Is A Good Morning Text A TURN OFF for Modern Women?

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[@PunkShockRock]

If a woman thinks good morning texts are “ick,” immediate red flag

[@jamesage24]

Nearly every text is fine if she finds you attractive. Nearly every text is a friend-zone text if she doesn't.

[@whisperingwind8091]

I loved my good morning calls and texts!!! Maybe that’s why we’ve been together 32 years married 26…… These females today wonder why they are single‼️‼️‼️

[@TheTRADMOM]

Period.

[@rachelmarin6758]

I’m with you and together almost 15 yrs

[@annepowers4734]

Been married 30 this July. Both men and women have all this nonsense anymore. It's crazy. They don't understand its a partnership nobody is master or submissive. They all seem to have these crazy ideas.

[@ABc-nu6jb]

What are “females”?🤨are you “a female”?🥴normal women like men who show effort..low effort dudes are the worst

[@nizambao4653]

They are no longer traditional that's why they are still single. They are more of masculine then feminine.

[@user-ld2qx5yw3h]

I'm widowed and dating again at 42 years old. The good morning texts that my boyfriend sends are honestly the highlight of my day. He wakes up before me because his job has an earlier schedule so I get the pleasure of waking up knowing that I was the first thing on his mind.

[@nizambao4653]

God bless y'all.

[@summerskye1100]

What’s wrong with good morning or good night? I’m shocked too. People seems like they’re not used to manners anymore and that’s crazy. I love when I get good morning and good night text because that means they are thinking about me

[@user-og8rg2tb6j]

What kind of women are these! Smh!

[@user-vm5ud4xw6n]

I love a good morning or good night text! I think it’s sweet!! Not afraid to morning text a guy!

[@davida.7967]

You have to be considerate and thoughtful. I have always txted the same thing in the morning... "So did that all wash out of your eye from last night?"

[@mentalmetalistswife5572]

When I dated my husband I loved his good morning txt . I looked forward to it everyday . This always put a smile on face and let me know he was thinking about me . I knew I was the gem that caught his eye .

[@angiescher2444]

I would love to be the first thing he thinks first thing in the morning!! These ladies are a little icky thinking like this

[@Blondel87]

I love them! Shows that you care

[@JennaBomb]

I love good morning and goodnight texts. I edited because I was with my ex for 23 years i was 13 and only 2 other relationships lol. I didn't think about the women who are seeing multiple people.

[@travihuncho]

Goodmorning and Goodnight texts can depend on what point you are in the relationship or also how your first or second date went. As well as how you say it. Don’t be clingy about it. It’s all dependent on certain things. You sometimes have to gamble with the good morning texts. Most likely will work out but it may not in certain cases.

[@daniellopilato]

Well....Define modern woman😂

[@ec_143]

Love you guys!! Still can’t get my man to call me in the morning 😂 before I call him but we’re going strong!! 😂😂😂😂

[@Razor5313]

I learned the hard way to not be constantly texting women in the morning, evening, or night. They will create drama if the text conversations happen less often throughout the course of the relationship. Its better just make plans via text and connect with them in person.

[@MrBuns-yi2hk]

I can stand instagram women. I don't day modern women, because typically this is a social media problem IMO. Half of them will tell you to do one thing, and the other half will tell you to do the opposite.

[@MissiSIMPi]

I used to send those "goodnight" texts to about a dozen women at a time and wondered why I hardly had a reply. Now I know not to do that again.

[@skulker2]

I sent those texts to my girlfriend. If she didn't like that, I think the problem would resolve itself.

[@rlarmstrong10367]

I love those kind of text

[@andrewmcdonough6710]

I think the women in these videos consider it a flex to be in a position to turn down men. They want to look like they’re high value.

[@wandak1889]

I think Good Morning is fine but if this is the only communication you get and no phone conversation that could be an issue!

[@sincityblue03]

Me and my gf send good morning and good night texts every night since day 1. Going on 7 months now.

