than learning how to solve a problem. Having a very high IQ and low EQ is a very common phenomena. It's not unheard of hearing about genious mathematicians or physicists having autism or asbergers. EQ sacrificed for the sake of IQ by the brain usually. Improving your IQ or EQ is most important when you're young and your brain is being developed. This is highly dependant on your environment and your parents primarily. Other than that it's just genetics.
@senseizah3686
@senseizah3686 4 жыл бұрын
Henrik Swanström Yeahh thats not true if you make an effort to get better at something and actually get better you can improve how efficient you are at that task and in turn your outlook on that thing will change your brain is complex but can be rewired pretty easily almost anything can be achieved with consistency and practice
@CyprusBeautyProducts
@CyprusBeautyProducts 3 жыл бұрын
I fall in the same category as you. My EQ is so low that I can not remember my own feelings. I say the wrong things in conversations. I behave strange in public. It is dificult to take sosial roles. But my IQ is above average. This only helped me untill university. After that things got dificult.
@wendymaily3952
@wendymaily3952 6 жыл бұрын
What about those of us who are aware of our problems/issues, yet have NO idea how to get out of the limbo land between self-awareness and taking charge of those emotions?
@shradhasmriti6452
@shradhasmriti6452 7 жыл бұрын
thankyou so much for the video
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 7 жыл бұрын
+SHRADHA SMRITI you're welcome
@jonnylpenman
@jonnylpenman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. I am constantly told I have a high iQ but have all the 'symptoms' of someone with a low EQ. Can I improve my EQ? How?
@hermier89
@hermier89 6 жыл бұрын
Get the book. Will answer all your questions...
@L4UR4RU4L
@L4UR4RU4L 7 жыл бұрын
i love that german accent
@yulsed
@yulsed 5 жыл бұрын
I thought it’s Indian :)
@kafuideymc
@kafuideymc 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@sergeantpepper1033
@sergeantpepper1033 7 жыл бұрын
Congrats you got yourself a new Subscriber got to read that book Do you recommend audio or paperback?
@sanein541
@sanein541 7 жыл бұрын
I liike the audio version of emotional intelligence
@sergeantpepper1033
@sergeantpepper1033 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks why there are videos with 5 Emotional Intelligence Quadrants?
@danieltroxler2221
@danieltroxler2221 7 жыл бұрын
sergeant Pepper Goldman added self-motivation a few years later...
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 6 жыл бұрын
I prefer the audiobook version
@denis.rasic87
@denis.rasic87 6 жыл бұрын
I just finished the book and its very well written, I can't recall the last time I read something that had so many details with references and checking the back story and interviewing others to get the info. Your video is great, very motivating, educative covered with great animation. Just want to have it clear, in your video you are speaking about the topic of EI, using some ideas from the author, covered with some of your own ideas or from other books, what I find great. Just the thing is that is a bit missleading to someone who is considering to check it or read it. This is not the summary as you wrote on the title of the video. Book covers a lot about: brain anatomy and now the brain works, schooling systems around the world, details on each emotion etc. And is not so structured as presented here. Actualy I did not like the way it was structured in the book, but never the less, great material, not to mention it is more then 20 years old.
@lifestyleteammak7400
@lifestyleteammak7400 6 жыл бұрын
great video...thanks
@BRiddles
@BRiddles 6 жыл бұрын
Hey can you please share a quiz to test our learning ?
@sunithaC03
@sunithaC03 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou sir
@kirkbrown2147
@kirkbrown2147 Жыл бұрын
Don't forget wisdom it's far superior over IQ and EQ.
@zeebarzagar2466
@zeebarzagar2466 6 жыл бұрын
Great great great video
@calmnocopyrightmusic2724
@calmnocopyrightmusic2724 5 жыл бұрын
My IQ is 140+. But I don't have any social life. I get anxiety very easily. Don't have any girlfriend.Iam all alone.😢
@rhealovenueva4077
@rhealovenueva4077 5 жыл бұрын
I dont have and IQ and EQ
@VisionaryDaddy
@VisionaryDaddy 6 жыл бұрын
Good stuff!
@Supermariocrosser
@Supermariocrosser Жыл бұрын
We have been fooled by thinking that one with the definition of High or low EQ, can coexist with a high IQ together. Because some advices That are made by the EQ experts to make one improve EQ is in fact limiting ones self to improve IQ. Such as saying you shouldn't overthink. Or you should control your emotions better, and not show yourself to be argumentative. so if you don't follow that what's been told it's a sign you have a low EQ, but what is overthinking? And controlling your emotions is also subjective based to the society. Its all subjective. It finally just makes you have no choice but to be submissive conform how most people should be doing on emotions, but that bottles up your emotions as a high IQ person with so much knowledge to feel about. Such set goals to improve EQ is stifling people to deviate from social norms and it makes IQ can't perceived look high to others. Ofc you can name it EQ, but it's definition is misleading next to IQ. So thats why EQ and IQ is a terrible concept. And there is no way you can make EQ and IQ both high. People will just confirm you having high IQ and low EQ to belittle your well thought critical thinking about this theory of IQ and EQ by the fact you were argumentative.
@mattpope697
@mattpope697 4 жыл бұрын
Do you have a printable copy of the complete matrix, form the video that can be downloaded?
@clairoxford3741
@clairoxford3741 2 жыл бұрын
Please give me a 5 situation of EQ is better than IQ😢
@khansahabs006
@khansahabs006 4 жыл бұрын
Great!
@sanein541
@sanein541 7 жыл бұрын
+1 MrMinion more videos please!
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 6 жыл бұрын
Won't stop doing videos!
@jcroz7418
@jcroz7418 7 жыл бұрын
Please close caption - that is not auto generated.
@alexysjadecatalogo5588
@alexysjadecatalogo5588 4 жыл бұрын
nandito ako for activity
@raven7471
@raven7471 4 жыл бұрын
But i have both.... IQ and EQ.. Is that normal?
@chanakachandrika5707
@chanakachandrika5707 5 жыл бұрын
Our country is measured only IQ. But they must study EQ
@poorsoul8492
@poorsoul8492 6 жыл бұрын
i have superior EQ and im broke as fuck
@123Goldhunter11
@123Goldhunter11 6 жыл бұрын
Chicken or the egg. What you are really talking about is how a person's endorphin system functions. A happy person who feels good will have your high emotional IQ because his native pain killers are working. Some poor bastard that feels bad all the time because they lost the endorphin genetic lottery will have a low emotional IQ. Mood elevation will be the next frontier.
@user-ry6jj6kx2s
@user-ry6jj6kx2s 6 жыл бұрын
You can definitely have a higher EQ and feel very down. In fact, being aware of every micro expression and being able to read other people's emotions very quickly can be very draining. Can often end up becoming the friend or partner who is the "therapist" of the relationship. A high emotional IQ does not mean you feel happy all the time, it means you are more often aware of the reasons behind your own and other's emotions.
@LocXly
@LocXly 8 ай бұрын
Too many leader not enough know exactly how to lead.😅😅
@s-a-mw2168
@s-a-mw2168 7 жыл бұрын
Well didn't know that :)
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 6 жыл бұрын
Well, thanks for watching!
@TheMagnetShow
@TheMagnetShow 6 жыл бұрын
Lol this seems like consolation for low IQ people tbh. Most billionaires have high IQ. And if your IQ is below 90, Scientific jobs will be very hard if not impossible.
@shaohonggoh2686
@shaohonggoh2686 7 жыл бұрын
can anyone tell me which component of Emotional Intelligence is absent in this video
@honor6465
@honor6465 7 жыл бұрын
Why everything have to be about money... cant you for once evaluate other qualities of life.
@nox1772
@nox1772 4 жыл бұрын
Cuz its the 21st century, and a huge portion of humanity is braindead, hollowhearted, and lustfully searching for methods of compensating for their haunting insecurities through any relevant avenues; money being the most relevant to everyone. Life is so easy, theres nothing heavy to lift, so you dont really have a use for a strong spine anymore To see how low value a person is, see how attached to tangible assets they are. Its fuckin' pathetic, but it is what it is.
@susanmayor6449
@susanmayor6449 4 жыл бұрын
Your video is really nice. I certainly believe that Emotional Intelligence can assist with every thing. #coacheq2020
@ddcgood
@ddcgood 6 жыл бұрын
Besser hochbegabt als emotional
@ichfindekeingutername3814
@ichfindekeingutername3814 7 жыл бұрын
Ist deine Muttersprache Deutsch? You sound like a german 😃
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 6 жыл бұрын
Ja! :)
@davidmiyamoto8928
@davidmiyamoto8928 4 жыл бұрын
Stop shouting. Lol
@alvindmith
@alvindmith 2 жыл бұрын
Eehhhhh.... eq is not an thing and has never been
@janee5203
@janee5203 7 жыл бұрын
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 7 жыл бұрын
@josephbeckett2330
@josephbeckett2330 2 жыл бұрын
In the scientific community, EQ comprises maybe 10% of the make-up of IQ. IQ is an accepted concept that combines, experience, education, and potential to understand, remember, and relate information. EQ is basically a made-up jargon for those mediocre in IQ that want/need a participation trophy, but really have nothing of measurable value to show that would actually garner them merit. There is a link to the belief in EQ and the female sex, but many actual women believe in horoscopes and magic intuition, too, . . . so um, yah.
@hannahkyle6989
@hannahkyle6989 7 жыл бұрын
@MinionNoMore
@MinionNoMore 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
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