[@kendradawn777]

I think these women are just being difficult. When I met my boyfriend, I had been through a lot and wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship. I told him I was not going to text him first. He told me it didn't matter and he would text me every morning until I understood he wasn't going anywhere. I started waiting for his good morning texts, and he never got frustrated with me. Now, almost a year later, I still don't text him first, because his good morning texts have become one of the sweetest things that I look forward to.

[@jamesnash6101]

This is the problem with having relationships using our phones. It's low effort expecting maximum results. Back in the day when relationships were in person. There was a lot of work involved with relationships. But with a phone, someone can just swipe right, left, up or down. And remove themselves, target someone for harassment, create a roster. It's more like running a corporation. Gamesmanship at it's finest. But there are many people who won't play the game. Their sick and tired of modern dating.

[@Gm__MUA]

It seems like in today’s world, everyone is editing or questioning everyone’s choice of words. Whatever happened to giving ppl the benefit of the doubt? “What did he/she mean by that?” “Don’t say this, say that.” We do what we know. Meet people where they are. Look at the intention behind the words. It’s that simple. In other circumstances, try to figure out what the person is trying to communicate. Hello!!

[@MsLissyLongley]

I loved good morning or goodnight texts

[@UceScooter]

I used to do that most the times with girls, emphasize GIRLS which i mean grown women acting like girls instead of women, i talked to. And i either always got a vibe or feeling or found out later that is how they felt about good morning and good night text. The best way i could try to put it and also ALOT of other social related and communication between men and women is, too many women not all maybe not most but too many always act as if they want a guy to do all the right things and nice things and sweet things. But they don't want to be completely honest and blunt with also admitting that they want it from THE guy they think is perfect for them possibly due to his looks and attraction or for some if he is what they would call a bad boy or a guy they want to fix up and thats the problem. They want a guy who doesn't do those things and try to change or fix him to become that kind of guy idk it doesn't make sense but thats what they do! From my experience they want all that stuff like good morning and good night but only if its a guy they simp or thirst for which by the way women can simp too. Like Brandon said people just makes things more complicated and harder than they have to be and thats the problem,why? I always wonder why people just cant make it simple and easy if they want to meet someone right and it be simple and easy? Its not simple and easy not because that's not reality but because people make it that way to not be simple and easy. People have too many standards and rules and guidelines and lists for the people they meet and i don't get it. I understand people want what they want and don't want to waste time and be hurt and done wrong i agree and there with them. But the problem is we worry about all the wrong things that doesn't lead people to see if they are truly compatible and in sync to even connect the right way. People too worried about superficial and vain things like money, sex and what you gonna give somebody instead of actually desiring genuinely to get to know someone and find out if you really like them and want them in your life for the right reason,not just because they can do things and give things to satisfy you. People need to remember when meeting people and having relationships its not all about you!

[@terrillwilliams1515]

It's not that they see it as something you shouldn't do. Is that the association with sending a good morning text is associated with men who are less masculine, weaker, someone who doesn't get women and has to send a good morning text because if he doesn't did the good treatment that she is there for from him will end up leaving him single because he didn't follow through with what she wanted or in this case what she wanted to tolerate for the time being until she finds somebody else.

[@melted77]

I agree- I want the guy to text me and to be sweet. But it does require some effort- I can agree that it needs to come out sincerely. And they need to listen to me- as in it goes to me… not some 5 other ladies

[@ktotheswiss1617]

I don't send first, they wanna talk, the can initiate first, if not, on to the next episode.

[@Mari-st8sl]

If they have an issue with this, they need to go. Don’t waste your time. When I was dating my husband, I enjoyed my GM or GN msg.

[@user-ks8gp4rv2w]

I find it to be respectful for it does let the woman know that he enjoyed the date, then there for it lets the lady time to think and and consider another..its a difference in young girls all want a rude boy,some women need an alpha male that can stand up right and speak his mind on matters..for this age with electronic things seem to have forgotten and read in to much.. sorry got lost in thought..have a blessed weekend 💙much love.respect

[@ec_143]

He has to message me goodnight or I will call every hospital before 5am

[@MiAowWow]

A Good morning and good night text is cute 😂 I don't like the word "ick" 🤭

[@osmakdb9706]

It's true unfortunately I learned that the hard way

[@annepowers4734]

If he don't text at all then what ladies????

[@ABc-nu6jb]

Then another one will, stop being desperate

[@annepowers4734]

@ABc-nu6jb hey da I've been married for 30 years. You're just being a complete a s h o

[@NikkiJames-sy2vc]

These same women complain about being ghosted

[@autumnwallace6332]

If you care about the man, you will love a good morning text, if you don’t, then not so much.

[@jacobembry6709]

I assume what they mean is that a " good morning" text is being interpreted as the guy should have more important things going on like a job and a " good night " text means the man is clingy somehow. Idk

[@headlesschicken99]

These women sound like the types that are used to someone calling them a taxi home in the middle of the night. Yes, a good morning text might not always be from the heart but if someone can't even be asked for things like this (incl door/chair manners), surely it's not a good sign

[@erichwilliams8756]

Watch Taylor the fiend. He's a vtuber but he cracks down on the girl "dating coach" tiktokers and why men are checking out of the dating pool.

[@user-wz3mz5eq3g]

Even as a woman I LOVE Taylor the Fiend ! He's spot on and makes me laugh 😂.

[@erichwilliams8756]

@@user-wz3mz5eq3g it's a sad truth of what Taylor says, because anymore, if I even try to talk to a woman they get pissy :/ so I don't really try any more.

[@nizambao4653]

These women nowadays are more masculine than feminine, that is why they are still single.

[@hhholmes714]

Nobody's glad to hear from the person in this day and age when it's so easy to ghost?? Boy oh boy

[@shiftnsix]

If your stressing you text wording that hard you already lost.

[@kelw9141]

Any text is good if she is into him and vice versa

[@jennifers1040]

0:24 my god! They don't like effort?!

[@hokieproud341]

You can’t say good morning? What is wrong with women?

[@ANR1092]

These ladies are ruining dating🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️ Don’t come for my Good morning texts! I want to be one of your top thoughts in the a.m. or why bother. That’s probably why I’m not single for several years - found a real one 😂

[@marquezekelley8374]

Moral of the story just pump & dump

[@ozzycortes]

Don't text her at all unless you want to make plans with her.

[@shayshay6814]

I would love a good morning or good night text… don’t know what those women are talking about

[@joshua21vg]

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[@pauljames9596]

This is a problem with ALL women. You want the energy to you but lack the reciprocating effort. I put in what is received. If a woman can't find the "courage 🙄" to send a message first, you have a complex problem

[@tiffanyochoa6943]

This is nuts. I waited everyday for my husband's GD morning and gdnite text. We are together 8 yrs and married 6. I love it. It shows I'm the first and last person he's thinking about. these females are crazy. My opinion anyways.

[@ABc-nu6jb]

Stop calling women “females” like some dusty p…p it’s very weird. This said, every normal woman wants a man who shows effort

[@youngbubbles]

This sounds like a teenager thing .....

[@codylawler2652]

The best advice I was ever given was to answer texts in less than a sentence, never vent or complain about your life and always seem busy even when you're not.

[@jonmonte9977]

That's crazy...you can't say good morning???

[@derektheproducer]

Officer Tatum, why are you putting words into women’s mouths? The video’s just said that they didn’t like good morning and good night texts. 😂

[@ProdavackaDivu]

I hate good morning or good night texts. They’re stalkerish. We’re not living together. It makes me feel like you’re watching me or keeping tabs on whether I’m in bed or waking up when you want me to. It’s also a power move because what if I don’t feel like checking my phone right when I get up, or I don’t feel like responding right away? Then you’re going to be weird if I respond at noon or it’s too late for me to say “good morning” back. It’s always these guys texting things like “why didn’t you say good morning back 🥺” or “it looks like somebody slept in 😏”… like just give a girl her privacy

[@MH-53E]

This is pathetic. What makes you think that you two got it figured out. Please...

[@Mike...01]

This makes women look really bad

[@Mike...01]

@click_profile_send_sms2191 You mean "know"? Is English not your first langauge scammer?

[@JR-xi2bh]

Maybe it's just entitled tictoc girls